he or she wasn't by your side. But what about lately? Staring is an effective, and not to mention hilarious, way to connect with your partner. It forces you to focus your attention on the one all-important place -- your partner's face. When I stare at my partner's face I focus on features I already love, notice things I may not have seen before, and develop a deep appreciation for his dimples, his extraordinary eyes. And when I do, I feel closer to him. It's a bonding thing. It's also jarring, in a very pleasant way, for the other person, who's not used to all the attention. And you can even take it to the next level and make a game of it. Why not have a stare-off contest? Whoever wins gets a kiss, and the game gets hotter as it progresses. It's a silly game that can bring you hours of laughter, not to mention lots of sex if you're good at it. So be sure not to stop at one round. The more you play, the more you'll be collecting -- or giving, which is just as good. Towel, Please In romance, it's the little things that mean everything, and the most ordinary situations sometimes provide the best opportunities for showing just how much you care. Here's one that fits that bill nicely. The next time your partner takes a shower, plan to be waiting just outside the door for him or her to emerge with a fresh,