like a consequence. The pill made me sick, and it was so unnatural. My husband and I decided that instead of worrying about having one or not, we are going to enjoy each other, and the marriage that we are blessed to have. If a baby comes then a baby comes. We will be happy either way. Do what you and your partner feel is right for your situation. I am not saying you should or should not use a pill. It is different for everyone. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I know that the first couple years of your marriage you should be travelling and enjoying each other, but I can't help but imaging how amazing it would be to expose my child to these places that I'm visiting. I want him or her to be much more cultured than I was growing up. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I don't really know if we're ready. We had it planned that after we got legally married, we'd save our money for the real wedding in 2012 and for the kids. We haven't started a college fund yet, and we've only been married for two months. We only have about $2000 saved up, and that's with our wedding bands and wedding we're planning. I don't really know how much you need to have a baby? I just know, when I was a kid my parents didn't