is not taking this seriously and he can do whatever he wants oh and he has threatened me on Facebook whilst this is going on, which of course got printed and went in my statement. How do u think the court will view all this? Thanks A. Hi there I'm sorry that you are in this situation. You are doing all of the right things by gathering your evidence and putting it before the court. No stone should be left unturned in this case because of the risk of harm to your child. Continue doing what you are doing and hopefully the court will make an appropriate order. In cases such as these it is not unusual to see indirect contact and perhaps heavily supervised contact for a period until commitment, safety and security issues have been dealt with. Good luck and keep doing what you are doing. Q. Hello, my situation is that i had to leave a violent ex and live in womens hostel for 6 months with my 5yr old son and his and mine 1 yr old daughter i was re housed and started all over. Threw solicitor he had regular contact which i did not like it felt i was handing her over to danger her arm was broke in his care he has kidnapped her from school i do have a residence order and had to get child services involved as he has groomed a 14yr old and sexualy abused her and the same