Yasmein 'wanted to be loved by everyone' By Jared Lynch Christine Onder had no idea those heartfelt words would be the last she would hear from her daughter Yasmein Irfan. The 14-year-old was killed when the overcrowded car she was travelling in smashed into a concrete wall on Pascoe Vale Road in Coolaroo on Wednesday night. Rumours have swirled about how six teenagers, none with a driver's licence, came to be in the stolen car, which would end three of their lives and put another three in hospital. "When I first found out, it was like, 'why Yasmein, why? Why did you get in that car?'" Ms Onder said. "But I know I'm never going to get answers. "You can try to be the best parent but no matter how strict you are, your child is going to rebel." Yasmein's family remembers  her as a loving girl, who wanted to be loved by others. "She wanted to be loved by everyone, that's what I think her downfall was." It was a desire for acceptance  her mother believed led her to that packed car. Ms Onder said Yasmein, who had only began to rebel this year by wagging school, was desperate to turn her life around and had ambitions to be a lawyer. She said the Department of Human Services helped with those plans. "People are making out Yasmein to be a monster. She wasn't a monster. She was a beautiful girl. That's what I want people to remember her as.