::::One of WP's core principles is "Assume Good Faith."  To that end, I agree with Majorly, the default position should be support, not oppose.  This is particularly true when dealing with people and their emotions.  If I said,  I support you.  That is generally enough for anybody, they might ask for more, but if more isn't forthcoming, nobody really cares.  Now if I said,  you are an ass.  That offends people and can hurt their feelings-which in turn means people are going to want to know why the other party thinks that way.-''' '