have their own path to travel and it will be different than yours. It may be longer or shorter. It may be more or less complicated. I would tell you that her searching eyes are looking for some sign that she will survive this. And you, smiling as you pass, with your child arching all over your shoulder, will let her know that yes, she will survive this and may even thrive. Contact & Social Copyright About Julie is in the process of writing her first book, which is an extension of "What I Would Tell You." Developing workshops and presentations for those who work with families of children with special needs as well as for parents themselves, is another item on Julie's agenda.