Emotion: depression
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: My caught my girlfriend cheating with a man of 50 years of age

assistant: Hello, how are you doing today? Is there anything you'd like to chat about? What's on your mind?

user: am not feeling so good, being depressed feeling like killing myself, i don't know after all have done for her

assistant: OK. This is a temporary feeling and it will pass. Please be kind to yourself. What led to you feeling this way?

user: i proposed to my girl after 5 years of dating, she introduced me to one man claiming its her uncle, was very happy i had to meet one of my fiancé family not knowing all was but lies she took me to go see the man, the man even gave us relationship advice

assistant: OK. So you proposed to your girlfriend, but she was seeing another man?

user: yes!! seeing the so called man she called her uncle

assistant: And the man you thought was her uncle was her other boyfriend? That is a horrible situation. It's not nice when people lie to you - I've had it happen to me before. You must be feeling very betrayed at the moment.

user: caught them in the act, was devastated, my body was shaking, couldn't bear my eyes its was as if my heart was being ripped outta my soul

assistant: That sounds horrible. I think anyone would be upset with that! I wonder if it was best that this happened before you got married, though - it hurts, but it would have hurt more if she had become your wife. How does it feel if you think about it that way?

user: All i could do at that moment is pretend i didn't see a thing yh! am happy i knew sooner

assistant: How does your family and friends feel about it? Have you spoken to them?

user: but it s painful, i rented an apartment for her, was the one sponsoring her and her brother

assistant: You must feel as though she has taken advantage of you and your generosity.

user: i never had the courage to tell anyone, everything just kept eating me up

assistant: I think it might be good to talk to people around you who knew you both. I know that it must be difficult because you feel like your pride has been hurt as well as your heart.

user: i provided everything i think a girl would need so she wont feel inferior but what did i get in returns

assistant: It sounds like you are a very thoughtful and generous partner. I know that others will see that in you.

user: guessed i gave too much and it came back right at me

assistant: Perhaps you shopuld now focus on taking care of yourself. Did you neglect anything you need or enjoy to take care of her? Could you do that now?

user: yes learnt my lessons, had to move on, but i can never respect any lady

assistant: I can see how that might make it difficult to trust people. However, not everybody is the same. You sound like a very caring person and there are lots of caring women out there looking for someone just like you. Could you spend some time getting to know more people until you feel like you can trust someone again? Do you have any hobbies you enjoy?

user: guess that will do, yh i do have an hobby, loves reading

assistant: Great! Have you tried joining a book club, where you can discuss books you enjoy with others? That will help take your mind off things and you can meet new people too.

user: Thanks, i really appreciate

assistant: I'm glad. I hope you have a great day and please remember to be kind to yourself.