their particular situation is &/or whatever developed in the first place. I do agree with previous posts though I don?t think from what you have written that it?s a lack of money that?s driving your unhappiness. Seems to be the more fundamental questions in life that are doing it. Have you finally developed a desire to make friends? I think, before you try and find out how to do it, you'll first need the desire to do it. It's unlikely to work out well if you go and find a friend whilst holding the same beliefs and feelings you've expressed in previous posts. Patience is another thing i think you need. At the beginning, you should ask questions about them to develop a degree of familiarity. Finding similarities is important in developing lasting friendships. If you keep practicing, you'll get better at it. Reading books on psychology can help you soften the harsh beliefs you have of engaging with people. quote: Perhaps it fills a feeling of emptiness. Perhaps it provides you the emotional support that you require. Perhaps it simply makes you feel alot less lonesome. It's quite apparent that you do need someone to talk to. That's what a friend can provide you, and only you can help yourself develop the skills to acquire friends. Well, with abit of guidance, you might get there quicker. But you'll need to find that will to improve. A need for company. A need for companionship. A need for a boost in