Emotion: shame
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: found out my fiance was cheating on me

assistant: Hello, how are you?

user: I'm doing okay I suppose. I could be much better.

assistant: How are you feeling? Is there anything the matter?

user: I am feeling really down today. My fiance was cheating on me and everything has pretty much crumbled all around me.

assistant: Oh my I'm so sorry that happened to you. I can't completely relate, but my parents are going through something very similar after 25 years of marriage. Tell me more about it.

user: I'm glad you haven't and so sorry to hear about them. We have been together for 13 years and have an 11 year old. He has been dating someone for nearly two years and i had no clue. I am so embarrassed and feel so stupid.

assistant: I am so sorry. Does your child know? I have a 10 year old and she is struggling with my parents, we lived with them for the first 2 years of her life and have always been 15 minutes away since. I completely understand why you feel the way you do that is to be expected. You are not stupid and I'm sure its not you. Have you spoken to your fiance about this since you found out?

user: He is somewhat aware that something is going on but not quite sure what. One of us will be moving out so it will need to be explained to him soon. We have talked and he just denies everything. He told me I'm crazy and they are just "friends I would love to believe that but unfortunately I know that isn't true. I'm just overwhelmed with so may questions that he is not answering.

assistant: I'm so sorry. From personal experience, my best advice is to be as direct as possible. Demand respect and answers that you deserve after 13 years. If he will not answer your questions, thats all the answers you need. How did you find out? I can't even imagine how you feel. Clarity and answers are so important right now for you... no matter if it is true or not. That is a long time to be with someone.

user: That is great advice! It's very hard to stand up for yourself sometimes especially when you are emotionally devastated. I visited him unannounced at work one day and they were having lunch together. I had no idea who she was and she got up and ran off. Upon further investigation, I checked phone records, receipts, any other thing I could find and all the evidence was there. two hour conversations, gifts from women's stores that weren't given to me.

assistant: Oh my gosh. There's all the answers you need right there. I'm so sorry. He wont even speak to you about it? No excuses anything? Have you told family?

user: I haven't told anyone yet. He just denies everything or has the perfect excuse for whatever I bring up. I have confronted her as well via text. She states she doesn't even know who he is. Really? So yeah. I just want to grieve it and be over with it. I think just talking about it had helped a lot.

assistant: You must express this in some way to let this out. It's not healthy to let your anger bottle up. I'm sure you're angry, rightfully so... do you have any hobbies to occupy your mind until you get things sorted?

user: I workout every day so that has helped keep my mind somewhat focused after work.

assistant: That's awesome. Working out can release so much stress. I hope things work out so you can get some sort of closure.

user: Thank you I really appreciate all of your help!

assistant: You're welcome. I wish you the best of luck. Try to stay positive. It sounds like you are handling this the best you can.