let the father see them, women who don't are also selfish bitches. Fathers who demand to see their kids, but don't want to pay for them are selfish bastards. Basically alot of children have a bunch of cunts for parents and step parents and most people who make comments about the CSA on sites like this fall into one of these categories. Then there is all the decent people caught up in the middle, mother's just struggling to get a bit of help so their kids can go on outings and do fun stuff, have good childhood and grow up happy etc. Father's who are paying maintainance but don't get to see their kids because the mum won't let them, these are the decent people caught up in the middle of all the other nasty types who cannot accept that they have kids at all or that they have to share their kids with someone else, or that their partner has children with someone else. To all those nice people caught up in the middle you have my sympathy, and the rest of you can go to hell on a handbasket, for making divorce, seperation and bringing up kids hell on earth, because you cannot see further than the end of your own noses alan on February 15th, 2012 1:17 pm well said, gee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! rachey on March 1st, 2012 2:42 pm my ex has his own buisness,2 infact,he goes on great holidays 2-3 times a yr,drives brand new cars,lovely detatched