From: clare@nynexst.com (Clare Chu)
Subject: Re: Oriental-ge Women and the Fetish Thing -- Hypocrisy Lives (Re: A question of "loyalty" & this marriage thing)
Keywords: asian, american, racism
Organization: Nynex Science and Technology
Date: Fri, 18 Dec 92 14:35:54 GMT

In article <1992Dec18.063535.7899@leland.Stanford.EDU> underdog@leland.Stanford.EDU (Dwight Joe) writes:
>In article <1govk9INN7g2@agate.berkeley.edu> bhchan@soda.berkeley.edu
>(Billy H. Chan) writes:
>> In article <1741@rwja.umdnj.edu> jpark@rwja.umdnj.edu (John Park) writes:
>> >Just out of curiosity, how many AA's out there have a strong parental
>> >pressure to marry asian?
>>One right here.  Strong Parental pressure to marry a Chinese or Chinese-
>>American female.  Not only is there a racial preference, but there's also
>
>Gee.  Look at what Mr. Chan, a Chinese-cu, is saying.  His parents want
>him to marry exclusively Chinese-ge.  (In fact, there are hordes of
>Chinese-cu Chinese-ge boys who want to marry only exclusively Chinese-ge.)
>
>Amazingly, although hordes of Chinese-cu appeared out of nowhere
>to condemn Caucasian-ge men (on s.c.a.a.) for preferring only Oriental-ge
>women, none of those same Chinese-cu have even once condemned Mr. Chan's
>parents (or the hordes of Chinese-cu Chinese-ge boys who prefer only
>Chinese-ge women) for wanting their children to marry only Chinese-ge.

  What's the point of condeming Mr. Chan's parents on the net?
  They probably don't even read this group.  Since Mr. Chan lives
  in Berkeley, maybe you can go over to his house in person and
  explain to his parents why their Chinese-cu behavior is unacceptable.
>
>
>Well, just what kind of sound reasoning do Mr. Chan's parents have?
>Huh?  They don't have any sound reasoning for preferring a Chinese-ge
>daughter-in-law.  The only justification that they offer is:
>"I just want my son's wife to be Chinese-ge."  So what?  What kind of
>justification is that?

  They don't have to justify their Chinese-cu feelings.  After all,
  they're Chinese-cu, how can they think otherwise???  They're beyond
  all hope, alas...
>
>But naturally, Chinese-cu jerks think that this is okay and normal.
>(What a bunch of hypocrites!)  Don't believe me.  Go back over the last
>50 or so posts to this group; not one of those posts accuses Mr. Chan's
>parents of being morally depraved.  However, if you go back to those posts
>about Caucasian-ge men, you will find that many of those posts denounce 
>Caucasian-ge men (and Chinese-ge women who go out with them) as being morally
>depraved.

  Mr. Chan's parents are depravely married, two Chinese-cu together in their
  own morass of Chinese-cu-city.  What more punishment do you want for them?
>
>Such incredible hypocrites!
>
>>an age preference.  They would like me to marry someone of around my own
>>age.  However, these pressures are not obvious, they're not spoken directly.
>>Nope, my parents are subtle (perhaps all of them are.... dunno, must be
>>in that guide the hospital give you when the father's waiting outside the
>>delivery-room: "Everything you'd wanted to know about Parenthood, but 
>>didn't know how or whom to ask".)
>>
>> >to marry within the same culture, ie chinese w/chinese, japanese w/japanese
>> >	korean w/korean ?
>>Most preferrably Chinese (no, make that Cantonese).  But any female of
>>East Asian (is that the term?) decent is fine.

  My apologies to Mr. Chan's utterly hopeless depraved Chinese-cu existence.
  If only they had a son like you Dwight, to enlighten them...
>>...
>
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