answer, to start with, has a lot to do with physical/sexual attraction. There was a lot of chemistry. I have dated many guys in the past (before marriage) and W is the one that tick my every boxes. He would have been "my dream guy" in every way. I love the way he looks, the way he dresses to the shoes he wear, to the way he talks, walks, stands and just everything about him puts a smile on my face. It's just a shame I can't be with him (as AKS said "meeting someone at the wrong time"). To the Man above, you seem quite clear that you don't want to continue with your marriage. If that is the case, what is stopping you? Are you seeking for some assurance from this girl that she is going to be there for you when you eventually leave your wife? She sounds like a sensible girl not wanting to be involved with a married man (sounds a bit like William. He told me he wants nothing to do with me until I am 100% single as he felt responsible for my marriage break up). In my case, I can't leave my good marriage. If W proposes with an engagement ring as a security, I might seriously consider it. But he won't do that unless I leave my husband first. But I can't leave my husband until he proposes first. It's going round in circle. Basically, I can't leave my marriage for