Bullying

Just as a coin has two sides, though I don't like to point out so bluntly, I think my opponent is truly in a crisis to handle the bullying done by his fellow mates. And it is pretty obvious that he has a relatively weak mind and endurance. Irrespective of his age, I apart from being his opponent in this debate, will also be his guide to a peaceful life. Well, I never actually expected such kind of topic on this site. But since mine is a welfare motive, I don't think even the supernal powers of the universe can disrupt me from winning this debate. Now, getting on to the debate, I am not there for the purpose of pointing out what ought to be and what oughtn't to. We live in a world full of miseries, where everyone is worried about his/her own grievances. While some people are suffering from acute poverty and total unemployment, there are many others who suffer from life threatening diseases and still others who have nothing to worry about but fear death. In relative comparison, 'Bullying' is nothing but a mere invisible insect being confronted by a giant elephant. My dear opponent does not realise that bullying is no problem at all, it is just a part of life which probably everyone has to undergo. In fact, bullying is what hardens us to face the life ahead. It is just like a stepping stone of our lives. If one fails to balance himself on this step, I doubt he will be able to survive in this modern world, long. My way, if one does not get bullied at all, that will probably be because he might not be having any contacts or because of his isolation from the world. Another thing is that, believe me or not, bullying has become the only means to communicate in the modern world. A friend, or probably a mate in today's world does not have good communication with the other unless he cracks a joke or bullies him. And the spirit of the one being bullied should be equally negligent and the response to it should be in a very casual manner, in a jovial manner. It should not be taken as a thing very seriously close to one's heart, but as a silly comment of the person. It actually does not bear any resemblance to the attitude of the person towards you. Whilst you are in your friend circle, the only thing that matters is your genial nature and your endurance towards the bullies and perhaps that is what pays off and makes a reputation in the group. People usually bully those who remain among themselves i.e. those who do not generally interact with the others as frequently as they expect him/her to. There is something which I have to share with you, I have a friend who was bullied in every aspect of life, but never disheartened he faced the difficulties and that was what actually accentuated his friendship with the others. This means that bullying enhances friendship, in a way. What I am saying may appear to be wrong to you as for now, since you easily are swayed by the way your friends make fun of you. But you will understand it better when you yourself implement this in your life or perhaps when you enquire about it more from the adults who have faced this era in their lives. And in case, you still don't get it I'll further give you more guidelines to approach to the same. I think I have well explained myself and surely its an effort to create awareness among the deviated youth of today who easily get diverted by the smallest of the problems and proceed on to commit suicidal attempts or go in deep depressions . I hope the voters will vote what's right. I will certainly not convince them to vote for me but for the correctness of the topic. The more the votes, the more the people get aware about the same. A sincere advice to my partner, never get disheartened by the bullies, always try to be patient and undeterred.