is the difference? I've seen and heard them gather around and sing. So you are all for discriminating against all members who have pledged and paid to be members. What exsctly are you saying Shani Davis? What Shani Davis is saying.........is that My Fraternity Should not have been involved in this ceremony period. We are about achievement and being the best in every field of human endeavor. Let us be honest here do you "Really" think that Every one on this blog would "really" be commenting on this issue if one of these guys was not a Kappa........Do you really think "Tom Joyner" would be discussing this on his morning show if one of these guys was not a Kappa. Let me answer that for you......HELL NO. As a lot of people have said before, These guys can live their life how they want to, we all have to answer to the good lord above and when the lord calls all of us home both of them will have to answer for their own sins. BUT I have a major problem when my "Coat of Arms" is at the top of this article as if ALL 300,000+ of my frat approves this message. As my frat brother mentioned above our Fraternity is about True Manliness. If you are a dude and you want to marry a dude go ahead and do your thing.....BUT keep my fraternity out of that situation BECAUSE our fraternity is not based upon that. Would the