From: mkwan@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au (Michael C. KWAN)
Newsgroups: soc.culture.hongkong,soc.culture.taiwan,soc.culture.china
Subject: Love Clinic (Re: What should I do???)
Date: 16 Oct 92 03:27:02 GMT
Organization: University of Tasmania at Launceston



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	Here are the first responses from three of our hosts to following
letter :-

>Hi netter,

>How do you know that you really love a girl or you just want to find a companion?
>I have big trouble in analyzing my psychological intention when I feel like a girl.  What can I do???
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>Thanks in advance.


Dogs do have a clear borderline between the above two.  

One and only one solution:
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Try to be a dog.  Serious! 

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	From Dr. Lemon to "CONFUSED"

	Don't try to analyze the situation from a girl's point of view. 
You are not a girl, you are a guy!!!  The more you do it the more confused
you'll become.  As the old saying goes:  "What's inside a girl's heart is
like a needle at the bottom of the sea".  Male and females are just
different;  accept it.

	Now, how do you know?  What do you mean by "know"?  The bottom
line is you have to ask yourself what you want.  If you want
companionship, and who doesn't need it, that's not a bad idea in itself. 
And if there are certain aspects about her that you like, then that's fine
too.  But the real problem is, if in the near future, you see someone else
and decides that you like her too, it means you have to really focus on
you feelings.  But mind you, you are still young( well, you are not over
the hill like me, right?), and even if you are not yet focussed, I think
it's still okay.

	Don't try to be a girl, you are not!  Be a man and proud of it!

				Dr. Lemon
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From Dr. Mike to 'Confused',

	If you are being confused by your intention to her, I think
you are just looking for a companion.

	Tell me your feeling when you first met her and I would give you more
details later.
						Dr. Mike
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Dr. Mike                                    Dr. Feelgood
mkwan@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au              stu_wclau@vax1.acs.jmu.edu
Dr. Sleeping Beauty                         Dr. Chilly-B
shsieh@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au             bhchan@soda.berkeley.edu
Dr. Chibi                                   Dr. Dog 
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Dr. Lemon
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