seeing one daughter and not the other? Like Shane said in March, children grow up and not only can they reason argument but will ask those questions and demand answers. The mother will suffer in the end but the poor actions, regulation and operation of not just the CSA but this country's poor family legal services means that children and families have to suffer in the mean time. Sometimes for years and in many cases children and families never recover. It's about time this country woke up and established processes that supported the interests of children and families, both resident and non resident parents, properly and in a just manner. Both my daughters are 13 now. I have lost nearly 6 years of my daughter G's growing up. Her character, I understand, is significantly different and withdrawn compared to my daughter B. When she does finally realise the truth, despite the fact I despise my ex wife and her mother for the action they have taken, I do not want my daughters to turn their back on the their mother. But it could happen, repeating the cycle my ex wife had with her mother for many years. I have no faith in this countries family law and child support procedures. A process like the CSA needs to be in place but it needs to assess all cases on an individual basis and establish fair and realistic calculations and arrangements for ALL parties. Not treat NRP like criminals. However will this