go because that means you don't have to do it! If they are stealing your ideas, ripping off your moves, knocking off your style, and they are doing it well, thank them. You've just learned that that assignment is something you don't need to do because someone else can do it. This is scary because you are giving up things you do well, and you might think that after surrendering all the good stuff, there won't be anything excellent left for you. Trust me, there is more to you than that. But it will take all you life to find it. All, as in all your days. And all, as in all your ceasless effort. Your greatest job is shedding what you don't have to do. Another good book to recommend: End Malaria . This book is not about malaria. It is an anthology of advice about working smarter. The book's official name is End Malaria: Bold Innovation, Limitless Generosity, and the Opportunity to Save a Life . $20 from every sale (including the Kindle version) will go to Malaria No More , whose mission is to end malaria in Africa by 2015. In other words, buy a book and save a life. Your $20 portion of the proceeds go towards eradicating a horrible cascading disease than CAN be eradicated for the most part. The disease cascades because when someone is infected with malaria they lose energy and ambition and tend not to do the things that would prevent others