with her who we pick up every friday at 12.30 and drop home at 8.00 monday morning - she preciously phoned csa and told them that he only see him once a week which at the time was having him 4 days a week - she doesnt drive as banned as caught drunk driving - so we allways travel to pick him up and drop him home - she now send threatening texts to my boyfriend saying 30.00 on friday or your not having the baby - i dont see why we would need to give her 30.00 or anything at all as we see the baby over the whole weekend and he says with us - she doesnt work and claims benfits like no tomorrow has another child who doesnt see her father and doesnt claim anything off him also he doesnt give her anything - why is the wicked witch being like this ? she is going to tear myself and boyfriend apart !!!!! please help what can we do A. Hi there I totally understand your frustration but a change can be made. There are two options for your boyfriend. Give in to her demands for money and have the same issues going forward with the demands getting larger and larger or, firmly reject her demands and insist upon the contact remaining intact. Should she withdraw the contact, he should see a solicitor to try and get it re instated asap. If she is as you describe,