This comforter is soft, not heavy and surprisingly warm. It has a subtle pattern yet is stylish for a modern look. After removing from the packaging, there were not many wrinkles. I laid it on my bed without steaming and it looks fantastic. A major plus is that it can be washed in the machine. The sheet set is gray and white. It needs to be washed in order to soften up but they feel nice and coordinate well with the comforter.