From: kara@BORN.phys.virginia.edu (Kara Jayne Keeter)
Newsgroups: alt.sexual.abuse.recovery
Subject: Re: The Anonymous Service: This Waiter Has A Fake Accent
Date: 16 Aug 92 04:41:54 GMT
Reply-To: kara@BORN.phys.virginia.edu (Kara Jayne Keeter)
Organization: Dept. of Physics, University of Virginia

This is perhaps futile, but I must try anyway...

In reply to the person self-described as the fake psycho kitten:


>
>**********************************DISCLAIMER********************************
>This post is being made from someone else's account.  I do not have
>net access on my own or an email address. The owner of this account has
>NO IDEA just what I'm posting or to where.  Please do not send any
>correspondance to this account!!!  I will not have any access to the
>net (or any network) after I finish posting this message.  There will
>be NO WAY to contact me in any way (so don't bother trying).  
>****************************************************************************
>
>RELKIE:
>
>	I'm the FAKE psycho kitten.  I'm the person who pretended to

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>
>	All the Hail Marys and visits to confessions in the world will
>never make my guilt go away.  I can't help but to feel that I could have
>prevented all of this (or at least delayed the incident until a time that
>you could have gotten away without harm). But I can't change what I did
>or what has been done to you.  I'm sorry just won't cut it this time.  

PK, I make *no* claims to speak for Relkie, and I know I am responding
to a message which was not addressed to me, and I know you may not read
this, but I hope you hear my words and consider them a little...

It is my opinion that you ARE NOT GUILTY.  There are many ways in which
many people may have prevented/delayed various bad things from happening.
You did the best you could do, and it is my understanding that you were
not responsible for any abuse occuring.  You are no more guilty than any 
of us who saw red flags going up and said nothing.

I may not know the whole story, and Relkie forgive me if I've intruded
where I shouldn't have.  This is just my opinion.

>	I'm sorry I can't come to your side now.  As I said, I'll be 

PK, you just did come to her side, at least in as much as you've confirmed
her story here.  That is something.  And I believe that took some courage.

>
>	This is defiantely the last time anyone will hear from me.  I
>won't be around computers for a very long time and I don't think that I
>will ever post again (esp. not anon posting). Please don't try to
>send any correpondance to the acct. in the header!!! I won't ever see the
>message and it will probably be deleted before it's even read.  I've
>really fucked up this time... the best I can do is disappear and hope that
>the person I was falsely posting as doesn't have to suffer anymore

PK, please please don't use this to beat yourself up... I don't think
you need to disappear, I don't think you are to blame...  I don't think
you need to feel guilty, any more than anyone else here...

I hope you do get to read this.  I sincerely hope that, if you need to
post to us, that you will feel safe to do so.  I for one am willing to
post things for you, if you trust me.  There are other people here who 
you may feel safe enough to trust, maybe they would post for you, if
you can get e-mail out.  This is an open forum, but there are at least some
people here who you can *say* *anything* to, and they will keep your
secret, so long as you are not abusing or endangering someone else...

WHOEVER you are, if you need us, I hope you find a way to stay with us.

May safety be with you,

-kk   (a.k.a. Andy, a.k.a. Camelot)
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