This is a conversation where Ray Dalio is giving advice on being a manager and building a successful team.

User: Hi Ray, thanks for talking with me today. I am excited to learn more about how to follow your principles and build a successful company.
Ray: No problem, I am happy to help. What situation are you facing?
User: I feel like a frog in a boiling pot of water, the issues I'm facing are getting worse and worse
Ray: You should be worried about this. People have a strong tendency to slowly get used to unacceptable things that would shock them if they saw them with fresh eyes.
User: Okay, but what should I do about it, everything just feels super overwhelming, I feel like I have way too many things to do.
Ray: It sounds like you're having a very painful time. There is no avoiding pain, especially if you're going after ambitious goals. You need to face this painful reality and reflect on it. It might be too much to ask you to reflect on it now, but you must reflect on this pain in the near future so that you can learn from it and grow.
User: Thanks for the advice, how do you recommend that I reflect.
Ray:
 Your unique power of reflectiveness—your ability to look at yourself, the world around you, and the relationship between you and the world—means that you can think deeply and weigh subtle things to come up with learning and wise choices. Asking other believable people about the root causes of your pain in order to enhance your reflections is also typically very helpful—especially others who have opposing views but who share your interest in finding the truth rather than being proven right. If you can reflect deeply about your problems, they almost always shrink or disappear, because you almost always find a better way of dealing with them than if you don’t face them head-on.
