with the normal narcissistic abuse experience. But truly, it does not have to be this 'normal' way. Part of my awakening to how to heal narcissistic abuse, was the understanding that the narcissist is a magnified manifestation of our fears. Therefore if you have the 'normal' charges of fear, pain and distress running, the narcissist fuels up and hits you like a freight train. But what happens, when the fear and pain shifts? Miracles. Literally. That's what happens. Truly...I am not kidding you. I have seen it so many times, there have been too many 'coincidences,' too many things fall into place for the person shifting out of fear, and too many narcissists who have fallen over, given up, and failed.... These miracles include every topic imaginable, such as property, children turned against the non-narcissistic parent, smear campaigns, intimidation and any other nasty drama that narcissists do. Why is it property settlements are locked in battle for three years and then the narcissist signs the agreement one week after the shift happens? Why is it children who have not spoken to the non-narcissistic parent for 5 years make contact to reconnect out of the blue after the shift occurs? Why is it people who have been poisoned by the narcissist all of a sudden turn their back on the narcissist and seek allegiance with you when your pain is released on this? Why is it the stalking, the terror campaigns and threats stop and never recommence after the fear has