them because I cant be flexible with my hours!!! We are not asking for any sympathy or anything just a little advise as to where to go. I have actually contacted the job centre this morning about some kind of training for my partner so he can train to do something that will be suitable for him.....yet again we get a big fat no. What about your partner putting in a claim for DLA? this isnt based on what other benefits he gets and he will still be able to keep it if he gets work. Its worth a shot if you think hes eligable/meets the criteria. Also would a bike help him with the school run? Could he walk with your child there and cycle back home? and then cycle there and walk back for the return journey? There is less stress on the feet from cycling as the wheels take the majority of the weight? The gentleman would need to be in the support group of ESA for his payments to continue anyway. Have you considered bankruptcy or something similar to get rid of the debts that are dragging you down? At least you could then start with a clean slate. Have a look at the debt free wannabee and bankruptcy boards on here and seek advice from one of the debt charities. If you are able to pick your daughter up, assuming you leave in a area where there are breakfast clubs facilities, your partner will be