From: tcheung@cc.uow.edu.au (teresa cheung)
Subject: Re: Advice to Lonely heart, Peter
Organization: University Of Wollongong
Date: Tue, 13 Oct 92 01:43:33 GMT

mkwan@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au (Dr. Mike) writes:


>>	To all known to be Dr. in 3 lonely heart club, I need your 
>>analysis on the case regarding to one of my best friend:
>>
>>	My friend (let's call him Peter) is going to be a fourth year 
>>student and the girl (call her F.S.)  is 3rd-year student and I think
>>her personlity of F.S. is pity agressive (I mean she welcomes all boys 
>>dating her) and is also active in any activity.  On ther other hand, 
>>Peter is honor student and gives other people have a feeling that he
>>is reputable and frank.  F.S. had already known Peter for a long time 
>>since they were in the same department.  But you know, they are just a 
>>friend of "saying Hi" so.
>> 
>>	Peter started being attracted by her on last semester.
>>And he tried to ask for a lunch or dinner with her, but he didn't have
>>a chance because of the end of semester.  On the other hand, F.S. always
>>has a guy (call him P.K) go with her ,such as dance partner, dining
>>with F.S.. So what does Peter need to do in order to possess F.S.'s love?
>>
>>	 Dr(s). of 3LHC, finding any clue?
>>


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>   *     *                 New 3 Lonely Hearts Club             *     *
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>                  Advices from Dr. Sleeping Beauty to Peter
>                  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

>Hi Peter,

>	From a female point of view, I don't mind a boy who is loving me,
>but he should let me know.  No matter which way he presents, but make sure
>that he is not trying to hurt me.

>	However, Peter, you should understand one thing, I would feel very
>surprised if a boy suddendly invites me to have a dinner or even says he
>loves me.  Therefore, first reaction from me would be reject you directly.
>But you don't give up, because it doesn't mean that you have no chance.
>You should keep trying 2 or 3 times, you may have a chance.  As your friend
>said, time is running out, so you better hurry, try you first move.

>	After your move, it will all depend on the response from F.S.

>	And you don't worry about too much her so-called boy friend (P.K.),
>most of the modern girls will not care to have more than 1 boy friend as
>long as they are not married.

>	Go for it !!!

>						Dr. Sleeping Beauty
>						shsieh@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au
> 
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>    * *.* *  * *.* *  * *.* *               STU_WCLAU@VAX1.ACS.JMU.EDU
>    *     *  *     *  *     *               Dr. Mike
>     *   *    *   *    *   *                mkwan@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au
>      ***      ***      ***                 Dr. Sleeping Beauty
>     New 3 Lonely Heart Club                shsieh@esk.compserv.utas.edu.au



Hi Peter:
Here is another female point of view.  Most times, females as 
well as males are pretty unstable at this stage of their university
life.  What that means is, their thinking, views, outlook can change
minute by minute.  Also, what people show on the outside is not
necessarily what they feel inside.  For eg., you say this girl is
quite popular with guys.  Maybe on the outside she is really
a babe and shows it through happiness and confidence.  But inside
she may be wishing for another type of guy who is not a playboy;
maybe she wants to settle down to somebody serious.  Maybe she still
wants to play around with guys until later and then settle down.
Maybe she doesn't know what she wants.  Maybe she wants somebody like
you but doesn't know it.  Anyway, my point is, you don't know
until you try.  Trust me, I have heard many many strange stories
regarding love:  ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN.  There is no formuala or plan.

Of course, don't act foolishly.  Read her personality and decide
whether you can deal with her character.   Learn to read her
reactions.  And show her your sense of humor.  Yes, money and car and
goodlooks help -- but they are only an attraction, just as a pretty girl
is attractive to guys.  If she is mature, she will look past those
things and see your personality.  And if she likes your personality, 
she may give you a chance.  She can also say "no" if it is not the 
right time.  And that is also part of love and relationships:  fate, luck
and good timing.  

So, I wish you luck, Teresa
From: yuk@hpopd.pwd.hp.com (Yuk Lun Chan)
Date: Wed, 14 Oct 1992 08:21:03 GMT
Subject: Re: real singers
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