Estwld/esconv_llm huggingface dataset:
Emotion: anxiety
Problem: job crisis
Situation: My job just laid off 10% of the workforce and I'm afraid I'm next.

assistant: Hi, how can I help you?

user: Hi, is someone there? I need some help. I'm feeling really bad.

assistant: What's the problem?

user: My company just laid off 10% of the workforce and furloughed another 10%. I'm worried I'm going to be in the next round.

assistant: Why do you think you are the next round? Do you know how did they choose them?

user: Just based on their tenure and job experience. I'm around the same level.

assistant: I know, this year was stressful for everyone in our planet, so you are not alone What's the worst scenario do you think will happen?

user: I know, but I am the only one in the family making money and we need this job. My wife was laid off earlier this year. If I'm laid off, we can't afford our home. We are already dipping into savings because my wife lost her job.

assistant: Did you try searching for new jobs?

user: I tried and had a couple of interviews but the response was pretty much "you're too experienced" or "we have cheaper applicants than you". Obviously not that direct but reading between the lines you know?

assistant: Hmmmm, First of all stop being panicked, You still have your job

user: I guess so. I can't help feeling a sense of dread though like I'm next.

assistant: The good thing is you anticipate losing your job, so you have the advantage here

user: How so?

assistant: You can prepare yourself for that! yes, as simple as this Search for new jobs, get help from your wife and friends

user: What kind of help?

assistant: Search locally and online, If you try enough you will see the results soon

user: I've been searching for the past month. It's just been so hard trying to break through to an interview.

assistant: Help in searching for jobs and supporting you emotionally

user: It's been frustrating. I've sent out 50 resumes and got 3 interviews.

assistant: Let me be straight ok? you somehow don't have any other options but searching You can do it! who knows! maybe you will get a better job

user: Do you have any tips? It just seems I can't find a thng thing

assistant: Look at this situation as an opportunity, you still have your job and you can search for even a better job

user: Yes, that's what I've been trying to do. I just can't find anything. Or get my foot in the door anywhere

assistant: Don't get disappointed, put effort, seek new methods for searching, research online

user: Do you know any new methods for searching?

assistant: Ask around locally, maybe there is an organization locally for support in this pandemic situation

user: Yeah that's been a problem. With cuts in the budget my local resource center is closed down. Anyway I know you tried your best. Thanks for listening.
Emotion: depression
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: My three years relationship ended last week , he betrayed me he had another affair , we discussed and break up . He misused my credit card he took my all money. he spreading fake news about me in social media.

user: hai! how are doing? Could help me to come out from the depression? really?

assistant: Hello! I'm doing well. How are you? I'll try to help in any way that I can. What seems to be troubling you?

user: I break up with my boy friend , he use my credit card took all my mmoney

assistant: Oh, dear. I'm so sorry to hear that.

user: Spreading picture of mine in social media

assistant: Did you get your credit cards canceled once you found out what he had done?

user: Yeah I did that but we had relationship of three years , we shared everything with each other. but he cheats me

assistant: It sounds like the two of you had problems for awhile before the breakup.

user: He is threatening me he would post the nude picture of mine in social media.

assistant: If he makes that threat again, you might wish to inform him that "revenge porn" is a crime these days. If he knows that you might to go to the authorities, that might get him to leave you alone.

user: thank you very for your care and concern , sure I will reply him as you said.

assistant: You seem like a very nice person. And his behavior is very toxic, to say the least. I know that things are hard right now, but things will get better. And you deserve to be with someone who will treat you with kindness and respect.

user: I lost my all saving and now I am jobless both make me mentally disturbed , I feel life meaningless and don't want to live in this world.

assistant: Try not to lose hope. It's hard out there, particularly with what the pandemic has done to the economy. But from what I've read today, more stimulus from the government is on the way, so that should help some. Do you have anyone that you can talk to about what you're going through?

user: He had an affair but he spreading is fake news about me that I cheated him. I ashamed about myself and I can't able to mingle with my friends and family.

assistant: Don't let him make you feel ashamed. You've done nothing to warrant such a feeling. Maybe you should find someone outside of your social group to speak to.

user: I can't able to face the all consequence all together, I need peace , where I could find?

assistant: There are places you can go to speak to people. Charitable organizations, clergy if you are religious, and call centers. Perhaps you could find one of those organizations locally to help you through this. Also, since they would be local, they might have more information about legal remedies you could pursue. Some of your ex's behavior sounds criminal...

user: People like you and your words touched my soul , thank you very much for your support and advice.

assistant: I glad I could be of some help. Just remember, you are a good and worthwhile person. You will come through this. I believe in you.

user: Yes I feel I am positively boosted up , thanks a lot for the kindness.
Emotion: sadness
Problem: ongoing depression
Situation: JUST LOST A FRIEND , A VERY CLOSE TIGHT FRIEND THAT WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME

assistant: Hello! How can I help you today?

user: I'M PASSING THROUGH DEPRESSION

assistant: That sounds really rough. When did this begin?

user: TODAY I LOST A VERY DEAR FRIEND

assistant: I am so sorry to hear this! Losing a close friend can be very difficult.Communicating your feelings is a step in the right direction to cope with your emotions.

user: i dont know how i can get over ,its heart breaking since i heard about the sad news of his demise have been taking Alcohol since to wipe away the emotion but its seems its getting more complicated

assistant: I can tell you are very sad about this situation and understandably so. It seems as if alcohol is your coping mechanism right now correct? Do you have close friends to share your emotions with?

user: yes , i normally take Alcohol any time am going through any sad moment , i dont have friends near by , am the nly one at home

assistant: I see. I also am the only one in my home and frequently have no one to turn to during hard times. Have you thought about a local grief counselor?

user: yes , i am actually thinking about that when mymind is at ease actually i dont like disclosing my affairs or what am passing through with strangers

assistant: You have taken this step and most counselors can do virtual meetings if you would like to keep yourself anonymous. I know it would be really hard for but I have total confidence in you! Have you tried any other ways besides alcohol?

user: owk, thanks not really , i havent take anything except alcohol

assistant: Journaling your feelings has also been an effective way to get the emotions out! You seem like you have a lot to share so it might be a good option for you!

user: yea i will try to consult counselors

assistant: I am so glad to hear this! I know you will get through this stronger than before!

user: yes, thanks for the concern

assistant: I hope I have helped and provided a safe place for you to share. You will get through this! Remember to take one day at a time and never be scared to ask for help!

user: very well , i reall appreciate God bless

assistant: Same to you!

user: bye
Emotion: depression
Problem: ongoing depression
Situation: Have been stuck at home due to illness and am growing tired of it.

assistant: Good afternoon

user: Hello

assistant: How are you today

user: I am ok. Could be better

assistant: You need to chat or is there an issue I an help you with?

user: Chat would be ok

assistant: Ok. What do you want to chat about

user: I am not sure

assistant: No you are uncertain about the chatting, what can we chat about Sometimes it helps to just talk.

user: I can't wait to be over this cold and leave the house

assistant: Cold as in the bug or weather

user: Sick. But the weather is also cold

assistant: I am in a southern state and it is chilly. Where about are you from

user: Northeast Ohio so it tends to be cold and gross up here

assistant: I can imagine especially with the storm hitting I am in Georgia and the air is chilly

user: I'm definitely not prepared for the storm. It can be so hit or miss what they actually bring

assistant: Are you in the path of the storm At least you are away from the east coast. They are going to get hit hard.

user: I am but I dont think it is supposed to be as bad by us. We are on the edge of it I think New York is supposed to get like two feet of snow

assistant: How much snow do you normally receive

user: Normally when we get a storm it's only about 3-6 inches. I work further north though and it can get pretty bad sometimes

assistant: The direction shows heading towards New England and east coast. Ohio does not seem to be in the path. Are you close to the lake

user: It may have changed since I checked. They said we were going to get a bit of it. I'm about an hour from the lake but for work we have stations in Cleveland, Geneva, and Ashtabula that are on the lake and it gets crazy

assistant: The northern part is near Erie

user: Yep and it gets the lake effect snow and sometimes there isn't even a storm. Just if it is windy and cold

assistant: The lake effect snow is harder than the regular snow at times,

user: It can be so sudden that its hard to keep up with and the roads are a mess
Emotion: anxiety
Problem: Sleep Problems
Situation: It has been hard to fall asleep at night

user: Hello I have been having a hard time falling asleep at night.

assistant: hello how are you?

user: doing well. hope you are.

assistant: thanks I'm fine , can you explain why you can't sleep

user: Not sure. I am sleepy, I lie down and then I feel wide awake thinking about the next day.

assistant: try to make yourself relax and then try to sleep. don't think about next day

user: That is easier said than done. I try not to think of the next day every night, but thoughts just pop in my head.

assistant: did you ever try yoga?

user: I do like yoga. It helps me stay relaxed through the day but I still seem to worry once I lie don. down

assistant: try to read something boring novel it will help you in sleep before sleeping

user: Should I read fiction or nonfiction

assistant: I think nonfiction

user: Ok. Do you have any topics you think would be a good place to start?

assistant: because same thing happen with me and i try it help me a lot

user: Ok I will try reading. If it doesnt help, what else should I try?

assistant: which topic is boring for you chose that one

user: that's a good idea what is another option to help me fall asleep

assistant: try to go for running out side and make yourself busy in gym

user: Getting more exerices is always a good idea. Maybe it would help clear my mind.

assistant: make yourself busy in other activity it will help you

user: Do you have any hobbies you suggest?

assistant: yes i like reading ,music , play games

user: What are your favorite games to try

assistant: what is your hobbies?

user: I enjoy reading and doing crafts. I would like to add something new to help

assistant: i like to pay fortnight that's good

user: I do like video games Thank you for your help today

assistant: which one you like? Your welcome

user: minecraft
Emotion: sadness
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: breakup with partner makes me to feel very bad and sad in the suitation.

assistant: how are you feeling right now?

user: i feel very confused and bad in my current suitation.

assistant: what happened? can you describe it briefly so that i can understand?

user: i had breakup with my boy friend ,it was really very difficult .

assistant: i think you really loved him and find it difficult to handle the situation. am i right?

user: yes i loved him a lot and it was very difficult in the situation.

assistant: that's really hard. sounds like you are really stressed.

user: yes i feel very stressed. hard to face the suitaion.

assistant: from what i have seen, you should divert your attention on something that you love the most. it will help you to overcome from this situation.

user: yes i have to divert my mind in some other thing i trying to overcome the problem but cannot do that

assistant: just think about the things that makes you happy and try to spend more time on yourself. i this this will help you to do better.

user: i have to think about the happy moments.

assistant: yes. that is the best thing to do you are more important to you than anyone.

user: yes it is right thing. yes i feel that.

assistant: hope you will feel better soon.

user: yes i feel that i will recover soon from the suitation

assistant: happy to hear that you are positive.

user: yes i feel that.

assistant: anything else you want to talk about?

user: nothing else is there.

assistant: have a happy day then.

user: ok bye

assistant: bye

user: bye

assistant: then just finish the convo

user: k i will finish it

assistant: thanks
Emotion: anxiety
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: Recently divorced my husband of eight years after finding out he married another women overseas.

assistant: Hi, How are you doing today!

user: Good you?

assistant: I am well! How can I help you today?

user: I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian

assistant: I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on. How recently did the divorce take place?

user: two months ago

assistant: So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor? It must be so tough to be going through what you are going through now, I am so sorry.

user: Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends

assistant: Have you spoken to a professional? Is this something that you are able to do through your insurance or work?

user: I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first

assistant: I completely understand. I have been in situations at work that I couldn't resolve due to the exact same reasons.

user: Thanks for understanding

assistant: Is there a way that you could seek help at work without anyone finding out?

user: I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well

assistant: Sometimes someone looking in from the outside can see things in a way that you might not be able to see since you are in the middle of the situation. I know that this has happened to me.

user: Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today

assistant: Through work you may be able to speak to a professional counselor or therapist while just having a small co-pay.

user: have a nice day

assistant: Have a nice day as well, I hope that you can get your issues resolved.
Emotion: depression
Problem: problems with friends
Situation: I miss my friends.

assistant: Hi

user: Hi, how are you?

assistant: I'm good, How are you?

user: With COVID-19, I am worried I am not getitng to see my friends enough.

assistant: I'm sorry to hear that. Is that causing stress for you?

user: A little. I'm pretty introverted so I didn't think it was bothering me but I am starting to get impatient and short with my family. It also might be remote learning and that stress.

assistant: Times are very tough right now. It's pretty crazy how covid has impacted everything. Do you interact with your friends at all now?

user: I do a little bit. Mostly by text and we zoom about once a week. How do you handle this?

assistant: I've been struggling too, not being able to see my friends. I've been forcing myself to text them more or do phone calls or meet in person. I spend so much time on my computer with work now that I try to avoid video calls. have you met them in person since covid started?

user: That's what I have been doing too. I tried to get together with my friends but we have little kids and that is tough. We don't want to get sick. I worry that we are drifting apart too. We have a few times, outside and socially distanced. It has been nice but I want more time with them.

assistant: That makes it hard. Have you talked to your friends about how they are feeling? Is there maybe some compromises you can make to see them more but keep distancing?

user: I haven't talked with them. They are busy and we haven't talked in a while. I need to call them.

assistant: You should give them a call. Just out of the blue, nothing commuting. Just a casual chat and see if they want to do something. If finding something to do doesn't work out during the call, at least you contacted them and maybe will feel a bit better because you talked to them.

user: That sounds like a good plan. I will call someone tonight.

assistant: It doesn't have to be much but even just a little conversation can go a long way

user: Thanks for your help. I appreciate you.

assistant: No problem. I hope you feel better.
Emotion: anger
Problem: job crisis
Situation: My supervisor lied about having adequate coverage.

assistant: Hello

user: Hi.

assistant: How may I help you today?

user: I'm feeling really angry.

assistant: Why?

user: My supervisor said she would be in to help cover people on PTO and she never showed.

assistant: So your boss never showed up to cover people on PTO is that correct?

user: yes

assistant: Did anybody ever get in contact with her and to see why she never showed up?

user: Yes, she said she decided she was also taking PTO. Even though she had already said she would help cover.

assistant: I understand how you are feeling because i would be angry to I feel like she should of let everyone know that before she decided to do that

user: Agreed, but at this point I just need to get over it so I can help pick up the slack. But i'm just so upset.

assistant: Have you personally had a conversation with her and tell her how you was feeling?

user: No, i'm afraid to bring it up.

assistant: Don't be afraid to bring it up because you did nothing wrong

user: But what if she gets mad?

assistant: I don't see why she would get mad but if she does then just leave it alone and move on and just do your job That is what i would do

user: Yea, I guess so.

assistant: I honestly do not think she will get mad just try to talk to her I would just let it go because to me it's not worth being mad over for a long time you have to just let it go

user: I think I will. I guess i'm worried because I had already expressed my concern with having multiple people on PTO and she specifically said, "it's okay because I can help cover" So she just completely disregarded what I said.

assistant: I understand she should of talked to you about changing her mind

user: So is it even worth bringing it up at all?
Emotion: depression
Problem: ongoing depression
Situation: Iam feeling depressed because of being a failure in proceeding with my carrer.

user: hi..How are you today

assistant: Hello, I'm fine thank you how are you?

user: Iam facing little depression because of discontinuing my academics.

assistant: I see, when did you stop academics?

user: Last year. I got married and my husbands family is not accepting to get me proceed with my masters degree.Iam very depressed about that..

assistant: so if I understand you correctly, you cannot continue your studies because your in-laws don't want you to?

user: yes..and iam finding it difficult to cope with that..

assistant: That sounds very disappointing, I can understand why you are feeling down about this. I had to stop university halfway through for health reasons, and was not able to go back, I found that depressing too.

user: How did you manage to get out of the depression..If you dont mind,can you tell me what happened?

assistant: it is hard to let go of a dream. it's normal to feel down about it.

user: Can you suggest some remedies of how to get out of depression..

assistant: I have mental health issues so I could not continue my studies, sadly. I take antidepressants and have a counselor. is there anyone you can talk to about your depresion, perhaps your doctor?

user: Oh I cannot go to counsellor because of they are too expensive.. I want to talk about it to some one but even my parents are not very supportive of me..

assistant: Are you in a city? Some cities have free counselors oh dear that is hard when your family is not behind you

user: Yes iam in a city..I dont know about any free counsellors..How to find the info

assistant: are you near a public library? sometimes librarians are really helpful to find community information. you could call them. do you have a family doctor?

user: Oh I think we have a public library near to my houe..I can enquire about it

assistant: or of course you could do a google search for counseling

user: sure..I can do that..thank you for your help..

assistant: it sounds like what you are going through is a grieving proces. it's the loss of a dream that was very important to you. it will get easier over time

user: I really hope so that i will be happy with my life..

assistant: i hope you can go back to academics in the future, do you think that will be possible?

user: Its not in my hands,my family should approve .But I will be positive about this ..That is the only option i have left..

assistant: i see, may I ask where you are from?

user: Iam from african continent..

assistant: another idea just came to me, there are free university courses online that you might be able to do in your spare time, if you have any they may not get you any qualifications but they would satisfy your thirst for knowledge

user: I will certainly look in to it ...Thank you for all the suggestions and help..I really appreciate it..bye..