son. Even then, she will need to prove this. You have not said that you are caring for your mother in any way. You have said that you are staying with her. Good luck Harjit Sarang Q. Hi I have been having issues with the CSA for the last couple of years now I've paid my arrears and they took more. On finding out this mistake they took 6 months to sort a plan out only for them to take another payment of arrears money. Now I'm still waiting for a cheque to come through but every time I phone them they say it's with quality control an hasn't been looked at yet. They ate quite happy to take the money but not happy enough to give it back within a reasonable timescale. Who do I speak to regarding taking legal advice to get this money back and the extra money I've had to spend on 0845 calls from numerous landlines including my work phone? A. Hi there You won't be surprised to hear that this is not unusual. I'm afraid that the cheapest way if for you to persist yourself. The alternative is hiring a lawyer to do it for you but this will only cost you more. Best regards, Harjit Sarang Q. Hi there, I will try to sum this up as short as possible, only giving basics where possible. I do have a solicitor but feel she may not be acting in my best interest. 7 Years