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From: jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (Julie Salter)
Subject: Re: Love Making & Sleep
Organization: Salter, Inc.
Date: Mon, 11 Jan 1993 17:51:49 GMT

lastuka@acs.ucalgary.ca (Tina Lastuka) shares: 

>>>The article I heard about said maing love helps you fall asleep, 
>>>providing you were relaxed afterwards.  What about the times, when
>>>for whatever reason, you are not relaxed?
>
>In article <C0Jn4t.E1K@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu>
>ssalter@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) writes:
>>
>>Then, obviously, you need to make love a few more times...
>>
>
>    I usually don't sleep after... so what I need to know...
>   Being very unexperienced... etc.  
>
>     Is that you need to make love a few more times
>   the same night... (if your partner falls asleep
>  does this mean you have to go find another (or a few
>   more people))??? Or does this mean the more
>  often you make love you relax... so make love
>  every night for about two weeks so at the end of two
>  you should be relaxed and able to sleep?  

Well, I have a serious suggestion among the silly ones in this thread....

Since that does happen to men very often, it might be better to satisfy
the lady a few times before "finishing" the act.  That way, they BOTH
will be ready to fall asleep.  Another thing to try is to "wake the dead"
so to speak.  There's no way he fall asleep then! ;)

BTW, you can email me if you wanna talk about this in detail, Tina.


>   Enquiring minds want to know!

Its all part of love, isn't it.


>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Julie Salter<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
            President, Romantic Fire Association
  Wife of the Official Fireside Sex Advisor..AKA: Steven Salter
"Look into my eyes...you will see....what you mean to me......"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>email: jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
From: lf@marooned.berkeley.edu (LexicographicalFiend)
Newsgroups: alt.romance.chat
Subject: Re: Oh Puter, Its Chat Time!!!!!
Date: 8 Jan 93 18:14:55
Organization: Fiends' Guild of ARCland
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	<1993Jan8.215135.27478@noose.ecn.purdue.edu>
NNTP-Posting-Host: marooned.berkeley.edu
In-reply-to: lisad@dynamo.ecn.purdue.edu's message of Fri, 8 Jan 1993 21:51:35 GMT

GRW mentions:
>Absolutely!!  Hey, EVERYONE at the very first Annual Fireside
>Chat at Steven's was dusted, some several times....

And some with rather unexpected SideEffects...8-)

LexicographicalFiend, Pundis Horrendis Aevi
  Official ReallyGrossDittyWriter of ARCland and DirtyMindedApe
  Bro to Rip, 'Chelle, HotDi, Miche and Sarek; SpiritualBro to Lis
  Still Dusting His UnderPants
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From: puter@orphan.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: Its Chat Time!!!!!
Organization: Intergraph
Date: Tue, 12 Jan 1993 20:45:45 GMT

 ssalter@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-) argues in public with...
|jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (Julie Salter) remarks:

|>>but..but...FREE?..awww honey....
|>Now Dear, almost everyone here is a starving college student.  We've
|>been there, done it.
|Oh...OK! No prob, everyone stays for free but to use the bathroom
|costs a buck a trip! How's that honey?

I got this idea that your shrubbery will get plenty of fertilizin'...

-- 
(Puter is a deranged individual at puter@orphan.nashvil.ingr.com)
The object of teaching a child is to enable him to get along without his
teacher.						-- Elbert Hubbard
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From: rip@sequent.com (Paul T Taylor)
Subject: Re: Best Place for a Sunset...
Organization: Sequent Computer Systems, Inc.
Date: Mon, 4 Jan 93 19:55:19 GMT

In article <1993Jan04.194812.7441@mixcom.com> kkwwkk@mixcom.com (TA Shaw) writes:
>
>Mary writes:
>>>rip(looking forward to seeing everyone in B&B's Paradise....)
>>Uh oh...GEMR yells: BLADE AND BDC -- you didn't tell me that Rip was
>>coming too...
>
>Well Ms GEMR, ya didn't ask!!!
>
>[ripster, why didn't you make reservation.  Everyone has reservations
>about coming to B & B's Paradise ...]
>
>Bruhahahahahahahaha
>
>BDC
>--

But, I thought I had my own table....  *sniff* I thought you loved
me... *snort* *long disgusting nose blow into handerchief*

rip
-- 
Grab reality by the balls, and squeeze...
                                        Tempus
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From: ssalter@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-)
Subject: Re: ASexual Encounter
Organization: OFSA
Date: Wed, 6 Jan 1993 13:42:51 GMT

erisande@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (Nowhere Man) asks:


>	Well, it happens that I am quite into the cloning thing.  I
>was wondering if I could borrow Julie for a while.  I assure you I
>will send you the real one back...  Promise...  *Cackle*

heh heh heh..."borrow" Julie? Do you wish to lose your ability to
procreate, my son?

>
>	It's just a pasttime.

It could be painful...



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From: Julie Salter <jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu>
Subject: Its Chat Time!!!!!
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 Hello everyone.  This is the Salters here with an announcement:
 
 	<<<WE'VE DECIDED TO HOST ANOTHER ARC/RFA CHAT!!!>>>
 
 Yes, that's right, call us crazy, but we decided it would be fun to have
 another chat at our house here in beautiful Bloomington, Indiana.
 
 We haven't decided on a date for sure and would like some input to see
 interest and available dates for everyone.  We would like to suggest either
 the weekend of June 12th or June 19th.
 
 Please email me at the address below if:
 
 	- You can come
 	- You can't come either of those dates (give others you can)
 	- You don't want to come because you don't like us 
  (We don't have an "enemy list" and would really like to start one)
 	- You're afraid we would be really gross in front of everyone
	- You're afraid we wouldn't be gross enough
 	- You are a figment of our imagination and invisible
 	- All of the above
 	- None of the above
 
 Other notes of interest:
 
 	We have a house, so everyone can stay with us for free.
 	We might ask that everyone pitches in a few bucks for food, but
 	  otherwise, we will plan, buy, organize all food.
 	We have 3 cool cats.
 	Steven is a major hunk.
 	But he's mine so forget it.
	Julie is a major babe but she's mine so just enjoy the view.

 
 So, what do ya all think?  Wanna have chocolate dipped strawberries again;
 a bonfire complete with the Good Romantic Witch sprinkling us with majique
 dust (she agreed to do so!); maybe a trip to the lake through the woods;
 and lots of other neat stuff?

 Steven adds:
 And the traditional alcoholic and non-alcoholic champagne for the
 bonfire, don't forget that!

 
 Steven and Julie Salter

		Email Julie at: jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu
From: darren@waikato.ac.nz
Newsgroups: alt.romance.chat
Subject: Re: uhhhh....
Date: 5 Jan 93 11:20:04 +1300
Organization: University of Waikato, Hamilton, New Zealand

In article <peterw.726068350@coombs>, peterw@coombs.anu.edu.au (Clare West) writes:
> 
> There was a girl in my class at primary school with the surname South
> (and Ross telle me he knew a guy called East) so we've got the compass
> covered.
Oh yeah? Well what about Mr Nor-east? Ms Sou-west? Mmmm?
> 
> clare
> only 5 days to go...
Yeah, until you get back to Godzone (as well as seeing your true love as well
of course). New Zealand seems so boring with you gone!

-- 
Darren
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From: rmair@nyx.cs.du.edu (Ross Mair)
Subject: Re: Aussie Mini-Chat Official Report, Part II
Organization: University of Denver, Dept. of Math & Comp. Sci.
Date: Wed, 6 Jan 93 08:19:32 GMT

peterw@coombs.anu.edu.au (Clare West) writes:

>rmair@nyx.cs.du.edu (Ross Mair) writes:

>>We had lunch at an Italian restaurant in the city, with Clare demonstrating
>>a hopeless weakness for avocados - waiting while the kitchen to buy more 
>>rather than settling for something less in her foccacia bread. :-)

>Hey, didn't I tell you that the reason I'm going out with Edouard is
>because he has an avacado tree in his back yard? :-)

So, does the poor guy know he's being used just for his avacados??  :-)

>>After lunch, we cruised around the northern shore of Lake Burley-Griffen,
>>looking at some of the sights like the Water-Jet, the symetrical view of
>>Old Parliament House in front of the new one, and finally to the Carillion,
>>a mechanised bell-tower that is located on a wonderfully picturesque island

>He doesn't mention getting lost going to the Carillion - as I was
>navigating I guess he's just being polite. What a nice guy!

Well - as that didn't have a [tm] at the end of it, I'll take it as a
compliment, rather than a putdown!  :-)  Thanks Clare!  *HUG*
Actually, I was trying to find the way there, and getting lost. Clare
took one look at the map - and pointed us in the right direction.
Don't take the blame Clare - you did great!  What a great girl!

>>view that overlooks the whole city. Back at Clare's place, we sunk some
>>*decent* Aussie beer (Clare was quite impressed that some Aussie beer could
>>taste good!), before she and Ruth went to a neighbors for a previously

>Yes, I have to admit that there is beer to be had in Australia that
>tastes good! It feels almost un-patriotic to say it but it is true -
>they can make a real pilsner!

Yes! It can be said! We do have *a* real beer! Glad you liked it!

>>To Clare, thank you for a great time. I know your stay in Canberra has been
>>a long and torturous separation from Edouard. But that is nearly over now.
>>Thank you for opening yourself up to me, letting me visit, instead of just
>>lying there missing Edouard. I hope my presence helped the time of your
>>separation from him go a little quicker. Its my wish that it did.

>Thank you for coming up to see me, Ross. You certainly helped make the
>time go faster. I was really pleased to meet you, and it seems I have
>known you for a long time rather than the short time its actually
>been.

Glad I could help. Being in love is precious... being separted from that person
is heart rending. I'm glad I could ease that a little.
I know what you mean - we feel like old friends now.
NOw, when can I scratch out a week to visit Auckland..... ???  :-)

>*Warm HUGS* to you too Ross.

and *HUGS* back to you, too.

>only 38 hours to go....
      ^^^^^^^^

How now? Less than 24??  Look out Auckland!!  :-)

*HUGS*

--
Ross
Official Personal Bodyguard to Lis, the Good Romantic Witch
***********************************************************

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From: jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (Julie Salter)
Subject: Re: Romance vs. Lust...
Organization: Salter, Inc.
Date: Tue, 5 Jan 1993 17:22:03 GMT

erisande@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (Nowhere Man) aka: cutie pie shares: 

>	Geez.  I know more and more people who think the way Drac is
>pointing out, and it IS sad.  If I would have never gone for a romance
>relationship, I would not have met anyone so special as the woman I am
>with now.  I don't think I could face it.

Life without romance or at least the DREAM of romance would be useless, would
it not?  Romance is wonderful and adds so much spice to life.


>>Exactly, my love.  I never understood that until about a year ago :)
>
>	Aw... thanks, Julie...      OH!     You meant Steve?  Ah.
>Sorry.  Um...  NEXT!

*giggle*  Oh Erin...you're so silly....and jealous that Steven swept me
away before you could. *kiss on cheek*  Well, you have Cathy now and isn't it
wonderful how things worked out!


>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Julie Salter<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
            President, Romantic Fire Association
  Wife of the Official Fireside Sex Advisor..AKA: Steven Salter
"Look into my eyes...you will see....what you mean to me......"
>>>>>>>>>>>>>email: jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
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From: verwey@acs.ucalgary.ca (Mary-Ann Verwey)
Subject: Re: Holiday blues
Date: Wed, 06 Jan 93 23:14:13 GMT
Organization: The University of Calgary, Alberta

In article <1993Jan6.043311.14796@mtu.edu> bacon@mtu.edu (Jeff Bacon) writes:
>In article <robg.726292971@citr.uq.oz.au> robg@citr.uq.oz.au (Rob Geraghty) writes:
>>*WARMSUMMERYSNUGS* from Oz where the temperature is 30 degrees on the
>>*positive* side of the scale.  Unlike Calgary!  Brrrrr....
>
>bleah to you too. worse, you're probably talking in celsius aren't you.

Hi Bacon :)

Yep, Celsius it is :) 

MA is totally envious of the positive 30 temps in Brisbane... :P

SNUGS

Mary-Ann

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From: ssalter@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (-=[SLS]=-)
Subject: Re: Its Chat Time!!!!!
Organization: OFSA
Date: Tue, 5 Jan 1993 21:13:17 GMT

Julie Salter <jrsalt@silver.ucs.indiana.edu> invites:

> 	<<<WE'VE DECIDED TO HOST ANOTHER ARC/RFA CHAT!!!>>>

WHAT?!!!??? 

> Yes, that's right, call us crazy, but we decided it would be fun to have
> another chat at our house here in beautiful Bloomington, Indiana.

But...but...but...but...

> 	- You can come

I'll be there babe, count on it!

> 	- You can't come either of those dates (give others you can)
> 	- You don't want to come because you don't like us 
>  (We don't have an "enemy list" and would really like to start one)

Hey, EVERYONE should have a (small) excretion-list, right?

> 	- You're afraid we would be really gross in front of everyone
>	- You're afraid we wouldn't be gross enough

We will try though if there is enough money passed around...heh heh
heh.

> 	- You are a figment of our imagination and invisible

Quite possible knowing some of the ones in this group...:)

> 	- All of the above
> 	- None of the above
> 
> Other notes of interest:

oh goody, I can't WAIT!

> 	We have a house, so everyone can stay with us for free.

but..but...FREE?..awww honey....

> 	We might ask that everyone pitches in a few bucks for food, but
> 	  otherwise, we will plan, buy, organize all food.
> 	We have 3 cool cats.

especially cool this winter! 

> 	Steven is a major hunk.
> 	But he's mine so forget it.

awwwww...honey...but but, I ...oh, heh heh, nevermind.

>	Julie is a major babe but she's mine so just enjoy the view.

or else..grrrrr.

> So, what do ya all think?  Wanna have chocolate dipped strawberries again;
> a bonfire complete with the Good Romantic Witch sprinkling us with majique
> dust (she agreed to do so!); maybe a trip to the lake through the woods;
> and lots of other neat stuff?

Heck, we can climb trees and hanglide off them if ya want! That would
be neat.

Newsgroups: alt.romance.chat
From: robg@citr.uq.oz.au (Rob Geraghty)
Subject: Re: Holiday blues
Organization: Prentice Centre, University of Queensland
Date: Wed, 13 Jan 1993 03:51:42 GMT

verwey@acs.ucalgary.ca (Mary-Ann Verwey) writes:

>In article robg@citr.uq.oz.au (The Official Journeyman-Harper) intones:
>Well we got teased here in Calgary, seemed like ti was going to
>warm up and the temps just dropped again.... 

Oh no!  You mean it's back to -30C??!!
<shudder>

>>-20C!!!! <the harper's teeth chatter>
>MA laughs and gives the harper a nice wool blanket to keep him
>warm and a hot cup of tea :)

Thanks MA!  Like to share the blanket with me?  I believe sharing
body-warmth is standard procedure for arctic survival... :-)
Don't want to see you getting cold!

>>Think I prefer 30C  (86F) and electrical storms to watch in the
>>evenings... :-)
>Oh most definitely :)

Got caught in a storm the other day and was surprised to find the rain
was quite warm - a pleasant change from the heat of the day!

>>Yah!!!  Snowball fight!!!
>MA throws one at Rob too :)

<the snowball explodes across the Harper's nice cup of tea...>
Argh!!  So much for being warm!  Not fair - no snow to make smowballs
from around here!  Maybe if I drive to Koscuisko (it's only 2000km
away:)

>MA snugs Rob and smiles happily...

MUch better!
*WARMSNUGSBACK*

Rob
Official Journeyman-Harper of the RFA

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robg@citr.uq.oz.au         | The gift of love, the joy of life
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Newsgroups: alt.romance.chat
Date: Mon,  4 Jan 1993 02:38:46 -0500 
From: Richard Iswara <ri0a+@andrew.cmu.edu>
Subject: Re: uhhhh....
	<peterw.726068350@coombs>

peterw@coombs.anu.edu.au (Clare West) writes:
> Richard Iswara <ri0a+@andrew.cmu.edu> writes:
> >Self destruction I think. How's that, Ms. West? You know, in all my years 
> 
> Will you people *never* learn - I crossed out all the titles on my
> application form and until I get my Doctorate (wishful thinking maybe)
> I'd like to leave it that way.

Ok, ok my lady of Crossed Out Titles. Thanks for the clare-ification.
(hey, bad puns are still in) :)

> >in the US, I have never known a person with "East" as their LastName. Is 
> >there such a person? Come to think about it, there is "North" but no
> >"South". Interesting, don't you think?
> 
> There was a girl in my class at primary school with the surname South
> (and Ross telle me he knew a guy called East) so we've got the compass
> covered.

Well, that covers it. Now we go on to the seasons. There are Summer and
Winter aplenty. Not Autumn though. I think there might be some Fall and
Spring. Wha da ya think folks?

RickI, the RoadRunner
wondering about vagaries of names

Newsgroups: alt.romance.chat
From: rip@sequent.com (Paul T Taylor)
Subject: Re: anti-happy people attack ARC
Organization: Sequent Computer Systems, Inc.
Date: Sat, 9 Jan 93 04:48:48 GMT

In article <1993Jan07.194901.25355@mixcom.com> kkwwkk@mixcom.com (TA Shaw) writes:
>
>Someone [and yes I do know who, but decided not to use the name]
>wrote about alt.angst people
>>can't experience the joy of ARC
>
>For some joy is not romance.  In the same manner since I
>find pleasure and joy swimming with dolphins or scuba
>diving others may not. [silly fools *BIG SMILEY*]

You ain't getting *me* into one of those things!! :-)

>My whole attitude here at ARC has been one of tolerance,
>(although I do not have a perfect record), who am I to
>impose my beliefs about what is romance, love, or lust
>upon some one else.

's true.  We, like the people in all the other groups, choose to be
here.  But even though that is true, we are still a good
representation of out society.  We have people here who are genuinely
concerned with how the other person is feeling, and we have people
who are genuinely concerned with how others feel about us.  I think
that sometimes we here feel like that because we have been here
awhile, posting in this group, we suddenly have all the answers to
the 'Romantic' problems of the world.

Collectively, we have *alot* of experience floating around, but none
of us is really qualified to run another's life.  Sure, we can share
experience, and say what works for us, but do we really want to tell
someone, 'You should do this, or that...'?  We just don't have the
right.

Besides, no one is perfect...

>So if angst wants to bash arc, so what, maybe in angst
>they are as happy, romantic and full of love as we claim
>to be.  Yes I use the word claim, because all is not as
>we see it on the net.

Too true!  In real life, I am just a shy innocent young man...

>Well, time to get off my soapbox, (besides soapboxes are
>not as strong as they used to be).

Yeah, but sometimes you get a better view of the crowd.

rip
-- 
Truly great madness can not be achieved without significant
intelligence.
                -- Henrik Tikkanen
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From: evorst@ccu.umanitoba.ca (Ed Vorst)
Subject: I'M IN THE RFA !!!!
Organization: University of Manitoba, Winnipeg, Canada
Date: Wed, 6 Jan 1993 18:07:52 GMT

Thanks to all those who gave some feedback on my story (both of you).  The
Prez says I'm to pick a title and announce my joining the RFA.  So here goes:
	Ed Vorst is proud to announce his acceptance into the Romantic 
Fireside Association.  A new sig has been developed strictly for this
occassion and shall be used from now on when on ARC.
	( And now for the unveiling..... )


=========================================================
*		Ed Vorst				*
*	Official Conquistador  				*
*	Deliverer of the HOLY Warm Fuzzies  +		*
*	Protector of the RFA from non-romantics		*
*		and lust-seekers			*
*-------------------------------------------------------*
*	"Peace and Warm Fuzzies to all !!!!!"		*
*-------------------------------------------------------*
*	email: evorst@umanitoba.ca			*
=========================================================
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From: puter@orphan.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: Love Making & Sleep
Organization: Intergraph
Date: Tue, 12 Jan 1993 20:54:12 GMT

 lastuka@acs.ucalgary.ca (Tina Lastuka) tries for experience...

|     Is that you need to make love a few more times
|   the same night... (if your partner falls asleep
|  does this mean you have to go find another (or a few
|   more people))??? Or does this mean the more
|  often you make love you relax... so make love
|  every night for about two weeks so at the end of two
|  you should be relaxed and able to sleep?  

Actually, what needs to be done (and done and done and done) is make
love till you both grind your eyeballs from your sockets, and there
is not one inch of flesh left untouched. Remember to set the alarm for
important things first, such as Spring, the equinox, and anythin' else
that you wouldn't want to miss that year. When all is said and done,
do NOT try to stand. You HAVE heard that most accidents happen in the
home, right? Well, now ya know _why_!

-- 
(Puter is a deranged individual at puter@orphan.nashvil.ingr.com)
The object of teaching a child is to enable him to get along without his
teacher.						-- Elbert Hubbard
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From: lisad@dynamo.ecn.purdue.edu (Lisa Dominique)
Subject: Re: FORGET ROMANCE TRY LUST
Organization: Purdue University Engineering Computer Network
Date: Mon, 4 Jan 1993 22:18:55 GMT

In article <1993Jan03.190105.23432@mixcom.com> kkwwkk@mixcom.com (TA Shaw) writes:
>
>Sorry Dracy baby,
>
>I want romance and love and not JUST sex.
>
>Toodles,
>
>BDC

I'm with you, BDC.... Give me Love and Romance any day;
Luscious LoveMaking will fall right into place....and it
will be better than "just sex" any day....


Lis, The Official Good Romantic Witch
and Honoured Former President
of the Romantic Fire Association

p.s.  Heaven is a *Hug* and a *Smile*
      the Joy of Music and the Beauty of Silence
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From: robg@citr.uq.oz.au (Rob Geraghty)
Subject: Re: Them 'man' pages
Organization: Prentice Centre, University of Queensland
Date: Wed, 13 Jan 1993 00:51:19 GMT

puter@orphan.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude) bemoans:
> rip@sequent.com (Paul T Taylor) tugs at my softwear...
>|Besides, you never said what *kind* of engineer you are.  If it is a
>|*software* engineer, then I must agree with you.  You should read some
>|of the 'man' pages around here....
>My favorite...

>$ man woman
>man: woman not found
>*sigh* *sniff*

Odd, the response here is a little different -

$ man woman
No manual entry for woman.

Figure *that* one out! :-) :'-(

Rob
Official Journeyman-Harper of the RFA

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