Unconditional love can never exist on this earth, excluding God's unconditional love

I would first off like to apologize for my opponents circumstance, i hope that your relative is okay. "The thing you said about John killing Mary's family, you totally said something different second round than first round. Originally, you said that she would probably leave him, which means her love for him would in some way change and be conditional. Now, you say that he will be sent to jail and she will still love him for she could have hated her family and not cared. How about if he killed everyone she loved, the world, and herself? Her love would have the condition of possibly changing, and that's all I need." Okay, so the love could change, and it may not. Neither of us win that won because it could go either way. Unfortunately for you the burden of proof lie on you. And you did not present a case of how those loves of mine could be conditional, which is even what you yourself said is your job to do. I will go into them anyhow. My love for faith: Faith, in the traditional sense. Confidence or belief, in anything that i hold faith in, could do nothing to effect my feelings for it. My love for honesty, the truth. No matter how brutal it may be, i always prefer the truth over lies, and nothing would change that. Music, a gift from God, i appreciate all kinds of music, and nothing it could do would change my feelings for it. You get my point. __________________________________________________________________________ About the babies, I know many woman who have unconditional love for their babies, and you accepting that as the "common situation" if conceding to that point. I am discussing the love for the baby, you said when it grows up and kills people then it might change.. But then it would not be a baby when it killed them, it would be an adult or possibly a child. ________________________________________________________________________- "About what we can and cannot love, you have to prove that in fact unconditional love truly does exist. Saying that there is a possibility it would not chane is not good enough within itself. How can you say love is unconditional? Love is very abstract, and some people say they love others when truly they do not. There are different emotions and variables that go along with love, so how can it be unconditional? Love is a condition within itself, and it tends to change as people go through stages of life, involving things like maturation and hormones. You have not proven that there can be a constant unconditional love. The phases and stages of love are always changing as natural occurrences changes and as people grow older. Unconditional love cannot exist on this earth." There are indeed variables with different loves; however, there are also constants like the ones provided that will not change. I have stated my own personal unconditional loves that do exist, in my own heart. When people tell others they love them when they really do not, that does not mean that, that is the case for everybody, just those select people. However, maturation and hormone changes does not change everybody's love for the things i have presented. I am 16 years old, and have gone through more changes in the last several years that I will in the rest of my lifetime, but my faith and love for Christ is still the same as it was when i first learned about him, only stronger. Thank you for the debate, it was truly an interesting topic that really made me think.