==What is an ASSHOLE, really?== 
 I have made comments before (which had been deleted) because the semantics are being used wrong. A human who is described such, behaves in a manner like that of the mentioned body part. Like a lover who treats me like shit, then dumps me. That happened to me, but I was an asshole too, and now she is my assholemate. But the most glaring example of assholeness, is someone who enjoys giving someone a shitty time or bad news, like a cop who has that asshole shaped smile on his face when he writes you the speeding ticket. An asshole is not just someone you don't like, it has to do with the reason you don't like the perp. It is not synonymous with Jerk (who is someone who behaves in a manner described in that popular Marilyn Monroe clip) If you want to know what an assholemate does, my lips are sealed but if you are a friend, I will relate to you a story that will make you laugh, cry, or ... (just make sure you have a box of Kleenex or roll of Charmin). Let's set the record straight: Assholes are not necessarily a bad thing for society; the world is full of shit. Sometimes we all feel the need to redirect some of our bad karma to someone who needs it. It is okay to do that, but just remember that when you do that, you are being Assholish. Markymarky