so, what helps you? Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My Fiance & I have been talking about babies for awhile, and we've decided to go off the pill in July after our wedding. I'm 24 & I"m READY. I dont listen when other people say "oh you should wait" and all that. Its different for everyone. We dont like travelling, we don't go out drinking. We're very low-key people. I know a baby would bring so much happiness to our lives. I dont really see why I should wait! I worry about the same stuff everyone else does; money, debt, career. I think the pros outweigh the cons! Q&A: Are we ready to have a baby? My boyfriend and I found out a few weeks ago that I'm surprisingly pregnant. He's horribly excited and has told everyone he knows. However, I'm extremely stressed and nervous considering so many of my friends have already asked me when we're getting married (which I would love to do and feel we should), but I know he won't ask me just because I'm pregnant. I've started avoiding going out with him and his friends, because I'm so emotional and I'm so tired of his friends wives asking me when we'll get married and telling me how excited they are for us. No one seems to understand that I'm worried about my future and the future I can offer my child. My boyfriend tells me I'm being dramatic, everything will be fine,