Parents' And Brother's Wrong Ways
I am really sorry for all the hardships you’ve had to go through, and I hope and pray that Allah ease up your burdens. Please listen to the following comments of Ghamidi Sahab, you may find some guidance here. Please refer to the video below from 1:03:05 to 1:06:25 https://youtu.be/pEfET6cqiIY?t=3785
Thank you for your reply. Your reference applies to my SIL. She is the one with marital issues. I, however, am more concerned about my behaviour towards my parents. I haven’t raosed my voice but told them of their wrong ways. But with my past now havinf caught up with me, I dont believe I can ever talk to them for my own mental health. And also coz I know it will be an explosion and I might end up crossing limits God doesn’t want me to. I can’t just be fine and pretend like their toxicity hasn’t caused damage, to not just their son’s home and a 2 yr old baby, but also to his wife and me.
Find a good therapist to go over all the abuse, trauma and other related issues. It takes time to heal from the typa experiences you have dealt with BUT it is doable. A good (professional) therapist is what you need. May Allah help you with all the struggle. Ameen.