husband, support! and a good healthy body!! I'm a first year in college and I have yet to go to a party. It's not that I don't want to but the people I don't, don't drink or party. I would like to go to have that experience and just to see what it is like, but part of it for me is laziness as well, I don't want to walk all the way down to the party area at my school. I sometimes feel left out of these experiences but I also know that I still have 3 years so maybe it won't get old sooner since I didn't start early. In fact, i'm 18 and I still haven't ever drank alcohol not that I'm against it, I just think I rather have frozen yogurt calories than crappy tasting beer calories. It is hard to transition like this sometimes because we tend to grow at different speeds than others. When I finally decided to was going to make the change in my life and get healthy (I dropped almost 60 pounds), I started by cutting out alcohol. My friends did not understand my new dedication to my health, to working out, to wanting to eat healthier. It was hard and it hurt my heart, but I found that the ones that were my true friends loved and supported me through anything. The ones that try and keep you from becoming the best you that you can possibly be, well, those