Wait for sex with the one you love before marriage--NON BIBLICAL APPROACH Pro

debate Flow (Pleas use spaces in between when answering each part) Round 1 Part 1 State if you are married/single/dating/ at this present time. Part2 State Why they chose to debate on this topic and if you believe in the bible or not. My title says non biblical approach, it does not mean you cant use biblical references, I was simply stating that its not the reason for my argument in this debate on why I think sex before marriage should have to wait. But because the bible says to wait, I don't think using it will help you much against me. Lol I personally believe in the bible and is a Christian, I just found a secular reason for waiting until marriage as well. part3 When was the First time they had sex age of both participants (not just intercourse anything sexual aside from masturbation, and with who(name not necessary make up one) Details on how or why it happened aren't important unless specifically asked. part4 Name any time at one point it was good and time when it was bad. (Details are not necessary) just simply it was bad because blank blank and good because blank blank. Example." it was bad because the person did not listen when I said it hurt and told them to stop, or it was bad because the person didn't know what they were doing, or it was bad because my partner was watching tv or playing video games in the middle of it. Or it was good because the person was very attentive to what I wanted, it was good because the guy had a great package and knew how to work it/ the girl was good because she had a lot of experience or it was good because I felt like we were making love and not just having sex and love they way they talked to me. Part 5 (to those that apply) These are just examples lol use your own. If opponent has NOT had sex or did anything sexual you may still debate,if you did something sexual please state. Also state if you are married/single/dating. in round 2 Use stories you have heard from family or friends, books or tv to defend your case why one should have sex before marriage, my stance is that they should not. Part6 ( if apply) any side notes or comments about any of the other parts, After the Parts section please state Open argument. Side Note: In cases of rape or molestation welcome to omit, stating it is on your discretion it could help or hurt your stance. Round 2 rebuttal to open argument and comments and questions on anything opponent said in Parts section of round 1 Round 3 rebuttals/questions/responses to questions if asked in 2 round Round 4 Rebuttals/answers/closing argument part 1 Round 5 rebuttals/Closing argument part 2 Debate Part 1 I am engaged Part2 I chose to debate this topic, because outside of the biblical approach I found a rational and reasonable stance for one to wait for marriage with the one they love and yes I do believe in the bible. Part 3 The first time was when I was 22yrs old and person was 21 Part 4 It was bad one time when I could not feel anything, It was good was when the experience lasted a long time. Part 6 I have had sex before, but this new concept of waiting came much later in life after I found my one true love. Open Argument I will keep it simple for now, I believe we should wait for marriage because if you don't then you would be just like the other billions of the people who did not wait for marriage, how beautiful is it to wait then, if so many other people could not? How special do you make your partner, if all the other people you didn't wait, but this one you choose to wait for them, this will make them above all else anyone else you ever been with. Hence why it is worth the wait, is it easy no. My opponent may or may not bring up matters of Testing it out first and checking compatibility, but I think that is a cop-out, if you love someone you will work through anything, science and doctors can help any discrepancies, but will touch in this further in the debate