From: t923335@minyos.xx.rmit.oz.au (IronEagle )
Newsgroups: alt.romance.chat
Subject: Re: Big trouble.
Date: 27 Jul 92 20:54:57 GMT
Organization: RMIT Computer Centre, Melbourne Australia.

ins499y@aurora.cc.monash.edu.au (Mr D. Peethamparam) writes:

>Hi everyone out there in ARCland!  I'm Deeran, and I've been reading
>alt.romance.chat for a few months now.  You guys are the friendliest 
>people on the net!

>Although I've posted a few followups, this the first time I've started
>a new thread.  Hope all of you out there can help me with this little
>problem....


>I'm in trouble.

>Big trouble.

>Big big BIG trouble.  The kind of trouble _so_ big it'll WHAP! you 
>upsidethehead even if you just lookatitfunny.

Hmmmmm  okay Deeran, what you been up to?? Tramping around Fitzroy St
again??  =)

>What have I done?  I've violated my Three Cardinal Rules Of Romance.

>1.	I vowed to never get into a relationship with someone where
>	the fallout, either from the relationship itself, or from
>	the breakup, would create hassles.  That counts out my
>	sister's friends, my friends' sisters, and any of my
>	dad's friends' daughters.

Hmmmm....well, I have had a date organised for me by my sister, for me
to go out with one of my friends friends....does that break this rule
too??  =)

>2.	I vowed never to get involved with someone Asian (I'm from
>	Malaysia, originally -- migrated 11yrs ago) because either
>	my dad would know her parents (he has a lot of school and
>	business contacts back home), my mom would know her parents
>	(she too has teaching contacts back home), or she'd have to
>	leave after fininshing her course (I don't believe in
>	LDRs).

Hmmmm.....well I vowed to never get involved with anyone, cos it
always seems that someone I know, knows them!!  (Only kidding about
the vow tho...  =)

>3.	Most importantly, never fall in love with a friend.  Ever.
>	Full stop.

WHAT?!?!?!?!   Gee, I love most of my friends, well, the female ones
anyway... =)


>And what have I done?  Fallen for my dad's college friend's daughter.
>AAAAAAAARGH!  And she's an overseas student, due to finish in 8 months
>(and leave for Singapore!).  AAAAAAAARGH!  _And_ we've been good friends
>for almost 3 years now.   AAAAAAAAARGH!

Hmmmm....tricky situation.....  is kidnap an option??  =)

>But, believe it or not, I don't really care.....  I'm just basking in
>the feeling of being attracted to each other.  *goofy grin*
>And I'd forgotten how good it feels to be held, and to feel loved.
>*goofier grin*

Yeah, I know what you mean...  *sigh*

>My dad has been appointed UnOfficial Guardian whilst she's studying here.
>I can just imagine the look on his face when he finds out......
>He is just going to _freak_ out!

Well, dont let him know......or tell him... or something!  

>Oh, man.  Just don't tell me to break it off.  We've both wanted this to
>happen for a while now, we were just unsure about each other's feelings.
>All that time wasted.  Never mind.  I just hope we can keep this low-key
>enough for it to escape my parent's attention.....

Well, I would suggest honesty the best policy  here...  honestly dont
let them know!  =)  Nahhh....I would suggest you break it to them
gently...I think.... 

>Thanks in advance.

>Deeran.


Your Welcome
-IE!

HEY  MR. PEETHAMARAM....   WHATS GOIN ON WITH YOUR SON AND THAT GIRL
WITH WHOM'S HONOUR YOU HAVE BEEN TRUSTED WITH!  =)

What ever you decide, I wish you the best of luck! =)


>					|	"In days to come,
>	Deeran Peethamparam		|	 we'll see the sun
>	ins499y@aurora.cc.monash.edu.au	|	 as more than just
>	dpeet@yoyo.cc.monash.edu.au	|	 a star...."
>					|		J. Farnham

>P.S.	Well, well, well.  J. Farnham was right after all.....
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