No body really deserves arbitrary respect.

Let me remind you of a few comments you made in round one, and I will tell you how no matter what your definition is you are wrong. Furthermore, you will never act on your arguments. I would like to see you disregard the commands of a police officer who is showing you respect just because you don't "feel" he has "deserved" your respect... "Yet if every one gave and in return got respect, what is the merit of even having it." -If you did not give or receive respect in this case wouldn't you be the oddball? If everyone in class agrees to respect each other, and you do not wish to participate you are being a rebel without a cause. Rebels are usually people who feel they don't get the respect they deserve... yet you are complaining about getting resepect you have not earned. Seems like someone might have a psychological issue here, and not an actual debate... "Like money and power, respect is something people earn rather than deserve." -Money and power is not always earned, rather sometimes it is taken. Many people in positions of power have attained that power through non-conventional means. You can't lump respect with money and power because money and power are not essential to harmony in society- respect is. "It is apparent that today's society has grown so sensitive that criticism is often misconstrued as an insult." -You have not given any examples in which criticism is "misconstrued" as an insult. Oftentimes it is the person insulted that points out that the criticism was insulting in the first place, and it is the person insulting who claims it was not an insult. Mutual respect prevents us from acting like animals on these occaisions. Actually, even animals have mutual respect. "Many times too much respect is handed out to people who don't deserve it." -The amount of respect one receives is determinant on the person or persons "handing out" that respect. It is up to these people to decide whether or not this person deserves the amount of respect they are shown. You cannot decide for others how much respect they should or shouldn't show a particular person. The respect someone receives from another person is always the respect they deserve- it is the DISrespect that is often not deserved. "Sometimes people need to stop being politically correct and express their honest thoughts." -Being politically correct doesn't mean keeping your mouth shut. Oftentimes it is the people complaining about political correctness that lack tact and respect for others, ie. when Don Imus called the Rutgers basketball team "nappy ho's" and referred to them as "jiggaboos". "Why should a poorly made, uninteresting, and uninformative presentation in class get the respect of its audience?" -Why should a poorly made, uninteresting, and uninformative presentation in class NOT receive your respect? Are you so interesting, informative, and superior that you feel YOU deserve all the respect in class? If you do, then you have conflict with your own premise (I have already pointed this out, but you ignored ALL my arguments). "Chances are the presentation wasn't made with much effort and the presenter probably is better to experience failure instead to getting the feeling that a lacking effort can sufficient." -Do you realize how poorly this sentence is written? Examples: "the presenter probably is better to experience"; "better to experience failure instead to getting"; "feeling that a lacking effort can sufficient"...??? What??? Is this the guy that is supposed to judge the quality of other students' presentations? What respect have you earned in class with your very poor penmanship??? Shouldn't you strive for the respect you demand rather than venting in a debate in which your existence contradicts the premise? "There is no plausible reason for anyone to "have" to give respect to anything." -You are absolutely right. Noone "has" to respect ANYTHING. But respect is the natural order of things in this world and in this society. Unless you are beneath rats in intelligence- rats may not be "afraid" of people, but they "respect" the fact that people are BIGGER, and may not run when you are close, but will run when you come within a distance where they may feel threatened. A mongoose can kill a King Cobra- one of the largest poisonous snakes in the world, but the mongoose "respects" the cobra and it's ability to poison the mongoose. Even cops respect criminals to some degree- they handcuff them. If cops had no respect for the ability of a criminal to injure them, they wouldn't cuff 'em. "Students should also never be forced to respect their teachers." -I have been out of school for a while so I may be misinformed, but I did go to school in a "shady" part of town. NEVER did I observe a student being "forced" to respect a teacher. Common sense dictates respect for teachers. If you know everything there is to know, then by all meanse be disrespectful, however, the mere fact that you refer to "teachers" as teachers is a sign of respect for their profession. Again, you contradict yourself. Now let's move on to your new statements: "I think its when people gain respect because of status." -That is not arbitrary respect, that is respect of status or position. "For instance there seems to be a lot of people who demand respect just because they are in the army." -I was in the Army. I never "demanded" respect from anyone, rather I expected respect because I treated everyone with the utmost respect. If I was ever disrespected, I still maintained my composure and showed respect. Can you give examples of when "a lot of people" have demanded "respect just because they are in the Army"? "I don't think its wrong for people to not respect people in the army based on their beliefs." -You may not think it is wrong, but it is impractical. When have you encountered Army personnel? If it was on an Army base then you are in THEIR home. If it was in public they probably showed YOU respect in the first place! "I'm not sure that we are debating the same thing but thats how I feel about it." -If we are not debating the same thing it is because you are unsure of what exactly you wanted to debate. "I also think people who are of a religious faith also demand a respect that is not deserved." -Again, they do not "demand" respect, rather they expect it because they show it. Noone asks you to call a priest "father", but if he addresses you as "sir" why not return the respect? Everyone adheres to SOME belief system, and to disrespect clergy on the simple basis that you don't feel they have deserved your respect is ridiculous and anti-social behavior. "What I'm saying is that people should be judged on their beliefs" -Really? Interesting... this is called a bigot. "people cannot do so because of the preconceived notion that these organizations are sacred " -In other words, it is impractical to not show respect because society accepts that everyone deserves respect. You don't have a premise, rather a beef with society and it's norms. Again, this is anti-social behavior and you may need to be examined by a professional... or an amateur... who really cares right? I mean, why would you show a guy with a PHD any more respect than a guy with a High School diploma right? I mean a guy with a HS diploma can give good advice too! 'rolls eyes'