Any communication from me is harassment?  No, it's not.  But, don't you think it's pretty funny I told you to stay off my talk page, and yet, here you are?  I guess I should consider you posting here as harassment (using your reasoning above)?  If you are interested in supporting your argument regarding the infobox with MOS policy, then do so.  If you cannot, and if it does come out they are in a committed homosexual relationship, spouse will be applicable for the other guy.  And I will champion putting into the infobox that way.  And, by the way, I think I said "stay the fuck off my talkpage", not the version you remember.   ●