start trying soon. His concerns are very valid and he wants the best for his child and family, but this urge isn't letting up on me. I'm an emotional wreck somedays just thinking about it constantly. I love my husband beyond words and know he'll be an amazing father, I just have to wait until God has fully prepared us to embark on this journey together. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I don't think my husband will ever be ready, we've been married for 2 1/2 years he wants to wait til at least we are married 5 years and by that time I will be 29 years old and doesn't leave me much time to have a lot of children. Yes he is almost done with his masters, by May he will be done, but work is paying for school so we don't have to worry about any school loans. The thing that botters me though that he jokes about is "Hey if we don't have any kids I can retire at 50!" which I don't know if I should cry or be happy. I also think why I'm thinking about babies my sister in law just had her 5th child and I want a baby too Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I agree with a lot of the posts on here that you are never going to be fully ready for baby... I think being married and in love with a good