whole lot of women out there who are too tired for sex let alone spicing it up with any fancy gadgets -- what do you say to those women? There is nothing more energizing than an orgasm (which by the way 60-80% of us don't achieve without clitoral stimulation so those fancy gadgets come in handy). It really comes down to priorities. You need to put aside the time for each other, even if it means cancelling something else because life is so busy. Mums often tell me how tired they are just keeping the kids happy and as a Mum I totally understand that, but your relationship as a passionate couple is debatably as important as your role as a Mother and the investment in time will pay dividends in your relationship. Monotony is a passion killer so bringing something new to the boudoir such as a pleasure object or seduction tool will re-kindle your love life and actually make you want to make more time for it. Take turns at bringing something new to try and eventually make your own adults pleasure box -- it's a great way of discovering your partner's real desires. What about women who think that it should be the men doing the seducing? Men often tell me that there is nothing sexier than their partner seducing them or bringing something new to the boudoir. The benefits of being the seducer is that you take the lead and often this is a great way