From: femibyte@athena.mit.edu (Olufemi G Anthony)
Newsgroups: soc.culture.african.american
Subject: Re: Why we go for non-black women:
Date: 3 Jan 93 23:15:19 GMT
Organization: Massachusetts Institute of Technology

In article <1993Jan1.155419.25716@csus.edu>, chaneysa@nextnet.csus.edu (Stephen A Chaney) writes:
|> 
|> 
|> I just had the joy of having a black woman lecture me, sister to
|> brother, so to speak, about my girlfriend, who is caucasian, just
|> before Christmas. She takes it upon herself, as if she were in Jungle
|> Fever the movie!, to lecture me about black pride. She went on about
|> how wrong it is to do this to black women and that there are plenty of
|> black women who are looking for brothers now.
|> 
|> I refused to back down about my girlfriend (new girlfriend at that),
|> and we ended up in an argument about whether or not I am an Oreo.
|> 
|> I told her what I am about to tell you. You people who think you're
|> going to take out those of us who date interracially, need a lobotomy
|> and you need to read up on Fascism. And you need to stay the hell away
|> from me and the rest of us.


 
|> I do not prefer black women because:
|> 1) They have the disposition of a hornet. I have never seen anything
|> more stressful as an angry black woman (but hey, they get it from some
|> of the men, too - but not me). 
|> 2) They disrespect black men and I see it every day. They are
|> unforgiving - one stutter or one blunder and they're all over you,
|> making fun of you.
|> 3) They come up with this lame-ass excuse about "Well, can't you be
|> tough and take it?" rather than laying off of you.
|> 4) They have no, absolutely NO tolerance for individual thought. As a
|> person who KNEW Anita Hill was a liar, I saw just how tolerant and
|> open-minded they were when I tried to be NICE and non-argumentative,
|> and just present the facts on the issue. Black women are the foremost
|> and fiercest enemies of black conservatives, and are the worst in the
|> world at the art of getting brothers "ostracized." 

I am amazed at your display of narrow-mindedness and stupidity in making such
blanket statements. 


 
|> Now that I have your undivided attention, class is in session ladies:
|> #1: COOL OFF. You'll never stop black men from dating outside the
|>     race if you keep up your nasty attitude. You talk about how bad
|>     black men are, but look at yourselves, too. (And I know some 
|>     guys who act like PUNKS, but you treat us like we are all punks.)
|> #2: Do I have to dress up like Gucci for you? Do I need to become a
|>     Mister Perfect to avoid your unnecessarily nasty disrespectful
|>     attitude? I don't call you "bitch" or "hoe" and I don't slap
|>     around women, either. Nor do I come on with "hey baby, etc." I
|>     have something you've never heard of: MORALS. No, I won't duck
|>     when I say that. It keeps me free of AIDS and overdoses and
|>     jail time. It might be interesting to you to check out that
|>     quality the next time you see it. (And neither us men or women
|>     are perfect at it.) As long as you make fun of men like that,
|>     they're going to date more tolerant women who appreciate them.
|> #3: Excuse me, but we have enough problems every day without having to
|>     run into the arms of MORE PRESSURE. Can you say R-E-L-A-X? Cool
|>     down and give the guy a break and a place to let down his guard.
|>     No wonder black men have such heart trouble. (And it wouldn't hurt
|>     for the girlfriend-beaters and women-bashers to cool down, too.)
|> #4: I'll be damned if I'm going to date you if you make fun of my
|>     hobbies. I don't make fun of your funny African clothes or
|>     hairdos, or your long nails or whatever. I don't expect you to
|>     go crazy on me because I'm learning Japanese (which I am). Black
|>     women are infamous for being intolerant of those things. Not only
|>     that, but I've seen it. I've been called a half-nip and half-jap
|>     and all kinds of things (though I'm 100% black) for that, and it
|>     was exclusively by black women. 
|> #5: Anita Hill had NO EVIDENCE. She had TEN WITNESSES AGAINST HER.
|>     She CHANGED HER STORY! She said she wasn't in it for the money and
|>     now she's on a feminist evangelical tour for $10k an appearance.
|>     What more evidence do you need to prove she was a PAID TORPEDO 
|>     sent to get Clarence Thomas at the 11th hour?
|> #6: I won't even TRY to explain black conservatism to you. Black
|>     women are utter screaming fascists when they see this. You go
|>     into a rage that is unseen in human beings, at the mention of
|>     Clarence Thomas or the words "black conservative". "Oreo," "Uncle
|>     Tom," and all that, start flying around. You'll accept Jesse
|>     Jackson despite that he is an anti-semite, because he is black.
|>     I'd hate to speak in opposition of him amidst 2 or more of you.
|>     That is suicidal. I thought it was just me until I read Clarence
|>     Thomas' "The Loneliness of the Black Conservative" and realized
|>     that others, too, are feeling your hate and intolerance.

These are the rantings of a frustrated man. Are you frustrated at your 
inability to date black women? :-)



|> Well, as one who takes on the big, the bad, and the bold (and the ugly),
|> I'm telling you, kiss my ass. You black women are not worth the time
|> if it involves becoming a masochistic automaton that you like to kick
|> around. You need to put your negative energies into getting those real
|> punks - the druggies, the women-beaters, the guys who leave their
|> girlfriends stuck with kids, etc., etc. - the people we conservatives
|> fight daily. Hell, with us, you can avoid drugs, AIDS, etc., but
|> no~~, you think we're Nazi's. So go on back - go back to your daily
|> life where your school's feel-good liberal education has ruined our
|> kids' education since your beautiful 1960's; where drugs are rampant
|> and you are told that we don't want to stop it everywhere (we'd love
|> to see that stuff eliminated from ALL neighborhoods, not just rich
|> ones - but hey, what's reason to you, anyway?); where your liberated
|> sexual revolution b.s. has given us AIDS (along with drug use, this
|> makes up 99% of all AIDS cases); and where the Democrats have stuck
|> you on government assistance, while claiming Republicans want to fire
|> you from every job (which is bullshit but hey I'm a thought criminal
|> anyway so what do you care?).. and where black men (and black women in
|> many cases) are marrying and dating interracially to get away from
|> your abusive attitudes (men included in the fault category here). 
|> 
|> But know this: the day your attitudes towards interracial marriage are
|> crushed and put to shame, will be too late a day for me. And I want to
|> be there to laugh at you when YOU have YOUR back to the wall for
|> such intolerance. Or when all the black men are avoiding you. Anything
|> to snap the power (and its abuse!) of black women (hell, black men
|> have long since lost it), so you'll GET OFF OUR BACKS. I want to see
|> you strung up the same way we string up those abusive black men. 
|> 
|> 
|> BTW, one more thing to piss you off:
|> I am one of those many black men who don't date race. We date ideology
|> and attitude - race is irrelevant. If you can't handle it, tough. But
|> for the sake of not getting an ulcer - leave us alone. We don't bother
|> you if you don't bother us. Bother us, and you'll get very badly
|> disrespected, and we'll be waiting when you send your big, ugly, ape
|> brothers and fathers to punish us for not conforming. Do them a favor
|> and do not send them after us.

Any black man who the hates black woman, as this one does, hates himself
and hates his mother as well. Go check your head, fellow.


|>     =====================================================================
|>     --Steve Chaney: Founder, Borg Operating Space Systems, Revision 2.5--
|>     USENET Warlord / IRC Channel Owner / Accounts WorldWide / Home Login!
|> 		       (Meaning: More time for this ?)
|>                     The B.O.S.S. does not speak for CSUS. 


You are such an idiot that I don't think you should be taken seriously. BTW I 
consider myself a conservative, but I don't liken myself to people like Clarence
Thomas. They certainly do not represent Black conservatism for me. Try reading 
Marcus Garvey and Malcolm X, or maybe Malcolm was too anti-white for you.

Femi.
(This is coming from a black man who has been "dissed" and treated badly by black
 women before for many of the reasons as the idiot who made the origional posting, but 
but hasn't decided to hate them as a result.) You are fu*ked up.