Please don't misunderstand me, I don't think you're acting abusively.  But there is something about this situation that makes me uneasy.  "Each time I see Cool Cat I try to give him a fresh start in my mind" ought to set a warning bell ringing.  You're repeatedly finding yourself in disputes with this fellow, and in the latest instance you took it upon yourself to chase him up about a rather silly but innocuous spree of signature editing, and then sought to stop his old user page being deleted.  Oh well, you'll either get the point or you won't. Sayanara. Tony Sidaway