This is what I have found: to let ourselves be seen, deeply seen, vulnerably seen; to love with our whole hearts, even though there's no guarantee -- and that's really hard, and I can tell you as a parent, that's excruciatingly difficult -- to practice gratitude and joy in those moments of terror, when we're wondering, "Can I love you this much?
Ovo je što sam otkrila: kako bismo dopustili sebi da budemo viđeni, duboko viđeni, ranjivo viđeni; kako bismo voljeli sa svim srcem, iako ne postoji nikakvo jamstvo - a to je uistinu teško, i mogu vam to reći kao roditelj, to je bolno teško - kako bismo prakticirali zahvalnost i radost u tim trenucima užasa, kada se pitamo, "Mogu li te voljeti toliko?