Resolved Question Was it rude for him to point them out? Junior prom was on fridayy and my date (my boyfriend), who is normally a really sweet and nice guy haha, had his hands on my waist while we were dancing. As we were slow dancing, (Keep in mind, I had on bikini undies under my dress as well as pantyhose, so i was hoping the pantyhose would hide the lines) he ran his fingers along the lines of my undies through my dress and was like: no thong? nice panty lines. I got really offended....was it rude for him to point them out? Other Answers (11) Guys often don't really put any kind of filter between their brains and mouths. Yes, it was kind of rude, but if it was only the two of you who heard it, it's not really that huge of a deal. That said, if you were offended, let him know it bothered you. You'll be doing him a favor in the long run. Of course, the flip side of that is that he also did you a favor by letting you know your pantyhose strategy didn't work. He did it crudely, but because he did you'll know next time that you can't wear bikini panties with a form-fitting dress. Alexa. YES VERY RUDE. Joking or not a boyfriend should not comment on what you choose to wear. TELL HIM that you DONT LIKE him mentioning what you wore bikini or thong. It is YOUR