only personal physical experience of now is real

The rebuttal covered may topics and will will try to answer them point. "experience is perception, as they can not exist without each other" While I agree they cant exist with out each other; experience is the sum total of ones perception. I used perception when talking about a singular event and experience when talking about many events in ones life. "absolute=NO other option, that's why you cant argue that you can see these words on the screen with your eyes closed, as its absolute, unless you have holes in your eye lids or something crazy, so its the cause and effect relation that is absolute not necessarily the explanation, as one can say well god could make you eyes lids glass..." The other options is a Dissociative disorder. That allows for someones personal perception to be that they can see the words with there eyes closed, that God has made there eye lids out of glass, or to be on a computer having a debate that is not really happening. This is been one of my central arguments against ones personal physical experience of now being only what is real. "existence is absolute, but absolute is the balancing point between possible and impossible, where as absolute means no other possibility, not possible and not impossible, therefore reality is not possible and its not impossible, it is no other option, as it is happening" The impossible is everything not happening. Its impossible for something not happening to be happening. Even if your personal perception tells you otherwise. "true cause and effect relations only happen in reality, so me having my eyes open to read is a confirmation that I am right" There is no false cause and effects. If I trip in a dream the effect is I fall in my dream. Its still a true cause and effect. Me falling in my dream is still the effect of me tripping in my dream. Even if neither event really happened. "there is no truth in reality, truth can only be in the past, and I have to remember what happened 2 seconds ago, reality is true, and true is only now" In part I would state that general relativity teaches us that time is not liner and that the past, present, and future are more fluid. Truth and reality happen faster than your memory. Reality and truth are not fixed to time. There is a reality and truth of what happened in the the past. Your memory may not show the reality and truth of that moment. You state true is only now. How does the passage of time effect its truthfulness. "know=physical experience of now, and know is no other option" Honestly I don't understand this statement. Your stating the know means both the physical experience of now and that it means no other option. Are you saying that there is no other option than the physical experience of now. That the word has both definitions. With both ways of thinking about it I am still unclear of your meaning. "know is not true? belief is false, and knowledge is truth. know is the balancing point between belief and knowledge, 1 and 0" You only believe you know. You may not know. All of your existence is a belief. One that may or may not be true. "religion is necessary even if you know the absolutes, like hospitals" Religion and hospitals are not necessarily. There was no hospitals before 230 BC. With out quantifying statement nothing is necessary. Yes food is necessary for me to survive but I do have the option not to eat. I would not like to do it admittedly. "a first cause is impossible so god is impossible. a cause that didn't cause anything is not a cause, so a first cause would be caused by a cause that is not a cause" Cause an effect are not liner. Some times effect happens first. Particle accelerators experince this every once in a while. While a partical is being accelerated to smash another paticle the stationary particle will explode before the accelerated partical hits it. Then when the stationary partical reaches were the stationary partical was it will explode even though nothing is there any more. The first effect may have happened before the first cause. This is why quantum mechanics is such a mind warp.