both need repiercing as they are so shallow now (lots of migration especially as I got them at such a young age)" Okay, you win. I just threw up. Is it considered "clutching onto one's youth" when the subject is 21? Come on, give him a break. He may take it out one day, but I wouldnt be viewing it as a pathetic attempt to remain hip and cool until he is at least 35. Comments are submitted for possible publication on the condition that they may be edited. Please provide a name, you may use a screen name -- this will be published with your comment , and a working email address -- not for publication, but for verification. The suburb/location field is optional. ( Read our publication guidelines ). Subscribe Related Links Tools Email a friend To email this article to a friend, fill in the form below Your Name: * Your Email: * Recipient's Email: * Subject: Message: Your friend has suggested you might be interested in this blog post: He pierced his tongue when he was 15 why won't he move on? Wednesday, July 04, 2012 Dear Bossy: I'm writing to you because Im stuck and not sure how to go about my problem. I'm 21 and my partner is also 21. He has 4 earrings in his face including a tongue ring. There is the problem. The tongue ring. Dont get me wrong most of the time you cant see it and its not affecting