Jon snows parentage (SPOILER)

Thank you for debating with me! I love Game of Thrones and I've been very interested in the different theories surrounding John Snows parentage. the Ashara + Brandon theory does make a lot of sense, as it was rumored that both Brandon and Ned liked her, and she was the sister of one of the kings guard for Aerys. It is also possible that Wylla ad Ned are his parents. But what is even more possible is that Lyanna stark and Rhaegar are Johns parents and here is why I think so. I believe that John Snow is the son of Rhaegar Targaryen and Lyanna Stark for the following reasons. 1. Ned Stark and honor Ned stark was a man of honor. He was willing to die instead of lie about who the rightful heir to the iron throe was once he found out the truth about Jofferies parentage. In the book, A Game of Thrones it is mentioned several times that Ned was an honorable man and wouldn't ever break his vows to Catelyn. Ned doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would cheat on his wife, even during war. This reason alone doesn't prove the theory that R+L=J but along with the other reasons it seems to give weight to that theory. 2. Neds care for Daenerys and his disgust for Roberts hate for them. In season one when Robert barathon announces his plan to kill Daenerys Targaryen Ned is very upset. He is an honorable man and Daenerys was a young women, expecting a baby witch could alone cause the feelings he had for the plan. But what if one of the reasons he was upset was because Daenerys was Johns aunt, and when Robert talked about how much he hated the Targaryens (as he did even before he spoke of his plan to kill Daenerys) Ned knew that he was unknowingly talking about his nephew John. 3. Rhanegar Targayrns personality Rhaegar Targaryen was not the kind of man to kidnap, rape and kill a woman. when Daenerys asks about him to Ser Barriston Selmy in season 5 sir Baroston tells Daenerys that Rhargar was the kind man who would sing and give the money he made to orphanages. Even Ned stark had nothing bad to say about him, even though he supposedly killed his sister. 4. The tournament Rhaegar was also not the kid of guy to publicly show his love for the women he was about to kidnap. During a tournament that Rhaeger won he was given a crown of blue roses to give to the women he thought was most beautiful. Everyone thought he would give them to his wife Elia Martel but instead he rode right passed her and have them to Lyanna Stark. Rhaegar wouldn't do that if he was planning o kidnap her as it would make him an obvious suspect. It is very possible that Lyanna and Rhaegar ran away together. 5. Lyannas death and eds promise to her Lyannas death Ned remembers Lynanna lying in a pool of blood right before her death saying "promise me Ned". No one knows exactly what was promised to him. People who believe the R+L=J theory suspect that she made him promise to protect his nephew John and pretend that he was his son. Lyana was lying in a pool of blood dying when she said this. It is thought that rhaegar had injured her , causing hr death but I think the pool of blood was from child birth, and that the birth of John caused her death (as it was common in the time period that got is based on) 6. Lady Melisandres role. In season 5 the red lady mellisandre tries to seduce John snow. However lady Melisanrde only seduces men with kings blood like Gendry and Stannis Beratheoin. If johns snows parents Lyanna and Rhagar were married before they had him he would be the rightful heir to the iron throne. Now that I think about it Melisandre had her heart set on Stannis winning the throne until she met John could it be that she realized that he was the rightful heir and she purposely got him to sacrifice Shireen so that his troops would leave him and he would loose?. Even if Rhaegar and Lyannas parents weren't married Johns would at least have kings blood. 7. The song of ice and fire. If this theory is true than John snow would be the song of ice and fire. His father was a Targaryen who had dragon blood and whose family was associated with dragons and fire, and his mother was a Stark, whose family was from the snowy north and associated with such. If this is so than it appears that john snow is the most important character in the book.