and gives you so much more time to actually do what makes the other person happy. Sometimes it's not easy to ask for things out loud -- and you don't have to. Instead, write down on paper what you consider to be a romantic date, and leave nothing to the imagination. Include everything you find romantic, from having the door held open for you to dining in a particular restaurant. Be very detailed from the beginning of the date to the end. Then hand your partner the note and tell him or her that you're craving a little more of this. So many people make the mistake of thinking: "Oh, but if he loves me, he should just know what I want." But the only way to ever be sure is to tell him. The "We" Spot Everyone knows about the G-spot, and no self-respecting sex book should be without mention of it (we'll get to it a bit later). But the only way to get the most satisfaction from the G-spot, and all of the other pleasure centers, is to go through the "We-spot" first. The We-spot can be a state of mind. We talked about connection earlier -- and that's what it's all about. Feel emotionally connected to each other and you'll want to physically connect to each other. Over and over again. Just for Him . . . There are thousands of ways to show your partner how much you think about her and how much she