To Example Number Three: 

First that was direct ed to gareth and amy who tell autistics they agree with me that cure is genocide. Second it is not flaming if it is true.Joe Mele

OK well there is a movement afoot here and else where to silence a particular point of view held by many aspergians. Silence=Death. There will be no cure, If there is ever a half ass prenatal test, it will be resisted by any means necessary by the majority. Most aspies that want a cure are just horny looking for a  girlfriend. Joe Mele

In response to paragraph one: Yes it is flaming. Calling someone a backstabber is undeniably flaming. It is a personal attack, which you have made AGAIN, by saying "it (the backstabbing accusation) is true"
In response to paragraph two: You are starting to sound disturbingly like Tern here.