we should ban beauty contests

intro: To be a champion, I think you have to see the big picture. It's not about winning and losing; it's about every day hard work and about thriving on a challenge. It's about embracing the pain that you'll experience at the end of a race and not being afraid. I think people think too hard and get afraid of a certain challenge. Summer Sanders 1. "Dieting, teeth whitening, waxing these are just a few of the procedures that women put themselves through in an attempt to live up to society's impossible standards of beauty. Now more than ever, we are bombarded with images from movies, television, and magazines telling us what is "beautiful" or "attractive." It is an obsession, and a dangerous one at that. Women across the world are harming themselves in the name of beauty. Flip through any fashion magazine, and I can guarantee that it will show living skeletons modeling clothes. Women are being brainwashed into thinking that anything bigger than a size zero means that they are fat. Because of this, women are going to unhealthy extremes to achieve the "perfect body." Americans are spending millions of dollars annually on diet pills, the side effects of which include heart attack, seizure, and even death. Additionally, it is estimated that seven million American women suffer from an eating disorder. Eating disorders have the highest mortality rate of any mental illness. Talk about "dying to look beautiful." http://articles.chicagotribune.com... 2. How we are always judged. "Like it or not, you are being judged by how you look, how you dress, and how you carry yourself"and, if you"re lucky, how you do your job. I had lunch yesterday with an old friend. I"ve known him for over 30 years. In fact, he introduced me to my wife. Unfortunately, we don"t see each other very often and hadn"t sat down across the table from each other for several years. Let me preface what I"m about to say with, "I"m comfortable with my jeans and sneakers." Dave is a corporate attorney. He entered the restaurant immaculately dressed, although he wasn"t wearing a tie. I was dressed as I usually am (I did wear what I thought was a nice button-up shirt"it was even tucked in). Dave hasn"t changed much since we knew each other in our early twenties, while I am decidedly more rotund, sporting gray hair and a nearly white beard. He could pass for 10 years younger than me, although he"s actually a couple of years my senior (it must be all the time he wastes at the gym). As we left the restaurant together I made an off-handed comment about how I appreciated that he got "all dressed up" to have lunch with me. He didn"t miss a beat, "I guess I just take our friendship more seriously than you do."" http://www.forbes.com... 3. What the effects are. "Beauty Pageants and Children: It"s Not Always Pretty November 15, 2012 " Contributed by Zawn Villines 44 0 2 0 2 0 Rhinestone tiaraTwo weeks removed from a Halloween that inspired thousands of people to dress as reality television"s Honey Boo Boo, child beauty pageants have again entered the national consciousness. From small festival- and fair-based competitions to elaborate, expensive, national endeavors, child beauty pageants are a $5 billion industry. Parents who enroll their children in such pageants fiercely defend them as the child"s choice, and many participants"particularly on pageant-centered shows such as TLC"s Toddlers & Tiaras"seem thrilled to be involved. But what effects do beauty pageants have on children and their impressionable minds? Find a Therapist Enter ZIP or City Advanced Search Why Children Enter Beauty Pageants Children are the masters of fantastical ideas, so it"s no wonder that many girls involved in the pageant circuits relish spending a few days a year as Cinderella. But children can"t enter pageants without their parents" blessing, so involvement ultimately hinges on parental choice rather than the child"s. In a new paper published in the Journal of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, University of Arizona professor Martina M. Cartwright emphasizes this point. She calls the phenomenon "princess by proxy," explaining that the real attraction of pageants is for parents who can gain social status, self-esteem, and money when their children participate. Potential Effects of Beauty Pageants: Eating Disorders and Body-Image Distortion Pageants, particularly those designed for younger children, focus primarily on appearance, attire, and perceived "cuteness." Talent competitions occur in some pageants and often are a secondary component of the experience. Thus, pageants suggest to young children that there is value in focusing on their appearance as judged through the eyes of others. This can lead to significant body-image distortions, and adults who once participated in child beauty pageants may experience low self-esteem and poor body image. As with most adult pageants, child pageants often require crash dieting. Parents may encourage children to quickly lose weight so they can fit into small costumes or display tiny bodies in swimsuit-centered fitness competitions. Some parents put their kids on crash diets designed to help them gain energy and enthusiasm. These diets may consist solely of sugary snacks and sports drinks for several days. This can harm both short- and long-term health and teaches children unhealthy approaches to food that can contribute to the development of eating disorders. Beauty Pageants and the Sexualization of Young Girls Sexualization is the tendency to view oneself as a sex object, and children who participate in beauty pageants are sexualized very early. Children may dress in highly suggestive costumes and learn that they gain attention and status when sexualized. This may lead to premature sexual activity and can teach the unfortunate lesson that women"s worth is determined at least in part by their status as sex objects. The Unhealthy Values Built by Beauty Contests While some pageants are brief events that require little preparation, the world of pageants can be cutthroat and extremely competitive. Children learn a host of unhealthy values, including the desire to defeat their competition at all costs. Tantrums and meltdowns"by children and parents alike"are common backstage at beauty pageants, and long-term participation in pageants can teach children that their primary source of worth is how many pageants they win and how "beautiful" they are perceived to be. Academic achievement, empathy, social skills, athletic pursuits, and other age-appropriate activities may take a backseat in the world of pageants. And because precious few pageant participants grow up to become models or entertainers, this early experience can stunt their development by focusing their attention on something they are unlikely to be able to do as adults." http://www.goodtherapy.org... Conclusion. Side with me and ban beauty contest!