am so agree with you. I have had very similar experience with you and NR. and  the affair has caused unbearable pain to me because I could not leave my marriage and and my lover has moved on with someone else. I am now working on my marriage. and trying to sort things out. It is not a smart way but we all do it. Sure great  price to pay! Ivan, I am so agree with you. I have had very similar experience with you and NR. and  the affair has caused unbearable pain to me because I could not leave my marriage and and my lover has moved on with someone else. I am now working on my marriage. and trying to sort things out. It is not a smart way but we all do it. Sure great  price to pay! Ivan, I am so agree with you. I have had very similar experience with you and NR. and  the affair has caused unbearable pain to me because I could not leave my marriage and and my lover has moved on with someone else. I am now working on my marriage. and trying to sort things out. It is not a smart way but we all do it. Sure great  price to pay! SSSOOO PPL... is it o.k. to jerk off? Is it only ever o.k to fantasise about my current partnerr when I jerrk off...? ( I need a womans perspective here!) Is there a distinction between jerking