HDTenEightyP/NetNews huggingface dataset:
From: rommel@uhunix.uhcc.Hawaii.Edu (Rommel Raj)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: SWF (26) seeks SM (27+), San Francisco Bay area
Date: 21 Jul 92 05:45:32 GMT
Organization: University of Hawaii

In article <14dj66INN7rp@agate.berkeley.edu> barks@garnet.berkeley.edu () writes:
>In article <s=cmxn.bob@netcom.com> bob@netcom.com (Robert Becker) writes:
>>In article <1992Jul20.013238.10650@lemuria.sai.com> ap.2532@cupid.sai.com writes:
>>>
>>>YOU:  Smart!  Master's degree or higher (working on it is okay).
>>
>>Why do people specify this?  It doesn't really mean much.
>
>I think that people specify educational level as a way of assuring 
>common experiences, more than they do for how smart they are.  
>[stuff deleted]  But I agree with you that weeding
>out people without MA or higher is a sadly misguided way of looking for
>friendship or love!
>
>Gary
>
Your point is well taken.  What I think is sad is how ap.2532 words her
expectations.  The implication here is smart=master's degree or higher.
In my experiences (which may not be common), I found little (or even
negative) correlation between intelligence and academic achievement.

Mike
Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: mluders@snuffy.wa.atk.com (Matthew_Luders)
Subject: Re: Seeking New Friends
Organization: Alliant TechSystems Inc.
Distribution: world,local
Date: Thu, 30 Jul 1992 00:01:32 GMT

Tim:

I believe that's spelled "Nietzsche" not "Nietche".  

Matt
From: kan9691@bcstec.ca.boeing.com (Ken Niedermeyer)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Iguanas, and more...
Date: 31 Jul 92 13:40:18 GMT
Organization: Boeing Computer Services, Seattle
X-Newsreader: Tin 1.1 PL4

mlw@cisco.com (Monica Waldman) writes:
: In article <1992Jul29.171937.19686@news2.cis.umn.edu> rose@wagner.cbs.umn.edu (Rozalie Enriquez) writes:
: >2 weeks ago I met a great guy with whom I was instantly enamored.
: >1 week ago we moved in together, [...] >every night at 9 he puts 
: >5 Billy Idol CDs into the disc changer, 
: >cranks the volume and sets it on random play.  Then for the next 
: >2 hours he terrorizes my pet Iguana Clyde, chasing him around
: >with a wooden baseball bat between his legs, screaming "Tastes
: >Great!  Less Filling!"
: >Now, call me old fashioned, but I believe it is harmful for a 
: >young, energetic iguana to be forced to develop a conditioned
: >fear of Billy Idol. 
: 
: As the owner of the iguana from hell, my advice is don't worry
: about the lizard.  Kill it, put it on a rotissaire and dig in.
: You'll feel better.
 
And what type of sauce would you recommend with that? 8-P
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From: darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu (Darkmoore)
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
Subject: I NEED A MAN!
Date: 29 Jul 92 06:30:29 GMT
Followup-To: poster
Organization: Purdue Computing Center



  I want to see you naked now!




  I bet that got your attention didn't it?
  Actually this is Darkmoore again, this time I am looking for some
  help.  As some of you wonderful people may know--I am a fine arts
  student here at Purdue.  I am in the need of models for my life-
  drawing class and for my photography class.  I am seeking both men
  and women to pose, however, I am leaning towards the men more  :).
  
  If anyone in the Purdue/Lafayette area would like to be artistic
  e-mail me for further details at....

                      darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu

  Thanks for the attention netters,

  Darkmoore.




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From: eab@uh.msc.edu (Edward Bertsch)
Subject: Re: Loss and how to adjust/Joan's son
Organization: Minnesota Supercomputer Center
Distribution: usa
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1992 22:45:04 GMT

not to play down the feeling bad/how to get over it aspect of this and
the other poster's story, but Joan, what ever happened to the guy
who killed your son?

Personally (even though I don't have any children) I would have definately
found this guy and messed him up.  Prison is too good for people who do
things like what happened to your son. 

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From: crystal@glia.biostr.washington.edu (Crystal)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: PERSONALS ARE STUPID! SEX IS FOR WIMPS!
Keywords: pain, stupidity, shame
Date: 29 Jul 92 13:36:17 GMT
Organization: University of Washington

In <2467@tau-ceti.isc-br.com> cecilw@access.isc-br.com (Cecil Williams) writes:


> jcash@mudshark.csd.sgi.com (Julian Cash) writes:
>>Don't be honest and sincere and creative in your personal.  
>>Instead, just tell them that you have, and that they should have,
>> ...deleted...
>> .............
>>Next time you feel like talking to someone, don't be real with them.
>>Be fake.  After all, you're much better at that.
>>
>>love and kisses
>>-julian


> Uh Oh, it looks like SOMEBODY got up on the wrong side of the bed...


>Cecil

Or else they got up out of the WRONG BED...
From: HOLMES@VAXT.LLNL.GOV ("WHAT, ME WORRY?")
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: HOT, WEEEEEET,STEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAMY.......
Date: 23 Jul 92 04:19:00 GMT

HI GUYS!!!
How has everyone been. Just wanted to post this to get EVERYONES 
attention. What I need is someone to send me a note that this 
actually showed up as a posting. Someone told me that not only
can we not monitor alt.personals, but we can't post. Just wanted
to know for sure. Anyone out there remember me?

Teach
Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: joverton@csws7.ic.sunysb.edu (Jeremiah Overton)
Subject: Re: From Rai.
Organization: State University of New York at Stony Brook
Date: Sun, 26 Jul 1992 02:37:16 GMT

In article <1992Jul25.055902.632@doug.cae.wisc.edu> curtisj@cae.wisc.edu (Curtis Jacobsen) writes:
>In article <1992Jul20.091257.2828@memstvx1.memst.edu> mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu writes:
>>Hi Guy (generic)
>>
>>Damn, I'm glad the requests for that .gif stopped pouring in I almost
>>drowned. 
>>
>>Anyway, I'm back from the flood.
>>
>>Rai.
>>
>>P.S. Curt, You were so good.
>>
>>Rai.
>
>Well, thank you, Rai!
>
>I KNEW that all those singing lessons would come in handy someday.....:^)
>
>Oh Rai, I could FEEL you melt as I robustly sang Weird Al Yankovich's
>"Smells Like Nirvana" to you.....such forbidden thoughts roamed my mind.

"Smells Like Nirvana"????   If you want to charm here, you gotta sing
 "One More Minute"!!!!  And what better way to give the gift of love, 
than with a spatchula....Rai, waddya say me and you have a cadle lit dinner,
Ill cook ths Spam....*smile*


-Jeremiah
Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: avida@nyx.cs.du.edu (Andy vida)
Subject: Re: Cute?  Cute is not the word, but for now... :)
Organization: Nyx, Public Access Unix at U. of Denver Math/CS dept.
Distribution: usa
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 92 14:07:05 GMT

In article <1992Jul20.212547.12221@wam.umd.edu> highway@wam.umd.edu (Acolyte of the Mysterious Ways) writes:
>In article <1992Jul20.163044.5000@xn.ll.mit.edu> tom@xn.ll.mit.edu writes:
>> In article <P234NB1w164w@buscard.fidonet.org> murph@buscard.fidonet.org (Brian Murphy) writes:
>> >Rai's a cute chick, huh?  ;-)
>> >
>> >                                - - - Murph
>> >
>> >-----------------------------------------------------------------------
>> >The Business Card (BBS), Lawrence, Massachusetts - Data: (508) 682-5329
>> >SysAdmin:  murph@buscard.fidonet.org / ...!ulowell!wizvax!buscard!murph
>> 
>> 
>> I have to agree even if she's too young.
>> also I'm new to Xwindows and could the image size be increases
>> for my old eyes?
>>                tiger tom-
>
>Yes, if it is at possible for someone to resize the image and enhance
>the picture after it's been resize... I would like a copy of it and
>would be advisable to send Rai a copy too :)
>
>Yes, I agree with everyone too :)
>
 	Yes, mee too.

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From: salvail@fraser.sfu.ca (Carla Salvail)
Subject: Ivan?
Summary: More troubles :(
Organization: Simon Fraser University, Burnaby, B.C., Canada
Date: Thu, 23 Jul 1992 18:03:50 GMT


Hi Ivan,
I have a letter written, but no address to which to send it.
My system is being ornery (what's new!), and won''t let me just 
say, reply.  It just mails it to ME then.
Please send me your e.mail address, so I can stipulate where 
this thick machine is to send it.
Thanx,
Me
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
From: ap.904@cupid.sai.com
Subject: SWM 23 iso SWF 20-25
Followup-To: alt.personals
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Date: Fri, 24 Jul 92 01:08:11 GMT
X-Iso: SF


Me: SWM, 23, 5'4", MBA student, in Mid Atlantic 

You: SWF, 20-25, non-smoker

(I know, that leaves an awful lot open, but then again, once
you really start limiting yourself, that's when you miss the
person that is "right")



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From: Mother Nature <gaea@zooid.guild.org>
Subject: Re: Why are men so strange?  Swf seeks replies.
Organization: The Zoo of Ids
Date: Mon, 20 Jul 1992 15:22:35 GMT


I'm of the opposite opinion. I don't find all men slimey/scum whatever. In
fact my problem is that there are TOO MANY men who I like. I have a steady
boyfriend now, but if I didn't, I could think of 5 or 6 guys who are single
who I would like to go out with. Several of them have made not unserious
offers too. 

Gaea


Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
From: ap.2901@cupid.sai.com
Subject: GWM looking for someone to talk to
Followup-To: alt.personals
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Date: Sat, 25 Jul 92 13:34:24 GMT
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Hi yall--

I'm 22 and from Louisiana looking for guys 18 and up to talk to.

Please contact me

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From: ap.2725@cupid.sai.com
Subject: hi
Followup-To: alt.personals
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 my name is anna and i'm a 20 year old university student in australia,
i'm studying public relations adn like all types of music except heavy metal and country and western.......

i also like photography and bush walking

hope to hear from you 

anna


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From: bg086@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Brad C. Wallet)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: From Rai.
Date: 23 Jul 92 16:47:17 GMT
Reply-To: bg086@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Brad C. Wallet)
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, OH (USA)


Well, I'm in love.
Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: blm28@cas.org (;A/GG)
Subject: Cecil are you still around??????
Organization: Chemical Abstracts Service, Columbus, Ohio
Date: Wed, 22 Jul 1992 02:56:03 GMT




     Cecil,
	   It's me Kera!!!! Sorry I haven't been in touch
	   latley.  Can I call you sometime at work to
	   say "Hi to you?"


	   Later,
	   Kera
From: zoltar@glasgow.amigans.gen.nz (Grant `Zoltar' Thoms)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re:  an alt.personals.pictures newsgroup
Date: 29 Jul 92 12:52:28 PST
Distribution: world
Organization: Silent Imperium Amiga PD Group

In article <1992Jul27.151518.23242@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com> puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude) writes:
> zoltar@glasgow.amigans.gen.nz (Grant Thoms) writes:
>
>>Someone suggested a little while back about making  a place to post
>>pictures on alt.personals.. Is this going to happen???
>>
>>Just Curious, hey how about some comments on this idea...
>
>There is already a USENET newsgroup that deals with this.
>
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Where???????????????????????


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From: mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Thanks to all....
Date: 29 Jul 92 16:47:57 GMT
Followup-To: poster
Organization: Memphis State University

In article <55319@mentor.cc.purdue.edu>, catherin@sage.cc.purdue.edu (Catherine Manry) writes:
> who sent me warm mail about my foot.....just taking it easy...wondering
> if i should sue my apt complex...anyone got some jaegermeister???
> 
> Ha!
> 
> Me
> 
Catherine? What happened, I must have missed something. Rai.
From: pete_alvarez@ucbvax.BERKELEY.EDU
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: to: someone to talk to
Date: 30 Jul 92 21:10:46 GMT
Distribution: usa
Organization: maillink.berkeley.edu

feel free to talk to me at anytime.  I am a young spirited 39. as a discjockey
at a bar on castro street in sanfrancisco, i am very close to the sf scene.  if
you have questions, concerns, etc. send me a line. 
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From: ap.2138@cupid.sai.com
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
Subject: DJM Vegetarian - Interested in Meeting Intelligent,
Date: 24 Jul 92 20:07:24 GMT
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Organization: EZ-Intro Contact Service
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Recently  Divorced Vegetarian Jewish Male:

Classical and Jazz musician with MA in Music, employed as a System's
Engineer  (Figure it?).   I still play and teach music.

37, 5'5" and lotsa extra lbs. but former cross country runner 
returning to old habits.

Vegetarian, Sensitive, Individual, Jewish (not religious), Versatile,
Environmentalist. Devoted father- 10 year old son.

Weaknesses: Can be a pushover, weight, a horrible sense of direction,
not known for my neatness, but always trying to improve.

Competitive Table Tennis player, mediocre tennis player  and would love
to find someone that can run me around the courts.  I enjoy almost any
sport with a ball.   While I like to swim laps, hanging out in the pool
is boring.  Clear mountain creeks, fireplaces, old buildings, history,
books and trains all appeal to me.

More of a doer than a do"ee".  I'm much rather play music, act, sing,
etc. participate than watch someone else do it.  However, I enjoy old
videos, Star Trek, and somehow care if the Mets win or lose.  
          
Owns large pool home near the ocean in high tech community on the Space
Coast of Florida.   However, I miss living in rural America, keeping a
fireplace going on a snow covered mountain. 
                              
It would be nice to correspond with a kind hearted, honest woman, hopefully
musically/artistically inclined, vegetarian, or who knows?  While good looks
are always appreciated, what's inside is what counts. 
                       





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From: puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: Long time no see
Cc: jyoung@Cadence.COM
Organization: None, today. Thank you.
Date: Wed, 29 Jul 1992 13:25:17 GMT

 jyoung@Cadence.COM (John Young) Revs up his engine...

>>(Guesses about Curt's car deleted. Ho-Hum)
>>>It IS made by GM...care to make another guess?
>>Nope.
>>>(We build EXCITEMENT!) :^)
>>Is this a clue that it's a Pontiac which stands for...
>>Poor Ole Nughead Thought It A Cadillac?
>>
>Hey man.........
>I hope you know,Pontiac made some of the best Muscle Cars of all times.

Yeah, John. I know. Owned a '69 Judge that I put in car shows. Bought
it from a mother that used it for a grocery getter. Sold it to pay
for college (I hear that person in the back sayin' I should have
kept it! *grin*). My first car was a '69 Custom S.

>		no flame,..I'm just bored and love Pontiac's

I love them, too! Just can't afford to fill the tank at $2.84 a gallon!

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From: aaldoubo@copper.denver.colorado.edu (Anisa Alnoor Aldoubosh)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: pantyhose and stockings
Date: 29 Jul 92 23:28:14 GMT
Organization: University of Colorado at Denver

In article <1992Jul29.134452.17541@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com> puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude) writes:
>
>Grade 'A' Large.   <ar-ar-ar>  Oh, you meant the hose...

Grade 'A' what?  Or was it Prime A?  (hee hee)

I'll bet you say that to all your buddies......

A. :-)

Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: A.D.
Organization: None, today. Thank you.
Date: Tue, 28 Jul 1992 13:10:18 GMT

 ltf@ncmicro.lonestar.org (Lance Franklin) writes:

>Lance (39, and enjoying the hell out of it!)
>
>"Hey...Didn't we teach you kids to knock first?"

Try vaseline on the doorknob!  :) Works wonders!!!

(33, goin' on 24)

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From: cecilw@access.isc-br.com (Cecil Williams)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: PERSONALS ARE STUPID!  SEX IS FOR WIMPS!
Keywords: pain, stupidity, shame
Date: 28 Jul 92 04:57:19 GMT
Organization: ISC-Bunker Ramo, Spokane, WA


 jcash@mudshark.csd.sgi.com (Julian Cash) writes:
>Don't be honest and sincere and creative in your personal.  
>Instead, just tell them that you have, and that they should have,
> ...deleted...
> .............
>Next time you feel like talking to someone, don't be real with them.
>Be fake.  After all, you're much better at that.
>
>love and kisses
>-julian


 Uh Oh, it looks like SOMEBODY got up on the wrong side of the bed...



Cecil
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From: ap.3049@cupid.sai.com
Subject: boston swm seeking
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Date: Thu, 30 Jul 92 10:28:47 GMT
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I'm a 33-year-old white male in Cambridge, MA, looking to date a
compatible single woman.

Between friends I like conversation best of all; I think it's the main
way we form bonds with people.  I think it's more important than shared
interests.

Shared interests are good, though:  mine include used bookstores,
Chinatown, listening to jazz--live or on record--night forays to Walden
Pond, Mexican food, Raymond Carver stories, reading aloud, walking in
the city, dry humor, dark-roast coffee, Dinah Washington records and The
New Yorker.

I'm 6"2, slender, with brown curly hair and green eyes.  I'm clean
shaven and can pass for my mid-twenties.

I write short stories, I write about music, I teach adult education and
more-or-less scrap together an income.

I'm calm and steady, neither outgoing nor shy but somewhere in the
middle.  I know how to be friends with women; that's not primarily what
I am looking for here but it certainly isn't absent from dating.

Now how can I say what you are? I can guess, though:  you're probably at
least in your late twenties or somewhere in your thirties.  You might
even be in your early forties.  You'd probably describe yourself as
professional, but with strong artistic and cultural interests.  Music or
dance might be in your background.  You're probably white, but possibly
black, Asian or another race.  You might be from the South or elsewhere
and you probably came here for school or work-related reasons.

But, again, how can I say what you are? The thing I'm surest about is
that if we click, it's largely because we can talk.

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From: regan1046@bestsd.sdsu.edu (MARCEL SCHWANTS)
Subject: Re: meeting didn't work- ALERT THE MEDIA!
Summary: facts and *figures* 
News-Software: VAX/VMS VNEWS 1.4-b1  
Keywords:  none
Organization: San Diego State University - Dept. of Redundancy Dept.
Distribution: usa
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 1992 09:03:00 GMT

In article <crystal.711499699@glia>, crystal@glia.biostr.washington.edu (Crystal writes...
>In <1992Jul18.210530.18447@spool.cs.wisc.edu> rawdon@cabrales.cs.wisc.edu (Michael Rawdon) writes:
> 
>>In <1992Jul18.130447.766@miavx3.mid.muohio.edu> jabolliger@miavx3.mid.muohio.edu writes:
>>>In article <1992Jul17.013541.29281@lemuria.sai.com>, darryl@lemuria.sai.com (Darryl P. Wagoner) writes:
>>>> ------ Don't reply to me!  Reply to ap.2306@cupid.sai.com ------
> 
>>>> So what lesson can I teach here?  One that most mature people know by now,
>>>> and for some reason I forgot.  Sexual attraction and romance has A LOT
>>>> to do with someone fitting your image of attractiveness.  Just because
>>>		              ^^^^^^^^^^
>>>	good luck in finding your image in a real person
> 
>>Now, now.  I've found women who fit *my* image of attractiveness.  I even
>>dated one for two years.
> 
>  Those whose minds I fell
>in love with FIRST, are those fellows with whom I have the most solid
>friendships with - AND they are also the fellows who feel as I do...that the
>physical doesn't matter a whole H*ll of a lot in a solid relationship.
>

  It doesn't, as long as both are attracted to each other. Then you can 
  focus on the "mind" and "personality" aspects.

>And if some shallow dude asks ME my measurements, I feel perfectly within
>my rights to answer:
>"If that's all you are interested in, then I'm not interested."
> 
> Crystal


 I wouldn't ask you that because I'm shallow, but to fulfill the element of
 curiosity as well as finding out if you're physically comparable to me. What's
 wrong with exchanging physical info? It adds to an increase of mutual interest.
 I'm sure most hot-looking attractive females wouldn't dare meet with someone
 from the net unless she's absolutely sure he is as attractive as she. To each
 his standard. Mine happens to be high, for good reason, of course.

 Marcel.

>Mind over matter...always!
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