him 2 years on". But I ask them "how long would you wait for your partner to get through this" and they seem to understand. We've been together for 12 yrs. But for me, it's the uncertainty of when this will break. When will the skies clear and be blue again? Will he ever get out of this cloud of uncertainty? And is he just 'happy' where he is? He works but it doesn't bring in enough income to survive. Mostly because he takes so long to complete things due to depression. I've now taken on a job. So now I have to work all day then come home and do all the chores. But it's given me a new lease on life, I feel like I'm worth something and can have a life away from home. And it's taken my focus off him, which takes pressure off him. I don't mean to complain but I feel so unappreciated all of the time. I feel invisible and I wonder if things will ever change? Or do I have to make the change by leaving? He doesn't seem to want to help himself preferring instead to ride this out. He's on medication but can go for days without it and there's a noticable difference, like a black cloud has entered our house. From speaking to a relative who suffers from depression he tells me it's the depression that is clouding my husband's mind regarding his feelings to me. But i don't