knot, we will have a joint account that we will manage the bills from, but will still have our own accounts. The money that goes into the joint account will be proportional based on who makes what to keep it fair. We decided to do this because we are both in our 30?s and have some assets. It's easier just to keep everything separate than to combine everything. But who knows, as time goes on, maybe wi'll find out that's not the case! When it comes to splitting costs, I'm more of the don't stress about it, just take turns picking up the tab, and everything will work out in the end. Sharing accounts before marriage is not a good idea! Sure, if it works out, not harm no foul. But, if you split up you can get left with nothing. You also have tied yourself to some one else credit wise. The risk far outweighs the benefit. I definitely think you should talk about finances before marriage, especially any debt you have. I know a guy who got married and only found out after getting hitched that his wife had $100k in student loans and bad credit. Not a good way to start a marriage. However I am hesitant to share financial info while dating. I have never told a girlfriend how much money I make or what kind of assists I have. They get an idea by what I do, but they never know for sure. The only