I too have given numerous reasons and now the ball is in your court to respond (at the second-last section started by Legalese). The kind of civility given will be the kind that will be given back; if you feel squeamish on my username and contribs, I too will assume genders after all we're all anonymous aren't we ? There is no need of "knowing" anyone personally here. That's not required for discussion. I've had hundreds of discussions with hundreds of people here and I've known about only 2 (and that too when they chose to tell).