"You can't ... I mean as far as I'm concerned you lose a child you lose it and it's painful either way I like to think that I've done the best I can to protect him from it um and if you know it's because of the injection well to some degree I'm fatalistic. I mean if it's meant to be it's meant to be. There's not much you can do about it but I would rather know that I've taken every precaution I can instead of you know leaving him open and susceptible to these things." LB: Some people say they would vaccinate because they would feel worse if their child died from an illness which they could have prevented. "Possibly I would sit in that category." (Complete immuniser, #1)