== message rec'd - thx == 

 I got your message in regards to the picture on the grave site (on my user page). 

 Indeed, I have thought about driving out there (I live about 60-80 miles away), but I am very limited on funds. (Plus my big Chevy Monte' Carlo car gets about 15' miles per gallon, not great, especially considering I might get lost on the way there and back and have to pay for photos.) 

 If this is necessary, I will attempt to take care of it, but Fair Use might allow the pic. Also from an aesthetic or appearance point of view, I understand that maybe it would help to have a picture that meets the highest standards. 

 I do hope to find time to look into this and address the concerns. Yes, you are right: A large part of the responsability (maybe a majority?) to address concerns lies with me, as the nominator -I raised the nomination, just as I pointed out that others raised objections. (While I'm unemployed, I do spend time preparing for a job search, but this is my "day off," and I hope to "find time.") If I do take any photos, I hope to include some with me in them, simply to prove that I was really there and I took the photos, so I can dispell concerns about "Did he really take photos?" Of course, I don't need to be in the photo that goes in the article, but it would be good to keep all photos in archival for a record. 

 Thank you for reminding me.