Resolved Question How to tell your parents you have your first BF? i have been going out with a guy for almost 3 months but i have never told my parent. I dont know why but im really nervers about telling them. They looked at a message on my phone one day that said " i miss you.... love you" so they asked who he was and i said he was just a guy from school then she asked if he was nice and i blew my chance to tell them and just said he was ok. so how can i tell them ???? Best Answer - Chosen by Voters Ok, first off... you gotta tell them sooner or later. My mum and dad are against me from dating but i got around it by asking them if i could go out with my boyfriend. First off, to tell them you should have them together (alone) at a particular time when they are happy and not upset or angry. Ask them to hear you out. Firstly, ask them the important question "Mum, dad... can i go out with this guy i like? He likes me too and we have been goin out for 3 months and i want to know if you are okay with it." Then you should tell a little bit about him, how old he is and what year he is in. Also tell them that you are willing to have them meet him at the movies