Category: Sexual Health
Question: My boyfriend and I as had sex twice and I didnt bleed he is my first what is wrong
He thinks I lied to him I was a virgin
Im confused

And also is it only penis that can fully tear a hymen
Answer: Hi I will advise that you find a way to tell your boyfriend to read about Hymens and their existence 
1 There are a lot of things that can tear an hymen women who exercise or ride bicycles often have it torn or broken from such activities
2 The Hymen is not a common occurrence in all women and in some in which it exists the space is wide enough to allow a penis enter and come out without causing any tear or damage 
3 The absence of Hymen is not a confirmation of not being a virgin if we consider the points stated in 1 and 2
4 Not everyone experiences bleeding at first sexual contact because of some of the reasons stated above 

Relax yourself your boyfriend needs to read more and educate himself about Hymens and their existence in women

Wish you the best