his mom. 4. He should enthusiastically, and without question, eat your pussy the first opportunity he gets. Provided you have normal vaginal health, he should not ever complain about the taste or look of your vagina. If you get close enough and he admits he prefers less hair or something later on, that's different, but don't let him chastise your vadge right off the bat. That's an entitled jerk right there. 5. He should enjoy making you come, even if it is a bit difficult sometimes, because that's a turn on for him and because he cares about your pleasure. 6. IF HE EVER SHAMES YOU FOR ANY REASON, DTMFA. The things we do which are truly shameful, we are aware of and don't need the people who say they love us to make us feel worse. And if he shames you for something that isn't shameful at all (your love for sex, or maybe that you don't act like a "lady" should from his perspective), he's a controlling piece of shit. Similarly, he should be there for you when you feel bad about yourself. 7. IF YOU EVER FEAR HIM FOR ANY REASON, DTMFA. Fear is the opposite of a warm, trustworthy, loving relationship. You should not be afraid of someone who claims to care for you. Dreading an argument, maybe, but if you are ever truly afraid of him, I guarantee it's because he intends it to be that way. 8. He should be a nice drunk. 9.