Is it possible to romantically love more than one person at once

1.Although your arguments can be considered true, I have some disagreements. Romantic love does not mean commitment, nor was it specified in the agreed upon definition. While being romantically in love no one person is subjected to being committed to just one person at a time. 2.In reference to your premise (3) chemistry can be created with more than one individual at a time. This is because time and energy can be distributed into an infinite amount outlets depending on the person"s skill to multitask. The human brain As a college student we are able to go to school, join activities, do homework, study , go to work and still have time for our friends family members and social life. All of these task require time and energy, in which the student finds time to achieve them all. Therefore being involved romantically with multiple people can still allow a person to gain chemistry by devoting their time and energy to more than one person. This is also shown through the example of a wife loving and taking care of her husband and children. Both task require time and energy in which helps them have a complete family to pursue life together. 3.In reference to your premise (4) I do agree with the definition of lust and love. However while lust is a short-term action, love can be long-term action, but does not have to be a lifelong commitment. This could be explain in my premise (7), the death scenario. When a person in a romantic relationship dies they can no longer be committed life-long to a deceased partner, because they no longer exist. Even though the deceased partner is dead the living partner is still in love with them romantically, just not committed to them anymore. 4.The argument of my premise (7) can hold because it does relate to the topic of being romantically in love with multiple people at the same time, meaning at once. For example a person can be romantically in love with two people they meet at once, such as a boyfriend and their husband. One of those two people can suddenly die one day. That doesn"t not mean the person is not still romantically in love with the now dead person and the living person at the same time. The living person can still have these feelings for both people even though one is now dead. This can also go back to the agreed upon definition of being romantically in love. Although the person is now deceased, they still gave the living person pleasurable feelings, emotional security and they grabbed the attention of attraction of the person who is still living, which caused them to fall romantically in love. I do agree that once someone passes they cannot nurture the relationship as they once had with the deceased person, but this only gives the two people that are living and advantage to now be the only two nurturing one another in the relationship without multitasking. Just because someone is no longer present, it does not stop the emotional feelings of the defined emotions of being romantically in love. 5.The action of giving a person your all is based on the character of the person who is giving it. A person with strong multitasking skills may be able to make both of their partners in the relationship feel like they are giving 100% of their time and energy to both of them. For instance if a person is romantically in love with a person who has a busy schedule, but still finds time to squeeze in quality time with that person when they are not busy, shows the effort of the two people giving their all to each other in the relationship since they are spending quality time when they are not busy. Another factor is that giving your all to a person has no clear guidelines, what may seem like giving your all to one person can seem like giving a little of yourself to another. 6.In reference to your premise (8) I do agree that the situation of romantically loving two people at once can be a stressful or an unpleasable relationship, just as if a person was romantically loving one person at once. However that does not mean that their emotional feelings of being romantically in love has vanished. 7.Romantic love can be achieved with any amount of time and number of people depending on the participants. As you pointed out in your premises (5) as long as the people have chemistry and are willing to participate it can be possible.