From: susan@coombs.anu.edu.au (Susan McDonald)
Subject: Re: Manhood, talking tough, posting in t.p.g., life, universe and
Organization: Computer Services Centre, Australian National University
Date: 16 Apr 92 01:37:34 GMT

malloy@NPRDC.NAVY.MIL (Sean Malloy) writes:

>In article <susan.703122943@coombs> susan@coombs.anu.edu.au writes:
>>malloy@NPRDC.NAVY.MIL (Sean Malloy) writes:
>>>In article <susan.702687861@coombs> susan@coombs.anu.edu.au writes:
>>>>	Wanting equality does not mean that we want to become the _same_ as
>>>>men.  We don't want the male (violent) solution to our problems because all
>>>>it causes in the long run is just more grief and suffering.  Wymmin seek an
>>>>alternative _peaceful_ solution.  
>>
>>>Fine; you can let your 'alternative _peaceful_ solution' be lying down
>>>and spreading your legs when a rapist isn't willing to listen to you,
>>>but don't try to force _your_ idea of the _right_ solution on someone
>>>to whom lying back, gritting their teeth, and accepting it is a
>>>completely _unacceptable_ solution. Coercing everyone else to follow
>>>your ideal of 'peaceful solutions' makes you different from men only
>>>in that you're employing a different _kind_ of violence.
>>
>>	A rather typical male response IMO.  Have you ever considered that
>>it might not be possible to reach the point where its no longer necessary
>>for anybody to have to, "lie back and grit their teeth,"?

>What you state is a distinct possibility. However, on the assumption
>that you were too _careless_ to proofread what you wrote, and what you
>_meant_ to say was "... it might be possible to reach the point ...",
>then suppose you answer the question of what we do until then. While
>_society_ works toward your utopian ideal, _individuals_ are being
>victimized. But, then, sacrificing the individual to the great god
>Society has always been popular, on both sides of almost any
>argument.

	Indeed it has.  What was that T(w)ermie and Roy were saying back
in November about those victims of mass murderers who chose to use a gun?

	"Martyrs to liberty"?

	I didn't see too many pro-gun people publicly taking them to task
over their extreme, uncaring statements.

	Well, perhaps its time that you realised that not everybody can
be protected all the time and that in the process of getting crime under
control through better gun regulation that some might have to be victims. 
Just as you refuse to admit that under the utopia of universal gun ownership
you desire that some people are going to become the victims of crazed
gun men and the criminals who do dare to continue to prey upon "law abiding
citizens" (I would presume by shooting them before they have a chance to
draw their mandatory gun).

>>	Why should we as wommin have to control the behavior of men who
>>can't control their dicks?

>Fine; if you want something that doesn't poke your 'women as victims
>of men' kneejerk, then let's modify the above situation to having a
>mugger corner you and threaten to use a 6" switchblade to perform some
>amateur plastic surgery on you if you don't turn over your purse, then
>decides to do it anyway because he didn't like your hesitation. Of
>course, it's _completely_ unacceptable for anyone to be permitted to
>choose to defend themselves against this, and to make sure that they
>don't, we have to make sure that nobody has any legal way to obtain
>the tools to make that defense easier.

	Yet, how under your hypothetical would I be able to "go for my gun"
unless I am carrying it in my hand, all the time Sean?

	To me, in this situation, I would be simply giving my gun to the
assailent anyway, as he has the drop on me, and despite what you think,
I know I wouldn't be going out of my way to provoke him by attempting to
draw my gun to defend myself.  If he's close enough to threaten me with
a knife, he's too close to be able to draw a gun without being stopped IMO.

>That way, society divides itself neatly into the criminals (who will
>be armed to prey on their victims), the police (who are armed because
>the criminals are dangerous), and the victims (who aren't armed
>because the police will protect them whenever they get around to
>showing up).

	So?  Then make the police more accountable.  Fund them better,
provide better incentives to them to actually accomplish the job they are
employed to perform.  Don't assume that simply because they fail today,
that if you make them more effective they will always fail Sean.


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|*    *|as under natural conditions, our motherhood would be our glory. That |
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