Resolved Question How do I forgive all the people who bullied me? I got bullied a lot during most of my childhood and school years and I didn't have many friends either. But my family made it even harder for me by yelling and blaming me for it if I ever retaliated. This was the worst and most difficult time in my life because my family, especially my dad and older brothers were very mean and insensitive to me because they kept lecturing me how it was my fault, in fact they acted like everything was my fault because I can't take a joke and I'm really sensitive and they often took the bullies' side and showed no sympathy or consideration for me at all . In fact, they seemed a lot more interested in making me look like the bad guy than actually solving the problem and they kept telling me the only way to stop it was to ignore them and they actually thought they were helping when they were just making it worse. But what they didn't realise was that ignoring bullying doesn't usually work because even if I did try to ignore them the bullies still continued to humiliate and make fun of me and they just wouldn't leave me alone no matter what I did and I was too surrounded by them. I was often thinking of committing suicide because it was just so awful and so overwhelming and I felt like nobody would help