and move ahead as fast as I can and regain my sanity and soul! NO CONTACT is the ONLY way to avoid the NARC's in life. Run away as fast as you can, shut them out of your life 100% if you can and never, never look back or let these evil, vicious, parasitic societal vampires back in your life! They will continue to destroy your soul and sanity. What you can do, is to PRAY for them, because they suffer a destructive and debilitating personality disorder and they cannot and will not seek cognitive behavioral therapy nor medication's if needed. Some use the med's as a way of self-medicating themselves and the use of alcohol along with them. If you have ever witnessed a NARC on anti-depressant drugs along with alcohol, boy is that when the NARC rages can and will occur. I saw this for years with my ex-NARC wife as well as my children and it was if the devil himself was spewing out vile, vulgar, evil and insidious exercism itself. Then, five minutes later, Dr. Jekyl would re-appear as if nothing had happened and go about her merry way. To confront a NARC, is to have it all twisted back on you and deny it ever happened, even with witnesses present or video taped, for that matter. You can rest assured, that it was only a matter for time before the gaslighting and projection of blame was targeted right back on me, over and over for