unable to clearly voice what he is thinking based on his, as of yet, fully developed communication skills. He is learning about awareness and independence and the progress of one without the other, can be a recipe for disaster for all. But it is not and should not be seen as a time to dread or an event in your family life that is approached with negativity and fear. To help avoid outbreaks, be sure that you maintain order and routine in your lives. Stick to the same meal, nap and sleep times. Absolutely try to avoid the "it's OK; it's the weekend" or "people are over" excuses and make your job, adhering to the schedule for everyone's sake and well being. By limiting his choices, you are giving him power and lowering the chances for frustration. Offer him A or B rather than saying "What do you want?" (which is far too general and overwhelmingly unstructured). Try to keep with this as he grows up as it will prove to be extremely beneficial showing him both that you are in charge of his options for some things, while simultaneously teaching him that you respect his opinions. Be sure to set clear limits while recognizing that it is completely natural for him to try to push beyond them. Finally, be certain that you create and maintain a safe environment for all. While nothing is simple when it comes to raising children, this doesn't have to be as dramatic as some