He had a herpes scare and now there's doubt.... Please help me! I've been dating someone for a couple of months. I wasn't prepared to be intimate so quickly but in the heat of the moment it happened. I was honest from the first time we were intimate and I tried to answer all of his questions. I even provided him with a link to the hsv blog the following day. I tried bringing up the herps on our following date and he shut me down so I decided to wait until he came to me... We have been going out and having sex pretty frequently and I eventually just came to think that maybe he was just one of those guys who didn't care and was OK with it. Well just recently he had a herpes scare and he finally opened up. He said he never really thought about it. It was on the back of his mind but after the scare it became real. His doctor mentioned to him that there's a 30% chance he could still get it even if I'm not having an OB which pretty much freaked him out. I told him that ever since we' had become active that I've been taking anti-virals. I assured him that my OB's were not severe and only happen about 2 or 3 times a year so the chances were really low but there would always be a risk. I've been obsessing about our talk for a few