From: 31he@gw.wmich.edu
Newsgroups: soc.culture.hongkong
Subject: Re: Help 3 LHDrs (Re: Dr. Dog's view)
Date: 9 Oct 92 11:49:13 EST
Organization: Western Michigan University

	|So it is completely foolish to date F.S. out to dinner.  IMO, I would 
	|rather date P.K. out and have a good dinner with candle lights with him
	|Peter should change his attention to P.K. and be a "dead gang"

Dr.Dog's view seems evaluated to use. I am not sure, this F.S girl is totally 
diferent from me, but we have a HK girl here similar to her, and there is a 
Peter too, even with the same name. And finally he got her! She was a girl that
playing around, and Peter is a shy, nice and sensitive guy. She didn't want him
but still kept him around, all of his HK friends persuade him to give up on her.
He stick to his objective, and things turning around later on. And now they are
together and happy, that girl changed too. 

I just want to say if you really want something so bad and be patient enough, be
consistent enough, then it will happen. Now it is just a matter of the ways you 
chose properly. Ask her for a dinner, then tell her how special the restarant 
is, how nice some special dishes are, make her interested and hard to refuse 
your sincerity. If you ask her for a movie, then tell her that you wanted to see
that movie for a long time and finally get the chance, tell her that movie won
some prize and is hot in discussion; for a dance, then say they play some music
which are really special and romantic, tha band is new but nice, etc. That's the
way I agreed some friends' date which I wasn't really want to agree at the first
time.

About dinning with her boyfriend, I don't have any comment about. Since it's 
hard to say when you don't know someone. Usually if someone loves a girl, then
he wants to know how good her boyfriend is, but he could never really get along
with him well. Because this is the human nature. One of my close friend always
want to talk with me about my boyfriend, but when I suggested to introduce they
two some time, he refused firmly. Another one when he knows that he is hopless,
he asked me to introduce my boyfriend to him. He took off from the work, came 
over from another city to attend the party which I will go with my boyfriend 
just to see how nice my boyfriend is. After I introduce they two to each other,
I felt so upset. They were shaking hands, smiling and talking like friends, but
still one's eyes are blue, the other full of wonders and caution. I felt like
hell. I do not think this will be a good idea, at least it is hard to be 
feasible. Trying to be close to the F.S. girl will be enough, talk about her 
boyfriend, but don't ever mean to say bad words to him...

If you want it, then do it, your chance will at least be 50%. But I just wonder
what that Peter really be attracted to... It's really need to be questioned that
just see her in the class and fell in love with her without knowing her 
character, personality and ways of life... If it is just some external elements
that alured him, then he will get over fast...

Always always think carefully what you want, this is what I always told those 
who want to come close to me...



Cindy
Newsgroups: soc.culture.hongkong