faith is established, the she could go for extended amounts of time not receiving what she needs before she "sees the writing on the wall". By the the time she gets to that point, even if the guy tries to change his ways, it will take quite a while to build that faith back up (the ever so popular fact that saying "I'm Sorry" to a woman is the beginning of the process and not the end.) Now it really gets screwed up because the guy's idea of what it should take to restore her is totally distorted because for him, it should take a few weeks, maybe a month. But the woman has been in a tailspin for longer than he knows, so it may take months to build back up. After the guy tries for a while and she doesn't respond in the tiime that he thinks she should have, he begins to write it off as impossible. What makes it all totally go nuclear is that (GENERALLY SPEAKING) aside from the sex drive, men see sex as the woman yielding to him and accepting him, whereas for the woman it is a deeper area that is opened only to one who deeply esteems them as precious. This chain reaction makes the man even more desperate for sex/acceptance while making the woman less desirous for sex because it is no longer precious but demanded/expected. CONGRATULATIONS. You now have my theory behind the huge divorce rate. The way it