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If they were being gagged and beaten to a pulp then I would care. Why should I try to bring down a culture that promotes family life. Mother, father and children under one roof. As Ernest Abdyjaparov said in the video that Kyrgyzstan culture is the reason that there hasn't been a spread in STDs and homosexuality. They have strick beliefs about what is the right way for them. These women aren't victims, they are woman that made their choice to get married if they didn' t want it then they could have put on an act to make it seem like they really wanted a marriage. 'The more you cry the happier you will be'. They don't need help, the animals that get slaughtered are the ones that need help. It's all an act. These women a thought from young to know that your proposal would happen this way to expect a kidnapping to occur and if you really want to get married put up a resistance. The police should be contacted to invite them to join in with the celebration of a young couple getting married. Who cares? No one. These women are Oscar worthy actresses who has sold you to make you believe that they are so appalled by the actions of the opposite sex. Their physical life wouldn't have been in danger if they had acted the way they should to get out of a wedding. They know that struggling with their captures is the equivalent to hug of joy. The law of their land is that bride kidnappings illegal we know that the question is is it rape? Consensual sex is not rape. These women gave consent to their husbands so that they could both part take in a married life. The mother who lost her child to suicide why is she now against the practice. Her daughter came to her not to complain about bride kidnapping but about the man she married. That man was abusive to her during the course of her marriage. She can't blame the act of bride kidnapping to make a sleep better at night since she doesn't want to take responsibility for the way she ignored her daughter in a time of need. As a fellow West Indian like yourself I do understand that there are certain instances where the law is ignored to please a person. You just gave a perfect example with your marijuana description but what you need to remember is that bride kidnapping isn't happening in the West Indies nor the United States it's happening in Kyrgyzstan. The people from Kyrgyzstan might say that America has brain washed all the women into thinking that they are allowed to determine when the get married that women have too many choices that America has changed the values of family life. That would be Kyrgyzstan's opinion. Every nation is entitled to their own opinion without big brother telling them what is right or wrong. These people in Kyrgyzstan proberly have a totally different interpretation of what rape is. Accuse me of not caring about these women it doesn't matter, I was told to stay out of grown married folks business thats what I shall do but I also was told that observing situation is the the key to understanding them. I observe that marriages are done in that fashion that everyone except the bride smiles on that day, that the reason she doesn't act happy is because she grew up with the term no means yes, you act like a blushing bride you will be considered a desperate bride and who wants a desperate woman.