where he will be going after getting discharged from the hospital tomorrow. He left long rambling good-bye messages on my phone at 3:00 this morning. Sigh... I'm glad to hear about your MIL, but about her meds situation. Lemme guess, she has nobody but you to make sure this shit gets done? Question: how much responsibility for his mom's situation is your husband taking on? Because you have plenty on your plate with your dad and hubby ought to be taking on at least his fair share and a bit more to help you out. He has a less stressful job situation, this is where he needs to step up bigtime, y'know? To be fair to my husband, he was the one doing most of the running around and rushing down to the hospital when his mom would get hospitalized. He would take off from work to get down there and I'd meet him there after work. In fact, I did not visit her yesterday because I just didn't feel up to it and I figured it was better to not spread my germs anyway. However, with that particular discharge from hospital, (one of them from last summer), I picked up her meds while my husband stayed with her at her house. I just don't understand why hospitals don't discharge you with the meds you require anymore. In the '80s and '90s I was always sent home with the meds, there wasn't any of this stupid running around to pharmacies