From: knguyen@emr1.emr.ca (Kim Nguyen)
Subject: Re: Re : History lessons
Organization: Energy, Mines, and Resources, Ottawa
Date: Wed, 30 Dec 1992 04:37:58 GMT

In article <1992Dec30.004711.8137@smsc.sony.com> tin@smsc.sony.com (Le Tin) writes:
>  I sympathize with Kim and others who had suffered greatly at the
>  hands of CSVN.  I understand the pain and angers that they felt.
>  I have lost many loved ones to the hands of CSVN and have seen
>  first hands the things they done to my relatives.
>
>  Please do not misunderstand me when I say that we must learn from
>  the past and to let go of all the negative emotions.  I am not asking
>  anyone to deny that these things happened.  Nor am I asking them to
>  simply forget it just like that.  What I am asking is for everyone
>  to let the healing begin.  Remember the pain and sufferings, but do
>  not let the angers and hatred consumed you.  Revenge will make you
>  feel good, but it does not bring back what was lost and gone.
>
>
>In article <1992Dec27.012109.20163@emr1.emr.ca> knguyen@emr1.emr.ca (Kim Nguyen) writes:
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>>
>>Hatred and bitterness ? To somebody else, maybe. To me, nope ! I did not 
>>have any *bloody debt* with them, but one thing I know for sure that 
>>THEY DID LIE AND THEY WILL LIE. My sentiment is about great disappointment
>>in that regime more than bitterness and hatred.
>>
>>How can we expect any *positive and bright future* from a group of 
>>liers ? I don't agree with you about using *hatred and bitterness*
>>rhetoric. This rhetoric can allure the Vietnamese youngsters, but to
>>all adults, it makes them sad. THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST CURRENT RHETORIC
> ^^^^^^^^^^^
>>I AM FED UP TO HEAR. Please create another better and convincing one. 
>
>  Listen to yourself and see what kind of anger and hatred that is
>  coming out of you.  It seethes and boils at the surface.  As long
>  as you allow it to control all you do, you will have a hard time
>  using logical thinking.
>
>  Do you claim then to speak for "all adults?"  Is this really how
>  "all adults" feel?  So unforgiving, hard, and full of angers.
>
>  If I did not know any better, I would have thought that you have
>  already given up.  According to you, no matter what you do, you
>  will always be deceived by the communist government.  You have lost
>  the battle and will always lose the battle - that seem to be your
>  message.  Is this what you are saying?
>
>Regards,
>Tin Le
>-- 
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In all you talk about angers and forgiving. Forgiving or not, we must go 
because we cannot live in a new system. Now one can try to do differently
with what I once confronted with. I hope them best luck.
                                                         
Deceit : Have you ever tried to work with them ? Let try it and let me know
later your experience.                                                                     
                                                                           
My message is simple : As repeated in the past, they often use tactics to
recruit young and successful intellectuals who did not know practically  
about communists by the banner of patriotism. As young man who must be   
energetic, ideal and patriotic, they are ready to advance and go into
their hook. After working with them for a while, this young man would like 
to get out, but how to do it while keeping being trusted by somebody else.   
To communists, after using all of young man's zeal, they would throw    
them away.                                                            
                                                                    
I tell my story not to show my suffering.It is not a suffering, it is a
disappointment and sadness.

I remember once you could not keep your anger, too.

Regards,