some time due to my PCOS diagnosis and irregular cycles. Because of this, we tried infertility treatments for years with no success. Finally, a year and a half ago we decided to stop and put our (mostly mine - my husband was always okay with not having children, but happy to be a father if it worked out) hopes of becoming parents behind us. Once we did this, we moved on and became more settled in our life and routines, to a point of somewhat selfishness with our time. I'm now 34 and had my first positive pregnancy test. I estimate myself to be 8 weeks pregnant, but we're going in next week to confirm. Since we weren't trying at this time, I've had a flood of emotions, from disbelief, to happiness/excitement and quite a bit of fear over what this will mean for our future and how we will now fit this new life into our schedule. I know things will work out and adjustments will be made. Overall, I feel so blessed and am amazed to receive this miracle, but even after all these years... I'm scared out of my mind at the reality. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? im not... u guys all talk about how long u have been with ur boyfriends/husbands i wish it was like that with me i got pregnant 3 months after i met my boyfriend...purely accidental(damn pills dont work worth crap)..... and it has been so hard for