Courtney Simpson 

Ah, nuts. 

If she specifically objects, I guess that is different, since it is a borderline case. It's not as if she was written up in the New York Times, after all. That is the principle of WP:BLP, "do no harm", and it's not as if we can't write everything else without mentioning the name. Are you quite sure it is her? May I forward your email to Tabercil, and see if he agrees? Or better yet, can you forward her original mail to both of us? I will reply by email as well so you'll have my email address.  (squeak)