From: s9874194@phobos.ucc.umass.edu (s9874194)
Subject: Re: White male/Asian female and Asian male/white female
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Date: Wed, 2 Sep 1992 00:48:00 GMT

In article <1992Sep1.203657.12612@bnr.ca>, xyang@bnr.ca writes...
>In article <17vv05INN338@usenet.INS.CWRU.Edu>, cc015@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Vito T. Kwan) writes:
>|> 
>|> Someone brought up this topic before, and his/her opinion in why there are
>|> more cases of white male/Asian female marriage is Asian males are of nationalism
>|> Hey, wake up! Don't be so Ah Q. In my opinion (being an Asian male), I think
>|> the Asian females are more of materialism.  (especially those from HK) The 
> 
>Are you sure the Asian males are not as much materialism as their
>counter partners?
> 
>|> following are the reasons for this kind of sick phenomenon:
>|> 
>|>     1. They can get the green card.
> 
>What if an Asian girl who already has a greed card? Or earn more
>or equal money than her white boyfriend?
> 
>|>     2. Male (traditionally) thinks his career is much more important than any ing else (and dating a white female takes awful long time and much money)
> 
>I thought dating an Asian girl is even more sophisticated than
>dating a white girl. Have you ever had such an experience? I do
>see many around me, though.
> 
>|>     3. Females with a white males like to show off in front of their Asian friends. (Male have this problem too, but not as serious as the Asian females)
> 
>Ha, I thought if an Asian person (female/male) has a well-off
>(use your own standards to interpret this word since everyone has 
>his/her values) partner he/she is more eager to show off to his/her 
>country fellows instead of bringing a mysterious white guy/gal to them.
> 
>|>     4. white females don't have a good image on the Asian males. White females
>|> think Asian females are hard-working, smart, GPA more than 3.5, wear thick glass, don't comb hair, not romantic enough, poor, don't have sense of humor, lousy
>|> at bed, etc.
> 
>I do not think so. But, if you have someone in your mind and you'd
>like to impress her, try to improve yourself according to her tastes.
> 
>|>        White males think Asian girls are cute, nice, smile all the time, care
>|> for their boyfriends, good cooks.
> 
>Don't you agree? I can't agree more. :-) What's your experience of 
>dating Asian girls? If it's different from the above then try to 
>prove to your white male friends that Asian girls are not worth 
>according to your experience. If your experience fits the above
>description why don't you try to grab a Asian girl from a 
>white guy by show her you're better. :-) (Sorry for any white
>man who has an Asian girlfriend: I don't mean you!)
> 
The following is my contribution to this social phenomenon. It is neither
my opinion nor I agreed to. I just tell you what an American guy told me
what his feeling was. Warning: the following is rated R.
He is in his 50's, working for an insurance company, have a happy family.
I have known him long enough that we talk every thing. One day (I could
not remember how it was started), we were talking sex. He was saying that
Chinese guys' "STUFF" was small compare to that of American guys. He was
wondering how I could satisfy my wife. I was terribly angry and feel
insulted. I demanded his apology. He did, sincerely, said that he thought
it was OK to talk sex. He did not realized that I would be offended.
But anyhow, he never explained to me how he got the impression that Chinese
guys are sexually less attractive/satisfactory. Is that because Chinese
guys are in general physically small than American guys? Maybe. I hope
the story here can be a contribution to the phenomenon we are discussing
here, and I do want to hear the opinion from oriental females who
date/marry American.
c.q

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