Only have slept on it about 1/3 of the days since buying (living in house and apt), is really nice to lay on, but at 133lbs and 5’7”, i must say, i expected the soft+pillowtopn would be softer feeling, as i still get some shoulder strain (not pain) in the morning after side sleeping all night. Would an additional topper help soften it more? I do need more time to sleep on it/more consistently, but overall, i dooo like it, but just wish it was still softer a tad