From: cbnewsg@cbnewsg.att.com
Subject: Re: Do you mind his/her virginity?
Originator: cbnewsg@cbnewsg.cb.att.com
Organization: AT&T
Date: Mon, 16 Nov 1992 19:43:29 GMT


There're couple of male/female relationship discussions poped up on s.c.t
these days. Those remind me of the surveys we conducted while I worked for
a women group in Taiwan couple years ago.

I'm always wondering if we are moving forward or stick to the same culture
measurement we used to be.
I would like to pick some of them(8 out of 25) and conduct a survey in s.c.t.
Maybe we can get some feedbacks from a larger sample size as oppose
to some irrational comments back and forth from some netters.

To make my shell program easier, if you wanna participate in this survey,
please mark your e-mail subject header as "s.c.t survey" and place all the
answers seperated with a space within ONE line.
<Ex>. 2 2 2 2 2 0 2 2
  or  2 2 2 2 2 0 "my text comment here" 2

All comments are welcome via e-mail and thanks for your participation,
I'll post the result right after my trip back to Taiwan.

Yee-Yin,
=============================================================================
(A) age
	(1) under 18. (2) 19-25. (3) 26-32. (4) over 33.
(B) sex
	(1) female. (2) male.
(C) marital status
	(1) single. (2) married. (3) divorced. (4) divorced and remarried. (5) other
(D) While you are seriously dating your boy/girl friend and find out s/he had
    the sex experience before your relationship, what's your reaction?

   1-----------3-------------5----------------8---------------10
   ^	       ^	     ^		      ^		      ^
Healthy	       No influence  stange feeling,  maybe fight or  break up
relationship,  at all,	     (but can't do    argue on that   immediately
(even feel     (make no	      much about it   issue whenever
happy for it)  difference     since that's    something bad
	       if I know it   happened before happened.
	       or not)	      my relationship)

(E) After you are married and find out that s/he had
    the sex experience before your marriage, what's your reaction?

   1-----------3-------------5----------------8---------------10
   ^	       ^	     ^		      ^		      ^
Healthy	       No influence  stange feeling,  maybe fight or  divorce
relationship,  at all,	     (but can't do    argue on that   immediately
(even feel     (make no	      much about it   issue whenever
happy for it)  difference     since that's    something bad
	       if I know it   happened before happened.
	       or not)	      my relationship)

(F) If you score more than or equal to 9 points for question (D) and (E),
    can you tell us why?
    (0) Not applicable(pick this for those score less than 9).
    (1) I love him/her very much, I can't stand that.
    (2) Everybody said it's important, so I think it's important.
    (3) Deep in my mind, I don't know why.
    (4) I own him/her, that's why.
    (5) others. (briefly describe your reason)

(G) If you score less than 9 points for question (D) and (E), can you tell us why?
    (0) Not applicable(pick this for those score more than 9).
    (1) I change my mind from time to time, this time I don't care.
    (2) I love him/her very much, that's why I ignore that.
    (3) Current trend in society.
    (4) I'm really open-minded on the healthy relationship.
    (5) others. (briefly describe your reason)

(H) Would you tell your siginificant other(or husband/wife) that you had sex
    experience before your relationship with him/her?

   1-------------------------5---------------------10
   ^                         ^			   ^
   Of course I would.	     Maybe, maybe not.	   Absolutely NOT.


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