We have had another brand aftermarket bidet , the Brondell Swash Seat far exceeded our expectations. My husband has neuropathy in hands and weighs 300lbs. Prior to the Swash his attempts at perinea hygiene were at best poor. His self esteem suffered as I could not always be there to assist. The Swash solved all his problems with its multifunctional remote managing several cleaning options. No more mess and embarrassment I wish all toilets came with the seat as a standard as I enjoy using it too.