who may face to this situation. Be strong for yourself, and continue on your quest for a higher education. Anon, Your comment below is flagrantly and slanderously false. Simply because one man hurt you does not mean all men are as conceited as those you have known. I would also remind you that not all men cheat. Statistics show that approximately fifty-five percent of married men cheat; in relation, approximately fifty percent of married women cheat ( http://www.authorsden.com/categories/art\\... ). Both genders are equally capable of stupidity, whether it is lack of affection or extra-marital affairs. It is an extremely sad time as this has recently happened to me. It totally broke my heart. The point I would like to make is that if you truly love this person, it is more difficult than you think to walk away. Although I thought it was the end of the world for me and didn't know where or whom to turn to, we consulted a marriage counselor. He was able to discuss my husband's problems as he became distant and angry over a period of time. It is now over a year of his sexual wandering as he maintains it was only sex, I believe him, at least 50% and more men wander. There was no emotional tie! Don't think it can't happen to you, because I certainly didn't see it coming. He has always loved me and that is apparent in our relationship today. We are growing stronger as a couple, communicate