I'm the one that wants the softest, most luxurious mattress. As a restless side sleeper who sleeps hot, I especially appreciate this mattress. I never feel like I've been swallowed by toasty memory foam anymore. The bounce back on this mattress if you change positions is awesome and it really is cooler without feeling cold. If your tired of hip and shoulder pain, or waking up hot and sweaty, you want this mattress.