Sign Up Anal Sex: Dos and Don'ts Sarah Gibson Sarah Gibson is the brains and attitude behind the playful adult toy website sexgear . She is also our official 'sexpert'. Anal sex; people are really doing it. Believe it or not, it is a regular feature in some kiwi bedrooms, and it's certainly not the sexual taboo that it once was. If you're curious about experimenting with 'the backdoor' then these dos and don'ts should help you and your partner on your way. Do use lube, lube and more lube When it comes to anal sex there is no such thing as too much lube. Unlike the vagina the anus is not self-lubricating, so plenty of silicone or water-based lubricant is essential. It helps the penis to glide into the anal passage, creating a safer and more comfortable experience for you both. There are specifically designed anal lubes available on the market; but any personal lubricant will do. Silicone lubricants are particularly good for anal sex because they don't dry out and last much longer than the water-based equivalent. Do use protection They may ride bareback in the movies, but did you know that the spread of STDs is more likely with anal penetration than vaginal? That's because the skin in and around the anus is thinner and more prone to little cuts and tears -- which in turn allows infections into the body. So do use protection when going in the backdoor. Do build up to it Hopefully you