The ones that live in a particular way this "open circle" of God's love are the consecrated Virgins. The "appellation" of virgin more than a physical integrity expresses the completeness of a donation to God (cf Rite of Consecration of Virgins, Concluding Rite, N°36 = the Bishop says: The almighty Father has poured into your hearts the desire to live a life of holy virginity. May he keep you safe under his protection). They don't possess anything. They don't have children of flesh. They live only donating themselves and to donate. With their lives they show that it is possible to live a life free from the inevitability of the instinct. Like Mary they become ostensories and tabernacles of Christ. For them the virtue of chastity is not a discipline that makes them owners of themselves.
Ngunit kung ang mga Pastol ng pamilya ay naliligaw din at hindi sila sumusunod sa mga turo ni Kristo, kung sila mismo ang nagbibigay ng pangit na halimbawa sa kailang mga anak, kung sila mismo ay nagsusugal o may masamang bisyo?, kung sila saang dapat na masasandalan ng kanilang mga anak ay sila pang nagtataboy sa kanila palayo, at kung sla pa ang pinagmumulan ng paghahati- hati ng pamilya, saan nila aakayin ang kanilang mga anak?