one God, and their children must be bought up muslims, as the children should take his fathers religion, Re: I want to get married to non-muslim guy Originally Posted by shazy I am deeply in love with my boyfriend who is a Sikh and been seeing for 2 years at uni. This is the guy i want to marry his family has agreed to our relationship but my family hasnt. He is willing to let me stay muslim and have marriage ceremony in masjid and temple but my family are giving me grief over it. They want me to get married to my cusin brother from pak. I donno what to do I feel like running away. Salaam, and take this into account as well, if you carry this marriage contract between you and this sikh then you will be outside the fold of Islam, you will be a kafir and no ibadah will be accepted from you till you leave him and repent sincerely. Tell me is it worth it? i mean throwing away the life in hereafter and swapping it for a hell fire? I'm sorry to say that it's either your fault or your parents fault that your in this situation because you didn't study up about Islam and there for not only your commiting a big sin by seeing him your walking on a thin line. It's every bodies duty to young or old, to parents to seek knowledge about Islam even to kids, because Masha