the "right order"or at the "right time".personally i think if you want a baby and youre ready to care for and love that baby and your partner(if in the picture)feels the same then you should go for it.i am 12 weeks pregnant and i am scared because i am still in school and my husband has a decent job but we do have some debts.we dont have lots of money,but we do get by.his family is harrassing us alot saying how theres no way we can raise a child because we dont have enough money-we didnt get a congrats or thats exciting or anything,it was just you guys are crazy you cant afford that.my family is super excited and helpful.bottom line,my grandparents had a 11 month old and a newborn and my grandfather provided for them all on about 10 dollars an hour(equivalent to today).I think that if you want it,things fall into place,and it doesnt matter what other people tell you you are ready for! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? Are we ready? I think I will probably ask myself this very question everyday until our child is safely delivered to this world. I think, no, I know that both me and my fiance will be excellent parents. Finacially, my God just thinking about it almost sends me into a panic. But I am trying to keep in mind that I am only 4 weeks along right now. Lord willing we have at least another 32