What happens when a couple discuss major decisions (whether they be where to live, where the kids will go to school, what church they will go to, what ministries they will support or be involved in etc) and after much prayer and discussion they reach an impasse? Garry Millar spoke of the need to regularly woo your wife at MKC 2010. I have come to realise that my wife appreciates regular affirmation in various ways. So as a male who can happily be silent for hours and enjoys solitude I find this a bit of a struggle.