a wedding I didn't want and a baby I hadn't planned for -- all because of my fiance's serious and unexpected illness. 'I was 19 when I met Jason in a nightclub. He was good looking and fun, but marriage and babies were not even on my mind. Baby love? Patricia was 19 and pregnant when she married cancer-stricken Joseph 'We'd been dating ten months when he was diagnosed with multiple myeloma -- a very rare cancer that affects the spine and back. 'He underwent radiotherapy to shrink the tumours and doctors told him the treatment could leave him infertile. Neither of us knew that I was in the early stages of pregnancy. 'The thought of a childless future nursing a sick man terrified me and, as heartless as it sounds, I told Jason I wanted to end it. 'Shortly afterwards, I began to feel unwell. When a friend suggested I take a pregnancy test, I agreed just to remove the possibility. 'Sure enough it came back positive. 'I fled to Greece to try to clear my head but Jason called me pleading for us to marry and raise our child together. 'At that stage, he was still seriously ill and I had visions of being a widowed single mother.  I felt in absolute despair. 'When I returned to the UK, Jason and his mother had booked the church! 'I'd have been the cruellest woman in the world to cancel the wedding and not continue with the pregnancy when it