When they said the instructions were a little difficult....
Believe it! Anyways its up now looking gorgeous it is a little wobbly Ill be tightening more screws around wish there was a was add another privacy
 shade but its fine. Now just to hang up some solar string lights and itll be perfect
Update
There has been a little wind and because the columns arent one piece there is some sway to it tried tightening but thr material is a little cheap so the screws can go no more sometimes I come home and see the legs horribly bent I suggest you try a different pergola one where the legs are just one piece and no two so it can be sturdier would do a refund on this but thats a lot of work to send it back