BLP question 

Hi,

Given your comment at the recent Trevor Marshall AFD, I would be interested in any comment you might have regarding [one].  I'm interested in a "sincerely curious about how genuine, truthful, hurtful things should be handled on wikipedia" way, not in a "pointy, I agree with you, who gives a crap about people's feelings" sort of way.  I don't often edit BLP pages, and outcomes like these two make me want to avoid them completely.  Any comment or links you might have to suggest are of interest to me.  Thanks,  (t) (c) Wikipedia's rules:simple/complex