warm towel you pulled straight from the dryer. And don't just hand it off and leave: Dry them off. Tell your partner with each inch you rub dry how much you love that part -- and why. By doing so, you let your partner know that not only are you paying attention to all of him, and that you love and cherish every wonderful inch of him, but that you love to pamper him because he is that special to you. Lighten the Load Who doesn't want their life to be a little easier? Is there anything you can do to lighten your partner's load and give her a little more time to herself? Maybe it's something that will help her be more organized, like cleaning out her closet or tidying her drawers. Maybe it's more involved than that. If it usually falls to your partner to clean out the litter box, you do it this time. If you see a laundry basket with clean clothes that your partner hasn't gotten around to folding, get in there and fold. Take his car to the car wash or make the kids breakfast. Doing chores that aren't typically yours not only helps out your partner, but also makes your life more interesting when you aren't doing all the same things. And who knows, your generosity of time and spirit could lead your partner to want to do some of your menial tasks . . . or even return the favor with one