::::::Where specifically is the personal attack, so I can avoid the same choice of words in the future? 
 ::::::Google shows (excluding Wikipedia sources): 
 ::::::"Nonstandard cosmology" = [139 refs] 
 ::::::"Non-standard cosmology" = [397 refs] 
 ::::::"Alternative cosmology" = [542 refs] 
 ::::::In other words, the preferable usage is shown by the numbers.