:: Hiya, just to save you some time here, I'm not looking for a comprehensive set of evidence, or a mini RfC.  More, I'm looking for you to summarize which of RS's comments still "stick in your craw" and/or that you'd like him to apologize for?  What I'd like is if you could focus your energies in a positive direction...  What would you like to see happen, to help resolve this dispute?  And I'll be asking him the same question. My hope is that if both of you could articulate your concerns in a clear way, that we may be able to get to the root of this, rather than just treating the symptoms. So, could you try to look at things as though he genuinely wants to find a compromise, but he is looking to you to suggest something? What do you think would be the best way to move forward?