might choose to have sex at sixteen, technically they're still children. We like to conveniently forget that teenagers are children when it suits us to believe it. Normally when they are being difficult, getting asbos, rioting or killing each other on housing estates that most of us never walk through. We need to face it. Ordinary adults, you and me are responsible for the sexualization of young children (girls in particular) because we tolerate too much. We are supposed to create the norms in society that protect them. Instead, we have created as a society to cope with the fact that we adults encourage and expect kids to grow up too quickly. Cases like this just highlight that we fail children .Yes Jimmy Savile was a bad man. Yes there may well be a paedophile ring yet to be uncovered at the BBC,  but there are many organized rings of men (plus some women and young people) involved in habitually abusing children every day. It's easy to comment on Savile and get angry about his outrageous behavior and write letters to the press, tweet and Facebook our sentiments but where are we adults the other 350 days of the year? We're so often not paying attention to children and young people. We adults in society help to create the conditions for this behavior by ignoring/tolerating the abuse of teens and children by teens. We ignore abuse in childhood that can lead to learned patterns of abusive behavior and we allow