" May 2009 (UTC) 
 ::AN/I isn't actually dispute resolution.  That's why it isn't listed.  There's a stable link to the ANI thread in the first line of my statement, though.  Sometimes it helps when an uninvolved party initiates the request; that makes it easier to start on neutral terms.  I'll be around to answer questions if you (or any other named party) have them.  A few basic suggestions: whatever you assert, back it up with evidence.  If you've made a few mistakes, step up and take ownership of them.  A calm, dry, just-the-facts-ma'am approach usually fared much better than overstatement.  It helps to review a few past cases and follow the best examples.  Best wishes all, '''' 00:15, 19"