From: ap-poly.242@n7kbt.rain.com (Bart)
Subject:        Slow hands MWM ISO F&C - E.MA and SFO
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Date: Mon, 23 Nov 1992 23:20:16 GMT

Hi!  I'm a polyamorous married Caucasian male in search of compatible
couples and females in central/eastern Massachusetts (or San
Francisco, see below).  

This is a long post.  But it's that way to save both of us time and
aggravation.  Read on and you will find out about me and the kind of
folks I am interested in meeting.  I hope we can start something
exciting.

I'm over forty (look 30's), 5'10" tall and weigh 190 lbs.  I'm
muscular, lean, chemical-free and tested HIV negative.  I've been
married for more than twenty years.  My spouse knows of and
understands my activities.

Professionally, I'm a director at a computer company near I-495 (west
of Boston).  It is an easy drive to the city and surrounding suburbs
from my home.  My job provides opportunities to travel and explore,
and I enjoy taking advantage of them, especially when I can rove off
the beaten track.  I have a wide range of interests in the arts,
music, dance, sports, conversation, and good company.  I keep my self
physically fit, and I've been watching mankind (and myself) with
amused interest since I graduated from college.

During the 80's, my spouse and I had swung as a couple for a few
years.  Gradually, we realized that our needs for variety had
different strengths.  She no longer swings.  However, with her
knowledge and permission, I seek my own discreet friends with whom I
enjoy erotic adventures.  I am posting this because I wish to add a
few more couples and/or females to my circle of acquaintances.  In
exchange, I offer intelligence, imagination, discretion, off-beat
humor, respect and a chance to explore of some of your own desires in
a permissive setting.

I like almost all that people can do to and with each other.  I have
few prejudices as to age or race, though I favor those whose weight
and height are in proportion.  Attractive women who enjoy showing off
in lingerie or revealing outfits are welcome with me anytime.  I love
oral activities.  I'll play make-believe domination or other games
as a part of someone's fantasy.  I give excellent massages that can be
adjusted to whatever level of eroticism you enjoy.  I'm surgically
safe, not camera-shy and I love to take photos myself.

On the flip side, I abstain from risky sex activities.  I want to
enjoy this lifestyle for many years to come.  I'm not into pain,
one-night stands or high body counts.  Quantity will never make up for
quality.  Finally, I believe that 'No' means NO.  We all have to
consent if we're to enjoy each other.

So, I'm comfortable in a broad range of situations.  I prefer the
company of people who enjoy the journey as much as the destination.
If you've been looking for someone who loves to stimulate your
imagination as well as your body, who appreciates a discerning
approach to physical pleasure, who understands the difference between
erotic and carnal, then please reply.  Actually, even if you're only
curious about the lifestyle but have no one to ask, I'll try to answer
your queries.  Some wonderful friendships have developed with people
who only wanted answers to honest questions.

I'm not in a hurry.  I want you to feel comfortable with me and with
yoursel(f/ves).  You should believe that this really is an intriguing
opportunity for me.  As I said earlier, my goal is to expand somewhat
the number of my polyamorous friends.  It's been diminished recently
by economic and other dislocations.  You'll find me willing to spend
the time exchanging email and meeting socially to develop the
friendship, trust and confidence needed for a satisfying relationship.

My present responsibilities take me to and from San Francisco several
times a year as a destination and as a stop on my way back from the
Orient.  I'd like to hear from interested parties in the Bay area too.

If you've ever hoped for or fantasized about an opportunity like this,
carpe diem!

Thanks.

ap-242

P.S. To those who would rather not exchange a lot of email, I can
     send you my U.S. mail P.O. box number to continue our exchange.




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