helpful advice) I can say, 'No, he has a SN. How are you going to help him learn to pay attention.' That all said, she was a witch. It's not uncommon. But anger won't help you. The SN boards here will though. And the other thing is if you suspect a particular diagnosis, you don't have to wait, you can start putting strategies in place to help - they can't hurt, even if you don't get that eventual diagnosis. YANBU. Same again here, my DS had a heap of tests hen he was in nursery and scraped through. The school was sent lots of information and advice and chose to ignore it. It only really became a major issue when we found out he had been bullied for 12 months and as it only happened at dinner time he only told the dinner ladies who didn't seem to make a connection with the same lads being put against the wall every day for punching and kicking the same 2 kids. I told head teacher my concerns and that I was sure he had Aspbergers and her answer was that her son did and he was much worse so didn't see my problem to this day I don't know how I didn't kick her teeth in Went to secondary school and finally got taken seriously. The label actually comes as relief, please don't see it as a bad thing, it's not a label more of an explanation and a huge help