At 25 weeks pregnant i wonder if i am ready everyday. I am so excited to meet my little baby in april, but the road has been hard. The most important thing is to be supported, most importantly by the father. As wonderful as my pregnancy has been, believe it or not it can be a lonely road. My boyfriend will be a great dad, but he has little understanding of what is happening everyday. Just make sure to have as much support as possible and think.... There is never really a "good" time. Things will always come up. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My friend said, "Look, it's a 20 year commitment - you'll have ups and downs the whole time. You'll lose you job and your relationship will be disappointing at time just like anything. If you're going to have a baby and you've decided on it/planned it, just do it." My relative, not that I endorse it, is a career, independent woman. Her marriage was just about to fall apart and she said, "maybe if I just get pregnant." I had a bad reaction to this, of course, but actually, she's in her forties with 2 kids and is in one of the happiest stable relationships. Go figure. (I just had to play devils advocate on that one because people on here are doing their research and are probably not addicted to meth with terrible relationships) Nike. That's what I'm telling myself. Q&A: Are