buddy's boner and the whole thing ground to a halt, leaving me with a mean case of blue (pink?) balls. But an obsession was born, and I went on to make the two-guy thing happen on multiple occasions and it was always completely amazing. So the fact that the term "threesome," even and especially in women's media, default-means the FFM kind, is just one more piece of evidence that our cultural concept of sexuality is organised around male pleasure. Seriously, Google " How to Have a Threesome " right now. Fully half of those links are from women's sites telling you how to find a girl to threesome your husband with. (If you Google MMF threesome, you just get porn.) This isn't to say I haven't had and enjoyed FFM threesomes; I have. But nobody's talking about chicks doing it with two guys, except to call it "the devil's threesome" or the like. And yet everybody assumes all guys would love to have sex with two women. The genital math is off. I call SEXISM, and that's not a war phone I pick up lightly. So I'm curious -- have you ever boned two dudes, or do you fantasise about it? Actually, let's go ahead and call homophobia too, since it's presumed that MMF threesomes involve only straight dudes who high-five in Eiffel Tower formation over the chick they're double-teaming, whereas the two girls in a FFM threesome are generally expected to at least make out and rub each other's