than 3 times. I've seen girls dangling their charms in front of guys they were not even interested in, that's just wrong. Thats a good rule to have. It shows the guy you like him without saying it. However, the girls that you mentioned sort of ruin it for the honest ones like yourself. Makes it very difficult for someone like me to know if a woman is interested in me, or is just interested in milking free dinners and activities out of me. I don't see a problem with dating multiple girls too. As long as you're not in a relationship, you shouldn't worry about dating more than 1 person. If you were seeing 3 girls, and two of them don't work out.. well you got one more to fall back on. Assuming something sparks up. Like the saying goes "don't put all your eggs in one basket" At what point would you say you enter into a "relationship"? Is it when both people sit down and talk and say 'we're boyfriend and girlfriend'? Is it after a certain number of dates? Is it when things start to become physical? kingrukus May 31st, 2012, 07:00 AM Dating 1 person is boring and a waste of a time. Variety is the spice of life.