###### ![](media/image1.png){width="1.5006944444444446in" height="0.9555555555555556in"}

**LET'S TALK**

+-----------------------------------------------------------------------+
| ####                                                                  |
| ##### WINTER 2006 HEALTHY BODIES ● SOUND MINDS ● A SAFE PLACE TO WORK |
+-----------------------------------------------------------------------+

**J U N E LT H Y B O D I E S • S O U N D M I N D S • A S A F E P L A C E
TO WO R K W I N T E R 2**

# Deck the Holiday Stress

**It's time to deck the halls, but you'd rather deck Uncle Walt. Calm
down,**

**simplify and delegate.**

**YOUR HEART IS RACING**, your head aches, your palms are sweating, and
you realize you're holding your breath. Don't panic. You're probably
just stressed out.

It happens to the best of us. And there's nothing like the holidays to
bring on stress. All that shopping and decorating and cooking and
cleaning and \... well, you get the picture.

## How you can fight holiday stress

"If you're not going to do it joyfully, then don't do it," says Cecile
Andrews, Ph.D.,

author of *The Circle of Simplicity: Return to the Good Life*. She urges
people to make

their own choices about how to observe the holidays.

When you feel anxious, try some of these tips:

■**DELEGATE TASKS**. Don't try to do everything yourself. Share holiday
shopping

with friends and family.

■ **PRACTICE SAYING NO**. You simply cannot do it all. Ask your family
to help with

household chores.

■ **FIND TIME FOR YOURSELF**. Schedule time to curl up with a good book.
Sit by the fire and listen to your favorite music.

■**SOAK IN THE TUB.** Take a walk. Play with your pet.

■**SHARE YOUR FEELINGS WITH A FRIEND**. Talk about the stress you feel.

You'll find out that you're not alone.

■ **LAUGH A LITTLE**. Laughter has the opposite effect of stress on your
body.

It can even boost your immune system.

■**EXERCISE REGULARLY.** Try to work in some exercise at least three
times a week.

Make time for a brisk walk, whether it's around the mall or to a
friend's house.

"The holidays are not just about getting presents," Dr. Andrews says.
"It's a time of

inner growth, finding new insight and meeting your own values."

#### 

#### World AIDS Day

##### Stop AIDS: Keep the Promise

THURDSAY, DECEMBER 1, WAS WORLD AIDS DAY 2005, an international day of
action for HIV/AIDS. The World AIDS Campaign is responsible for this
year's observance, and the theme is "Stop AIDS: Keep the Promise."

About 95 percent of people with HIV/AIDS live in developing countries.
But HIV is still a threat to men, women and children on all continents
around the world.

World AIDS Day, which was started in 1988, is not just about raising
money, but also about increasing awareness, understanding, education and
research, and fighting prejudice. It reminds people that HIV and AIDS
have not gone away, and there are still many things to be done.

**Get Involved**

World AIDS DAY is about people getting the facts about HIV and ADIS.
We're all in this together, since no area or demographic is unaffected.
So get involved in the fight- there are many ways to do so. You can help
create a more AIDS-aware society in which everyone takes action.

Achieving this ambition requires more support and action than people
living with and affected by HIV and AIDS are able to generate on their
own. What is needed is the involvement of more people from different
walks of life, whether they are individuals or groups, whether they are
part of a trade union or faith group, or whether they are just people
who want a better world in the future.

**The Red Ribbon**

The red ribbon is an international symbol of AIDS awareness. People wear
it year round to demonstrate care and concern about HIV and AIDS and
remind others of the need for their support and commitment.

For more information about AIDS treatment, prevention and research,
visit the "AIDSinfo" site at *www.aidsinfo.nih.gov*.

*And don't forget to wear your red ribbon!*

what's new

Late-Breaking Health News

**\>\>Few U.S. adults maintain a healthful lifestyle,** according to a
report in the

*Archives of Internal Medicine*.

Researchers identified a healthful lifestyle as one in which the person
is a nonsmoker, maintains a healthful weight, eats five or more servings
of fruits and vegetables every day and exercises regularly.

Using data from more than 153,000 adults from all 50 states, researchers
found only 1 percent of U.S. adults follow such a lifestyle.

***Winter 2006*** 2

Seventy-six percent of Americans don't smoke; 40 percent maintain a
healthful weight; 23 percent consume five or more fruits and vegetables
a day; and 22 percent exercise regularly (at least 30 minutes of
moderate physical activity at least five times a week).

**\>\>Pregnant? Don't Choose Booze**

If you're expecting a baby or might become pregnant, think before you
drink. U.S. Surgeon General Richard H. Carmona, M.D., warns women to
stay away from alcohol to head off birth defects. Fetal alcohol spectrum
disorders range from learning and growth problems to central nervous
system damage.

Doctors don't know what, if any, amount of alcohol is safe for unborn
children. "When a pregnant woman drinks alcohol, so does her baby.
Therefore, it's in the child's best interest for a pregnant woman to
simply not drink alcohol," Dr. Carmona says. Studies show alcohol could
affect a baby in the first weeks after conception, even before a woman
knows she is pregnant.

**\>\>Smoking may increase the risk of developing diabetes,** according
to new

research at Wake Forest University School of Medicine in Winston-Salem,
N.C.

The finding emerged when researchers examined the relationship between
smoking and diabetes among participants in a major national study, the
Insulin Resistance Atherosclerosis Study. They compared the incidence of
diabetes after five years among smokers and those who had never smoked.

Twenty-five percent of the participants who smoked and did not have
diabetes when the study began had developed it by the five-year
follow-up, compared with 14 percent of the participants who had never
smoked.

Smoking has long been associated with heart disease, as is diabetes, and
diabetes and heart disease share many risk factors.

# VITALITY-ON-DEMAND

**A world of additional health information available via your
computer.**

You may think of this publication as just a newsletter. But would you
believe it's also an access index to one of the largest databases of
family health and personal self-care data around? With our free
Vitality-on-Demand (VOD) service, you can get

all of the information you need any time you want it!

Visit www.vitality.com for more articles and to search for topics you
would like to learn more about.

**It's simple. And it's free.**

**Via the Internet:** Visit our home page at *www.vitality.com* and
press the Vitality-on-Demand button to search by keyword. Or click on
Special Reports to access the

articles listed below.

***Winter 2006*** 3

# SPECIAL REPORT

**119** Identity Theft

**120** How to Quit Smoking

**541** Sensible Weight Loss

**542** Lowering Your Cholesterol

**543** Reducing Your Stress

**544** Walking for Fitness

**545** Workstation Comfort

**546** Fixing an Aching Back

**547** Start An Exercise Program

**548** Controlling Allergies

**549** Lowering Health-Care Costs

**550** Living With Arthritis

**551** Dealing With Headaches

**552** High Blood Pressure

Build Your Confidence

**THE ROAD TO FORMING HEALTHFUL NEW HABITS DOES NOT FOLLOW A**

**STRAIGHT LINE.** You stride forward confidently, then fall back a few
steps, and sometimes you stay in the same spot for a while before moving
ahead. This is a normal part of the process --- learning new skills and
changing old behaviors take time and effort.

All those stops and starts can take a toll on your confidence.

It isn't always easy to know you're making progress. So it's important
to make building your confidence a key part of your plan for change.
Here are three ways to boost your self-esteem.

**1. TAKE SMALL STEPS**.

Whatever behavior you are trying to change, learn to set realistic goals
for yourself so you don't set yourself up for failure. An easy example
for people trying to lose weight is to set a weight-loss goal of
one-half to one-and-a-half pounds a week --- and no more.

**2. USE POSITIVE SELF-TALK.** We all talk to ourselves at times,
although much of what we say is unconscious and, unfortunately, often
negative. By countering those negative thoughts with positive
statements, you will help boost your self-esteem and build a more
realistic picture of how successful you are.

The next time you slip up --- you eat more than you wanted to or smoke a
cigarette --- instead of calling yourself a failure, tell yourself,
"Oops, I slipped up. But one day won't ruin all the weeks I've been
doing well. I just need to get back on track."

**3. ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR SUCCESS.** To be successful**,** you have to
notice that you are successful. So the next time people tell you how
proud they are of you for quitting smoking, or give you a compliment on
the new, slimmer you, look them in the eye and say, "Thank you!"

It's also important to build in rewards for yourself along the way. When
you hit a weight-loss or exercise goal, treat yourself with something
nice (and not food-related). You deserve it!

***Winter 2006*** 4

Hurricane Relief ---for Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder

IF YOUR FAMILY IS AMONG THOSE whose lives have been dramatically changed
by the recent hurricanes that have brought great destruction and loss of
life to the U.S. Gulf coast, you or a loved one may be suffering from
posttraumatic stress disorder. Powerful emotions, disturbing thoughts
and feelings of grief may seem overwhelming and interfere with your
efforts to put your lives back together.

But there are ways you can help yourself and your loved ones recover
emotionally.

Here are some examples:

■ **TAKE THINGS ONE SMALL STEP AT A TIME.**

■ **STAY IN CONTACT WITH OTHERS**.

Friends and family members may offer different views of the situation or
express common concerns.

■**SET UP NEW ROUTINES** or return to old ones that bring you comfort.
Try to eat meals, exercise and rest on a regular schedule. Make an
effort to spend time together as a family.

■**DRINK PLENTY OF FLUIDS**, such as water and juices. Avoid overuse of
alcohol or drugs.

■ **GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO FEEL BAD ---** you are in a difficult
situation.

Recurring thoughts, dreams, or flashbacks are normal. They will
generally decrease over time.

■**GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO HEAL**. Be patient with your emotions. Many
people will naturally bounce back on their own with time.

■**SEEK SUPPORT** from medical, mental health and/or spiritual
resources.

If you have been affected by the hurricanes and are having trouble
adjusting or find yourself using drugs or alcohol to help you cope, ask
for help.

### 

### 

***Winter 2006*** 5