so why should I? I wish them love and happiness even though I sometimes shook  They do not come into the mainstream of dialogue and work the site, they just wallow and rationalise and self-pity mostly. I The general run of the dialogue here is sycophantic in my opinion; self satisfied and self indulgent... The sad thing here for me Loob is that there is a lack of courage with respect to self-honesty and honesty to partners, so to me all I get is the sense that is a gossip circle and only certain kinds of self fulfilling posts will be 'invited'.As to whether partners are for life is too convenient a generalisation to explore really- it is not really a philosophical, social or existential question. It is just a rationalisation. I get a kind of sick feeling when I look at the trend of thoughts here because I think the protagonists are living a life that I used to consider normal, which in the end made me desperately lonely and depressed, and made me realise that I was deeply self deluded. I dont really think it matters too much if this article lives in its alternate reality here as there are alot of things to learn from it. Cautionary stuff... Help, opinions and advice is not really wanted or appreciated in my opinion Loob, and if you read the info on the site, it becomes crystal clear that these ppl are not trying to 'talk it out' or 'work