sex, and you don't even want to want sex, then this is not a good sign,' says Paula. Stress , tiredness and kids can all put your sex life on hold, this is normal. But if you're both making excuses to not sleep with each other or you don't fancy your partner anymore then it could be a sign that it's time to move on. Before you decide it's over talk to your partner to see if there's a problem. Try to re-ignite the passion you once had with new sex positions or if that feels like too much then start slowly with just a bit of foreplay . Is it over? It depends. If you've explored all the reasons why you don't fancy him/each other anymore then it might be time to move on or even just try a break. 3. You can't remember the last time you were affectionate with each other 'When we touch we release a chemical which makes us feel bonded to our partner, so touch is essential,' says Paula. 'If you really can't bring yourself to be affectionate with each other then you need to deal with the underlying causes. Sometimes so much distance builds between you that touching feels false. You need to get close through communication then hopefully touch will follow naturally,' says Paula. Is it over? No, if you take things slowly you could rekindle your romance We'd like to let you know that this site uses cookies. Without them you