the `average girl'. That's probably not a popular opinion, but I call `em as I see `em. And she does freely admit that she would not have survived without her housekeeper/nanny/all around extra family member who was with the family for many years. Not to mention her husband who supported her in all the best connotations of the word. The last portion of this slim collection does deal with the myth that women can have it all. You can as long as you have plenty of help, understanding employers, and don't mind a heaping helping of daily guilt. Maybe in another fifty years women will find a way to have it all. But for now, if you feel as if you're the only one drowning, you should read this and breathe a sigh of relief. Just make it a short sigh; dinner's not going to make itself. Yet. 4 of 4 people found the following review helpful 5.0 out of 5 stars The Real Deal Mar 3 2012 By Steven Lance - Published on Amazon.com Format: Hardcover | Amazon Verified Purchase Forget "Mad Men," Jane's book is The Real Deal. She names names. She tells it like we all knew it really was. Shame on us for our neanderthal attitude towards women - and brava to brave women like Jane who were willing to play by rules that worked for her - while accepting (but still challenging) the realities of The Boys Club. It was people like Jane who inspired