Khal Drogo Did Not Rape Daenerys Targaryen

My opponent has set the stage:"[R]ape will be determined by the accepted standards of the television series."He has referenced the controversial sex scene between Jaime and Cersei in episode 4x03, Breaker of Chains. His criteria boils down to: "Non-consent was clearly voiced..." "...the two are quite cool to each other as a result of that scene..." "...an expression of power relations between genders..." My opponent then links sex with marriage. Marriage has the implication of sex via consummation, thus agreeing to be married equals agreeing to have sex. As a minor point this does not necessarily follow. Agreeing to have sex, generally, is not an agreement to any specific act of sex.Regardless, my opponent asserts:"First, did Daenerys ever say "No?". The answer is no.""[D]id she agree to it? The answer here is clearly yes.""Did Daenerys agree to the marriage? Yes - their marriage was consensual."The situation is easy to follow as Daenrys does not have much dialogue. She has three scenes in which she speaks. We will analyze each.Transcripts taken from here: http://foreverdreaming.org...SCENE 1:VISERYS: Daenerys! There’s our bride to be! Look – a gift from Illyrio. Touch it. Come on. Feel the fabric. Mmmm. Isn’t he a gracious host?DAENERYS: We’ve been his guests for over a year and he’s never asked us for anything.VISERYS: Illyrio is no fool. He knows I won’t forget my friends when I come into my throne. You still slouch. Let me see. (He pulls off her gown.) You have a woman’s body now. (She endures it as he strokes her breast.) I need you to be perfect today. Can you do that for me? You don’t want to wake the dragon, do you?DAENERYS: No.----------Viserys, Daenerys' brother almost immediately puts her in an uncomfortable situation, stripping her naked and putting her at a psychological disadvantage. Then, without provocation, Viserys threatens her. "To wake the dragon." Seems like an odd threat. What does it mean?Oh. It means he beats her. So he's threatened to beat her unless she is "perfect" today. What is today? Well today is when she is presented to Khal Drogo, to gain his agreement to the marriage. In short, Viserys is saying: Get Khal Drogo to marry you or I will beat you.My opponent makes a distinction and agrees that any Tyrion/Sansa interaction would be rape because the marriage was forced. Sansa was a Lannister hostage and forced to marry. Is Daenrys any difference? She is a "guest," yes, but not by choice. She has no where to go and is effectively a hostage to her psychopath brother who just threatened to hurt her if she doesn't get married to Khal Drogo. Is that not forcing her to marry?Let's continue...SCENE 2:DAENERYS (pleadingly) I don’t want to be his queen. I want to go home.VISERYS: So do I. I want us both to go home. But they took it from us. So tell me, sweet sister, how do we go home?DAENERYS: I don’t know.VISERYS: We go home with an army. With Khal Drogo’s army. I would let his whole tribe f*ck you, all 40,000 men and their horses too, if that’s what it took.----------I'll repeat my opponent's question: "[D]id Daenerys ever say 'No?'" Here it is. Here is her saying "No" to the entire ordeal. She did not say it to Khal Drogo, nor could she, but that is immaterial. She clearly objected and was against the very idea and only went along with it under threat of punishment and out of fear of her brother. He also states his sister's value to him: nothing more than a bargaining chip for him to attain power, at whatever expense.And now, the final scene:SCENE 3:JORAH: A small gift for the new Khaleesi. Songs and histories from the Seven Kingdoms.DAENERYS: Thank you, ser. Are you from my country?JORAH: Ser Jorah Mormont of Bear Island. I served your father for many years. Gods be good, I hope to always serve the rightful king.[DANY is presented with a chest with three dragon eggs in it.]ILLYRIO: Dragons’ eggs, Daenerys. From the Shadow Lands beyond Asshai. The ages have turned them to stone, but they will always be beautiful.DAENERYS: Thank you, Magister.[KHAL DROGO rises and strides forward. DAENERYS follows him, looking sick with fear. The Dothraki crowd behind her as she goes. The KHAL leads her to a white mare.]DAENERYS: She’s beautiful. … Ser Jorah, I don’t know how to say ‘thank you’ in Dothraki.JORAH: There is no word for ‘thank you’ in Dothraki.[The KHAL puts DANY on her horse and mounts his.]VISERYS: Make him happy.[The scene shifts to the seaside at sunset. The KHAL begins to unwrap DANY’s dress. She is sobbing. He touches the tears on her face.]KHAL DROGO: No.DAENERYS: Do you know the Common Tongue?KHAL DROGO: No.DAENERYS: Is ‘no’ the only word that you know?KHAL DROGO: No.[He takes off her gown and bends her down.]----------Again the demand from Viserys to submit to Khal Drogo. The threat of punishment goes unsaid. This is immediately before the "consummation," the consummation in which she cries in protest and attempts to cover up before being taken by a much more intimidating, physically stronger, Dothraki warlord.Let's review my opponent's criteria again:"Non-consent was clearly voiced..." - Daenerys clearly voiced non-consent."...the two are quite cool to each other as a result of that scene..." - Daenerys has no interaction with Drogo outside of his forced sex acts on her (until much later in the season)"...an expression of power relations between genders..." - Daenerys is explicitly put into play to be sold, by her brother, for an army, so he can become King.I submit that all of my opponent's criteria have been met and that this must be classified as a rape.