on how to help him come around to the idea? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I've known my guy for 15 years; we've been together 4; engaged for 1.5. We're getting married in 3 days... and I'm 3 months pregnant. Wasn't planning a baby this soon, of course, but stuff happens, right? At first he was excited and I was definitely not on board. But now I'm really happy. Although it's been really hard not telling anyone! We want to wait til after the wedding. Anyone else in this situation? What did you do? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My husband and I have been together for 3 years and married for 8 months and we are just starting TTC but not focusing too much about it - letting nature take its course for now. We knew we were ready when we were BOTH ready at the same time. Sure, we are both stressed financially, but we know that there will never be a good time financially or career-wise. We have a solid, stable and happy relationship and that is the most important part, because even if we end up in a bad financial situation (though I'm sure we can make it work) we know that we will be fine and we will work it all out because we are solid together and both emotionally ready. When the only worries you have left are the worries about whether or not it is financially or