of "need" that I met by being there for that person to rail on...or maybe it's God that the person needs and they hang around us because they know there's something missing in their life and they feel we've got it, and they don't know how to ask us about how to get it, so they just "nag" us about everything. It sounds like that lady has a need that she feels you can fill....maybe everyone in her life nags on her, and you're the only person that she can "nag" on (my mom is that person -- I can tell everytime she's having a fight with my siblings or my dad -- -I get an earful about everything I'm doing wrong.....used to bother me like crazy, but now, I start asking her what my dad or brothers are doing, and it changes the conversation). I bet that if you start asking her about God and what you can pray for her about, either she'll stop coming to you altogether or her attitude might change and the next time you see her, you can say -- "Hey, I've been praying for you...how's that situation of ____________ _____________ going??"