Yes you are right, i watched a video on youtube and i thought it was male shepard having sex with alenko, but it really wass a female character with a "male skin" on.  Anyway, is so stupid what you say, people is sometimes wrong and you can't say that ME is "space opera" just because you found 100000000 people who says so, you can state that god, obvnis, vampires, zombies, etc exist with your stupid argument, i don't need any cite, i'm using logic and discussing, and i repeat, if you can avoid certain aspects of the game, like romance, you can't say that it has "romance related themes" and thats just because you may not encounter or like tu use such feature, will you say that "god of war" is a sex related game because (if you want to) two girls blows kratos cock?