Not only do I weigh close to 500 lbs (this model is rated for 450 lbs), but I also have Secondary Progressive Multiple Sclerosis. Steroids and other MS meds have put weight on me over the years, limiting my mobility and making toileting difficult. Then, last month I fell at home and broke my elbow on my dominant side. Having a remote on this bidet is a Godsend! Although I have a large bottom, I am very comfortable on the seat and it feels very sturdy. The only negative I've found is that the spray isn't nearly as strong as my manual bidet, but it gets the job done...it just takes longer! I also appreciate the heated seat and heated water features for our cold winters. I have to run the dryer 3 times for it to be effective. All-in-all, this bidet is a fantastic purchase for me! Highly recommended!