Emotion: depression
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: I feel as if i was not good enough for him because he cheated on me. I feel as if a part of me is missing

assistant: Good afternoon

user: Good afternoon How are you

assistant: How can I be of service to you I am well despite the virus

user: I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong

assistant: Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse

user: a boyfriend/fiance

assistant: Sorry about that. How long ago

user: Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me

assistant: That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year

user: It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all

assistant: Was the other person someone you knew

user: I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on

assistant: Any idea how long he was dating this other girl

user: I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me

assistant: He definitely did not give you any clues Were you living together

user: No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together

assistant: Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also

user: Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this

assistant: It always hurts both partners when it happens.

user: Yes it does

assistant: Let me ask if you are involved with a church

user: Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation

assistant: You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you

user: It is possible

assistant: That is good you are involved with a church.

user: Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed

assistant: Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.

user: Yes i will definitely try that Thank you for your advice

assistant: What bright spots do you see in all this

user: That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth

assistant: Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded

user: Thank you , I will definitely try that

assistant: Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse

user: Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce

assistant: The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome

user: I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody

assistant: I understand about the pains of divorce

user: I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married

assistant: Don't let yourself become the victim.

user: True Well i appreciate your time and help

assistant: He may have found what he thought was better but then again you will be the better. He may come back but the seed has been planted

user: I will not let him come back. I deserve better

assistant: You can find better because he will want you for you

user: I agree! It will just take me some time