while. many people think they can leave problems behind them when they hit the road, but that is rarely the case and some problems can actually be exacerbated by being away. See how you feel after you've been away a while. A bit of time and distance from recent events will help you come to the right decision. I wondered why you had been missing from chat for a while Bill, sorry to hear your news. Get away by all means have a break and see if the life suits you. Keep the way open to return should you decide to at a later date. Just because Jay is with his father does not means HE no longer wants to see you so don't put too much permenant distance between you both. Enjoy the winter away use it to recuperate and build your strength. As to where to go get off the ferry turn right and follow your nose. good luck mate. [QUOTE=Wildman;674647]I wondered why you had been missing from chat for a while Bill, sorry to hear your news. Get away by all means have a break and see if the life suits you. Keep the way open to return should you decide to at a later date. Just because Jay is with his father does not means HE no longer wants to see you so don't put too much permenant distance between you both. Enjoy the winter away use it to recuperate and build your strength. As to