of a Six Do you frequently ask others for advice on what to to; and in some cases ask many people for advice about the same situation? Do you have a tendency to change your mind frequently? Do you sometimes feel pulled between diametrically opposed answers such as 'yes' and 'no'? Do you experience a general level of fear and anxiety in day-to-day living? Do you get confused by the mental chatter and indecision of your inner committee which seems to have many views about what to do? Do you tend to overcommit yourself, thus jamming up your life and creating stress? Do you fuss on what could go wrong and spend energy trying to make it safe? Heart Triad 2, 3, 4 (Wanting validation) To be seen and validated. FOURS Withdraw into a romantic and idealised Fantasy Self. (Can be stand-offish and aloof, and act in a mysterious and dramatic way.) (Inner idealised Fantasy Movie) "I will find significance in an inner emotional world." Behaviours of a Four Do you retell your story to others repeatedly and continually focus on re-experiencing the feelings? Do you have a tendency to over-indulge yourself with too much of something -- whether that be food or sex or drugs as a way to further reinforce your moods? Do you feel you are somehow exempt from the so-called rules that apply to other people's behaviour? Do you spend a great deal of time fantasising about your desired life, desired partner, ideal situation? Are you