From: elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
Subject: Re: the "oh" experience
Originator: elf@halcyon.com
Reply-To: elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
Organization: Pendor, UnLtd.
Date: Thu, 20 Aug 1992 10:37:12 GMT

In article <1992Aug20.092642.14147@nwnexus.WA.COM>
     elf@halcyon.com (Omaha Sternberg) writes:

>In article <1992Aug20.083522.12898@nwnexus.WA.COM>
>     elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg) writes:

>>Yes, Omaha and DeWolf are the best of friends and love each other
>>very much; Yes, I find May very attractive and, if Omaha's relationship
>>with her starts going anywhere I'd love to get to know May better, but
>>I don't insist that I be a part of those relationships, and I don't
>>insist that Omaha be a sexual component of DeWolf and my sexual lives.

>   Not only that, but DeWolf and I have a SEPERATE relationship going as
>well. DeWolf is the only person I have found who can physically force me to
>be a bottom, as it were.

   Ah, but even so, your noisy wrestling matches (I swear, if you break
a _second_ bed, I'm not going to let you sleep in the third! :-), while
they're sweaty and energetic, they aren't _sex_.  Your relationship
with him is based on something other than cock'n'cunt.

>DeWolf and I have a wonderful time doing this, and its
>something that Elf doesn't like that much (he's so DELICATE, giggle).

>Anyway, as Elf says, we can't really function well if we're always in
>on each other's sexual lives. It adds an air of mystery, trying to
>imagine what DeWolf might be doing to Elf right now.

   Hmmm... I'll have to remember that.  I'm more of both voyeur and
exhibitionist than she is (a hard thing to beleive, I'm sure,
considering she was stripper before she became a respectable
oceanographer) so I enjoy hearing about and talking about where my
relationship with DeWolf is going, and where hers with May or whoever
she happens to be interested in, male or female, is going.

>   Hey, Elf chill out babe. I mean, after all, many times YOU presume to
>have the answer to everything.

   Ah, but I'm not doing that in this case, am I, dear!?!?  I am merely
informing Kamal of his grevious error in presuming to speak for the
whole human race.  

   "Chill out babe?"  You _never_ say stuff like that in real life!

>>   [ Snide mode on ]
>>
>>   Nineteen years, huh... let's see... 1973?  Well, that explains a
>>lot.  Your entire post reads like a swingers manifesto from 1976.
>>Guess what?  The 70's are DEAD!
>>
>>   [ Snide mode off ]
>
>   "[Snide mode on]"? Pulease! The 70's are dead?! What, did you go out and
>kill it yourself?!

   If it isn't truly dead, I'll go take care of it now myself!
Platform soles, polyster suits, mood rings, the Bee Gees and The
Village (of the Damned) People, Alex Comfort, Stayin' Alive... Do you
really think _any_ of that decade is worth going back to?

>But that's what makes our marriage work so well, we're so different,
>and yet the same.  Simple and not so simple.

   Yeah, tell me about it.  Folks, meet my wife.  Soc.bi, this is
Omaha, Omaha, this soc.bi.  Treat them nicely, don't bite.  Except Kay,
he likes that sort of thing.

>   I can't stress this point enough...WHATEVER WORKS FOR YOU IS WHAT YOU
>SHOULD DO...NOT WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE SAYS SHOULD BE DONE.

   Exactly, m'love.

   Piglet, there is only one thing I will dare to DEMAND that you do.
And that's communicate.  Omaha and I get along and have gotten along
for seven years despite our difference because we _want_ this
relationship to succeed.  We get along with my lovers, we get along
with her lovers, becaues we talk _constantly_ (to the point of engaging
in flaggellation with the proverbial deceased equine) about where we
are now, where we're going... getting assurance, reassurance, and
ultimately, believing that the other is being truthful with us.

         Elf !!!
-- 
Elf Sternberg    __   |     I have looked into the abyss, and the abyss
elf@halcyon.com  \/   | has looked into me.  Neither liked what we saw.
elf@polari.online.com |                              - Brother Theodore