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From: ap.295@cupid.sai.com
Subject: BiWM seeks dream woman!
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	I'm looking for someone to share the rest of my life with. I've met
you in my dreams: you are an attractive, twenty-something bisexual woman, you
play some sort of musical instrument, you like to have deep conversations
about the nature of existence as well as wild evenings of drunken debauchary.
You are playful, passionate, and caring, yet not afraid to take the dominant
role at times.  You are confident enough about yourself that you don't need
someone to convince you of your own value... but you would enjoy sharing 
your life with someone who appreciates you for your rare beauty, wit, and
depth of character.  You enjoy drives in the country as well as nights in
the city, the mountains, ocean, and forest.  You might also like foreign and
independant films, most music other than country, and novels by Kurt Vonnegut,
Philip K. Dick, John Varley, Tom Robbins, or William S. Burroughs.
If you don't fit every bit of this description, please write me anyway...
I might not have remembered you exactly right.  Age is really not important,
neither is race, and you needn't worry if you're not blessed (cursed?) with
society's ideal body.

I'm a 23 year old white graduate student in Engineering.  I'm 6' tall, 
185 pounds, in fairly good shape.  I have long hair in back, half blonde and
half brown... on the sides it's shaved.  I try to look like a cyberpunk 
version of Ziggy Stardust.  I'm a guitarist/vocalist in a local band. I'm
bisexual but would definitely consider monogamy with the right mate... I want
to meet a bisexual woman because I know she could relate to that side of my
life.  Most of all I want to meet someone who's open minded... politically,
sexually, religiously, and in every other aspect of life.  Does it sound like
we have some things in common?  Write me, I'll be waiting!


							Tom


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From: ap.2501@cupid.sai.com
Subject: Teach me a lesson
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University professor needs to be taught that he's not such hot shit after all.
Seeking mistress who is good at adjusting egos and who can humiliate me into
obedient slavery.  When not serving you directly, you will need to make sure
that I earn my keep by working at some menial, mindless job where, dressed in
Levis and workshirt, I will finally realize my intelligence is worthless and
my only source of wisdom is you.

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From: ap.861@cupid.sai.com
Subject: For female only
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Date: Thu, 23 Jul 92 12:39:01 GMT
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Me: 25, 5'4", 125lbs

Looking for someone special for conversation over net.

OR

Looking for someone special for .........


ps: I'm a night person.  

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From: mbk@lyapunov.ucsd.edu (Matt Kennel)
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Subject: Re: Teach me a lesson
Date: 25 Jul 1992 07:19:40 GMT
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The title on that last post was accidentally deleted, so I
put it back...

ap.2501@cupid.sai.com writes:

		  Mommy, I wanna go back to grad school!

: University professor needs to be taught that he's not such hot shit after all.
: Seeking mistress who is good at adjusting egos and who can humiliate me into
: obedient slavery.  When not serving you directly, you will need to make sure
: that I earn my keep by working at some menial, mindless job where, dressed in
: Levis and workshirt, I will finally realize my intelligence is worthless and
: my only source of wisdom is you.

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From: ap.1538@cupid.sai.com
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Subject: SAM -> S*F in MD/VA/DC area
Date: 24 Jul 92 20:03:31 GMT
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Me:  24years, oriental(Chinese), 5'8", 130 lbs, fairly good looking
      Enjoy bicycling, tennis, swimming, and basketball.  
      Love to dance (clubs -> Vault, Fifth Column, etc).
      Love to share all of above and even more!


You:  Female.  Enjoy any previously mentioned activities.  Searching for
      companionship or more.  Willing to be spontanteous.  Fairly good
      looking. 

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From: motto@cbnewsf.cb.att.com (mary.rita.otto)
Subject: Re: Loss and how to adjust
Organization: AT&T
Distribution: usa
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1992 15:56:18 GMT


Don's post dealt with dealing with his loss of Bonnie.  It was quite a
moving post.  I began to respond to Don via email, but when it was done
I thought I would like to share it with the lurkers, too, and with anyone
who might be grieving.

Don -
I was so sad after I read your letter.  I hope that it helped to say all
those things.  I hope that this letter will encourage you.

It sounds like you really need someone to take care of you right now,
and the Deborah loves you and you love her.  Don't shut her out.  Let he
in.  Let her help you.  Don't send her away.  Open up to her the way you
opened up on the net.  If you can't say these things, then let her read
what you wrote and what we wrote back and talk about that.  But don't
make the mistake of thinking that you can take the total responsibility
for your relationship with her or that you can have a relationship with
her and not let her in on something this important.

The accident happened.  You did the best you could at the time.  It was
a human error.  You certainly didn't want to kill Bonnie, hurt her son
or hurt yourself.  Now you need to forgive yourself so that you can move
on.  You might want to consider going to Bonnie's resting place and having
a conversation with her, imagining how she would react.  It would be
helpful if you could imagine Bonnie forgiving you.  It would also be
worthwhile to talk to her son about it.  But it is critical for you to
forgive yourself.

It won't always be this hard, but there will always be moments when something
happens and your feelings become overwhelming.  Over time, these become
less frequent, but they are always there, lurking.  When it happens, stay
with those feelings long enough to release them.  Remember that in the
grieving process, first there is denial, then anger, then sadness and
depression, and finally acceptance, growth, and moving forward.  Try to
work past the sadness toward accepting what has happened, and grow from
the experience.  Sometimes, when people follow society's prescription for
dealing with grief (don't think about it, replace what you have lost,
pretend it didn't happen) it destroys them.  Perhaps that is what concerns
you about Deborah -- that she is a replacement, and with her you try to
pretend it never happened.  But that doesn't work.  Deborah fills a need
in your life that existed before you ever met Bonnie, and that exists
because of you, not because of the accident.  If your relationship makes
you happy and is growing positively, accept it.  We do not control the
time tables of our lives.  But you have to avoid pretending it didn't
happen.  You have to deal with it, and you have to include Deborah or it
will all fall apart.

I wish you all the best.  Please post again and let us know how you are
doing.

Peace,
Mary
Organization: Penn State University
Date: Tue, 28 Jul 1992 13:24:18 EDT
From: Nick Giacobe <NAG101@psuvm.psu.edu>
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: pantyhose and stockings
 <1992Jul28.131649.6609@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com>
 <Jul.28.09.57.01.1992.9268@pilot.njin.net>

In article <Jul.28.09.57.01.1992.9268@pilot.njin.net>, gajarsky@pilot.njin.net
(Bob Gajarsky) says:
>
>well, as my ex-girlfriend found out, i got weak when she was
> wearing pantyhose, and she decided to tease me...

Hmmm.. I have found the exact opposite reaction in myself.  I happen to like
stockings a LOT more than I do pantyhose.  When I am dating a woman who, for
some reason, decides to wear stockings (preferrably with a garter belt) I just
simply MELT....

Well... anyone else have an opinion one way or the other?   Maybe we could take
a vote as to which men like?  If you have a preference, one way or the other,
e-mail me with your vote.... and let me know if you are a wearer or prefer your
partner to be a wearer.  Also, let me know what catagory you fit into, like SWM
GBF ir whatever.   I'll post the results in a week or so.
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From: puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: pantyhose and stockings
Organization: None, today. Thank you.
Date: Tue, 28 Jul 1992 13:16:49 GMT

 e5tx@vax5.cit.cornell.edu *pants*... <ar-ar-ar>

>Looking for any girl to talk about
>
>pantyhose and stocking

Heck, I'm lookin' for any "women" *IN* pantyhose and stockin's! :)

BTW, don't you just love those little plastic eggs they come in?

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From: ap.2292@cupid.sai.com
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Subject: BiWM in Buffalo
Date: 22 Jul 92 00:38:26 GMT
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Hi. I'm a BiWM in Buffalo, and am interested in meeting other G/Bi/WM's
in the area. I'm 28, about 6', athletic, work-out several days a week, have
light brown hair and green eyes.

I'd be interested in meeting with someone who is 18-30, is athletic and
in good shape. If you'd like to talk and possibly get together,
just reply! Discretion is assured.

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From: ap.3162@cupid.sai.com
Subject: Hello out there!
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Date: Fri, 31 Jul 92 14:09:13 GMT
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W/M, 29, 6'2", 230#, Brown hair/eyes, into computers (obviously), 
music (all kinds), visiting new places, meeting new people, and trying
new things, would like to correspond with woman with same general interests.

Sorry about the boring post, it's my first and don't have reading capabilities
of any alt. newsgroup.






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From: crystal@glia.biostr.washington.edu (Crystal)
Subject: Re: Hello again..
Organization: University of Washington
Date: Wed, 29 Jul 1992 13:29:50 GMT

In <70lm-bp.bob@netcom.com> bob@netcom.com (Bob Becker) writes:

>In article <55203@mentor.cc.purdue.edu> catherin@sage.cc.purdue.edu (Catherine Manry) writes:
>>holy....what a week....I jammed and sprained my left big toe when
>>I slipped on the cement going out of my apartment...big owie!!
>>So, I hobble at work and crash when I get home...getting grosser
>>and grosser as the days progress....my poor nail is gonna fall off!!!
>>
>Thank you so much for sharing that with us.

Yes, but perhaps if she received some email, any at all, she would not feel 
the need to babble at the world just to get attention.  How sad...


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From: gairns@ccrs.emr.ca (Jamie Gairns)
Subject: Re: Who / What is Rai ???
Organization: Canada Centre for Remote Sensing, Ottawa
Date: Sat, 25 Jul 1992 17:34:39 GMT

In article <1992Jul24.100636.2869@memstvx1.memst.edu> mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu writes:
>In article <1992Jul23.175945.11882@brtph560.bnr.ca>, kimmyd@bnr.ca (Kimmy Posey P920) writes:
>> Well is Rai a real person or just an electronically generated wet dream ?
>> 
>Well I hope I'm real! 
>



	I'll say she is !  Nice shoulders, too ;-)


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From: maynard@esther.msc.cornell.edu (Maynard J. Handley)
Subject: Re: Rai's cute!
Organization: Cornell-Materials-Science-Center
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 1992 18:18:05 GMT

In article <1992Jul21.152333.5369@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com>,
puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude) writes:
> tom@xn.ll.mit.edu Wonders...
>>>Rai's a cute chick, huh?  ;-)
>>>
>>I have to agree even if she's too young.
>>also I'm new to Xwindows and could the image size be increases
>>for my old eyes?
>
>Try...
>$ xloadimage -geometry XsizexYsize name_of_file
>
>where you input numerical values for Xsize and Ysize
>
Or a better idea is to get xv, and have a (for X/UNIX standards) decent
tool 
for looking at images.

Maynard Handley
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From: ap.2783@cupid.sai.com
Subject: SM ISO S*F--BOS
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Date: Thu, 23 Jul 92 12:43:58 GMT
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Subject: SM ISO S*F--BOS

i am a single male (north indian subcontinent in origin though 
  totally bred in midwest usa since age of four), 
  29, 5'11'', 175 lbs., in good shape--enjoy biking, tennis.
of previous admirers, have variously been described as cute--handsome 
  --also accused of having big beautiful almond eyes. 
after strawberry cheescake, i love classical music--most notably chopin,
  reading.
in ambient state, i am usually introverted, thoughtful
  with sometimes self surprising bouts of gregariousness and humour.
  getting down to the core of the apple, assuming you don't throw it
  away beforehand, you'll find attentiveness, affection, passion
  and intelligence.

you are S*F...sincere...
and you should be...well...you should be...hmmm...ok...
you be who you want to be...
that is---who you are...
but most of all tell me who you are...
lets talk for the talk's sake...friendship...
possibly more...


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From: marsouin@leland.Stanford.EDU (david wang)
Subject: try
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Date: Tue, 28 Jul 92 16:09:44 GMT

ceci est un essai.
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From: puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: A.D.
Organization: None, today. Thank you.
Date: Wed, 29 Jul 1992 13:38:49 GMT


>>Maybe we're waiting for you kids to go to sleep? :+}

>Hee hee.  :-)  What happens then?
>Anisa

*grin* *THIS* one is definitely NOT 30+!   ;)

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From: puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: A.D.
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Date: Wed, 29 Jul 1992 13:42:16 GMT

[Questions about the 30+ club...]

>>Yes, thank you. I subscribe to that club.

>But are you of an Alan Dershowitz type?

No, I'm of the PuterDude type...

>How old did you say you were?  30?

Old enough to know better, yet too young to care...

>That may be too young.

For what? Senior Citizen's Discounts at Shoney's?

>I'm gonna get in trouble here.......

I hear a LOT of people say that "trouble" is their middle name... :)

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From: ap.2057@cupid.sai.com
Subject: Females mail me please.
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Please kindly female out there mail me.

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From: steves@flashy.tay2.dec.com
Subject: RE: The Adult BBS for you!
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Organization: Digital Equipment Corp, Littleton MA
Date: Mon, 27 Jul 92 15:28:53 GMT


This is a lie!!!!!!!

	This BBs is not Free!!!! I logged in acouple of weeks ago and they want
membership fees before you can download any gifs....

	Don't bother....
From: mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: From Rai.
Date: 21 Jul 92 11:36:53 -0600
Organization: Memphis State University

All this discussion about me! WOW! So when are some of you guys transferring
to Memphis State. I mean I'm being terribly neglected here.

To show you how sad the situation is here's a joke:

To nuts were walking through Central Park...
and one of them was a salted. 

I actually laughed.

Oh, and about the Best Place to put whip cream (drum roll)

On someone you love (or just really really hot for)

Rai.
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Damn I wish I was your lover                       Raina Weinberg
I'll rock you till the daylight comes         Memphis State University
Make sure you are smiling and warm                Memphis, Tennesee
I am everything                             MCSWEINBERG@MSUVX1.MEMST.EDU
Tonight I'll be your mother I will
Do such things to ease your pain
From: cecilw@access.isc-br.com (Cecil Williams)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Definition of "Geek"
Date: 29 Jul 92 18:38:19 GMT
Organization: ISC-Bunker Ramo, Spokane, WA


 ap.2954@cupid.sai.com writes:
>
> ...post deleted...
> 
>      *****
>   **      ***
>  **      ** **
> **      **   **                
> **   GEEKS   **      
> **   **      **       
>  ** **      **       
>   ***      **
>      *****
> 

There seems to be an awful lot of geek-bashing that goes on in this
group, so I opened up my Webster's  New Collegiate Dictionary to see 
what the definition of geek is: 

"A carnival performer often billed as a wild man whose act usually 
includes biting the head off a live chicken or snake"

I don't personally know any CS types that engage in this sort
of activity, but there may be a few rock stars that qualify...

(-;
Cecil
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From: curtisj@cae.wisc.edu (Curtis Jacobsen)
Subject: Farewell to Curt
Organization: U of Wisconsin-Madison College of Engineering
Date: 30 Jul 92 04:10:08 CDT


*sigh*....yes, it's time to say goodbye. I know the flamers are going
to have their fun with this one.

Since I began reading alt.personals there have been many times when I've
had my fun. I've met some very interesting people and made some close
friends. I've learned a lot about relationships, and hope that I've
helped some others with what I've gone through. I hope that I've 
brightened up some people's days with my so called "humor" and some
of my threads. 

But since I began to get involved with this and IRC, my grades have
plummeted, along with my finances (trips, phone bills, etc..). (Yes,
this DOES get addicting) This was all recoverable though.

But people you care for aren't. I've already destroyed completely
a very close and treasured friendship I shared with someone on here
by mailing them something completely inconsiderate and cold when they
were going through a hard time and had a difficult decision to make.

But this decision was finally made by almost losing someone who has become
very deep within my heart. And who I'd very much like to become a major
part of my life. But it was my ignorance and stupidity that caused this.
And so I deserve everything that has come...and is yet to come to me.

And so the time has come to end it all. This will be my last post to
alt.personals, for those of you who know me on IRC, I will no longer
be on there either. I will answer "personal" e-mail for about another week,
maybe less, to say goodbye to some of the friends I've made on here.

First of all, I'd like to apologize to all those who I have annoyed, insulted,
or offended in my postings. Please know that I meant no harm in what I said,
and that what came out in some cases was an inane attempt at humor.

Second, I'd like to apologize to those whose friendships may be broken with
me because of this. I do treasure our friendships, but this person has 
become such an intregal part of my life, that it would destroy me to see her
go.

Third, I'd like to apologize to the person whose respect I betrayed by 
saying such cold and ruthless things when you are going through such a 
tough time right now......I'm very sorry, and you won't have to worry
about me ever hurting you again.

And lastly, I'd like to apologize to that special person who I hold
so dear to my heart. (Boy, it's so tempting to start the alphabet soup
thing again, but no) I'm truly sorry I put what we had in jeopardy so
that I could have some fun on the network. It was completely inexcusable
on my part and I hope that someday we can once again have what we shared
together.

*sigh*...I don't know when I'll be back.....or if I'll be back.
Probably not for a long time.

I wish you all the best of luck in your search for that special someone.

BTW, Just to settle it, THE GREEN HORNET is a '79 Pontiac Grand Prix, and
it will outrun ANY Cadillac around......

-Curt


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From: darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu (Darkmoore)
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Subject: Oh shit!
Date: 30 Jul 92 22:43:44 GMT
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Organization: Purdue Computing Center


  Darkmoore fucked up again.....





  I accidentally deleted my mailing addresses again.  God, I am so
  stupid!  If everyone who has been e-mailing with me would be so nice
  and re-e-mail me, i would kiss them on the butt!


  Thank you, thank you, thank you!

  Darkmoore

  (darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu)
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