would have said when I was 30. I had a plan for myself, but my internal clock is telling me I am ready for a baby now. I worry about being ready financially and also about having the responsibility of being a parent. My husabnd of course does not have this sudden urge to have a child right now, but he definitely wants to be a father. Luckily, he is great at putting everything back into perscpective for me and reminding of the things we want to do and accomplish before we conceive (things as simple as the fact that we have a vacation planned in October and next June which I would not want to pregnant for). I find that communicating with him helps me a lot with all of these feelings and emotions I have right now. In the end, we have decided to wait until after our trip next June to start trying. But I have to admit, when that "light" goes off in your head and suddenly you want a baby for the first time, it is hard to shut it off. But I know a year from now we will be in a great place to start our family! Good look to all of you who are considering having a baby - communication is key! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? "But, don't start trying unless you're honestly ready to be a parent in nine