The children will be hardest hit in their learning stages in either scenario. They may suffer mental trauma, fail to thrive and achieve socially and morally, or become victims of others as they seek love and help outside the family circle. This tends to bankrupt a society, a culture or a kingdom leaving deficient leaders and teachers to be the foundation for the next succeeding generation in an ever-downward spiral. This is the purpose of the kingdom of contrast, to disrupt proper education about the IMPORTANCE and greater PURPOSE of the individual and the "family". It is God's will that a man should leave father and mother and cleave to his wife and that His blessing of children should garnish the union. But it is the will of the devil to defeat God's purposes, that divorce should destroy the union.
ang mga bata nasain maaari patigasin buntalin di kanila mag-aral magtanghal di alin man sa dalawa scenario. sila mayo mag-tiis may kaugnayan sa isip trauma, lumagpak sa mabuhay at kamtan panlipunan at aral, o maging biktima ng iba gaya sila humanap ibigin at tumulong labas ang mag-anak lumigid. ito dumako sa bagsak a lipunan, a kalinangan o a kaharian iwan kulang liderato at guro sa maaari ang pagkakatatag dahil sa ang kasunod magtagumpay salinlahi di isa kahit minsan- pababa tangayin. ito ay ang layon ng ang kaharian ng palitawin ang pagkakaiba, sa sirain tumpak pinag-aralan buongpaligid angpag-angkat at malaki layon ng ang isang tao at ang " mag-anak".