in the Army & will be shipping out on my actual due date. God Bless him & Thank God that baby making is not an issue in our family. Cheers! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I'm 29 and my husband is 30. We talked about it for months, and decided we were ready to have a baby and would aim to have our first when we were 30. It took us two months to get pregnant. I found out on March 8 that I was pregnant. I was ecstatic all day long. I came home that night and I cried and cried. I'm scared about how much everything's going to change. I cried because I'm going to get huge (selfish? maybe. honest? yes.) I cried because it'll be the end of our "just us" time, and I'm going to miss it. I'm scared to be a mom. No matter how much you plan for it or you appear to be "ready" on paper I don't think there's a perfect, ideal time. It doesn't matter if you're 22 or 52. It's going to shake things up at our house, huge time. I still have those moments of panic - I think a lot of new moms go through this! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? So lately I have felt ready to start trying to have a baby, but by DH is totally not ready. He keeps saying soon, but how soon? I don't want to