From: bart@muppet.bt.co.uk (Tim)
Newsgroups: soc.singles
Subject: Re: Major problems
Date: 18 Aug 92 12:43:18 GMT
Reply-To: bart@muppet.bt.co.uk
Organization: British Telecom

In article AA12124@lab.ultra.nyu.edu, oviedo@LAB.ULTRA.NYU.EDU (Miguel D Oviedo) writes:
>
>I am posting this in a last ditch effort to get some answers
>and maybe a direction to head in.

>A brief overview:
>-----------------
>I am a pathalogical liar (approx 30% of the time), 
	^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
	remember this

>fiscally irresponsible, unemployed, obsessed and losing
>the love of my life after 4 years.

Which equates to rich, employed. As you're lying only 30% time, 
we'll let you off with 'obsessed' and 'love of my life'.

>Details:
>--------
>I am a 22 year old male, who met this drop dead beautiful
>27 year old woman approx. 4 years ago at a friends party.

Again , split the difference. You're 30, she's 27, but you only
met her 6 months ago.

>We hit things off really well, and soon started dating.
>At the time I was working at a univeristy and she assumed
>I was a professor or something and I was alot older, It
>was awhlie before she found out I was 18 and just a programmer.
>(Problem 1)
>After I left the university, I got a job with a large company
>on wall street as a programmer, getting a great salary for a 20
>year old. Things were going OK with the realtionship now, but
>the were slightly rocky.

You stacked shelves at KMart ?

>Some problems arouse in the job and I was terminated in an

I think that's arose . Or maybe not :-)

>ugly fashion, and am still quite unsure about why (but thats
>a story in itself)  This is when things got really bad in the 
>relationship. 
>
>I have tried to get a job since but and even started working, but
>after about 2 weeks they got a background report back from my
>previous job and I was terminated again. So I have been unemployed
>for about 5 months now. (Problem 2)

Phew. Whatdya Do!?  Work part time at Burger King ?

>In the past 2 months the relationship has gotten really BAD. She
>kept saying she wants to date others (which she is currently)
>and wants no contact with me for awhile.  The reason she wants
>a breakup is:
>
>		I cannot hold a job.

You don't want one ?

>		I am obsessive (calling her alot, showing up to meet her)

You never call her up ?

>		Fiscally irresponsible.
>		Lie quite abit.
>
>	On the few bright points she does care for me, and she is very 
>close to my family (as she has no real family), and she does enjoy my
>company. (When I am not obsessive)

Which is when ?

>	The bottom line is I am unemployed, have no money, no friends

If you're unemployed, then whose terminal are you sitting at ?
Dunno about the USA , but over here the JobCentre doesn't have Internet
Newsgroup access.

> and losing the most important person im my life. She is at the point now
>where she says she wants NO contact with me, physical, verbal, NOTHING,
>NADA, ZIP, NONE!  How do I deal with this.. losing a person who
>used to sleep over my house 2-3 times a week, see each other almost everyday,
>almost get engaged (Yes! I had a ring and all).
>

I smell Bovine Scatalogical remains.

T
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