is. I'll tell you a secret... most people are better looking in their adulthood than when they were growing up. Everyone has THOSE embaressing photo's and most grow out of it. The fact that you had surgery to 'grow' out of it is not that much different and if you are confident with your looks now, men won't care. My boyfriend was short and fat with english skin (i.e really red skin) until he was 16. At which point he started to grow and lose the weight. Do I care? No. I love him for who he is now. I think when you're dating just leave it alone. Down teeh track when things get serious and they come across old photo's of you at your parents place you can make the decision to tell them or not. People's looks change as they get older. Especially if you take care of yourself properly you will look better at 30 and 40 than when you are younger. Miss A replied to KM Mon 02 Aug 10 (11:55am) While I think it's great that your post is so supportive and for the most part I agree with you, I can't leave the comment "most people are better looking in their adulthood than when they were growing up". Um - what most people? Some, yes. A lot, sure. But most? Hm... I must know and associate with a lot of people who are actually a teeny-tiny minority, myself included. bags replied to KM Mon