The Reality Of NAZAR (Evil Eye)
That’s the problem (your point 2) , since Hazrat Ayesha (rta) is not talking to you directly and the mode of transmission of her words is not as Authentic as Quran & Sunnah. That’s why a lot of work needs to be done to actually make a sense of what Hazrat Ayesha (rta) in reality could’ve said. Especially when it’s a matter of religion.