Instead, as Kerfoot notes, we transform [29] "We transform a frightened 4-year-old girl in the emergency room into a little person who now feels she has some measure of control and can stop crying. We transform a 50-year-old father with out-of-control diabetes into a person who has the confidence to manage his condition. And we transform the frightening and painful experience of childbirth into a beautiful memory of ecstasy for a family that has created a new person. When life ends, we transform those final moments of life into sacred, beautiful transitions of passage for families to complete the circle of life."