you see a solicitor about preparing a Will. You can appoint a guardian to look after your children if there is a reason why you do not wish for the father to have care of them. He will be able to challenge this when you die but at least your reasons will have been made clear. Whilst you are preparing a WILL, you can also plan what happens to your property. I hope that helps. You will need to see a solicitor who deals with WILLS. Best regards Harjit Sarang Q. my child as been a subject to abh and his dad has been convicted he also assaut my son 3 yrs previously and convicted yet again and there are many issues of domestic violence i dont feel as if social services protecting my children A. Hi I am so sorry to hear about this. You should find out who the line manager is and file a complaint. You should also see your local family law solicitor for some advice about Injunction orders. These are orders preventing someone from harassing you, pestering you or, being violent towards you. They may also order someone not to come within a certain distance of your property. Do also ask your solicitor to assist if you need to complain about social services. Best regards Harjit Sarang Q. Hi there is currently a court order in place which details that my child has a 16 night holiday with her father and that full details are