when you start a conversation with her. The smile may disappear quickly if she's shy, but it's hard to hide an unexpected strong emotion. If she's not interested (that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, but she likely doesn't have a crush on you or romantic desire), she'll likely look at you inquisitively, but she won't express any particular strong emotion. 2 Watch for signs of flirting . If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Gregarious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and for the uninitiated, this general interaction can sometimes be misconstrued as a crush, so get to know the girl's general style around guys before making assumptions. Be aware that some girls have no idea that they're flirting. In this case, she probably likes you a great deal, since her subconscious is letting her body language do most of the talking. Most girls don't like to be obvious. With a girl who doesn't mind openly flirting, try to see if she is flirt with you a little bit more than with others. If you fancy a girl, never make the mistake of "flirting around". If she sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hugging you, she may simply assume she doesn't mean anything to you and will stop trying. 3 Check for random hugs, reserved mostly for you . Hugs can be a very openly and permissible affectionate way of getting closer to you and