Those are good points, can how I phrase things be better, probably. What do I have against an interaction ban? Yes the stigma, we're dealing with an individual who has shown she will not present a correct picture or a full picture even when it is shoved under their nose and even then the WP:COMPETENCE is not there to accept these things. Do I think I'm the sole wielder of the sword, not one bit. what I think is the part that bugs me is that a IBAN will be used as a blunt force trauma to accomplish the ends Lightbreather is trying to accomplish. I think that TKOP and Rich F, really nail the nail on the head, Lightbreeather is trying to end run around the community and manipulate the situation to her goals. I have no such agenda, I saw mass canvassing 11 separate pages alone on 01/22 to different pages aimed only at women and not the community at large,  22 edits separate on 01/17 including at least 3 I have on my watchlist, is that wiki hounding? It is if you believe Lightbreather. The second part of this conversation I would prefer to have in a private forum with you because I don't want that part twisted and manipulated. I am sending that part by email.