" and  "cold", opinions based on fiction through best selling book and movie, The Devil Wears Prada, which Wintour herself is said to have found "very entertaining". Despite very public criticism about her, from animal activists to past colleagues,  Wintour remains untouched and highly influential, thanks to her super level of self- esteem, which she claims comes from being true to oneself and doing the work she loves. So you want to be in vogue? Then it's time to mean something and to do something! Make waves, do what you love and move up to the next level of criticism and reprimand comfortably with a level of Self-Esteem fit for a Queen! You can't be in vogue, sought after, in style  if you're worried about what other's will think or say about you and you certainly can't been in vogue if you're not making your own decisions and mastering your own life along the way . The CityGirl Guide To Being "In Vogue" 1. Stop Minimizing Yourself. The moment you maximize the other person relative to you, you've just denied your own power and lost your inherent confidence, it's Egg Shell Syndrome and it's so not fashionable to be tip toeing around others. Stop it! 2. Don't listen to people who give you feedback without your requesting it. Those who give you their advice and opinions, which is usually a passive aggressive guise for criticism anyway , are doing so for their own benefit! Stop listening to anyone whom  a)