Resolved Question Would my boyfriend be able to lift me at this weight? ok, I started seeing this guy. And we're now gf and bf. He's coming over in a few nights so we can spend time together and cuddle. I really want him to be able to lift me so I can wrap my arms and legs around him so we can kiss but im not sure if I would be too heavy at 69kg, and im 5 ft 10. He's 6 ft 1 and 103kg. do u think I would be light enough for him to be able to lift me? Best Answer - Chosen by Asker I'm 54kg and my bf is only 75kg and he can lift me with one arm and trust me, he is not very buff. Your bf sounds very fit, he should have no problem lifting you. It's surprising how strong guy's arms are?