From: mmoore@staff.tc.umn.edu (Malcolm D. "None of ya Bizness" Moore)
Subject: Re: Why we go for non-black women:
Organization: University of Minnesota
Date: Tue, 5 Jan 1993 06:45:14 GMT

In article <1993Jan1.155419.25716@csus.edu> chaneysa@nextnet.csus.edu
(Stephen A Chaney) is obviously lookin to throw down when he writes: 

$I just had the joy of having a black woman lecture me, sister to
$brother, so to speak, about my girlfriend, who is caucasian, just
$before Christmas. She takes it upon herself, as if she were in Jungle
$Fever the movie!, to lecture me about black pride. She went on about
$how wrong it is to do this to black women and that there are plenty of
$black women who are looking for brothers now.

$I do not prefer black women because:
$1) They have the disposition of a hornet. I have never seen anything
$more stressful as an angry black woman (but hey, they get it from some
$of the men, too - but not me). 
$2) They disrespect black men and I see it every day. They are
$unforgiving - one stutter or one blunder and they're all over you,
$making fun of you.

[...]

$#1: COOL OFF. You'll never stop black men from dating outside the
$    race if you keep up your nasty attitude. You talk about how bad
$    black men are, but look at yourselves, too. (And I know some 
$    guys who act like PUNKS, but you treat us like we are all punks.)
$#2: Do I have to dress up like Gucci for you? Do I need to become a
$    Mister Perfect to avoid your unnecessarily nasty disrespectful
$    attitude? I don't call you "bitch" or "hoe" and I don't slap

[...]

$I am one of those many black men who don't date race. We date ideology
$and attitude - race is irrelevant. If you can't handle it, tough. But
$for the sake of not getting an ulcer - leave us alone. We don't bother
$you if you don't bother us. Bother us, and you'll get very badly
$disrespected, and we'll be waiting when you send your big, ugly, ape
$brothers and fathers to punish us for not conforming. Do them a favor
$and do not send them after us.

Damn, dude, how long have you had this on your chest?  I understand
where you're comin from but you comin way outta left field with some
of this shit.  I mean, what does Anita Hill have to do with dating
sistas?  She got jacked around by a motherfucker who obviously had no
ass at home (cos if he did he sure wouldn't be fuckin around at work
right?  Kin I get a witness!) But that ain't even the point, you're
saying that all sistas ain't shit cos you got dissed by some of them,
and one of them fronted you and said that you shouldn't be datin a
white girl.  Well, old girl shouldn't have been all up in your bizness
like that, that's true, but you in turn shouldn't be making blanket
statements about sistas.  I've been dissed by hella sistas but I don't
think they're all shit.  I've been dissed by hella white girls too, in
fact, I'm just recoiling from gettin dissed HARD by a white girl.  So
all that shit you said in your first letter is *definitely* not
limited to sistas, although it does exist in one form or another.  But
you certainly can't go sayin "Sistas ain't shit/I'll date women that
are more tolerant/boo boo this/boo boo that" and expect sistas to be
like "Well damn!  Steve done called us out!  Guess we better clean up
our act!"...more than likely a sista will tell you to take your
opinion and place it in a crevice deep inside your anus.  In other
words, you have to come at them in a different way.  That's up to you,
but it's gonna have to be different.

Believe me, we share some common things so it ain't like I don't know
what I'm talkin about...I too, believe in substance over style (ie you
won't see me wearin no Gucc shit or nothin like that, havin no fresh
ride, boo boo this, boo boo that), I don't fuck around with narcotics,
what the fuck else did you say?  I ain't no type of gangsta (although
I am a wannabe) and I do date outside my race, however, I think you do
it for different reasons than I, whereas I'm doin it because I want to
do it, not because I harbor any hate toward sistas, you seem to have
some unsolved shit goin on as far as sistas are concerned.  You plain
contradicted yourself when you said "I don't prefer black women
because they have the disposition of a hornet, they make fun, boo boo
this, boo boo that", then, you're at the end like "I don't date color,
I date attitude."  Don't tell me you're not classin sistas out.  White
girls can be even worse than that, motherfuckin *I* should know!!  

So first off, you gotta sort out your shit, then you need to come at
everybody a little bit less rude, maybe then people will wanna hear
you out.  You certainly don't get clout by bein a dick.
-- 
Malcolm Diallo Moore, CIS-Univ. of Minn.                mmoore@staff.tc.umn.edu
				            	    moor0009@student.tc.umn.edu
"Aww, nigga! You know you all that and a          malcolm@mermaid.micro.umn.edu
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