I ordered this pillow for myself and loved it. My wife loved it also and wanted one. I went back online and purchased a second pillow. When it arrived it was noticeable less firm. My wife tried it for a few days and hated it. I then tried the pillow and noticed that it was more like a stomach pillow and was no where near as firm as the first one I purchased. I did not enjoy having two pillows that were supposed to be the same but are completely different in firmness.