:Bizarre. I kept wondering why the men I dated I basically just wanted to hang out with, and then they died, or something! Meanwhile, (I'm not kidding, I'm obliviously reading Tanya Huff, MZB, Andre Norton, Octavia Butler, and Ann Rice..  think I got unresolved ah.. issues?  Aw hell, and I live down the street from Dupont and Gommorah! Seriously.