:Damn it, just managed to make this one (with the revert out thogh it doesn't look as good as I wanted it to) after xeno fixed it 
 : 
 {| cellspacing="0" style="width: 238px; background: #fff;" 
 | style="width: 45px; height: 45px; background: #000; text-align: center; font-size: 12pt; color: #000;" |  
 | style="font-size: 8pt; color: #ffffff; background-color: #000000; padding: 4pt; line-height: 1em;" | This user is in mourning, please be friendly. 
 |} 
 :The coding is complex ''''''