How hard is it to find girls around the age of 19-20 who are interested in a relationship that will last? I'm talking like 2 years +, personally I feel when I get into a relationship I do absolutely everything I can do to make it work and show my partner I love them. Re: How hard is it to find women that would like a really long term relationship? I'm 20 and I am only interested in a long term relationship...I love my boyfriend and intend to spend the rest of my life with him not so hard to find I don't think, but perhaps I only know about the girls I know! Re: How hard is it to find women that would like a really long term relationship? People want long-term relationships when they meet the right person. And possibly only when they have been with that person long enough to be able to judge whether the relationship has longevity. Sure, there might be girls who want a long-term relationship but have no one specific in mind, but on the other hand no one is immune to the right person and all these people who say they categorically do not want a relationship would probably change their views if they met this right person. What people want is largely influenced by their circumstances. If a girl tells you she doesn't want a relationship right now it is most probably her saying that she simply isn't interested in you.