Is she alleging that there is a risk of harm if the children see your wife? Whatever the allegation, it will need to be proven. Without having further details, it is difficult to give an opinion. Contact depends on what is in the best interests of the children. I hope that helps. Q. I really need advice basically I have two girls 1 and 3 my ex had my 3 year in his country for 10months whilst he was training. I brought up r 1 year old by myself for a year. Social services got involved and I am now with the safeguarding team. It was agreed on a Temporary basis that he have 3year and I have the 1year old. This was not a legally binding contract. It has now been a month and I haven't seen her no contact has been arranged. I speak to her on the phone daily. I do have a solicitor which has a prohibition order in place, the non molestation order is about to go through also. She has advised we put in for a residence order but it may not go through. My ex is on a visa on the basis I was his civil partner, therefore he is illegally in this country, I have informed immigration. Also there is a long history of domestic violence. Social services have said this is a personal matter between myself and ex and cannot help me. Even though my sister is more willing to support