==Edit summary by CTF83! Alt [edit]== 
 I get where you're coming from. Even as a double minority, I don't get the offense by that label as it classes our group. I would never get offended at anybody over a word that classes us, then list off other offensive slurs as my response to make a point. That's simply how we class, so I didn't understand what made him break out into slurs. I know he wasn't necessarily calling anybody those terms, but I'm sure if I thought to say something like: "Don't call me black. What if I went F-word, C-word, H-word," I wouldn't hear the end of it. 

 I mean, I could very much understand if someone used the f-word and he responded, "Hey, don't use that. What if I used nasty slurs about you? How would you feel?" Heck, I could EVEN understand it if he said, "Listen! don't use 'homosexual.' To me, that's offensive. It's like me using a slur connected to your ethnicity." I mean, did he even know what color this person was? Using that was just the first thing that came to mind despite whether or not it connected to anyone. 

 Anti-black behaviors are all over the World Wide Web. I didn't think they existed on this site, but I'm noticing it does but that it's very subtle because of strict rules. I'm confident I won't get much understanding over the issue. For what it's worth, however, thank you for your clarification on my user talkpage.