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"You also must be really interested in each other and have a really,really wonderful,  exciting  time together.We do.Brad and I  love  being together.We enjoy it.We need it,and we  always  find that special time.We keep connected.We talk about it.It's very  important  to our family.If Brad and I are strong and happy,then our kids have happy  parents  and that's the best thing we can give them.Brad knows me completely,  exactly  as I am,every part of me.He loves me.The kids love me.Hopefully I'm giving my children the  sense  that they are deeply loved and deeply safe.At the same time we are hopefully  [MASK]  their individuality as they get to know who they are,and not getting in the way of that.That's why they are six very strong individuals."