a life? well those are the questions I have asked myself. Well I thought because my mom and dad and his family I would be VERY fertile, and we would nock it out the first month. well there goes the first, now the second month, and now the third. It is very frustrating. 3 months seems like an eternity when you are TTC. I have realized there is never going to be the PERFECT moment. never going to be the perfect situation, enough money in the bank. So I have pushed what my friends have said. NO BODY knows you. if you are ready then your ready. We havnt told my family because I didnt want them to try and change my mind. opinions are like ass wholes everyone has one!! remember that!! so BABY DUST to everyone. because im SO excited to start a family and cant wait. Hopefully It doesnt take much longer cause this is a bummer!! im excited for those of you starting/ or adding to the family thats really awesome!! :) keep us updated!! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? (clark0627) You're right. No one's situation is perfect. My mind is muddled because I've gotten into the bad habit of 'keeping up with the joneses' My two close friends have spouses that work already, have a house already, and a baby on the way already. I feel so much older and soooo far behind. That stresses me out so that inadvertantly I'm stressing