From: trinh@twix.etdesg.TRW.COM (Tien Trinh)
Subject: -Do+`i So^'ng -Do^.c Tha^n
Originator: daemon@media-lab.media.mit.edu
Reply-To: trinh@twix.etdesg.TRW.COM
Organization: SCV Relay
Date: Thu, 10 Sep 1992 01:32:38 GMT

Tru+o+'c khi la^.p gia -di`nh, thanh nie^n va` thie^'u nu+~ -de^`u co' mo^.t 
tho+`i gian so^'ng -do^.c tha^n. Thu+o+`ng giai -doa.n na`y -du+o+.c xem la`
tho+`i gian co' nhie^`u bie^'n co^' nha^'t: trai ga'i lo+'n le^n, ho.c ha`nh
la`m vie^.c, co' ti`nh thu+o+ng ye^u. Ti`nh ye^u -do' la`m cho ngu+o+`i
thanh nie^n tha^'y mo^.t the^' gio+'i -da(.c bie^.t, mo^.t su+. tu+o+ng quan 
vu+`a ta.o ne^n su+. sung su+o+'ng da^ng tra`n ma` cu~ng co' the^? la` su+.
kho^? -dau cu`ng cu+.c.
     Ti'nh thu+o+ng ye^u cha me. anh em trong gia -di`nh thu+o+`ng nhe. mha`ng 
to?a sa'ng be^n trong. Tra'i la.i ti`nh ye^u nam nu+~ bu+`ng le^n ma~nh lie^.t
cuo^'n hu't, ta.o le^n nhu+~ng rung ca?m sa^u xa trong lo`ng nam nu+~. Khi
ti`nh ye^u da^ng -da^`y, ho. ca?m tha^'y co'mo^.t the^' gio+'i lo+'n ho+n
ca'i nga~(to^i) ma` la^u nay nhu+ bu+'c tu+o+'ng da^y` va^y bo.c mo.i ca?m
nghi~, suy tu+ cu?a ho., ho. tru+.c tie^'p tie^'p xu'c vo+'i mo^.t nie^`m
vui ma~nh lie^.t khi nghi~ tu+o+?ng hay ga(.p go+~ ngu+o+`i ho. thu+o+ng
ye^u. Nhu+ng ti`nh ye^u -do' le^. thuo^.c vao` -do^'i tu+o+.ng cu?a ho. ne^n
tu`y theo su+. die^~n di.ch, suy nghi~ ve^` -do^'i tu+o+.g -do' ma` ti'nh
ye^u bi. a?nh hu+o+?ng. Su+. lo so+. ma^'t ti`nh ye^u ta.o ne^n ca'c pha?n
u+'ng gia^.n giu+~ -du+a -de^'n su+. co^ la^.p, xa ca'ch,hoa(.c ghen tuo^ng
-du+a -de^'n su+. gia^. ho+`n tra'ch mo'c. Nhu+~ng bie^'n chuye^?n no^.t
ta^m -do' la`m cho thanh nie^n nam nu+~ thu+o+`ng tro^.n la^~n nu. cu+o+`i
cu?a ha.nh phu'c vo+'i nu+o+'c ma('t kho^? -dau.
     Khi co`n -do+`i so^'ng -do^.c tha^n, du` co' ngu+o+`i ye^u hay kho^ng
la` giai -doa.n thua^.n tie^.n nha^'t cho chu'ng ta ho.c -da.o. Khi thu+.c
ta^.p ngo^i` thie^`n va` nie^.m Pha^.t, chu'ng ta buo^ng xa? ca? ca'c vo.ng
tu+o+?ng, ca'c y' tu+o+?ng cho la` hay,ta -du'ng, ta gio?i cu`ng su+. che^ 
bai, tra'ch mo'c, gia^.n ho+`n ke? kha'c. Chu'ng ta la(.ng le~ ngha('n nhi`n
ca'c y' tu+o+?ng, ca'c ca?m xu'c -do' nhu+ nhi`n -da'm ma^y bay qua ba^`u 
tro+i` ma` kho^ng -do^`ng hoa' vo+'i chu'ng, kho^ng -de^? chu'ng lo^i ke'o
mi`nh theo, cu~ng kho^ng xua -duo^?i phu? nha^.n chu'ng, nga('m mhi`n
la(.ng le~ va` nha^.n bie^'t ma` kho^ng di'nh ma('c nhu+ the^' thi` ca'c y' 
tu+o+?ng, ti`nh ca?m -do'tu+` tu+` tu+. chu'ng la('ng di.u va` tan bie^'n -di
Ta^m ta nhu+ ba^u` tro+`i kho^ng co`n ma^y, tro+? tha`nh ro^.ng lo+'n, bao la
trong sa'ng. Chi'nh trong cho^'n ro^~ng la(~ng bao la a^'y ma` ti`nh 
thu+o+ng ye^u xua^'t hie^.n tra`n -da^`y. Ti`nh thu+o+ng ye^u -do' nhu+ ma(.t
tro+`i to?a sa'ng muo^n phu+o+ng, chie^'u -de^'n  ngu+o+`i, loa`i va^.t, co?
ca^y cu~ng -do^`ng -de^u` mo^.t thu+' a'nh sa'ng trong sa.ch, e^m di.u, no^`ng
a^'m, linh -do^.ng, tu+o+i ma't.
     Khi -dang co`n -do^.c tha^n, ne^'u ta -du+a mi`nh tro+? ve^~ vo+i' nie^`m
ha.nh phu'c bao la a^'y tu+'c la` chu'ng ta cho mi`nh mo^.t co+ ho^.i so^'ng
ha.nh phu'c -de^? ta.o la^p. nhu+~ng gi` ca(n ba?n nha^'t trong nhu+~ng bu+o+_'c
-da^`u tie^n -di va`o -do+`i: co' cuo^.c so^'ng vu+~ng cha?i, qua^n bi`nh, sung su+o+'ng, nho+` -do' ma` chu'ng ta tho^ng minh ho+n, hie^?u bie^'t ho+n, 
tru+o+?ng tha`nh ho+n trong vie^.c chua^?n bi. xa^y du+.ng -do+`i so^'ng
lu+'a -do^i sau na`y. Vo+'i ta^m an vui toa? sa'ng -do' thi` ti`nh ye^u thu+o+ng
nam nu+~ se~ tru+o+?ng tha`nh ho+n, vu+~ng be^&`n va` co' ti'nh ca'ch
xa^y du+.ng to^'t -de.p ho+n 
		(SO^'NG AN VUI VA` HA.NH PHU'C)
TTrinh
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