to the gym and preparing healthy meals? Many of us strive for material possessions which often prevent us from pursuits that would truly make us happy.  I may be speaking about myself or perhaps it is part of a societal syndrome to be everything to everyone.  To be perfect to everyone, to get it all done, to have everything under control, have it all, may it be belongings or sensibilities or talents or... How tiring and absolutely draining.  We collect objects to fill some void or to create an acceptable appearance.  It's more than just items that we fill our lives with its endless tasks on our to-do lists, acquaintances and even constant analysis. If we simply take a few minutes to reflect on what is really important to us, and how we feel deep down about the choices we are making, perhaps then we could focus on what is really important. I must admit...please don't tell...that I'm sometimes late getting out of the house in the morning.  I throw my toothbrush and toothpaste in my purse and rush out the door with breakfast in hand. I eat my oatmeal at the stoplights wondering if I could ever be pulled over for breaking some eating in the car law!  Oddly, my morning had really started off quite relaxed.  I was able to make my bed, put the dishes away and tidy up my clothes that were on the floor from the day before.  Yet, at the last minute I'm printing