keep it all going Quote: Originally Posted by lesley70 Have any other BS been almost certain their WS had learned a lesson, given then a second chance to have it blown back in their face? Oh yes 4/5 chances - it got worse and more brazen each time even though with me the marriage was as she often put it "mostly fantastic" Only time removes the fog. You Will know given time if what he is doing is genuine and not just a knee jerk reaction. And you will know if there are huge holes, or small holes, in his story and explanations. These holes generally (always) mean deception. Lies. __________________ If they WANT you to get over 'IT' they ask 'What can I DO FOR YOU to make it better?' Originally posted by TRy: Question: How does a cheater say screw you? Answer: They say "trust me".