Maatam By Shia People
This might help https://youtu.be/jpg5GXMKR8M Nahjul Balaga Sermon #233 or 234, Ali bin Abi Talib during a eulogy for the Prophet – peace be upon him – , “If you had not ordered endurance and prevented us from bewailing, we would have produced a store of tears and even then the pain would not have subsided, and this grief would not have ended, and they would have been too little of our grief for you.” Nahjul Balaga Sayings 144 Amir al-mu’minin, peace be upon him, said: Endurance comes according to the affliction. He who beats his hand on the thigh in his affliction ruins all his good actions.