Sorry Kate, you seem like a real nice person to me. However, as mentioned before, and you have insight to my issues, I must have an outlet, a catharsis if you will, and I am only venting against the sources of my anger. Or would it be better that I let it build up like Charlie did and take it out on innocent people and "UNBORN CHILDREN".(you know this is no threat, just angry bantering!) Subwayjack