stayed with her mother while waiting for her visa to join her aunt in USA. The mother "gave" her to a man when she was in her early teens. He prostituted her. She managed to run away and joined her aunt later. She has three children each from a different man. Her oldest daughter died suddenly last year. While she is still mourning for her daughter, her mother is constantly asking for money. She questions why did her mother do this to her. The m(Other) is a terrifying Other to whose will and jouissance they are submitted, helpless in the confrontation to the mother's feminine jouissance . From the m(Other) to the Partner-symptom to the language of the master I propose that there is transference from this ravage in the rapport to the m(Other) or the partner to the Other of society. They abide to the rules and the laws paying more than their pound of flesh but they reject the language of the Other. Their survival as subject of desire is at stake. Libido as a lost object is concentrated in lalangue . Refusing the language of the Other, constitutes their last refuge against an absolute Other. It is a way to render the Other incomplete. They would never have sought for psychotherapy. Their physical symptoms brought them to the Hospital and they handed their bodies to science. If they had not been referred to Mental Health Services these patients will have been treated only for their physical symptoms,