I really wanted to love this bed, but I dont. If I slept alone, I would be happier. My husband weighs about 270 lbs and I am at 180. I found myself rolling to the center of the bed all night. My last bed was a tempurpedic, and I like memory foam. But the Ghost is a bit softer than my back likes. I will say that I am hard to please when it comes to a bed. I have had 7 spine surgeries and live with a lot of pain issues.. the construction is excellent, and it does sleep cooler, much cooler than the tempurpedic did. There is very little motion transfer. It arrived quickly. But the bed is just a bit too soft for my comfort.