Hello Damsel, 
 Glad to have you on Wikipedia.  The AFOD project is making strides and having another adoptee on board with us can help get bring a more comprehensive perspective.  Will you join the project? I thought I share with you that Wikipedia's editors frown on anything that may look like a conflict on interest, so you might want to be careful on the Bastard Nation article.  Adoption debates on here get very divisive - even among people who are largely in agreement; just take a look at the AFOD talk page.  Anyway, good luck and hope to work with you in the future.  -Tobit