From: htn@mullian.ee.mu.oz.au (Hao Tu Nguyen)
Subject: [LIT/SOC] DDoa?n Va(n ...
Organization: Electrical and Electronic - University of Melbourne 
Date: Thu, 27 Aug 1992 14:52:16 GMT

Hello Ca'c anh chi. em be' lo+'n va\ nho?!

It is my rdo again for tomorrow and it means that "Co' quye^\n
ta^m su+. da`i vo+'i gia^'c ngu~ cho dde^'n tru+a", va\ tru+o+'c
khi ddi thi\ Ha`o na`y se? kho^ng nga.i co^ng su+'c dde^? ma` type
va` hie^'n da^ng quy' vi. mo^.t ddoa?n va(n ma` Ha`o na`y ra^'t
thi'ch ... Hy vo.ng sau khi ddo.c xong ro^\i, thi\ ca'c ba.n se?
nguo^.i bo+'t co+n nhie^.t (ne^'u co') hay la\ give it a thought
to yourself in your own time ... :-)

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			HA~Y TRO+? VE^`
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					Nguye^~n Huy`nh Mai

TA THA^.T SU+. HIE^.N HU+~U
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Ne^'u ta luo^n ti?nh thu+'c, ta tro+? tha\nh ba^.c tha^\y cu?a chi'nh ta
vi\ ta se? ho.c ta ddu+o+.c ddu? mo.i ddie^\u. Ta^'t ca? mo.i ba?n ti'nh
cu?A ta, ta^'t ca? su+. vui buo^\n sa^\u ddau sa^n ha^.n, dde^\u da.y
cho ta nhu+~ng ba`i ho.c kho^ng bao gio+\ du+'t.

Tham, sa^n, si, hi?, no^., a'i, o^' la\ mo^.t tu? sa'ch kho^?ng lo^\ ve^\
con ngu+o+\i, ma\ "ngu+o+\i chi'nh ddo' la\" TA .

Bo^. maa(.t cu?a ta co' tra(m nga\n ca'i ma(.t na. ma\ ta so^'ng ca? mo^.t
cuo^.c ddo+\i cu~ng do+? ma~i kho^ng he^'t vi\ ta cu+' tu+o+?ng ta nhu+ the^'
na`y ro^\i la.i tu+o+?ng ta nhu+ the^' kha'c.

Va^.y khi na`o ta mo+'i tha^'y ca'i TA tha^.t su+. Va\ ca'i TA tha^.t su+.
co' hie^.n hu+~u cha(ng ?

Ca'i TA se? tha^.t su+. hie^.n hu+~u ne^'u ta kho^ng ddo^\ng ho'a "Ca'i TA
tha^.t su+. " vo+'i nhu+~ng "ca'i ma(.t na. a?o tu+o+?ng" ddo'. Ca'i ta hie^.n
hu+~u ne^'u ta ddi.nh ro~ mo^~i chie^'c ma(.t na. ddo' ddang do+? nhu+~ng tro\
gi\ ? ddang muo^'n gi\ va\ la\m gi\ ? Ddang gia^.n thi\ ta.i sao gia^.n ? DDang vui thi\ ta.i sao vui ? DDang sa^n si thi\ ta.i sao sa^n si? va\ ddang sa^\u
kho^? thi\ ta.i sao sa^\u kho^? ? co' pha?i no' ddang la\ mo^.t quy? du+~
mang lo^'t hie^\n nha^n, ke? dda.o ddu+'c gia? mang lo^'t tha'nh hie^\n, tie^?u
nha^n sa('m vai qua^n tu+?, hay mo^.t ke? dda^\y ma(.c ca?m tu+. ti ddo^.i
lo^'t anh hu`ng.

"Ta hie^.n hu+~u" va\ tha^.t su+. hie^.n hu+~u luo^n luo^n, ne^'u ta an ti.nh
dde^? theo do~i ca'c vai tro\ cu?a ta trong cuo^.c so^'ng. Ta se~ ddu+o+.c
an nhie^n tu+. ta.i vi\ mo^~i khi ta ddi.nh ro~ vai tro\ cu?a ta mo^.t ca'ch 
ro~ re^.t thi\ ta dda~ ho.c ta va\ da.y ta dde^? tu+. ta su+?a ddo^?i. Khi ta
tha^'y ddu+o+.c ca'i ma(.t na. gia? cu?a ta thi\ chi'nh gio+\ phu't a^'y ta
la.i ga(.p "khuo^n ma(.t tha^.t tru+o+\ng cu+?u" cu?a ta.

Khi ddo' ta su\ng ki'nh, chie^m ba'i "vi. tha^\y" dda'ng ki'nh cu?a ta .

KHO^NG THE^? THIE^'U NHAU
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Trong nhu+~ng gia^y phu't an nhie^n tu+. ta.i . Ta ga(.p la.i ta. Ta mu+\ng
ro+? ta. Ta o^m tra^\m la^'y ta va\ ta ye^u ta. Lu'c ddo' ta la\ ta. Ta
kho^ng pha?i la\ ca'c vai tro\ cu?a ddo+\i so^'ng con ngu+o+\i ma\ ta la\
anh la'i ddo\ tre^n chie^'c thuye^\n xa'c tha^n ta giu+~a me^nh mo^ng bie^?n
ca? .

Ma(.c cho so'ng gio' cha^.p chu\ngg, ta ddo+n thu+o+ng ddo^.c ma~ le\o la'i
chie^'c thuye^\n nan. Ta ca?m tha^'y ye^u thu+o+ng chie^'c thuye^\n nan vo^
va\n. Ta a^u ye^'m cu+ng chie^\u no' vi\ kho^ng co' no' thi\ kho^ng co' ta.
No' vo+? thi\ ta vo+? ma\ no' ddau thi\ ta ddau.

Ta co^' ga('ng la'i chie^'c thuye^\n ddo+n co^i ddo' nhu+ the^' na\o dde^?
no' kho^ng dda^.p mi\nh va\o ca'c ghe^\nh dda' tra^\y tru.a hay vo+~ toang 
ddau ddo+'n. Ta cha(m so'c ha\n va' nhu+~ng ve^'t vo+~ nu+'t ra.n cu?a no'
dde^? no' va\ ta tie^'p tu.c cuo^.c ha~i ha\nh.

Ta va\ thuye^\n tuy hai ma\ mo^.t.

Thuye^\n kho^ng the^? thie^'u la'i ddo\ va\ la'i ddo\ kho^ng the^? thie^'u
thuye^`n. La'i ddo\ kho^ng muo^'n ddi thi\ thuye^\n na(\m ta.i cho^?, ma\
la'i ddo\ la'i do+? thi\ thuye^\n da^.p vo+~, tan hoang. Kho^ng co' thuye^\n
thi\ la'i ddo\ kho^ng no+i nu+o+ng tu+.a, kho^ng ddi va\ kho^ng dde^'n ddu+o+.c
no+i mi\nh muo^'n dde^'n .

La'i ddo\ va\ thuye^\n, "hai ta kho^ng the^? kho^ng co' nhau" .

NIE^\M AN LA.C VI~NH VIE^~N
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Ta^'t ca? nhu+~ng xa'o tro^.n be^n ngoa\i dde^\u do ta ma\ ra. Ta^m ta ddo^.ng
thi\ tri' ta ddo^.ng va\ ta ha\nh ddo^.ng theo su+. ddo^.ng loa.n no^.i ta^m
ddo' . Khi ta loi so+. hoang mang thi\ ta nghi~ lung tung va\ ha\nh ddo^.ng 
lung tung kho^ng ddi.nh hu+o+'ng. Khi ta so+. sai thi\ ta du\ng mo.i cu+? chi?
lo+\i no'i ha\nh ddo^.ng dde^? ba\o chu+?a ca'i sai cu?a ta . Khi ta ha\nh
ddo^.ng dde^? ba\o chu+~a, ta cho mo.i ngu+o+\i su+. suy nghi~ va\ pha'n
ddoa'n la\ ta ddang sai . Khi ta cho la\ ta ddu'ng thi\ ta cu~ng thu+o+\ng
la\m va^.y dde^? chu+'ng to? ca'i ddu'ng cu?a mi\nh. "Ta vo^ ti\nh ta.o su+.
suy nghi~ ly' lua^.n" no+i ngu+o+\i kha'c va\ buo^.c ho. pha?i co' su+. nha^.n
xe't, quye^'t ddoa'n, phe^ chua^?n ve^\ ta .

Khi ngu+o+\i kha'c phe^ pha'n ta ddu'ng, sai, to^'t xa^'u, nghi ngo+\ ta, tin
tu+o+?ng ta, ki'nh tro.ng ta, khinh khi ta, thu+o+ng ta, buo^\n ta, gia^.n ta
hay ghe't ta th ta tro+? ne^n na.n nha^n cu?a su+. phe^ pha'n ddo' "ma\
nguye^n nha^n cu?A mo.i phe^ pha'n ddo' la.i la\ TA ."

Va^.y khi ta^m ta ti.nh thi\ ta^m ngu+o+\i cu~ng ti.nh. Mo.i pha'i kho+?i cu?a
hoa\n ca?nh dde^\u do nie^.m kho+?i cu?a ta. Muo^'n cha^'m du+'t xa'o tro^.n
ta pha?i bie^'t "ho'a gia~i mo^~i kho+?i nie^.m" trong ta^m ta .

Khi du+'t ddu+o+.c no', ta du+'t ddu+o+.c su+. ly ta^m, du+'t ddu+o+.c nghie^.p
qua? na?y sanh do su+. ly ta^m ddo'. Kho^ng co' su+. kho+?i ha\nh thi\ kho^ng
co' no+i dde^'n. Kho^ng co' gieo tro^\ng thi\ kho^ng co' na?y ma^\m va\ kho^ng  
co'nghie^.p qua? .

Ta^m tru. thi\ y' tru. . Ta^m ly thi\ y' ly . Ta an nhie^n tu+. ta.i thi\ mo.i
va^.t, mo.i ngu+o+\i an nhie^n tu+. ta.i theo ta. Ta bi\nh ye^n thi\ ddo+\i
so^'ng ta bi\nh ye^n . Ta ngo^ng cuo^\ng ba.o loa.n thi\ quanh ta ddo+\i so^'ng
cu~ng ngo^ng cuo^\ng ba.o loa.n .

DDo+\i so^'ng se? thu+.c su+. thay ddo^?i, thay ddo^?i toa\n die^.n theo su+.
qua'n chie^'u cu?a ta dde^? tro+? ve^\ ga^\n vo+'i ta ho+n. Ta ca\ng dde^'n
ga^\n vo+'i "tro.ng ta^m la\ ta", so'ng gio' cuo^.c ddo+\i se? bo+'t da^\n,
bo+'t da^\n va\ ddi dde^'n ta\n lu.i. Khi ta ve^\ vo+'i ta ga(.p ta tha^.t 
su+., ta cha^'p nha^.n su+. da^.y kho+?i trong lo\ng vo+'i nie^\m an nhie^n
tu+. ta.i, ro^.ng lu+o+.ng bao dung ye^u me^'n thi\ lu'c ddo' su+. da^.y
kho+?i ddu+o+.c da^.p ta('t kho^ng luye^'n lu+u .

Ta o^m la^'y ta va\ so^'ng an vui trong nie^\m an la.c vi~nh vie^~n .

				(Tri'ch trong TA^.P SAN DDUO^'C TU+\ BI,
				 So^' 40, 01/02/91 )


Okay! that 's all folks ...

Di~ nhie^n no'i va\ vie^'t thi\ de^? ro^\i, nhu+ng ca'i kho' la\ mi\nh co'
the^? luo^n luo^n thu+'c ti?nh dde^? ma\ giu+~ cho ta^m tru. va\ y' tru.
giu+~a cuo^.c so^'ng bon chen ... nhie^\u xao ddo^.ng ... la('m lu'c
kho^ng muo^'n nhu+ng cu~ng bi. nhu+~ng ca'i vo\ng thi. phi. lua^~n qua^~n
lo^i ke'o ta va\o "cho vui" lu'c na\o cu~ng kho^ng bie^'t nu+?a ...

Well! part of learning from "tru+o+\ng ddo+\i" I think! :-))

Tha^n cha\o ta^'t ca?
Cheers,
Tu+. Ha\o

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