I tend to joke around a lot . How can I be sure that I 'm not doing it because I 'm mostly trying to please others ?
I have a huge crush on my classmate who is smart , funny and beautiful . We talk to each other frequently but recently , I found out that she likes drinking alcohol . I am not a drinker and normally that should bother me , considering I come from a religious family , but why do I still want to ask her out ?