it is "available" for posting before you comment publicly. Some Messages Are Better Off Kept Private Have you noticed that for some, Facebook has replaced email? Making social plans with a group may leave someone feeling left out. Commenting publicly on information that is thought to be kept between close friends may cause hard feelings. Use the private message function, email, or hey, even the phone! Making Those Tough Choices Some people will accept a request from anyone, while others will do so only if they know the person. Accepting friend requests is a personal choice, but it can get more complicated when the requests come from a co-worker, boss, client or family member. Facebook can be good for building professional relationships, yet at the same time, your personal life is on display to one and all. How much do you really wish to share and with whom? Suppose the friend request comes from a young cousin; not only can your comments be seen, but so can those of your friends. Are they appropriate for a younger viewer? Facebook does provide you with the ability to create various lists that will limit which postings your contacts will be allowed to see -- a great method for dealing with some of these issues. It is also permissible to tell clients, colleagues, co-workers and supervisors that you utilize Facebook for keeping in touch with close friends and/or family but you would like to connect with them via a professional site, such as