and I wish you the best of luck to see your daughter as much as is good for her! Q. My partner is currently dealing with the csa for a claim that his ex made. we have the children every weekend aprt from 1 a month due to work commitments we feed them, clothe them, provide toys for and take them on holiday. we have a child of our own that I receive child tax credits for. We have been informed today that these child tax credits can be taken into account when calculating the csa payments. Is this true and how can that possibly be right that money I get paid for our daughter can bgiven to my partners ex to look after children that she is already claimimg tax A. Hi there This all depends on whether you are married and who receives the tax credits. You will need to discuss your case with the Child Support Agency I'm afraid. Q. Can I stop all access to my children during and after my ex husband serves his current conviction and imprisonment? A. Hi You have a duty to protect your child and therefore, if you feel that contact is not in your child's best interests, you may choose not to facilitate it. Particularly if you are satisfied that there is a risk of harm. If your ex wants to have contact, he may apply to the court for a contact order and the court would decide whether contact