wisdomAND the courage (although you may be second guessing both right about now) to speak up, to stand up, to encourage healthy relationships and to discourage women from polluting their heart, their mind & their marriage. Bob! I don't know you, but what I do know is you have a marvelous wife and she a good & godly husband -- even if you like all of us sit in a pile of crap on occasion. Thank YOU, Bob, for speaking up, speaking out, stepping up & supporting your wife (the world needs more husbands & men to do that. I don't need to sit inthe crap -- when a well meaning, God fearing Christian sister or brother in Christ is sent by God with the message: "Stop! You are about to sit in a pe of crap!" Again. Thank you. God Bless you. This is one of the biggest misconceptions among Christians... God doesn't tell us not to judge, just that we will be judged with the same measure that we use to judge others. 1 Corinthians 5:9-13 talks about judging for ourselves who is immoral among those inside the church and keeping ourselves pure by staying away from them. If this book has been deemed sexually immoral by some, then why shouldn't we judge it? (And it may or may not have a redeeming story at the end, but that doesn't mean it's right to read what's in between.) For me it's like an R rated movie... Someone has