Category: Sexual Health
Question: I have this issue when I have sex I sometimes do not lubricate well and my lower abdomen pains in some certain positions I dont get to orgasm  I dont know if I got one someday Sometimes I really dont enjoy it I just want him to finish and leave 
What can I do about it Please help me
Answer: Oftentimes when a woman doesnt get sufficient vaginal lubrication during sex pain may occur However the pain is reduced or resolved once the woman is more relaxed foreplay is extended andor artificial sexual lubricant is used

Other known causes of painful sexual intercourse are vaginismus an involuntary spasm in the vaginal muscles personal conflicts regarding sex while may arise from past trauma some infections eg yeast infections STIs or PID cervical or uterine issues endometriosis ovarian cysts ectopic pregnancies etc 

Depending on the cause of the pain outside of the dryness please contact a doctor for full examination and a treatment plan

However for the lack of lubrication do try waterbased lubricants sold at pharmacies It is also important to have a conversation with your partner about patience and being gentle 

Bonne chance