would also tell myself that in ten and twenty years, I'd surprise myself with who I'd become, and not to worry so much about what other people think. 7. What 5 things could you not live without? Chocolate and red wine may be the key to my happiness, as are stationery, my laptop (including internet) and books. Lots of books. I know that's 6 things, but I don't think I could give any of them up. 8. What is your favourite quote and why? "Whatever you think you can do or believe you can do, begin it. Action has magic, grace and power in it." -- Goethe Beautiful and true. 9. What advice would you give to girls/women struggling to live the life of their dreams? I'd encourage them to take a really honest assessment of what is holding them back. Sometimes when we worry about going out on our own because we fear financial insecurity, we haven't factored in the true cost of our current situation. When I thought I could never leave my stable government job, I wasn't aware of my actual hourly wage when I took away commuting costs, daycare, work clothes, coffees and lunches on the run, the time I spent getting to and from work -- and the time spent away from my kids. When I realized what I was actually earning, and acknowledged the degree to which I resented my lifestyle, it was easy to jump. Do what you love, and meet other people