This past summer I found out my husband of 10 months (together for 16 years prior) was accessing online dating services (says he never had any physical relationship), had a second cell phone that he used to call escort services (he says simply out of curiosity), continually was pulling up adult web sites (pictures of women, porn, etc.) while sitting in the living room with me watching TV. He went to therapy and counselor stressed that he is having problems getting older. I am 8 years younger and was widowed 2 yrs. prior to dating him. Moved in with him 3 yrs later and it took me 16 years to decide to marry. Now, I'm faced with my 1 year wedding anniversary in 1 week and as hard as I'm trying to believe what he says, I'm constantly thinking of his infidelity online and having trouble believing him saying "he never would". Would like to hear of similar situations and how handled. Posts: 2 | Registered: Nov 2012 jandjs1st ? Member Member # 36087 Posted: 1:33 PM, November 13th (Tuesday), 2012 I am so sorry you are in this situation. There are others here that can give better advice than I can. I don't have any experience with WH being involved with exactly what you are describing. I will say it doesn't sound good. ad a second cell phone that he used to call escort services This is a huge red flag. Why have a second phone? Escorts are not