do is..." Spank, don't spank, time out, don't time out, daycare, don't daycare, homeschool, don't homeschool, breast feed, don't breast feed, be in charge, don't squash your kids' expression, because even though I don't have any children (or the ones I had are drug-adled felons) and I've never seen you before in my life and my eyes have never so much as passed over your child, I understand your child better than you do. I was married for about 48 and a half hours, so let me tell ya, you're doing it wrong.  Tell that mother-in-law that blah blah blah.  Tell him he can't treat you like that, you need to treat him better, never go to bed angry, "I'd NEVER put up with him bowling every week while I'm at home with the kids", if you were being a better wife he wouldn't even have to think about jacking off when you aren't home, he cheated on you with that woman so you just need to pack up and leave his ass, submit, be assertive, be more permissive, be less permissive, don't be so controlling, you gotta get that nipped in the bud. And I have to wonder, how do we arrive at the idea that every other person in the world understands nothing about his own life and is just waiting around for our input? Related Posts Comments (12) I absolutely love this post, I really do. I hate when people just assume they know what you need