Is it permissible for him to enable his sister to see her suitor outside the home without his father??s knowledge? . A young man who has memorised the Qur??aan (Haafiz al-Qur??aan) and is of good character has proposed to my sister, and there is tentative acceptance. But my sister has not seen him except fleetingly and I want her to see him in the manner prescrib (more) A young man who has memorised the Qur??aan (Haafiz al-Qur??aan) and is of good character has proposed to my sister, and there is tentative acceptance. But my sister has not seen him except fleetingly and I want her to see him in the manner prescribed in sharee??ah before the engagement goes ahead, to ensure that they are compatible and feel comfortable about one another, but my father refuses to allow this seeing as prescribed in sharee??ah and he wants the engagement to go ahead immediately. Is it permissible for my sister to see this young man as prescribed in sharee??ah in my presence, but outside the home and without my father knowing about it? If it is permissible, what are the conditions?.Praise be to Allaah. Abu Dawood (2082) narrated that Jaabir ibn ?Abdillah said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: ?When one of you wants to propose marriage to a woman, if he can see that which will encourage him to go ahead and marry her, let him do so.? I proposed marriage to a girl