me, his brother has drug dealers come to the house which scares me, i have alot of stress from what he caused last year to me and my daughter espically. and i do not feel he will be safe over night. where do i stand ? thank you A. Hi Rebecca This one was answered, please scroll down Subject: RE: QUESTION for Harjit Sarang - Family Law Expert Hi there You have a duty to act in the best interests of your son and protect him from harm. It concerns me that the drug dealer comes to the house. Is that not more dangerous when your son is awake? I wonder if you have discussed this with your ex to satisfy yourself how he currently protects him. You need to open up a dialogue with him and tell him what your concerns are. Try mediation if that helps the communication. If you can trust your ex to protect your son during the day, overnight contact should not be an issue. Does your son enjoy the contact? If he feels cold perhaps give him more clothing so that he is more comfortable. If your son enjoys the contact, you may want to agree to an overnight contact session and see how it goes after you have had some reassurances from your ex. Your ex must be enjoying the contact with your son to want him overnight. Do you think that there is an ulterior motive? You may want to give it