to be strong and help them to get along. Ok, you pick a representative for your mother, one to play your father, one to play the part of your sister etc. then they all stand up and you decide where in the room you want them each to be and which way they should stand (facing or not) each other. You also pick a person to represent yourself and then you sit down and watch. You do not tell any of them anything about your situation with your family, they somehow each will pick up on what is called "The Knowing Field" and they will be able to "feel" what has been going on. You just simply observe. Most of the time, they will know which way to look at each other and the therapist will help guide them into a more healing way of being. There is also a language that the therapist helps them with in order to heal and honor each other. As you observe the healing taking place and when, or if, you feel that you would like to take out your representative and take your own place within the group, then you can do so, but it is not mandatory that you do that. You can simply observe and watch the healing interaction take place. You will learn so many things about yourself and the people in your family through this deep psychological book. Constellations can be done between two people, or with a large