think once given the forum New Zealand women are very intrigued and curious about sex and very open to the discussion. I think we like to know we are 'normal' and in particular I think we like to know what everyone else is doing (or not doing). We love a bit of naughty and from my experience I think we are open to new things. I don't think we talk about it openly like other European cultures because we tend to be more reserved as a nation, but I think we want to. How important do you think seduction is when it comes to sex and romance? It's crucial, and unfortunately it's so often forgotten. I have yet to meet a man or woman who does not enjoy being seduced. It's the quickest way to make your partner feel desired and that's pretty powerful. Do you think women have lost the art of seduction? Absolutely. I think for various reasons we have become lazy in the bedroom, expecting our partners to seduce us or instigate sex. I think life often gets in the way of us enjoying the act of seduction and instead we fall into the habit of obligation. Many women tell me they feel self conscious attempting to be the seducer. I am a firm believer that seductresses are not born but come from having the confidence to try something new. That means baby steps and trying things not too far outside your comfort zone. There are a