weeks to get some things figured out and in a positioin to succeed not only emotionally but finacally aswell as parents. Either way, apparently the Lord knows we are ready for this because he provided us with this blessing. I know that our child is already a motivation for me to be a better person and to have a better more stable life. At the end of the day, I feel remarkably blessed and excited. I have a great man, family and a strong faith. Ready or not..... Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I don't think there is ever a good time to have a baby. For my husband and I we truely needed to jump in to see if we could swim. The first few months were difficult, however we found because we love our son so much it was worth it and we wanted to do all the things having an infant requires. All i can suggest is that you work together as a couple to take care of your child. Also... i have read that there are concerns about relationship strains and such ... My hubby and i only grew closer... we may bicker a bit more .. but we also laugh alot more too. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? You'll never be completely 'ready' for a baby. They just change everything, and it's impossible to be ready for that! :) My husband and I were unmarried and completely unprepared when