site, that's not useful.  Yet another wants to define his audiences carefully when sharing opportunities -- essentially google circles. And another mentor wants to opt-in to hearing about certain people's opportunities (a la twitter follow), not have information thrust at him like email today...so how the heck could that work?  A double opt-in follow model?! Somewhere along the way one of the investor mentors gets really excited too: "This is BIG guys..this is the opportunity graph". And we spend hours discussing whether the headline for the site should be "We help you share great opportunities" or "We help you find great opportunities." It sounds completely absurd in retrospect, but we were too far down the rabbit hole to see it. Weeks fly by and we're no closer to releasing a product or having a solution we're confident in. We meet with Nicole Giaros, who runs the adminstrative side of Techstars out of Boulder. It's one of our most important meetings because we know she's a down to earth "normal" (ie not an early adopter) which means she'll have a good perspective. Nicole listens intently as we explain everything. And then she says the smartest thing we've heard in weeks: "It sounds to me like you're making a something for somebody to do something." When we last left off, our protagonist's existential crisis had taken a turn for the wor... oops, wrong story. To recap: conversations with Techstars were going strong. I was more excited than ever about Friendslist (the build-your-own