feminism, keeping their father's name -- a symbol of paternal familial ownership -- is still not any mark of feminist revolt and thus defeats the purpose of not taking a marital name! So, just thought I would share that, as it helped me make my decision when I wed. The true goal of the feminist revolution is to allow women choices, so choose whenever name you like and want most! ? Vicky Holmes - I am getting married in September and it has been quite a job deciding what to do with my surname. I work in academia, I have publications under my maiden name and therefore can't start publishing in another surname (although I know others who have). I have the option of having a work name and a personal name.  However, from people I know who have done this it can cause quite a headache. For example, travelling to conferences -- you are invited under your work name, but your passport has your married name. Plus, after 30 years of having this surname, I am simply just quite attached to it (I did consider the double-barrel route, but "Dyson-Holmes" sounds like a hybrid cleaner). Although, I won't be offended if people call me Mrs Dyson. People reactions to me not changing my surname has been quite surprising.  While others have said 'why would you?', others have implied I am not wholly committed to the marriage if I do not take my husband's surname. Asking my students opinion (most