After looking at reclining sofas and the like, I resolved (with my limited budget) to try to look for a piece that would last.  I think I found it with this [Iyden] sofa; when I ordered it, it came off the "Office" page, which I would hope means more durable products.  Yes, it showed up looking as good as the pictures, but I'm more pleased with the construction.  Big, heavy frame (thing weighs a lot), and resilient cushions; bracing on the bottom is still firm and supportive -- and I weigh 260.  So far, this thing has more than earned five stars.  I will update, just so you know the experience.