Category: Sexual Health
Question: Hiiam an adult and am getting married in two weeks and ive never had sexual intercourse before but last week i was aroused and i sticked my index finger in my vagina and it went in smoothly does it mean that my hymen is tornpls i need answers so i can explain to my fiance coz Ive always wanted him to break my hymen on our wedding night so i want a straight answer if it is broken or not am so stressed right now and i even swore to do it never again
Answer: Hello thank you for using Wellvis 

Its understandable that you feel stressed now given your hopes regarding your sexuality
A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse however virginity is beginning to mean different things to different people The hymen is a membranous lining found at the vaginal opening it may take different forms and could be absent in some women It can break through various means and may even stretch out over time You may notice some blood at the point when the hymen is broken

Please note that for most the traditional meaning of virginity still obtains which is the absence of penovaginalpenoanal sexual intercourse Going by this you are still a virgin

However while masturbating might not result in a hymen breaking I will advise that you visit a hospital close to you so that your vaginal area can be examined by a nurse or doctor who will check if your hymen is still intact
 
I hope this allays your fears Im also happy to have a private chat with you if you wish
Please accept my warm congratulations on your upcoming wedding