the hell could he know me if all we ever talked about was him and his problems? It officially became my epiphany relationship when he contacted me a couple years later to complain about his current relationship, tell me how he hoped that one day he could pay me back for what a great friend I was to him, and then hit on my sister-who he met once and is 10 years my junior-via social media. That might be an extreme case, but one hell of an eye-opener. Selfish, selfish, selfish. I blocked his number and never thought twice about it. I now have a rule that if any guy makes me feel like I need to hurry up and get done talking about myself, he's probably not someone I need to be listening to in the first place. If he texts you again, DO NOT text him back. He's talking to air because you are not there. These creeps will use the tiniest, thinnest opportunity to get back in. When you answer, you are cracking open the door and they feel they'll be able to push on in. Don't respond. It's been just a little over a month since my break up, and I'm new around here. Your posts, books and the comments of your readers have helped me more than I can tell you. So first of all, thank you, NML! I'm coming out of a 4 year relationship, and it ended a week before I was supposed