fun anymore? And how many of us swore this would never happen to us when we were dating? Sadly, most married people don't have enough quality sex. Sooner or later, all long-term couples can fall into a sex rut, especially when you have kids. Parenthood takes a toll physically, mentally, and emotionally. With all the running around and huge expenses adding up, it's easy to see how sex can slip off the list of priorities for both partners. Sex doesn't have to be first on that list for a healthy relationship, but it needs to be pretty high up there. So let's start at the beginning. One of the most important ingredients of fun, kinky sex doesn't really have that much to do with sex at all. The first step is to fall back in love, and lust will soon follow. You'll see that if you lay the groundwork correctly, things will start clicking into place. In this short chapter, we'll get reacquainted with the simple art of romance -- of showing your partner they are more to you than the one who brings home the paycheck or drops the kids off at school. That they are a person you are still attracted to and want to be closer to. You may be shocked that something as simple as paying more attention to each other will lead to better sex, and the same goes for doing the dishes when it isn't your night, or complimenting your partner on something they