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( December 2016 ) The Kübler - Ross model, otherwise known as the five stages of grief, postulates a series of emotions experienced by terminally ill patients prior to death, or people presented by the loss of a loved one, wherein the five stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. The model was first introduced by Swiss psychiatrist Elizabeth Kübler - Ross in her 1969 book On Death and Dying, and was inspired by her work with terminally ill patients. Motivated by the lack of instruction in medical schools on the subject of death and dying, Kübler - Ross examined death and those faced with it at the University of Chicago medical school. Kübler - Ross ' project evolved into a series of seminars which, along with patient interviews and previous research, became the foundation for her book. Since the publication of On Death and Dying, the Kübler - Ross model has become accepted by the general public ; however, its validity is not consistently supported by the majority of research. Kübler - Ross noted later in life that the stages are not a linear and predictable progression and that she regretted writing them in a way that was misunderstood. Rather, they are a collation of five common experiences for the bereaved that can occur in any order, if at all. Contents 1 Stages of death and dying 1.1 Examples 1.1. 1 Change Management 1.1. 2 Children grieving in divorce 1.1. 3 Grieving a lost serious relationship 1.1. 4 Grieving in substance abuse 2 Criticism 3 Grief communication 4 References 5 Further reading 6 External links Stages of death and Dying The stages, popularly known by the acronym DABDA, include : Denial -- The first reaction is denial. In this stage, individuals believe the diagnosis is somehow mistaken, and cling to a false, preferable reality. Anger -- When the individual recognizes that denial can not continue, they become frustrated, especially at proximate individuals. Certain psychological responses of a person undergoing this phase would be : `` Why me ? It 's not fair ! '' ; `` How can this happen to me ? '' ; `` Who is to blame ? '' ; `` Why would this happen ? ''. Bargaining -- The third stage involves the hope that the individual can avoid a cause of grief. Usually, the negotiation for an extended life is made in exchange for a reformed lifestyle. People facing less serious trauma can bargain or seek compromise. For instance : `` I 'd give anything to have him back. '' Or : `` If only he 'd come back to life, I 'd promise to be a better person ! '' Depression -- `` I 'm so sad, why bother with anything ? '' ; `` I 'm going to die soon, so what 's the point ? '' ; `` I miss my loved one, why go on ? '' During the fourth stage, the individual despairs at the recognition of their mortality. In this state, the individual may become silent, refuse visitors and spend much of the time mournful and sullen. Acceptance -- `` It 's going to be okay. '' ; `` I ca n't fight it ; I may as well prepare for it. '' In this last stage, individuals embrace mortality or inevitable future, or that of a loved one, or other tragic event. People dying may precede the survivors in this state, which typically comes with a calm, retrospective view for the individual, and a stable condition of emotions. Kübler - Ross later expanded her model to include any form of personal loss, such as the death of a loved one, the loss of a job or income, major rejection, the end of a relationship or divorce, drug addiction, incarceration, the onset of a disease or an infertility diagnosis, and even minor losses, such as a loss of insurance coverage. Even sports fans go through such a process if their favorite team loses an important game, and also supporters of a losing candidate in an election. Both sufferers and therapists have reported the usefulness of the Kübler - Ross model in a wide variety of situations. The subsections below give a few specific examples of how the model can be applied in different situations : Examples Change management A diagram developed by Bertrand GRONDIN from a presentation of Elizabeth Kübler Ross ideas produced by France Telecom Diagram showing two possible outcomes of grief or a life - changing event developed for Jobcentre Plus by Eos With minor variations, this idea has been used for the training of sales forces and retraining or recruitment of staff. A sales or recruitment visit lasts typically less than one hour and is thus a short - term application of the Kübler Ross curve. At first the seller or recruiter asks open - ended questions with the intention of exploring the difficulties the potential buyer or applicant is experiencing, and creating a crisis of confidence. Then closed - ended questions, derived from the first part of the interview are used as ' ammunition ' in a fast, disorientating stream. Finally the potential buyer or candidate is brought to the realization that his / her problems are not insurmountable, and that investing in the products of the seller are probably a good opportunity developing their career or the business successfully. The idea is that serious problems are really great opportunities for personal growth Although the sales / recruitment interview is short, and deliberately provokes a negative catharsis cautiousness followed by a positive elation bullishness, to confirm the initial sale or career change, a longer term K-R schedule is needed to convert new clients into secure long - tern customers. Children Grieving in divorce Denial : Children feel the need to believe that their parents will get back together, or will change their mind about the divorce. Example : `` Mum and Dad will stay together. '' Anger : Children feel the need to blame someone for their sadness and loss. Example : `` I hate Mum for leaving us. '' Bargaining : In this stage, children feel as if they have some say in the situation if they bring a bargain to the table. This helps them keep focused on the positive that the situation might change, and less focused on the negative, the sadness they 'll experience after the divorce. Example : `` If I do all of my chores or maybe if I do everything I 'm supposed to, then she wo n't leave. '' Depression : This involves the child experiencing sadness when they know there is nothing else to be done, and they realize they can not stop the divorce. The parents need to let the child experience this process of grieving because if they do not, it only shows their inability to cope with the situation. Example : `` I 'm sorry that I can not fix this situation for you. '' Acceptance : This does not necessarily mean that the child will be completely happy again. The acceptance is just moving past the depression and starting to accept the divorce. The sooner the parents start to move on from the situation, the sooner the children can begin to accept the reality of it. Grieving a lost serious relationship Denial : The person left behind is unable to admit that the relationship is over and may continue to seek the former partner 's attention. Anger : The partner left behind may blame the departing partner, or themself. Bargaining : The partner left behind may plead with a departing partner that the stimulus that provoked the breakup shall not be repeated. Example : `` I can change. Please give me a chance. '' Alternatively, they may attempt to renegotiate the terms of the relationship. Depression : The partner left behind might feel discouraged that their bargaining plea did not convince the former partner to stay. Acceptance : Lastly, the partner abandons all efforts toward renewal of the relationship and look towards a new relationship. Grieving in substance Abuse Denial : People feel that they do not have a problem concerning alcohol or other substances. Even if they do feel as if they might have a small problem they believe that they have complete control over the situation and can stop drinking or doing drugs whenever they want. Example : `` I do n't have to drink all of the time. I can stop whenever I want. '' Anger : The anger stage of abusers relates to how they get upset because they have an addiction or are angry that they can no longer use drugs. Some of these examples include `` I do n't want to have this addiction anymore. '' `` This is n't fair, I 'm too young to have this problem. '' Bargaining : This is the stage that drug and alcohol abusers go through when they are trying to convince themselves or someone else that they are going to stop abusing in order to get something out of it or get themselves out of trouble ( or to justify continuing their use of drugs and / or alcohol ). Example : `` God, I promise I 'll never use again if you just get me out of trouble. '' ``... If you let me stay here, I will never do drugs / alcohol again. '' Depression : Sadness and hopelessness are important parts of the depression stage when drug abusers are faced with the reality of living a life without their substance of choice. Most abusers experience this when they are going through the withdrawal stage quitting their addiction. Acceptance : With substance abusers, admitting the existence of a problem is different from accepting the problem. When a substance abuser admits that they have a problem, this is more likely to occur in the bargaining stage. Accepting that they have a problem is when you realise that you have a problem and start the process to resolve the issue. As stated above, Kübler - Ross claimed these stages do not necessarily come in order, nor are all stages experienced by all patients. She stated, however, that a person always experiences at least two of the stages. Often, people experience several stages in a `` roller coaster '' effect -- switching between two or more stages, returning to one or more several times before working through it. Women are more likely than men to experience all five stages. However, the Kübler - Ross hypothesis holds that there are individuals who struggle with death until the end. Some psychologists believe that the harder a person fights death, the more likely they will be to stay in the denial stage. If this is the case, it is possible the ill person will have more difficulty dying in a dignified way. Other psychologists state that not confronting death until the end is adaptive for some people. Criticism Criticisms of this five - stage model of grief center mainly on a lack of empirical research and empirical evidence supporting the stages as described by Kübler - Ross and, to the contrary, empirical support for other modes of the expression of grief. Moreover, Kübler - Ross ' model is the product of a particular culture at a particular time and might not be applicable to people of other cultures. These points have been made by many experts, ( 2 ) such as Professor Robert J. Kastenbaum ( 1932 -- 2013 ) who was a recognized expert in gerontology, aging, and death ; founder and editor of two academic journals in this area ( International Journal of Aging and Human Development and Omega : Journal of Death and Dying ) ; founder of the first university - based educational and research center on death and dying ( Wayne State University, 1966 ) ; and author of several relevant books ( e.g., The Psychology of Death ( 1972 ) ; Death, Society and Human Experience ( 1977 ) ; and On Our Way : The Final Passage Through Life and Death ( 2004 ) ). In his writings, Kastenbaum raised the following points : The existence of these stages as such has not been demonstrated. No evidence has been presented that people actually do move from Stage 1 through Stage 5. The limitations of the method have not been acknowledged. The line is blurred between description and prescription. The resources, pressures, and characteristics of the immediate environment, which can make a tremendous difference, are not taken into account. A 2003 study of bereaved individuals conducted by Maciejewski at Yale University obtained some findings consistent with the five - stage hypothesis but others inconsistent with it. Several letters were also published in the same journal criticizing this research and arguing against the stage idea. George Bonanno, Professor of Clinical Psychology at Columbia University, in his book The Other Side of Sadness : What the New Science of Bereavement Tells Us About Life After a Loss, summarizes peer - reviewed research based on thousands of subjects over two decades and concludes that a natural psychological resilience is a principal component of grief and that there are no stages of grief to pass. Bonanno 's work has also demonstrated that absence of grief or trauma symptoms is a healthy outcome. The lack of support in the academic psychology literature has led to the popular and special interest press applying the labels of myth and fallacy to the notion that there are stages of grief, in publications ranging from Time magazine to Scientific American to Skeptic Magazine, the latter publishing findings of the Grief Recovery Institute that contested the concept of stages of grief as they relate to people who are dealing with the deaths of people important to them. Grief communication The neutrality of this section is disputed. Relevant discussion may be found on the talk page. Please do not remove this message until conditions to do so are met. ( March 2014 ) This section does not cite any sources. Please help improve this section by adding citations to reliable sources. Unsourced material may be challenged and removed. ( December 2016 ) Grief communication occurs in grief - stricken people, through their emotions, actions, and words. Kübler - Ross placed much emphasis on communication. When a person is approaching death and is going through the five stages of her model she believed that person wanted to review their life, the illness they have, and their imminent death. When a patient and physician could discuss this courageously and candidly a good death would be possible. This model and her thoughts are influential to health care providers ; it provides guidance to approaching and interacting with people experiencing grief. References Jump up ^ Broom, Sarah M. ( August 30, 2004 ). `` Milestones ''. TIME. Jump up ^ Perring, Christian. `` PHI350 : The Stages in the Dying Process ''. Retrieved November 27, 2016. Jump up ^ Kübler - Ross, Elisabeth ; Kessler, David ( June 5, 2007 ). `` On Grief and Grieving : Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss ''. Scribner. Retrieved November 27, 2016 -- via Amazon. ^ Jump up to : Santrock, J.W. ( 2007 ). A Topical Approach to Life - Span Development. New York : McGraw - Hill. ISBN 0 - 07 - 338264 - 7. Jump up ^ `` The 5 Stages Of Grief Every Sports Fan Has Experienced ''. Elitedaily.com. 2016 - 06 - 17. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. Jump up ^ `` The 5 Stages of Super Bowl Grief ''. The Tailgate Times. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. Jump up ^ `` Grief from Patriots ' Super Bowl loss ? How to deal - Daily Dose - Boston.com ''. Archive.boston.com. 2012 - 02 - 06. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. Jump up ^ `` How to deal with post election grief ''. Business Insider. 2016 - 11 - 15. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. Jump up ^ Kabas, Marisa ( 2016 - 11 - 11 ). `` How to cope with feelings of election grief ''. Fusion. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. Jump up ^ Business Balls - Kübler Ross section of health and wellbeing Jump up ^ Inc.com How to Change Your Mindset to See Problems as Opportunities Jump up ^ `` The Grieving Process Of Divorce ''. Positive Parenting. Archived from the original on 27 June 2010. Retrieved 10 April 2012. Jump up ^ Crain, Tracy. `` Counseling and Therapy ''. Tarrant County Mental Health and Substance Abuse. Retrieved 10 April 2012. Jump up ^ Kastenbaum, Robert. Death, Society, and Human Experience, 6th edition. Boston : Allyn & Bacon, 1998. Jump up ^ Corr, Charles A., Kenneth J. Doka, and Robert Kastenbaum ( 1999 ). `` Dying and Its Interpreters : A Review of Selected Literature and Some Comments on the State of the Field. '' Omega : The Journal of Death and Dying 39 ( 4 ) : 239 -- 259. doi.org/10.2190/3KGF-52BV-QTNT-UBMX Jump up ^ Maciejewski, Paul K. ; Zhang, Baohui ; Block, Susan D. ; Prigerson, Holly G. ( 2007 ). `` An Empirical Examination of the Stage Theory of Grief ''. Journal of the American Medical Association. 297 ( 7 ) : 716 -- 23. doi : 10.1001 / jama. 297.7. 716. PMID 17312291. Jump up ^ ( 1 ) Jump up ^ Bonanno, George A. ( January 2004 ). `` Loss, trauma, and human resilience : have we underestimated the human capacity to thrive after extremely aversive events ? ''. The American Psychologist. 59 ( 1 ) : 20 -- 8. doi : 10.1037 / 0003 - 066X. 59.1. 20. PMID 14736317. Jump up ^ `` The Neuroscience of True Grit ''. Scientific American. 2011 - 03 - 01. doi : 10.1038 / scientificamerican0311 - 28. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. ^ Jump up to : Konigsberg, Ruth Davis ( January 29, 2011 ). `` New Ways to Think About Grief ''. Retrieved November 27, 2016 -- via www.time.com. Jump up ^ `` Five Fallacies of Grief : Debunking Psychological Stages ''. Scientific American. 2008 - 11 - 01. Retrieved 2016 - 12 - 29. Jump up ^ Friedman, Russell ; James, John W. `` The Myth of the Stages of Dying, Death and Grief ''. Skeptic Magazine. 14 ( 2 ) : 37 -- 41. Also available as : `` Stages of Grief : The Myth ''. The Grief Recovery Institute. January 5, 2012. Further reading Kübler - Ross, E. ( 1969 ) On Death and Dying, Routledge, ISBN 0 - 415 - 04015 - 9 Kübler - Ross, E. ( 2005 ) On Grief and Grieving : Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss, Simon & Schuster Ltd, ISBN 0 - 7432 - 6344 - 8 Scire, P. ( 2007 ). `` Applying Grief Stages to Organizational Change '' An Attributional Analysis of Kübler - Ross ' Model of Dying, Mark R Brent. Harvard University, 1981. An Evaluation of the Relevance of the Kübler - Ross Model to the Post-injury Responses of Competitive Athletes, Johannes Hendrikus Van der Poel, University of the Free State. Published by s.n., 2000. External links Elisabeth Kübler - Ross Foundation DABDA : The Five Stages of Coping With Death -- about.com `` On Death and Dying '' -- interview with Elizabeth Kübler - Ross M.D. `` Beware the Five Stages of ' Grief ' '' -- TLC Group editorial Retrieved from `` https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title= Kübler - Ross_model&oldid = 815309841 '' Categories : Grief Psychological theories Psychology books Self - help books Stage theories Hidden categories : Wikipedia articles needing page number citations from May 2014 All articles with dead external links Articles with dead external links from December 2016 Wikipedia articles needing style editing from June 2013 All articles needing style editing Articles needing additional references from December 2016 All articles needing additional references Wikipedia articles needing style editing from December 2016 Articles with multiple maintenance issues All articles with unsourced statements Articles with unsourced statements from November 2015 Articles with unsourced statements from September 2017 NPOV disputes from March 2014 All NPOV disputes All accuracy disputes Articles with disputed statements from August 2016 Talk Contents About Wikipedia Azərbaycanca Català Čeština Eesti Ελληνικά Español فارسی Français Hrvatski Bahasa Indonesia עברית Nederlands 日本 語 Português کوردی Srpskohrvatski / српскохрватски Svenska ไทย 中文 Edit links This page was last edited on 14 December 2017, at 02 : 44. 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