Reality Of Marriage (Haqeeqat Of Marriage)
At the time of nikah both of the parties agree that they would forever be together but they would delay intimacy until both of them are ready one of the agreement is that if both of them or one of them are not ready till the end then the other would respect their decision while fulfilling other rights of each other as decided before would this be against reality of marriage
Surah baqrah ayat 226
Surah baqrah ayat 226 states Those who swear not to have intercourse with their wives must wait for four months.1 If they change their mind, then Allah is certainly All-Forgiving, Most Merciful. This concept of ila would this apply to the situation as mentioned above?