:Telling you that you are acting like an ass is not in any way shape or form attempting to pursade you to do anything. Stop trying to martyr yourself. It was a statement made regarding your attitute - as stated above basically ignoring anything which doesnt go your way. While you keep falling back on wiki policy it should be noted that according to the policy i havent actually breeched it  "Editors are human, capable of mistakes, so a few, minor, isolated incidents of incivility are not in themselves a concern." 
 :Now talking of "consensus building" - need i remind you yet again that all actions taken thus far have been made with the consensus of the community (i.e. the creation of one article to cover the entire Med/ME theatre), which you come along about a month or so after it has all happened and decide you dont like what has happened and you plan on reverting it all - when you gained no consensus what so ever. Attempts to invole the wider community - considering they dont all sit looking at paticular userpages or article talk pages all day long -  you have been rather opposed to. 
 :I think you should ought to assume good faith too, and stop attempting to block all progress being made by popping up weeks/months down the line of events happening and reverting those decissions or threating to revert them.