areA just trying to be supportive in their way and in their way this is them showing us they want us to be happy and trust him with baby and that they love us so we should go out and enjoy ourselves.A  men are so different to new Mums tho - they don't carry, give birth and have that special bond with baby.A  They don't really grow the way we do and to them a night out is still a night out where as our prioraties change almost from the moment we find out we're pregnant. Don't feel pressured and just explain to him that as a new mum you're happier staying in with your family - baby and him - and that there will be plenty more opportunities for nights out and you will be turning to him then for cover.A  Until that occasionA though you are enjoying your little family and will be staying in. Thanks guys, I just really don't want to go out, what's the point if the whole time i'm out i'm stressing and worrying about my little one anyway? I hate the thought of being away from my baby. I've been out about 5 times due to the pressure since he's been born and not once have i enjoyed it, the last time i went out i left at 7pm and told my partner that baby was due a feed at 8pm, i got back at 12am and the baby was screaming his head