Resolved Question Been attracted to my friend for a long time - 5+ years? I met this guy for the first time about 7 years ago on a music course and we instantly clicked. The last time I saw him was Summer 2007 until Monday. We're now both 21, he is living in Birmingham and myself in London. I've always had a bit of a soft spot for him but I have no confidence in myself at all when it comes to relationships. Anyway, he is going out with someone but on Monday he came to London for the day for lunch and drinks with me and was telling me he can't seeing it lasting and is going to move out in December to a new flat that comes with his new job near Birmingham. We chat pretty much daily by text, in fact last week he was telling me how he had been really stupid and slept with someone when he was in London (the last time he came), and I think I'm the only person that knows. Anyway I don't know what to do about it. At the moment it's not really appropriate and I'm not even sure if he likes me anyway. Although we're chatting right now by text and being quite flirty with each other, although I know it's not appropriate with him seeing someone.