SHUTDOWN all of your FB's, MYS and TWTR accounts that have anything connections to the NARC, as they will torture and torment you and your children as they so desire. They are relentless in their devious efforts to continue watching and contacting you and your children. STOP the madness right away, as yet another boundary function you need to implement! Oh, how true!) 3.) Keep your cool. Narcissists are very good at pushing buttons; but it's important to remain calm. First, by getting upset you've given the narcissist ammunition to use against you. Second, the narcissist is incapable of believing that he/she has done anything wrong and the situation will only escalate. This is not to say that you shouldn't feel upset; but you should confront the narcissist calmly. (This is especially true if minor children are involved and caught smack in the middle of custody battles! Shield them from all negativity between you and the NARC! Do not bad mouth the NARC in front of minor children especially, as that can and will be used against you by the NARC in a court of law potentially. Be very wise and conscious of this fact!) 4.) Trust your feelings. A narcissist can easily have you believing that you are hypersensitive, have anger management issues or are prone to histrionics. Remember, the narcissist is incapable of realizing that there is anything wrong with his/her behavior. When you confront him/her, he/she may twist things around and insinuate that you are the problem.