Together, they have three children: twins Hazel Patricia and Phinnaeus "Finn" Walter Moder (born November 28, 2004) and Henry Daniel Moder (born June 18, 2007).
Po malo več kot letu dni je vložil zahtevo za ločitev in ko je bila ta finalizirana, sta se z Julio Roberts 4. julija 2002 v Taosu, Nova Mehika.