you are doing this for Allah swt and not for a girl you like. In Islam, everything is about your sincere intention. Don't be nervous about going to your masjid. A buddy is always the best thing. Muslims are very welcoming to reverts. Ask your friend to go with you to talk to the Imam and join one of the Brother's classes. Before you go to the masjid, make sure you have showered from head to foot and cleaned your teeth etc. And wear clean clothing. You will learn more about ritual ablutions etc when you join a class. Re: In love with Muslim girl. Me undecided she can never marry you under any circumstance until you become Muslim for yourself. if you do this to her without being Muslim, you will cause trouble in her life with her family. so if you love her, then look into Islam, and do it properly. becoming a Muslim is wondrous any way so you won't lose out on anything. you gain her and much much more, Allah willing Re: In love with Muslim girl. Me undecided Originally Posted by OnTheSidelines Sorry but I don't understand why you saying I'm putting her in sin? She introduced herself to me and started our friendship, which I'm very thankful for we never see each other alone but with her sister present. Would you guys please tell me how you think I should go about this then? Thank you for your time salaams to all brother,