Gay Marriage Should Be Legalized

Okay wow. Not to be rude or anything, but your argument has a ton of things that are wrong about it. "It is impossible to follow laws that you cannot control. You do NOT choose to be gay, as animals in nature and humans themselves show." First of all, the Bible does not comment on the biology but the bible does say that some traits are strongly engrained. 1 Corinthians 10: 4 says "For the weapons of our warfare are not fleshly, but powerful by God for overturning strongly entrenched things." But notice that it did not say, permanently entrenched things. So they CAN ignore their impulses towards the same sex. Which means they can change. So it is not IMPOSSIBLE to follow god's laws, it might be difficult, but never impossible. Second you said they do not choose to be gay, which means you are saying that they are born gay, just as nobody can choose their own skin color. But does that even make sense? When a baby is born and it is male and it sees a male doctor, does it get boner because he is attracted to this male doctor? No like normal babies he cries and cries until he is back with his mom. Same thing with girls. So nobody is BORN gay. it is a gradual thing. Maybe they saw an attractive male at work or in school, it is their choice to act on that desire, or to ignore it, which would mean like I said before it is not IMPOSSIBLE follow gods laws. "On top of that, the bible also says that men shouldn't shave their beards, so how come nobody makes a fuss over that, but they make a fuss over gay people? " Where the heck did that come from?! The bible has MANY scriptures when people shaved their beards. Genesis 41:14 says, "So PharR42;aoh sent for Joseph, and they brought him quickly from the prison.He SHAVED and changed his clothes and went in to PharR42;aoh." Israelite men of old wore beards of moderate length, and they used a razor to keep them well trimmed. The scripture i think you are referring to is Leviticus 19:27, but that did not mean not to shave at all. It meant for them not to act like the nations around them when they shaved. People used to shave to worship false gods and god was trying to keep them away from that. "If god does not send you to hell, who does? Don't tell me you 'send yourself' to hell." Nobody goes to Hell. The bible also says that sinful people on this world will die, not in hell. The majority of good people will live on earth, and the rest will go to heaven. (144,00 will go to heaven to be exact.) "God has a responsibility to prove to me that he exists if he loves me enough to want me to get into heaven, instead of getting people to write it in dodgy books with tonnes of contradictions in them." First of all since god created us, he does not have to prove anything to us. Lovingly he does. The bible is proof of that. He could of kept all the things in the bible to himself, but he didn't he gave it to us through the bible. Second the bible does not have contradictions. The bible is the word of god and does not make mistakes. "Gays are humans also, and while some who might disagree with gay marriage may be benefited by your god's laws, how is it fair to gays, or to people like me who support gay marriage? I have female family members who are bi. They've gone out with girls in the past, and they aren't monsters. They're loving, caring people who only want to love who they're attracted to. Why do they deserve to go to hell just for loving who they were born to love?" Read my first statement in this post. "I want you to give me 3 good, NON-RELIGIOUS reasons as to why gays should not get married, and I want them to be original reasons that you haven't stated before." 1.The natural order of nature, whether you are religious or not, means that gay couples cannot fulfill their base purpose as an organism. 2.Without a genetic causation, sexual preference in behavior is clearly a choice, a choice which no one is compelled to make. 3.Experts have proven that gay marriage is not natural.