# Diagramming "Replacing Guilt," Part 1

I am interested communicating ideas visually. In general, I'm able to remember images for a longer time than I remember language, and the act of refining an idea into a drawing involves wrestling with the idea a little more deeply than I would with a simple summary in text. This is my first post here, and it's unconventional, so I'd love to get feedback about what works & doesn't work about these drawings.  
  
I have been enjoying Nate Soares' [sequence of blog posts](http://mindingourway.com/guilt/) titled _Replacing Guilt_, and I decided this would be good material to experiment on. This post consists of drawings I've made corresponding to the first seven posts: each post is listed here by title followed by the image I've drawn and an explanation of the image. These are not intended as a substitute for the original work, and I expect that browsing them without referencing the original posts would be a lackluster experience. If you've already read that sequence, you might find these drawings of interest.

Preliminaries
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Half-assing it with everything you've got
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg0.1.jpg)

Remember what you're fighting for: you may follow the paved conventional path for a time before diverging from the triers.  
  
From [the post](http://mindingourway.com/half-assing-it-with-everything-youve-got/):

> If you're trying to pass the class, then pass it with minimum effort. Anything else is wasted motion.  
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> If you're trying to ace the class, then ace it with minimum effort. Anything else is wasted motion.  
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> If you're trying to learn the material to the fullest, then mine the assignment for all its knowledge, and don't fret about your grade. Anything else is wasted motion.

Failing with abandon
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg0.2.jpg)

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](abandon

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You)You can fail gracefully instead of giving up once you've missed your deadline.

1\. Fighting for something
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Replacing guilt
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg1.1.jpg)

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](guilt

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Guilt-based)Guilt-based motivation cannot be sustained long-term, but your current pursuits may not be sustainable with anything else. If you are not doing something you genuinely care about, you may not have any intrinsic motivation to continue doing it.

The stamp collector
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg1.2.jpg)

  
When you think you care about the world, it's not just selfish motivated reasoning dressed up as altruism. You haven't deceived yourself into telling stories that make you look good: you can be genuine.

You're allowed to fight for something
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg1.3.jpg)

There's a failure mode where you sneer at people trying to change the world, because what they're _really_ changing is their (accurate) perception of the world. You can work to improve the world, and you shouldn't feel bad that you're secretly just trying to allay your guilt. This drawing is trying to emphasize the fact that even though your perceptions of the world are probably distorted, there is a difference between trying to change the world deliberately skewing your model to make yourself feel better. This drawing may be confusing: it illustrates what **not** to do. Dreaming about firefighters (or drawing them on your map) will not manifest them in the world. You should keep your beliefs about the world closely tied to what is actually in the world. Keep your map accurate.

From [the post](http://mindingourway.com/youre-allowed-to-fight-for-something/):

> You only ever see the map, but you walk the territory.

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> You're allowed to reject arbitrarily good amounts of faked pleasure-experience in order to avoid bad real-world outcomes. You're allowed to care about whether your beliefs are actually hooked up to reality. You're allowed to care about things outside of you!

Caring about something larger than yourself
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg1.4.jpg)

  
The intention of this diagram is to give permission to care about privacy or democracy or liberty or whatever your internal sense of aesthetics is drawn to.

You don't get to know what you're fighting for
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![](https://blog.lutra.tech/static/replacingGuilt/rg1.5.jpg)

When you pursue your goals, you will discover things as you go. This may change your goal. You should _expect_ that. It's not a failure and it's not an argument to defer the pursuit of your goals. You will take the best shot you have today, and if another opportunity comes along that seems more likely to succeed, you'll take it.  
  
I originally posted this content on [my blog](https://blog.lutra.tech/posts/replacingguiltdiagrams), then I thought people here might be interested in it. If this idea is well-received, I may create images for more posts in the series.