::::Swearing has been proven to be an extremely effective pain/stress reliever.  As another admin doing high-tension, thankless work in largely the same vein as Bwilkins, I can only say that it's easier than you think to just throw up your hands and say "for fuck's sake, do you need your head checked?" If you think I only support the right of other admins to say that, a perusal of my talkpage archives should disavow you of that notion.  And incidentally, I've been on the receiving end of a ton of vicious comments from non-admins in a couple areas I enforce discretionary sanctions, including accusations of reading yaoi and bara (despite my signature, I have no love for anime of any kind), being referred to as an evil Colonialist Westerner, being told I should be fucked upside down, and the inevitable questions about getting my head checked (got that done many years ago, the results are described here).  So don't worry, we hear plenty of rave reviews from non-admins, and due to the nature of dynamic IPs there's even less we can do about it.