lead to anything meaningful... I dont know.. we live life once, and if we are lucky enough to find someone who makes us feel like this, and who we make feel like this, then how can than not happen? I am still struggling with understanding. The swim club that she is part of on their website talks about how many couples have met through swimming, and posts their story online. She has commented a couple times how nice that is, and how those people seem so happy (one of the ones on there she is friends with, so that is not helping). I think she has that fairy tale in her head... that she wants to be one of those success stories. I fear that she may be putting too much of herself into the sport, and may wake up in a few years and realize that yes, she is a great swimmer and in great shape, but maybe she put too much of herself into at the expense of a relationship. Part of me wants her to be happy, and if I am not the one for her, then I do hope she can find it. But, it is like she thinks she can just go out and find this again, like it is easy or something. And hey, she is young, and attractive and gets hit on, so I know she will have no problem finding dates. And maybe she will meet a swimmer and they will fall