ey folks, i'm in a five yr relationship; which began as two happy hermit stoners. problem is; I quit recently and he is mad about that. He said he will never quit and thinks I'm an idiot for giving it up. He doesn't think it has any baring on me or my problems. Ha! Ha! yes. I know weed farked me up for a long time. Smoked for nearly 30 yrs, but now I want no part of weed. And I do yoga, am losing weight and he is mad. Yoga is for pollyanna's and again, he is angry. At the second year point in this relationship, he had his first full out RAGE. It was not pretty. They regularly began to happen; his rage at world, show biz, the white man, childhood pain, you name it, it's a long list! So, it killed the loving, we started out with. In fact, I just couldn't make love to a man, who is full of hate. It's been three years, no sex; roommates. I know, it's cruel to cut a man off, but I have my scars too; abusive men, so no spreadie the leggies for a mean man. Problem is; he is often suicidal too. He has a variety of issues, including smoking weed from childhood to 50s! I want a new life, with health, peace, yoga, love. However, I feel bad that if and when I leave, he will off himself. I know, I know...not my problem, he needs