:::::::But I'm the user Drmies is talking about in the comment where he says he likes to "kiss before he gets fucked", so he was reefing to me. If you think that's appropriate language for a male user to direct at a female user that's your problem, but then Ched mentions handjobs and an IP mentions anal sex, in a thread I started at Drimes talk page to ask Drmies about his approach to Corbett. These comments were not removed, BTW, but left for all to see.