shorts hanging out the top? what would an alien think of that? that human males try to attract the attentions of the opposite sex by demonstrating that they don't know how to dress themselves? that the sexuality of human females is strongly tied to the mothering instinct, so that a male who appears to require assistance with fastening waistband/belt is a particularly hot prospect? curious indeed... Diane January 22, 2008 08:32 PM It is interesting how women generally expose more flesh when they dress but what about when men and women undress. For some reason my boyfriend never lets me see him naked when the lights are on. I wont lie, I have slept with more than my share of men in my life so I have seen all sorts of shapes and sizes. My man always acts so confident when we are out but once we get to the bedroom, the lights are off before the clothes. Has anyone any idea what is going on? I guess the first time I started thinking about this stuff was last year when I read Shiela Jeffrey's Beauty and Misogyny in which she discusses the "differences written into what men and women wear." Nineteenth century feminist Elizabeth Cady Stanton tackled this subject as well when she asked: I'll bet you did bloody well in the MS Readathon when you were a kid. Wake up people! January 22, 2008 08:36 PM Women might have to work a bit to find clothes that are