just leave us alone that i'd be too angry to try and reconcile and he could just get away...basically im on the verge of losing him. And he said he cant cope anymore with me being where i am and either i sort it out or he is gone. Kat Hi all, haven't logged in for a little while but read all the posts above. Ivan, Im glad you write again to update a bit on yourself and its good to hear from a man's point of view too. Well done for "sticking to your gun" and refraining from contacting her but continue to concentrate on your family. I'm sure it doesn't take "a snap of finger" and like magic, to erase our feeling off someone. It's going to hurt and continue to hurt a long time (for most people) but we must continue to focus on our priorities and put some sense back into our life once again. Although when feeling "dizzy in love" with W, I was on cloud nine and have secret smiles paste on my face a lot but I had a lot of stress and uncertainties that come along with that so it wasn't all positive and lovely. I no longer sit and yearn for W like a lovelorn person but i have come to term with our break up. I am happy to move on and seem to enjoy my family life once again. Now and again, he pops into my head but that's