"Hey Tangerines, I appreciate how furious this has made you, but I think you've made your point.  Jeff surely did something boneheaded, and the fact that he refuses to apologize shows more about his character than anything, but you're bordering on beating a dead horse just like he has.  So in the spirit of WP, give him a break a little.  I think you might actually get the apology you're after if you do.    ''''''  

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