that may be in my near future. I know no one can give me the right answer, but any insight would help!! (I'd talk to family, but we are keeping it a secret!!) Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Lets see...... my husbands family has wanted us to have a baby since we where 20. My family....... I have 9 neices and nephews and I am the baby. We got married 14 months ago. I am now 27.......... long story short. YES YES YES!! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? @Jhart717 The same thing with me! Can't decide. One moment I want it so much and next minute I am all freaked out that we won't have 'us' time, hubby will love our kid more than me, my body will literally deteriorate b/c of pregnancy etc. But I am 25 and hubby is 32, have been married for 3 yrs: we gotta do it sometime soon. I am on prenatals for the last 2 weeks and tomorrow going to see my doctor - to talk. Scared and excited at the same time. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I feel the same way if theres any advice please help. my husband and I are a young couple married almost 2 yrs and we've decided to start trying at the end of this year and we've been putting it off every time we say we're gonna try I get scared and back out. I'm terrified