From: lile@netcom.com (Lile Elam)
Subject: Re: Alt.sex.wizards
Date: Fri, 31 Jul 92 02:37:38 GMT
Organization: Netcom - Online Communication Services  (408 241-9760 guest) 

dbshapco@undergrad.math.waterloo.edu (Brad Shapcott) writes:


>Well, following the peeping of a little bird from this very group, I looked.
>The point had already been made by another poster in the group about male
>oriented threesomes.  What will be interesting is the reaction to this posting.

Actually, there hasn't been alot of reaction though I have received 
mail from a few folks (ie: from you) though most of it has been positive.
Per your suggestion, I thought I might check out soc.bi...  and saw
this post from you...

>Anyways, what I was really wondering was whether that 'lile' person was for
>real.

I am *very* much real and *very* much a woman even though my last
name is "male" spelled backwards. :)  I feel that quite a few woman
fantesize about such things as threesomes and what really surprises
me (well, maybe not) is that once we express such feelings and
dreams, we are once again attempted to be repressed by the opposite
sex. I get the feeling from your remarks that I can't be real or
female because I desire being with other women and men in more than
a one-on-one manogomous relationship.  

I suggest that you might read "Women On Top" by Nancy Friday. This
will hopefully help get you "up-to-date" on what women fantisize about 
in the 90's.

>lile writes:

>>the possible positions we could come up with. One I have dreamed
>>about quite a bit is a circle position where each person is eating
>>the next so we make a circle of three or prehaps a triangle.
>>
>>Hmmm... I wonder if this is where the use of the triangle symbol 
>>to represent bi's came from....
>>
>>Anyways, another really hot fantasy is to make love with the other
>>woman while the male watchs and rubs his cock. In our love making
>>we would eat each other and slide our bodies all over each other
>>til we come like music instruments. :)
>>
>>Of course, I also enjoy fantasizing about larger numbers of people
>>being involved...
>>
>>So far, I have recently made love to another woman for the first time
>>and I thought the whole experience was really great. Woman have
>>the most beautiful bodies. We're like flowers! Anyways, I feel so
>>happy and commplete from this experience, like a coming home. Now 
>>I would like to try such a threesome as you mentioned. Wish me luck!
>>
>>-lile

>This doesn't sound quite right to me.  It sounds like a male
>fantasizing about a woman fantasizing about a threesome.  But my foot
>is too freshly out of my mouth to want to plant it back there again,
>although the part about the 'use of the triangle symbol' really bugged
>me.  What I want to say is 'Yup, you got it you clueless fuck -- the triangle
>is a symbol that the only thing bi's are good for is threesomes'.

I in no way, meant to emply this, just as probably you in no way mean
to imply that bi's can only have one-on-one relationships with one
other person. What I was thinking when I wrote this was, that no matter
how you put it together, if there were 3 people involved in a love
session at one time, there had to be at least 2 of the same sex, therefore
implying they were bi. I thought it was really neat (almost logical)
if thought about in this manner. Of course, working with computers
all day, I tend to think like this. :) 

>It also sounds like what I might have written were I out to jerk some chains.

>Brad

And of course, I did not think this would cause chains to be yanked.
But then, with the numerous people who are on the net, a posting 
will eventually hit someones "hot spot". Sigh.

I must say, this is the first time my posting has been pulled out of
a.s.w and reposted to another group. It's a strange feeling. Anyways,
I just felt I had to "speak up" and set the record strait.

light, energy, love!

-lile

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