Estwld/esconv_llm huggingface dataset:
Emotion: sadness
Problem: job crisis
Situation: I am having a very hard time finding a job due to covid.

user: Hi

assistant: Hi there, how are you today?

user: So I'm sad because it is hard for me to find a job with covid and everything and no one is willing to hire me. I'm ok I'm just sad

assistant: That is really hard. I know COVID has had a huge toll on folks. Do you have a good support system in place to help during this trying time?

user: I do I have my bf and family around I just want to start making a life for myself It's hard and I don't know what to do any ideas?

assistant: That's really great! Having a good support system is important right now. I understand it's difficult to find a job during these times. Have you tried looking for an online only - remote position? Like some administrative work?

user: I have but I am having trouble finding a call monitoring job I really would like to do that. Any ideas on where to look?

assistant: Where are you looking for jobs right now? Some of my friends have had some success by looking on LinkedIn or Idealist.

user: Hmmm Idealist would be another great source I used Glass Door and Indeed Any other ideas?

assistant: How about Craigslist? Not my favorite personally speaking, but might be worth taking a look.

user: I will look into that as well Thank you for your help I am starting to feel somewhat better about my situation now Thank you

assistant: I'm confident you'll find something! Hopefully you have some great self care practices in place that will help you through this time

user: I do I hope u do too

assistant: I do - thank you for checking :-)

user: So how are things for u during this lockdown? You're a Zebra to!! Yay! we're both Zebras together. :)

assistant: I'm an introvert / homebody so it's been fairly easy for me. I have a lot of projects at home that I enjoy doing (reading, puzzles, meditating, yoga, etc) that keep me busy. I was also, very lucky to be able to keep my full-time job so that keeps me fairly busy most days. But I like a change of scenery and do Mturk tasks for fun

user: I'm the same way I do to and plus it gives u extra cash

assistant: yes! not a whole lot honestly, but i like it.

user: I just want this to be over with I want to go back to normal That is true though
Emotion: depression
Problem: Procrastination
Situation: I have been trying to get motivated to write a book to help others.

user: Hi Thank you for your time.

assistant: Of course, I would love to hear what is going on.

user: Thank you. My name is DJ and I do appreciate your time.

assistant: What would you like to discuss?

user: I really have a desire to write a life experience book to help others overcome past failures and struggles.

assistant: That is great! I am sure so many people would benefit from the advice and outlook.

user: I am 66 and believe I can help others. I lack so much motivation. Thank you. That is very affirming. Yet, I have a block. I feel unworthy to write. Who am I.

assistant: It seems like it might be overwhelming for you to begin. Maybe you can start small, like think of ideas or maybe just start writing 10 minutes a day. Everybody has a story and we can all learn from others. You don't need to a famous but just honest with what you have learned from your life.

user: Yes, I have been given this encouragement from other writers. Yet, still feel like I lack motivation and passion. Hmmmm. That is so true. I just get frustrated with myself.

assistant: Maybe you can start with a part of your life that you do feel passionate about first. I know for me, it's easier to start with something I enjoy the most.

user: Yeah, thats interesting. I am a Life Coach and that is what I tell others.

assistant: Yes, I understand it is easy to get frustrated with a lack of motivation.

user: Thanks. I appreaciate what you are saying. Have you ever thought about writing....book, blog?

assistant: I am happy to help. Sometimes what we need is someone who affirms our dreams. I haven't, I'm not much of a writer. However, who knows in the future.

user: You said you understand my frustration.....How so? Sorry, I don't mean to be forward. I have had others tell me they understand. And yet, really don't. They are nice, encouraging. And appreciated

assistant: Oh, I definitely feel frustrated with myself when I was to start a project and don't have the energy or motivation to go through with it. This has happened on many home projects or craft project. Or even with losing weight and make healthy decisions. No, I am glad you asked. It is important to be honest and learn from others.

user: Wow! Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your honesty and you definatly understand about frustration. Yes, that is so true. That is what I do with those I Coach, counsel and consult with Yeah, I appreciate chatting. This is good.

assistant: Well, I hope I encouraged you a little to keep going and start you book, at least a part you enjoy. You are welcome. Good luck with your book.

user: Yeah, I've got some ideas. I need to take my own advice. Thank you for your time. You are good at this. Take care. God bless.

assistant: Haha, yes, sometimes listening to ourselves can be the hardest! Good bye!
Emotion: fear
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: When I broke up with my boyfriend of 5.5 years, I felt extreme fear. Fear of the unknown and fear of what was to come. We shared so much of each other's lives, I didn't know how to go on without him.

assistant: Hi, How are you today?

user: I'm not good today. Not good at all.

assistant: I'm here to listen, Tell me about it

user: I feel extremely scared. Honestly, I felt relief when he left. That he finally did the thing both of us were scared to do. But I was with him for so long. I grew up with him. I don't know how to live by myself.

assistant: Why do you think you find yourselves in this situation?

user: Because he was my life. I spent every waking second with him. He cleaned the things I couldn't. He did the things I couldn't do. I have to basically re-learn how to live by myself again. It's really scary, you know?

assistant: I can understand your feelings right now, It's hard to ignore all those memories and moments What bothers you the most? living alone or not having him?

user: It really is. I don't know how to go on. I've never been through a breakup like this before. I'm scared I'll never be able to find someone else or even think about dating anyone else. Probably living alone and being on my own. I don't really miss him honestly. I miss the comfort of having someone take care of me. We fell out of love awhile ago.

assistant: Hmm, First of all stop being scared You can do it on your own I know that's scary for you, but what's the meaning of life without being scared and have our feelings?

user: That's very true. I have to think about the future. I can do it on my own. I just have to think...this is the worst it'll ever be.

assistant: But you should start to take control over your feelings at first, you are the boss and you give the orders! Slowly but surely you find yourself in a better mood You said you felt relieved, and that's an opportunity

user: I will try. If anything, I can find myself through this instead of relying on another person. Definitely an opportunity. Thank you for hearing me and making me feel better about everything.

assistant: You are free now, Do what makes you happy You and only you can underestimate yourself, stop doing it

user: That's great advice. thank you so much.

assistant: Don't you think anybody have ever experienced this? They did and they took control, so you can do it too

user: That's very true, I'm not alone.

assistant: I hope you feel better now and DECIDE to alter things, tomorrow is a new day

user: You've made me feel a million times better, thank you so much. Tomorrow is a new day.

assistant: And don't worry, life is full of surprises, maybe you find love one day

user: You're right. I will.

assistant: If there is anything else I can help you with

user: No there is not. Thanks for taking the time to talk with me today

assistant: Thank you for sharing your feelings with me, Good luck with your future endeavours Bye
Emotion: depression
Problem: problems with friends
Situation: Constantly arguing with my best friend, we never see eye to eye on important things on my life.

assistant: Hi! How are you tonight?

user: I'm doing okay

assistant: That's good to hear.

user: How are you?

assistant: I'm doing great, thank you!

user: You're welcome

assistant: Is there anything that you wanted to talk about?

user: Ya, I just feel down recently

assistant: I'm so sorrry to hear. that. Is there any reason for it?

user: My best friend and I constantly argue

assistant: That's so hard. Was there any cause for the arguing or is it just general tension?

user: She hates who I'm dating and wants me to leave him

assistant: THat's so hard. My best friend hated my ex boyfriend as well and we always fought about it. I tried really hard to understand where she was coming from. IN the end, she was right about somethings. What was really helpful for me, was having us all spend time together so she could get to know him.

user: Ok I will give that a try. He's very good to me and I care deeply for him.

assistant: You should try setting up a fun day for them where they can get to know each other.

user: That's a great idea! Like bowling?

assistant: Bowling is gret!! would your best friend be open ot it?

user: Yes she would

assistant: That's great!!! this way you can keep them both in your life.

user: Okay we will try bowling. Thank you for the help

assistant: Anytime! Do you need anything ese?
Emotion: sadness
Problem: ongoing depression
Situation: I have been feeling like my friends don't like me and it's making me feel bad.

assistant: Hello there! How are you today?

user: Im okay How do you want to do this?

assistant: Sure! Can you please tell me how can i help you today?

user: Ive been feeling like other people dont like me

assistant: If I understand you correctly, do you assume people dislike you even if you can't tell for sure?

user: Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary

assistant: It seems you are a bit low on self-confidence. I have been there too. If I may ask you, does this feeling persist all the time irrespective of the situation or it happens after any particular event - say a test or some outdoor game for example?

user: Yeah, I've been texting my friend and he doesn't reply to me for hours and it makes me feel like he isnt as enthusiastic about our friendship as i am which hurts

assistant: Right, the feeling of being ignored can be quite overwhelming. Have you tried speaking with your friend over phone or video call, assuming you have access to the technology?

user: We have decent phone conversations, I guess I'm just frustrated and sad about my worthiness, now that im typing it out it sounds not nearly as bad Thank you

assistant: Great! You are worthy! Remember that always :) Is there anything else I can help you with?

user: Haha thank you What do you think i should do when i feel this way next time

assistant: Good question! Don't let the feeling consume you. After all , you are dealing with another person who genuinely might be busy or held up with some important work.

user: Thats true

assistant: So, even if they don't respond, just think they are driving or working, and try to avoid thinking that you are being ignored.

user: I always assume since im not busy that they arent too I guessits a little self involved
Emotion: sadness
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: How can I cope with losing my boyfriend to another woman?

assistant: Hello. How are you?

user: Hi, I'm coping with losing my boyfriend to another woman and can't deal.

assistant: I am sorry to hear that. You deserve better

user: Thanks, I'm just still in shock.

assistant: I understand you. I went through similar situation

user: I just don't know what to do.

assistant: Do you have any friends you can hang out with to get your mind off him?

user: That would be a good idea. Although it's a little hard with COVID restrictions.

assistant: How about treating yourself to nice relaxing bath and good book ?

user: That sounds wonderful.

assistant: You should focus on yourself and remember you are a amazing woman!

user: Thanks for the support. Is it too early to start a new relationship?

assistant: If you are sure you are ready for it then No. However make sure you dont judge them by previous relationships.

user: I have to think about it more but I am lonely already

assistant: I understand but wouldnt you rather be alone and focusing on yourself instead of miserable relationship?

user: I am thinking of pursuing a new relationship and hoping to move forward

assistant: I think that would be a wonderful idea for you.

user: I just don't know where to find someone.

assistant: Dont go looking for someone . Let them find you. Just live your life and love will find you.

user: I have to think positive and love will come when I don't expect it.
Emotion: depression
Problem: ongoing depression
Situation: Working as a teacher, I find it very hard to get students who don't care to engage with work. 90% of students are fine, but the other 10% are impossible as I have no support from management.

user: Hi! Hello, are you there?

assistant: Hello how are you

user: I'm doing okay. How are you?

assistant: Great how is everything going for you

user: Not fantastic. I'm struggling in my job and I feel isolated every day.

assistant: Why do you feel isolated?

user: Because even though I work in a large school, I feel like if there are any issues in my classroom with students, no one will help me out.

assistant: I completely understand. I don't worked at a school and the teachers did not receive much support. Is that what is making you stuggle at work?

user: I don't understand your question.

assistant: Is it the lack of support at the school that is causing you to struggle?

user: Yes. That's what I said.

assistant: Sorry I asked about the isolation and you mentioned the reason was the work. So im just trying to confirm your lack of support at school is the reason for your struggle. Does the feeling of isolation stem from that?

user: Yes. I am feeling isolated because management at my work is not supporting me.

assistant: Understandable.Do they have any kind of help groups at your school?

user: Not really. They try to say that we should all make sure we are looking after our mental health, but they do nothing that would actually help us or give us a way to do it.

assistant: Is there something you have in mind that might help your situation and theyre not listening?

user: If a student is not focusing and causing disruption in a classroom, then I think they should definitely do something to help manage the beahviour of the student. Yes.

assistant: Agreed with 20 some students after repeatedly trying with a student you cannot keep stopping the lecture to discipline. Of course there should be some help in place.

user: Okay. Do you have any support or advice?

assistant: Ive seen this first hand and teachers really have their hands full. I know most parents are busy, but have you tried to connect with the parents maybe they can step in and talk to their children.

user: That's good advice and I have, but the parents are part of the problem. They care less than their own child.

assistant: There are also several community groups with different kids of occupations. Ive seen multiple ones for teachers helping each other by sharing their own methods. That might help with some ideas.

user: That's also a nice idea. Thank you. Okay, thank you for your help today. Hace a nice day. Bye!

assistant: No problem. I hope you find some better ideas. You are not alone and remember you have one of the hardest jobs out there!

user: Thank you. That helps to hear someone else say that. Have a good day. Bye.
Emotion: depression
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: My ex who i loved so much and almost gave her everything cheated on me with another guy from my school , my relationship was almost 2 years until she dumped me.... and i had to go through an immense overthinking after the breakup for almost 6-7 months

assistant: Hello, how are you doing today?

user: yea im good are u a pyschiratrist or something

assistant: No, I'm just a mturk worker but I'm completely willing to talk to you about stuff. Is there anything you had in mind?

user: i have things about overthinking about my past sometimes she flashes on and off through my mind when some of my collegues express their feelings of emotions through their relationships

assistant: Is there someone in your past that weighs on your mind?

user: The feelings i put for her the emotions its all gone for waste, she was my first love though

assistant: Going through a romantic loss can be a lot to process. You will be able to let go some day.

user: yea i ve watched a lot of motivation to help me relax my self , and i ve heard a lot of people say good things to me , my friends and family :) as time passes ill get much better i guess soo

assistant: It is definitely helpful to reach out. You got people that like you.

user: Yea the only people around is the only valubale thing to u in this world Do i have to keep talking about my feelings to you ? i can trust you right :)

assistant: Definitely keep talking to those people because that's gonna help a ton. Yeah you can trust me :) I think we have a bit more to go.

user: hmmm great!!! i like you a lot so how do i avoid falling for the wrong one

assistant: Take things easy and don't worry too much about it, because things will fall in to place naturally if it is a good fit.

user: yea thank you so much Have u ever fallen in love ?

assistant: Yes I have a few times, and even though it hurts sometimes it is generally worth the risk.
Emotion: anxiety
Problem: Sleep Problems
Situation: police shootings of unarmed black people

user: Hi I am seeking support to assist me with better sleep patterns.

assistant: Hi there, let me get a deeper understanding of your existing sleep pattern. Do you suffer from insomnia or another type of sleep disorder?

user: No, it is not insomnia.

assistant: Okay, are you drinking enough water and eating a healthy diet?

user: I could improve my water intake and eat more vegatables.

assistant: I like to analyze my own habits every now and then, it helps me stay in check. You can definitely benefit from meditating and self reflecting.

user: Thanks! What other ideas do you have?

assistant: Of course! I always knock right out after a workout. But if you aren't able to, just simple things like turning all the lights off at the same time every night and laying in bed will help. It will align your circadian rhythm!

user: Great, but I wake up frequently thinking about the recent events surrounding police and how they treat black people.

assistant: It definitely is a valid reason to be kept awake. The only good part about something so horrible, is that you have the power to make sure you will continue to be a good person. If everyone was as empathetic as you, the world would be a better place. Thank you for caring so deeply about such a brutal matter.

user: I wish there were more caring people in the world.

assistant: Kindness is contagious, and you definitely have a kind heart. As long as you remain soft in a hard world, people will recognize that and follow suit. The world is becoming more aware, and we have the power to raise future generations with more knowledge and love for one another. Caring doesn't come naturally to many unfortunately, but the ways of inspiring the people that don't care, are endless. We as a society can definitely think of more ways to care for one another.

user: Correct, but having a kind heart does not keep me from waking up & worrying about my son and other black men in my family.

assistant: I worry about my sons and husband and father all the time... I shift my focus on loving them and cherishing every moment we have together. Police or not, the time we have is not promised..

user: That's good advice. Are you still there?

assistant: A hot cup of tea never hurt too! But in all seriousness, I can completely understand your sleep troubles. It is much deeper than just that. Perspective is the key to life. You are a strong and empathetic soul.

user: okay Love conquers all

assistant: That is so beautifully true

user: I'm looking forward to a fulls night rest.

assistant: That is good, lavender baths or showers will also ease and relax the troubled mind.

user: Relaxing is good therapy.

assistant: I like to relax with a book and a blanket sometimes too.

user: Self care is needed.

assistant: Self care is definitely something we can overlook accidentally. Being self aware is a daily practice.

user: I agree. Loving ourselves & the ones we care about too.
Emotion: fear
Problem: job crisis
Situation: Fear about losing a job

assistant: Hello how are you?

user: Hi I am not fine at all

assistant: Whats going on?

user: This pandemic is really causing a lot trouble and anxiety to us

assistant: It definitely is... Whats going on COVID wise with you?

user: Firstly last three month a go my company cut off my salary and next month they are planning to layoff some staffs

assistant: That isn't good, are you one of them?

user: What a trouble year!

assistant: It really has been a troubled year We can only hope this year can be better. What kind of hobbies do you have?

user: This is not a hobbies matter now it is about my life and future, my job is as stake here, I don't know what do

assistant: Have they told you that you were losing your job?

user: Every one in the company are talking about it

assistant: I'm just trying to figure out exactly what you need help with.. Have you lost your job?

user: We are all scaring Because to find another job is not easy

assistant: I agree with you there, we have all had to sacrifice something. You are right. it is difficult to find work right now.

user: Pandemic is causing a lot of problem and the second face of it is coming

assistant: You may be able to look into unemployment at least if it comes down to it.

user: We don't know what is going to happen if it comes

assistant: That is the scary part. It could come around again and cause more damage than it did the first time.

user: It is really serious,

assistant: Besides the basic hand washing and hygiene, I don't think we can prepare anymore for it. I think at this point, we will either get it or not until they figure if the vaccine will work or not. It is a very scary thing

user: People are losing job everyday by day,

assistant: Have you looked into unemployment?

user: I pray the vaccine will work if it is approved I am try to look for another job now before layoff from this company

assistant: I'm there with you buddy, I hope it eradicate this from our planet. First and second versions. That is smart

user: Nice chatting with you it time to go thanks Bye for now