Time is just an illusion/made up force that helps us understand our place in the Universe

Though out this debate I am going to try to demonstrate that time is something that help humans understand where they are in the universe, I am not going to be trying to disprove time in its entirety, obviously, because it exist (in the human world) and we use it. What I will be debating is that time is not a "force" as described by physics. Why humans (the human world) needs time but the universe dose not. Humans are living organisms that move and grow, unlike rocks, humans age, in a million years most of us here now will be gone, but a rock will still be a rock. Because humans age and change over "time" they need to track that rate at which they grow and die. If intellectual life on another planet somewhere in the universe is/was in existence, I'm sure that, like humans, they would have had their own perception of time in their alien world. With all this being said, life, living organisms, need time in order to function, however non-living things, such as the planets that make up the universe do not operate by time. If you have some matter, over "time" it oxidizes and turns to rust, all that this is, is exposure to other elements. If you were to put that same matter into a vacuum, it would stay in that state forever. Why was "time" invented? When humans started to develop agriculture, they needed to understand the Earth so that they could be successful in growing and harvesting their crops. When it was the best "season" to plant the seeds, they put them in the ground and waited for them to grow. Early humans figured out when it was the optimal time to plant by the position of the sun. A season is when the Earth is at a certain position from the Sun. For all of Earth's existence it has been going around, and around the sun in a pattern set by the gravitational pull between the Sun and Earth. As humans began to learn more about the Earth, they learned about the pattern that the Earth went in, thus giving them the perception of time. Regardless of the Humans knowledge the Earth still, and always, orbits the sun because of Gravity and Inertia, without "time" the Earth wouldn't just "fall out of the sky". Humans breaking the bonds of time: No matter what, we both will "age" at the same rate. If I "age" one "second", you "age" one "second". Growth of Humans is cells dying, and new cells forming to replace them. Let's say you stay on Earth and I go to a distant planet for 10 years. Now I come back after ageing for 10 years, and you and everyone else has been dead for 10,000 years. How is this possible if we both age at the same rate? We track one "year" as one time the Earth goes around the sun, and one "day" is some rotation of the Earth around its axis. One Earth year is 31,556,926 seconds. In the example we both aged for 31,569,260 seconds, but you have been dead for much longer. I would not have been alive for 10,010 years, yet that is how much "time" has passed on Earth. The only explanation for this is that "time" does not exist. Time perception via positioning to the sun: Here is another example. Let's say we both live for 100,000,000 seconds, I live on a planet that is X distance away from the sun, and you live on a planet that is 2X distance away from the sun. Now, let's say my planet goes around the Earth 200 times then I drop dead, but your planet only goes around the Earth 100 times before you die. We both were alive for the same amount of "time", but you made less orbits around the sun. This concludes that "time" is just how we as humans understand our place in the universe. For the rest of eternity, as long as nothing changes in gravity, these planets will continue to orbit the sun.