just due to vaginal tearing so don't worry too much. Consider reporting this person to the police - even if you know him, even if you like him, you may not want to get him into trouble but he was in the wrong here - a rapist should be reported because if they can do this to you they can do it to someone else. Other Answers (9) Your not going to report him because you don't want to ruin HIS life? What about the other girls he is most likely going to rape in the future when he gets drunk? A friend of mine was drunk and got raped by three (also drunk) guys at a party and she got herpes from it. She didn't report it either, and guess what? They raped another girl about a month later. That SNAKE doesn't deserve your sympathy, and you are being selfish by NOT reporting him. But, what can I say? You seem pretty intent on letting him off the hook even though he committed a heinous crime against you. Until you realize how wrong this truly was, you will never be able to help yourself or anyone else. At the start you consented so then it wasn't rape. However, you told him to stop and he kept on going and more rough. That is rape. It is counted as rape if the man doesn't stop when the female tells him to stop. Go see a doctor please. You should not