off while thinking about my wife, and fantasising about having sex with someone else other than my wife? And what about closing my eyes and imagining I am getting raunchy with a bevy of ' show biz personalities' while I am doing it with my wife? Am I being crass, egotistical, vain, amoral and insensitive? Is this wrong? Or is it o.k? Am I in denial? Seriously ?'ing the XXX IN SEX!!! Pls yelp! Daveangel. Oh April! I am really feeling into your pain with you! What a terriblle feeling it must be to feel the way you feel inside! The feelings must be awesome!!! The sun rises and it sets, but always at least we have our PASSION!!! Sun is hidden behind a few clouds here...wot to do? xxx and  PPPEEEAAACCCEEE!!!! daveangel. DA, seek help.  you are clearly on something and it is not helpful.  there are other sites which might be more appropriate for you.  I just hope that you have not scared people from this useful posting. To Daveangel I suspected very early on from your posts that you indeed also have issues. With respect, may i suggest you start/find a thread which may be more helpful to yourself. Good Luck with your journey. You 'suspected'? What 'issues' pray tell... Respect? Are you sure about this or is it personal? I suggest you move on and get back onto discussing your own ......, rather than getting yourself in a tizzy because I use a little irony... dave.