It's the right about of soft and gushy for a luxurious comfy sleep. I'm a shorty and about 125 lbs in case that's helpful. Definitely my favorite mattress I've ever owned. I like that you don't need to turn the mattress to ensure even wear, and while it does trap some heat, it's better at air flow and staying cooler than the other foam mattress I tried. Also, the purple sheets are really soft. :) would recommend.