Your patience with this person is exemplary. Nevertheless I note that she singled you out for criticism at SP talk and has just summarily deleted your totally honest defence (that your response had been to routine attacks on you which had gone unremarked). It seems that when she indulges in responses that appear inappropriate and overly officious, they sometimes also appear to be motivated by selective personal animosity. Therefore I can't help thinking it would be more helpful to civil discussions at SP talk if she recused herself from sysopping there. —