It forced me to take a look at the things that were important to me and what it actually takes to live an enjoyable life. I made the decision that day to not define myself by what I had done. I quit my job, packed up as much of my shit as I could in a Toyota RAV4 and drove west. I tried to short sell my house, but when it was clear the bank wasn’t cool with that, I let it go to foreclosure.
Ginawa ko ang desisyon sa araw na iyon upang hindi tukuyin ang aking sarili sa pamamagitan ng kung ano ako had tapos na. isinara ko ang aking trabaho, naka-pack up ng mas maraming ng aking shit tulad ng kaya kong sa isang Toyota RAV4 at kawan kanluran. Ako tried sa maikling magbenta ng aking bahay, ngunit kapag ito ay malinaw na ang bank ay hindi cool na may na, ako ipaalam ito pumunta sa foreclosure.