Is it possible to romantically love more than one person at a time

1.) True romantic love is rare, authentic, something that is precious and shared with one person, unexpectedly. The feelings must be 100% mutual, or else that love will be mistreated and the value will diminish. True romantic love occurs one at a time; if one is unfortunate to have lost love for someone, they will find another, but being in love (not falling in love) should not happen simultaneously because then the love is not true or pure. 2.) What is defined as romantic love in this case, loved based on trust, understanding, honesty, and intimacy, is agreed upon by both parties. 3.) It is highly possible for a person who is romantically in love with more than one person, to show favoritism toward one partner more than the others. This may be a very dangerous, key conviction that can destroy relationships. 4.) Polygamy is clearly understood and it may not be considered cheating since all involved are aware of how their love is being spent. However, in order to assure and attain a healthy relationship based upon trust, honesty, understanding, and intimacy, a polygamous relationship may lead to problems based on possibly having serious feelings toward partners they care more for. 5.) Monogamy is basically giving and receiving love between a person and solely one partner. It is a relationship that is accepted by most, and sharing trust and honesty is confirmed in such a relationship. 6.) I agree that one cannot control who they fall in love with. 7.) It"s true that control, to an extent, is something not all people have, but some do. Also, control vanishes when amidst a true love; It is reaching that point of a certain extent in which control can exist no longer, only in the face of a one and only true love. 8.) Therefore, it is not possible to romantically love more than one person at the same time. Non-Controversial: Premise 1, 2, 5, and 6 are non-controversial. Premise 1 is the idea of true romantic love, the statements are original and cannot be argued against. Honesty is a characteristic of romantic love, that is why it is ok to mention true romantic love. I am also stating my grounds on what being in love means and how important it is. Premise 2 is the agreement both parties have, on what is defined in this case, as romantic love. Premise 5 is my definition of monogamy. Premise 6 is an agreement on the fact that falling in love is uncontrollable. Controversial: Premises 3, 4, and 7 are considered debatable. 3.) It is highly possible, although it is still a true statement. 4.) Although the definition of polygamy is agreed upon and the idea of what a healthy relationship is, is understood under my terms, it is possible that serious feelings may or may not develop, considering the personality(type of people they are) of those who are in this type of polygamous relationship. If feelings do become serious, people become less accepting of the matter. 7.) Control is something that some people have and some don"t; It is an advantage that is attained through practice, so it is possible to tame. If the romantic love is true, then it is considered a dominating influence that is unchanging, but that is only if.