Undecided Question How can I ask my boyfriend if he's into drugs? I've recently been told my new boyfriend is a big drug user, I don't believe it because everytime he's with me he doesn't come across as if he's dependent on drugs or anything like that he smokes which he knows I hate and threw his cigarettes out the car window when I complained haha, someone at work told me they know someone who went to school with him years ago, I know he used to take drugs but that's his past, when I asked him if he was taking them now he said no and got really defensive saying how can we be together when u don't believe me, and I'd only asked I'm not sure if he's lying and I don't know what to do I can't be with someone who's into drugs the thought disgusts me, if I find out he's lied il be gutted I just want to know the truth without him being so defensive and kicking off Source(s): kicking offf was a very odd reaction normally i would expect an ex user to be almost proud of being clean if it were less than a year more than a year? they would say yes but that was xx years ago, we all did stupid things when younger you are correct to be curious, its a huge deal breaker you need to do your homework here and decide for yourself the one thing i