the fact that we have friends that are starting their families, but I try to set that aside and focus on us instead of what "everyone else is doing." He says he wants to have a family someday, but right now he's not ready to give up his freedom and make sacrifices, which to me is a red flag. I'm trying to be patient to avoid making him feel resentful towards me for forcing him into something he's not ready for. The last thing I want is for it to be one-sided. For now we're just enjoying each other and working on continuing to improve our house and save up money for when the time comes. Has anyone else been in a similar situation where your husband had a change of heart and finally told you he was ready??? Please tell me there's hope! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Connie 310 I'm in a similar situation right now. My husband and I began dating almost 8 years ago and finally tied the knot last November. While we both are still considered young (both of us are 25) I'm in the place in my life where I'm ready for children and I'm very anxious to start trying to get pregnant. My husband has always said he wants a big family but wants to wait until we're more financially stable. He's also mentioned he's just really nervous about becoming a parent and while I try to sympathize I'm constantly