any more hurt. However, it's not up to me to fix or heal anyone- but myself. AND, if a hurt person is hurting me, GET OUT OF THE WAY! We are all responsible for our own actions!! I no longer willingly participate with those who don't treat me with respect and kindness. Let us GROW in strength and conviction- to protect ourselves and surround ourselves with other, like minded people. Feeling better and better, everyday, for taking control of my LIFE! It is MY life, so it's MY choices and MY decisions- nobody elses. Purchased my new futon online and it arrives soon. The separation continues and it's the right thing to do. My prayer is to be graceful and kind, as I make this transition. Why? Because that is who I AM. Off to yoga today; I graduate this Friday in this yoga/teachers training. Proud of myself, for completing this HUGE month long intensive. I DID IT! I am stronger inside and out! Thank you for your posts surrender. Your hopeful attitude is inspiring. Have you heard of ho'oponopono - you can go to the wiki page and read up on it. It's a rather simple and easy way of letting go of things/people/just general stuff that stops us from healing on our life's journey. In some ways it also helps the person you're ho'oponopono-ing. All you have to do is say, "I am sorry (i.e. for not being the person you want me to be, for not taking