and explain your reasons. That will prevent her from attending and removing the children again. the courts will then investigate the matter and make whatever order is best for the children. Best regards Harjit Sarang Q. Hi, I am in the process of considering leaving my wife. However we have 12 month old daughter and I personally want full custody of her, with my wife having visitation rights. The issue is, that if we leave, I will be moving away, closer to my family and friends and therefore having a support network to assist with the upbringing or my daughter, including all my brothers, sisters, nephews, nieces and my parents. This is a support network that she will not have and won't be able to get any assistance in taking care of our daughter. The reason I am considering leaving is because of her continued drug use, mainly Marijuana. It is something I detest and always have, I have barred her from having any of it in our home, so she then ends up going out whilst I am at work and taking my daughter to a house where she can smoke pot and the tenant of the house also uses needles to inject speed. We fight about this constantly and I resent her for the places she takes my daughter and her continued association not only with drugs but of people who can only be described as junkies. No matter the amount of trying, our relationship just isn't working