This seems to be little more than a campaign of intimidation. Some editors use wikilawyering as a way to intimidate other users with whom they do not agree. This is at least a question of not AGF and of refusing to accept that Wikipedia works by compromise and consensus. I have seen this pattern of Wikilawyering from an editor called Lukas19 (who reported me repeatedly to WP:PAIN and constantly described my good faith edits as "vandalism", but none of this came to anything, though it was stressful and I had many sleepless nights), it is very intimidating. If there are any attempts to intimidate you such as RfCs and reports to AN/I (and I expect this will occur as well), I shall do my best to support you both, you are both valuable assets to Wikipedia and have shown tremendous levels of good faith and tolerance, far than I think I could muster. Try not to let it get you down. I try to put it in perspective, this is supposed to be fun after all. Take care.