hurts me to see people arguing over this. I know that conflict is a part of life, but I don't like conflict. I think that we should not judge a person, but we should judge their actions by the standards that Christ left us. We all fall short, yes, but we should strive to "Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ. He loved us and offered himself as a sacrifice for us, a pleasing aroma to God." (Ephesians 5:2) Also, John 3:17 says this: "For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through him." I see in these comments a lot of judgment occurring. I think we should seek to follow the command in Ephesians 4:29, which says, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouth, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." I am only 14, but I read this article this morning and these comments hurt me deeply. Why cannot we, as the body of Christ, build each other up? What kind of example are we setting for the rest of the world if we indulge in this kind of behavior? I don't want anyone to think that I am judging them, for I am not. I simply want everyone to seek and have God's best for their lives. "Finally, brothers, whatever is