friend via a text to her. I am sooooo sorry that you are going through this. I found out about 2 weeks ago so I know what u are going through. I hope everything works out for u Even if he hasn't been unfaithful in a physical way (and I'm sorry, but it certainly looks that way to me), he has been secretive and unfaithful in thought and action. AshleyMadison accounts don't just appear. People don't just buy secondary secret phones out of curiosity to "talk" to escorts. It really sounds like a load of hooey. I'm so very sorry. I think you need to work under the assumption that he has been unfaithful. My advice - 1. Do not confront him any further until you have more information. If you have to, act like you believe his every word and are no longer concerned. 2. Get tested for STDs. 3. Start investigating. If you can, install a keylogger on the computer that he uses most. Put a voice activated recorder in his car (you can buy them at any big box store). 4. Go through your mail, bank statements, credit card statements, etc. and look for unusual or unexplained charges. Make copies of account information and store it somewhere safe in case you need it in the future. Sadangry - this is really rough stuff to deal with. We're here for you, no matter what you find or what you decide to do. Please focus on taking care of