to believe that every person in the world has intrinsic value, and then look for it. Understand that their perspective is unique to them, and that is is beneficial. Seek what is helpful instead of being focused on what you find offensive. Always be asking what they can teach you. Search for what you can learn. You will be amazed at what you find. 2. Learn to listen. Most of us don't. We listen to people that we agree with because we already like what they are saying. but we rarely listen to anyone else. The only way to understand another person is to hear what they have to say. To listen with the goal of understanding, not arguing. If someone is offending you, then it is a good time to stop talking and start listening . If nothing else, you are less likely to say something you would regret. 3. Try something new. Like strange food, the reason we don't like something different is only because we haven't tried it. Ignorance leads to fear. Fear leads to being offended. Start with something simple like food or a cultural experience. If you feel courageous enough, switch to CNN or Fox News, depending on your political persuasion. Develop a spirit of courage and adventure. The only way to understand a different perspective is to try it. 4. Apologize. One of the main reasons we are so easily offended is pride . The most humbling thing you can do is apologize when