Resolved Question Do you think he was going to rape her?..Im worried for my friend? My friend is really attractive but hs a low self esteem..she barely notices the attention she gets from guys and Im sure she could easily meet someone nice but she seems to be hard on herself and I think it's cos her father is abusive..but she told me about a second date she had with a guy she met. I saw him once and was shocked..he seemed hostile, very unattractive yet she thought he was great..it was weird, like she was blind or something. He was all nice on the 1st date, then the 2nd date came and he invited her round to his place because he said he was too ill to go outside.. They sat in the garden, talking and listening to music while he smoked weed..he panicked when his flatmate came home and his head snapped round to Melanie to check that she didn't smile at him (he was jealous)..after that he said 'do you want to watch the simpsons?' Melanie thought it was odd because he was 26 but agreed, politely..she started to feel uncomfortable when his face went serious and blank and he gathered up their drinks to go inside.. e was really serious, suddenly not the smiley jolly guy. They went in his room, then he asked for a kiss. She kissed him and he was rough, as if he didn't know how to kiss, clashing his teeth hard