From: william@natimuk.acci.com.au (William Lo)
Subject: Re: Help! 3 lonely heart Dr(s)
Organization: IBM Australia/ACCI 
Date: Mon, 12 Oct 1992 02:43:05 GMT

In article <1992Oct7.235532.4380@murdoch.acc.Virginia.EDU> cfs2b@fermi.clas.Virginia.EDU (Chun Fai Szeto) writes:
>	To all known to be Dr. in 3 lonely heart club, I need your 
>analysis on the case regarding to one of my best friend:

	Haha look! Our first case is right here! Hmmhm -:) That's 
good. Welcome to our 3HL clinic!
  
>
>	My friend (let's call him Peter) is going to be a fourth year 
>student and the girl (call her F.S.)  is 3rd-year student and I think
>her personlity of F.S. is pity agressive (I mean she welcomes all boys 
>dating her) and is also active in any activity.  On ther other hand, 
>Peter is honor student and gives other people have a feeling that he
>is reputable and frank.  F.S. had already known Peter for a long time 
>since they were in the same department.  But you know, they are just a 
>friend of "saying Hi" so.
>  
>	Peter started being attracted by her on last semester.
>And he tried to ask for a lunch or dinner with her, but he didn't have
>a chance because of the end of semester.  On the other hand, F.S. always
>has a guy (call him P.K) go with her ,such as dance partner, dining
>with F.S.. So what does Peter need to do in order to possess F.S.'s love?
>
>	 Dr(s). of 3LHC, finding any clue?


	Aha, well, that sounds fair enough. Dr Lo doesn't know if the other
2 Docs have already had some hints very nice and neat for our buddy, but his
mean ones would be as follows. Check them out...

	Hmmm, since Peter and the FS girl are just that you-know-who sort of
friends(I quite question about their friendship though: does that exist anyway?). 
Their relationship is really really vague as far as I infer from your scenario
and hey, buddy, can you reveal a little bit more regarding our clients? Like,
I mean, you haven't told much about Peter, why he's known to be so reputable,
and about FS, why Peter is so attracted to the girl...etc etc 

	To start off, I'm gonna state my belief that it's often often difficult
(of course not impossible) to turn some kind of friendship into a kind of more
intimate relationship or love. You need some very extraordinary effort and/or
a special kind of catalyst to make something happen which drives you down the road.

	Mmmm, tell Peter to snatch another good chance and date FS out again(to a
movie or lunch would be nice enough). Shouldn't be too hard for Peter to get this
done I suppose(as FS appears to be quite sociable), but a good excuse will always
work and possibly quick grab the girl's attention(e.g. speciality is important). If 
Peter can't think of any, feel free to ask Dr Lo again. The PK guy is blocking the
way apparently, note that I've presumed he isn't the girl's current boyfriend and   
doesn't have advantages of any kind over Peter. If Dr Lo gets it wrong, which is  
often likely, he'd be more than glad to be righted. If the guy isn't the girl's
boyfriend then Peter is a lucky boy.

	Just hold on. I wonder what did the other 2 Docs say?

---Cheers,
	Dr Lo
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