seem to be a kind person but this woman's behaviour obviously makes you uncomfortable. Continue to be polite and friendly when she speaks to you but decline to go out with her again. You don't have to put yourself in an uncomfortable position just because you feel sorry for someone. All the best. Other Answers (4) Hmm, you don't really like this woman, you have sympathy for her, you see her as lonely and depressed. Yet you go out to eat with her. Well, I could not associate with a person I had no respect for. Perhaps her behavior is a symptom of her illness? I don't know, but I couldn't associate with her. I need a more symbiotic relationship with those I spend time with. Maybe you should have a talk with her before you really decide to hate. But before you make your mind you also should investigate yourself with the following questions: - are you attracted to this person ? - If you make her turn back to the "moral" person you would like her to be, would she be perfect for you ? - why do you go out together especially for evening-night activities ? - why did she show you what she was doing with this guy ? Source(s): repetitive observations with adult people overly concerned by others behavior