Struggles With Life
Sir could you tell me why these things happen
Such confusion can be caused for various reasons including but not limited to medical or psychological issues, contradictions in our beliefs and actions, lack of clear goals in life, lack of order, and lack of motivation in general. From the description that you provided, it seems like you already know how to fix your problems, however, you are not being able to do it. If you think that your issue might be medical, please seek expert medical help, which unfortunately we are unable to offer on Ask Ghamidi. Otherwise speaking with Dr. Saleem as suggested by Umer Qureshi sahab above will be a great way to help you assess your situation. I also very highly recommend reading Jordan Peterson’s book 12 Rules for life: An Antidote to Chaos . There are also some videos available on Youtube that cover these rules but I believe that reading the book and following through the simple advice provided will be immensely helpful in your situation. Lastly, I cannot recommend anything more highly than trying to form a deep relationship with God. For this, consistently praying the five obligatory prayers everyday and reading a small portion of the Quran with understanding will go long ways.