remain fetally stunted, soft and shielded. From growth. And that for me is a far bigger risk. A risk of wasting your life (who knows if it's the only one we get). We are a society who has mistaken happiness, for comfort. If you seek to be happy, do not, in the short term at least, seek to be comfortable. Because there are many battles to be fought if you are to find your truth. And I tell you, knowing, feeling and living your truth...is the ultimate state of bliss. *A feminine paradigm is characterised by a more spherical way of thinking as opposed to a linear viewpoint of the masculine paradigm which is about achievement, climax and winning.  How we think about things, our paradigm, largely governs our experience.  Where we think in terms of winning and losing, we will always be bound by this outcome. When we think in cyclical terms it means our experience is not finite 'winning/losing' journey with a start and endpoint, but something which allows a deep introspection. A journey 'into the whirlpool of our soul'. A journey within ourselves to uncover layer by layer, our innate wisdom. Polyamory is one such paradigm, but not of course, the only one. **NB. polyamorous relationships currently tend to have more stability after basic biology has been satisfied. If you are no longer looking for a partner with whom to have children then you are free to create connection without any underlying biological need. If we lived