From: jcliu@four-lab4.Berkeley.EDU (James C. Liu)
Newsgroups: soc.culture.japan
Subject: Re: Chotto!!!Sexuality?
Date: 17 Dec 92 00:06:27 GMT
Organization: UC Berkeley Dept. of Nuclear Engineering
NNTP-Posting-Host: four-lab4.berkeley.edu

In article <1992Dec16.121907.3033@peanut> kerkoveericj@bvc.edu writes:

  >  When are we actualy going to get back to the subject of sexuality
  >among Japanese girls/women?  

Okay.  The SEXuality of Japanese girls/women?...They're F-E-M-A-L-E. 8-)

  >  You guys make me feel like some perverted sex fiend for having
  >to keep asking you to get back to the subject at hand.

Perverted?  What in this day and age?  These are the 90's...we've
stopped pre-judging people based on sexual orientation or degree of
sexual drive.  You sound pretty genki to me. ;-)  BTW, are you losing
hair?  High testosterone levels?  

But look, if you're that hungry for fish, go fishing for your own.  You
can't expect the pros to give away their trade secrets or locations of
their favourite fishin' holes. 8-).  If everybody started limiting out
from the same lake, pretty soon, all the sweet spots will get fished
out.  Besides, most of the fun is in learning on your own.

  >                                                          So far I've
  >picked up the knowledge that Japanese women don't hold their virginity
  >with as much reverance as I thought, but no one seems willing to expand 

Heck, virginity?  Is it relevant?  If you ask, "Hajimete?" she'll
probably say yes.  Yeah, the first time WITH YOU! 8-).  Just play some
Madonna "Like a Virgin" if you want to set the mood...They love Madonna.

  >on that, (with the exception of those astounding numbers).  I would be
  >interested in knowing different signs of affection (Ex.  sitting close
  >and eating off of the koibito's plate) that was a good one, or about
  >how long it usualy takes for a relationship to take off.  

Signs of affection:

1.  Whenever she walks besides you, she has her shoulders shrugged, she
looks at the ground, is always smiling, holds her purse/handbag in both
hands in front of her and kind of sways back and forth.  Whenever she
takes a peek at you, she'll first swing her hair so it almost touches
you and gives you a waft of that sweet smelling conditioner she uses
every morning. 

2.  She goes out and gets a new  outfit and small purse and matching shoes 
when you ask her out on a date.  (Note:  she's sinking major capital
investment into this date)

3.  If you've still got hair, even with your high test'rone levels 8-), cut
it short and spiky and use hair products.  If she fondles it in public,
and doesn't mind the dandruff flakes, she's getting serious.;-)

4.  You're on a date in the evening and you stroll back to her aparto.
She likes you if on the way, she takes you to a small park with a shrine.
She really likes you if she goes up to the shack, throws in a coin and
prays for something, then smiles back at you as she puts her hands
together to clap.  She wants to have your baby if after that, she pours
water over the fertility thingamajig that's in the park. ;-)
 
5.  You let her know that you jog every Sat, Sun, Tues, and Thursday 
morning along the Tama gawa, and somehow, she's on her squeaky brake
Maruishi bike with basket on the Tama gawa, every Sat, Sun, Tues, and
Thursday.  And when you comment, what a coincidence...she says.."I on
diet ...I'm getting fat..."  What you should be thinking is ..
'hmmm 63.8% probability that she's piiru nandete iru so she's got 
weight gain...' :-)

Time for a Relationship to Take off.

1.  Based on hearsay dake, relationships made in Hawaii can take off in
10 minutes.  (8 minutes walk to the hotel room, 1.667 minutes for her in
the bathroom, 20 seconds for her to undress you.  Mind you, this is
hearsay only. :-)

2.  You shouldn't base it on time, but rather...critical capital 
investment...and each gal varies.  Anyone have an average?  I'd guess in
the Y200,000 range.  Just remember, girls around the world are basically
the same, they like flowers, wining, dining, dancing, grand gestures
like new shoes, wallets, etc.  If you jump through the hoops right, a 
relationship can take off...  I recommend the book "1001 ways to be 
Romantic" I can't remember the author.  Only, IMHO, forget the 
recommendations about lingerie..8-)

Jaa, James
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