Resolved Question He doesnt care about me as much as I care about him? I feel as though I'm wasting my time, he takes at least 8 hours to respond to my texts, and doesn't seem caring when he does. He's always too busy for me and I always put in the effort to stay up late and wait for him to get home so we can spend time together, but he doesn't seem to care What does one do in this case? Best Answer - Chosen by Asker If this is happening, try to calm your emotions...and withdraw from him slightly. What this is sounding like is a misbalance of power. When one dominates and intimidates the other by withholding affection or caring... my ex used to do that to me towards the end of our relationship... and I think I know what the cause was!! Any time you show too much love, or make convosations too much agreeability, too much willingness to see them, too much desire to play around, too much telling your feelings it definately makes guys think of you as the under dog in the relationship, they get cocky and slowly lose interest whilst backing away, going days without texting you back... the way you can fix this is to show him that your okay without him! This means u have to mentally break up with him (without saying it)... so pretend you guys are just good friends who hook up or at least make