so the reason we got this mattress is because my husband and I struggle to find comfort with one mattress. I have been experiencing some pains in my lower back but I am hoping it is due to a new bed. My husband wakes up in the am, after tossing and turning most of the night. His theory is it is too soft and his arms are put to sleep. He is also complaining of knee and elbow pain which he didn't have prior. I really don't know what to do. We did lay on the mattress in a store for quite some time and felt comfortable but I guess it is different once you are fully sleeping on it.