have been together 5 years and married 2. We know that we want children one day. I am turning 30 in a few weeks and my husband will be 29. I have an abormal valve in my heart that causes one of my ventricals to enlarge. It is uncertain when/ if I will need surgery to correct this and I am already classified as moderate to severe regurgitation. I have also had an abnormal pap for the third time in 3 years. I have already had 2 LEEPS done to correct this and now I have another abnormal pap. I am afraid to get another LEEP because of the risk of cervical failure during a pregnancy...and who knows what will happen if they have to go further up inside to remove more cells. I am at the point where I just want to start TTC, but my husband wants to sell our condo first...but in this market...WHO KNOWS when that will be. I am the one with the health issues and the longer I wait, the more at risk I am with a pregnancy. I am trying to talk to my husband about it, but I dont want to pressure him. I understand the whole idea of wanting everything to be "set" before trying...but I dont know how much more time I have before I start getting more surgeries. IPart of me just wants to be pregnant so I know that I can at least have one child. Thoughts? And