aha that reminded me of Ash Grunwald something fierce...go Ashyyy nelly January 23, 2008 02:52 PM ? Posted by: Strawberry on January 23, 2008 1:49 PM Blimey. I am seeing how it is that women of a certain age suddenly look like old ladies. They say you should only wear each fashion once and I have worn shorts such as you describe before in the dim and distant pas, in fact I think that the photographic evidence is in black and white! Not again, not now, not ever! I am queasy at the thought. the anvil January 23, 2008 02:53 PM I've always wondered why many men are so fooled by the packaging? Anyone can wear a skimpy outfit, but that doesn't automatically make them 'hot' - doesn't that depend more on a person's inherent sensuality Posted by: Lotus on January 22, 2008 9:36 PM good point. it's true. actually while i must admit i have no complaints when i see this sort of thing out & about (hooray for summertime!) art of me knows she's telling us all "feed me attention - i have low self-esteem" which might be suitable quality in a relationship for some men who have no personality to rely on keeping a woman happy - i don't find attractive in a partner much. And yes before I get contradicted by people, I know it takes an enormous amount of confidence to pull off some of these outfits ? but confidence in knowing you look HOT