being a good listener, and talk when it's your turn. 4 Give up your seat on public transportation . If you're on a crowded train or bus and you notice someone struggling to stand up (such as an elderly person, a pregnant woman, or someone with a lot of parcels), offer him or her your seat. Saying something like, "Sir, I'd be delighted if you'd accept my seat" can make the situation less awkward for the other person. If he or she declines, be gracious; say, "Please feel welcome to let me know if you change your mind." 5 Congratulate people . Offer your congratulations to someone who's just made a big accomplishment (such as graduating or being promoted), has added to his or her family (such as getting married or having a child), or has otherwise done something worthy of praise. Be a good sport. Congratulate anyone who beats you in a race, sporting event, election or other competition. 6 Be a courteous driver . Driving with good manners might seem outdated, but it's actually a matter of safety. Try to follow these tips: If you come to a four-way stop that another driver doesn't seem to know how to manage, just motion him or her to go ahead of you. Yield to pedestrians, and try to give cyclists plenty of room. Remember, your two-ton vehicle is a lot more dangerous to them than they are to you, so it's your responsibility to try to make sure everyone is