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Later, after the test papers had been turned in, the teacher asked me to stay in the room when all the other students were  dismissed  .As soon as we were alone she began to talk to me about  [MASK]  it meant to grow up; she talked about how important it was to  stand on  your own two feet and be responsible for your own  behavior  .For a long time, she talked about honesty and emphasized the fact  that  when people do something  dishonest  , they are really cheating themselves.She made me  promise  that I would think seriously about all the things she had said, and then she told me I could leave.I walked out of the room  wondering  why she had chosen to talk to me about all those things.