whether he or she. regarding the name we decided to name him or her Jasper in Ethiopian word Eyaspid. what do u think if it is she it doesn't go with this name? I like it when I read it from Bible Exodus 28:20 Revelation 21:11 (It is spotted stone) Malina (and others), we have a 22-year-old DAUGHTER named Jasper. I was 13 years old when I saw the name on a road map and thought it sounded "pretty" and by the time I found out many years later that it was a masculine name, it was too late as I was attached to it for a girls' name. She (still) has the same problems about calling for appointments and people assuming she's a boy...she gets mail addressed to "Mr. Jasper Smith" etc. but the name really suits her. Her middle name is feminine, but she stuck with Jasper. (When reading the Disney book "101 Dalmations" to her as a child, we always skipped over the one bad guy's name as they were Horace and Jasper and I didn't want her associating it with a bad guy. LOL) We're due to have our baby girl any day now and have decided to name her Jasper Clove. We also like the name as a girl's name and have found strong reaction one way or another to it. People love it/hate it, but we love it, and that's all that counts. Years ago, when we first got married we liked the name