that are currently separated, I take one, my husband the other :) We will be moving them into the same room soon (my daughter is still in our room, but she is pretty much weaned and ready to go), so I think that will be an interesting transition.... hopefully it's easier than I'm expecting it to be, and they can go to sleep on their own once they have each other (although I doubt it). Thanks for sharing! Thanks - we are in a similar place... Sometimes I get to go in to my eldest daughter and snuggle her to sleep, if I manage to finish up with our 2 year old in time! Tonight I went to the Freedom for Birth screening and daddy put her to bed, only the second time since she was born that I have not been there, but it was fine, she fell asleep with him... I think they are much better at adapting to change than we are (I missed her terribly!). We have tried both in the same room a couple of times but they just get really excited and run riot! No easy answers...Good luck with it! x Thanks for that, now I have to leave my lo to go to work with tears in my eyes :-/ Being a first time older Mummy (44 with a 13 month old) and therefore possibly more aware of my own mortality it was all the more poignant. Thank you for sharing x