My husband was hesitant at first to use it. I guess he thought it was "girl" thing. After trying it, he loved it. We have three toilets going into the new house we are building and he has insisted to have one of these or a newer model in every bathroom. We have really gotten spoiled in snow country with middle of the night bathroom runs to a cozy warm seat. Thank you Brondell. The only reason I rated a 4 star instead of the 5 star is that I can't really tell the difference in the rear and front spray options.