Resolved Question My boyfriend is an ex player and always wants sex? 10 points? My boyfriend who I've been with for 3 weeks is an ex player. When were together its not the normal type of relationship, he likes to play fight and annoy me. Say harsh things and then says he is joking however that isn't the problem. The problem is he is always talking about sex. When I just want to cuddle all he wants to do is sex. Then he makes remarks about our sex life and about me in bed and it upsets me. I like him, but can't help but be paranoid that he is going to use me and I don't know what to do? Other Answers (4) e isnt *going* to use you.he already IS using you.and sorry to say but thats what you get..you KNOW hes a player and yet you got with him anyway.you cant get with a dirtbag guy and expect him to be your prince charming.hes already proved that hes a dirtbag by constantly wanting sex.any decent guy wont pressure anyone for sex and wont constantly talk about it because theyll have other things on their mind..like their girlfriend.