The grey is a beautiful neutral (leans towards blueish grey in the room we gave it in) with just enough design to add interest but go in a variety of rooms. It isn't the softest rug, but much softer than I expected! We also added a rug pad for cushion. I wouldn't have hesitated to use it when my kids were in the crawling stage as it isn't scratchy. It sheds a bit but isn't terrible like others I've owned. Great natural rug at a great price!