Undecided Question Today i found out i have been a father for the past 6 years!? Well long story short, today i found out from my best mate that his girlfriend told him that she bumped into a old friend of hers from our secoundry school and they got talking and somehow i got mentioned and she burst into tears and told her that me and her hooked up at some party and 9 mounths later she had twins and she says i'm the father and that she kept it a secret from me because she didn't want to ruin my life etc :S WHAT THE **** DO I DO!!!!!!!!!!! I want to do the right thing but i don't know what the right thing is to do HELP!!!!! Answers (10) Answerer 1 I'd get a paternity test just to be 100% sure. Pay child support and just make sure that you spend time with these children of yours, get to know them and then just keep good relations with the mother. Try to spend time with these children and just intgrate yourself in the whole situation. It's not going to be easy and I can understand that you must feel pretty shocked but these things will work out if you are both co-operative. First off, the right thing is to definetely establish that you are the father through a paternity test. You don't want to go through all of this only to find out she was lying or mistaken.