seem to want my children playing in the close. she has been over twice in the last 10 months saying how there behaviour is unacceptable and that we need to go back to where we come from and that the neighbours arent used to us! my husband is a well respected local businessman and my children are well behaved. i feel really upset to her outbursts and feel harrassed by how she is and what shes thinking towards my family. we are a very friendly family and cant understand why she feels the need to say these things on my doorstep. im considering getting in contact with the police and council. what advice would you give? jax - 12-Sep-11 @ 1:12 AM If the Police were interested in getting involved from the start it might stop things becoming "heated".I am having a problem with my neighbour mildly harassing me and when the police visited me I got a shrug of the shoulder and was told that compared to some of the harassment they had to deal with my case was very minor. Sunny - 26-Jul-11 @ 6:57 PM RE comment by rooney 03/04/2011 even when H/ASSOCIATIONS will get involved they don't do the job properly - all complaints are meant to be confidential but in my experience they don't keep any confidentiality and issues are 100 times worse than BEFORE they ever got involved! fliplop - 12-Jul-11 @ 11:36 AM My next door neighbour wanted trees cut down as they