generally about sleeping around, it has made me really wary. I realise that going for a drink is not signing your life away but I now don't know whether to get involved at all. I hate to be anonymous, I agree it's unfair to expect you to be so personal without identifying ourselves. Perhaps I'll reveal myself after following your advice. But until then... -E Single boys sleep around. It's what they do. Lots of single girls sleep around too. That doesn't mean that's what they'll do in a relationship, maybe he just hasn't found the right girl yet? Go for a drink with him! You might like him and you might be his right girl! (Just don't sleep with him too soon!) xx I first discovered your blog about six months ago and fully expected to sneer at it, thinking it was just another "look at my life it's so fabulous" lifestyle blog. But you've completely won me over. You manage to be both accessible and in touch with your readers, whilst at the same time, aspirational too. Some of the topics you write about (spending the day at members clubs, partying with rappers etc.) could appear gauche or excessive in the wrong hands but you completely avoid this, and instead just convey a real sense of fun and make everyone want you as their best friend. In the ever-expanding ocean of bloggers you have a unique voice and talent and I think (and hope) that great success awaits