the shift information is released and stick to it. If it's planned well in advance, there is no excuse for cancellation. I hope that helps. Q. Hi, I know this is a site for dads, but hope you can help a Mother's query. I have recenty split from our baby's father (we were not married), he has moved out, throughout the relationship I have been the main provider (financially, etc) for our son, however I still want my ex to have fair access/contact with our child, my only problem is I am so frightened that he will decide to keep our baby and not return him to me, I have sought advice from a solicitor and they have advised to apply for a residence order and in the meantime only offer limited contact time - with me being present at those contacts, the only problem is, my ex says he finds this difficult and uncomfortable (due to the animosity we have for each other) and says this arrangement does not allow him quality time with our child, he is demanding that he be allowed his fair share of time (on his own) with our child i.e. 3 days per week - I am okay with the days he wants, but it is the fear that he may decide to keep our baby, that is preventing me A. Hi there I understand your concerns and just want to say well done to you for accepting your ex-'s role in this. Your