by pass that ability then they deserve to be alone. Trust is the biggest issue next to communication in a relationship and if you dont' have both then you are pretty much screwed or gonna be in a miserable relationship. Oh, and by the way my first gf that cheated on me, later on in the relationship I caught her doing other unforgivable things so in my opinion, they do it once then they will do it again. Other Answers (9) ast hurts..especially with your bf..ex i mean...break ups and all..but there is one thing you can do..always be positif about yourself..when you think about the past, you feel demotivated and you tend to put all the balme on yourself and thats when you feel damn low. do u think you would have been depressed if you put all the balme over that guy? see...take those thinsg as a lesson and learn from it. try not to repeat it in the future. don't hurt yourself by thinking about the past. its not gonna help. its gonna make things for worse! as you move one..your past will mould you to a better person if you be a positif person to yourself and learn to love yourself.your past is what makes you who you are today..and in the future If you cannot let them go, and I mean right now, then you just need to break-up and find new people. If you keep bringing up the past, then he will feel he