to develop extroversion they seems to be overwhelmed. Even managers - who usually are very confident guys - lost their confidence. But on the other hand... women seems to be more impressed. :-):-):-) So there is something positive in this "Extroversion" idea. :-):-):-) I think that I need to work on balancing things and try to remember mieu advice. :-):-):-) Actually, I think you should try to relativize more instead of focusing on problems. From your first post, i can see that you have a high level job, so i'm assuming you are earning more than the average. You are talking about looking for other jobs, but you are not saying that the current one is bad. If the problems are the mentionned issues related to your INTJness, changing the job won't solve the problem. And why are you not trying the jobs of your business partners if they seem interested and you don't find a new one on your own? Maybe there is more to it than what you wrote for now, hence the questions in my post. But if there is only what you have told now, it seems to me that you don't really have big issues, but you are just overfocussing on them. A job will never be perfect. Try to relax. Now that you know you are INTJ you have some directions for self improvement, just try to improve step by step, and focus on that improvement instead. I'm intj and I don't like it.