It is easy to love when you feel the emotion of love but it takes effort to love when you feel hatred, anger, or frustration or when you are convinced that you are right and righteous when the other is "obviously" in the wrong. Yet, if we do what love really requires, we will often come to feel that love more intensely.
Madaling magmahal kapag nadarama mo ang emosyon ng pagmamahal ngunit mahirap magmahal kapag ang nadarama mo ay pagkamuhi, galit o pagkasiphayo o kapag kumbinsido ka na ikaw ay tama at matuwid samantalang ang ibang tao ay "halatang" mali. Ngunit kung gagawin natin ang hinihingi ng pagmamahal, mas matindi nating madarama ang pagmamahal na iyon.