if everyone likes you then you do not have a personality.

OK, there are so many mistakes that I don't know where to start. Before I set my first argument I have to comment something you mentioned. You said that the topic is quite unclear. You know what? If you thought that the topic is difficult for you to understand, you would ask for clarifications. But instead of doing this, you started supporting your views and you complained at the beginning of your article. That means 2 things: 1) You have totally understood the topic but you wanted to make me seem that I can not make clear my thoughts and to make other people judge you mildly by the excuse that you did not understand the theme. 2) You did not actually understand the topic but you did not care and you preferred to start arguing without knowing what exactly you are supposed to defend and by assuming things. But come on now, how did you not only accept but also started supporting your views without having totally understood the topic? To start with, your examples were unclear. If you wanted to say that these people are liked by everyone then you are wrong. Against Mother Teresa: http://www.firstthings.com... Against Steve Jobs: http://hereticalnotions.com... There's also a possibility that you wanted to say that these people have a flexible character. Let me tell you that there is a big difference between having a flexible character and changing your character ever day in order to get along with everyone. I didn't say that it is not good for someone to change himself/herself but if tyhis happens every time he/she meets different people, then something is wrong. For example, you can not care and at the same time not care about the environment. I also read a comment of yours and you said: "Yes, because it is quite impossible for Mother Teresa or Steve Jobs to know you or know that you hate them haha well first because it's impossible to know everyone and second because they are dead XD" OK, the fact that they didn't know that there were/are people who didn't/don't like them, doesn't mean that there weren't/aren't. I'm sure that they met some of those who didn't/don't like them but as they are still famous despite their death there should be some individuals who hate them too, although they didn't get to know them personally. Even if they hadn't realized that there were some haters of them, they would still be hated by some people. Someone is not loved by every single person in the world because the/she hasn't realize that he is hated by some people. The above explanation rebuts your argument: "I will assume that everyone means the people one knows and has met in his/her group of circle as it is impossible for every single one in the world to truly get to know someone". It is possible for someone to know your beliefs and habits even if you do not know him. That happens mostly to famous people. For instance, a celebrity says something that makes you think negatively of him/her and form a bad impression on him/her. He may do not know that you dislike him but you do.So, everyone means 2 things: 1) every person in a group and 2)it is used for talking about people in general (source: http://www.macmillandictionary.com...). When I used this word I wanted you to think about the second definition as I didn't mention any group. The only group you could think of while reading the phrase was the group of human beings in general. You also said "The reason why people start to hate each other is just because they seem different. However, if they truly get to stand in the person's shoes then they will be able to understand why they are theists, why they do drugs or why they don't, why they act that way." This is an observation and not an argument. Yes, it would be very nice if everyone got to know other people before judging them, but this doesn't really happen. I agree with you that it is not good to form an impression on somebody before spending some time with him but there are a lot of people who devalue this thought so until we will be able to make it happen we can not speak by making assumptions. "My second argument is that everyone is capable of being liked by everyone they know. This is because humans have the power to empathize with another". Firstly, empathy is a capacity or feeling and not a power a human being has. Secondly, this is also an argument that is not realistic. It would also be very nice if everyone empathized with others as a lot of social problems would be solved. But nowadays there are many selfish people who care for nothing but themselves. Moreover, empathizing someone means that you recognize emotions that are being experienced by another sentient or fictional being. It doesn't mean that you also like it. Some of us have the instinct of solidarity that make us want to help people who need it. This doesn't mean that we like them. In fact we may even hate them but because we feel sorry for them we tend to ignore our feelings and help them.