"If you aren't born with a vagina, you aren't a woman." - Anonymous 
 My (ex) boyfriend said the same thing. He (and Anonymous) were both wrong. If you've ever seen Calpernia act, you know that she is not a guy, and (where it matters) never has been. She's an amazingly beautiful woman who's been through more than I can imagine to be who she is, and to insist on calling her 'he' is not only rude, but inaccurate.