Jo i am 22 and have been sh since i was 9.. though when i found out i was pregnant i managed to stop..and did it maybe 2 or 3 times in the pregnancy as i was worried it'd spark something up with midwives or ss or something. my lg is 6 weeks old and i am struggling tremendously with mood swings ( i have bpd and other mh issues) can i ask if annyone has been investigated about self harm whilst being pregnant or a mum? sorry Very sorry for than late reply thank you. For all the posts sons having my kids l don't harm as much even tho every bone in my body I screaming at me to reach for a blade I found tht the best coping mechanism for me is getting. Tattered o know that may sound od but it really dose help me when I feel mu worst. Would be great to talk to some other mummy s who self. Harm xxx Hi Hollie thank you for coming back to your thread. I can see that you've found a good coping strategy which is helping you remain SH free. As before I can see you really want to hear from other members and my reply will bump your thread up the board. I just wanted to say that I can see you've posted in the early hours of the morning, are you finding it difficult to get some rest at the moment Hollie or