Thank you. And, my apologies, the actual quote was that my head would "swim", not "spin". Bugs has also said that the nickname is non-negotiable, and it is OUT (his capitalisation); the same kinds of unilateral statements for which I was warned. There is no consensus for either version, although the tide does appear to be turning against mine. I plan to return it once. Then when I am reverted, which I almost certainly will be, I will seek formal mediation.