goes on I guess. The more I read the more I get scared that I won't get pregnant. We have been trying for a few months and nothing. I keep praying and am afraid that this is going to be a longer road than I initially thought it was going to be. We're afraid to tell family since everyone is dying for us to have a baby, we've been together for six years and been married for nine months. I believe no one is ever ready but what about those of us who are ready for something that won't come? Crackheads get pregnant in back allies and I can't! It's a really depressing feeling... Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? We're getting ready! Have been married for 4 months, together for 4.5 yrs. We bought a great house a couple of years ago and have plenty of room with a great yard. I agree that no time is perfect...we're getting the "baby fever" and deciding to start trying within a couple of months. So exciting! : ) Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? my husband and I have been married since September. We have been together for four and a half years though. We have been talking about ttc around March but I am flip flopping. A part of me really wants to! Then another part of me is scared!