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From: v069qryr@ubvmsb.cc.buffalo.edu (Aaron Breen)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Words _NEVER_ to call a Guy
Date: 15 Sep 92 18:06:00 GMT
Organization: University at Buffalo
News-Software: VAX/VMS VNEWS 1.41

In article <1992Sep15.103625.3277@memstvx1.memst.edu>, mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu writes...
>> I know what its like. Women always tell me I'm a nice guy, but they don't
>> want to go out with me. Do women only want to go out with bastards?
>> 
>> Ross
>> 
>> [Look Rai, I've learned to post, I hope!!!]
> 
> 
>Way to go Babe! as far as names to call men:
> 
>Sexy, Hot, Cool, naughty, wild, crazy
> 
>Not:
> 
>Nice, sweet, intersting, etc..
> 
>Rai.
>_______________________________________________________________________________
>CENSORED SIG!
>_____________________________________________________________________________

Rai, thank you for telling the world that "nice guys" can still be sexy, and
naughty, and wild. I know that I'm a "nice guy" and not a marshmallow (like
some other young ladies would have me dubbed, Barb), and I can get very wild
and naughty and crazy after I've had a couple of beers and am on the dance
floor. Just because a guy is "nice" doesn't necessarily mean that they don't
WANT to be a little nasty, but rather, they wait for a long time BEFORE they
pull their actions, that's all. Being "sexy" or attractive or attracted to
someone else is a personal "preference", so to speak. Someone who is 
attractive to me, might not be so attractive to a friend of mine. You MAKE
that person attractive due to your own values and preferences, plain and
simple. "Nice guys" can be attractive, but you have to look at them closely
to realize the true beauty of them.

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From: ap.4604@cupid.sai.com
Subject: GWM seeks..
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Date: Sat, 05 Sep 92 21:06:44 GMT
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Hi.  I just want to get onto irc tonight.  Bradenville seems to be inaccessible
from my location.  If you know another way to get on, please let me know.  Thanks.


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From: bconnell@nyx.cs.du.edu (Beth Connell)
Subject: thanks..
Organization: Nyx, Public Access Unix (sponsored by U. of Denver Math/CS dept.)
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Date: Tue, 15 Sep 92 07:16:50 GMT



thanks for all the mail.. 

I'm doing my best to respond to it.. but I should  clear up a few things...
(well, one)

For those of you that are curious, I don't live in DEnver.. I live in
Buffalo, N.Y.  ..just half an hour away from Niagra Falls...
 So PLEASE don't ask me about  Denver..
I couldn't help you...

oh.. and if you don't think I'm REALLY female...    believe what you
want.. I'll just sit here and break out the marshmallows...:)
       Beth
From: rcheung@sirius.ucs.adelaide.edu.au (Richard Cheung)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Rai Once More
Date: 16 Sep 92 00:39:53 GMT
Organization: Information Technology Division, The University of Adelaide, AUSTRALIA
NNTP-Posting-Host: sirius.itd.adelaide.edu.au

In article <1992Sep15.123628.3279@memstvx1.memst.edu> mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu writes:
>I'm mad! I'm furious! My computer at work that I have all my sig files and
>correspondance lists etc.. won't connect up to internet!!!!! It's like
>It's like....a...a... almost loke going w/o SEX. Oh g-d. I'm losing it!!
>
>OALN, (On a lighter note), Good Morning Guys [as always a generic term],
>
>Well the story thread is going pretty good although submitions have dropped
>down a bit.  Hmm.,. My wrting unfortunately has been limited since school
>has started. I need inspiration!!! I need sparks! I need I need to 
>What do I need? Don't answer that!!!
>
>Topic for discussion... 
>this is something I have had trouble with. Telling a guy that you like that
>you don't want to go out. I mean someone you really want to go out
>with but just not that night I.e. you don't feel well or something. Everytime
>I say something like this they think I'm no longer interested.
>
>Rai.
>
Having been reading this newsgroup on and off whenever i get sick of my 
assignments and have read hrough the music newsgroups... I found this 
discussion interesting!!!!

Well Rai (I presume you are female?!) are you telling this guy when he asks
you to go out on a particular night? like if this guy came upo to you and 
ask if you want to go out on friday night... maybe if you don't want to
then tell him something like "I can't as I have to get up early on Saturday
so i need to get to bed.." or something like that, BUT if you really like
this guy, then uyou should immediately try to make a new time, maybe not
for a big date, but just for a coffee or something like that... something 
little so that the guy won't feel too rejhected and will stilkl think
that you are interested....

thats my opiniion anyway!!!!

:)

Richard
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From: tls@brspva.enet.dec.com (Tim Short)
Subject: Re: nothing serious, just penpals
Reply-To: tls@sscvx1.ssc.gov
Organization: Superconducting Supercollider Laboratory
Date: Fri, 11 Sep 1992 08:59:00 GMT

In article <1992Sep8.205509.1895@bvc.edu>, carltonjohns@bvc.edu writes:
|>Subject: nothing serious, just penpals
|>
|>	ATTENTION!!!!!  FEMALE PEN-PALS (KEYBOARD PALS) WANTED
|>
|>    	I have a quick since of humor, appreciate poetry, and can tell 
|>	a pretty good story.  I do write promptly, and keep up a pretty 
|>	good correspondence.  I you are bored, lonely, or just would like 
|>	get things honestly from a male prospective, drop me a line

You like historical jokes I suppose? 

Seriously, I am a male prospective too - I need more money for the
operation, all contributions gratefully received.

Yours,

`Samantha'.
From: gswst@gl.pitt.edu (Gary S. Wachs)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Austin SWM visitor seeks...
Date: 9 Sep 92 02:51:03 GMT
Organization: University of Pittsburgh, Electrical Engineering

Someone (preferable a petite 20's blonde with great taste) to show me
around Austin.

 I wanna see all the music, get to all the beaches, relax and have some
fun!
From: mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Rai Once More
Date: 15 Sep 92 15:15:06 -0600
Organization: Memphis State University

> Rai, is it just that you don't want to go out with them, or are you afraid that
> they are too "nice" for you? ;-)
> 

You miss understood I wanted to go out with the person just no that night, I
didn't feel well but, he didn't seem to beleive me.

Rai.
>
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From: ap.4113@cupid.sai.com
Subject: SWM ISO EMAIL FROM **F
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Date: Sat, 05 Sep 92 13:08:24 GMT
X-Iso: SF

        Hi, I have this problem of coming to work every
day and finding my mailbox empty.  I think it is time
to try and remedy this situation.  I would like to start
up email conversations with a few interesting women out
there in net land.  

        A little about me:

                I am 5'10" {not that it matters}, 20 years old,
                Single, White, and Male.  I am currently a 
                college student studying Physics and Astronomy.
                My favorite pastime is riding my motorcycle
                to places I have never been.  I also like
                many other subjects and am estatic about
                trying new things.

        If your bored or like to chat, just give me a buzz.

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From: escotoR@moravian.edu (Randall Escoto @ Moravian College Vampire CS Dept.)
Newsgroups: alt.personals,alt.personals.ads
Subject: Seeking email
Date: 8 Sep 92 13:56:12 GMT
Followup-To: alt.personals.ads
Keywords: Come on people


  Having met with little success with my first post (1 response),
I am attempting this again. If there is a problem with my post-
request please let me know. I still cannot figure out why my
first post was met with so little enthusiasm...


Hello there,
  I am here to ask anyone interested in email correspondance
to please write to me. The reason I am seeking email is that
I find myself spending more and more of my time at this
computer, and consequently, less and less time seeing/interacting
with people.
  "Who are you?" you might ask. Well I'm glad you did ask... ;>
My name is Randall Escoto (Randy). I am 6' 0" tall, approx. 265
lbs. (haven't checked in awhile), and male heterosexual. I have 
shortish black hair and soft brown eyes. To give you even more
of an idea as to my appearance, I have size 13 feet and size
12-1/2 ring-finger. I am a 19 year old Junior Computer Science
student attending Moravian College (Liberal Arts) hoping to minor
in Mathematics. 
  My interests include: reading (mostly fantasy/sci-fi), writing
(I have not done much of this yet except as relief for when my
feelings begin to overwhelm me), programming (to a certain extent)
, role-playing games (I helped to found our new Role-Players Guild),
miniatures painting (fantasy/some sci-fi), swimming (been awhile 
though), tennis, volleyball, raquetball, and the occasional foot/
softball game.
  I think that covers most everything for now. If you are interested,
just drop me some email. If you see something wrong with this, then
please email me about it or just post about about it.

Hope to be hearing from you,
-Randy, just Randy
-Moravian College  Bethlehem, Pa.
-Internet: escotoR@moravian.edu

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From: jenk@microsoft.com (Jen Kilmer)
Subject: swf, just like the movie
Date: 07 Sep 92 10:54:06 GMT
Organization: Microsoft Corporation

Let's see...I'm 26, 2 years out of school, spend most of my
time working with MS-DOS (the basic software for most ibm pcs
and compatibles).

I've lived in the Seattle/Bellevue area all my life, love the  
mountains and the ocean...tho I don't tend to climb all over
them :-)

I'm interested in conversing or perhaps more with others...
interest in computers helps, tho not required :-)

-jen


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From: tyger@netcom.com (Kitty in the Middle)
Subject: Re: Sexist statement????  was( }7G )
Date: Thu, 10 Sep 92 05:53:39 GMT
Organization:  Something close to nothing, but different than the day before

In article <1992Sep9.111902.3232@memstvx1.memst.edu> mcsweinberg@memstvx1.memst.edu writes:
>> 2)  It ignores that some women don't like sex sometimes.  Well, maybe this
>> is it but some men don't like some sex sometimes and I think the original
>> poster must have meant that HE always likes sex.  Maybe he should have said
>> that more clearly.  But this hardly seems sexist.
>> 
>The original poster said that "There is no Horrible sex" I interpreted this as
>sexist because maybe there is no horrible sex for men but I have know women to
>dislike or find it horrible.

Just about anyone can have horrible sex at one time or another, irregardless
of sex or other such issues. I would have to say that I worry about someone
that can find sexism in a comment like that. I would have to agree with the
previous poster that perhaps it could have been stated a little more 
clearly, but sexist? Ye gods...


>Rai.

   Tyger
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From: ap.443@cupid.sai.com
Subject: Bi(curious)WM at Purdue, 24, seeks...
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I'm basically looking for open-minded people, male or female, to talk to.
I am also looking for someone to help me explore my bi-curiosities.  If
you are also inexperienced and curious, so much the better.  


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From: patrick@is.rice.edu (Patrick L Humphrey)
Subject: Re: Getting out
Summary: There is no escape...
Organization: Rice University
Distribution: na
Date: Sat, 5 Sep 1992 14:46:27 GMT

In article <4SEP199212152245@gamma.is.tcu.edu> dyer@gamma.is.tcu.edu (Daryl Dyer) writes:
>Just a test to see if I can get out
>
>Daryl

How many times do I have to tell you -- dial 9 first?  :-)

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From: jared@midiline.la.ca.us ('286 Highlander)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: SWCM seeks SWCF...
Date: Sun, 06 Sep 92 22:57:18 PDT
Organization: MIDILine BBS - Altadena, CA - (818) 797-3285

In case you don't understand the abbreviations, SWCM is Single White 
Christian Male and SWCF is the counterpart.  But onto better topics...
 
I'm located (now) in the Antelope Valley area and seek someone with which 
I might develope an interesting, if not ultimately, productive friendship 
leading to relationship leading to... ?  My values are strong and I am 
quite vheament (veament, veahment...) about them.  Jesus is something I 
don't get around... I live in!  And He in me.
 
I'm 5'9", 142 lbs, brown hair/eyes, like hiking, bicycling, swimming, and 
anything generally outdoors-ish.  I like adventure and trying new things. 
I dislike smoking, drinking, and similar non-healthy ventures.  I seek 
someone who believes the WHOLE Word, praying in tongues, etc.  Full 
Gospel type.  Praise God!
 
Latre!
 
Jared

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From: howeird@hplabsz.hpl.hp.com
Subject: Re: Trip to Asia
Date: Wed, 9 Sep 1992 21:54:22 GMT
Organization: HP Research Grants Program

According to David Gay <dg3i+@andrew.cmu.edu>:
>I'm planning a trip to Asia for January and am looking for
>travel tips--places to see, places to avoid, etc.  I'm contemplating
>travelling to Tokyo, Hong Kong, Singapore, Bangkok, maybe parts of
>Malaysia, Indonesia.  I'm 28, a SWM, and have a variety of
>interests.

Try posting this to rec.travel.


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From: ap.4606@cupid.sai.com
Subject: Coloradian Gals
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Hi
If there are any girls from Colorado that would like to meet a real life aussie
when I come over there next year please contact me.
I am 6ft 2, weigh 165 lbs and I have long brown hair
I love having a great time and I'm looking forward to meeting any girls from
Colorado who also know how to have a good time.
See ya in a few months! ;)

Jase

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From: ap.3351@cupid.sai.com
Subject: GM in Sydney after......
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Hello !
	I'm blond, blue eyed 5'10" tall with a smooth athletic body.
	I'm good looking, but not male model material.

	If your in the Sydney area, are intelligent, good looking and 
	have an athletic body and are around 20-21 years old then
	maybe we could email chat and maybe more......discrete and 
	masculine a plus....

Jeff


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From: mickw@autodesk.com (Mick Washbrook)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: Words _NEVER_ to call a Guy
Date: 14 Sep 92 21:21:43 GMT

In article <88790@netnews.upenn.edu>, jbuskirk@eniac.seas.upenn.edu (Jason A Buskirk) writes:
> 
> "Babe" is great.  I've been called cute and nice my entire life and I really
> got tired of it about 3 years ago.  Since then I politely murder the person
> who describes me as cute or nice in my presence.  It has actually gotten 
> better because now I'm "great" and either interesting of strange.  Much more
> suitable to my tastes.  Just so long as it isn't cute and nice.

"Yo! Stud!" usually gets my attention.





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From: zelek@remus.rutgers.edu (Grey Wolf)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re: What's up with the babes/hunks?
Date: 15 Sep 92 04:15:51 GMT
Organization: Rutgers University

shulick@navajo.ucs.indiana.edu (Sam Hulick) writes:


>I still don't quite understand why there are people posting here who claim to
>be "extremely attractive" or "very sexy," etc.  If they are so, then why would
>they need this service/newsgroup? I don't think shyness would be a good answer
>for this.  People tend to want to talk to attractive people, so the attractive
>person couldn't be shy because they'd have people talking to them all the time!
>:)  Whatever.  Anyone else have anything to say on this topic?


   Sure, why not.  I may not be able to furnish a tidy explanation of why
someone who is otherwise considered "very attractive" might 'need' to post
here to meet someone, it can be the case.  I've been to more than enough
local BBS gatherings and internet system gatherings through the years, and
the number of women [and men, though I cared not one way or the other]
which can be considered anywhere from 'pleasant' to 'cute' to 'searingly
hot' that were there was *way* higher than one would ever expect from the
'stereotypical' computer crowd.  
   It seems society's stereotype over the physical appearance of the
typical computer hobbyist is still hanging on for dear life, but is slowly
vanishing thanks to cheap computer prices and the rising number of families
who have a computer with a modem in the house.
   I've dated women who have posed as amateur models from one system and
a couple of others who could have if they had the opportunity.  You just
might be surprised by whoever's on the other end of that keyboard.

Chris [zelek@aramis.rutgers.edu]
From: liam@durie.amigans.gen.nz (Liam Greenwood)
Newsgroups: alt.personals
Subject: Re:  Flirting.
Date: 13 Sep 92 12:29:10 GMT
Organization: It's Home, really...

In article <15390088@hpfcso.FC.HP.COM> gxc@hpfcso.FC.HP.COM (Guylene Citta) writes:
>You tell me!!
>I get just as frustrated as you do!!!
>When is a guy flirting and when does he just have gas???
>When you figure this flirting thing out, fill me in too    OK???
                                          ^^^^^^^^^^
Hmmm, all this talk about flirting then this. Dontcha just _love_
those double entendres? Or were you just flirting with everyone?
Oh yeah... <grin>.
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From: gateswk@craft.camp.clarkson.edu (William K.)
Subject: Back to boredom (school) looking to break it with email.
Summary: Once again a semester full of boring weeknights. Let's chat.
Organization: Clarkson University
Date: Thu, 10 Sep 1992 01:29:30 GMT







Here we are again.  The weekends are excellent but the weeknights as always
drag seriously.  So, I'm out for email.... Seems that all the people I wrote
last year have graduated or transfered out of netusing schools.

gateswk@craft.camp.clarkson.edu
also known as gates, william kenneth
more commonly known on the net as 'Walker'
I really wouldn't want to tell you who I am altogether right now since that
would one make correspondance very boring and would take a rather long posting.

Just a few notes I suppose to maybe give some interest. I am not always as 
lame as this letter sounds.  Sometimes I'm downright funny and quick too, like
dry cement through a spaghetti siv.  O.k. so written jokes aren't my forte'.
I'm really into comedy though.  I think I'm more of a very spontaneous person
which is why I find myself at a total and undeniable lack for words.  So,
if anyone wants to make my waiting time on the computer while my things
compile and such that much less drab and save me from a life of total despair
and agony in the face of number crunching computer geekdom.  (Got my official
glasses right here) Please,please,please,please write me.  Who knows maybe
we could really talk.  Send me a talk line too if I'm on. I've always got a
window to spare.  talk gateswk@craft.camp.clarkson.edu

Thanks for the impatience in the face of impotence.  !  <-- programming joke 
get it?  Heh heh.  Oh boy I need some sleep.
CUL8R

Walker 'dark uncle
gateswk@craft.camp.clarkson.edu
gateswk@logic.camp.clarkson.edu
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From: dimmen@hsr.no (Kjetil Dimmen)
Subject: Hilarious - Help wanted
Organization: Rogaland University Centre
Date: Mon, 14 Sep 1992 16:25:01 GMT


Someone posted an article to this group, stating she never wrote nor answered
personal ads. Neither do I, so I thought I'd answer just this one.

But somehow the email address got lost, (as all important email addresses do...)
and I'm stuck.

Help me out on this one, will you?

D.

Email: dimmen@hsr.no


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