you of someone else? This might be very beneficial for you to find out what this is all about for you. This does not necessarily mean you have to change how you feel about this type of voice but you may indeed find some acceptance for yourself if you find answers to the questions you have asked here. I would like to hear from you again Mary as you think of some of the questions I have asked you. Dear Therapist: I have a girlfriend I live with. She works part-time. I work a full time job and a part time job. I am feeling resentful because she does not even do the housework let alone help me on my part-time job which is now another full time job. She says she will come and help me and then she doesn't yet she wants me to go partying with her. I am too tired and I would like to share time with her and I and not always go partying. She never can pay her half of the rent so I tell her it is O.K. and then I resent that she doesn't even help me out in ways that she could do so. I gave her a roof over her head when she couldn't afford to keep her apartment. I have done everything for her and continue to try to do so and she doesn't seem to appreciate me at all. Why do I tell her she doesn't have