HDTenEightyP/NetNews huggingface dataset:
From: h431@quads.uchicago.edu (heather e blair)
Subject: Re: The War Between Us
Reply-To: h431@midway.uchicago.edu
Organization: University of Chicago Computing Organizations
Date: Tue, 28 Jul 1992 01:05:41 GMT

In article <40015@skye.dcs.ed.ac.uk> db@dcs.ed.ac.uk (Dave Berry) writes:
>Ciaran McHale writes:
>>	Bisexuals need to build their own community rather than try to
>>	integrate with the existing lesbian and gay communities.
>
>Uh, Ciaran, what do you think we've been doing?  You, know, with the
>bisexual groups and conferences and newletters and books and videos and
>newspaper articles and phonelines and pen-pal schemes and parties and
>e-mail lists and newsgroups and summer camps and retreats and leaflets
>and magazine articles and stuff?
>
>Actually, I'd phrase it rather differently:
>
>       Bisexuals need to build their own community and try to
>       work with existing communities, including lesbian and
>       gay communities.
>
>What do other folk think?
>
>Dave.
>--
>

I totally agree.  And it seems to be working at U of C.  When the
Bisexual Union has a party, we invite the les-gay groups, the main one,
law school, divinity school, etc.  People do show up!  There seems to
be co-operation and friendliness.  

For me personally, there are times I need to talk to other bi people 
about what's going on in my life since they'll understand better than
anybody else.  Sometimes I need to be in women-only space, sometimes
mixed-gender space.  It just depends.



-- 

- Heather Blair       h431@midway.uchicago.edu
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: twpierce@amhux1.amherst.edu (Tim Pierce)
Subject: Re: Gay/Lesbian Sitcom Character
Organization: Amherst College, Amherst MA
Date: Sun, 26 Jul 1992 04:41:40 GMT

In article <1992Jul21.103608.7693@vax.oxford.ac.uk> atmpas@vax.oxford.ac.uk writes:

>	Umm, have you got Mr. Humphries from the British show 'Are You Being 
>Served?',

Only twice, I think.  We've really got it now, though.  Thanks.

-- 
____ Tim Pierce                / "You mean there are TWO of you, Pierce?
\  / twpierce@amherst.edu      /  God help us all."
 \/ (BITnet: TWPIERCE@AMHERST) /   -- Major Charles Emerson Winchester III
From: muffy@remarque.berkeley.edu (Muffy Barkocy)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Marraige and Apartheid
Date: 30 Jul 92 19:24:20 GMT
	<1992Jul29.192503.8455@HQ.Ileaf.COM>
	<1992Jul30.094541.1650@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu>
Organization: Natural Language Incorporated
NNTP-Posting-Host: remarque.berkeley.edu
In-reply-to: julie@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu's message of 30 Jul 92 14:45:41 GMT

In article <1992Jul30.094541.1650@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu> julie@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu writes:
>In article <1992Jul29.192503.8455@HQ.Ileaf.COM>, mhk@HQ.Ileaf.COM (Mark Kaepplein x1517) writes:
>> 	"Until stricter clean-air laws are passed, I'm not going to breathe.
>> 	Any *real* environmentalist would do the same."
>> 
>> If that strikes you as silly, then why is everyone's knickers in a knot
>> over bi's getting married?  If you want to marry a motos, go ahead.
>> Refusing to do so isn't going to gain much attention.

>If one person refuses to get married it will not be heard.  If one
>thousand people as a group announce that they are rejecting marraige
>and are unwilling to make use of an unfair and discriminatory system
>in order to gain special privelidges for themselves, however, I can
>guarantee you that someone will take notice.

Sure, they'll notice.  Then they'll say "look what those crazy
<x>sexuals are doing now," and go on about their business.  After all,
who cares if people get married or not?

Does the government care?  I don't think so.

Some religious groups might care, but probably only about their own
members.

Employers would probably be happier, not having to pay for spousal
benefits.

Anti-queer people will be happy - it's more ammunition for them - "See?
We *told* you they were trying to destroy 'the family'."

Who is it that you think is going to "care" in the sense of doing
something to make things less unjust?  Only us, and we already *know*.

By the way, I haven't read this whole thread...I *do* hope that the
people who are protesting the injustice of motos-couple-only marriage
are protesting the injustice of couple-only marriage as well...

Muffy


--

Muffy Barkocy | muffy@mica.berkeley.edu | wi.4636@wizvax.methuen.ma.us
~Little round planet/in a big universe/sometimes it looks blessed/
 sometimes it looks cursed/Depends on what you look at, obviously/
 But even more it depends on the way that you see~ - Bruce Cockburn
From: sara@castle.ed.ac.uk (Swamp Thing)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Ireland Party (was Re: Muffin Alert!)
Date: 29 Jul 92 20:01:23 GMT
Organization: News Addicts

pclary@radish.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary) writes:

>Small correction.  _You_ do not drive a _car_.

But one doesn't drive motorbikes, one rides them.  Anyway, it's a long
while since I rode mine; so long that I sold it.  And spent the money on
traveller's cheques!  Yo!  California here I come!  Pity about that
other business between now and then ... >{8-(

Sara the pedant
-- 
 >{8-)     Sara Hopkins     (-8}<              _____^__
 Geography Dept.  Edinburgh Uni.  Drummond St. \ OOO/ / The Thing
 Edinburgh,  EH8  9XP,  UK. +44 (0/31) 650 2662 \++/ /   From
 >{8-) sara@geovax.ed.ac.uk (-8}<                \/\/ The Swamp
From: idx009@cck.coventry.ac.uk (the Crisco Kid)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Lycra (was Re: Edinburgh soc.bi party)
Date: 21 Jul 92 16:59:22 GMT
Organization: Eris's Restaurant

In article <23972@castle.ed.ac.uk> sara@castle.ed.ac.uk (Swamp Thing) writes:
>aag@aber.ac.uk (Angela Gilham) writes:
>>You ought to see Kay with his new haircut! Come to that, you ought to
>>have seen him with added cheese!
>Which brings us to post-party quote/potential entry to bisexual
>dictionary - Dekker definition of "nice": Half naked and covered with
>cheese.

Did I say that?  I really can't remember: most of the party memories
are obscured by a very little alcohol, and a great deal of testosterone
and sweat...

			mad, bad, and tyrophilous
			Kay
-- 
6'2", dark short hair, blue eyes, bisexual and horny as ....
Kay Dekker, Dept of Industrial Design, Coventry University, Coventry UK
37 Old Winnings Road, Keresley Village, Coventry   |B0 f t+ g++ k++! s+ e r p!
Phone: +44 203 838668 (work) +44 203 337865 (home) |Deflowerer-of-innocents
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: ELAINE@brownvm.brown.edu (Elaine M. Brennan)
Subject: Re: Hiya!!
News-Software: BNN via BNN_POST v1.0 beta
Organization: Brown University - Providence, Rhode Island  USA
Date: Tue, 28 Jul 1992 23:21:40 GMT

In article <4875@tuegate.tue.nl>, gtoal@gem.stack.urc.tue.nl (Graham Toal)
said:

>In article <1992Jul28.042433.13286@news.acns.nwu.edu> Albert-Lunde@nwu.edu
>(Albert Lunde) writes:
>>- There is almost no place where bisexuality is the norm.
>
>You've never been to Rhode Island, right Elaine? :-)
>
>G

well, I think it's safe to say he's never been in my office ...

Elaine
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: elle@kimbark.uchicago.edu (Ellen Keyne Seebacher)
Subject: Re: Well, God Damn It! SPILL THE BEANS!
Reply-To: elle@midway.uchicago.edu
Organization: University of Chicago Computing Organizations
Date: Thu, 30 Jul 1992 14:47:47 GMT

Ailsa writes:
>yes, yes, TELL!!!  especially, anyone please tell their impressions
>of any other net.personality...  i like celebrity gossip as much
>as the next person!

Beans are being {spilled,spilt} over in soc.motss even as we type.

--
Ellen Keyne Seebacher            elle@midway.uchicago.edu


Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: Albert-Lunde@nwu.edu (Albert Lunde)
Subject: Advocate Bi Article
Followup-To: soc.bi
Originator: lunde@casbah.acns.nwu.edu
Reply-To: Albert-Lunde@nwu.edu (Albert Lunde)
Organization: Ministry of Silly Walks
Date: Sat, 25 Jul 1992 18:20:53 GMT

The Advocate July 30 issue includes an article "Community: BI and beyond".

It seems fairly sympathetic -- it quotes various Bi activists and presents
the bi community in relation to the gay/lesbian communities (rather than
as an enemy or some such.) There are two pages of text and two pictures of
a rather gender-bending trio of two men and a women, all naked.

My friend from BiPAC/BiNET Chicago Melissa Merry is quoted, remarking on
closeted bis who talk about gay or lesbian pride but won't admit who
they are in public. (We have met various bisexuals, especially working 
in gay or lesbian groups, who are seemingly "out" but are in another closet.)

(We're expecting the Time article to show up in the next few issues but
no date was promised so far.)

-- 
 Albert Lunde         | Interfaith  |     *Y*Y*      "A branch on the
 Albert-Lunde@nwu.edu |  Bisexual   |      *Y*        tree of life"
 alunde@nuacvm.bitnet |  Feminist   |.......|.........................
Newsgroups: soc.bi,soc.motss
From: dbshapco@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu (Brad Shapcott)
Subject: Re: The War Between Us (Long)
Organization: University of Waterloo
Date: Mon, 27 Jul 1992 04:57:03 GMT

In article <1992Jul27.004204.22498@rat.csc.calpoly.edu> pclary@radish.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary) writes:
>
>Brad,
>
>I haven't completely mentally absorbed your entire post yet, 
>but just to reiterate...
>
>I don't think anyone was implying that those who are already
>married should break up their marriages.  The question in 
>the marriage thread was: 
>
>[pclary@somewhereorother asks:]
>>There are many married folk in this newsgroup whose opinions I,
>>not only respect, but hold in high regard.  My question is:
>>If you came out as bi after you got married, given the inequity
>>in marriage oppertunities for motss vs motos relationships, would
>>you get married again?
>>
>>If you got married after you came out as bi, what decisions/thought
>>processes did you go through and what conclusions did you come to?
>
>
>Ellen

It was something said much later than that, although there is a good chance
that I am attributing incorrectly, since I'm going on memory alone.

*You* might not have made the statement I was referring to.  I just looked
in my file of saved articles and (unfortunately) did not save the exact
reference.  But it was made, and pretty well in the terms I describe.


Brad
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Bay Area Beach Thing
From: dsolis@koko.csustan.edu (Djelrik Solis)
Date: Sat, 25 Jul 92 03:40:17 GMT
Organization: CSU Stanislaus
Keywords: peace, love, and happiness

In article <36035@sdcc12.ucsd.edu> jclark@sdcc3.ucsd.edu (John Clark) writes:

>sort of "I wana go body surfin' on ya baby"...
>-- 
>
>John Clark
>jclark@ucsd.edu

	Well, no.  What you do is up to you, but that really wasn't what I
had in mind.  As a naturist, I believe rather strongly that nudity should
NOT be interpreted as an invitation to sex.  Or, have I misinterpeted your
meaning?

Djelrik
From: bethan@cogsci.ed.ac.uk (Bethan Davies)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Yet Another X-Muffin
Date: 21 Jul 92 16:21:30 GMT
Followup-To: soc.bi
Distribution: soc.bi
Organization: Centre for Cognitive Science, Edinburgh, UK

In article <1992Jul20.203627.14192@mnemosyne.cs.du.edu> tweaver@nyx.cs.du.edu (T.C.Weaver) writes:
>
>
>Tanaqui

(masseuse and head rubber extraodinaire)

>
>-- slightly damaged from Friday - bear with a sore head ;-). Wonder what all
>the cute types down the Pear Tree thought of us? & as for later...
>
>[Cen is stifled bi the censors]

Aww... go on... it can't be any worse than whats been said already. And
you're probably unblackmailable on this one.... from the bits I remember.

Unless you count trying to kill Dave through tickles... though he did his
best to shorten your lifespan earlier in the evening.... how is the bump
btw?



                                 Bethan
From: hopkins@turing.ac.uk (Don Hopkins)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Edinburgh Party Photos
Date: 26 Jul 92 02:12:07 GMT
	<1992Jul20.220923.14801@rat.csc.calpoly.edu> <23997@castle.ed.ac.uk>
Organization: The Turing Institute, Ltd.

sara@castle.ed.ac.uk (Swamp Thing) writes:

   Sara - who has just done a practice run for her talk and it was *crap*

Relax!  (Need I say how!)  My last talk I gave in a Bongo t-shirt:

    (\
     \\
    ,_)\
    )   )
   (  @ @
   /  ___)
  /   /UU

As the "Life in Hell" comic goes: 

"Bongo, we have bad news for you. 
 Your ear has been delcared obscene by
 the National Endowment for the Arts."

	-Don
From: johnf@uhheph.phys.hawaii.edu (John Flanagan)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Beer and Choo-choos (was Re: Breeders and other epithets)
Date: 28 Jul 92 23:43:21 GMT
Organization: University of Hawaii, Dept. of Physics & Astronomy

In article <1992Jul28.070944.24907@vpnet.chi.il.us> orc@vpnet.chi.il.us (david parsons) writes:
>In article <1992Jul25.034240.1663@news.Hawaii.Edu> johnf@uhheph.phys.hawaii.edu (John Flanagan) describes a scene out of hell:
                  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

>|-- I was just on my way out to the Friday beer bash.  Let's see:
>|Budweiser, Foster's, or a loaded pistol?  It's _so_ hard to choose.
>
>   Erm.  It's not all that bad, really; it's possible, if you look
>hard, to find lambics (Framboise in particular!) and other more-
>conventional good beers around Honolulu. Consume one or two of them
>before descending into the abyss and the unmentionable evil beers
>won't be quite so daunting.

Never heard of Lambics, though I confess that a beer called Framboise
does not sound too promising.  But then, neither did poi before I
tried it...

Truly great beer simply doesn't survive the trip around the globe from
England.  Even reasonably good beer does not seem to make the swim out
from California.  But I would hardly call life in Hawaii hellish. :-)

>                  __
>    david parsons \/  "Who wanted to move to Hawaii, but couldn't find
>                       work or good beer. (But I *did* find the railway!)"

You found a railway in Hawaii?  Where?

Duh,

--John

John Flanagan                          ||
johnf@uhheph.phys.hawaii.edu           ||"Don't worry, honey, 
U. of Hawaii, Dept. of Physics & Astro.|| our skirts are clean."
-- 
John Flanagan                          ||
johnf@uhheph.phys.hawaii.edu           ||"Don't worry, honey, 
U. of Hawaii, Dept. of Physics & Astro.|| our skirts are clean."
2505 Correa Rd., Honolulu, HI 96822    ||
From: cjohnson@polyslo.csc.calpoly.edu (Coe Salzgeber)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: _Prelude to a Kiss_
Date: 23 Jul 92 21:53:14 GMT
Organization: Cow Poly, San Luis Obispo, CA

rhialto@cs.kun.nl (Olaf Seibert) said...
>In article <1992Jul21.192846.15541@rat.csc.calpoly.edu> cjohnson@polyslo.csc.calpoly.edu (Coe Salzgeber) writes:
>>sara@castle.ed.ac.uk (Swamp Thing) said...
>>>Coe!  Hello!  Good to have you around; Ellen has talked to me about you.
>>>Can't wait to see you both next month ...
>>
>>Great... so you are showing up next month, Colin is coming some
>>time around Christmas... When do i get to meet the other cuties
>>in Ellen's pictures?
>
>Hi from me as well! I'll vainly assume you're referring to me too... ;-)

Ohhhh, those eyes... Ellen got some good pictures of you.  You are 
welcome here any time!

>as soon as you send me that spare plane ticket you almost forgot you
>had!
>What? You don't have one? Then you must really have forgotten it...

No, i know it's here somewhere... <madly checking my pockets> damn.
Well, you can be sure i will keep an eye out for it.

>-Olaf. Hands out a hug.
Thanks so much,
-Coe
-- 
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Theta waves are brain waves
Coe L. Salzgeber - San Luis Obispo, CA !  (4-7hz) that are dominant in children
Internet: cjohnson@polyslo.CalPoly.EDU !  ages 2 - 5 and in psychopaths.
Organization: University of Maine System
Date: Wednesday, 29 Jul 1992 23:43:54 EDT
From: Ailsa N.T. Murphy <IO81409@MAINE.MAINE.EDU>
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Electronic Matchmaker
 <Bs2r19.ALn@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu> <4873@tuegate.tue.nl>

actually, having gotten a copy of the questionnaire, i didn't
think it was all THAT bad.  it has a few flaws, but it was no
worse than others i haev seen, and better than some.  i still
have to email my critique of it...  prolly too late, but i
am a terrible procrastinator...

i can see the point of wanting roughly equal numbers of men
and wimmin, even if it is open to all preferences.  after all,
SOME peopel do want motos, and the number of wimmin who are looking
for wimmin cuts down on the number of eligible wimmin left for
the SWMs even more...  and if no wimmin sign up for this thing,
how am i ever supposed to find my soulmate?  B)

                                        -ailsa
From: pclary@mushroom.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: The War Between Us (Long)
Date: 28 Jul 92 18:57:50 GMT
Organization: Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo, CA - aka Barnum & Bailey

[soc.motss removed from Newsgroups:]

dbshapco@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu (Brad Shapcott) wrote...
>It was that sentence that made me think that you had just come over here to
                                              ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
>ask us all a loaded question.
 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
["here" means soc.bi]

Surely we must be reading different versions of soc.bi given how often
my name appears in soc.bi.

All joking aside however.

The bi's and marriage thread appeared in soc.bi and not soc.motss.  
To take someone else's _quote_ and requote it out of the original 
context in another newsgroup without their permission is dancing 
on the edge of breach of netetiquette (but something that does happen).  
But you didn't quote me, you incorrectly paraphased me, which does offend 
me.  I felt forced to participate (however favorable that participation 
was) in a newsgroup that I normally don't take part in.

Ellen
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: cmclark@dri.com (Chip Clark)
Subject: Re: The Big One
Reply-To: cmclark@novell.com
Organization: Desktop Systems Group/Novell, Monterey CA/USA
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 92 21:05:46 GMT

dente@els.man.ac.uk (Colin Dente) writes:

]In article <1992Jul14.144903.9292@ils.nwu.edu>, lynch@ils.nwu.edu (Richard Lynch) writes:

]|> Guess this is my official de-muffining,

]*Pounce*
]Hmmmm... what have we here?  <lick> <nibble>  Yum, it's a muffin
]<Pat's head> hello little ex-muffin.  Welcome to soc.bi...

]|> the record, I'm "straight with curves" as my closest lesbian friend terms it.
]|> ie, I can empathize or whatever even though I'm straight.

]<heh, heh, heh> I knew someone like that once...

]We don't mind - so long as you don't mind getting flirted at outrageously..
]<flutters eyelids>, <coy smile>

]|> PPS:  I still haven't figured out that bear code, but haven't worked at it.
]|> Is it worth it?
]Depends on whether or not you like bears...

]Here's a hug -->*HUG*<--  The welcome wagon will be along shortly...

]Colin

Bring that little wagon this a way!!!

My last article was my de-muffining!


Redhead

Bi's are better headers.
From: grant@Autodesk.COM (Grant Hogarth)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Bay Area Beach Thing
Date: 23 Jul 92 20:27:48 GMT
Organization: Autodesk Inc., Sausalito CA, USA

is dragging me away to live in sin in the foggy east. :-)
(As you can tell, I'm putting up a lot of resistance. <grin>)
Actually, I'm thinking of having a party in SF on the 7th of Aug
if that would be of interest to anyone. I doubt that it will be as
wild as the Edin(mumble) one, but we could try! <naughty grin>
E-mail me @ grant@autodesk.com if you're interested.

Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: cjmchale@dsg.cs.tcd.ie (Ciaran McHale)
Subject: Re: 'women's' vs 'lesbian'
Organization: DSG, Dept. of Computer Science, Trinity College Dublin
Date: Fri, 31 Jul 1992 11:32:07 GMT

>kludge@grissom.larc.nasa.gov ( Scott Dorsey) writes:
>So, what does it take to be a "babe" anyway?  Is being female a necessary
>condition, or could I describe myself as a hot, horny bi babe, and get away
>with it.
>--scott

I think necessary condition is to be a mythical figure. So, if you can
figure out a way to become a myth then we'll just wave the magic wand
and bzzzzt you'll be transformed into a hot bi babe, complete with white
scarf. And  if you go for the optional ice-pick then you'll be "the fuck
of the century, man. Yeah."


Ciaran.
-- 
Ciaran McHale                                                             ----
Department of Computer Science, Trinity College, Dublin 2, Ireland.       \bi/
Telephone: +353-1-7021539 FAX: +353-1-772204 email: cjmchale@dsg.cs.tcd.ie \/
From: fenthe@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Is there anybody out there?
Date: 30 Jul 92 09:03:55 GMT
Organization: Carnegie Mellon Computer Club

In article <1992Jul29.182429.5854@iscsvax.uni.edu>, vaughan4955@iscsvax.uni.edu writes:
> [article]

 Hi! Welcome to soc.bi! and a cascade of
 >>>>hugs
 >>>cuddles
 >>licks
 >strokes
and suchlike

 -- Fenthe
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: heath@athena.cs.uga.edu (Terrance Heath)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: The War Between Us (Long)
Date: 29 Jul 92 13:49:39 GMT
Organization: University of Georgia, Athens

>In article <1992Jul29.102154.4791@news.Hawaii.Edu> johnf@uhheph.phys.hawaii.edu (John Flanagan) writes:
>>In article <4874@tuegate.tue.nl> gtoal@stack.urc.tue.nl writes:
>>>
>>>And when it's no big thing to say you're bi,
>>>and a lot more of us speak up who *aren't* at the high end of the Kinsey
>>>scale, I think we'll find that we're not a minority inside a minority,
>>>but the largest group of non-straights around...
>>
>>Maybe it shouldn't be surprising when Steve Dyer says that most of the
>>bis he knows seem to have regular MOTOS partners.  It seems reasonable
>>to guess that the distribution of sexual orientation should be
>>largest at the low end of the Kinsey scale...
>>
>

*sigh* Gee, I guess I'm *always* gonna be in the minority. *heading
for some cooling off time in "Gay Space"*



-- 
"Black men loving black men is THE revolutionary act!"
			-Joseph Beam_
Terrance Heath 
heath@athena.cs.uga.edu
From: idx009@cck.coventry.ac.uk (the Crisco Kid)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Yet Another X-Muffin
Date: 22 Jul 92 16:45:56 GMT
Distribution: soc.bi
Organization: Eris's Restaurant

In article <10213@scott.ed.ac.uk> bethan@cogsci.ed.ac.uk (Bethan Davies) writes:
>>Tanaqui
>(masseuse and head rubber extraodinaire)

Head rubber?  what a delightfully ambiguous appelation.


	mad, bad, and mad, bad, and mad, bad, and... head-recursive
	Kay



-- 
6'2", dark short hair, blue eyes, bisexual and horny as ....
Kay Dekker, Dept of Industrial Design, Coventry University, Coventry UK
37 Old Winnings Road, Keresley Village, Coventry   |B0 f t+ g++ k++! s+ e r p!
Phone: +44 203 838668 (work) +44 203 337865 (home) |Deflowerer-of-innocents
Newsgroups: soc.bi,soc.motss
From: pclary@radish.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary)
Subject: Re: The War Between Us (Long)
Date: Mon, 27 Jul 92 00:42:04 GMT
Organization: Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo, CA - aka Barnum & Bailey


Brad,

I haven't completely mentally absorbed your entire post yet, 
but just to reiterate...

I don't think anyone was implying that those who are already
married should break up their marriages.  The question in 
the marriage thread was: 

[pclary@somewhereorother asks:]
>There are many married folk in this newsgroup whose opinions I,
>not only respect, but hold in high regard.  My question is:
>If you came out as bi after you got married, given the inequity
>in marriage oppertunities for motss vs motos relationships, would
>you get married again?
>
>If you got married after you came out as bi, what decisions/thought
>processes did you go through and what conclusions did you come to?


Ellen


Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: dbshapco@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu (Brad Shapcott)
Subject: Re: 'women's' vs 'lesbian'
Organization: University of Waterloo
Date: Thu, 30 Jul 1992 19:29:01 GMT

In article <Bs7JnE.68r@news.larc.nasa.gov> kludge@grissom.larc.nasa.gov ( Scott Dorsey) writes:
>In article <Bs6J5w.B58@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu> dbshapco@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu (Brad Shapcott) writes:
>>
>>Ooooh, you just don't want to create a little heat after all, you want to
>>burn the place down . . .
>
>So, what does it take to be a "babe" anyway?  Is being female a necessary
>condition, or could I describe myself as a hot, horny bi babe, and get away
>with it.
>--scott

You could with me.  But that is just one man's opinion.

'Course, I am morally entitled to proof of same ;-).


Brad
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