Romantic french kissing is better with eyes closed

As side Con, if I am able to even establish one reason why French kissing is better with your eyes open, then I have won this debate. I assume that Pro means that both parties would keep their eyes closed for the length of the kiss. I agree that French kissing with eyes closed is more romantic, but opening your eyes from time to time during the kiss can lead to a better relationship. Therefore, it is much better, however less romantic, to open your eyes from time to time during the kiss. I will get more into this later. First I will go into refutation. (I. ) Sacrifice sight, Enhance touch Here, Pro provides an useless source of a book on psychology, that he probably did not even read. This argument was basically about how not being able to see increases your other senses, in particular, the sense of touch. However this is not true. It is not based on scientific fact, and is merely a myth, just like the myth that blind people can hear better, and touch better. . http://www.ehow.com...;(scroll down to blindness and touch). Therefore, closing your eyes does not enhance the feeling of touch, it is just a myth. Therefore, it does not improve the quality of the French kiss in this way. (II. ) Kissing a distracting blur? First off, in the source you provided, it says "Most people can’t focus on anything as close as a face at kissing distance so closing your eyes saves them from looking at a distracting blur or the strain of trying to focus". Therefore, there are some people who can focus on things that are close. Therefore, for those people, keeping your eyes open will not be an unneccesary hassle, and would not take away from the kissing experience but can actually benefit the relationship (more on this later). Pro has provided an argument that is not always true, therefore, it is an invalid argument. (III. ) Causing a tense moment to be less tensePro says, "If both parties have their eyes open and are staring at each other, it only makes the situation more awkward and uncomfortable. "However, I disagree. I would say that when both parties keep their eyes open, they can stare into each others eyes, allowing for more romantic action to be shared. . http://people.howstuffworks.com...The following is taken directly from the site: "Professor Arthur Aron, of the State University of New York at Stonybrook, has studied what happens when people fall in love and has found that simply staring into each other's eyes has tremendous impact. In an experiment he conducted, Professor Aron put strangers of the opposite sex together for 90 minutes and had them discuss intimate details about themselves. He then had them stare into each other's eyes for four minutes without talking. The results? Many of the subjects felt a deep attraction for their partner after the experiment, and two even ended up getting married six months later. "This shows that indeed, staring into each others eyes allows them to share feelings and feel deeper for the other, ultimately creating a more romantic bond and improving the relationship. Now time for some Arguments:I will keep my arguments short due to lack of space.1. Religion:Many religions support chastity and abstinence, and if like you say, French kissing is more romantic with eyes closed, it is very likely that the kiss would lead to something more, like sex, as it is foreplay. This would cause a lot of internal struggle with the religious party, as they would have to deny sex in order to maintain their vow, and potentially ruin the relationship. The other choice is to continue with sex and break their vow to themselves, causing an ethical struggle for identity, as to many people, religion is very important to them.2. Sorry I kissed your eyes! Pro did not specify when eyes would be closed during a French kiss. Therefore, if you have your eyes closed during the moment leading up to the kiss (when you are leaning forward), it is possible that you could miss and perhaps kiss their eyes or nose. This is very unromantic and would not improve the relationship as a kiss should. Therefore, keeping your eyes closed harms the relationship and is not better.3. Gauging Reactions:During a long kiss, it is advisable to open your eyes sometimes, to guage the reaction of your partner. . http://www.savvy-women-magazine.com...If your partner looks disgusted, then you know to stop kissing her. If you have your eyes closed the entire time, you would not see this. This can harm your relationship with her. If your partner looks happy, you would know that you are doing something right, and this could potentially improve your relationship with her. Therefore, kissing with your eyes closed is not better, as it can ruin your relationship. By occasionally opening your eyes, you could potentially improve your relationship.4. More Romantic:Gazing deep into each other's eyes while kissing is much more romantic, as you can share alot of feelings during this time.