about but I did not. I took the liberty and decided that I MUST marry the father of my child for obvious reason. Hey, I don't want to hear "he is not my son" phrase had I marry someone else. That for me is detrimental!. Yes, I love my fiancee but, we have been away close to 2 years and he was not there for the entire time I was pregrant! You thought I would have been wiser. The other male aspirants were not also visible as they are thousand miles away too. I guess what I am trying to say, choose wisely. If I would have a chance, I would have followed my heart more than what's traditional. I don't know if I would have the same life now but at least, I would have been bolder (while still young) then to stand and decide from my heart. Had a met the guy I had an affair with 6 months ago in the last 10 years, not being married, I could have chosen not to get married! I think it's the excitement and how it makes us feel better about ourselves that makes us vulnerable with our choices. Now that the affair is over, I can boldly say that all I want is stability in a relationship. You know that he will be there for me no matter what. The assurance that he will love me even if I have lines in my forehead. That he will be there