love to go around..the only thing im really worried about is the routine will be turned upside down as some of my time after my son fineshes school goes on helping him with hes homework.Im not complaining though id just hope i have time for both not just the one. We are trying for our second child, our son is 5 years old and we have been together for 11 years i am 24 and my partner is 29, my partner only ever wanted one child i have always wanted two i am over the moon when he came out with he would love to have another because he does not want to be too old before having another i think him being 30 next april has hit him hard lol but im scared of the age gap if we ever fall pregnant?? has anyone got any view they would like to share please?? xx We are planning on trying again next year. We already have 2 with an age gap of 16 months and I love having them so close. When we do concieve pretty much straight away the smallest age gap will be 4 years and I am a bit worried about it being too big and for the new arrival to be "the baby" forever.. And we "can't" start now as my husband is due to go away for 7 months.. I'm really torn as I don't want a too big age gap :| Select your preferred