From: NOIRE@vm.poly.edu (Rob)
Newsgroups: alt.personals.bondage
Subject: looking for women in <<< N Y C >>> or surrounding area
Date: 11 Sep 92 18:26:55 GMT
Organization: Polytechnic University


     I have been reading this group for many months, and I finally
decided to give this personals thing a try.  A little about my
background:  I was born in Guyana in South America on september
27th 1970.  I was the first son of two high school teachers.  My
mother is indian, the ancestors of the majority of the people in
Guyana came from India as indentured servants.  My father is Black,
the ancestors of a large part of the population of Guyana came to
from Africa as slaves.  Guyana is the only English speaking nation
in South America, and is often considered a part of the West
Indies.  I lived in Guyana till two days before my 7th Birthday,
when my entire family moved to England.  My father who was now a
lecturer for the University of Guyana, received a scholarship to go
to England to study for his Masters Degree.  In 1980, my entire
family again relocated, this time to Nigeria in West Africa.  My
father had received a teaching position at Kaduna Polytechnic, a
Nigerian Engineering University.  In 1983, my family relocated for
the last time, this time to New York City.  We lived in Far
Rockaway, and I went to three and half years to Far Rockaway High
School, from which I graduated in 1987.  I then Started Polytechnic
University in Brooklyn, where I majored in Aerospace Engineering.
In 1989 I left my parents house, and stopped going to school full
time.  I started working in the Bursars Office full time as a
clerk.  Then in 1990, I got a job in the Data Processing department
at Polytechnic University as a systems programmer.  Since that time
I have been going to school part time, and working full time.  At
the beginning of 1992, I moved back to Far Rockaway to live with my
father and brothers.  Enough about my back ground, I am sure you
are getting quite bored of that sort of stuff by now.
 
Now a little more about me:  People often have mixed feelings about
me.  People often like me very much and dislike me very much at the
same time.  I am analytical, I think very logically, and when I go
to class I do very well, so I am often called very intelligent.  I
read a great deal, this is because I like to learn.  I also write,
but I have a lot of writing to do before I become any where near
good as a writer.  Many great writers that I have great, have great
thoughts, but use the english language in such a complex way that
you have to be a great reader to understand their thoughts.  There
are not many great writers, also there are not many great readers.
Most people would like to just read a book and have the idea or
story jump out at them, they do not want to have to chew the words
before digesting, they wish only to swallow.  I see nothing that
can be done about this, so I am trying to write to meet those
peoples needs.  I am a great believer in education, in health and
exercise, and a great many other things.  Once I believe something
I tend to stand firmly by my beliefs, and I am competent enough to
defend those beliefs.  I have a great physical presence but I do
not believe in physical violence, I believe in fact that violence
is for those who do not have the brain power to get what they want
through the use of their thoughts and words, but have to resort to
their fists instead.  I believe that everyone should do their best
to stay physically fit.  But one persons best may not be the same
as another.  I try very hard to treat all individuals fairly and in
the same fashion, regardless of age, race, religion or any other
such factors.  I have had many girl friends, but think I have only
truly been in love once.  If I care greatly for someone, there have
been many I cared greatly for, I tend to be very romantic and very
considerate.  I have been known to be very addictive to those who
have cared for me.  But I also have many points that some people
may find bad.  I am able to be in a physical relationship where I
have no feelings for the person that I am in the relationship with.
Often this person feels very hurt, but for some mysterious reason
keeps coming back.  I tend to have more than one girl friend at the
same time, if I am not in love, but when I am in love I can only
think of the focus of my love.  I am a very dominant person, and I
usually get my way, but there is very little that i actually care
about enough to want to do my own way.  I am not naturally an
affectionate person, I have to work at it, unless I am in a
relationship.  I can sometimes be very self-centered, as you can
tell from all I have written about myself.  I see my faults and I
try to correct them as time goes by.  I have a lot of goals in my
life, some of them realistic, some fantastic.  I would like to one
day be a professor, also a writer, also a philosopher, also an
inventor, and also a husband and father.  I have a secret ambition
to win a gold medal in the olympics, but unfortunately I am not
terribly good at any one sport.  I am a very independent person, I
spend a lot of time alone, but I am a people person, and get along
well with most people.  I am looking for a SERIOUS relationship.
I am very mature, and respect maturity in others.  I would like to
find my significant other, someone who is perfect for me, but who
is not a perfect person.
 
What I am looking for in a woman:  I am looking for someone who is
close to my own age, no more than 5 or 6 yrs older, no more than 4
or 5 years younger, but if I really like someone I do not care how
old they are.  A woman who is physically pretty,  I find beauty in
many different people.  Someone who cares about their body, their
appearance and does something about it.  Some who is not afraid to
be affectionate, or sexy.  Some one who is basically not afraid of
anything.  Someone who likes meeting new people and doing new
things.  Also very very importantly someone who is not afraid of a
relationship.  someone who is aggressive and knows what they want
in life. Also someone who enjoys reading for pure fun.  Who is
intelligent, I believe you do not have to have a hundred degrees or
even one to be intelligent.  Intelligence is not what grades you
get but how well you use what you learn.  It does not really matter
what race that someone is.  I would like someone who lives in New
York City or close by.  Someone who is able to take care of
herself, but wants a mate.
 
What I look like:  I am 5'11", 210 lbs, I have a 32 inch waist, 44
inch chest.  I have muscular arms, and legs.  The only faults I
find in my body is that i believe my stomach should be a lot
flatter than it is, I am by no means fat.  Also i would like to
have larger arms.  I have very thing black hair.  That is straight,
when it is short, and curly when it is long.  The top and sides of
my hair are cut very short, but the back is long.  I often braid
the back of my hair into one long thin braid that is 13 inches long
from the root to the tip.  I wear one silver hoop earring in my
left ear.  I wear glasses that are tinted very dark gray.  My eyes
are deep set, almond shaped and very dark brown.  I have long eye
lashes, thick eye brows, and dimples when I smile.  I am often told
that I have a beautiful smile.  My skin is the colour of cadbury's
milk chocolate.  I am often told that I look like the football
player from the Giants, Lawrence Taylor.
 
Likes:  Meeting new people, reading, music, talking, traveling,
dating, restaurants, martial arts, body building, writing, art,
drawing, romance, love, anything sexual, dancing, walking, new york
city.
 
Dislikes:  bossy people, racists, bullies, people who have no
control over their emotions, people who nag.
 
Food:  Indian, Japanese, Chinese, Mexican, Arabic, Greek, BBQ.
 
Cities:  New York City, Washington DC
 
music: scorpions, poison, skid row, the escape club, REM, Terence
Trent D'Arby, Pet Shop Boys, Modern Talking, Modern English, Kenny
G, Genesis, Billy Idol, C and C Music Factory, Whitesnake, INXS,
Duran Duran, John Barry, Firehouse, Depeche Mode, DiVinyls, Michael
Bolton, Living Colour, Billy Joel, EMF, Madonna, Eurythmics, White
Lion, Nu Shooz, Information Society, Jon Bon Jovi, Heart, When In
Rome, Phil Collins, Elton John, Rod Stewert, Jesus Jones, Guns and
Roses, Roxette, U2, George Micheals, Jazzy Jeff and the Fresh
Prince, PM Dawn, and a lot of others.
 
authors:  Charles Dickens, Piers Anthony, John Gardener, Warren
Murphy, Richard Sapir, Timathy Zhan, Craig Thomas, Steven Barnes,
Willian W. Johnstone, Willian Gibson, Robert N. Charrette, Michael
A. Stackpole, Dean Ing, Ben Sloane, George Alec Effinger, William
Diehl, George Turner, John Maddox Roberts, Molly Cochran, William
C. Dietz, Jack Mckinney, David Morrell, Ben Bova, P.N. Elrod, Karen
Haber, Robert Silverberg, Andrew Kaplan, Nigel Findley, James
Luceno, Robert L. Duncan, John Betancourt, Brian Lumley, L.S.
Riker, Eric Van Lustbader, Thomas T. Thomas, Fred Saberhagen, Tanya
Huff, F.Paul Wilson, Ray Gorton, Robert Cain, Ken Follet, Frederick
Forsyth, and many many more.
 
Sports:  I enjoy playing Soccer, table tennis, jogging, sprinting,
weight lifting, karate, judo. I like to look at gymnastics, track
and field, body building competitions, karate, judo, boxing.
 
Languages:  I have spoken English my entire life.  I took five
years of French lessons, but can not speak French well.  I can read
and write it though.  I am in the process of teaching myself Sign
Language.
 
Computer Related things:  I can use most major software packages
for IBM PCs. I can also use Amigas, Macs, IBM Mainframes, SUN work
stations, AT&T minis, Vaxes. I program in Basic, Fortran, REXX,
Pascal, Dbase (Foxbase, Foxpro), SQL, MC68000 Assembly language,
Procomm Script...
 
     In closing, I am an energetic fun person to be with.  Most
people find me very very interesting. I know a little about most
things, and am not afraid to express my opinions.  If you have read
all of this and you feel like getting to know me, send a message to
Noire@polyvm.