the power cable out with me, I think that's genuinely a very bad idea though and would only cause a war! I'd tell the HV what you've told us though, can't imagine she'd be pressuring you to leave LO if she knew how little care and attention he was getting from Dad Can I ask how old he is?A  His whole attitude towards the baby seems more like that of a reluctant teenager than an adult.A  In fact his entire behaviour does.A  He seems to be treating you like you're aA nagging parent - well, his parent, not your child's parent... HIS child's parent... I'm sorry but I just want to slap some sense into him and tell him to grow up! This site is published by BabyCenter, L.L.C., which is responsible for its contents as further described and qualified in terms of use This internet site provides information of a general nature and is designed for educational purposes only. If you have any concerns about your own health or the health of your child, you should always consult a doctor or other healthcare professional. Please review the terms of use before using this site. Your use of the site indicates your agreement to be bound by the terms of use .