to see you and the baby, and it shows that you are still putting forth the effort for their granddaughter to get to know them. You don't say how far away they live, and I'm making the assumption that there is no reason they can't come to see you. I take my son to see his grandparents every weekend. To me it isn't important who initiates contact, I had a very special relationship with my grandmother and I would love for my son to have the same relationship with his. By not taking her to her grandparents you aren't punishing them, you are also punishing your own daughter. Maybe tell them that it is hard for you to travel with a little one and that it would be nice if you guys can alternate, you go visit one week and they go to your house the next. our kids have the same kind, except they dont care if we come over or not. they dont call or come over just to visit (MY father does) but my boyfriends parents dont really seem to care how their grandchildren are. To make it even worse when to actually do see them (about two times a month, if that) they pretend to know everything about them and say stuff like 'they love me the most' it just irritates me to no end! But you should just tell them that you would like it if maybe every other weekend they would visit your daughter