From: michael@neuron6.jpl.nasa.gov (Michael Rivero)
Subject: Re: Choice For Men != Not Wanting Children (was: Pre-Sex Contract)
Organization: JPL Pasadena CA
Date: Mon, 11 Jan 1993 16:16:04 GMT

In article <1993Jan10.015824.23459@netcom.com> rohwerwd@netcom.com (W. David Rohwer) writes:
>In article <1993Jan5.163633.8070@jato.jpl.nasa.gov> michael@neuron6.jpl.nasa.gov (Michael Rivero) writes:
>>>aldridge@netcom.com (Jacquelyn Aldridge) writes...
>>>
>>>>Instead of a late and heavy period a woman has
>>>>to find the resources to gain an abortion, knowing that the fetus is
>>>>growing and developing every day. Miscarriages are mourned, how different
>>>>is it to have an abortion? Men don't have the grief.
>>>                            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
>>
>>  BULLSHIT!
>>
>> [deleted]
>>
>>  I married a woman who explicitly promised a child. 2 weeks into the pregnancy
>>she obtained an abortion. To her it was just a "clump of cells" to be rid of.
>>When I expressed my grief, all I got was the standard femdogma about how
>>men don't really want children and that I should stop trying to make her
>>feel upset. 
>>
>>  I lost the child I had married for. I lost the family I went to school
>>and built a career to support. I do have a LOT of grief, and you are hardly
>>the person to dictate otherwise.
>>
>


>     Did you divorce her after she aborted the fetus?

  Not immediatly. I spent several months trying to get her into joint
therepy, and she just spent those same months spending, running up a
debt load I am still paying off to this very day. As of the end of the
marriage, she was telling everyone the marriage failed due to financial
reasons, and if asked, denies ever being pregnant, let alone having
gotten an abortion.

  As has been the typical case of divorce in Los Angeles, a flood of the
politically correct feminist rhetoric resulted in my ex getting all
the material assetts and yours truly getting all the bills. At least
in the case of my ex, there is damned little difference between being a
feminist and being a sociopath!  Both believe they are truly justified
in grabbing the wealth (or power) by any means at all, including lies
extortion, smear campeigns and so forth. 

  Fortunatly, the Grand Jury investigation into the child services
system in San Diego sent a clear message to the local family services
that they are NOT immune to prosecution and civil services. The recent
flood of sexual harassment allegations which followed on the heels of
announced budgetary staff cutbacks at LA city hall has convinced many
members of the city council that it's time to take this witchhunt
head on and reveal it for what it is. Ultimatly, it's the real victims
of harassment and rape who will suffer for all the false claims of the
past several years, but frankly, better them than me. 

  I used to be a feminist supporter. I was a total sucker and a fool,
and will never repeat that mistake again!



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Michael Rivero michael%neuron6@jpl-mil.jpl.nasa.gov
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