Also, frankly, you're the one being passive aggressive. If you're going to give your opinion about someone, or even insult them, don't beat around the bush. You're the one being exactly what passive aggressive entails:, calling him *indirectly* ignorant of your (the groups) rules, acting in an elitist and authoritarian manner, calling him childish, indirectly threatening him with administrative action and so forth. I repeat, you are a douche.