Congratulations! You're Engaged! Let the Planning Begin! Once the news of your engagement is out and you and your fianc are beginning to take on the task of actually planning the wedding, where do you begin? There are so many decisions involved in the planning process, and it can easily become overwhelming for any couple. This week I'm going to lay out three ground rules when it comes to starting the planning process that will ease the stress and allow you and your fianc to enjoy every minute of this whirlwind adventure! You NEED to set a budget! It's crazy how many times I've heard someone say "we have a budget, but it's not set in stone" or "we have an unlimited budget, but..." Before you even pick up the phone and book your first appointment with any vendor, you and your fianc need to have a discussion about the money aspect of this special event. Do you want to do this on your own? Are you expecting family to chip in? Or even pay for the entire thing? These are all questions you need to have answers to before you begin picking flowers and bridesmaid dresses! I'm going to use the same advice that I gave in last week's article about purchasing engagement and wedding rings: you have to remember that putting yourself in the poorhouse even before you say 'I do' will only put stress and strain on your future together. Stay within your means and create a