consider them as your partner or spouse. If they indicate patience with you and themselves, a big maybe, otherwise, run like the cops are chasing you. These folks are a definite red flag and will not be afraid to hurt your heart, soul, family, friends, bank accounts and YOU! You would have to ask yourself - why were they divorced five times in the first place. I would concider maybe once or twice...but five that is too much to deal with...no thanks.Trust is a main factor for me and if the guy i was going to marry had done the dirty with each partner and that was the reason for all five divorces, i can't concider marriage...because he could do the same thing to me...and i couldn't deal with that. If the person who went through divorce was the victim/divorcee, than I'd give him/her all my compassion and love. And for the one who does the divorcing or is the reason why.... um.... it depends on whether they were just searching for a "better" lover. If they have serious issues though, then that is not worth getting into. Sure, practice makes perfect.That shows me someone who is not afraid to commit to a lifelong partner.If someone has been married and divorced obviously their spouse or spouses did not live up to their end of the bargain.Marriage is a lifelong committment of trust and faithfulness.Not trying to be vulgar or down on alternative lfestyles but to me the very essence of