yourself as you work your way through this. Eat. Drink plenty of water. Try to get regular sleep. You can make it through this. Keep reading. Keep posting. Hang in there. (((sadangry))) You can call me NIK ?Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.? ? Nora Ephron Posts: 9187 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: "Is this heaven?" ;-) StrongButBroken ? Member Member # 35229 Posted: 4:54 PM, November 13th (Tuesday), 2012 ((sadangry)) People don't get a secret phone for idle curiosity. That takes time and planning. Hiding the phone in and of itself is a direct act of deception. I doubt he has not made contact. IMO it doesn't really matter whether he has or hasn't - he definitely intended to. Read up on the healing library and keep posting here. First off NONE of this is your fault. People cheat because they are broken inside. Our stories may be different but we've all been there friend. Please know you are not alone.