Category: Sexual Health
Question: Im a lady of 29 and I just started having sex However It wasnt till the third time we were intimate that my partner noticed blood on his condom I hadnt been particularly enjoying penetration so we were happy to chalk it off to my thicker than normal hymen But then A week later we noticed some blood AGAIN But then no blood for the next two sessions While that in itself is worrying the more perplexing issue is that I am not enjoying the actual act of penetration at all Once he gets in I just feel sore and a lot of pressure like I am having cramps Ive tried to be on top but the pain becomes unbearable and he is unable to go all the way in He says Im moist enough so lubrication isnt the challenge Neither is it insufficient foreplay So far weve had sex six times and Im really fed up of not been able to have fun while were intimate Is any of this normal
Answer: Hello 

Good morning 

As regards the blood thing from what you have just described it looks like you get to sustain bruises in your vagina that get to bleed 

I feel you may not be as wet as he thinks you aere before penetration 

How long do you indulge in foreplay

I advise that you increase the time for foreplay before penetration 

Then I also suggest that you see a doctor for evaluation as there are other causes of post coital bleeding 

I hope this helps 

Cheers