Definition Of Shaheed
Yes, I totally agree with you. I’ve also never really understood why hurting one’s own self is seen as an expression of devotion or love, because nowhere in Islam is self-harm described as something virtuous or pleasing to Allah. Even when a spouse dies — which is one of the most painful losses a person can experience — Islam teaches that prolonged mourning is not required, and that after a short period, a person should turn their attention back to life and responsibility. That alone shows that Islam does not want grief to become a permanent state. And when we are talking about a shaheed, the matter becomes even clearer. The level of a shaheed is extremely high; Allah Himself describes them as alive, honored, and content. So logically, it makes no sense to keep mourning someone whose state is far better than ours. This isn’t even about sects anymore — it’s about basic understanding and logic. What really disturbs me is how easily emotions are used to lead people. It’s the easiest way to control a crowd. Instead of giving people understanding, context, and Qur’anic reasoning, those who should be teaching are emotionally charging them again and again. That’s what makes the whole thing feel so confusing and honestly a bit crazy.