Sex before marriage

sorry for missing round three had no internet. I can try to relate to what you were saying but enviroment has nothing to do with in a way a child grows up to be. Humans are made to reproduce to keep the world going, yea people have unprotected sex but you can also get pregnant with birth control its not at high risk but there still a risk. I am a single father and yes I planned a child with the woman i wanted at the time and she wanted me at the time. It didnt work out the way it should of but just because we split up that dont mean anything towards our child. enviroment is just an excuse allot of parents make for there children actions. reality if you want a good child your going to push the child to an limit depending on age, its how the parents raise there child single or together. its the principle of the enviroment not the enviroment it self. I grew up in a bad enviroment no father for sixteen years of my life, a mother that drinks and parties, never really got to see her that much, always living place to place, actually never a place we can call our own home. yes i done bad things but my mother always did try her best to keep a roof over our heads, food on the table, her and my father were married but there were complications to there marriage and they devorce. my mother taught me how to be strong taught me that the world is never fair, always to keep going. so my mother was a single parent the enviroment was bad, but now i going to graduate, going to the national guard, have a good chip on my shoulder. Same with my siblings, i have also half brother and half sister and there father didnt want them but my mother kept them and now there doing great. its not the enviroment and its not the sex that changed society you can have sex protected, married, not married, its how people raise there children, also now i live with my father and my father is a good man well respected in the community. There tons of thousands of children out there that have bad life styles but making something of it so there children dont have to go through it. we learn we adapt to our surroundings, and yes your right children do learn alot from there parents what i said before its up to the parents how there children come out. So two people who love eachother get married and have sex creates a child doesnt always make society good. you never know what could happen in the marriage, divorce rates arent going up because people choose to have sex or had sex before marriage no there could be tons of reasons like the major reason is lost of interest. or just no happyness. People who have sex before marriage and have kids or end up pregnant not because they did it unprotected or protect, or had love for each other no they choose to do it. Its not going to get around the whole world just because two people deside to have sex behind close doors. then yes you can talk about well they have porn, its the choice they make to go on film or paper, sex didnt create peoples ways people created them. Sex before marriage sex after marriage, its how your parents raised you in the end that makes society the way it is. as for two people who are in love get married have children, yea that would be a wonderful thing, but if your not happy dont force yourself to be happy. you can still raise a child today single or seeing other people, I am doing it and I am only nineteen i was close to seventeen when we found out we were going to have a child. You know what got in the way that ruined us it wasnt the sex before marriage it was her friends getting involved. is my son a mistake no hes not, am i raising him the best i can yes i am, do i think me having sex with other women other then his mom before marriage will have a affect on him probually as he grows but not enough affect to change the world around him. He may think its going to be ok since i doing it, but arent parents there to guide there child to make the right choices in life. society is the way it is because not of sex before marriage or even sex after marriage, its how there parents raised them. even if one parent absence the other parent job to make sure they do the best they can. People changed society not sex. and i wouldnt look as if children were a product to there environment, or a sponge, they are blessings trust me your whole world changes when you have a child, you teach them to be better not the same or worse. some parents cant do it some can its how strong you are and how patient you are. having sex before or after marriage doesnt really affect a child only to an limit, the parent affects the child. and sex can be controled, alot of people out there has never had sex and are bad to society, some had have sex and made a difference to society to better it. as for sex urges they can be control i know alot tons of people who loves sex but doesnt make a habit out of it. yes your right sex is a gift that should be for two people in love, but you dont have to be married to love someone allot and still have sex. For people today who abuse there other halfs, they could be married or not, they learned that not because people had sex before marriage or after but by there parents, married or not society would be the same today as it was before people still kill, people still make bad choices, there is still war. Its still the same society as it was when they forced sex after marriage. look in the past also people who married had children when ther was no sex before marriage still had riots, killings, war, rapes, bullies, hate, it is still the same as it is today society is, nothing changed nothing will ever change whats the main thing people want theres two money and power, they will do anything to obtain it. Like i said before honestly take look at the bigger picture sex before marriage has nothing to do with how society is today. The indians believed sex before marriage makes a man a man and a woman a woman, some people and past people believed it to be a ritual, passion of the soul, even before sex bad was still going on. Sex before marriage and after marriage society will always be the same.