telling him right away and spend some time figuring out if your initial thoughts bear out. When I met my late husband, I knew within days, too. He told me he knew from first sight. Neither one of us told the other quickly because, let's face it, it's kind of fast and can be spooky to the other person. When I met the guy I'm seeing now, it wasn't as immediate, but it happened relatively fast. I'd be especially cautious just because you've ended a long marriage and you're getting back into the whole dating thing. Just enjoy what you have now and see how it goes. There'll be plenty of time to let him know how you feel, if it is indeed going to be a forever thing. I know that sounds silly. I have always been the type of person who knows what I like. And have no problem going after it. But a 26 year old marriage had left me confused( divorce now) and douting myself. I have meet a wonderful guy. After our first conversation I new he was it. But old dout keep creeping up. I know it's my past relationship that is causing it. I don't want my past ruining the future. I can actully see myself growing old with this person and loving every bit of it. At this point, you don't even know him. What's the rush? Go out with him and get to know him before you start planning a future