From: shanwang@sara.cc.utu.fi
Newsgroups: soc.culture.china
Subject: Re: What is love in Chinese sense.
Date: 2 Sep 92 01:05:16 GMT
Organization: University of Turku, Finland

&&>>In article <1992Sep1.072359.23069@nntp.hut.fi>, ldong@hila.hut.fi (Liyun Dong) writes:
&&>> In article <Btv93t.26r@usenet.ucs.indiana.edu> xlli@silver.ucs.indiana.edu (xiao-lin li) writes:
&&>> 	 ( deleted here )
&&>>  (3). When Chinese parents say they love their children, what do they
&&>>       mean, what do they do?
&&>>       it means what they said is true.
&&>> 
&&>>	   At first there is a conventional conception in their mind that
&&>>	   they are their childen. So the parent can love them  but  also
&&>>			  ^^^^^^^
&&>>	   hope the youth will obey parent's opinion ...
&&>>	   Can't say anything about that ...
&&>>
&&>>  (4). When Chinese parents expect love from their children, what do
&&>>       they expect the most.
&&>>       succesful parents only wish their children happy, healthy and enjoy life.
&&>>       but low-class or socially weak intelectual parents seem expect too much 
&&>>       and press too much.
&&>>
&&>>       Ha, here Pan just speak out what those " bad childern " what to
&&>>	   say 8-)
&&>>	   ... who know that, maybe after you guy become a parent, so your
&&>>	   opinion will also change so. But just wish there will  be  some
&&>>	   wise way to solve the problem ...
&&>> 
&&>>  (5). When a Chinese says he loves his country, what does he mean.
&&>>       he is too emotional. then his emotion will fade quickly.
&&>>       
&&>>	   If he always say so, there will be two possibility to classify 
&&>>	   this beloved fellow. The first maybe he is just a  hyprocratic
&&>>	   baby-kisser; the second maybe he is realy too emotional to say
&&>>	   that. Ha, I guess both two don't mean anything.
&&>>
&&>>	   If you guy are or just classify yourself as a  patriot.  Don't 
&&>>       always shout loudly. Show us what you have done to prove your-
&&>>	   self ...
&&>>
&&>>	   I can only say that I respect those patriot, but I am not qua-
&&>>	   lified myself 8-)
&&>>
&&>>
&&>>  (8). Is Chinese allowed to love their enemies?
&&>>  
&&>>	   Ha, that's your personal business. Please don't be so sensitive
&&>>	   to try to find out some enemy from your surounding :) ... cause 
&&>>	   you guy are still not a serious politican :)
&&>>
&&>>	   Take it easy. 
&&>>	
&&>>	   Maybe you should pay more attention on those " enemy "  in your
&&>>	   ordinary life :)
&&>>
&&>>  (9). there are two secret laws leading to personal success:
&&>>       1. ren2 zhe3 ai4 ren2 (kind person loves people, by Confucius)
&&>>       2. hui1 jin1 ru2 tu3 sha1 ren2 ru2 ma2
&&>>       (never hesitate to spend as much money as you want and kill as many
&&>>       people as you can, by Qing dynasity military commander Zeng Guofan
&&>>       Huachen Pan
&&>>
&&>>	   Ha, if you can reveal this truth, you Sir mus tbe a sage !!!
&&>>	   But for us young naive pussies sometimes it's very difficult 
&&>>	   to practise :(
&&>>	
&&>>	   So I go to Univ. to study computer 8-) ......
&&>>
&&>>	   Ha, nice to talk here, have fun !!!
&&>>
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