any younger! Our marriage is very strong and we have done well together through tough times, both financially and emotionally. We've been saying we'll start TTC as soon as this, as soon as that... but it never seems to be the right time or the right situation. I've been feeling the pressure of my age because we have several couples of friends who are having trouble conceiving. It scares me. What if we TTC and still aren't pregnant in 4 years? (Like one couple who are friends of ours.) Just last weekend, my DH said that we shouldn't wait any more to start trying and I was so shocked, I didn't bring it up to make sure I'd heard him correctly. I just waited to see if he would reach for the condom the next time we made love. And... he didn't!!! (This week is my highly fertile week, so I'm hoping for baby!) But then, he freaked out last night and said no BD unless we used a condom. He knows this week is high fertility, but said he didn't want to add to the chances we'd get pregnant. I'm praying he stops worrying and freaking out. We have always been very blessed and I am sure we will be okay. I just don't want to miss out on being a Mom. I've wanted to be a Mom since I was a little kid. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? jackersCU: Trust me when I say that