#You removed a great number of comments (while leaving your own in place); comments are commonly included in VfDs, and it isn't your place to remove them.  (See the discussion at Talk:Votes for deletion for a discussion of this.) 
 #You're misusing the word "trolling" — and the comments by other people that you removed were no worse than your own. 
 #Saying that someone is lying about a relative's serious illness is a personal attack, and an unpleasant one. 
 #True, and this is done by pointing out that the vote is a User's first edit, or that they're only edited a few times before; you simply say (without verifying it with a developer) that someone is a sock-puppet.  in one case, the person involved explained that he was Melissdolbeer's husband, but you simply assumed that he was lying (and made another of your sarcastic attacks). 
 #I have no vendetta, but your behaviour has been very poor since you opened your present account, and so as a responsible admin. I've kept my eye on you; my caution has been justified on a number of occasions since.