From: ap.5757@cupid.sai.com
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
Subject: SWM ISO SWF for friendship, etc.
Date: 14 Oct 92 11:55:03 GMT
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Well!  I think it's time for an ad that *not* "SEEKING HOT BABES"...I'm
*not* seeking hot babes, I'm *not* seeking someone to sleep with, etc.

SWM ISO SWF for friendship, perhaps a bit more if things are right...

When one gets a little older and more mature, one comes to the realization that
while sex *is* important, it's not a good foundation to build anything other
than a one-night stand.  What *is* important is caring, communication, and
committment to shared goals and shared interests.  A sense of fun, a bizarre
sense of humor are also VERY important!  An ability to see beyond the shallow,
materialistic views of younger people is important - women who are into fast
cars and fast living can hit 'n' now!

A spiritual outlook or an interest in things spiritual is helpful - but one
should have an open mind about such things.  A love of nature and of the
outdoors is essential, and a positive, uplifting outlook on life, seeing
challenges and opportunities instead of crisis and pitfalls, is a must!
Oh, one more thing ... similar tastes in music are absolutely essential!
Soothing "New Age" music, classical, light jazz (a la Kenny G, Acoustic
Alchemy), or similar are very much appreciated!

Who *is* this person posting this ad?  I'm a 35-year-old male, 5'7", 140 lbs.,
with short dark brown hair and dark blue eyes.  I don't smoke or drink, and
I would appreciate it if you didn't, either, beyond a social drink or two.
My interests are varied, ranging from computers to metaphysics to backpacking
to motorcycles to music.  Music and humor are very much a part of my life, as
are life, love, and sharing my life with a special someone.  I live with three
cats and a rabbit [:)], and have a soft place in my heart for animals (all
three of my cats are either strays or come from the animal shelter).

You are intelligent, tactful, sincere, and ready for a committed relationship,
whether that be a committed friendship or something deeper.  You are very much
an individualist, and care little for the conventional mores of society,
preferring (like most intelligent people) to make your own rules, ones which
are best for you, rather than those dictated to you by society.

What do you do for a living? "It doesn't matter what you do, only how well you
do it..."

Looks aren't extremely important, but I, like most other people, have my
preferences - blue eyes, blonde hair, short hair, and/or petite in stature
earn big points with me, although if you have long brown hair and brown eyes
and are 6'3", I certainly won't turn the other way. :)

Similarly, age isn't important, but you should be in the age range of 25-55.

You aren't ready to rush into a sexual relationship, but are willing to wait for
the right time for such a thing (if ever) to happen.  Meanwhile, good company,
good music, and emotional closeness are comfortable to you.  Without stepping
over the "sex" line, you are very affectionate, compassionate, and caring - a
match for a caring and compassionate man.  Shared emotional intimacy and
experiences are important to you, rather than be attracted by "Mr. Leather
Jacket" or "Mr. BMW".  You are discriminating, with a sense of taste, so you
prefer to be alone rather than be involved in a relationship that is less than
what you expect.  You expect to be treated with courtesy, and as an individual,
rather than as a sex object or a target for physical, sexual, or emotional
abuse.  You would rather be in a steady committed relationship rather than go
for the "flash in the pan".

If this sounds like who you are and what you are looking for, hit 'r' now. :)

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