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I'm speaking more about your gamesmanship, which at times is cringeworthy.  I just noticed that you enjoy to code.  Good for you!  The workplace desperately needs more women in the engineering disciplines. You should easily be able to parly your experience with wikipedia politics and rise In the ranks of a faculty department should you choose, however it's a miserable experience and takes you away from doing the work you enjoy.  Makin'Bacon "