HDTenEightyP/NetNews huggingface dataset:
From: markway1112@iscsvax.uni.edu
Newsgroups: alt.romance
Subject: Not enough time for LOVE
Date: 22 Jul 92 10:58:01 -0500
Summary: lack of communication and time
Keywords: TRUE LOVE :) :) :)
Organization: University of Northern Iowa

Hello all fellow romantics!

I just recently discovered this newsgroup, and I first want to say
that you all are kind, wonderful people- deserving only the very
best of love and happiness life has to offer!  I wish you all well
in your romantic pursuits!

I have a potentially serious problem.  My boyfriend and I have
been dating for 16 months now, but still haven't been able to
work this problem out!  We don't have a lot of time to
spend together every week, and we suffer from miscommunication
more often than we should.  He's an MIS major and studies A LOT;
I will be beginning graduate studies this fall and will have
no social life either :(  .  Right now he's working and taking
classes, and I work 3 jobs- which means I see him for an hour max.
every day.  My question for all of you lovers out there-
what can I do to keep the fire from fizzling when we ARE together,
how can we improve communications with our limited schedules?
Has anyone had this problem.. and have any ideas?

Thanks and *BIG HUGS* to all!!

Tigger

p.s.  How can I become an RFA or an ARC member? :)

Newsgroups: alt.romance
From: tedwards@wam.umd.edu (technopagan priest)
Subject: Re: confused by physical contact, need advice
Organization: University of Maryland, College Park
Date: Wed, 22 Jul 1992 03:40:34 GMT

In article <9207200213.AA05106@ucbvax.Berkeley.EDU> me@my.school.edu writes:
>Now come my questions. She's not the kind of girl that I envisioned to
>be my girlfriend. But I like her, and if we could build an exclusive 
>relationship in the future I wouldn't care about her past behavior. I
>asked her whether she could be commited to one guy and I wasn't sure what
>she said--she liked couple of guys in the past but they didn't like her, or
>some such. She also said it's unlikely she'll like me, but will see me and
>spend time like that.

Take her word for it!  Accept her as a friend who you might occasionally
get physical with.  If you easily fall in love, be wary!  She sounds
like she is just out for a fun time, which is not bad or anything,
but do not expect anything more serious to come to pass.
And go out with other women!

-Thomas
 resident technoshaman
From: lycaon@mace.cc.purdue.edu (Gerald Hough)
Newsgroups: alt.romance
Subject: Debacle: Here or There???
Date: 26 Jul 92 07:25:15 GMT
Article-I.D.: mentor.55111
Organization: Purdue University

Okay, here's the problem...

I've got this girlfriend here htat I've had for a year and a half... And we've 
been getting along great.  Only I've got this interest in the northeastern sec-
tion of the country.  This woman's a great friend, and we've had two or three
moments where the tension and passion were ELECTRIC.  Now, this week, I have
a chance to go out and visit her and friends as well...

The problem I have is, should I not expect anything, knowing that my relation-
ship with the girl here is okay, or should I be a dreamer and go see if anything
wil result from this northeastern girl.  The thing is, if I had my choice, I'd
have the NE person above all else, but proximity favors the closer...

I'm a romanicist, and am wondering if I should follow my heart or follow my
mind...  Arggh!  This is a difficult situation..

	Any suggestions would be welcomed...  heck, I need counseling as much
as the next man...  And my heart is confused...

	Maybe I should write some prose poems.....

--Jer

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
| Gerald E. (Jerry) Hough II            |  "Steeping out of the Page          |
| Resident Wierdo                       |   Into the Sensual World"           |
| Buttf**k, Indiana 47905               |          -- KaTe Bush               |
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Newsgroups: alt.romance
From: cohler@vxcrna.cern.ch (Mike Cohler)
Subject: Re: PMS
News-Software: VAX/VMS VNEWS 1.41    
Keywords: Oy gevalt!
Organization: European Organization for Nuclear Research, CERN
Date: Mon, 27 Jul 1992 12:12:00 GMT

In article <kclm8#_.tyger@netcom.com>, tyger@netcom.com (Kitty in the Middle) writes...
>In article <1992Jul25.170838.23234@news.iastate.edu> partee@iastate.edu (Jonathan F Partee) writes:
>>Write this down on a calender, someone, I find myself agreeing with
>>Christine.

lines deleted

>-- 
>      Kristen Kohlbecker    And I would choose to be with you
>      tyger@netcom.com      That's if the choice were mine to make   
>                            But you can make decisions too
>      A Tyger and a Lady    And you can have this heart to break 
> 
Just seen a couple of these about PMS (or PMT as we call it in the UK)
Jout out of interest, I wonder if anyone has found any method at all
which really does produce an improvement in the mood changes during PMT ?
My partner has tried the vitamin B12, and other methods but they dont seem
to have any effect at all.  Most of the time she is wonderful, but at PMT
times she can change a lot, and she recognises it as it happens, and often
comments that she is in a bad mood although I usually already see the
changes in facial tone etc, and try and accommodate accordingly.  Does anyone
know of a REALLY effective method of alleviating the changes, or is it
something that both partners have to live with permanently (at least until
the menopause !)

>                       
>        
==============================================================
|                                                            |
|        Mike Cohler -  preferred email address:             |
|                       MDC1@VAXA.YORK.AC.UK                 |
|                   ie  MDC1%VAXA.YORK.AC.UK@UKACRL.BITNET   |
|                                                            |
|        UK PPL and Glider Pilot                             |
|                                                            |
==============================================================
From: dswt@bnr.co.uk (Stewart Tansley)
Newsgroups: alt.romance
Subject: Re: How to ask someone out?
Date: 28 Jul 92 18:08:02 GMT
Reply-To: dswt@bnr.co.uk (Stewart Tansley)
Organization: BNR Europe Limited, London Road, Harlow, Essex, GB

In the referenced article Chris Grumboski <U15479@uicvm.uic.edu> writes:
>I need advice on what to do and say when approaching a woman I would like to
>meet.  I am kind of shy and would like to change that but I can never think of
>a thing to say when I see a stranger I would like to meet.  I don't want to
>seem desperate or sleazy but rather friendly and non-confrontational.  Also,
>what non-verbal signs do women give you when they want you to approach them,
>say at a bar or on the street etc?  Thanks,
>                                           Chris

*SMILE*

Works every time -- in everyone else's experience. ;-)

Me, I just can't seem to do it -- my lips just quiver faster than my heart
rate on approach. Still, if *you* can bring yourself to do it, I'm sure it
will work. I'm still at the practicing at the mirror stage! :-)

===========================================================================
Stewart Tansley     | BNR Europe Limited              |  'Be cool, or be
                    | London Rd, Harlow, CM17 9NA, UK |    cast out...'
dswt@bnr.co.uk      | +44 279 429531 x2763 (ESN 742)  | Subdivisions, Rush
===========================================================================
  'You know how that rabbit feels -- going under your speeding wheels...'
===========================================================================
From: goldberg@oasys.dt.navy.mil (Mark Goldberg)
Newsgroups: alt.romance
Subject: Re: Looking for advice in a problem
Date: 24 Jul 92 18:51:55 GMT
Reply-To: goldberg@oasys.dt.navy.mil (Mark Goldberg)
Organization: Naval Surface Warfare Center, Annapolis, MD

In alt.romance, peter@ptt-iat (Postman Pete) writes:
>Hello problem-solvers,
 > >The problem is as follows: last thursday I met this great girl. 
>She has somethi >ng that I can't describe but it's certainly something
>that keeps me reminding o >f her.
....
.....LONG ELABORATION DELETED
>
>What can I say when I call her back?

From the orignial posting, I gather that she may have been bowing off
a little steam.  Maybe that's why shw was a little more flirtatious
or daring with you.  While single, I was personally in many similar
situations - meeting someone attractive among a group of friends, getting
a cold response when phoning a few days after.

Advice is difficult, not knowing more about the personalities and situations.
After getting similar cold responses on the phone, I reoriented my self
image rather than allowing the person at the other end of the line to
ruin my day.

Realize that it is not your fault if you get such a response.  Don't
let it compromise your self confidence and self esteem.  You are probably
not in real love, but you may be infatuated.  That can lead to some
bad judgements.  Also realize that your call results in any kind of
a date, you'll wind up hosting the evening and entertaining her - at
dinner, a movie, lunch, etc.  Manners work both ways.  If you get treated
like dirt on the phone, more of the same will continue.

You may also find that friendly self-confidence makes you more attractive
and interesting to women.

I recommend that you call again, and perhaps, invite her to meet you
for a drink, etc.  If you get the run-around ("Check back with me in
a few days . . . I'll let you know . . ."), don't accept that.  Offer
a few alternative times, but accept only definite plans.  An important
confident person would accept nothing less.

There is an excellent book on this called Intimate Connections by Dr.
David Burns.  In a nutshell, he advises, "Be happy with your self first."

   /|/| /||)|/  /~ /\| |\|)[~|)/~   |   Everyone's entitled to MY opinion.
  / | |/ ||\|\  \_|\/|_|/|)[_|\\_|  |      goldberg@oasys.dt.navy.mil
========Imagination is more important than knowledge. - Albert Einstein=======
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: dege@jhuvms.hcf.jhu.edu (Ralph M Degennaro)
Subject: FEAR?  (was Re: FEAR and DI tour info needed)
News-Software: VAX/VMS VNEWS 1.41    
Organization: The Johns Hopkins University - HCF
Distribution: usa
Date: Wed, 29 Jul 1992 13:36:00 GMT

In article <micheal.26@felix.lib.csulb.edu>, micheal@felix.lib.csulb.edu (Micheal Wojciechowski) writes...
>In article <1992Jul22.000244.7047@ucunix.san.uc.edu> dillongm@ucunix.san.uc.edu ( Siber_Punk_Rocker) writes:
> 
>>Does anyone out there have any information on eather the FEAR tour or
							^^^^^^^^^^^^^

They're still around?  I heard the lead singer died or dropped out
or something.  I have a copy of one of their albums and it is pretty
good. To see them live would be cool.  Add Baltimore/D.C. area "are 
they playing here?"

Rio
dege@jhuvms.hcf.jhu.edu

p.s.  This is the same FEAR that the lead singer had part in the movie clue
      also, right?  If not, I pobably screwed up names again.
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: cs50665@uxa.cso.uiuc.edu (Enter Scogman)
Subject: Re: Achtung Baby???
Organization: University of Illinois at Urbana
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 1992 18:05:49 GMT

In article <1992Jul21.112008.2981@corax.udac.uu.se> chris@Minsk.DoCS.UU.SE (Christian Bartholdsson) writes:
>In the old Mel Brooks song "To Be Or Not To Be (The Hitler Rap)" he raps about
>how he (Hitler) is thinking of invading Poland... I think it's in the first
>verse he shouts "ACHTUNG BABY I've got a plan!".  So that's probably where 
>the guy heard the expression.  At least he wasn't the first to come up with it.

Or maybe, he was German (they did record in Germany), and that was just one of
the things he said.  

Chris
-- 
                   +  Quick to judge, quick to anger
 cs50665.uxa.cso.  +  Slow to understand.
    uiuc.edu       +  Ignorance and prejudice
		   +  And fear walk hand in hand.
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: pwh@bradley.bradley.edu (Pete Hartman)
Subject: Re: Techno/Rave vs. Industrial
Organization: Bradley University
Distribution: usa
Date: Fri, 24 Jul 92 03:10:59 GMT

In <1992Jul23.141251.5839@progress.com> djm@progress.COM (Dave McMahon) writes:
>But like I said, there's a whole underground scene out there with some amazing
>composers writing really INTERESTING techno.  Richard James (18yrs old!) is
>The Aphex Twin.  He makes all of his own equipment. He writes alot of
>experimental weird shit and the sounds he can create on his own equipment are
>nothing like anything you'd hear in most clubs.  All I can say is you gotta dig
>for it.  But, of course, like anything, you have to love it enough to spend 
>the time looking for the small labels and the experimental trance that exists
>out there.
>
>Look for (just to name a few):
>The Aphex Twin
>Mental Overdrive
>Equi-Tech

The question is:  where to FIND this stuff?  I live in MIDDLE AMERICA,
and I have to mail order THE ORB fer cryin out loud.
-- 
Pete Hartman		       Bradley University	pwh@bradley.bradley.edu
        There are always connections; you have only to want to find them
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From:  (Michael Szachta)
Subject: Bands with self-titled songs?
Date: Wed, 22 Jul 92 10:15:58 EDT
Organization: University of Michigan
Followup-To: alt.music.alternative

What the heck?  How could you forget these classics ...

					Bad Company								Bad Company
					Talk Talk										Talk Talk
					Prince & the New Power Generation
																								The New Power Generation
					

and this one's close ...
				
					M.C. Hammer								Here comes the Hammer



Mike

"Make Love, Not War
Erotic City Come Alive"
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: cc647@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Mark Cornick)
Subject: Bands w/ songs that mention elections or candidates
Reply-To: cc647@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Mark Cornick)
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, OH (USA)
Date: Sat, 25 Jul 92 17:45:02 GMT


I am preparing a radio show that will features songs about elections,
candidates, the President, etc. If you have a favorite song that fits
in this scheme, please email. DO NOT follow up to the list and waste
other people's time with my project... reply to me directly. Thank
you and good night...

BTW, all genres are welcome.

*******************************************************************
* So now you know right where you are/It doesn't happen very hard *
*                  -- The Holy Rollers 'Fabuley'                  *
*******************************************************************
* Mark Cornick                      stu_m1cornic@vax1.acs.jmu.edu *
* James Madison University            cc647@cleveland.freenet.edu *
*******************************************************************
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: bs344@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Benjamin Bass)
Subject: Re: Bob Mould
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, Ohio, (USA)
Date: Fri, 31 Jul 92 17:22:55 GMT


Pete .. Bob Mould has assembled a new band.  They are 
called  Sugar.  They played here in Chicago about 10
days ago.  I missed the show but my brother went and 
he informs me that it was amazing.

-- 
Ben Bass
University of Michigan
Internet:  Ben_Bass@um.cc.umich.edu

Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: meb6@po.CWRU.Edu (Mason E. Boor)
Subject: Re: What would you want Lollapalooza III to be?
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, Ohio, (USA)
Date: Wed, 22 Jul 92 23:06:17 GMT


Wow, this was a neat Idea, many ppl. have picked some of my 
favorites, but here's my wish list.

(opening to headliner)

Helmet (start the day off with a bang)
Ride
Primus
My Bloody Valentine
Fishbone
Pixies
Nirvanna  (I'm not being too selfish...just trying to put together
           a good but crowd pleasing line up)  

we should write these down and see who got the most right next year.
(who needs an Industrial act anyway?)

(oh yea, as a side, obviously, Pixies should headline above 
 Nirvanna, but that probably won't happen in the US) - and I wonder
if either of them will have an album out by next summer....
-- 
"I'm so ugly, but that's ok,
 cuz so are you."   ---------Nirvana                  Mason Jar
                                                      meb6
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: jcp29389@uxa.cso.uiuc.edu (VOLLEYBALL!!!)
Subject: Re: Ceremony / Substance lyrics
Organization: University of Illinois at Urbana
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 1992 15:19:29 GMT

brad@bach.udel.edu (Brad Cain) writes:

[deleted shitload of lyrics]

>lancer


>-- 
>**********************************************************
>Brad Cain -- University of Delaware Electrical Engineering
>brad@bach.udel.edu		 cain@freezer.cns.udel.edu
>**********************************************************


was this really neccessary??

jay

Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: cs50665@uxa.cso.uiuc.edu (Enter Scogman)
Subject: Re: Lolla in CHicago
Organization: University of Illinois at Urbana
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 1992 18:07:56 GMT

In article <1992Jul21.002656.5697@iscsvax.uni.edu> ferrin2886@iscsvax.uni.edu writes:
>My roommate and I are going to lolla in chicago, and we were wondering, what
>part of chicago is the world music theatre in?

It's not in Chicago.  It's in a suburb South of Chi-town.

Chris

-- 
                   +  Quick to judge, quick to anger
 cs50665.uxa.cso.  +  Slow to understand.
    uiuc.edu       +  Ignorance and prejudice
		   +  And fear walk hand in hand.
Xref: sparky alt.music.alternative:7994 rec.music.industrial:8710
From: djm@progress.COM (Dave McMahon)
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative,rec.music.industrial
Subject: Re: Techno/Rave vs. Industrial
Date: 23 Jul 92 14:12:51 GMT
Organization: Progress Software Corp.

dave@bradley.bradley.edu (David Vessell) writes:

>djm@progress.COM (Dave McMahon) writes:

>>As a matter of fact, there's a LOT of HARDCORE techno/acid out there that most
>>dance industrial fans would swear is industrial.  Don't dismiss techno too 
>>quickly!  There's a whole underground techno/acid scene out there that's got
>>some real quality edgy as hell electronic body music!

>I guess the reason I don't like most current 'techno' is because so much of
>it is one riff for sixteen minutes and no chord changes.  I don't mind the
>no-structure thing anymore, but unless it does something to set it apart
>from the crowd, it might as well be Front Line Assembly without the vocals
>and samples for three hours straight, because that's what if feels like
>when I go to a club.

Granted, there's ALOT of mainstream top 40 techno out there.  And generally
that's the stuff you're going to hear at clubs.  This would turn anybody
with a shred of taste completely off from techno.  

But like I said, there's a whole underground scene out there with some amazing
composers writing really INTERESTING techno.  Richard James (18yrs old!) is
The Aphex Twin.  He makes all of his own equipment. He writes alot of
experimental weird shit and the sounds he can create on his own equipment are
nothing like anything you'd hear in most clubs.  All I can say is you gotta dig
for it.  But, of course, like anything, you have to love it enough to spend 
the time looking for the small labels and the experimental trance that exists
out there.

Look for (just to name a few):
The Aphex Twin
Mental Overdrive
Equi-Tech

Enjoy!
dave.
--
|~) | |  /   | |   -FOR FUHRER '92-    || "Most of my heroes don't appear on no
|/  | |  \/\ |_| Better Living through ||  stamp"  - Public Enemy
|\  | | \/\  | |     Sedation...       ||           Love ya.
|_) |_|   /  | | Vote Bush/Qualee '92  ||        djm@progress.com
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative,alt.rock-n-roll,rec.music.misc
From: huot@cray.com (Tom Huot)
Subject: Re: New Thread (was Re: Songs that mention other groups)
Organization: Cray Research, Inc.
Date: 24 Jul 92 13:48:52 CDT

WILL THERE EVER BE AN END TO THESE INANE THREADS?

-- 
_____________________________________________________________________________
Tom Huot        			       
huot@cray.com 
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative,alt.rap,alt.thrash
From: cradle@wam.umd.edu (Dave Eisner)
Subject: Re: Body Count: "Cop Killer" removed from album
Organization: University of Maryland, College Park
Date: Wed, 29 Jul 1992 18:12:04 GMT

In article <1992Jul29.042153.3235@usenet.ins.cwru.edu> cc647@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Mark Cornick) writes:
>
>I just head on the evening news that Ice-T is removing "Cop Killer" from
>the Body Count LP because Time Warners board members are getting death
>threats from police officers.
>
>I'm not going to debate the ethics of the song, I just want to call
>attention to the reason for this action.
>
>Death threats from police officers.

Are you sure about the reason being death threats from police officers?

The story is on the front page of the Washington Post, a fairly reputable
rag (I know, don't believe everything you read), and they made no mention
of death threats.  Have you heard about the death threats being the reason
from any other source?

According to the Post, Ice-T himself decided to have the track pulled
because he didn't think Warner should be attacked.  He thinks the police
have a beef only with him.

Again, he may just be saying this, and it may have been planned in advance
by Warner, but I'm curious as to whether either story has any validity.

			--Dave Eisner
			  cradle@wam.umd.edu
------------------------


Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: homulka@casbah.acns.nwu.edu (Thomas Homulka)
Subject: 23 Envelope Artwork
Organization: Northwestern University, Evanston Illinois.
Distribution: world,local
Date: Fri, 24 Jul 1992 14:56:45 GMT

A while back, I remember seeing a book containing a lot of the artwork done by
23 Envelope (Nigel Grierson, Vaughan Oliver.. ).  (They do the majority of the
artwork for 4AD artists and a few other non-4AD bands).   Has anyone else seen
this book and have information on the title and publishing company (ISBN 
number?).  I can't remember the name of it.   Also is there any place where 
you can get reprints of the v23 artwork in posters? 

Tom (homulka@casbah.acns.nwu.edu)
From: lizzit@silver.lcs.mit.edu (Lizzette Xixxo)
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
Subject: Re: Bob Mould
Date: 28 Jul 92 00:52:44 GMT
Organization: MIT Laboratory for Computer Science

bo@igc.org (Bo Orloff) writes:
>
>petebob@sequent.com writes:
>
>> Does anybody know what Bob's up to?
>
>After being dropped by his last record company, Bob apparently
>decided to re-work his whole scene. He has a new band called
>"Sugar" who have been gigging a bit and a new album (on a new
>label) due out soon. 

Sugar also has drummer Malcolm, formerly Zulus, formerly Human Sexual
Response.  I guess Malcolm like Mould, whereas other some of the  othere
members of the Zulus did not.  Bob produced one of Z's albums.

--lizzit
Newsgroups: alt.music.alternative
From: dennis@citr.uq.oz.au (Dennis Remmer)
Subject: Re: Durutti Column & Morrissey
Organization: Prentice Centre, University of Queensland
Date: Wed, 22 Jul 1992 00:18:22 GMT

sbranson@sdcc13.ucsd.edu (Orbital) writes:


>	Does anyone out there know the title ( and catalogue # if
>possible) of the Duruitti Column album that came with the bonus
>seven inch of "I Know Very Well How I Got My Note Wrong" with Vini
>Reilly and Morrissey. Thanks in advance.

>	Steve

The album was 'Vini Reilly' - FACT/FACD 244

The bonus single was catalogued as FAC 244+ (could be FACT, I'll check...)

Check out my Factory listing in the Music archives cs.uqp.edu

regards
Dennis Remmer
dennis@citr.uq.oz.au