Personality Vs Appearances in relationships

Alright then, thanks so much for accepting. Now, In the beginning of this debate, my opponent offered an explanation of what relationships used to be and what they are now. I would just like to start off by saying that his whole explanation of relationships is completely wrong. Now, I'm assuming that my opponent is not a Christian (because of the things he just stated) so his view on the matter would be completely different, but that still, if you have studied all the facts, this would be an easy concept to understand. Most of the world in history believed in a God, the one true God who created all of the universe. There were other religions for other cultures, but basically everyone had a religion and believed in a God. Now I'm going to focus mostly upon American, English, and a few European countries (such as France, Italy, Spain's) History. Now, All of these countries have always believed that there was a God. Those countries even have some of the worlds biggest Churches and worship places. So, because all these countries believed in God they had completely different views on this matter than people from the 19-21st centuries. Evolution was only introduced in 1858, and before that basically no one had any doubt that God didn't exist. This changes everything my opponent just said. If people believed in a God, then the purpose of a relationship would be love. Which would mean, the whole purpose of relationships is definitely not sex. While this may be some of the main reasons why some people date today, this was not the reason all throughout history. My opponent gave that explanation based off of only what he thinks is right, not based on facts. If my opponent would like me to go further in depth of this and of this history, I would be glad to do so. So, as we can see, because the whole purpose of a relationship (as I have just established) Is NOT sex, then we can move on with this debate. Because the purpose of a relationship is not sex, then we must ask ourselves- what is it? A relationship is simply a bond between two people which basically makes them "saved" if you understand that. The whole purpose of "dating" and having relationships is to "save" or claim a person until marriage. Dating is different from marriage because its not permanent, its a way for people to test out how they work with another person, and to see if they truly love them. Now, if you were getting married, would you want to be married to some jerk who was attractive, for the rest of your life? Or would you rather be married to someone who had the most amazing personality, and just a great heart, but they weren't as attractive as the girl next door. I can guarantee you that if you ask MANY couples that have been married for longer than 15 years, they will tell you that they didn't marry each other for their appearances- Its truly sad how the newer generations believe that appearances are all that matters in everything. Relationships, as we have established, are for putting a certain person on "hold" for marriage, If you truly love someone, you shouldn't care what they look like, only what their heart and personality is like. (Just a quick side note; This is not a Religion debate on weather Atheists are right or Christians, I was just stating common facts. If anyone would like to debate religion with me, if be glad to do so on a different debate.) So to conclude this first Affirmative speech, Think about the history and facts all throughout history, they obviously flow to my side of today's round. Thank you so much for reading.