up my husband..I can't do this justice but really would like to as harmony is much more desired than disharmony. we probably both need to step back and start again . I won't get back on tonight but will have a good think about it and will likely get a chance again tomorrow. there must be some common ground somewhere..especially as we both seem to be searching for it. I'll get back to you . I really have to go now. Again, he's pretty much asking whether that should be the rule. The rule can't justify itself, there has to be a rationale behind it. That's not to say I agree with everything he's said regarding his ban, mind. Yeah well if that's the case i agree. Like someone was saying on here before it's just another curse. Not sure why it's meant to be the worst or something. Especially if it gets starred like every other one. Would make no difference. Originally Posted by -Cumbrian- I never used that word. I wrote C word. With my skills of using the search function I could find you 1000s of times when "c word" has been written. Id unfortunately also find the post where the moderator was talking about a smelly **** though. Disgusting. You really can't see the difference between referring to the c word and the context you used it in? I would expect the vast majority of that search you would find people using it not at people