you think you have the right to tell me what god is saying. thanks......but no thanks! i have read the scriptures and i lead a Christian life but I WILL NOT have people telling me what THEY think the bible is saying (their interpretation). if you have an opinion about something I'd be very happy to hear it IF YOU HAVE READ IT, DONE IT OR AT LEAST EXPERIENCED IT!!! "Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven." and what's the other one? "let he who is without sin, cast the first stone"!! I haven't read this book but I reserve the right to do so if I so choose. God gave us the abilitity of free will, I suggest you keep your opinions to yourself, and let others choose for their selves! I'm definitely a married, Christian & definitely a person who believes everyone is entitled to their opinion. I would like to point out that it would be hard to have an opinion on something you've never read. I am 1/2 way through the 2nd book & (Spoiler Alert) at this point the main male character has chosen to stop his practice of loveless sexual oddities (I do find them odd) because he has fallen in love. And certainly as a Christian we'd be remiss if we overlooked the irony of a man walking away from sin because of his love for