therefore, you are doing the right thing by listening to him and trying to make changes for his benefit. Try to explain to your ex that if he makes a few changes, his relationship will only improve and your son will start enjoying contact again. Best regards Harjit Sarang Q. I hope you can help. I am writing on behalf of my partner who has a gorgeous son with his to-be-ex wife. He currently pays double the amount that the CSA recommends on their website for maintenance. We actually can't afford to fund our own place to live for this reason (we currently live with family). He will do anything for his son, and it breaks his heart to only see him every other weekend (but he's not allowed to see him more). We would both happily see him more than that. In the mean time the mother wants more money, because his parental contact is less, and says her solicitor told her she should be getting a third of his gross income towards their son. He goes to private school (which they get a discount for) and have a house together which she and his son live in. She also wants to have more than 50% for the profit of the house. My partner would give his son any amount of money he needed, but meanwhile it feels a little like his ex is just trying to get all the money she can. The ex will never divulge how