I think what you did is great for you, and everyone should feel comfortable in their own skin, but daughters take their mothers words very seriously, and I would really take the time to consider how you will approach that. onegirl replied to banalidiot Mon 02 Aug 10 (04:57pm) Marry the really hot one and their genes will be stronger.. you'll be all good Deb replied to banalidiot Mon 02 Aug 10 (04:59pm) Just because your considered beautiful does not mean your children are born beautiful.  I have seen some stunning parents and their children did not inherit those genes and vice versa. Look at Mick Jagger and then his daughter who is stunning!!! Elle00 replied to banalidiot Mon 02 Aug 10 (07:39pm) Really I wouldn't worry about your children ... check on the Royal Family and one can see how handsome the kids all turned out!! Semiotic replied to banalidiot Mon 02 Aug 10 (08:26pm) But think of the upside... you could blame the ugly child on your partner and get years worth of guilt from it! First of all, you should have spent all that money on some counselling. To work on your personality. We all get ugly as we get older. There's very few good looking 70 and 80 year olds out there. And you know, there's a guy i know, his face isn't too crash hot, but you know what, he's got a beautiful wife, and she told him she fell in love with his hands.