The Grayco, Olivia changing table with water resistant changing pad was very simple to put together. I have changed both of my boys. One is almost 3 years old at 35 pounds. The other one is 11 months old at 25 pounds. So yes, I would say it’s durable and safe. I love the color of the changing table. The only thing that I was concerned about is how easy the paint chipped off while putting it together. ￼￼