that would actually portray that. You'd have to meet her to really understand her and you ask people who have met her and they'll tell you just how amazing she was.  For us we were so lucky to have her as our mother and we, you know, there's not a day goes past that we don't, sort of, you know, think of her and miss her influence, because, you know, she was a massive example to both of us and it's one of those things that's very sad but, you know, you learn to deal with it and there's plenty of other people out there who've got the same or worse problems that wehave had, so --  Harry: The nicest thing, the fact that she was our mother, she had her public side and she had her private side and the private side was very small in comparison to the public side obviously. You know, the memories that we've got of her -- we're very lucky to have those memories 'cause they're so -- they're private -- between us and that's the nicest thing about it, you know. You see her get slated for such-and-such but the personal memories that we have of her are very much private and that's hopefully where it will always be. Interviewer:  I know that my mother has taught me to, kind of, go out there and get what I want and not let things get in my way. I can tell obviously the you've