skills but I can't make good use of them due to my poor social skills and being different. Being intj just doesn't work for me. How to change it? Or how to make good use of it? How to make it working? Wanting to improve is more than half the battle. The rest comes from practice and trying to expand your perspective to see how others might interpret the way that you behave so that you can adjust your behavior in advance to be more conducive to meeting your goals. I have similar issues at work in that since I don't talk much people think I don't know much. and therefore I don't feel I get the credit I deserve. Its hard for us to do but I think we have to make others aware of our accomplishments. this is hard for me to do because I hate bragging. But if others won't pat you on the back sometimes you have to do it yourself. Also if you put your skills and accomplishments on a resume you can just elaborate during an interview. I have similar issues at work in that since I don't talk much people think I don't know much. and therefore I don't feel I get the credit I deserve. Its hard for us to do but I think we have to make others aware of our accomplishments. this is hard for me to do because I hate bragging. But if others won't pat you on the