does not improve, you should apply to the court for a residence order which is an order that your daughter live with you. This may be temporary until the housing situation is sorted out. Good luck. Q. Hi, Can you assist or direct me to somewhere where I can find more information. All the info. I read is derived from mum and dad divorcing etc and the children being enabled to maintain meaningful contact. However, I was never with my child's biological father and he only saw him a handful of times when he was very very young. My child is now 8 years old and lives with me and my fiancee who has been in his life since he was 3. He calls him Dad although knows he is not his biological father. The biological father wants contact, he has had indirect contact for 6 months and will inevatibly be given further contact when we return to court. However, my son really does not want to be forced into this he is scared of the situation and embarrassed by it as if it is something to be ashamed of almost. He is also very cross that his bio father calls himself Daddy. I am worried they will force too much on him, too frequently and too soon and do more harm than good. A. Hi thanks for the question It is great that your son is communicating all of this to you at this age. You should relay his