:::I don't list them, that's the thing.  I haven't listed a category for deletion in years.  But, on the off chance that I feel the need to do so now, I would still stick by what I said.  Yes, I would indeed like to have a discussion about it, that's why I list it at CFD, tag the category itself, and notify the creator.  If I'm interested in something, I'm going to make damn sure I know about it.  For example, if I want to watch a television show, I'm not going to complain to the cable company because they didn't call me to let me know when it was airing after I missed it.  I'm going to check my show listings so I don't miss it.  That said, if nobody shows up to discuss it, then nobody shows up.  Do I prefer that?  No.  But sometimes that happens.