From: ap.340@cupid.sai.com
Subject: SM seeks SF in KY/OH/IN tri-state area.
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Date: Wed, 22 Jul 92 02:59:17 GMT
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I posted this earlier, received a couple of responses but none panned out,
hence this repost...in greater detail. I received about 7 responses to my
earlier message. Of these, six ladies live in states/cities that are too far
away. One lives nearby but was interested in a platonic, e-mail relationship
because she is currently involved with someone, a possibly serious
relationship.

I'd try to be as explicit and as detailed as possible. I'm interested in
hearing from any interested single and unattached lady in the Louisville area
or within about 100 miles from L'ville. While I'd like that we get to know
one another and become TRUE FRIENDS, first, I'm open to the possibility of
something more than friendship. I'd not be posting this if I were currently
involved in another relationship, so please, do not bother to respond if you
are involved with someone else.

Now, the customary (obligatory?) stats: I'm 30 yrs, 5'10", 160#. A rather
modest guy, just a college prof. and love what I do for a living but still
have plenty room in my heart for a special friend. My personality? Woody
Allen or Arnold Schwarzenegger (sp?) I'm neither. Instead, I prefer to
combine the sensitivity of the one with the strength of the other. I could go
on to say I'm honest, caring, generous, trustworthy, etc. but who'd say
he/she was dishonest? These are qualities you only find out after you've
gotten to know someone ... and they cannot be faked!

If I've not mentioned my race, religion, etc. its is because these factors
are of no relevance with regard to who I choose to associate with. I've lived
most of my life in far and distant lands, amongst people of different races,
beliefs, etc. What matters most to me is that you respect yourself and
display the same goodwill towards others. Philosophically, I am not *ultra*
anything (conservative, liberal, etc). I do not concern myself with high and
lofty matters or with things too lofty for me> I aim for a tomorrow that will
be better than yesterday or today but I am always satisfied with what I can
accomplish. I'm decidedly rational and pragmatic.

Looks? I'm not Mr. Atlas, Tom Cruise, neither do I think of myself as *God's
gift to women*, so to speak. I am very comfortable and confident with my
looks. Although it would be nice if you are beautiful (whatever that means),
you don't have to be Miss America!! Matter of fact, I'd prefer plain Jane,
the girl next door, ... petite to average height and weight, early 20s to
30something. But ultimately, it is what is inside you that counts more: ...
positive self-esteem, positive attitude towards life, upbeat, vibrant, and
down-to-earth. It will be wonderful if you are emotionally and mentally
stable. I was not abused by my folks or anyone in my life. I wish I could say
the same for everyone out there!!

Lest I sound like this *perfect* guy who indulges in little or no fun or has
no flaws .... no, no, no, that is not the case. With the right person, I can
be incredibly funny. With the right person, sometimes I act downright silly!!
My hormones may get out of whack and I'll feel like jumping her bones ... but
you can be sure of this: I'll do nothing that she does not like, neither
would I make a spectacle of myself. I'm a light, social drinker. I know I
should quit smoking, especially when I play soccer. I don't do hard drugs ...
never did, never will. There you have it, the not so wonderful side of me.

Before you wonder whether there are women where I live? Yes, and many pretty
ones too. However, I'm new in the area and haven't gotten my bearings yet.
Second, it is a small community and I'd hate to make the error of talking to
someone's girlfriend. And finally, I've never thought that it is very
appropriate to date women who work with me.

I think I should shut up for now. Have a wonderful summer. And if you are
female, single, unattached, interested, and live in the area ... welcome to
my world.

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