AKS Hi all, Its taken a while for me to get the courage up to post again but I just thought id let you all know about my situation.  I ended up miscarrying my baby.  So the choice was taken out of my hands, was only 6 weeks at the time but am still trying to get over it.  My affair guy (A) said that i should leave my fiance and do it for the memory of our angel baby.  he also gave me an ultimatum that if he wasnt out by the monday two weeks ago then he would have nothing more to do with me.  he said if i made him leave then we have a shot at making us work.  So i did it.  I made him leave.  That was two weeks ago and nothing has changed.  All the things (A) said to me have turned out so far to have been lies.  I have seen him once since my ex fiance moved out and heard from him much less than i did when my ex was living with me.  I am in counselling for help with everything that has gone on with my life recently.  But i feel so betrayed by (A) he says he is under too much pressure with work to deal with me and has no time.  Yet the one time i did see him he was loving and telling me he missed me.  But then the next minute he is saying he