The comment was completly called for. Just because the colloquial reference was slightly sexual in nature does not infer any hate. I could have easily said "Are you locked in an irrevocable devotion to her", would that have made a difference?  If so, then I have no desire to be unlocked any sooner than the 31 hours so imposed on me.  For then the absurdity of the punishment matches the absurdity of the "crime". 

P.S. Loosen up when it comes to sexual colloquialisms, what is this church?