From: mal11@po.CWRU.Edu (Matthew A. Lewis)
Subject: Re: So Many Men! So Little Time! (Was: March in D.C.)
Reply-To: mal11@po.CWRU.Edu (Matthew A. Lewis)
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, OH (USA)
Date: Wed, 15 Apr 92 00:32:58 GMT


In a previous article, kcochran@isis.cs.du.edu (Keith A. Cochran) says:

>>OK.....let's put this in perspective. I've had sex with one partner.
>>We were both virgins and have remained monogamous. I made
>>up my mind a long time ago that if this relationship fails and
>>we don't get married, then I won't have sex again until I'm married.
>
>Oh, so you're calling your girlfriend a Slut?  Or did you intentionally exclude
>her when you made your comment about if you have sex in *2* relationships or
>100, you're a slut?

don't put words in my mouth. look up slut in the dictionary. It will
probably say something about sleeping around. It's up for
every person to decide what "sleeping around" is. If someday I have
another sex partner, which I hope is never the case, then I guess i will
be a slut. And in my eyes, so will be my ex-girlfriend. According to 
the definition of slut, I would appreciate you not calling anyone I love
a "slut." You don't know me, and you don't know them. I have
no right to call you or your wife or your sheep a slut so I won't.
I would appreciate a mutual "respect," or whatever. I was using "slut"
generally. 

>No, "sex abuse" is what occurs when you abuse sex.  

who decides what abuse of sex is? Masters and Johnson? you? the pope?
for me, abusing sex would be using it for purposes other that 
solidifying ONE relationship in my life.

>There's also the possibility that YOU might infect HER.  How can you guarantee
>that she was a virgin when you started having sex?  How can she guarantee that
>you were a virgin when she started having sex with you?  As I said, MaThiEu,
>this is the attitude that's gonna get you infected.

and where did I get it??? I didn't exchange bodily fluids with anyone
before. I was circumsized in '78, but I didn't get any blood.

>Gee, are you claiming to be an "expert" in the AIDS field?  

actually yes. I have probably done 10 times the research you have into
risk factors and the statistics related to AIDS. I'm not a medical
expert, but in the world of the common man, I am very AIDS literate.

>Yep.  You're another Hetro Jerk who feels "it won't happen to me".  And that's
>a deadly attitude to have nowadays.

yeah......if you have unsafe sex with multiple partners. That simply
is and will never be my case.

>No, because if you're going to ignore it like MaThiEu is, you also stand a good
>risk of becoming infected.

how 'bout we exchange addresses and keep in touch for the rest of our
lives so that one day I can say "face."

>And that's gonna get you killed, MaThiEu.

please tell me oh wise salope.....how will I catch AIDS???
what are my risk factors???

>You have some proof for this, Mr. Truth-By-Blatant-Assertion?  Like maybe the
>police records which show the majority of men who are arrested for having sex
>in public restrooms are married "straight" men?

read Scientific American article from early 1991


why should I be afraid of something that is almost completely isolated
from me???? sure me or my girlfriend could get it from a dentist
or something........otherwise there is no chance of us contracting it.
Maybe you didn't know this, but being faithful DOES still exist in some
relationships. 

just because a lot of people are at risk doesn't mean that everyone is.
Silence=Ignorance=Fear

we have the same risk factors as our parents: contraction through
some sort of medical procedure with tainted boldily fluids

that's simple :)





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Thieves Like Us     for a while....and get to Texas.....I'll have a drink
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