Yeah, I know....and it feels like I have to step quietly around everyone.  It actually kinda pisses me off (pardon my french).  I meant actually nothing rude or incivil by it...I just didn't want them posting there.  After SOOOO many arguements and my "New Message" banner lighting up every three seconds, it was getting old quick.  Could the banner have been better worded to be polite, yet still get the message across...yes.  But, when you are at your wits end with people messaging back and forth over and over and over....you kinda lose it.  Excuse, no.  But that's the way I felt.  But now my speech is being limited...which, on Wikipedia, that is all we have.  What's next? -  T:C