why you do not think contact is in the best interests of the child and it will then be for the grandparents to decide what further action they wish to take.   It is only once the Court have made an order that you would be obliged to make the child available for contact with the grandparents. Hello, I am just wondering if going to court to obtain Parental responsibility for my two daughters is worth the turmoil and hassle - the mother is just about to move them nearly 100 miles away - something I have had to accept and offer to do half of the journeys so I can maintain my current fortnightly contact. However, I found out that I do not have responsibility as we were not married and they were born before 2003. Although there has never been an issue with me not being involved with school and medical issues, my biggest concern is that she could get married and have this other person get responsibility without my say so, therefore leaving them as the sole carer of my children should anything happen to her. She is refusing to sign the paperwork despite me outlining my concerns saying that nothing is going to change and I will get the children, but my trust and confidence in her has been shattered by the way she has already arranged a move, new schools without even telling me until just over a month ago. I value your comments. A. The