deep inside, that men will always want them only to have sex with. The real problem here is that most of these drastic, life-changing, traumatic, and life-lasting decisions and beliefs are made by a child who still does not have the mental capacity to reason out what really happened. She does not yet know how to understand that these decisions she is making, based on the wrong actions of another, will haunt her and control practically every decision she will make for the rest of her life.Worst of all, her decisions are based on error, believing something that is not true. As far as she is concerned, what happened to her is the REAL proof that she is believing the truth. And, along life's road, she will make many decisions in which she will put herself in bad situations with men, and further "prove" that she was right. The loss of a parent, usually the dad, to death, or the divorce (or long term separation) of the parents, can cause young boys to develop a sense of fear of abandonment. This fear is referred to as the "Orphan Syndrome." Those who suffer from this syndrome have feelings very much like real orphans. Real orphans, or children whose parents have died, and they are being raised by someone else, develop a lasting fear that they will be abandoned again. Even if they get to the point where they can understand mentally that their parents died, and did not choose to just