Bed looks like it does in the photos and seems to be pretty sturdy.  As far as assembly goes - having a second person will save you half the time.  I managed to put it together myself (22 year old male) but spent a good 1-2 hours on a few steps frustrated trying to align pieces just right.  You will also want a drill, rubber mallet, and socket wrench to make it easier.  Overall not a terrible experience, just wish assembly was easier.