if she protests, jump in and take on some of those baby care chores. Stand your ground Whether they realise it or not, new mums often undermine their partner's chances of success by cutting in when he's gingerly trying to change that first nappy or baby?s clothes. If your partner criticises you , gently remind her that you can handle it, as long as she gives you the chance. Be a breastfeeding partner In the early days, breastfeeding can go on for hours at a time, so your partner will be spending a lot of time on the sofa. Make sure you provide her with plenty of snacks and drinks, and something to read. You could even rent a selection of her favourite dvds for her to work her way through. Once breastfeeding is well established, you can give your baby a bottle of expressed milk . It will give you some quality bonding time, and your sleep-deprived partner will be eternally grateful for your efforts. Hug it out Whenever you get the chance, go in for a cuddle with your new baby. It will comfort and reassure you both. This internet site provides information of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. If you have any concerns about your own health or the health of your child, you should always consult a doctor or other healthcare professional. Please review the terms of use before using this site. Your use of the site indicates your agreement to