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These days,after the death of my parents,I am one of those people who can be  [MASK]  to for help when they need it.Just as I can't stand  owing  other people money,I can't stand saying no to whoever needs help.I don't  mind  helping others,but I would be more than glad if they would make a(n)  effort  to handle things themselves,perhaps by doing some  financial  planning-like planning not to speend money they don't have!