He asked me if I am asking for commitment. I told him I can't make him commit because you just can't force someone to commit. I said it all depends on how strong his feelings towards me is and willing to put up with someone like me (with kids). I said if he chickens out, thats fine, we can still be friends, no hard feelings. But really, I like to know and I told him I am doing a lot of thinking. He said so is he. He is also thinking of our circumstances and told me he is not an irresponsible man. I think he doesn't want to be seen as a bad guy in splitting my marriage and want me to leave  my marriage for my own reasons, not because of him. In my mind, I am secretly thinking if he doesnt want to commit with me, I will stop seeing him and then try very hard to make my marriage work. Of course I dont want to tell William that because I dont want to place pressure on him and make him feel guilty. William told me he can't give me the answer rightaway because he wants to think about it. I thought he is really sweet by being honest. I know he likes me and cares for me but whether it is enough to want to make it long term is another question. At the same time, I am not going to give him all my