I'm in the same situation -- disabled, chronic pain, artist, no "visible disability" (even when I'm in my chair), and nobody understands that it takes us longer to do *everything*. I'm honestly surprised you even humored your neighbor this far! You're an adult and a provider, why on earth would you do any unpaid work for someone who's been so appallingly disrespectful to you? I mean, she's not just underbidding you, she's being actively insulting. Send her a professional quote for the project and tell her that you typically charge half up front. If you do one on spec, or give in 'just this once,' you're agreeing that it's OK for people to treat you that way. You've probably spent $20 of time already just stressing out about it! Jeez. Don't let horrible people like that push you around. I can relate. I tat and you think that you have hours spent in what you do....having a larger project done in a week would be heaven. People who have never done any needle work or crafts of any kind have no idea the labor of love that goes into a project. You might have your masterpieces on display, but I would recommend that you stick to the simpler plebeian designs that work off fast to keep those costs down for people such as this one. However, I think that she might be needing someone to pray for her....she must be a very lonely person if she is that critical of