make your character dynamic, but it also gives you that smudge of mystery that is incredibly hard to resist. Most guys will be impressed by you're self-sufficiency, and it will give you a good reputation. 3 Don't be too dramatic . Sure, those girls may seem like they're getting more attention than the chill ones, but guys only pay attention to those kind of girls because it is fun to see what stupid thing they'll do next. You don't want to be that kind of girl, because that is very easy to not want. Don't be impassive, or a push-over, but stay out of arguments that can be avoided, and make sure to be polite and to respect everyone, even those that don't respect you in return. 4 Know that self-confidence is key to being "that girl" . Have you ever noticed how it's never the lowly, self-pitying girl that gets the guy? There is always a high level of confidence in the women that receive the most attention; more importantly, the positive attention. So instead of bringing yourself down, be proud of what you have, and it will reflect off on others. 5 Focus is another thing that is greatly admired . Setting and completing goals does not only make you successful in life, but also in love. You have to go in with both eyes open, and make sure that you know exactly what you want out of a situation. 6 Work on your body language . It