:::::::Drama? There is no drama. This is a dull, garden-variety, unexceptional issue  one of so many we handle. We are just trying to sort this out. 

 :::::::Huon and I do not stick together. If he thinks I am wrong, he will say so, and I will be fine with that. You are not an outsider. You are a Wikipedian, just like us. However, if anything, you could be considered unqualified to argue for the inclusion of the links because of your conflict of interest. But, your interest is not making money. Your site is fine, and you put a lot of work into it for others to enjoy. I admire and respect that. 

 ::::::::This is really not worth all these keystrokes. Why not post at the article talk page and see what the community wants? All three of us can stay silent and see what they say. Best,