is where negging comes in. Negs are, at their core, just things that a guy wouldn't say to a girl who he was trying to pick up. So just say (my favorite neg) "you and I would NOT get along". Believe me, that neg does a remarkably good job of geting women to chase you. Also, one other thing -- Negs aren't insults. There are a lot of guys out there who think "You look like you're wearing a wig" is a neg. These people are dumb and you should ignore their advice.