Both letters from "Disgusted White Girl" and "Black Royalty" are racist and/or misinformed.

... I'll just continue with my points, and address all of your issues in my final argument. 6. "I honestly believe that your anger is geared more toward jealousy and envy more so than snotty looks. If this were not so, then why do you continuously go to tanning salons to darken your skin? If you are so proud to be white, then why don't you just be happy with your pale skin? Why do you continue to inject your lips, hips, and breasts with unnatural and dangerous substances so you can look fuller and more voluptuous?" People go to tanning salons because it is currently considered fashionable by some people to have darker skin. Likewise, in the past it was considered fashionable at times to have lighter skin. I don't think wanting to be considered "trendy" or one's desire to feel prettier by altering their skin tone means that one rejects their own race. As far as plastic surgery, well, 2 things: 1, not all black women are voluptuous. Look at Tyra Banks and Venus/Serena Williams. Plus, black women get breast implants + plastic surgery also. 2, I haven't heard of anyone wanting to ADD to their HIPS. 7. "If I were looking for a docile woman, someone I can walk over and control, I would give you a call. But, unfortunately, I am looking for a Virtuous Woman. Someone that can be a good wife and mother to my children." It's wrong of BR to classify this woman and all white women in general as being docile. After re-reading both letters, it appears that BR was more hostile in the sense that he was more inclined to stereotype and generalize the races. The "Disgusted White Girl" noted that black women being too fat, materialistic, loud, etc. were all ideas that her fiance had given to her in response to her inquiry about black men and white women. She didn't take any direct responsibility for those concepts being her own. Finally, BR says that he is looking for a virtuous woman to be a good wife and mother to his kids. The last time I checked, white women were capable of being considered virtuous as well. And there are certainly millions of competent white wives and mothers. BOTTOM LINE: Though thoughtful, honest and sincere, BR's response to this "Disgusted White Girl" did more harm than good. He defended his "sisters" but bashed white women in the process. His introduction about not wasting his "precious time to slander white people" was false; he certainly succeeded in doing so both directly (claiming that black women were smarter and more advanced in ancient times) and indirectly (too many examples to list). I also did not think it was necessary for BR to use DWG as a representative for the white community in general... and he did, when he said things like "why do YOU continuously go to tanning salons?" and "YOU were over in the caves of Europe..." By doing so, he is assuming that the thoughts, attitudes and feelings put forth by DWG are the same of every white person, which I can assure you is not true! His response makes it appear as if all white women feel the same way about interracial relationships. They do not. In my opinion, a more appropriate response could have been directed towards DWG herself, and contained less racism. BR seems to have a chip on his shoulder towards white women and perhaps even all white people in general. Now, just because I don't agree with his letter means that I have a problem with black people. Instead I am addressing what HE wrote, and not bringing up "all the ways white people are better than black people" which is what BR seems to attempt to do. In the end, it all comes down to one thing: one's virtue, capacity to love and be in a happy/healthy relationship, etc. should not be determined based on their race, but by their individual personality and behavior. That's it. That's all BR had to say. He could have called DWG stupid and ranted about all the ways in which she is ignorant, and he could have listed all the reasons why he personally loves black women (which he did) without listing reasons why he feels white women are inferior. That's offensive, and 2 wrongs don't make a right.