and those people shouldnt be judged for that. You may want to give it a try.....You dont know what you are missing. Sincerely, A Christian Grey admirer and a Christiam Lady married for 14 years with 4 kids. I haven't read the book, am undecided still if I will or not (chances are w/ two small kids at home I won't 'cause I just don't have time), but that's besides the point. My response to your statement has to do with your accusing wives of being the reason their husbands are addicted to porn. Pretty sure there are plenty of women who give their husbands everything they need in that regard and then some, and their husbands still have a porn addiction. You might as well be telling them that they aren't skinny enough, or young enough, or and that is why they can't get their husbands to give it up. And addicition is something someone has to break themselves of -- it isn't caused by someone in their life not filling a void. She doesn't need to read it to know it's not good for her. Some people have a gift of discernment... as do I, and I won't be reading it either. Even secular studies show the affects of sexual fantasy on our brains. The Bible says stay away from porn, and this is exactly that. Having a storyline, doesn't justify the sexual immigery it creates. The human brain is a powerful thing and I've seen how sexualized