is much more important than words. Be open to people not only by the things you say, but the way you present them; for example, when you're talking to a guy, look him in the eye, stand facing towards him, and maintain eye contact. This sort of body language oozes confidence, and will make him like you because he can see that you like yourself. 7 Improve yourself, mentally, physically, and emotionally . Not only will this make you feel better, but it will also contribute to your ability to focus on what you want and get it. Discover your talent and let it show because that is one of the assets that a boy can be proud of. 8 Know yourself; your strengths, weaknesses, and hobbies . Get interested in something, and do things for yourself. This will show that you appreciate yourself, and that your standards are set at a reasonable level. 9 Be yourself . Being somebody you're not just stresses the entire relationship, and before you know it, you have a foundation of lies to build on, which is no foundation at all. This is most likely the most important, because guys go for girls that are distinctly themselves and cannot be swayed to join a bandwagon or a trend just because they need sufficient reasons. 10 Don't change for a boy . If you like certain things, don't abandon them. Do those things in your spare time if you really can't live without them. 11