::Boing! said Zebedee - It is off course a great deal easier to make general judgments about  me   then to arrive at conclusions by meticulously ascertaining  or providing detail . How fair is it of you then to  repeatedly  denounce  my "confrontational attitude" on talk pages " , while  completely    overlooking  ,  disingenuous and confrontational editing , on article pages  by editors you are concurrently interacting with  and intervening for .  

Although you only question the choice of words , your question in a larger context   poses a   significant    question , about the  wisdom , ethics and conventions ,   of unbridled  interaction hidden behind a keyboard  incognito , with a room full of strange  incognito entity's .