Category: Sexual Health
Question: Hi Im a 27year old lady and I just had sex for the first time recently The first time kinda hurt and was uncomfortable Which I expected but I attempted having sex again and it still hurts and its uncomfortable My vagina feels weirdmight be psychological My question is is sex supposed to feel this way Its nothing like I imagined and sincerely the pain and discomfort I felt makes me never want to have sex again
Answer: Hello 
Good evening Sorry about your experience 

Having sex for the first time is actually painful for the female   This is usually due to the hymen which is broken and may bleed during intercourse It usually gets better with time and the pain is less 

Another cause of painful intercourse is when the lady is not well lubricated hence the need for adequate foreplay and arousal before penetration 

again you might want to get rid of any negative thoughts you have about sex becaue if you keep having them it will always be painful most of the time 

make sure you have protected sex with condoms to avoid issues like unwanted pregnancies HIV hepatitis B and C 

I hope this helps 

cheers