do a little preparation for the next working day. My husband's activities while all this is going on is to get home from work early, crash on the couch, go outside for a cigarette, crash on the couch again complaining bitterly about the fact that it is unfair that he has to go on a family holiday with us in a couple of days because he is so tired that he just wants to stay home. All a really typical scenario in our house hold. He is on 3 different medications which seem to control his depression quite well (finally) but the anxiety seems to still be a big problem... The latest thing that is just unbearable is that he is so tired all the time that he wants to sleep in the couch every evening and often all weekend and has no energy to do anything. Even before this, it has been a constant battle to get him to participate in our lives and be sn active, present member of the family. I feel like a single parent with a preschooler and a very demanding special needs child. It is very draining and extremely frustrating to live with someone like him. I have planned our separation and divorce countless times! I don't really want this, but I can't stand his behaviour and the constant waiting for him to get better. I'm starting to feel like he never will, and I just want to be free if his odious prescence