reverse it. It's true that success rates drop the longer it goes before getting it reversed, but it's still worth a try. Also, go to a professional, a microsurgeon that does VR's (VE's) on a daily basis as his sole source of income. Someone who is nationally recognized as one of the best VR surgeons, that way your chances will be greater. (Your chances will be about 50/50 in being able to get pg. See my first source for a chart of success rates in relation to time passage from vasectomy to reversal.) This is a precision surgery that not every doctor is skilled enough to do. Practice makes perfect...and going to someone who does reversals daily instead of one who has done say a handful a year, makes a huge difference. At the time of reversal, sperm can also be banked in case the reversal is unsuccessful. Then IVF would be an option. And if that doesn't work, then there's either getting a sperm donor or adoption. GL BTW, I'm a reversal wife and mom!