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The issue is personhood, not life; any cell is alive, but that doesn't give it rights.  You would like to give rights to a clump of cells at the expense of the person it is inside.  Worse, "long term psychological effects of abortion" is your little way of attempting to guilt women into having unwanted children.  Clearly, it is not that you can't see the reality, but that you choose to put your own spin on it for political reasons.  This conversation is over.