winning is what matters whatever be the cost!

.. "As the good old fashioned saying goes, no one and I mean no one, remembers second place. Nobody cares how much effort you may have put in and no one cares how close you possibly came; if you don&risqu";t actually win and attain victory,"Dear Pro, The only thing that matters in life is happiness and it is not something which others can give you by giving you an applause after you win a race. Happiness is an internal and self feeling which comes when you satisfy yourself and not others. It might be that people have not remembered someone because he came second but does it actually matter if he is actually satisfied? My point here is that, Is everyone out there taking life as nothing but a competition, equally skilled? The answer is obviously not! So, If one knows that someone else is a better artist than him, it is abvious that the competition will be won by the other person. In such a case, the man can have two ideologies, 1) I have to win. I need to win because others will remember my name. I need to win, no matter by what means. 2) I know he is better, I am satisfied by the fact that I have tried my best and come second. Which ideology will help the person in future? Not the first one of-course! It doesn't matter if you have won or losed but what matters is that you satisfy yourself and live a happy life. " When you win, you matter and when you don’t win, you don’t matter- it is that simple. "Is it? Which person matters in a class? The one who tops the exams and is very intelligent or the one who is friendly and loved by everyone because of his attitude? Which person matters in a workplace? The boss who has won that position by unfair means and has a negative and cunning attitude or the one who has a warm attitude and likes encouraging and helping evryone instead of thinking how to push one down so that he might not be able to go ahead of him in the race of life? This people who matter might not be the winners but they matter more than the winners. The people remember the ones who do something for the society but not the ones who won the race and ruled it. How many people can tell me, Who was the 6th president of India? Very few but only a few people don't know who is Mahatma Gandhi or Martin Luther King Junior. Dear Pro, It doesn't matter if one wins or loses, what matters is the satisfaction one can give to himself and the society. "Society as a whole has stopped awarding the winners in life and started looking at them as the bad guys, simply because they have done better than we have, The saddest thing in the world is a wasted talent and there is way too much wasted talent out there. ""life is an echo, what you give is what you get. "-english proverbSociety has and always will stop awarding winners if winning always requires unfair means as the topic of the debate suggests. In this world, there is a universal rule of CAUSE & EFFECT. AS, the quote suggest, If one has kicked others, used unfair means and has pushed everyone down to win a position, it is sure that he himself is going to be treated the same way by the society. That will not make his life pleasant but only disturbing. Yes, there is way too much wasted talent out there but is it because of the ideology "Winning isn't everything, but wanting to win is (a)" ? ? No. It is because people think that winnin in the race of life is everything and use unfair means such as bribes to attain a position which not they but someone else deserves. This ideology of winning is nonsense instead of the ideology of trying. (a) . http://www.quotes-clothing.com... "Society tries to create a path for people to follow that will lead them to being only average. It is up to you to break through those pedestrian thoughts and go against the status quo. Winning should be your one and only goal. People might hate you for that, but that’s their problem- not yours. " Society never creates such a path. Instead society helps someone to become great. Think about it, It is only the people who believe that winning is what matters and don't want others to get past them, that push other people behind and hate them. It is for us to do something for the society and not the society to do something for us. Pedestrian thoughts is the thought of" winning the race of life" and not of "trying one's best. " It is for us to do something for the society and win hearts. To satisfy oneself and live life happily. " Nobody cares about your journey, your sleepless nights or the time you ate ramen noodles and peanut butter for dinner. at the end of the day winners win loosers loose! "" When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang. " Jefferson MonticelloThe goal is what everyone is mistaken about. The goal is not to win but keep up the position you have reached. The one's who win by unfair means try to tie a knot and hang on but the society never allows them. Winners may smile for the day or as you say, till the end of the day but when they rise up the next morning, they find problems created by the society for them leading their lives to a living problem. Think about it, If winning leads to this then is the time, energy and brain for such unfair means to win worth it? ? Or is it better to have a quality life and do something for the society to have satisfaction and happiness? .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. Think about it friends, Is it worth it to win a position if you won't get the respect for it? and moreover, that position will not bring you happiness but problems. Winning isn't worth it when you have the society disagreeing with your unfair means. The real thing that matters is the happiness and quality of one's life and it is not necessary that winning gives it.