Not sure it should be "spouses" unless we're talking polygamy. Anyway, I'm rotten with infoboxes, pinging . About the "creepy": a) he may have similar interests as you, and b) the "contributions" button is there for a reason. If people don't "do much to your edits", ignore them, don't keep count of where they turn up (you don't want to be a reverse stalker, do you?). And frankly, they'd have to do some consistently bad stuff to your edits for me to be interested.  | talk .