called out of curiosity. They are paid to do what they do and I'm pretty sure that does not include curious phone conversations. Trust your gut sadangry. If it feels wrong to you, it is wrong. If it upsets you, its wrong, if it makes you feel hurt, it is wrong! He's got crummy explanations and he sounds full of bs. My X had an excuse for everything and swore up and down that he was only texting his employee about work, then they were friends because they had things in common, yet I wasn't allowed to see what they talked about or to meet any of the ows, because they "didn't hang out" I had caught him texting lots of inappropriates to women over the years we were together and he blamed it on alcoholism, boredom, trying to help a friend (an underage friend!) With a problem blahblahblah. Even if he hasn't acted physically, emotional affairs are devasting as hell. Keep your gaurd up, focus on yourself, and think about getting yourself into IC. Big hugs to you sweetie. Surviving is important, thriving is elegant- Maya Angelou When someone says you're crazy, look around first to see if they are talking into a mirror. If not, show them one and ask them to repeat. Posts: 238 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Indiana Broken1Again ? Member Member # 32211 Posted: 1:48 PM, November 13th (Tuesday), 2012 I am sorry you are here... I wish life was so much simpler,