HDTenEightyP/NetNews huggingface dataset:
From: alan@osf.org (Alan Hamilton)
Subject: Re: being out...
Organization: Open Software Foundation
Distribution: na
Date: 16 Nov 92 18:18:14

rob-

> It's really frustrating to be closeted, but it takes so much work to
> be the token bi.  I just don't have the energy to be constantly
> explaining to these people with binary conceptions of sexuality, what
> being bi means.  I feel guilty though, that if I don't do something to
> raise the issues, I'm only hurting myself in the long run....

You just may be in luck!  The _International Directory of Bisexual
Groups_, 9th edition, hot off the presses, lists:

Austin Bi Network, P.O. Box 8439, Austin TX 78713.  [Monthly men's,
women's, and mixed gender support groups.  Weekly socials & other
special events.  Founded 1992.]

When you get in touch with them, let us all know how they (and you)
are doing!

> This is like coming out for the first time all over again! ARGH!!!!

<sigh>    Yes.

But you made it through the first time, and you'll make it throug
this, too.

<HUGS>
-Alan
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: sa121@cl.cam.ac.uk (S. Arrowsmith)
Subject: Re: wombats
Keywords: wombat, touch
Reply-To: SA121@phx.cam.ac.uk (S. Arrowsmith)
Organization: Glad to be Sad
Date: Wed, 18 Nov 1992 16:11:27 GMT

In article <1992Nov13.052118.28747@sbcs.sunysb.edu> rhorn@csws8.ic.sunysb.edu (Robb) writes:
>  Would you like to touch my wombat?
>
"A wombat is the device used for playing the game of "Wom". Anyone who knows
the rules to this game is advised to see a psychiatrist as soon as possible."

(The response to asking for help on "wombat" on a certain system around 
 here....)

--
\S
SA121@phx.cam.ac.uk   | There's nowt |"And in this moment, I need to be needed
sarrowsm@nyx.cs.du.edu| so queer as  |"When my self-esteem is sinking,
                      | folk....     |"I like to be liked" -- Peter Gabriel
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: iw@tosser.Rational.COM (The_Devine_Dolly)
Subject: Re: Feeling out of place
Organization: Rational
Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 01:07:23 GMT

MJW19@phx.cam.ac.uk (Michael Williams) writes:

>In article <BxtF1z.CtI@newcastle.ac.uk>, J.W.Harley@newcastle.ac.uk (Jon Harley) writes:
>> crj10@phx.cam.ac.uk (Clive Jones) writes:
>> >I see sexuality as something to do/be, rather than something to hold political
>> >opinions about.
>> 
>> I'm afraid if you believe it should be legal, that's a political opinion.
>> Everything is political. You can't escape having political opinions. That
>> isn't the same as being politically motivated.

>Personally I do have political opinions about my sexuality. They are, howver
>between me and the ballot box.



Unfortunately if we all left it between "me and the ballot box" we
would have some difficulty in ending discrimnatory laws.  We are after
all a minority.

Iseult.
From: rsr@soda.berkeley.edu (Roy S. Rapoport)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Homophobic garbage
Date: 18 Nov 1992 01:48:23 GMT
Organization: U.C. Berkeley, CS Undergraduate Association
Distribution: world
NNTP-Posting-Host: soda.berkeley.edu

In article <1e9auvINNl6f@cuda.add.itg.ti.com> winsor@geek.NoSubdomain.NoDomain (js) writes:

->I think that it is very sexist to #define FEMALE in terms of MALE.  They should

I _personally_ don't see any difference between defining a male as
non-femaleand defining a female as non-male.

Obviously, you do ...

My apologies if I offended you or any others ... such was not my intent.

-- 
Roy S. Rapoport          rsr@soda.berkeley.edu             rsr@ocf.berkeley.edu
"Letters from you make me feel good."  -Laura Creighton
"Why do you guys all have to have penises?" -anon
DISCLAIMER:  "I meant every word of it, but I doubt anyone else did."
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: seamus@ravel.udel.edu (James G Dilmore)
Subject: Re: Really a new post but I don't know how to do it:)
Organization: University of Delaware
Date: Fri, 20 Nov 1992 08:22:41 GMT

In article <Bxz8v5.IJn@cck.coventry.ac.uk> idx009@cck.coventry.ac.uk (the Crisco Kid) writes:
>>The winner gets their choice from a box of tissues and a vibrator.
>
>But Jim, I already have both... now, if you came up with some REAL
>incentive... :)
>
>				Kay
Oh but dear if you have something in mind I would be more
than happy to "accomate":) you.
Sly and demure wink.;)
Let you naught mind roam.
Jim, who has only had two entries and one week to go.
-- 
Jim Dilmore - seamus@brahms.udel.edu    
               SILENCE = DEATH    
This is not a black and white world,
to be alive I believe the colors must be swirled- Live.
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: crj10@phx.cam.ac.uk (Clive Jones)
Subject: Re: Good Vibrations Catalog
Telephone-Messages: +44 223 33 4900
Address: Christ's College, Cambridge CB2 3BU, ENGLAND.
Organization: 6am Digital Playground
X-Furry-Character: Gerald_Duck
Date: Wed, 18 Nov 1992 13:02:30 GMT

In article <Bxu88B.E98@ibmpcug.co.uk>, gtoal@ibmpcug.co.uk (Graham Toal) writes:
> That's out of date - about two years ago they came up with something
> which when injected at the base of the penis causes an erection.  Not
> for the faint-hearted!  Only works on certain kinds of impotency I think.

Tom Sharpe, Riotous Assembly springs to mind. He depicted a latex-fetishist
transvestite sex-crazed South-African woman raping a police officer with the
aid of something injected into his penis. I've forgotten what it was, but I
thought Tom Sharpe was reasonably well-informed about such things (he WAS at
Cambridge in the sixties, after all), and the book was written in the late
seventies.

--Clive.

(Mike says "Also read Wilt on High"...)
From: ttk@ucscb.UCSC.EDU (the troglodyte killer)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Homophobic garbage
Date: 18 Nov 1992 03:55:33 GMT
Organization: University of California; Santa Cruz
Distribution: world
NNTP-Posting-Host: ucscb.ucsc.edu


>In <1e9auvINNl6f@cuda.add.itg.ti.com> winsor@geek.NoSubdomain.NoDomain 
>(js) writes:
>
>->I think that it is very sexist to #define FEMALE in terms of MALE.  
>
>I _personally_ don't see any difference between defining a male as
>non-femaleand defining a female as non-male.
>
>Obviously, you do ...
 
     Well, just from a biological standpoint, males are mutations 
of the female organism..  So it'd make sense there to declare:
#define FEMALE 0
#define MALE   (!FEMALE)
 
     And (!FEMALE) is better style than just 1, in case you want 
to change the value of FEMALE from 0 to 1, but want to keep the 
two logically opposing..  (Three years after you wrote the 
original code and at 2:00am you might not remember to check..)
 
     The only argument for #defining MALE as 1 is if you wanted to 
define more than two genders later..  In which case you might not 
even want to declare a gender as type 0, but instead let 0 denote 
an individual whose gender you have not yet defined..  ie, for
something like "while(!who[index++].gender) assign_gender(index);"
 
/---\ /---\ /=   /   ttk@ucscb.UCSC.EDU (the troglodyte killer)
  =     =    = /    "Home is a place that keeps the rain off my computer"
  =     =    = \     B0 f- t+ w- g k s- m+ r- p-(++)     ______
  =     =    =   \                      silence = death   \bi/
The opinions above are my own; I have no employer          \/
From: crj10@phx.cam.ac.uk (Clive Jones)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Latin (was Re: coming out to my parents)
Date: 23 Nov 92 17:06:59 GMT
Organization: 6am Digital Playground
Telephone-Messages: +44 223 33 4900
Address: Christ's College, Cambridge CB2 3BU, ENGLAND.
X-Furry-Character: Gerald_Duck

In article <By1HB2.5xn@ibmpcug.co.uk>, gtoal@ibmpcug.co.uk (Graham Toal) writes:
> 
> 'Minime vero' - I *know* which book *he* learned Latin from :-)

"Ecce. In pictura est puella. Puella est Flavia."

--Clive.
From: pdc@dcs.ed.ac.uk (Paul Crowley)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Feeling out of place
Date: 19 Nov 92 11:42:05 GMT
Reply-To: pdc@dcs.ed.ac.uk (Paul Crowley)
Organization: Do they make a washing powder called Caliban Automatic?

Quoting MJW19@phx.cam.ac.uk (M.J. Williams) in article <1992Nov18.130222.3263@infodev.cam.ac.uk>:
>Personally I do have political opinions about my sexuality. They are, howver
>between me and the ballot box.

Choosing to stay silent is also a political act.
  __                                ____
\/ o\ Paul Crowley pdc@dcs.ed.ac.uk \  /
/\__/ "I'm the boy without a soul"   \/
From: bv426@cleveland.Freenet.Edu (Steven A. Kendrick)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: just say NO! (ack!)
Date: 17 Nov 1992 11:20:29 GMT
Organization: Case Western Reserve University, Cleveland, Ohio (USA)
NNTP-Posting-Host: hela.ins.cwru.edu


here's the best way to kick poppers:
 
before the discovery of HTLV/HIV, poppers were a posited cause
of GRID [aids].  While no extensive studies have been done,
it has been shown that amyl nitrate and related substances
can cause elevated liver function, spleen damage, bone
marrow changes, and other indicators of _immune suppression_,
that can make sex, even safe sex, a DANGEROUS PROPOSITION.
 
So, you can decide which is more fun-- rush or orgasmic rush!
sounds like an easy decision to me!
 
steve k. (bv426@freenet.cwru.edu)
"Odd!?!?!?  Course I'm odd!   I had to whiff moaury povich's
 pomade unde hot lights for 22 minutes!  Duh!"
From: crj10@phx.cam.ac.uk (Clive Jones)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: No subject
Date: 23 Nov 92 21:16:17 GMT
Organization: 6am Digital Playground
Telephone-Messages: +44 223 33 4900
Address: Christ's College, Cambridge CB2 3BU, ENGLAND.
X-Furry-Character: Gerald_Duck

In article <1992Nov22.200843.20381@dcs.qmw.ac.uk>, arodgers@dcs.qmw.ac.uk (Angus H Rodgers) writes:
> 
> And now I'm going to get demuffined! Serves me right.

Oh, drat, and I haven't written my demuffin script yet. I suppose I'll have to
do it manually... (-8

***Pounce***
***Rumble***
***Rattle***
***Hug***
***Scrunch***
***Squeeze, rehug, cuddle, lick, nibble, fondle, grope, lick, grope, lick,
   grope, lick***
Ahem...
***Squeeze***
***Hug***

--Clive.
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: cliveg@cix.compulink.co.uk (Clive Grace)
Subject: Re: crackpots in the bi group
Reply-To: cliveg@cix.compulink.co.uk
Date: Sat, 21 Nov 1992 23:13:00 +0000


> Huh?  You lost me.  What *is* this "knitting" thing that's cropped up lately?
> Is it new queer-speak I havn't caught yet?

Simple. I had a nervous breakdown and split up with my girlfriend (of 
about 8 years) at about the same time. I was told knitting could help 
me relax. So I have an Aran sweater "under construction" as it were 
-- no queer speak involved. It's called making your own clothes and 
having fun at the same time.
--
+-------------------------------------------+--------------------------+
| When I grow up, I want to give up being   |cliveg@cix.compulink.co.uk|
| a Journalist and learn how to write...    |cliveg@cix.compulink.uucp |
+-------------------------------------------+--------------------------+
|       Bisexual knitter of quality and distinction since 1992.        |
+----------------------------------------------------------------------+
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
Subject: crackpots in the bi group
Originator: elf@halcyon.com
Reply-To: elf@halcyon.com (Elf Sternberg)
Organization: Pendor, UnLtd.
Date: Sat, 21 Nov 1992 00:29:16 GMT

In article <1992Nov20.172408.7219@midway.uchicago.edu>
     h431@quads.uchicago.edu (heather e blair) writes:

   [ Relates a tale of crackpots in her bi group... ]

   We have someone like that in a local group; he's a very tragic
figure, really, because he's got cerebal palsy and is completely
socially dysfunctional besides.  He hangs out with the bi- group and
when he discovered I was in a local s/m club asked to arrange a scene
for him that... *shiver*... Let's just say I'll *never* do 10% of the
abuse he's looking for.  And, to be snap-judgemental, I'd say he's
doing *all* of it just for the attention.

   We have some who are a little strange...  From a lovely 50-y-o
grandmotherly lesbian who just knits to a tall, thin, reedy guy who
says "I could NEVER sleep with a man, but I understand the politics of
bisexuality, and I believe in them.  That's why I'm here.  But actually
having sex with a man... just thinking about it makes me ill."

   I'm glad _he_ understands the politics.  That makes one of us...

>I wish I were a werewolf.  I would wait for the full moon and be ...
>ATTACK ANIMAL!

   I know that feeling all to well!  *Hugs!* heather!

            Elf !!!
-- 
      __        |
      \/        |                2 Corinthians 4:4
Elf Sternberg   |
elf@halcyon.com |
From: pclary@carrot.csc.calpoly.edu (Ellen Clary)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: being out...
Date: 17 Nov 92 03:39:22 GMT
Distribution: na
Organization: Cal Poly, San Luis Obispo, CA - aka Barnum & Bailey

adkisson@ccwf.cc.utexas.edu (Rob Adkisson) wrote...
>It's really frustrating to be closeted, but it takes so much work to be the
>token bi.  I just don't have the energy to be constantly explaining to
>these people with binary conceptions of sexuality, what being bi means.
>I feel guilty though, that if I don't do something to raise the issues,
>I'm only hurting myself in the long run....

Be out.  Especially if you're even remotely comfortable with it.  
Remember you don't have to educate anybody.  You don't have to explain.  
Wearing a glb symbol (or something with glb wording on it) or having pictures
of an SO on the wall, takes no explanation.  You sexuality simply is,
you don't have to justify it or explain it to anyone.  If someone asks you
something sexuality related, you can give a one or two line answer.  
If they want to know more, but you don't have the energy, direct them to 
bi resources such as books, magazines, or organizations.  Don't sacrific 
your visibility, just because you don't have the energy to give an hour 
lecture.  The main thing people need to know is that there are queers around 
them.  There are still some people in the world who claim to have
never met a glb person, we need to show them they're wrong.

Ellen
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: cjmchale@dsg.cs.tcd.ie (Ciaran McHale)
Subject: Re: FAQ?
Organization: DSG, Dept. of Computer Science, Trinity College Dublin
Date: Thu, 19 Nov 1992 11:19:32 GMT

In <1992Nov18.204320.18020@netcom.com> solovay@netcom.com
(Andrew M. Solovay) writes:
>I don't think there is a soc.bi FAQ, but there's a soc.motss one.
>(soc.motss is the generic non-straight newsgroup.)

The "motss" in soc.motss stands for "Members Os The Same Sex". This name
was chosen to be deliberately obscure so as to heighten its chances of
being carried by sites. One could say that it was a euphemism for
"soc.gay" or "soc.lesgay". Motss does not stand for "generic
non-straight". It is primiarly a lesbian&gay space, though there are a
number of people of other sexual orientations (e.g., bi & stright folk)
who hang out there and are considered part of the family.


Ciaran.
-- 
---- Ciaran McHale (cjmchale@dsg.cs.tcd.ie)
\bi/ Department of Computer Science, Trinity College, Dublin 2, Ireland.
 \/  Telephone: +353-1-7021539 FAX: +353-1-6772204
From: s882916@otto (Vikki POLLARD)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Penetration
Date: 17 Nov 92 00:58:07 GMT
Organization: RMIT Computer Centre
NNTP-Posting-Host: otto.bf.rmit.oz.au

Thanks to Ciarhan for the alternative words to penetration but I'm afraid
none of them are appropriate. I don't know, they still seem kind of male
centred. I think I'll settle for "enclosure" kind of awkard but at least
it makes one think of a woman when it is said. Bonking is a good word, but
two women can bonk and not have penetration. So Enclosure it is I suppose.
Anyway I'm sick of it and am trying to eliminate from my sex life. It's just
such a lazy and easy way to make a man come. I mean I enjoy but I'm sick
of it.
Vikki
From: solovay@netcom.com (Andrew M. Solovay)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: FAQ?
Date: 18 Nov 92 20:43:20 GMT
Article-I.D.: netcom.1992Nov18.204320.18020
Organization: Smiley Abolition Front

In article <1992Nov18.021320.2920@udel.edu> litterst@pecan.cns.udel.edu (Nat'l Mediocre Soc.) writes:
>Okay, since I just got onto this group after reading over Zoe's shoulder
>I do have a few questions...
>	Is there a Frequently Asked Questions list?
>	Can I get it?
>	If there isn't can someone tell me what a muffin is?
>		(I have a clue.  I know it's something that provokes a
>		   really cool reaction.)
>	Also, if there is no FAQ, should we start one?

I don't think there is a soc.bi FAQ, but there's a soc.motss one.
(soc.motss is the generic non-straight newsgroup.)  Like most
FAQs, it's posted regularly to news.answers. It defines muffin,
among other things. If you have trouble finding it, EMail me and
I'll send you a copy.

I'm going to get out of here before the E_HUGS, E_NIBBLES and
E_ETC starts flying. I'm E_DIABETIC, and I didn't bring any
-- 
Andrew Michael Solovay    

"We know that Solovay is a misogynist and an idiot..."
                --Melinda Shore
From: J.W.Harley@newcastle.ac.uk (Jon Harley)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: "what other people think" (was Re: New Age Androgynous Bisexuals..
Date: 18 Nov 92 10:52:00 GMT
Organization: University of Newcastle upon Tyne, UK, NE1 7RU

sconley@magnus.acs.ohio-state.edu (Stephen M Conley) writes:

>muffy@remarque.berkeley.edu (Muffy Barkocy) writes:
>>sconley@magnus.acs.ohio-state.edu (Stephen M Conley) writes:
>>>J.W.Harley@newcastle.ac.uk (Jon Harley) writes:
>>>>PC-speak might be stupid if we were all liberated, but we're not.
>>>>What other people think about me does matter.
>>
>>>Then you will be oppressed by it as long as it matters to you.  You've
>>>guaranteed your own oppression.  Have fun.

>>What other people think *matters* because it translates into *action*.
>>This can be positive or negative action, depending on what their
>>thoughts are, but I assure you that people's thoughts *do* influence
>>their actions, and their actions *can* affect other people.
>
>Context DROP!  We were, as I recall, talking about whether it's okay
>for Elf to dislike New Age Androgynous Bisexuals.

No we were NOT. We were talking about whether it's okay for Elf to use this
forum to slag off New Age Androgynous Bisexuals. I clearly stated that this
was my objection to his article, for instance in <BxIH13.87t@newcastle.ac.uk>.

>  It was stated that
>Elf's decision to dislike them amounted to oppression.  I disagreed with
>that.

I stated that Elf's decision to air his prejudice against them in the
bisexual newsgroup was a form of intellectual oppression. I didn't realise
you were disagreeing with something I didn't state.

>  Elf did not say that they should be denied jobs, raped, or burned
>at the stake.  He said he did not enjoy their company.

And admitted his prejudice against them as a group. It's the first step
on a worrying road.

>>Acknowledging that "what other people think" *can* and *does* affect
>>your life is *NOT* the same as saying that your thoughts and feelings
>>are always influenced by theirs.
>
>Agreed.  But what I was saying was, if you let someone's negative
>opinion of you oppress you, then you're just creating oppression for
>yourself.
>
>There are no evil thoughts, only evil actions.

Agreed, but expressing a thought in any way is an action in this sense.


/jon
   ___________________ ____ ________________________________________
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 / J.W.Harley@ncl.ac.uk \/ /  It's the beginning of               // // //////
/_Phone:UK 091 222 8504__\/__a new love inside________________///////////  //
From: winsor@geek.NoSubdomain.NoDomain (js)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: _Making Love_
Date: 20 Nov 1992 01:38:55 GMT
Organization: Texas Instruments Incorporated, Austin
Distribution: world
NNTP-Posting-Host: geek.teng.ppd.ti.com

In article <1992Nov18.160906.19528@cbnews.cb.att.com>, eleanor@cbnews.cb.att.com (eleanor.j.evans) writes:
|> In article <1ebuj9INNqh9@cuda.add.itg.ti.com> winsor@geek.NoSubdomain.NoDomain (js) writes:
|> [stuff about the movie deleted, since I haven't seen it]
|> >
|> >I hadn't pressed this subject since my original post (demuffining post, indeed,
|> >sob sob sob) received absolutely no attention whatsoever ...
|> 
|> Augh!  One got away!!  Ha!!!  <track, track, track...hm, close on the
|> trail here...track, track, track....>  Aha!!  *pounce*  <swish>  Woops!
|> Try that again....   Aha!!  *POUNCE*  Gotcha!!
|> 
|> *snuggle* *nuzzle* *snuzzle* *nuggle* *slurp* *lick* *nibble*
|> 
Giggle.  Titter!
Thanks, Piglet... I needed that.

*HUGS*

|> Hm!  <wanders away dazed and wiping crumbs off of chin>  That one's
|> almost too much for me!  Hey, guys!!  I need some help over here....
<falls over in bright afterglow>
:-)
From: fishnets@soulsteppin.Corp.Sun.COM (Spanky)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Way to go Mom!
Date: 20 Nov 1992 16:27:50 GMT
Organization: Sun Microsystems, Inc.
Distribution: usa
Reply-To: fishnets@soulsteppin.Corp.Sun.COM
NNTP-Posting-Host: soulsteppin.corp.sun.com



Yesterday, while mailing a package for me, my mother told me she
saw the "gay sailor" (sorry, his name is on the tip of my tongue,
but I just can't remember it!) in his car at the post office.  
She walked up to his car, knocked on his window and gave him the 
thumbs up sign.  She said his smile was the best thing she's seen 
in months ;)

__
\/ Emily Ann
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: jcarroll@bach.udel.edu (Royal J Carroll)
Subject: Re: my roomie
Organization: University of Delaware
Date: Tue, 17 Nov 1992 16:00:18 GMT

In article <1992Nov13.191230.5582@vpnet.chi.il.us> orc@vpnet.chi.il.us (david parsons) writes:
>
>  Perhaps it's getting on towards time to make that long-delayed
>trip to Baltimore to ride streetcars.  After all, I've not yet,
>umm, arrived on that part of the easy^H^H^H^Heast coast, and I
>think I've never even been *in the state of Delaware.
>
Perhaps now is the time to correct that situation.  <flirt> <wink> <coy
come-hither looks> I think that it could be made worth your while!  :-)

(Oooohhh...one fun weekend and I'm out of control!)

-James
 

-- 
-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
But if some one really cared/well they'd take the time to spare
A moment to try and understand/another one's despair
-Axl Rose, "Breakdown"-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=jcarroll@brahms.udel.edu-
From: eleanor@cbnews.cb.att.com (eleanor.j.evans)
Newsgroups: soc.bi
Subject: Re: Gender-specific needs
Date: 18 Nov 92 15:55:22 GMT
Article-I.D.: cbnews.1992Nov18.155522.18739
Organization: who, me?

In article <MUFFY.92Nov17145043@anableps.berkeley.edu> muffy@anableps.berkeley.edu (Muffy Barkocy) writes:
>
>... but they [women] are still new and
>different, as a group, and therefore command more of my attention, just
>as any new individual lover does.
>
>...I've
>done so little of one (with women) and so much of the other that the
>former keeps popping into my mind...*smile*.
>

YES!!!  Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.  Hm.  Got a little carried away,
there.  Which is appropriate, since that's what I'd like to do....

Did I mention that after dinner with the wonderful woman I just 
met, I wanted to pounce on her and start kissing--and not come
up for air for a long time?  Of course, I chickened out....  :-(.
Just sort of jumped in the car and drove away, kicking myself for
not letting the moment take its course....


Piglet
Newsgroups: soc.bi
From: orc@vpnet.chi.il.us (david parsons)
Subject: Re: Gender-specific needs
Organization: Department of Atomic Text Units
Date: Mon, 23 Nov 1992 01:27:31 GMT

In article <1ejv9vINNcgh@cuda.add.itg.ti.com> winsor@geek.NoSubdomain.NoDomain (js) replies to an article about attracting motss:
|<also timidly raises hand>
|I've been outta circulation for more than a while, and don't think I ever
|knew (in the first place) how to hint to a motss.  Is it different with
|men versus women?

    I'd say no, but then again, I don't know if the approach I've taken
to using could be described - at least without excessive redefinition of
the word - as _hinting_.

                ____
  david parsons \bi/ Noted worldwide for his tact.
                 \/