PM, said: Hi Julie, as i said it is my belief that if we choose not to return then we move onto a different plane. Like the astral plane is a different plane. The spiritual plane and astral plane and this plane all merge at certain points in time. Some people (like myself) can see through these viels and go across them any time we wish. Does that make it any clearer for you? The meetings aren't anything to fear, think of them like family discussions Once a decision has been made then it is followed through. interesting.... How do you actually "go across them at any time...."? In what way do you "go across"? urplybunny, on 15 February 2012 - 02:50 PM, said: I've read through this thread a few times and it is wonderful to see so many different views and everyone respecting them. Now my input I believe when we pass over we get a chance to look over the life we have lived. We get a chance to look over the lessons we have learned and what we didn't learn. We get a chance whether we want to come back to live through another life or not. If we don't come back as a person and our soul (spirit) still has lessons to learn we can come back as a spirit guide. If we don't want to come back or we have learnt our lessons then we move onto to a different plane. I have seen