and encourage him to view it. If he acts weird and doesn't want you to see his email over-his-shoulder, you should wonder why. When you're out in public, leave your mobile phone in the car and ask him when you are far away from it if you can borrow his phone. Again, watch his reaction closely. Does he hesitate or look uncomfortable? Offer to help pay the bills if you don't already. Study the phone bill and the credit card bills. Look for strange phone numbers. If you find some, call them from a phone that doesn't belong to you and see who it is or search for the number online. Don't pick a fight with the person on the other line because the contact could be innocent. You'd hate to chew out a florist and then have them deliver flowers to your door. If you see strange transactions on the credit cards, tell him that you are worried that your account may have been compromised and ask him if he knows about the charges. Step 5 Whatever you do, don't just assume that your man is cheating. We live in an age where paper and electronic trails drag quietly behind us each day. Infidelity is not impossible to hide, but it is challenging for a husband to share everything, including the majority of his time and money with his wife and still indulge another woman on the side. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but if he does