isn't potty trained yet, as he isn't ready and the other is getting him settled at school, i think we have started trying at the right time to get both accomplished first. excited and scared at the same time as i know whats to come also since having my son i have developed hypothyroidism so means lots more blood tests this time around. Good luck to everyone that is trying at the moment x I have a daughter who is nearly 14 months, me and my partner would like to have another baby but theres 2 things that worry me... when is the best age gap to start trying and the second is that im scared that the special bond that me and my daughter have will be broken when a new baby is here... am i just being silly? me and my daughter are so close i just dont like the thought of that changing :( if anyone has some advise i would love to hear it to ease my mind! :) Brilliant have them together, my first two were a year apart and are inseparable. My 3rd with a 6yr gap in between is now nine month and I am now 12weeks pregnant with the 4th, I always wanted 2 and then 2 together, so overjoyed. No room for brats they grow up together and your used to nappies, teehing etc so double the work, but over with together. Plus they have each other for company and entertainment.