The first time I sat down on this bed I didn't know what to think. It felt SO different than other beds I have had. Was that a good or a bad thing? The more I sat on it, the more I realized it was like sitting in a marshmallow. A gloriously supportive, comforting, firm (yet soft!) marshmallow. And sleeping on it? Omg. I have never had such a good sleep in my life. I stay where I lay without tossing and turning and find myself having the deepest sleep I've ever had. I recently went on an 11 day luxury trip where we stayed in some of the top hotels, and it was the first tirp I took where I was dissapointed in hotel beds! Mine at home was better!