The seven - year itch - wikipedia The seven - year itch For other uses, see Seven Year Itch ( disambiguation ). This article is written like a personal reflection or opinion essay that states a Wikipedia editor 's personal feelings about a topic. Please help improve it by rewriting it in an encyclopedic style. ( September 2013 ) The seven - year itch is a psychological term that suggests that happiness in a relationship declines after around year seven of a marriage. The phrase originated as a name for irritating and contagious skin complaints of a long duration. Examples of reference may have included STD outbreaks that are known to significantly decrease in frequency after seven years, or mites that live under the skin ( scabies ) and cause severe itching that is hard to get rid of. Later on in the 19th and early 20th centuries it was viewed as an expression of imagined appropriate punishment for antisocial behavior, or as a simile for a situation with little hope in relief. The phrase was first used to describe an inclination to become unfaithful after seven years of marriage in the play The Seven Year Itch by George Axelrod, and gained popularity following the 1955 film adaptation starring Marilyn Monroe and Tom Ewell. In his 1913 novel The Eighth Year, Philip Gibbs attributes the concept to the British judge Sir Francis Jeune. The phrase has since expanded to indicate cycles of dissatisfaction not only in interpersonal relationships but in any situation such as working a full - time job or buying a house, where a decrease in happiness and satisfaction is often seen over long periods of time. Contents 1 Divorce rates 2 Media influences 3 See also 4 References Divorce rates The seven - year itch can be analyzed quantitatively. Divorce rates show a trend in couples that, on average, divorce around seven years. Statistics show that there is a low risk of separation during the first months of marriage. After the `` honeymoon '' months, divorce rates start to increase. Most married couples experience a gradual decline in the quality of their marriage ; in recent years around the fourth year of marriage. Around the seventh year, tensions rise to a point that couples either divorce or adapt to their partner. In samples taken from the National Center for Health Statistics, there proves to be an average median duration of marriage across time. In 1922 the median duration of marriage that ended in divorce was 6.6. In 1974 the median duration was 7.5. In 1990 the median duration was 7.2. While these can fluctuate from year to year, the averages stay relatively close to the seven year mark. Media influences The modern usage of the phrase gained popularity following the 1955 movie of the same name starring Marilyn Monroe. In the film, a man sends his family off on vacation for the summer while he stays back to work. He begins to fantasize about women that he previously had feelings for, when his new neighbor ( Marilyn Monroe ) moves in and he decides to try and seduce her. Things go awry and he ends up not going through with it, but he believes that his wife will somehow know that he is trying to be unfaithful. Whilst the term was originally used for unfavourable conditions of a long duration, the movie helped to popularize its usage to refer to the decrease of romantic feelings between married couples over time. The phrase has become so popular that some couples use it as an indicator of the lifespan of their marriage, a famous example being a Bavarian politician Gabriele Pauli, who has been divorced twice. She suggests after seven years marriage should end, with the couple required to resay their vows if they wish to continue for another seven years. See also Pair bond Psychology of sexual monogamy Sexual desire and intimate relationships Sexual motivation and hormones References Jump up ^ Aaron Dalton. `` The Ties That Unbind '', Psychology Today, 1 January 2000. Retrieved 12 June 2012. Jump up ^ Martin, G. `` http://phrases.org.uk/meanings/seven-year-itch.html '', The seven - year itch :, ( n.d. ). Retrieved 30 December 2013. Jump up ^ Kiernan, K. ( 1999 ). Cohabitation in Western Europe. Population Trends, 96 : 25 - 32. Jump up ^ Ellis, R., & Kreider, R. ( 2011 ). Number, Timing, and Duration of Marriages and Divorces : 2009. Current Population Reports. Retrieved from http://www.census.gov/prod/2011pubs/p70-125.pdf. Jump up ^ U.S. Department of Health and Human Services ( 1981 ). Duration of Marriage Before Divorce. National Vital Statistics System 21, 38. Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_21/sr21_038.pdf Jump up ^ Crowther, B. ( n.d. ). The Seven - Year - Itch ( 1955 ). The New York Times, Retrieved from http://movies.nytimes.com/movie/43862/The-Seven-Year-Itch/overview Jump up ^ Mieszkowski, Katherine ( September 21, 2007 ). `` Congratulations ! Your Marriage has Expired ''. Salon. Retrieved December 20, 2014. Retrieved from `` https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=The_seven-year_itch&oldid=807649506 '' Categories : Divorce Marriage Monogamy English phrases Psychology English proverbs Hidden categories : Wikipedia articles needing style editing from September 2013 All articles needing style editing Talk Contents About Wikipedia فارسی Norsk Svenska 中文 Edit links This page was last edited on 29 October 2017, at 08 : 37. Text is available under the Creative Commons Attribution - ShareAlike License ; additional terms may apply. By using this site, you agree to the Terms of Use and Privacy Policy. Wikipedia ® is a registered trademark of the Wikimedia Foundation, Inc., a non-profit organization. About Wikipedia

Question: where did the term 7 year itch come from
Answer: the play The Seven Year Itch