was no way for me to return to be with her at nights, since I do not have a car and the bus/train schedules did not allow for it. Any ideas? I've read the guide(several times), but now I'm just getting myself more and more confused. I would put what you think happened. And in your essay, which is not listed in the document check list but many people do, I think, you elaborate what happened. The form is for everyone, very generalized. I never exchanged money with receipts. Again, explain it in your essay, why you did not need to send money and why you did not keep the receipt. I think your summer camp is not where you "lived". You still had your place for receiving mail and paying your utility bills, I suppose. So that is where you lived and you were on sort of business trip at summer camp. I'm the future sponsor preparing for the ordeal. We will hopefully be getting married in April, but I'm trying to understand what will need to be done as I am living with my other half and not at home, so getting documents from home will be challenging (hence I want to know exactly what I need so I can have it all sent at once). So my other half and I have been looking at the 5490 form. I think my brain has turned to mush from overthinking this, and I have utterly confused myself. I'm hoping