dynamic, like is she married, has a kid, has been taking money from you, what?  If her behavior is getting worse there has to be a reason for it, so it might be better to get to the root cause than try to deal with the symptoms. Hi, I was doing some searching on how to deal with my 29 yr old daughters verbal rudeness raising voice person that she is . She will try and shut me up and act like she is better then me! I had many faults raising her but managed as a single mother. I worked and gave a roof over her head. I feel bad if i ever traumatized her in any way.. but here we are years later and she doesnt seem to understand all that i done for her and do now is because i love her and her my 2 GDs. I let her live with me and she was a second reason to kick my husband out besides his lazy out of work man he was for a year even though he had income. They fought and i packed his bags. I gave up my bedroom for her to live to get back on her feet and she still has not after a year. I borrowed money to get a little place of her own and she neglected the rules of that home..so she moved to her BF in a ugly neighborhood and i didnt want my recovering GD now