friendship and be civil you know, like mature and professional people. Besides, we started as friends anyway. In my case he asked me if my decision not to talk to him was final, I said yes, then he said not to contact him ever again. I tried. I called him 2 times within a week to 3rd week after the breakup-  he did not call. I texted him 2x too  he did not call either. I was hurt and took it seriously and thought maybe he has moved on. Besides, I heard from my girlfriend (who coached me) that she overheard he is dating. WHen asked her about my lover, this girlfriend of mine said that it would not be good for me know more about him neither hear anything about him therefore, she is not telling me. I felt tortured. Although I find half of her reason acceptable (example: I dont want  to hear he is seeing someone else,or he is really dating or worst he is engange or something!) I would have regret hearing about it. Now, I really don't have any idea neither any clue how he is doing, how he's been,  if he is still thinking of me or what? I just wish he still is. I can't believe why I am still hoping. Honestly, Yes, I regret what I've done but part of my being still wants to continue seeing him. I may need time for soul searching. Or maybe I just miss talking to