both have to be comfortable with this decision before trying and I don't want to pressure him but I don't know if he'll ever be ready. Anyone else out there with this problem? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? ok ladies heres my question, maybe you guys can help. my fiance and i are getting married with in the next two year but through out my family its known that we "go bad" around 25. im currently 10 and im wanting to have more then just one child. im torn because i am so young, but being a mother means the world to me. Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? I have been married almost 2 years and am feeling so ready to have a baby. I'm obsessed with pregnant women and want to have that beautiful baby bump myself. However I'm a worrier and that is preventing us from TTC. I worry about never being able to afford a house (we rent an apt now), not ever having enough money, and not being able to do the things I want to and give my baby the experiences I didn't have as a child (go on vacations, have a home-not just an apt). My husband and I both work and have steady jobs but the field we are in we'll never make a ton of money. I realize that these are probably insignificant issues but to me they're real. My husband is ready and gave me