Resolved Question He wants to have sex without a condom? my boyfriend has had sex before without a condom and i'm a virgin. i'm happy to sleep with him if he wears a condom but do you think it's fair if i say i'll sleep with you without a condom if you get tested first? do you think that's a fair deal so to speak. i'm on the pill so there'll still be protection but obviously now from sti's etc. also, as i'm a virgin, do i need to get tested? he's my first boyfriend too. we're both 19. thanks :) Best Answer - Chosen by Voters He is your boyfriend and not willing to protect you? From possible STDs and possible pregnancy? The Pill is good but not perfect for birth control. When determining BC methods, evaluate what you both have to lose if pregnancy occurs. Not all STDs are prevented by condoms. Not all condoms work as advertised all of the time, either for STD or for pregnancy protection. Again, they are good, not perfect. What do you have to lose, potentially? I urge everyone entering a sexual relationship to get tested for common STDs- you are trusting each other not only with your emotions but with your health. Start with a clean slate and hopefully both will never, ever make a mistake. But- again- at your age and in your (presumed) circumstances, the Pill plus condom is the wisest thing. And you know darn well there will