my husband and I made, I chose to honor the Lord by not allowing those old thoughts and feelings to be fed again. It's true that we have become a highly desensitized society. We choose to watch sexual acts in movies and on TV, we choose to listen to songs that degrade and cheapen love relationships and encourage one-night stands. And where has that freedom of choice gotten us in America? Sky-rocketing divorce, single parenting, abortion, unwanted pregnancy rates! Good choices? I don't think so. As a mom of an almost 14 year old daughter, I pray that she will make good choices and keep her mind as pure as possible. If she was going to drink the HIV+ urine in front of any of you readers, I would hope that you would warn her against that choice. I'm grateful that Dannah has the courage to take a stand. You don't have to get hit by a train to know the damage that would come from it, nor have your marriage ruined by impurity to know the effects of filling your mind with inappropriate reading material. When I read your comment about husbands who look at porn and it being their wives' fault, I was blown away. There is no more judgmental, hurtful comment you could make to your Christian sisters who live with this issue in their marriages. I would daresay that almost all Christian men who struggle with porn started looking at it in their teen years, before