Open Question Why is she not making it exclusive?!? (10pts)? The girl and I are both 22. We went on 4 dates- first coffee to meet (we met online), then I took her to a fancy restaurant, then a long date at a museum she loved, dinner and walking through the NYC, and then the last date was movie and dinner. We both are very busy with work, so we generally go out on saturdays, and then otherwise talk maybe 20-30mins a couple of other days usually to setup our dates. The 3rd date, she was throwing herself at me, she isn't at all slutty, but would lean all over me, and cuddle, and kept kissing me, and seemed to be really turned on. Then she went away to another country for 2 weeks, and even emailed me while she was gone and got me a very small gift when I saw her on 4th date from her trip. I showed up with flowers on 4th date, and she loved them...kept asking me questions, and told me I treat her so well and am so thoughtful. When I dropped her off at her place, she didn't get out of my car, but instead stayed there for 2.5 hrs mostly advancing on me...kept saying she was going to go for the last hr, but kept staying, falling asleep on me, kissing, trying to get my shirt off, etc. Here's the issue....mid-way during date she jokingly said "oh you probably say that