That he loved me and our children. He also assured me that if she became too friendly or fresh that I would be the first to know. 10 years later after discovering his trying to kindle flames through texting and phone calls with another women and my leaving, he admitted that there were things that happened with the women from ten years prior. Now understand that he himself never on his own or when being confronted, admitted to ANYTHING. I had to have clear "evidence " before he would tell even partial truths. What hurt so deeply was finding out that his hiring her had been planned. That he went as far as to interview her in front of me and had been "seeing" her months before. That when ge would encourage me to "go ahead and go home because I worked so hard!" all they were doing was waiting for me to leave. I am with him again trying to work through the pain. Our youngest daughter is only eleven and has Aspergers syndrome. Anyone familiar with an ASPI understands that they cannot handle change. I still feel such pain. I try not to be suspicious, to no avail many days . . I am so sorry for anyone who goes through this. Oh yes, one fact that I should tell you. My husband is legally blind. Guide dog and all. I was in beauty pageants, Jr. Miss ect, while I was growing up. I fell in love with