necessarily her, I agree that RP is different but as I said I can relate to him, my childhood was not a good one and I know u cant blame parents forever but it shapes you. I am the first born of all sisters so I know I have alot of those characteristics. I didnt have a healthy relationship with my mom or dad, its funny today at mass this girl maybe 9yo was trying to hold her dads hand on her lap he didnt want that I dont think he minded the hand holding just not in her lap so he kept pulling it back, she would lean on him when standing, I thought of you!! But see I never liked my dad or feeling attracted to him so I know Im messed up!!! Maybe he never fit in at school or whatever, didnt have alot of friends or girlfriends. Im the only one of my sisters that had/have low self esteem, who knows why we turn out the way we do. I have raised my kids to like themselves, Why is it wrong for RP parents to be seen? Maybe they didnt want to but we know how the media is. Its different parenting, I mean I wouldnt want to be on camera and maybe they didnt. KS parents are in the biz so maybe they taught KS how to hide. Maybe RP will get better who knows nena I have it on my reader to read. I