Should gender roles (and identities) exist? (See argument for more detail)

I think that Gender roles should exist for these reasons without gender roles there would be confusion and chaos. We have advanced from times when women were not allowed to work, or even go to college, but there are still roles that women and men each have to fulfill. Just because women are allowed to work doesn't mean they can neglect other responsibilities, such as motherhood. The mother is the one to care for the children, have dinners prepared and take care of the household. When the children get older they can help with the responsibilities around the house, however it is not the man's job to cook and clean. The man is supposed to go out and provides the money to buy food and support the family. Gender roles are very important to society. Each and every person born on this earth is born with a specific purpose. Gender roles as males and females are very important as each has a responsibility of its own . Both male and females have some responsibility that specifically only male can do and same is true with females. Without gender roles there will be chaos all around not knowing what to do and what is our responsibility. I think gender roles are important because they show us our personalities. They teach us lessons and without them, we would be so confused and frazzled that we would look like a bunch of chickens with our heads cut off. We wouldn't know where our place is, or the people we are looking for to spend our lives with; and there would also be no direction as to where we all need to go and what we need to do. Both women and men are other capable of achieving most tasks except of course, child birth. However..The majority of women were born with the nature of being nurturing, caring and domestically oriented. Men on the other hand, are more focused on protecting and providing. This of course doesn't mean that the roles shouldn't be switched, or women should stay at home all day. It just explains why this had been the role structure for a long period of time. It's what feels natural, and it's how we were made to be, women were made to care for children give birth etc...And men were build strong to provide for the family. I'm grateful that in America women can choose to be what ever you want to be and still be feminine. Gender roles may exist and are natural but that doesn't mean you can't also have a job an succeed as a person, not just as a woman. Gender roles have been established for a very long period of time. Gender roles are even laid out in the Bible. It is essential that we have these roles because men and women are different plain and simple. Women can do a number of things well that men couldn't at all. Look at child birth, that's a gender role that I don't think is going to change anytime soon. Women are tough enough to be able to give birth to a child. A man could never even fathom that Idea. There are roles men fit that women couldn't do as well as men either. Men are built to do more manual labor as opposed to women. These are just some of the definitive things about men and women that give me the idea that gender roles are very important to humanity and to our society. Personally, I think traditional gender roles are very, very important because they give each person a specific purpose in the household or society at times. But these traditions vary widely from culture to culture. Arabian women, for example, do not even have the option to leave the house without a man's permission. American women are usually dominant nowadays socially, yet on the bottom politically. Of course, nature indeed intended for women to give birth and to care for their children, and men to defend and provide for their families but at times i believe they need to share those duties. I think that gender roles are important to the society. There needs to be order in the home. Traditionally the man works outside the house and the woman works in the house. I personally agree with this tradition and i plan to practice it in my future marriage, but i also think the role you share in the family should be based on interest. There for these reasons are why we should have gender roles in our society if we didn't have them nobody would know what to do in our society. Us women were made to be the care takers yes but we also can do other things in our positions. We have to carry the kid for 9 months and we still do as much work that men do. If anything we are the dominant ones to. We can do all the same things that the men do. But we still should have gender roles or else society would be CHAOS.