From: "TuyetTrang Le" <LTRANG@BLDVM4.VNET.IBM.COM>
Subject: Va(n: Ti`nh Ba.n
Originator: daemon@media-lab.media.mit.edu
Reply-To: LTRANG@BLDVM4.VNET.IBM.COM
Organization: N/A
Date: Tue, 21 Jul 1992 21:39:56 GMT

   TI`NH BA.N
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         Giu+~a nhu+~ng ba.n be` vo+'i nhau, ca'i ti`nh cu~ng no^`ng na`n la('m.
         Ba.n be` cu`ng dde^? tro+? nhau.
         Chu+'ng to? trong quan nie^.m cu?a ngu+o+`i ta ve^` ti`nh ba.n, co'
 mo^.t ca'i gi` thie^ng lie^ng cao ca?.
         Ba.n co' khi ha`ng nu+?a na(m hay ca? na(m mo+'i dde^'n cho+i vo+'i
 nhau mo^.t la^`n, kho^ng ca^`n ba'o tru+o+'c dde^? xe^'p dda(.t cho^? o+?
 cho^? na(`m la`m gi` cho ro^.n ra`ng. Nu+?a nga`y ddu+o+`ng dde^'n vo+'i nhau,
 mo^.t tra'i o^i? xanh cha^'m muo^'i hay mo^.t tra'i o+'t ddu+a cay cu~ng la`
 ddu? dde^? ddo^i ba.n vui vo+'i nhau he^'t nga`y na`y qua nga`y kha'c.
         Kho^ng co' su+. so^~ sa`ng tra? la.i nhau ngay ca'i mie^'ng a(n mie^'ng
 uo^'ng ma` ba.n mo+`i mi`nh. Nhu+~ng ngu+o+`i ba.n ta^m giao la` nhu+~ng
 ngu+o+`i
 ho+.p ti'nh ho+.p ne^'t vo+'i nhau, coi nhu+ co' mo^.t ca'i duye^n na`o run
 ru?i
 cho ga(.p nhau. Cu~ng kho^ng ha(?n la` dde^? nho+` va? gi` nhau. Thu+o+`ng la`
 chi? dde^? tro^ng tha^'y ma(.t nhau thi` vui, va('ng ma(.t nhau thi` nho+',
 buo^`n vo+'i nhau khi ga(.p dde^`u buo^`n va` vui vo+'i nhau khi ga(.p ddie^`u
 vui. Ddo' la` su+. ga(.p go+~ cu?a hai nu+?a ta^m ho^`n tuy so^'ng rie^ng
 bie^.t
 mo^~i ngu+o+`i mo^.t phu+o+ng ma` ba^'t cu+' lu'c na`o nghi~ to+'i nhau thi`
 la.i tha^'y ra mi`nh kho^ng co^ qua.nh.
         Vo^'n ta^'t ca? nhu+~ng cuo^.c cho+i gia?i tri' trong xa~ ho^.i cu~
 dde^`u ddo`i ho?i ngu+o+`i ta co' mo^.t ngu+o+`i tri ky?. Na`o ca^`m, na`o ky`,
 na`o thi, na`o ho.a,... ne^'u cha(?ng vi. ti`nh tri ky? vo+'i nhau, la`m sao
 hie^?u no^?i nhau o+? nhu+~ng pha't hie^.n cu?a ta^m ti`nh va`o trong mo^.t
 ngo'n dda`n, mo^.t nu+o+'c co+`, mo^.t lo+`i tho+, mo^.t ne't bu't ?
         Ga(.p mo^.t ngu+o+`i ba.n hie^?u mi`nh la` mo^.t ddie^`u sung su+o+'ng
 nha^'t ddo+`i.
         Lo`ng ta so+? di~ nho+' to+'i mo^.t go'c tro+`i na`o la` vi` dda~ co'
 mo^.t ngu+o+`i ba.n na`o so^'ng ta.i go'c tro+`i a^'y, hay dda~ co' ve^'t cha^n
 na`o cu?a ca? ddo^i ba.n ta.i dda^'y. Ne^'u kho^ng co' ngu+o+`i ba.n a^'y thi`
 cu+?a lo`ng ta cu~ng khe'p la.i kho^ng ca^`n nho+' to+'i go'c tro+`i a^'y
 nu+?a.
         Ngu+o+`i ba.n chi'nh la` ngu+o+`i dda~ mo+? ddu+o+.c cu+?a lo`ng ta cho
 ti`nh ie^u gia ddi`nh cu?a ta lan ro^.ng sang ti`nh ie^u so^ng nu'i, ngoa`i
 su+.
 giu'p ddo+~ ddu+o+.c cho ta tu+. nhi`n tha^'y ma(.t thu+.c cu?a lo`ng ta.
         Chu+a tu+`ng tha^'y ngu+o+`i na`o kho^ng co' ba.n ma` tha`nh ngu+o+`i
 ddu+o+.c bao gio+`.
         Ngu+o+`i na`o tu+`ng dda~ muo^'n la`m ddie^`u qua^'y, khi kho^ng ai
 nghe bie^'t, nhu+ng thoa'ng nho+' to+'i su+. nha(n ma(.t cu?a mo^.t ngu+o+`i
 ba.n ma` chu`n tay la.i, tu+`ng dda~ pha't u+'c le^n  kho^ng ngu? ddu+o+.c,
 khi ba.n mi`nh pha?i chi.u mo^.t su+. thie^.t tho`i na`o, tu+`ng dda~ bie^'t
 ghen vi` ba.n mi`nh san se? ti`nh ba.n vo+'i ngu+o+`i kha'c, thi` ngu+o+`i a^'y
 mo+'i tha^.t cha^n tha`nh tho^ng ca?m tha^'y ca'i thie^ng lie^ng cu?a ti`nh
 ba.n
         Cho ne^n khi ddo^i ba.n co`n qua^'n qui't nhau tre^n cuo^.c ddo+`i, ma`
 mo^.t ngu+o+`i bo^?ng ta('t bo'ng ddi, thi` da^y ddo+`n na`o cu~ng muo^'n
 ddu+'t
 ru+o+.u ngon na`o cu~ng muo^'n tu+`, thi phu' na`o cu~ng kho^ng co`n muo^'n
 la`m
 nu+~a.
         Cu. Nguye^~n Khuye^'n dda~ kho'c cu. Du+o+ng Khue^:

                 Ai cha(?ng bie^'t cha'n ddo+`i la` pha?i
                 Vo^.i va`ng chi dda~ ma?i le^n tie^n ?
                     Ru+o+.u ngon kho^ng co' ba.n hie^`n
             Kho^ng mua kho^ng pha?i kho^ng tie^`n kho^ng mua
                 Ca^u tho+ nghi~ dda('n ddo kho^ng vie^'t
                 Vie^'t ddu+a ai, ai bie^'t ma` ddu+a ?
                     Giu+o+`ng kia treo nhu+~ng hu+~ng ho+`
             Dda`n kia ga?y cu~ng nga^?n ngo+ tie^'ng dda`n

         Ca'i ddie^`u go.i la` xa~ ho^.i ti'nh cu?a con ngu+o+`i the^? hie^.n ra
 ti`nh ba.n thi` ai cu~ng dda~ co^ng nha^.n ro^`i. Song ca'i the^? ca'ch the^?
 hie^.n ti`nh ba.n a^'y thi` la.i ca^`n pha?i nho+' ro~ la` no' dda~ co' tu`y
 tu+`ng dda(?ng ca^'p ngu+o+`i va` tu`y tu+`ng khi' ha^.u ma` co' kha'c. Ca'i
 ti`nh ba.n xo^i xu.c giu+?a Ba ngu+o+`i Ngu+. La^m Pha'o Thu? be^n Pha'p,
 kho^ng
 gio^'ng vo+'i ca'i ti`nh a^m y? va` tha?n nhie^n giu+?a Lu+u Bi`nh va` Du+o+ng
 Le^~ cu?a ta. Ddem ca^n ca'i xo^i xu.c no. vo+'i ca'i a^m y? kia, chu+a ha(?n
 ra(`ng ca'i na`o dda~ ho+n ca'i na`o. Chi? ca^`n bie^'t ra(`ng ca'i thu' cho+i
 ba.n cu?a ngu+o+`i so^'ng mo^.t ddo+`i so^'ng no^.i ta^m la` no' nha`n nha.t
 nhu+ mo^.t bi`nh nu+o+'c trong; kho^ng vi` muo^'n lo+.i du.ng nhau ma` cho+i.
 Ma` tra'i la.i, cho+i ba.n chi? la` vi` ca'i thu' cho+i ba.n. Cho ne^n kho^ng
 pha?i ngu+o+`i gia^`u chi? cho+i vo+'i ngu+o+`i gia^`u, ngu+o+`i nghe`o chi?
 cho+i vo+'i ngu+o+`i nghe`o, quan sang chi? cho+i vo+'i quan sang va` da^n da~
 chi? cho+i vo+'i da^n da~.

         Tru+o+'c ti`nh ba.n, bie^n thu`y giai ca^'p ne^'u nhu+ co', cu~ng bi.
 xo'a he^'t.

         Ngu+o+`i ta ke^? la.i: cu. Phan Thanh Gia?n la`m quan to dde^'n Kinh
 Lu+o+c Dda.i Tha^`n, ma` trong dda'y lo`ng va^~n giu+~ mo^'i ti`nh vo+'i mo^.t
 o^ng ba.n gia` que^ mu`a cu.c ki.ch. Mo^~i khi to+'i cho+i vo+'i ba.n, so+.
 ba.n kho^ng tie^'p, cu. ba('t li'nh tra'ng ddo'ng he^'t ca? xa xa, ro^`i cu.
 thay ddo^?i y phu.c, lo` do` mo^.t mi`nh to+'i nha` ba.n, khie^'n ngu+o+`i nha`
 kho^ng ai nha^.n ra, mo+'i chi.u tho^ng ba'o dde^? ba.n ra tie^'p mi`nh.
         Su+. du.ng co^ng a^'y cu?a cu. Phan cu`ng vo+'i cha^'t thanh ba^`n
 trong
 lo`ng cu?a o^ng ba.n la` ca? mo^.t ca'i gi` ddie^?n hi`nh cho ti`nh ba.n cu?a
 ngu+o+`i Vie^.t Nam ta. Ca'i ti`nh kho^ng nhu+~ng la` tha^n thie^'t tu+. nhie^n
 ddo^'i vo+'i nhau ma` con` trong tra('ng dde^'n ca'i mu+'c muo^'n tra'nh ca?
 cho
 nhau su+. co' the^? khie^'n ngu+o+`i ngoa`i nghi ky. nhu+~ng ddie^`u na`o
 kho^ng
 dde.p cho cuo^.c ddo+`i ddo^i ba.n .
         Ngu+o+`i ta dda~ ki'nh tro.ng nhau, ki'nh tro.ng pha^?m gia' cu?a nhau
 va` ki'nh tro.ng cuo^.c so^'ng tu+.do cu?a nhau, cho to+'i ca'i mu+'c a^'y.
 Ca'i mu+'c mo^.t o^ng Kinh Lu+o+.c Dda.i Tha^`n ro'n re'n dde^'n le^`u co? cu?a
 o^ng ba.n gia` va` la^'y su+. ddu+o+.c ba.n tie^'p la` mo^.t ddie^`u ha^n
 ha.nh.
 Va` ca'i mu+'c, mo^.t o^ng gia` Ba Tri trong le^`u co?, kho^ng la^'y la`m ha^n
 ha.nh ddu+o+.c la`m ba.n vo+'i mo^.t o^ng quan Kinh Lu+o+.c Dda.i Tha^`n, ma`
 chi? thi'ch cho+i vo+'i o^ng Phan Thanh Gia?n ma` tho^i.
         Chu'ng ta tha^'y ca'i ti`nh ba.n a^'y dde.p dde^'n the^' na`o.


                                            Va(n Minh Vie^.t Nam
                                               Le^ Va(n Sie^u
                                            (Nam Chi Tu`ng Thu+)


ps. Ca'm o+n ngu+o+`i ba.n o+? phu+o+ng xa dda~ gu+?i ta(.ng tt ddoa?n
    va(n ni` ..

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