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From: nmw1638@cs.rit.edu (Nicolas M Williams)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Dominos (was: De-muffining, me too!)
Date: 14 Apr 92 02:58:07 GMT
Organization: Rochester Institute of Technology, Rochester, NY

In article <1992Apr13.170502.899@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu> max@drycas.club.cc.cmu.edu (Max Handelsman: liberal hippie subversive dude.) writes:
>In article <1992Apr12.225105.23690@vpnet.chi.il.us>, orc@vpnet.chi.il.us (david parsons) writes:
>>    Springtime in Chicago.  You know, the temperature goes down to freezing,

Here they go up to freezing :-)

>	Hey, how many of us are there in the Northeast?  There are a lot of 

Well right here in Rochester, NY, there's Kevin and me, and a few other
people who don't read or post but who exist nonetheless.

>Northwesterners, and a lot of people in the Windy City on the list, and 
>quite a few from across the pond, but the closest address I could identify 
>was Sharon's in Wash. DC!  Anyone for a NE get-together?

ME!, me me me!!!! This way it'll be closer, but hey the Seattle orgy (oops,
I mean con) is already in the makings.

>		-Max

Nick 
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Disclaimer: My opinions are mine!
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: pmm7@ellis.uchicago.edu (peggy boucher murphy (you had to ask?))
Subject: Re: red hair again?
Reply-To: pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu
Organization: University of Chicago Computing Organizations
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 1992 18:18:21 GMT

In article <1992Apr9.153439.22268@midway.uchicago.edu> h431@midway.uchicago.edu writes:
>In article <1992Apr9.150758.1294@spdcc.com> pentangl@spdcc.com (Scott Moir) writes:
>>In article <1992Apr9.012037.9025@midway.uchicago.edu> pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu writes:
>>>the great red-head hunt is on!!!!
>>>olaf's keeping the list, with names and (hopefully) e-mail 
>>>addresses!  (if have red hair and wantto be hunted, let him 
>>>know (-:)  ...
>
>And what about 'ginger' hair that used to be red?

*e-flirts*
of *course* it does, heather!  ;)
i can vouch for heather, folx.  we want her atthe seattle orgy, too...
;)
btw- ellen, who wants in on the red-head hunt did neglect to mention
that she herself is a *strawberry*blonde*!!!  yes, ellen, your secret
is out!  
heh heh heh

;)
peg
-> There must have been, and I should have noticed it was probably a
    -> sarcastic comment, before reacting to this the way I did.
    -> Nick
    -> --

having been chastised (hi tim ;) ) for not fully appreciating the
difficulties in recognizing sarcasm... may I now redeem myself and
add that it _is_ hard to tell sometimes, so don't feel bad for
reacting to something that disturbs you.  Better to speak up
when something seems wrong than just to let it sit.
pearl

Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: pclary@polyslo.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary)
Subject: Re: bisexuality a fad? (was Re: Bisexuality and Furries...)
Date: Wed, 08 Apr 92 01:01:32 GMT
Organization: Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo, CA - aka Barnum & Bailey

pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu wrote...
>In article <1992Apr6.010102.24161@polari.com> elf@polari.com writes:
>about a class he's teaching... 
>>   Pretty interesting; I've spent most of my time talking about my wife
>>(mostly because we're dealing with female anatomy this week), but it'll
>>be interesting when it comes relevant to reveal that I spent most of
>>Saturday night collared and chained to the foot of DeWolf's bed. :-)
>
>is there anyone besides me that found this mental imagery *intensely*
>appealing, and is *very* jealous of dewolf?  
>;)  
>
>peg
>-who is mopping the drool off her keyboard-

Now peg, you know that you've been warned before about drooling on
your keyboard.  You've been very naughty.  Now put your hands
behind your back - that's good - you like these wrist restraints
don't you?  That's it.  What? you want them tighter - well...
I suppose.  Now what should we do with you?  You want what?
Well maybe...

--
 Patricia "Ellen" Clary              | "Caution: Ice pick weilding bisexual
 pclary@polyslo.csc.CalPoly.EDU      |  fag dyke.  Do not agitate."
 pclary@nike.CalPoly.EDU             |         A 'Catherine Did It' T-Shirt
From: pmm7@ellis.uchicago.edu (peggy boucher murphy (you had to ask?))
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Stereotypes and bisexuality (wasRe: Coming out to teachers...)
Date: 9 Apr 92 16:00:02 GMT
Reply-To: pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu
Organization: University of Chicago Computing Organizations

In article <MDAY.92Apr9113446@jukebox.lcs.mit.edu> mday@jukebox.lcs.mit.edu (Mark Day) writes:
>
>I don't think that the "breeder" insult is specifically connected to
>your plans for children.  So I don't think it makes sense for you
>to defend yourself based on the fact that you don't plan to have kids.
>
>Why do I care?  Because it seems like it's just a short step from this
>line of defense to the idea that "you can't be bi if you have kids."
>And that would be just as wrong as characterizing you as a "breeder"
>simply because you married a man.

gosh, i *hope* not!  if having kids meant you couldn't be bi, i'd
be in *big* trouble!!!  i'd have to look for a *new* group to fit 
in with... "omnisexual breeders" perhaps?  

;)
peg
From: pmm7@ellis.uchicago.edu (peggy boucher murphy (you had to ask?))
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: bisexuality a fad? (was Re: Bisexuality and Furries...)
Date: 9 Apr 92 14:52:11 GMT
Reply-To: pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu
Organization: University of Chicago Computing Organizations

In article <1992Apr08.010132.14226@rat.csc.calpoly.edu> pclary@polyslo.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary) writes:
>pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu wrote...
>>-who is mopping the drool off her keyboard-
>
>Now peg, you know that you've been warned before about drooling on
>your keyboard.  You've been very naughty.  Now put your hands
>behind your back - that's good - you like these wrist restraints
>don't you?  That's it.  What? you want them tighter - well...
>I suppose.  Now what should we do with you?  You want what?
>Well maybe...

ooooh!  
promise?  if i know i'll get *this* i'll be *really* bad!  ooooh!

(of course, wait till *you're* bad... heh heh heh)
peg
;)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: twpierce@amhux1.amherst.edu (Tim Pierce)
Subject: Re: Coming out to teachers...
Organization: Amherst College, Amherst, MA
Date: Fri, 10 Apr 1992 14:38:28 GMT

In article <3070@cs.rit.edu> nmw1638@cs.rit.edu (Nicolas M Williams) writes:
>In article <1992Apr7.193030.12213@amhux2.amherst.edu> twpierce@amhux1.amherst.edu (Tim Pierce) writes:
>
>>A very good point.  So I'll switch to the other argument I can think
>>of offhand: where ARE the numbers we're asking textbooks to print?
>>How many formal studies have been done on bisexuality and its
>>relationship to heterosexuality or homosexuality, and so on?
>
>I wonder if you've looked around?

Yes, thanks.

>I know I didn't try very hard to find any
>such studies (I looked for books on bisexuality in the library here but they
>only had two books as opposed to an inumerable numbers of books on
>homosexuality), but this summer, when I go home, I promise to go to the NYC
>library and do some research.

Very little has been explicitly published on bisexuality, and there
exist no actual studies of bisexual identity or behavior that I know
of.

-- 
____ Tim Pierce                / "Someone here suggested blue square badges for
\  / twpierce@amherst.edu      /  straights.  Maybe we should try mauve
 \/ (BITnet: TWPIERCE@AMHERST) /  heptagons?" - Damian Cugley, on soc.bi
From: gtoal@castle.ed.ac.uk (Graham Toal)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Looking for fun sex games to play.
Date: 12 Apr 92 22:38:48 GMT
Organization: Edinburgh University

In article <204796@unix.cis.pitt.edu> was1+@pitt.edu (Scott A Wayne) writes:
>
>	Hello,
>		I am a 19 year old bisexual male.  I am in a relationship
>with another male.  I have a question for those of you who are experienced
>in the area of sex and sex games.  What are some fun, new and exciting
>ways to have sex with another man?  If you have any ideas, feel free to
>E-Mail me personally or post a response in this newsgroup.  Thanks.

There's something about Wayne's writing style that has made me hold
back from writing to him until he posts again some time; I have a
minor niggling suspicion this might be a case of someone having
left their terminal unattended...

(but if you're really you, Wayne, have a welcoming *hug*...)

Graham
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: binetter@sdf.lonestar.org (Ben Cole)
Subject: Dallas Conference
Organization: sdf Public Access UNIX, Dallas--unrestricted free shell access
Distribution: soc.bi
Date: Fri, 17 Apr 1992 05:05:05 GMT

Bi-Net Dallas is (gulp!) pleased to announce our first Regional Conference:
                     South Bi Southeast:
			Creating our own Community.
			   September 19-20, 1992

We in Dallas have noticed that there are folks out there, particularly
in the Southern States, who feel very isolated from other lesbigays.

The primary focus of this conference is those people who DON'T live 
in an area where there is already a network of bisexual/bi-tolerant people, 
such as San Francisco, or Mass. We do have some plans for speakers (stay
Francisco or Mass.  We do have some tentative plans for speakers (stay
tuned for further developments), but plan to mainly focus in workshops
in which we can share  ideas on what has (and has not) worked.
We also plan to join in the Dallas Gay Pride Parade.

Interested parties can replay via email to me or by snail mail to:

Bi-Net Dallas,
P.O. Box 190712
Dallas, Tx. 75219

Or by phone:

(214) 504-6612
From: ptd2@po.CWRU.Edu (Palmer T. Davis)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: good places to not fit in
Date: 16 Apr 92 00:35:55 GMT
Article-I.D.: usenet.1992Apr16.003555.3401
Reply-To: ptd2@po.CWRU.Edu (Palmer T. Davis)
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, OH (USA)


In a previous article, sara@castle.ed.ac.uk (S Hopkins) says:
>Ro Reid writes:
>
>>Sara (gullfriend!) - I'd sign up for the brown hair hunt club - it's my favorite
>>(tho I admit to practically a fetish for the combination of grey
>>eyes and blond hair).  Bi-hairlial, as I've mentioned....
>
>Anyway it's nice to know there are some brown hair hunters out there,
>I'm multi-hairial meself tho, so watch out **all of you**, Sara's
>hunting you ...
>

Eeep!  Eeep!  *runs and hides*

-- 
                      ______    "It may be better to be a live jackal than a
Palmer T. Davis       \ \/ /     dead lion.  But it is better still to be a
<ptd2@po.cwru.edu>     \/\/      live lion.  And usually easier."  -- RAH
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: e-flirts
From: pwiebe@ecst.csuchico.edu (stephanie mandell)
Date: Fri, 17 Apr 1992 10:10:30 GMT
Organization: California State University, Chico

In article <1992Apr16.135342.6048@panix.com> ro@panix.com (r l reid) writes:
>In article <1992Apr14.181847.1200@ecst.csuchico.edu> pwiebe@ecst.csuchico.edu (stephanie mandell) writes:
>>Oh, gimmee a break with this shy business...  The grin gives it
>>all away.
>
>The fact that I did not just stare at the floor the whole time gives it
>away!  No, in the flirt the shyness is just part of the routine.  No
>one who knows me the last 5 years or so believes I was ever shy - 
>tho I was once almost terminally shy.
>

Ha!  For me it's been just the opposite (except for my entrance
here, it seems).  No one whose known me for the last 10 years can
believe how quiet I've become in the last 5.  I know the backs of
my hands and the tops of my shoes better every day.

I've been sitting here for days, reading, and forgot I was
supposed to participte!

Steph


Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: ro@panix.com (r l reid)
Subject: Re: good places to not fit in
Date: Mon, 13 Apr 1992 16:32:46 GMT
Organization: Playdoh's Republic

In article <20118@castle.ed.ac.uk> sara@castle.ed.ac.uk (Sara's ElectroPostie) writes:
>hopkins@coulin.turing.ac.uk (Don Hopkins) writes:
>
>>Oh yeah, I like looking at *anything* yellow, especially in black leather. 
>>(My friend has this soft long haired golden yellow cat that I just adore, 
>>but cats sure hate wearing collars, so I'll have to settle for humans...) 
>
>Well, my cat is tortoiseshell so there's plenty of yellow in there ...
>my hair's just yer common or garden brown I'm afraid, no brown hair
>hunts going on out there?  >{8-(

Don - maybe we could get a little MC jacket made up for the cat.

Sara (gullfriend!) - I'd sign up for the brown hair hunt club - it's my favorite
(tho I admit to practically a fetish for the combination of grey
eyes and blond hair).  Bi-hairlial, as I've mentioned....
-- 
		r l reid	ro@@panix.com
@WOOF, QUACK AND  MEOW: Composers of Woof present a variety of computer music 
[Apr 26, 8:30 pm, Cunningham Dance Studio 55 Bethune (Westbeth), NYC)]
[Apr 30, 8:30 pm, SIA, (410 W 118 St, top floor, NYC)]
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: ronni@glia.biostr.washington.edu (Taisia)
Subject: Re: Looking for fun sex games to play.
Organization: University of Washington
Date: Mon, 13 Apr 1992 20:42:00 GMT

In <204801@unix.cis.pitt.edu> was1+@pitt.edu (Scott A Wayne) writes:


>	Hello again,
>		My name is Wayne Scott and I am really me.  In any case, I
>am fairly new to newsgroups and I am trying really hard to learn my around
>them.  It becomes difficult when people like Graham disencourage someone by
>saying that will not write.  I am a bisexual and haven't had much sexual
>experience with men.  I have had more experience with women.  I am now
>involved in a relationship with another man at the age of 20.  He was a
>virgin until we met.  In any case, neither one of us know of anything outside
>of the ordinary hand-job, blow job, and rubbing our bodies against each
>other. (Pardon the bluntnes)  We are both turned off by any type of anal sex.
>If you have any ideas on how to make the ordinary seem extraordinary, please
>let me know.  I am very nervous about writing on here and am trying to relax
>about it.  Just keep in mind that I am new to newsgroups and new to sex with
>men.  Thank you for listening.  I hope to hear from some kind soul soon.

>					Sincerely,
>						Wayne

 Well for starters there are a lot of things one can do with any sex
<male or female>  Trying different sensations on the body, warm/cold
unusual objects.  Trying different positions.  Oral sex can be something
different if you try different positions <him on top facing down etc>
Being the fact I am a bi female and my primary partner is male, we do more
than just intercourse <giggle>  <But then again we've tried to find different
things>  Light bondage, holding down your partner, wrestling, showers/baths
<they are great for getting in touch with your partner's body>  
 Take your average manual experience and try new techniques.  Creativity is
just the ability to do things spontaniously.  My best manual experience with
my SO is when he and I both masturbate/manually stimulate him.  He takes the top
half of his shaft, I take the bottom and work with his balls.  <Try it if
you can.  It takes a bit of corrdination...but works well>
From: sean@cs.strath.ac.uk (Sean Ahern)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: red hair again?
Date: 13 Apr 92 15:28:42 GMT
Organization: Chainsaw Reprogramming Ltd

In article <1992Apr13.090406.1779@aber.ac.uk> tcg8@aber.ac.uk (Telsa Christina Gwynne) writes:

>I think I need consoling for losing the chance to be on the orgy...
>sniffle.

   Hopefully Stockport (or wherever) will take your mind off it, huh?  :)
We got a camerapersonage yet?

White Rabbit
From: rivk@ellis.uchicago.edu (nora gayle rivkis)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: too perverse? (was Re: I am Muffin! I am INVINCIBLE!)
Date: 8 Apr 92 05:39:01 GMT
Article-I.D.: midway.1992Apr8.053901.9165
Reply-To: rivk@midway.uchicago.edu
Organization: University of Chicago Computing Organizations

In article <1992Apr08.011556.14554@rat.csc.calpoly.edu> pclary@polyslo.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary) writes:
>kmj1@PL118f.cc.lehigh.edu (kate marie) wrote...
>>wow, i finally got the courage to demuffin. hugs/kisses/licks, anyone?
>>
>*hugs*kisses*slurps*
>the celebration may commence!
>Welcome to soc.bi kate!
>There will be an April ex-muffin initiation.  But we haven't 
>worked out all the details yet <grin>.  Any suggestions gang?

Am I invited, or did I demuffin too early?

>Ellen

	-Nora


-- 
Oseh shalom b'imromav, hu ya'aseh shalom aleinu v'al kol yisrael.
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: monitn@jec316.its.rpi.edu (Nicholas Monitto)
Subject: A Question- "Muffin"? "De-muffining"?
Date: Thu, 9 Apr 1992 02:08:33 GMT

  Hi folks! Just wondering... I've sat here reading the posts for a while, 
and one thing has been eluding me. What exactly is a "muffin"? And what is 
"de-muffining"? Just wondering... :)

  Nick, the Self-Radiating TeddyBear (tm)
  (monitn@rpi.edu)

  "That's great, it starts with an earthquake,
   Birds and snakes and aeroplanes.
   Lenny Bruce is not afraid."

  "It's the End of the World as we Know It (and I feel fine)"
   REM
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: twpierce@amhux1.amherst.edu (Tim Pierce)
Subject: Re: Biphobia in TORCH SONG?
Organization: Amherst College, Amherst, MA
Date: Thu, 9 Apr 1992 14:19:39 GMT

In article <1992Apr08.220023.0177584@locus.com> mjl@Bos.Locus.COM writes:

>I don't recall that the audience is given any firm reason to
>believe that Ed won't have a relapse and return to is
>negative-stereotyped bi ways.  Does anyone recall otherwise?

From the film, I didn't feel that I was given any reason to believe
that Ed WOULD have a relapse.  His character had changed enough for me
in the final scene to believe that his reformation was meant to be
pretty complete.

-- 
____ Tim Pierce                / "Someone here suggested blue square badges for
\  / twpierce@amherst.edu      /  straights.  Maybe we should try mauve
 \/ (BITnet: TWPIERCE@AMHERST) /  heptagons?" - Damian Cugley, on soc.bi
From: wdechent@usenet.umr.edu (William L. Dechent)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Stereotypes and bisexuality (wasRe: Coming out to teachers...)
Date: 13 Apr 92 17:45:39 GMT
Organization: University of Missouri -- Rolla


    (I still haven't learned how to respond so that I can take the post
I'm answering and include parts of it in my response--could someone 
email instructions?)

    This is in response to Don's post about being called a fag.  I call
myself bisexual, but I from the way I see it the words fag, queer, and the
others apply.  I realize the word homosexual is often used as a noun, but
I think it can also be used as an adjective or maybe an adverb, and in those
senses it applies to me and is something I am fiercely proud of.  I am as
homosexual as any guy who will *react* (I'm a chemist too) with a motos. 
    When I came out as a bisexual I was concerned that my friends would think
I was using bisexual to distance myself from terms like gay, fag and queer, an
evasive move of some sort.  I hope I have been able to prevent this.

Larry

 ____
 \bi/
  \/

wdechent@clciris.chem.umr.edu

I think of it also as an adjective (or should I say adverb?), and in that sense it applies to me, and is
something I am fierceliiy proud of !:)!
From: cjmchale@cs.tcd.ie (Ciaran McHale)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Dominos (was: De-muffining, me too!)
Date: 14 Apr 92 10:31:08 GMT
Organization: DSG, Dept. of Comp. Sci., Trinity College, Dublin.

In <1992Apr13.224454.17961@pellns.alleg.edu> sunthej@alleg.edu (Jake) writes:

>						Jake
>		Who finds the athletic look about as appealing
>		as waxpaper, boiled football leather, and dog breath

Whatever turns you on, man. But I'd advise you to let the football
leather cool down before you hmmm... "use" it.


<>I'm waiting for a "scientific paper" to conclude that
<>homosexuality is natural because it has been observed
<>in humans. --- Scott Amspoker (scott@bbx.basis.com)

Ciaran.
-- 
Ciaran McHale                                                            ----
Department of Computer Science, Trinity College, Dublin 2, Ireland.      \bi/
Telephone: +353-1-7021539  FAX: +353-1-772204  email: cjmchale@cs.tcd.ie  \/
From: alyoung@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (amy young)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Stereotypes and bisexuality (wasRe: Coming out to teachers...)
Date: 8 Apr 92 19:29:30 GMT
Article-I.D.: bronze.1992Apr8.142940.18817
Organization: Indiana University

In article <30960@skye.dcs.ed.ac.uk> db@dcs.ed.ac.uk (Dave Berry) writes:
>In article <1992Apr3.011356.21929@polari.com> elf@polari.com writes:
>>   One of my greatest fears is that I am a stereotype.  It doesn't help that
[...]

>I have the opposite fear.  Since I'm monogamous and have had few lovers,
>I can show people that their stereotypes of bisexuals are wrong (assuming that
>they believe me when I tell them I'm bisexual).  But I don't want to implicitly

I get sick of being told I'm not "really" bisexual because I am
deciding to marry a man.  Sorry folks, but the person I happend to
fall in love with and feel a spiritual bond with happens to have a
penis.  I didn't order him that way, and it't not like I felt the same
way for a woman and turned her down before because I wanted to fit the
social "norm."  I have been called "just another breeder" by bi's as
well as lesbians.  This shows really how stupid and quick to judge
these people are, for I may very well be infertile, and besides, he
and I have decided that with this society, we don't want children.  So
I didn't marry just to get sperm...  

What if I decided to have a long term relationship with a woman?
Would I not be a real bi then?  I don't hear that sentiment usually.
What's the difference?  

The stereotypes are rediculous.  How many times do I hear that being
bisexual means you MUST have a partner of each sex at the same time at
all times?  I don't understand this.  Where did this come from?  

amy
-- 
******************************************************************************
"Quick to judge, quick to anger.... slow to understand. 
	       		Ignorance and prejudice, and fear, walk hand in hand."
              						--Neil Peart
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Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: elf@polari.com
Subject: Re: Bi Quotes and Red Heads
Organization: Seattle Online Public Access Unix
Date: Mon, 13 Apr 1992 09:00:06 GMT

In article <1992Apr10.072050.5383@vax.oxford.ac.uk>
     cen@vax.oxford.ac.uk (Tanaqui) writes:

> rhiann@milton.u.washington.edu (Sandra Hereld) writes:
>>  pmm7@midway.uchicago.edu writes:
>
>>>i know have *one* more reason to  visit seattle (and wash u).
>
>> Would you two *fine* ladies be interested in collaborating excessively
>> with me...???
>
>Well, peg? Nothing exceeds like excess, so they say. So, the Seattle
>orgy is Sandra, peg, Ellen & me so far..?

AND... In article <1992Apr11.015718.2918@henson.cc.wwu.edu>
     n8442349@henson.cc.wwu.edu (Joy) writes:

>   Can we make Bellingham an honorary suburb of Seattle
>for the con?  [bats eyelashes in semi-obligatry flirt]

   Wait wait wait!  What about me?  Am I *not* invited for some reason!
I promise to bring cute, beautiful, tall, blond DeWolf and sexy,
lovely, green-eyed Omaha!  I do I do!

   Elf !!!
--
Civilization has branded you.  You will never be free unless you view
everyone and everything as suspect.  Food.  Drink.  Speech.  All
society's tools.  Everyone lined up and accounted for.  In formation.
                                          -- Number Six, The Prisoner
Elf Sternberg    elf%polari@uunet.uu.net  <-- checked twice daily.
elf@halcyon.com  elf@seanews.uucp  elf@pismo.uucp