of labor and what my body is going to go through. Raising a baby doesn't scare me its everything else. I've heard all these horror stories of what all could go wrong and thats all I tend to think about. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I'm terrified to have kids, especially now that me and my husband fights all the time. I feel like I won't ever be ready to have one. I feel like having one will trap me. Ive been taking care of my siblings since I was 18, and Im not ready to have more responsibilities right now. What to do? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I'm so relieved to see all these responses. I have been freaking out about a having a baby and my husband is just so eager. He is a kindergarten teacher and he used to be a nanny so he has lots of experience with children. I have none. I am 36 and love working and going to school but I know I can't wait for the right time anymore because for me that would probably be in 20 years!! I worry about money, body changes, miscarriages, disabilities, and labor. I thought I was going insane but I actually feel more confident now that I know that there are others out there with concerns too. Thank you all for reminding me that I am not alone. Q&A: Are