From: chaneysa@nextnet.csus.edu (Stephen A Chaney)
Subject: Why we go for non-black women:
Organization: California State University Sacramento
Date: Fri, 1 Jan 1993 15:54:19 GMT



I just had the joy of having a black woman lecture me, sister to
brother, so to speak, about my girlfriend, who is caucasian, just
before Christmas. She takes it upon herself, as if she were in Jungle
Fever the movie!, to lecture me about black pride. She went on about
how wrong it is to do this to black women and that there are plenty of
black women who are looking for brothers now.

I refused to back down about my girlfriend (new girlfriend at that),
and we ended up in an argument about whether or not I am an Oreo.

I told her what I am about to tell you. You people who think you're
going to take out those of us who date interracially, need a lobotomy
and you need to read up on Fascism. And you need to stay the hell away
from me and the rest of us.


I do not prefer black women because:
1) They have the disposition of a hornet. I have never seen anything
more stressful as an angry black woman (but hey, they get it from some
of the men, too - but not me). 
2) They disrespect black men and I see it every day. They are
unforgiving - one stutter or one blunder and they're all over you,
making fun of you.
3) They come up with this lame-ass excuse about "Well, can't you be
tough and take it?" rather than laying off of you.
4) They have no, absolutely NO tolerance for individual thought. As a
person who KNEW Anita Hill was a liar, I saw just how tolerant and
open-minded they were when I tried to be NICE and non-argumentative,
and just present the facts on the issue. Black women are the foremost
and fiercest enemies of black conservatives, and are the worst in the
world at the art of getting brothers "ostracized." 

Now that I have your undivided attention, class is in session ladies:
#1: COOL OFF. You'll never stop black men from dating outside the
    race if you keep up your nasty attitude. You talk about how bad
    black men are, but look at yourselves, too. (And I know some 
    guys who act like PUNKS, but you treat us like we are all punks.)
#2: Do I have to dress up like Gucci for you? Do I need to become a
    Mister Perfect to avoid your unnecessarily nasty disrespectful
    attitude? I don't call you "bitch" or "hoe" and I don't slap
    around women, either. Nor do I come on with "hey baby, etc." I
    have something you've never heard of: MORALS. No, I won't duck
    when I say that. It keeps me free of AIDS and overdoses and
    jail time. It might be interesting to you to check out that
    quality the next time you see it. (And neither us men or women
    are perfect at it.) As long as you make fun of men like that,
    they're going to date more tolerant women who appreciate them.
#3: Excuse me, but we have enough problems every day without having to
    run into the arms of MORE PRESSURE. Can you say R-E-L-A-X? Cool
    down and give the guy a break and a place to let down his guard.
    No wonder black men have such heart trouble. (And it wouldn't hurt
    for the girlfriend-beaters and women-bashers to cool down, too.)
#4: I'll be damned if I'm going to date you if you make fun of my
    hobbies. I don't make fun of your funny African clothes or
    hairdos, or your long nails or whatever. I don't expect you to
    go crazy on me because I'm learning Japanese (which I am). Black
    women are infamous for being intolerant of those things. Not only
    that, but I've seen it. I've been called a half-nip and half-jap
    and all kinds of things (though I'm 100% black) for that, and it
    was exclusively by black women. 
#5: Anita Hill had NO EVIDENCE. She had TEN WITNESSES AGAINST HER.
    She CHANGED HER STORY! She said she wasn't in it for the money and
    now she's on a feminist evangelical tour for $10k an appearance.
    What more evidence do you need to prove she was a PAID TORPEDO 
    sent to get Clarence Thomas at the 11th hour?
#6: I won't even TRY to explain black conservatism to you. Black
    women are utter screaming fascists when they see this. You go
    into a rage that is unseen in human beings, at the mention of
    Clarence Thomas or the words "black conservative". "Oreo," "Uncle
    Tom," and all that, start flying around. You'll accept Jesse
    Jackson despite that he is an anti-semite, because he is black.
    I'd hate to speak in opposition of him amidst 2 or more of you.
    That is suicidal. I thought it was just me until I read Clarence
    Thomas' "The Loneliness of the Black Conservative" and realized
    that others, too, are feeling your hate and intolerance.


Well, as one who takes on the big, the bad, and the bold (and the ugly),
I'm telling you, kiss my ass. You black women are not worth the time
if it involves becoming a masochistic automaton that you like to kick
around. You need to put your negative energies into getting those real
punks - the druggies, the women-beaters, the guys who leave their
girlfriends stuck with kids, etc., etc. - the people we conservatives
fight daily. Hell, with us, you can avoid drugs, AIDS, etc., but
no~~, you think we're Nazi's. So go on back - go back to your daily
life where your school's feel-good liberal education has ruined our
kids' education since your beautiful 1960's; where drugs are rampant
and you are told that we don't want to stop it everywhere (we'd love
to see that stuff eliminated from ALL neighborhoods, not just rich
ones - but hey, what's reason to you, anyway?); where your liberated
sexual revolution b.s. has given us AIDS (along with drug use, this
makes up 99% of all AIDS cases); and where the Democrats have stuck
you on government assistance, while claiming Republicans want to fire
you from every job (which is bullshit but hey I'm a thought criminal
anyway so what do you care?).. and where black men (and black women in
many cases) are marrying and dating interracially to get away from
your abusive attitudes (men included in the fault category here). 

But know this: the day your attitudes towards interracial marriage are
crushed and put to shame, will be too late a day for me. And I want to
be there to laugh at you when YOU have YOUR back to the wall for
such intolerance. Or when all the black men are avoiding you. Anything
to snap the power (and its abuse!) of black women (hell, black men
have long since lost it), so you'll GET OFF OUR BACKS. I want to see
you strung up the same way we string up those abusive black men. 


BTW, one more thing to piss you off:
I am one of those many black men who don't date race. We date ideology
and attitude - race is irrelevant. If you can't handle it, tough. But
for the sake of not getting an ulcer - leave us alone. We don't bother
you if you don't bother us. Bother us, and you'll get very badly
disrespected, and we'll be waiting when you send your big, ugly, ape
brothers and fathers to punish us for not conforming. Do them a favor
and do not send them after us.

 

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