Ask questions when dating online -- and pay attention to the answers May 26, 2009 Do you remember the movie "Hitch"? There was a part towards the end of the movie where a bunch of males and females got together for speed dating. When that movie came out speed dating was a relatively new concept. Today, it has come to be something more common and a great way to get to know a lot of people fast. Still, to be a great speed dater you have to be good at regurgitating information quickly and asking interesting and important questions. If you like the idea of meeting a variety of people but dislike the pressure of time, than you might want to consider online dating. Online dating gives you time to meet people and ask the important questions. This way you can get to know someone really well. You can ask everything from the silly questions to the serious questions. While you are doing this, make the best of the time you are spending. Pay attention to the answers. They will tell you a lot about the person and help you to know if you want to spend more time with them. You might even want to write down a few things you are interested in knowing about the person so you don't forget as you are conversing. Have fun and enjoy your time getting to know each other .