to flip it on me with the whole "the phone works both ways" thing, the phone only works two ways if the other party actually picks it up or calls you back...I had known him for years so I was actually able to give him like 5 or 6 different examples, yet I was wrong according to him. He didn't only show up when he was between girls and he didn't pick fights or get angry so he could disappear without warning and feel justified, all according to him at least. The last time he disappeared was the last time, he got angry over something that no sane person would ever get angry about. And like a fool I went back and tried to smooth the situation over, good thing for me he wasn't being reasonable cause then I never would have gotten off that roller coaster of foolishness. I don't deal with him anymore, but I know what happened. Sometimes the best thing a guy/girl can do for you is be exactly who they are. I used to spend hours upon hours trying to dissect his brain, tried to figure out which screws I could tighten back up. But to be honest, I really had no idea nor do I care at all anymore. The last time he cut out was the last time, so he's not my problem anymore. Time really does heal all wounds... UK girl, I hear you babe, the fed up and sad is part