two years ago on a dare and never got around to taking it down. You want a long-term relationship with marriage and kids. They want a date for the movies this weekend. They were not attracted to your photo, which does not mean you are not attractive, more likely it means they are shallow and you are better off without them, or they feel too intimidated by your appearance to make contact. (It's probably that one). The beauty of online dating however means that while you may be rejected one day, you can reject the next. And really, the only thing to remember in this case is to think how you would like to be rejected by someone. Be polite. No "Get lost you loser" replies. Instead break it gently with "I don't think we're a suitable match and I really wouldn't want to waste any more of your time." If this doesn't work, see below. And if that doesn't work, a firm, "Please stop bothering me or I will have to report your behaviour" should do it. Blame yourself; "It's not you, it's me" may be a lie but it's still preferable to, "Your chin is too big and your profile makes you sound as bright as a broken light bulb." When in doubt how to reply, delete. When they don't receive a reply, they will refer to the above pointers on how to deal with rejection.