to do, what you've already done and/or what you're doing wrong in every situation. I hate it even more when people assume you want their opinion. If I didn't ask for your help, it means I don't want or need it, so please, keep your thoughts to yourself! I'm guilty of making snap judgements as I'm sure all of us are. It's in our nature. What matters most is what we choose to do with those judgements. Just last week, my kids and I were grocery shopping, and my youngest was throwing the tantrum of all tantrums. He wasn't touching things on shelves or throwing groceries like the child mentioned in this post, but he was screaming, flailing in my arms and nothing seemed to be working. Every attempt to calm him just made it worse, so I put him back in the cart, and let him work it out on his own. You wouldn't believe the reaction from the other customers! I expected some stares, eye rolls, some tsk-tsking and maybe a comment or two, but what happened was absolutely ridiculous. One woman, who was also shopping with her children, told me I had two choices: "Pick a GD bag of lettuce or get my psychotic child the F away from her." An elderly gentleman flat out asked me if I could just tell my son to shut up. Oh, wow, Sir! I never thought of that, thanks for the tip!.... Two others told me to leave, one told