Resolved Question My boyfriends daughter may have been sexually abused? My boyfriends daughter is three, his ex claims that the three year old may have possibly have been sexually abused by his ex's father ( the child grandfather). Now his ex is a physcopathic liar. She claimed that my boyfriend hit her in the face. He was proven innocent. The only reason she lied is because she couldnt cope with that fact that he was with me. Now I dont know what to believe or think. My boyfriend has just met up with his ex and he is distraught. He wont talk to me. He has gone out with his mate and seen his mum and is too upset to talk to me. Im so upset because he blocking me out and not telling me whats going on. His ex has been trying desperatly to get back with him and she will make up any lie to do so. I dont know what to say, because the child may have been sexually abused... How do I talk to my boyfriend without sounds selfish, jealous and controlling.... I dont know what to say or do... If she has been abused than I will feel so bad... Best Answer - Chosen by Voters The child's father needs to contact the police and/or child services. If this child has been abused by her maternal grandfather it needs dealing with and if the mother is lying then she needs dealing with. Other Answers (4)