your friend forever! Maggie I couldn't agree more, Lastango. None of the "advice" offered in this article actually deals with the root problem, that being sexism. By deflecting sexist remarks and not standing up for yourself, you're making it seem like they are acceptable and don't bother you. I had a problem with a make co-worker calling me "sweetie", so after the third time I said "You know, I'm sure this isn't your intention, but when you call me that it makes me uncomfortable, so I'd really rather you just use my name." No problems after that. Sure, snappy comebacks might seem fun, but by not addressing the blatant sexism in all of the situations presented, you're allowing it to continue. Jen The advice in this article sounds like what my grandmother was told when she first entered the workforce. The more modern approach is to be clear and consistent in how you treat others and how you respond to inappropriate comments. Pull the offending person aside and calmly let them know that comments about your clothing and/or pet names aren't appropriate and make you uncomfortable. This isn't rocket science- you are treated exactly the way you allow people to treat you. Jen The advice in this article sounds like what my grandmother was told when she first entered the workforce. The more modern approach is to be clear and consistent in how you treat others and how you respond to inappropriate comments. Pull the offending person aside and calmly