show yours? = When you piss me off or try to play games like I don't possess a brain. Then one day, you witness them lose their cool, or you see something totally unexpected. Are you relieved that you finally got to see a true picture of who they are? -- Yes, I am. It gives me a glimpse into how he reacts to whatever made him lose his cool and how big or small the cause was for the degree of his reaction. uh oh. what does it say about me that I can't really recall witnessing any guys losing their cool with me? it's always me. I'm always the one going off about something. I think back on when I was a child and my grandmother went on and on with one of her one woman tirade shows. I'm the same way. I can walk around the house mumbling and fussing about something for the longest time. I'll be going "it's a daggone shame. all this crap lying around like there's a maid up in here. these MF's must think I work for them or something. SOBs got me stuck. I ain't picking up another GD nothing. who the heck do they think I am?" now my kids (son/brother) knew what was up and just stayed out of the way. I admit I have scared the crap out of visiting parties. lol. So you're saying you don't have an aspect of your personality, or rather something in this