I love this bed frame - it was a little hard to put together by myself because some of the pieces were bent … also one of the boards had the holes lined up wrong so I was unable to secure one piece. However, I decided that one piece would not make or break the bed, just the headboard, so I left it out. It is plenty secure - but pay attention to steps 1-5 because the holes don’t line up and you’ll see later on! All of that aside, the bed frame itself has been up and steady for a few weeks now and I enjoy it. The lights seem to be more for children as there is no adult ambience lighting feature like a soft white or a warm white…. The white on the remote looks blue. It’s too much so I don’t use that but the outlet in the headboard is nice