31 January 2012 i ladies congratulations on your pregnancies! wish i could say that all is well but its not! i am nearly 21 and my boyfriend is 23 and we have been together for 5 years. i have found out that i am nearly 5 weeks pregnant and he is having none of it and is saying that if i dont have an abortion he is having nothing to do with me or the baby! obviously it is my body and ultimately my decision and i am keeping the baby and am really excited about it however i cannot understand where all his behaviour has come from he is not usually like this so really i am just looking for some words of wisdom to help with my conflicting emotions as i am ecstatic about my little peanut but am devestated that my love hass abandoned me :( would very much appreciate some aspiring stories to cheer me up :) jennifer1990 said on 28 January 2012 i there i had a miscarriage in november 2011. me and my husband want more children as we have to beautiful little girls. after the m/c we have been trying again. its now 28 January and i think i might be pregnant if i am i would be about 4weeks 1day. iv been having alot of symptoms sore boobs going toilet alot change in moods and iv been having some weird feelings at the bottom of my stomach its like little butterflies its