see if I can be happy in my marriage again. Jenny, yours is a case of "to love someone is to set them free". You sound very much in a very trapped marriage. Is your husband a lot older than you? How are things like at home? Do you two get on generally well otherwise? Is he a good father? My husband is a great father, that is why I stayed. I see many good side in him, which is the reason why I find it difficult to leave him. I dont think its difficult for W to find a girl (whether its the right girl or not is another question). He's near perfect in my eyes (and I am sure to many girls). It's not everyday I meet a guy that I could fall for who also happens to live in a stunning penthouse. Push material thing aside, I am firstly and mostly attracted to his looks and personality. Even if he has an average lifestyle, I would still be very attracted to him. The sad thing is in my perfect dream world, I want to live my life like that with someone like him. That would be what I call "living my dream life". I did for a moment. And shame that I have to wake up and face the real world. Now even if I "look around", i won't be able to find one like him. I sometimes wonder "is he too good to give up?". I