::In all honesty, I have to say that I quite agree with what this person has posted.  In nearly every single episode of Raymond it shows Debra literally hitting Raymond, because of certain comments he makes, or something he doesn't do right.  How can this be credited as not neutral or no evidence of it.  You cannot literally state that signs of domestic abuse were not present during episodes.  In all honesty, I find it rather amusing that you are now starting to change your argument because someone has brought to everyone's attention about the abuse this show is showing towards men.  From what this person has provided with sources is good enough to convince any amid reader that it is indeed true.  Debra was borderline abusive in the sitcom.  Anyone with eyes could see that.  It wasn't hard to figure out that Raymond was scared of his wife because of how she treated him.  I can provide plenty of areas where Debra has been abusive to Ray, either psychically or mentally.  Before I provide sources, Debra's way of showing Ray in return of how she loves him, is by being physically, mentally and emotionally abusive to him.  In the episode "All I Want For Christmas" she calls him "pathetic" when he tries to be romantic with her.  In "A Vote For Debra" she denies to people that she knows him.  In "Bad Mood Rising" She shoves him into a bookcase; hits him; threatens to "smack" him; threatens to get Marie to "smack the crap out of [him]"; calls him a "Gigantic Arse", "Insensitive Durfwad", "Jerk"; shoves him away when he tries to hug her.  Do I need to add more episodes where she's balantly showing how abusive and inconsiderate she really is?