in a college town. At least our relationship has always been stable! And we were planning on getting married before we found out about the little one! :) Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? first sign that you are ready - when your friend start to say that you already look like a mommy and acting too. second is that you have a list of what you will do when baby born and of course you imagine different situations with your baby )))) Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? The main thing with knowing whether you and your signifigant other is ready to have children is communication. You two have to be on the same page. Before me and my husband got married we talked about kids and whether or not we wanted them. We both agreed we did, but we also agreed that we shouldn't rush into it. So often now couples are having children before the ink is even dry on their marriage certificate. If right after marriage you feel you're ready for kids that fine. But for us, we knew we would want to take a few years for ourselves. Now after 3 years of marriage we have started trying to get pregnant. We believe we have enough love in our hearts and home to include a child. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My husband and I have been together 4 years