Emotion: sadness
Problem: Issues with Children
Situation: my daughter is addicted to opiods and living a high risk lifestyle.  she does not want help.  it's heartbreaking.

user: hello i am so worried about my daughter

assistant: Hello I am so sorry to hear.

user: she has addictions and is living a very dangerous life which makes me sad and anxious and angry all at once

assistant: That is nerve wrecking. Did you try to comfort her and tell her that you are there to help her out.

user: yes, often but she won't go for help, so i have had to be exceedingly patient

assistant: I love your patience level and would like to keep it going. Patience is the key and she will understand eventually. She will be ready to take help.

user: i will but it's such a heavy burden to carry. i try not to think about it much, but I carry it, you know? I Hope you are right about her wanting help eventually in the meantime I don't know how to be so sad about this, maybe there is no way

assistant: I understand your heavy burden however some kids face these problems and we as parents guide them so that they come out with flying colors.

user: indeed. and i have been holding up my end of the bargain. but it's so worrisome. it sounds like you are encouraging me to have hope against all odds?

assistant: You are a warrior and you need to fight off the worrisome and motivate yourself to help you kiddo.

user: CAn't help someone who doesn't want help though, but I do try to be there for her as best i can. She calls me up with terrible stories and I listen even though it pains me, because she needs someone to listen. Addiction is an affliction I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy now that I have seen her living it

assistant: Wow that is a good sign atleast she is coming to you to vent out. That is were you need to punch in an opportunity to seek help from a professional and convince her in such a way she will come down and accept it.

user: I have encouraged her to set up appointments with professionals. Sometimes she has, but does not follow through, the addiction gets in the way, it's more powerful than her desire to stop. And I can't just drive her/ accompany her to an appointment because she lives in a different city But yes, I am happy she trusts me enough to confide in me

assistant: You have such a good heart so hang in there she will come to you with a bang.

user: i really appreciate your encouragement i have been feeling worn down by it and your encouragement helps have you any other suggestions for me?

assistant: Is there any way you could move to her city for a while and help her out. If so she will not skip any appointment and it will help her way.

user: unfortunately i cannot afford to move the rents are too high in her city

assistant: That is understandable. Is there any option she can move in with you so you offer help.

user: hell no. she lies and steals because of her addction there is no way i could live with her, but thank you for the suggestion

assistant: Sorry to hear that I thought close contact will make her vigil and makes her more responsible.

user: I'll tell you though....this was the issue I chose....but it's a past issue....she is now 3 months clean and doing well :) i am so relieved and happy for her just wanted to end up with some good news for you :)

assistant: Oh very nice to hear and super proud of her. I would like to thank you as well.

user: Thank you so much for your help today! All the best

assistant: You were directly and indirectly helping her.

user: yes...was a tough slog lol Thank you again :) bye