This group is for anyone needing help, support and advice with any kind of relationship - family, extended family, in-laws, friends, OH's etc. minimize... This group is for anyone needing help, support and advice with any kind of... more... post Tags ? Partner pressuring me to go out but i want to stay with my baby. Hey everyone, so my problem is that my boyfriend keeps pressuring me to go out with my friends this evening but i really don't want to for many reasons. My baby is 18 weeks old and i don't want to leave him because i actually enjoy staying in and spending time with him more than my friends, not just that but i don't trust that my partner would look after him the way i do. When my baby cries for a feed i will give him a bottle as soon as i can but if i ask my partner to do it he takes about half an hour to even get off the computer (he's a gamer) and then by that time my little one would have probably gone back to sleep and he'll just say 'oh it doesn't matter now anyway because he's asleep so i'll leave him'. Also, he refuses to change his nappies because he 'riggles too much' and my partner gets really annoyed, he can't be left with a dirty nappy on all night. My baby has also been a bit poorly lately so i'd like to be able to