therefore he is staying away too out of pride? God! The more I think, the more confused and stressed I am. I am rather good with advising others but I am hopeless with my own problem. You have so much love to give and come across as a passionate woman with genuine feeling and capable of giving yourself selflessly, you deserve a man who can give as much as you in return. There is nothing wrong with you, its just in life sometimes its a question of meeting someone at the wrong time.... Just like in my case. He's 10 years too late. I am also wondering. Am I not worth him sacrificing and adjusting his bachelor lifestyle? Why is he hesitant to build a future plan with me and my kids? Does it show his love is not strong/deep enough? Or is it too soon to ask for? Am I rushing him? Or he didn't want to break my marriage and be the bad guy? Initially he thought my marriage was already over long before we met but suddenly I looked at him in the eye and said "Our relationship is posing too much risk in my marriage." And suddenly the pressure and guilt is placed on him. W to me is my dream guy. I have always dreamed of a guy like him and could fall deeply and madly in love with someone as near perfect as him. He has everything I wanted in a guy and to