Importance Of Sadd-E-Zariya Based Advice Of A Scholar?
We are not supposed to avoid the test we are into.
It is about when a person assume that something is a requirement of deen or morality but he denies it.
gazing at women or touching in itself is inappropriate but they were not the actual sins of Zina, therefore they remain minor sins. On the hand,, normal acts like meeting someone or talking that may lead to backbiting or some higher sins, is in itself appropriate and normal things. They are not counted as Sad e Zayra to avoid some probable sins. If one inclinds to avoid them too it is rehbaniyat.