child at risk of harm such as using this particular babysitter. Alternatively, you may suggest that if she wants to go out, she let your son stay with you at the weekend? Do get legal advice. Q. I am waiting for a phone call from cafcass what will they ask me? A. Hi there If it is the first time they are calling you, it is probably to arrange a meeting with you to discuss the court application. The first meeting will simply be to get a view from you about the disagreement and ways in which the case can be resolved. If the case is not near a resolution, the officer will need to investigate the issues. Her report will cover basic things such as whether the child(rens) best interests are being met, deal with allegations and report any recommendations to the court. Don't be afraid, co operate as best as you can. Q. Hi My son has recently become a police officer and gave his ex partner a list of his shifts for the full year, to which she sent him a sheet of paper with days and dates as to when he must have the girls (Tues/Thurs for tea and alternate weekends and overnight if not working the next day). He has followed this to the best of his abbility, only having to cancel on maybe two occassions and recently when he was attending college and not home until weekends my husband and I had the kids