Shia Sunni Marriage And Upbringing Of The Children
Marriage with the people of the Book, Jews and Christians is allowed. Shia are Muslims so marriage with them is allowed too. Now, how you persuade your parents is what you have to figure out according to your situation. Children receive influences from both side, so couples should decide before marriage how they would like to bring up their children. It depends upon the people how they deal with their differences. They can give space to each others beliefs and practices and can escalate the differences to make it a matter of Islam and kufr. It all depends on many social and cultural factors.