I received the lamp yesterday.  The box was very damaged, but the lamp seemed unharmed, packed well in so much styrofoam, which I appreciate.  The lamp itself seems sturdy, and I'm not worried about it tipping over.  However, when I tried to put the paper shades on, one ripped quite a bit.  I'm actually surprised that I got the other two on without any ripping.  Is it possible to get a replacement shade?   Also, the arms of the lamp aren't adjustable - you can't change the space between them when they are hanging much at all.  Lastly, the lamp is either all on or all off - you can't just turn one of the light bulbs on, for example.