Oh no, no, no, no, I wasn't implying you were being uncivil; it was just a general comment about the nature of AfD.  When I was a newbie, I was often thinking, man, when are they going to close this?  It's a common complaint- note the AfD- or VfD, as it was then- on Autocunnilingus, where people were really getting annoyed.  Et tu, Brute?