::Kaldari - I agree and that's fair comment. Franmax - I would have agreed but as you too seem to think "screaming into a tea towel" is sexist you are clearly not worth agreeing with. When will you lot get it through your skulls that it is your sexist/homophobic deep rooted personal issues that cause you to see it in others? Only those with sexist agendas (perhaps unrealised) could assume a tea towel is a female object.  Sandy thinks I've lost my marbles, so that's all fine as far as I'm concerned (don't forget Sandy started this with her venemous attack on a 12 year old).