Emotion: anxiety
Problem: breakup with partner
Situation: constant fighting

user: hello

assistant: Hello. How are you today?

user: not very good.

assistant: oh no. that isn't good. can you tell me what happened?

user: my husband and i have been fighting alot recently over his infidelity its really taken a toll on me. we have tried several counselors but nothing seems to be working

assistant: I am sorry to hear that. I can understand how frustrating that can be. I have had my fair share of boyfriends cheat on me.

user: weve been married for 14 years. I feel broken by this. we have 2 kids and my daughter, the eldest knows

assistant: I am sure that you have been trying to do everything that you can do to help the situation. It sounds like you choosing counseling was a good start. It shows how much you care.

user: yes but my husband doesnt want to fi things. hes happy with having 2 women ive had to buy a recorder and put it in his car. The things i heard were horrible. he found out though.

assistant: It is rough for our children to see adult stuff like this. They might not be able to understand. I would suggest trying to set down and talk to them about it, when you are ready.

user: I dont want my youngest to know. He loves his father and i dont want to destroy that

assistant: How do you feel about your husband not wanting to fix things? Is that something that you are considering?

user: i feel horrible. Im actually trying to fix things while he texts her every day i dont know whats gonna happen

assistant: That is a very thoughtful thing for you to put your son first. He is lucky to have such a great mother, that obviously loves him.

user: i do very much

assistant: Have you tried to talk to your husband about your feelings and how you might not be willing to accept this?

user: i do but every time i do he thinks that its that i dont trust him and that i hate him and i dont hate him or his lover. I just want things to go back they used to be. what should i do?

assistant: Have you thought about if you can trust him after that?

user: im not sure if i can, but i dont want to live in constant paranoia of him im just so lost

assistant: I can understand where you are coming from. I have been in that situation myself and it is not an easy place to be. For me, it took some time to accept that I deserved better than someone who didn't just want me. Is that how you feel?

user: kind of

assistant: Understandably so. I believe that this is just temporary and you will be amazed at how strong you are.

user: you think so?

assistant: If you are leaning toward not accepting not being enough for him, then I would suggest an exit plan. Call a family member, or friend, to see if you can stay there awhile. Have a cooling off period from your husband and reassess the situation

user: ok. ill consider that thank you so much this has been going on for half a year

assistant: I absolutely do. We normally find out that we are actually much stronger than we give ourselves credit for.

user: thank you

assistant: That is wonderful news! See you are starting to make a plan for a better life for you and your children. You so got this!

user: thank you so much. stay safe bye bye

assistant: youre welcome. I am here if you need me

user: i have a feeling that everything will be okay.

assistant: That is great! Did you have a chance to think of anything else that might help you through this?