out on the one due to someone not having "brown hair" but its all a filter for that period of where you are in your mindset. Second of all I recommend you ladies all trying to find your feet -- read this book (this is not a plug, it was actually handed to be by a fellow sister) it helped me change my approach to men with regards to dating. Its called "The Manual" By Steven Santagati (featured on Oprah) published by Allen & Unwin. Do yourself a favour and read it! I agree you do have to kiss alot of douches before you find your prince and I am still on my quest, but its NOT a priority at the moment -- the priority now is me. If you need a little bit of motivation -- listen to the lyrics of Madonna's Express Yourself -- when I was a kid i loved this song and my interpretation of it was speaking up for one self. Now as a 30 year old it has changed in meaning ... for me it now means don't be afraid to test a man/woman and have the ability to speak up and work on your terms -- and don't make someone a priority who only makes you an OPTION (or second best) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GsVcUzP_O\\... How do you know if you've met your prince? I was with a douche for 5 years (a douche I thought I'd marry), and when I came out of my shock-induced