- Published on Amazon.com Format: Paperback I read "Red Hot Monogamy" by this couple, and I found some of the same things to be true in this book, but they took it to a whole new level of "cheesy" with this one. Unfortunately, they use more email forward stories (actual things I've received in email forwards) than original material. I was extremely disappointed to find that - especially after their glowing review by Dr. James Dobson. I actually think the concepts are valid, and even somewhat helpful in understanding relationships. However, all the "meat" of what they've written was clouded by the silly, stereotypical junk they pulled together to try and make it funny. I would like to see them focus on being more original and not try so hard to make everything sound like something I could get for free in an email forward. The beginning of the book was one of the hardest parts to get through. Here is an actual question from a 27 question quiz given on page 25: "To prove your love for your wife, you would gladly: A. Climb the highest mountain. B. Swim the deepest ocean. C. Hold her purse while she tries things on at the mall and run the risk that, at any moment, one of the guys might walk by." It's this kind of "filler" that the book could have done without. Unfortunately, I fear it would have been a very short book without it. Honestly, I believe their hearts