What Paul is saying is to direct those feelings to your spouse and no other and make sure that they are fulfilled within your marriage relationship, not outside of it. Notice that Paul says if one of the partners is not living up to his or her spouse’s expectations, whether it be pleasure or time, then both need to bring it before God so that one doesn't try to find fulfillment outside of that marriage relationship.
Pansinin na sinabi ni Pablo na kung hindi natutugunan ng isa ang inaasahan ng kanyang asawa, maging ito man ay paglalaan ng panahon at pagbibigay ng kasiyahang sekswal, dapat iyong isangguni sa Panginoon upang hindi maghanap ang sinuman sa kanila ng kasiyahan sa labas ng kanilang relasyon.