HDTenEightyP/NetNews huggingface dataset:
From: kincaid_a@ab.wvnet.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: SWF redhead . . .
Date: 4 Oct 92 00:54:22 GMT
Organization: Alderson-Broaddus College

hey!!  i'm a swf looking for fun and friendship . . . i'm a poli. sci. major,
thatre minor, with intentions of going to law school.  my interests include
reading (esp. romance novels and historical fiction--the civil war era is my
favorite!), history (thomas jefferson is my ultimate hero), listening to music 
(i love just about all of it--country to classical!), acting, and well . . . 
tons of other stuff!  i'm always busy, but never to busy to lend an ear or 
helping hand (if at all possible, without causing bodily harm ;) ).  will 
answer all at least once . . .

ariana 

kincaid_a@ab.wvnet.edu

"the road to hell is not paved with good intentions, but with things that
seemed like good ideas at the time."  --anon.
From: canterbury@ab.wvnet.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: help!!!!
Date: 26 Sep 92 16:37:01 GMT
Reply-To: canterbury@ab.wvnet.edu
Organization: Alderson-Broaddus College

help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
someone has misplaced my name in place of someone elses.
Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: larry@bradley.bradley.edu (L. D. Stratton)
Subject: Re: Announcement
Organization: Bradley University
Date: Wed, 30 Sep 92 17:34:29 GMT

In <BvEHo2.H4D@acsu.buffalo.edu> Innocent Bystander writes:
>In article <BvEE1z.1rs@mentor.cc.purdue.edu>, darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu (Darkmoore) writes...
>> 
>>  This is not important to many who read alt.personals, however,
>>  I did want to tell as many people as possible something that
>>  happened to me last night...
>> 
>> 
>> 

>                              Congratulations!
>                                    -Innocent Bystander

   But Darkmoore, he says that a lot. ;-)
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
From: dimmen@hsr.no (Kjetil Dimmen)
Subject: Re: Hello
Organization: Rogaland University Centre
Date: Tue, 6 Oct 1992 17:54:25 GMT

In article <20925@plains.NoDak.edu>, mickelso@plains.NoDak.edu (Samantha May Shriver) writes:
> I CAN'T READ MY MAIL SO PLEASE STOP!!!!!  I don't know how long it will
> take before I can get it working again.  But I will reply when it is working
> but I need the flood to quit coming.
> 
> Thank You!!!! *hugs*
> 
> Samantha May Shriver

Dare I suggest a 'Followup-To: newsgroup' here?
So that your mailbox isn't filled up with mail from
people telling you how sorry they are that you
cannot read your mail?

D.


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From: v418y7sk@ubvmsc.cc.buffalo.edu (Lauren W.T.)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: GBM  College Student, Despartelly seeking G*M
Date: 7 Oct 92 00:57:00 GMT
Distribution: usa
Organization: University at Buffalo
News-Software: VAX/VMS VNEWS 1.41



 I'm bored....No one will play with me.  I need a project
can you think of something to occupy my time?

It has to be something exciting, intimate, and fun.  Do you have any ideas? 
If so let me know what they are.  I'm eargerly awaiting your response.


        Send all responses to my friends account 


           V418Y7SK@UBVMSD.BITNET

                            or 

                TYES@ACSU.BUFFALO.EDU
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
From: ap.5189@cupid.sai.com
Subject: ISO SWF Balto/DC, or corrospondence from others?
Followup-To: alt.personals
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Organization: EZ-Intro Contact Service
Date: Tue, 29 Sep 92 01:37:07 GMT
X-Iso: SF

Hello All-

     Being yet another person who is not interested in
the local bar scene, I have made the plunge into in the
Washington (DC) City Paper Personal ads.  Since I
already have them written, I might as well post them
here also, you never know where the person you're
seeking may be reading!

     Even if you  aren't terribly
interested, I won't mind reading an opinion or two
about the ads from women, about how I might imporve them!

     SWM 30, convicted of random acts of affection
     and      senseless tenderness seeks
     intelligent conversation, light hearted fun,
     and sweet romance with petite SWF, 24-30 that
     enjoys attention. Grad student a plus.  I've
     been described as smart, funny and cute - 
     Call and form your own opinion.

     Starts October 8th-
     
     SWPM 30 ME: 5'11", Black curly hair, enjoys
     traditional music, museums, movies, and sweet
     romance.  Still idealistic about love, and
     believes the brain is the most erotic part of
     the body. You: petite SWF 24-30, bright,
     sense of humor, doesn't mind receiving lots
     of affection from the right person.  But
     wait, there's more!  Call now to order...

The first one was written for me by an ex, and we
shamelessly stole parts of it from personals she has seen
in the SF area.

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From: kdo@lucid.com (Ken Olum)
Subject: Re: alt.personals.ads DOES NOT EXIST (?) ["technical post"]
Summary: I created it.  I tried to do it right.
Organization: Lucid East, Sharon MA
Date: Wed, 7 Oct 92 01:30:27 GMT

In article <Bvnw42.3GL@news.cso.uiuc.edu> furio@uiuc.edu (furio ercolessi) writes:
>I noticed that many ads apparently go to a newsgroup
>called 'alt.personal.ads' which is not carried by our site....
>this group is not in the list of alternative newsgroups...
>
>>Date: Mon, 05 Oct 92 11:05:44 EST
>>From: spaf@cs.purdue.edu (Gene Spafford)
>>
>>I have no record of an alt.personals.ads, nor have any of my usual
>>sources of alt group listings sent me info indicating it exists.
>>Without some confirmation that it exists at more than a few sites, I
>>won't list it.
>

I created alt.personals.ads.  The idea was to have only advertisements
on alt.personals.ads and all discussion and flaming on alt.personals.
I attempted to follow the suggested alt-group creation procedure,
posting an RFD on alt.config, waiting for discussion and so on.  But I
didn't see anything particular that I was supposed to do to get the
group added to list of alt groups.

I'll send mail to Gene Spafford and see if I can straighten things
out.
straightens things out.

					Ken
From: ltf@ncmicro.lonestar.org (Lance Franklin)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Boing! Bungee Jumping - Nude or O5therwise
Date: 25 Sep 92 22:28:00 GMT
Organization: NC Microproducts, Inc.

In article <zoltar.06tl@glasgow.amigans.gen.nz> zoltar@glasgow.amigans.gen.nz (Grant Thoms) writes:
}In article <17658@autodesk.COM> mickw@autodesk.com (Mick Washbrook) writes:
}>In article <1992Sep18.010133.5045@lemuria.sai.com>, ap.4968@cupid.sai.com writes:
}>> 
}>> Last but not least I am clean and monogamous when it comes to
}>> you-know-what.  
}>
}>Er...auto repair?
}>Scrabble?
}>Bungee jumping?
}
}Did you know that Bungee Jumping was started in New Zealand?
}
}Hmm, maybe I should have a go at nude Bungee Jumping :-)

As long as you're clean and monogamous when you do it!

Yup..."New Zealand, where Men are Men, and the Bungee are nervous!"


Lance "Bungee Liberation Movement" Franklin
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Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
From: darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu (Darkmoore)
Subject: Re: Butch Female seeks Femme Male
Followup-To: poster
Organization: Purdue Computing Center
Date: Tue, 29 Sep 1992 17:47:03 GMT

In article <2926391713.0.p00139@psilink.com>, "Raistlin Majere" <p00139@psilink.com> writes:
> >DATE:   23 Sep 92 16:58:51 GMT
> >FROM:   ap.5313@cupid.sai.com
> >
> >ME: W, Butch, hairy legs, strong, 5'9", heavyset, career-oriented, wear
> >pants and "male" garments exclusively.
> >
> 	So why the hostility? Still pissed off at God because you
> 	weren't born with a dick? Massive gender repression, man.
> 	Get yourself some soft, cuddly little dyke and you'll be
> 	better off.
> 
> >YOU: Femme in appearance and attitude, any race, passable, wear 
> >dresses and skirts only, homemaker-oriented, passive.
> >
> 	In your (or Darkmoore's ;-) dreams, sweetie.....

  Alright guys, leave me out of this one.  I only get hot over people who...
  well......are men.  So I'm sorry that I can't help anyone out there.


> >R. U. a convincing MTF TV/TS who would like to be the "wife" in a 
> >relationship with total role-reversal?  Serious replies only please;
> >reply only if you are truly committed to living full-time in dresses.
> >
> 	I could be......but the dress thing would be a drag (no pun).
> 	O.K., so the reply wasn't serious.....sue me.
> 

  Darkmoore.



Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: tyger@netcom.com (Kitty in the Middle)
Subject: Re: IMPOSTER ABUSING MY ACCOUNT!
Organization:  I'm part of a massive Blonde Conspiracy
Date: Wed, 30 Sep 1992 18:37:42 GMT

ksm@abb-sc.abb-sc.com (Ashley Sebastian Kaos) writes:
>tyger@netcom.com (Kitty in the Middle) writes...
>
>>This being the USA, it is perfectly alright to be bigoted, ignorant, and 
>>obnoxious, but what on earth makes these people think that anyone else wants
>>to hear about it? It *must* be the new flock of frosh dweebs...is this 
>>fuzz bumper/fudge pumper business what passes for wit these days?
>
>
>	I couldn't agree more. Sometimes I am shocked by the rabid homophobia 
>of these drooling inbred jackasses. I guess being from the San Francisco are, 
>where FAGGOT is often a term carried with PRIDE, I got the benefit of not 
>having the option of becoming a redneck hick. The original poster of this 
>"fudge-packer" snivel should take a good look around him and realize how many 
>of his friends/teachers/parents/lovers/etc. are gay or bi. It can be a 
>shocking experience when you realize the sheer numbers of people who are 
>considered "wrong" by the cultural standard. And when you see a graphic 
>depiction (like this one) of how bad the prejudice really is, I have to 
>wonder how many straights are out there trying to stay straight every day, 
>pretending they don't dream about it, don't feel that way, just trying to be 
>"normal".....

I was in the back of beyond of San Diego county, and I still didn't run into
this attitude. It wasn't till I went away to college that I saw this, and it 
was often hard to tell what was real and what wasn't because someone posting
from a pirated account would often say hateful things to make the real account
holder look bad, as in the case of Mr. Affourti, or whatever the name was. 
Sometimes, however, it was real, and that was truly apalling to me. 

In other news, I am straight, and I take offense at your seeming implication 
that even straight people that don't say anything feel hatred and loathing 
towards homosexual people. That is just plain and simply BS. It's also untrue 
that I and other straights need to work at being straight...it just happened 
that I am romantically and physically attracted to men, not women. I was 
always taught,nay, had it well-nigh beaten into me that I was to respect 
others, and not deride those that had different belief systems or whathaveyou. 

As such I have very little tolerance for bigots, although I feel it is their
right to feel as they do, and say so.

>		...pardon me if my fortunate upbringing makes me a little 
>shocked. I just get blown away when I realize how backwards the rest of the 
>country can be. I guess in most place this kind of bigotry is considered 
>"acceptable". Glad I live here!

Amen to that! 

>			- Ashley

   Tyger
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From: arcane@cybernet.cse.fau.edu (Kendrick Davis)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Darkmoore has upset Puterdude...
Date: 26 Sep 92 05:54:05 GMT
Organization: Cybernet BBS, Boca Raton, Florida

mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu writes:

> > > Personally I like reading your comments.  Everyone is welcome to their
> > own opinion, and no one has the right to condemn them for it.  If they
> > don't like it, well then let them just stick it where the sun don't shine.
> > 
> > Ride on Darkmoore,
> > 
> > Ghostrider
> 
> Definatly!!! Everyone has a right to post whatever, whenever, even about
> whoever! 
> 
> Rai.
> (Speaking as former Net.godess :) )


  As to Ghostrider's term... (can *I* ride you Darkmoore?)

  As to Rai's phraseology... (how does one become a "former" godess?)

  As to PuterDude's comments: (Do not force me to become involved.)



 Love to *All*   (hug DarkMoore)  
 
                          -< ARCANE >-
Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: tyger@netcom.com (Kitty in the Middle)
Subject: Re: IMPOSTER ABUSING MY ACCOUNT!
Organization:  Boogie Rats on Speed
Date: Wed, 30 Sep 1992 00:31:30 GMT

puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude) writes:
>tyger@netcom.com (Kitty in the Middle) notices...
>
>>This being the USA, it is perfectly alright to be bigoted, ignorant, and 
>>obnoxious, but what on earth makes these people think that anyone else wants
>>to hear about it? It *must* be the new flock of frosh dweebs...is this 
>>fuzz bumper/fudge pumper business what passes for wit these days?
>
>Close, Tyger. Change the 'w' of 'wit' to 'sh', and you got it right.

Oh DRAT! I hate typos! :P Thanks Puter, that explains a lot!

>Puter	

   Tyger
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Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: <None>
From: foot@wittenberg.edu
Date: 1 Oct 92 13:43:21 -0400
Organization: Wittenberg University































menu

In article <1992Sep28.172013.2769@wkuvx1.bitnet>, futrena@wkuvx1.bitnet writes:
> Hello.  I am searhing for some firsthand information on the continent
> "down under", Australia.  I am hoping to travel there someday. 
> However, I am presently stuck in B.G. Ky.  No offense intended.  This
> place can be soooooo boring.  
> 
> What I would really like to know is what its like to SCUBA dive the
> Great Barrier reef or any other area around Australia.  Tell me
> anything about this relatively mysterious place.
> 
> Thanks in advance.
> -- 
> +===============================================================+
> |Nathan Futrell			|DangerMouse:  Penfold...	|
> |futrena@WKUVX1.BITNET		|Penfold:  Yes...?	  	|
> |Western Kentucky University	|DM:  SHUSH!		  	|
> |Bowling Green, KY		|P:  Oh, Ick!		  	|
> +===============================================================+
From: anonymus+1085@godiva.nectar.cs.cmu.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: PGH BiWM ISO Couples
Date: 5 Oct 92 15:48:59 GMT
Organization: Anonymous contact service

Hi,

I am a tall, thin physically fit Pittsburgh BiWM (28) looking for
erotic adventures with couples and fun singles.  My definition of
couples is > 1 person.  So tell me what your definition is and 
what you would like to try . . .  Safe and mutually satisfying
situations only!

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From: anonymus+1171@godiva.nectar.cs.cmu.edu
Subject: --none given--
Organization: Anonymous contact service
Date: Sat, 3 Oct 1992 10:11:14 GMT

I had nothing to say, until now....

Are there *any* worthy females out there?? 
Now you may ask, worthy of what? I am not sure I 
can cover all of the possibilities. So you tell
me what you are worthy of, and if I think it worth
my while.... I might give you a chance to prove
yourself... That is, if I feel you have what it takes,
to make a lasting impression on *me*..... Ahhhh, but
keep in mind, I am not easy to impress. And if you do          
impress *me*. I will give you a weekend or longer you won't  
forget. The challenge has been laid on the table. Feeling
lucky? If so, save yourself the embarrassment.... I want
confidence shown to me, proof by example.

And what about me? I am a body builder, I own a business
and I, also, work in the computer field. I am 29 years
old. So, enough of me, lets hear from you... 

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From: anonymus+651@godiva.nectar.cs.cmu.edu
Subject: S.F. Bay Male seeks same!
Organization: Anonymous contact service
Date: Fri, 2 Oct 1992 00:35:20 GMT

S. F. Bay area Males sought by 5'll" blond, blue, 180lbs WM (forty-something).
Your age, sex, color, physical shape or martial status is of interest,
but of no real importance.  Let's talk, it can't hurt.
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From: darkmoor@mentor.cc.purdue.edu (Darkmoore)
Subject: Thank you for your support!
Organization: Purdue Computing Center
Date: Wed, 30 Sep 1992 15:32:42 GMT


  I just wanted to take a little time and thank everyone who sent me
  e-mail asking me not to quit posting on the net.  I really do 
  appreciate the responce I have recieved.  I wasn't sure if anyone
  was reading my posts or not anymore.

  Of course, this leads me to my next point...if PuterDude has placed
  me on his kill file list, then why is he still responding to my
  postings?

  Hmmmmmmmmmmm...any ideas?

  Darkmoore.





Newsgroups: alt.personals
From: puter@no1home.nashvil.ingr.com (PuterDude)
Subject: Re: Flame Wars and ignorance
Organization: Intergraph Corporation
Date: Fri, 2 Oct 1992 16:06:30 GMT

 dwells@lonestar.utsa.edu (Darren . Wells) writes:
>In article <1118@abb-sc.abb-sc.COM> ksm@abb-sc.abb-sc.com (Ashley) writes:

>> Eniway, as I am new at this, and since I see a few of my posts and
>>attempts at mail are failing, I'd appreciate it if someone could mail me a
>>nice cheat-sheet, not a tome, but a quick guide on how to use this thing, if
>>they've got one sitting around. I still not sure how to do what I'm doing!
>
>Feel free to forward one to me too.  :)

Your System Administrator is always your best source of information on
your system. Also, there is a newsgroup called news.announce.newusers
which posts weekly all the articles that should be read before posting
to USENET.

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And you thought there was something here to read...
From: anonymus+1224@godiva.nectar.cs.cmu.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: SWM ISO "Alyssa"
Date: 5 Oct 92 05:59:17 GMT
Organization: Anonymous contact service

that's right, the one from the new Fox Television show, 'Flying
Blind'. 

fortunately, i'm no "Neil"; instead, i have long hair, program for a
living, am not a virgin, and don't really even like jewish food. i do,
however, melt at the sight of "Alyssa"; her velvet-soft skin, her
swan-like neck, and her usually-not-covered-much breasts. i ooze into
a puddle at the sound of her voice, or the toss of her head. i also
understand her need for art, for life, and for adventure. going to
tahiti for the day does not interrupt my schedule. i live on little
sleep, and don't work with used-car-salesmen sexist dweebs. my
grandmother already knows i'm "straight", and never, EVER interferes
with my sex-life (she doesn't like stairs, and i live on the second
floor, so...)

so, if you'd like to go skiing in the Alps for a day, just give me
30 minutes advance notice (gotta pack my skis!); if you'd like to
melt me into sexual oblivion, please reply.

-c-
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From: ap.1325@cupid.sai.com
Subject: Travels Borne, Travelers sought...
Followup-To: alt.personals
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Organization: EZ-Intro Contact Service
Date: Sun, 27 Sep 92 11:56:36 GMT
X-Iso: SF


Travels Borne, Travelers sought...
 
to explore each other, to fit together, and share each others dreams. White male
of 30, seeks more than a female friend. We are intelligent, sensitive, explorers
searching for something we cannot find alone. Taking risks is our nature, seeing
things around us are sometimes quite different than the normal view.
 
Laugh and the world laughs with us, cry and the world hands us a hanky.
 
 


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From: ap.5570@cupid.sai.com
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
Subject: Seeking Gay Indian Males
Date: 2 Oct 92 22:01:05 GMT
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Hiya!

Just checking to see if gay indian men exist out there.
If you wanna start a friendship, reply soon. This is a limited
time offer.
I won't bite and I'll tell you about myself on initial contact.


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