Before revision: If no true apology, atonement, real remorse and plan to change one's behaviors are not present, then the one who was betrayed can accept that it happened, and that the perpetrator is unwilling or unable to change.
After revision: If no true apology, atonement, real remorse and plan to change one's behaviors are present, then the one who was betrayed can accept that it happened, and that the perpetrator is unwilling or unable to change.