I know many of you are thinking Im some vain person, but I'm not, I had a very, very ugly face. I had strangers tell me I was ugly, it's not an easy way to live and I wanted to do something about it and I did. Thank you Ex-ugly Bossy says : Why should you tell them? You've spent enough time feeling embarrassed and unhappy about the way you look, why keep on making excuses for it now? Seriously, the only time you should feel obliged to 'fess up to surgery is when you've had a sex change. I don't see any reason why a new man - whether he is a fling or something serious - needs to know you have had collagen injections, a boob job or a nose job. You've done some hard yards in the past. You have bowed to the pressure of a society which says women must be attractive to be worthwhile. I get that. I am not dumping on your decision to go under the knife. But you've done it. And you feel better for it. So why go running back to the past and pouring out your sorry tale of how you used to be so "ugly". This implies that you are still back there. This implies that what you have now is not real. And that's not true. Your face now, despite surgical procedures, is still your face. People get their teeth capped all the time. People change their hair