ready except YOU and the one you're making the baby with :) Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I think that for every person it is different. I personally think i am ready and i have had a lot of "signs" that have been speaking to me. For examle- dreams of me holding my child who is named and has my hair color and my skin tone, dreaming i am pregnant A LOT! i daydream a lot about having a baby- i just feel like God is trying to tell me i am ready. but with my husband, it is a different story. he just finally told me he is thinking it is time for us to think about having kids. We are both nervous- obviously! But i think that for everyone, it is different. People definatly need to think about the cost and working and daycare, getting a different car, baby proofing/home saftey. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? ello my fellow ladies....i hope everyone is well. i am currently 7dpo and have some symptoms going on. sat i was very nauseous and today i have mild cramps but they are in the pit of my stomach (between belly button and woman part ;)....my breasts seem to be a little swollen and im tired. i am not sure if this is all do to pms or maybe i will get my bfp.....my cramps seem to be consistent