The bible does not teach mutual submission

It is such a travesty when the Word of God is used to discriminate against women, putting them below men, no different in principle then discriminating against blacks. In this debate, I hope to make it clear that we don't serve a God who discriminates against women, who arbitrarily (or for nonsense reasons) places women below men. God cursed the sepent saying he could go on his belly and eat dust (Gen 3:14-15), he cursed Adam, saying he would work hard to eat bread, the ground would grow thorns, and he would die (Gen 3:17-19), and to the woman the curse was that she would have greater pain in labor and her husband would rule over her. (Gen 3:16) We must remember that husbands ruling over their wives was a curse, not a blessing, and therefore, it stands to reason that when God first created man and instituted marriage, man did not rule over the woman! It was a partnership of equals. The woman didn't have to submit to his authority any more than he had to submit to hers. This is why God made woman from a rib in the man's side, showing she would be an equal beside him, instead of from the skin under his foot, to put her beneath him. (Gen 2:21-22) As it was in the case of Abraham and Sarah, God told Abraham to listen to his wife because in that situation she was right. (Gen 21:8-14) This shows that in marriage, its the party who is in the wrong that should give in to the other when having differences of opinion, and who is right must be decided upon by evidence, by the Word of God, by having that spiritual insight, not by trumping authority as though the man had more say than the woman. Since humans are in general imperfect and will make mistakes, the man will at times have to acknowledge the woman was right and submit to her, and at other times she will be in error and submit to the man. In this way, God becomes Captain of the ship as opposed to two captains via for control of the marriage vessel. "The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. " (1 Corinthians 7:4) This plainly teaches mutual submission, because each member of the marriage surrenders authority of their body to the other person. " Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." (Ephesians 5:21) This obviously does teach mutual submission, even though I would distinguish this from simultaneous submission, but even that may be embraced in this teaching. For if this verse teaches women to submit to men, then it also teaches men to submit to women. It would be amazing, if in the rebuttal, my opponent claims that all other men in the church are to submit to the women except her husband. So I will have to wait and see since we can't rebut each others' arguments in this round. "Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave"just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." (Matt 20:25-27) If each person is supposed to serve the other, that again implied men must serve women just as women must serve men. Also, while a man maybe serving a woman in one aspect, she may simultaneously be serving him in another. These verses show we must mutually submit to each other. Between a husband and wife, during the sex act the both can be serving each other simultaneously, as they both give each other pleasure, even doing so in the way desired by their partner. "You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise. (Gal 3:26-29) In this is proclaimed the equality of all men and women. Interestingly, Peter mentions the Jew or Gentile issue first, which was the current issue in his day (Acts 10:28; 21:26-30) A few hundred years later slavery became a big issue, and black people even after coming out of slavery had to fight for equal rights. All this time the church was transitioning from a place of having accepted slavery to rejecting it as immoral to own another human being a property. More and more abolitionist movements like the Quakers sprung up. Today, women are now being ordained to positions of leadership in the church more so than in the past when we had a much more male-dominated society. Thank God for the enlightenment and changes that he has wrought in the course of history. Women may hold offices in the church to which men have to submit, just as men hold offices to which women have to submit. Deborah was a prophetess and a judge in Israel. (Judge 4:4-5) Women may edify the church by their prophetic teaching (Acts 2:15-18; 1 Cor 14:2-5), and so forth. So yes, the Bible does teach mutual submission.