doesn't happen this first time of actually trying, as unreastic as I know that is. I can't wait to finally see that 2nd line on the pregnancy test stick! I think the joy will be unimaginable. I'm not nervous at all for the first time ever. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I am 21 years old and I am trying to decide whether I want a baby now or not. I have a great job, a great boyfriend (we have only been together about a year but are crazy about each other) and I want a baby like you would not even believe. I am not the typical 21 year old, I do not party or drink hardly ever. I work a lot and when I am not working I am home. I am not rich by any means but I have a very good job and im running out of reasons to wait to have a baby... what should I do? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I know I am ready to have a baby, but my DH is still so unsure. How can I help show him that having a baby is the next step for us and that he will be a wonderful dad? I think that is what he is afraid of most. I don't want to push him, but my baby urge is