but I know I have plenty of time and its not fair to the baby to have broke, stressed out parents. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My husband and I have been married for over six months now and although I am dying to be a mom, I am not sure it is the right time for us. My husband has a good job and is going to be a CA in September. I am currently in university, next year I graduate. Part of me is saying wait until you are done school but another part of me says, what are you waiting for? We own a house together and have a great solid relationship. what do I do?? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My husband and I have been together for 4 years. He is absolutely wonderful. I can honestly say I never go a day without him telling me he loves me and how beatiful I am and how appreciative he is of who I am and what I do. He knows it is the little things that count. We can communicate with each other, which is so important and we can discuss having a baby and not be afraid of what the other person is going to think about your views because as a partner you give your spouse the time to express themselves and