Bringing offwiki stuff onwiki is pretty much *always* considered revealing or outing of personal information, from the point of view of Wikipedia policy. There's really no way to argue it. In past cases I've seen it argued "It's on a website or the person has allegedly disclosed themselves" - that is not a defence, if the person has not disclosed it here then we have no business discussing it or raising it here. Especially in the manner in which it was raised, it would appear that it was intended to harass or humiliate the target and served no purpose beyond that. Be warned that if you do it again, you will be blocked. As Moondyne said, you only escaped this one because of elapsed time since the actions taken. Orderinchaos