together. when did you know it would be right? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My husband has asked me several times if im ready for a baby and my family is always asking me if im preganant yet. I dont know when i will be ready because its a huge decision to make and alot of thinking goes into it. Babysitters, school, etc etc. But i don't think anyone really knows when the right time is. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My husband told me he wanted to start a family once he had turned 23 but since we didn't get married until he was 24 we waited. Then after we got married he stopped bringing up baby and doesn't want to try. I deeply want a baby and its hard to think about anything else at all! We bought a 3 bedroom house and even traded in my sports car for an suv... We have some money in the bank and I was just hired at a higher paying job. He's up for another promotion later this year, but he still says that we aren't ready. I cry nearly every day walking by the empty room we saved just for baby and I'm driving around in a mom car without being a mom... I don't want to push him, I want him to be excited, but it kills me that he seems to have just