abandonment issues. Having isolated the victim for some time from family and friends. The bully is giving the victim dis-information,lies to get the results she wishes. It looks like she is going to get her lawyer to draw up this arrangement and have the victim sign, agree to the divorce and attachements. If this happens, ie, that the victim has signed away Parental Rights through these threats can they later be challenged? Thank you for any help you can give. A. Hi that was hard to follow! If an agreement is signed without full legal advice or under duress, it can be challenged. Q. Hi me and my husband split up 3 months ago and i have had to be pushing him to have regular contact with our 3 year old son as he kept lying and making excuses not to see him. my problem now is that my husband seems to be having a lot of mental problems. He is self harming, hearing voices, believes god is talking to him and that god has healed his bad knee, he also is dirty and unkempt (not at all like himself) and shakes all the time. i am very concerned about my sons safety around his dad due to the above and wondered if i have any legal rights to either stop contact or have secured supervised visits. i have told him this week he cant have him because of my worries and begged him to get medical help but i