But there is a difference. If I walk up to a random guy on the street and say "yes or no" do you want a drink of water?" that is not a problem. If I walk up to another guy and say "yes or no" are you a serial rapist?" I would expect to get punched in the nose. This is nowhere near the same thing but it was not an innocent "I'm an angel" little query. I'm really tired of this whole affair.