Sex before marriage

::Before I begin:: A. I was accused of breaking my own rules, I need my opponent to provide an example. B."but in no way does that give anyone the right to tell people how to live their personal life." This is a straw man argument. As I have said in the comment section "Please give me an example of when I said something similar. I recall calling sex before marriage an unwise choice but that's all" I am still waiting for a proper response. ::Love:: "This strange love equation has nothing to do with pre marital sex, and certainly falls into the category of "peculiar cases", which were strictly prohibited by my opponent's very own rules." A: Half of it has to do with sex, the first proposition has to do with love and the fourth one mentions a wife. Wherefore, this equation has to do with sex before marriage. B: This is not a peculiar case unless you consider sex before marriage a peculiar case. Moreover, for this equation to work love doesn't have to be the only motivation nor does it have to be always there. As long as love is involved this equation works. Few things to point out: 1. This creates strong intimacy. "5. Y got what most X's wouldn't dear to do." (The equation from ::Love:: section in round 2). 2. Marriage has a lot to do with waiting and endurance and its the perfect occasion to end the waiting. This is because marriage is a celebration which has to do with the love of two people ; other celebrations don't have this focus on two people. ::Tires:: " Also, what does my daughter have to do with pre marital sex." I was talking to the reader (which granted does include you) nor did I know that you have a daughter (nor was I making a reference but rather an example). " What about women who enjoy sex just as much as men? " Good point, lets look at different scenarios: A: A boy or a girl uses the other person for one reason or another = my conclusion. B: Both do it but one person leaves the relationship (we're assuming they like each other), hence, the aspect of connection disappears. C: Both are cold-blooded (I don't think this is common enough to be considered). ::Talk:: I asked this "Nevertheless, what is the best way to know that you love this person and when is the best time to celebrate your love ?". Since my opponent didn't provide an answer, Ill answer it. The best way to know that you love somebody is to give up something you really like, it may be food or video games but let's be honest, the biggest thing most guys want is sex. If you can love a person without sex and you can go through hard time without it too, then you're officially in love. Equation: 1. We love someone if we love them for who they are. 2. It is also natural to love what they have for example looks, charisma, money, and etcetera. 3. When we remove sex, we remove a huge part of what they have. 4. Therefore, we are more concentrated on the person. 5. The end result is greater assurance and greater love. ::Benefits of sex:: I have no problem with this, I simply believe that they're best used in marriage. "One should satisfy their natural urges" Tell this to someone who feels like killing: http://www.answerbag.com... "Marriage, on the other hand, is simply a ceremonious coupling of two people" Electricity was also created, is this unwise? Animals kill animals, should we follow them? Furthermore, marriage is a result of emotion. Sex and self-esteem: I don't know from where my opponent got this information. I would also like to know how my opponent made the connection between self-esteem and sex. Intimacy in relationships: I reference this in the "Love" section. My study: While I do now realize the flaws of the study, I still have to disagree with you, particularly on waiting. " Marriage is in no way implied by this statement". While marriage isn't necessary for this statement, it is rather obvious that marriage equals waiting. I elaborate in the "Love section". Well, its my opponents turn !