There's no such thing as being born GAY!

You claim "epi-marks" are the reason people are born homosexual but these "epi-marks" only control how genes are expressed which in retrospect makes Homosexuality in a sense a genetic issue. If you do your research it says that scientists "THINK" they may have figured out what makes "SOME" people GAY not all. SO what that means is that scientists are clueless, cannot prove definitively that these "epi-marks" are without a doubt the exact accurate cause of same sex orientation; in other words they still don't know. At best the "epi-mark" justification is none other than an educated guess. Also the report in the Chicago-sun Times excludes "ALL" GAY people and uses the term "SOME" which leaves out a number of exempt Homosexuals with no scientific, genetic or biological explanation for being GAY. This causes a problem because the article in the Chicago-sun Times does not have an explanation for the other homosexuals not related to the "epi-mark" conjecture so I guess these Gays fall through the cracks of confusion. Second you specifically stated verbatim that "No families or ancestors were GAY because IT WAS NOT COMMON." What you said proved a major point in conjunction with behavioral science. The "HERD INSTINCT" or "HERD MORALITY" as defined in Wikipedia describes how "individuals in a group can act together without planned direction." Modern psychological and economic research has identified herd behavior in humans to explain the phenomena of large numbers of people acting in the same way at the same time. Being GAY is none other than an example of "HERD BEHAVIOR" it is not genetic, biological, psychological or hereditary. As society shifted from old-school values and conservative traditions we entered into an era where the world and the lifestyles of people evolved and drastically changed as they always do. You also stated that homosexuality was looked down upon but the problem with that statement is that it neither proves or disproves whether family members or ancestors were or were not GAY... All that proves is that it was less liked by society so that is not even worth commenting on. Third you tried to make a point that animals have displayed same-sex characteristics among one another but you did not specifically define these characteristics so that statement is moderate and ambiguous. Also these "Same-sex" behaviors expressed in animals by researchers, zoologists, and scientists alike have determined it to be demonstrations of platonic courtship, affection, pair bonding, and parenting; also the motivations for and implications of these behaviors have yet to be fully understood, since most species have yet to be fully studied which leads us back to the merry-go-round of constant guessing and justification but no definitive proof of anything. Fourth you incriminated yourself and possibly damaged any legitimacy for your own debate by several remarks that you made. First you said verbatim that "there is no way to prove someone went from being gay to straight, and was scientifically proven to be a homosexual. You cannot prove that someone decides to be gay and go straight on their own free will." If you cannot prove that someone is specifically homosexual then neither can you prove what makes a person homosexual. Also as you put it "nor can you prove that someone was gay and was actually straight," so if you can't prove a person is actually STRAIGHT how then can you prove a person is actually GAY???? Lastly I admit that heterosexual people party, have fun, dress up and enjoy life just like GAY people do but Homosexuality is a movement and it's all about PRIDE! Homosexuality is all about living life a certain way while Heterosexuality needs no Parades, sympathy, community or organizational support, representation or international acknowledgment. Homosexuality has become a side-show and a major trend in the last couple decades. There are entire cities, major parts of countries, large communities and heavily populated areas where homosexuals frequent and abide regularly and because of this it is impossible to say that people are born GAY. There are sooooo many GAY people that it would have to mean that every single person in the entire world would literally have to carry this inborn trait. To say people are born GAY you would have to affirm sympathy for pedophiles and grant them the same clemency and extenuation not limited to but including scam artists, thieves, rapists, bigots and just about any other human being that makes a personal choice but wants the world to believe that they were born this way and maybe when Hell freezes over we will all find "epi-marks" to justify these things too and then we can let every person on earth out of prison and the world will be a much happier place!!!