your son and the dynamics of your family unit. I have to say that it is not an easy thing to do if your son has a maintained relationship with his father. Best Regards Harjit Sarang, Partner Family Law BEST Solicitors LLP Q. hi my exs parents want access to my son what are they intittled to ? i was going to offer once a month on a wednesday after school for a few hours A. Hi Samantha Contact is the right of your son. If you feel that it is in his best interests to maintain a relationship with your ex's parents then you should decide what level is appropriate. What you have suggested sounds absolutely fine. Continue to be led by your son and credit to you for acepting that your son has a right to get to know his grandparents providing that doing so is not putting him at risk of any harm. Best Regards Harjit Sarang, Partner Family Law BEST Solicitors LLP Q. I have a 7month daughter.me and her dad were never married and he chose not to be on the birth certificate. he doesnt see her regularly and he has failed to go to big events like first chrismas.he cancels last minute when we arange a visit.he now is demanding his name goes on the birth certificate and he gets to have her for a day. I have said no on the grounds that she doesnt even know who he is, he doesnt know