solicitor for advice on how to agree this with your ex amicably if he will not attend mediation. I advise that you approach it in a way that shows your concern but isn't accusatory or aggressive. Allow him an opportunity to reassure you and demonstrate a commitment. people change, children are the best reason for change. Good luck Q. Hello I have been married to my wife for 6 years. My wife has a daughter aged 11 for whom I was granted parental responsibility (PR) 4 years ago by the family division. The biological father took my wife to county court 2 years ago to obtain PR, my wife agreed to a PR agreement which they both signed. However, at no time during the court process was I consulted by either his legal team or the court on whether I agreed to him having PR Where they able to make an agreement without involving me as I have PR?? kind regards A. Hi there I am at a loss as to why your wife did not consult you about the process? I expect that a search was not done and your wife did not disclose to the court that you too had parental responsibility. What you do now rather depends on what you wish to achieve considering that this was two years ago. Q. My ex agreed to a change to the court order dates for a foreign holiday and is now (2 weeks before the holiday which is booked