People's desire for happiness is being met or partially met when the feeling is a spiritual pleasure. Happiness is to create living conditions in the social practice, as experience and understanding to the individual, collective and even human goals, ideals and the realization of justice and public welfare of the cause to be satisfied on the personality. 

 Happiness is not just a happier person. 

 The ideal state is that in your happiness when everyone around you feel happy. However, the pursuit of happiness, sometimes we may have to selfish point. Saying Chinese words say, "If I do not take care of yourself, that is, the sky is falling, I can not do anything." This may be considered to be a selfish idea, but from another side, we are also responsible for their own happiness. 

 We have to control our lives better, we have the opportunity to choose happiness, and the choice of well-being of our minds will become happy. However, sometimes, we are establishing their own happiness on the suffering of others. Perhaps this is inevitable, but this happiness can not last long. 

 The source of happiness should not be based on reason or negative on the target. For example, for those who need to complete the work of the escape will indirectly make your friends or colleagues bear the responsibility, but you have at this time laughing. This particular source of happiness will not last long, and it will damage your image. Now let's look at this issue from another angle. If you are that has been "bullied" and has remained silent, and this additional work has been attached to the patient in person, you feel happy? 

 I would even find it very unfortunate for you. This is why we have to stand up and take control of our own sake. Happy, we have to choose! We do things that make us happy, but not build our happiness on others. I hope that we can control the lives and well-being in our hands. Remember, each of us has the opportunity.''' http://www.care199.com/ 
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