you known or been with T. But like what Suzzy suggested, you don't have to introduce him as your boyfriend to the kids at this early stage. Just keep watching to see how he is like with the kids and time will soon show you a clearer picture. If your husband has the paternal rights to spend certain hours or days with the kids then it is really beyond your control what he does with them as long as he keeps them safe and deliver them safely back to you.  I can understand how worry you feel thinking of the little ones in his care. Unfortunately this is part of "divorce issues" that you have to face. Perhaps you can mention this concern to the health visitor or counsellor and see if they can reassure and make you feel more at ease? It is a total new life and new beginning for you and lots of adjustments to make. Take it step by step. You need lots of support from family and good friends too. Don't worry about what others think of you. You know you have found the love of your life and you are still a responsible mum. All the best, Renee. Be brave and you will cross all hurdles in life with the right support and sensible planning. Emily Hi Emily, Thank you for your encouragement. It has been exactly 4 weeks today since I last saw my BF. But you know what, I have been thinking