Resolved Question Complicated situation, opinions needed, please!? Hi there, I will try and keep this short, but it's likely to look like a book by the end! I am 19 years old and female. My ex girlfriend (Sarah) is also 19 years old. Her new partner is 23 (Lucy). I was with Sarah for 2 years and we had a very happy, very relaxed and very strong relationship. Sarah was dragged through family problems growing up and has quite a vulnerable mind, she struggled with anxiety and panic attacks for about a year - a combination of my support and beta-blockers helped her overcome this. 2-3 times throughout our relationship this "Lucy" was brought up, as one of Sarah's friends - they met online and Lucy helped Sarah become more confident with her sexuality and encouraged Sarah that she had been through the same thing when she was 16, they were friends at first - I 100% know this. It was never anything more... until about 10 months ago. Lucy had cropped up online and Sarah had been intrigued. They had started a "virtual relationship" and Sarah had been hiding it from me. I found out - after a few weeks of Sarah apologising and explaining how manipulative Lucy is, I agreed to forgive Sarah. She cut off Lucy (her own choice) and we moved on with our relationship. I, however, had started talking to Lucy via MSN (just to see how manipulative she really is - if at all).