Frozen Embryo Transfer, IVF
sister I am sorry that you are going through a tough time in your life I think this matter should be resolved by you and your husband. Its not about halal or haram but about the future of human beings who do not have any say in this matter why do you want to have children when your marriage is falling apart? How would you go through with pregnancy along with all the emotional stress? If you do not tell your husband, how do you plan to tell your children about their father? How would you explain his constant absence? Do you expect your husband to recognize them as his children and take part in their up bringing both emotionally and financially? Will your husband be ok to accept children as his heirs? If you really want to have children then discuss with you husband, it is perfectly ok to stay together till the end and then share the responsibilities of upbringing your children together, not necessarily as husband and wife but parents. Whatever you decide, your priority should be the children’s best interest and not what you want to do.