Intervisitation was a very tight ship back in '94.  It was one of the few things the RAs did well, aside from eating pizza and watching Ren & Stimpy.  It didn't happen very frequently.  The RAs checked up on you, whether you were in the boys' or girls' dorm.  I don't know, things may have changed since then.  I remember, intervisitation sucked, because I couldn't get any studying done, with my door wide open, and all the giggling in the hallway.