Category: Men's Health
Question: Hello Wellvis Please Im experiencing a sperm discharged while asleep sometimes I woke up I found out that sperm were discharge on my boxer moreover even though Im toasting a girl the fluid most discharge however more than 5 years now I havent come in contact with any girl in sexual intercourses please what should I do to avoid it happen
Answer: Hello Stan and thanks for using Wellvis

What you are experiencing is normal and I implore you not to feel embarrassed about it You are having wet dreams which happens to almost every man and could be more frequent with others They are called wet dreams because of the ejaculation that occurs usually after an erotic dream

Your sexual attraction towards the opposite sex too is normal but you will need to learn to control your urges so the lady does not feel harrassed 

You can try and have discussions that are less erotic or sexually suggestive 

You can also try to meet her in the midst of others or in public so as to avoid resorting to any behaviour she may find inappropriate 

Depending on your cultural or spiritual beliefs you could consider indulging in masturbation to ease the built up sexual tension 

Keeping yourself busy may help take your mind off any sexual thoughts

Hopefully soon you can have a partner and be able to enjoy regular intimacy

I hope this helps and good luck as you search for the lucky lady