to be given, a text to confirm safe arrival and 2 phone calls a week. He has now decided that he wants her for 17 days instead of the 16 nights i have suggested i drop of at 6pm on the friday and pick up at 10 am on the sunday (17th day) he is demanding til 6pm on the sunday (he then gets her from the Thursday until the Sunday at 6pm) He also has advised that i have to supply the phone for her to call from and that it is not his resonsibility to top up but he is going to cap the time that she can call - and only give a text when arrived in paris and edinburgh - they are going edinburgh to disneyworld, to paris,to holland to edinburgh can you please give your views on the calls and what would be deemed responable for times for the 16 night period A. Hi I am sorry to hear that this is a disagreement. You have a court order in place that seems to be very specific in nature. Details such as who should provide the phone etc have not been included I assume because it is not something that one would foresee a disagreement about. It would be useful to know how old your child is. Does she have her own phone? Ultimately, you need to trust him to keep her safe. If you are unhappy about the times, return to your solicitor and