:To be fair, you were 'stupid', in that you didn't know a lot of things that had already been discussed, or which were assumed to be basic background knowledge. You were given links to specific discussions in the archives, but you seem to have ignored them. What more could you expect of us? 
 :I honestly don't understand half of what you're trying to say here. Perhaps therein lies part of the problem. "fellation knows what"? "bob job"? Please.