We need to elongate the time frame upon which we judge the balance in our life, but we need to elongate it without falling into the trap of the "I'll have a life when I retire, when my kids have left home, when my wife has divorced me, my health is failing, I've got no mates or interests left."
Morao produžiti naš vremenski okvir unutar kojega ćemo ocjenjivati ravnotežu u našim životima, ali ga moramo produžiti bez upadanja u zamku onoga: "Živjet ću život kad odem u mirovinu, kad mi djeca odsele, kad se žena razvede od mene, kad mi zdravlje popusti, kad izgubim prijatelje ili zanimacije."