I broke up with my ex , it has been 9 months since we broke up , and I ca n't stop thinking of her . why do you think I have become like this ?
`` My girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 years ago . Afterwards , we had contact on and off , and then I ignored her for a few months . Now she 's texting me : '' `` I 've been thinking about you a lot lately , have n't heard from you in so long , are you ok ? '' '' What does that mean ? ''