# Tales From the American Medical System

Epistemic Status: Overheard in New York

I am walking and talking with my friend, a Type I Diabetic, when he receives a phone call from his doctor’s office.

As a Type I Diabetic, my friend needs insulin. The effects of not having insulin are very bad, and include death.

He has run out of refills on his prescription, and will run out of insulin on Saturday. He called about a week ago to attempt to remedy this situation and get refills.

That’s for background. This isn’t about the order of magnitude higher my friend’s _copay _is in America, compared to the entire retail price in Canada.

This is about my friend’s attempt to _get legal permission to continue buying_ _life-saving medication for a lifelong condition with no known cure._

Because for some reason, in America you need legal permission to buy it, and you need to renew that periodically, despite there being chance of the need for said life-saving medicine going away.

I overheard the phone call from my friend’s end. The rest is filled in based on a combination of talking to him after, and extrapolation. He has reviewed this for accuracy.

The nurse tells my friend he needs to go see his doctor, because it has been seven months, and the doctor feels he should see his doctor every three.

My friend replies that he agrees he should see his doctor, and he has made an appointment in a few weeks when he has the time to do that.

The nurse says that he can’t get his prescription refilled until he sees the doctor.

My friend explains that he does not have the time to drop what he is doing and see the doctor the next day. That he is happy to see the doctor in a few weeks. But that until then, he requires insulin to live.

The nurse says that he can’t get his prescription refilled until he sees the doctor. That if he wants it earlier he can find another doctor.

My friend explains again that he does not have the time to see _any _doctor the next day, nor can one find a doctor on one day’s notice in reasonable fashion. And that he has already made an appointment, and needs insulin to live. And would like to speak with the doctor.

The nurse refuses to get the prescription filled. The nurse does not offer to let him speak to the doctor, and says that he can either wait, make an appointment for the next day, or find a new doctor.

My friend points out that without insulin, he will die. He asks if the nurse wants him to die. Or what the nurse suggests he do instead, rather than die.

This seems not to get through to the nurse, because my friend asks these questions several times. The nurse does not offer to refill the prescription, or let my friend talk to the doctor.

My friend says that if the doctor does not give him access to life saving medicine and instead leaves him to die, he will post about it on social media.

The nurse now decides, for the first time in the conversation, that my friend should perhaps talk to his doctor.

The doctor calls a few minutes later. The doctor is quite upset about this threat to post on social media about being denied access to purchase life saving medicine.

The doctor accuses my friend of having a gun to his head. My friend points out this is a rather interesting choice of metaphor. One could say that the doctor has a gun to his head, in the form of _denying him access to life saving medicine._ And that the two do not seem remotely comparable.

This seemed right to me, as I had used exactly the words ‘gun to your head’ when discussing the situation with my friend between the two phone calls.

I was not referring to the possibility of posts appearing on social media.

The doctor goes over details of my friend’s care. He wants my friend to come in.

My friend _agrees. _Points out he already made an appointment. That he _needs insulin to live._

The doctor asks, what if your sugars are high?

My friend points out that if this were the case, he would still need insulin to live.

The doctor keeps asking my friend to come see him. My friend keeps pointing out _he has already agreed to do this._

The doctor continues to admonish my friend for his blameworthy behavior of only doing all the things he’d been asked seven months ago to do, of only seeing _several other specialists for tests, _rather than _also _seeing this doctor every three months as a good obedient patient properly concerned for his own health would have done.

My friend points out that regardless of all that, _he would still need insulin to live._

The doctor then admonishes my friend for his terribly blameworthy behavior of _not being aware he had run out of refills. _Clearly, my friend should have tracked that. My friend points out that he doesn’t keep the prescription boxes, he keeps the vials. That few patients know, no matter what they in theory ‘should’ know, how many refills they have left on a reliable basis. And that he had realized all this a week ago and called his doctor, but was only now hearing that the refill wasn’t going to be forthcoming. Also, to paraphrase a bit, he asked the doctor: Why the hell is it going to run out at all, anyway? Are we expecting a cure _real soon now? _This need for insulin to live isn’t going to go away.

Having properly pointed out all the ways my friend was bad and should feel bad, the doctor now claims that the nurse was never told that the doctor wasn’t going to refill the prescription without my friend coming in first.

My friend points out that the nurse did in fact say exactly those words. That the prescription would not be refilled without a visit first.

What the doctor then claimed he said to the nurse was rather that the doctor did not _want _to refill the prescription. That the doctor would _prefer _that my friend come in.

This is standard implicit command deniability. Pure gaslighting. It’s the same as when a mafia boss says it would be great if a certain someone wasn’t seen round these parts some time soon. Or when the CEO remarks that people seem to be using too many vacation days. The nurse’s job depends on enforcing the implied order given by the doctor.

The doctor asks why my friend is being so _unreasonable. _My friend points out that he _started _with an _entirely and unquestionably_ reasonable position of agreeing to come in at his next available time in exchange for _continued __access to life changing medicine. _

That he’d only changed to what the doctor was characterizing as the _unreasonable _position of ‘if you deny me life saving medicine I might tell people that you did that’ when it was clear that until he threatened that, he was going to be denied life saving medicine.

If anything, the original position seems to me like it points out that the system has given someone the power to threaten to withhold life saving medicine, that they agree the person needs, in order to coerce the behavior they want from the other person. Which seems bad. But hey.

After a number of minutes of such admonishments, my friend having been sufficiently interrogated and admonished for his dastardly non-submissive, non-compliant role, and his unwillingness to drop everything in his life on a dime for no reason, the doctor offered to renew the prescription for long enough to make it to the appointment. Thus allowing my friend, for the low low _co-pay _price of ten times what it costs in Canada, to legally purchase the life-saving medicine he will need periodically for the rest of his life.

In some ways this was the good scenario. In the end, access to life saving medicine was in fact renewed. And this was what happened when my friend had, he insists, an _unusually_ _conscientious _doctor, who is using his powers of coercion, via the threat of withholding lifesaving medicine, entirely to ensure the health of his patients, and who was in the office and capable of responding promptly.

Ladies and gentleman, the American medical system.