Before revision: teh sender may express what he thinks about the receiver (you-statement) and how they get along (we-statement).Depending on which message the receiver hears with relationship ear, he feels either depressed, accepted or patronized.
After revision: the sender may express what he thinks about the receiver (you-statement) and how they get along (we-statement).Depending on which message the receiver hears with relationship ear, he feels either depressed, accepted or patronized.