Newsgroups: soc.culture.vietnamese
Subject: Re: [Misc] To Trung Hoa, Phi Tru+o+ng and Giap Huynh
From: Lien-Huong Nguyen <marcy@PANTHER.WARM.INMET.COM>
Date: Tue, 12 Jan 1993 17:47:48 EST
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>     Oh, come on  lighten up !
>     Sorry if it offended you. I didn't know you wrote it. I just read
>     from those guys and I thought this was tho+ te^'u X rated between
>     guys. ( In Vietnam Ca dao, there are many joke poem like this OK)
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>     cha(?ng pha?i la. lu`ng gi`. What do you mean "public apolopy" ?
>     You are crazy. Please, don't read Vietnet if you take everything
>     so seriously. This is guy's talk ! and I'm sure girl's talk is
>     similar.
>
>      Giap

Anh Gia'p,
I repost the poem for you to see if it is a joke.  I do not like it a bit
the way you post your.  It is called Tho^ Tu.c.  This kind of language
is better spoken for guys only.  Would you say those thing in front
of a girl?   Course not, I do not think that you are that low.
It is not any different on SCV than at any other media.  The only difference
is that on SCV you do not see the other person face.  But this does not give
you the right to post those 'khie^'m nha?' lines.  Have consider to others
who find it very offensive.  Yes, I understood  this is a public forum
that is why you should be courteous.  I do not have to read SCV if I do not
want to, but it does not mean that you have the right to post offensive
materials on it neither.
        "Tie^n ho.c le^?
         Ha^.u ho.c va(n "
Those are the saying of our fathers to tell us to be courteous. You do not
have respect for yourself and for others especially to us women.  Do you ever
see us ever post anything like this on the Net.  We just don't because we know
better and that is call "tu+. tro.ng".  Please have considers for yourself
and others and stop.  You said that those ca dao were old, but it does not
mean that you should posted it up like that when you know that there are
many females on the net.  How dare you "la^'y bu.ng ta ddo bu.ng ngu+o+`i"
to say that we girl talk the same way you do.  If I ever say anything like
that, people would say to me " DDo^` ma^'t da.y ".

Gia'p, you said that those poem are ok to post and it is not offensive then
I suggest that you go home and ask read those lines to your mom to see
what she think.  It is sad for me to teach you these things on the Net, because
you should know these basics courtesy by the time you're 10.  I still demand
an appology from you and think you should appology to others on SCV.

I am looking forward to hear an appology from you.

Lie^n-Hu+o+ng

                Be~ Ba`ng

        Anh ho+?i ! Nga`y mai em la^'y cho^`ng
        Na(m nay tro+`i la.nh suo^'t mu`a ddo^ng
        Chie^'c a'o nhung xanh anh ta(.ng ddo'
        Em ma(.c be^n trong dde^? a^'m lo`ng

        Anh phu. ti`nh em dd^'n the^' sao ?
        Anh ddi bie^`n bie^.t cho^'n phu+o+ng na`o
        Bo? ma(.c ti`nh em trong nhung nho+'
        Vu+o+`n xua^n ai be? kho'a ddo^.ng dda`o

        Anh phu. ti`nh em anh bie^'t kho^ng
        Co^ ddo+n la.nh le~o so^'ng be^n cho^`ng
        Ti`nh go+?i ve^` anh, anh co' bie^'t
        Bao na(m tro+`i va^~n mo^.t mu`a ddo^ng

        Ga(.p go+? la`m chi dda~ muo^.n ma`ng
        Duye^n xu+a dda~ lo+~ chuye^'n ddo` ngang
        Kho+i ddo^'ng tro ta`n tin`h duye^n cu?
        Ga(.p go+? la`m chi dde^? be~ ba`ng

                        Lie^n-Hu+o+ng
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