:Barry,  

 The insidebigbrother.com site was first established in mid 2005 so we had our own domain name and moved from free hosting. People have added it to Wikipedia who are not closely associated with managing the site. Doing a search via google you will also see that it is added to other big brother related websites and not by people managing the site. 

 As for the question "How popular is your site?" - that data should not be needed to suffice a link on wikipedia. I see that question as intruding, and one that I don't feel I need to answer. "How many real users are there?" - again I believe that to be intrusive - and 'users' is a broad descriptor. 

 And now a question for you if that is okay, 

 * Why does behindbigbrother.com stay, and insidebigbrother.com get removed? 

 If you say "because it has been around for a long time" and "it is popular" I do not see those as valid reasons. I believe it is about the quality of the website, and the services they have to offer. Behindbigbrother.com is a great website and I believe it should remain, but insidebigbrother.com I also think is a great website and should also remain. 

 (Both sites are very similar, yet insidebigbrother offers services such as tipping which we had a programmer write for us. Isn't it best to give potential users more choices? offer them tipping?) 

 I honestly cannot see why insidebigbrother.com is being removed, it is not spam - it is content rich with specialised programs that we had programmed for us. Why do you take it as spam? 

 Regards, 

 Dave.