Don't be afraid to start talking sex with her after you've gotten to know her. Even the shyest women have a naughty side to them. Sex is an important part of EVERY relationship . Unless she's a prude (and who is these days?), she wants to get laid. I know what you're thinking every time you see a hot girl -- you'd love to shoot a load all over her face, into her vagina, or down her throat. We all do. We're men. We're disgusting pigs. And you know what? Most women actually think it's hot when we do those things. They love taking in our "loads". It makes them feel good to know they pleasured us. Sex is an important part relationship Despite everything I just said, telling a girl you want to cum all over her face while fingering her asshole will just make her roll her eyes. Women want to do all sorts of dirty things with a man that is classy and mature. Sure, she's thinking about how much she wants to take a load in from you, but she'd rather you sext her in a less perverted, more mature manner. Making a Smooth Transition to Sexting Let's say you're chatting with her about your favorite football team (Cowboys). She asks you if you ever go to any games. You respond by saying that you do go to games and "it's a tradition to have anal sex before the game ". This is not smooth. This