he may resent it which ultimately effects the children. The best you can do is explain to him how you feel. Explain how too little contact is impacting upon your daughter. Then perhaps suggest ways to increase it. If he is not agreeable then I suggest that you seek some advice from a professional as to how to deal with this issue so that your daughter does not feel unloved or abandoned by her father. Good luck. Q. My sons father keeps letting him down and it's starting to affect my son, should I stop letting him see him? A. You are correct to be concerned about this. It would be helpful to know what the issues are. However, it cannot be easy to see your son suffer and be let down. It is so important for the children to maintain a relationship with both parents unless doing so puts them at risk of harm. To justify excluding father from his life, it must be a serious issue. Children are resilient and forgive things like lateness and you could help him deal with that. Is the quality of the contact good when he does see his father? Think ahead because when your son is older, he will want to know why he was prevented from seeing his father. What will you tell him? Will he resent you for it? My advice is that you discuss the issues with his father. If you do not have dialogue, perhaps you could write