We absolutely love this comforter set. It's gender neutral and looks awesome on our white bedroom furniture. The comforter is thick (but not so thick that it's hot). I actually initially found it on a different retailer's website and noticed Wayfair had the same exact set for almost $100 cheaper. Highly recommend, it's my favorite thing we've purchased for our new house. All shades of gray match well with this comforter set.