When you bring up the issue, give your friend a chance to explain. There may be a misunderstanding that you didn't realize existed. If, however, you haven't yet addressed the issues with your friend, you have a decision to make. Do you really want to end your friendship then? Or are you just angry? Take some time to cool off so you can approach your friend in an assertive way that doesn't accuse. Ending a Friendship Through Email Ideally, you should never have any kind of break up through email, but the reality is that many people do. Sometimes it is simply impossible to talk things out with a friend. When your friend won't listen, you can send an email to break up. Some things to keep in mind, however: Make the email short and to the point. Don't pour out your heart because your friend will feel bombarded. Don't initiate an email fight . Sending nasty emails back and forth will only leave you both feeling horrible about your friendship. Emphasize the reason you feel you need to end the friendship, what you appreciated about your friend, and that you wish them the best. Focus on specific events and how they made you feel, rather than assuming why your friend did the things they did. Breaking Up in Person Depending on the length and closeness of your friendship, you may want to break up in person. This is especially important if your friend has been dear to you in