Being Best Is Arrogance?
I am returning to grappling with this topic. It’s crucial for me right now. When I find myself in a dominant position in a discussion, like playing the role of a policeman, teacher, or even in a “man-to-woman” conversation with my spouse. The issue is that you tend to become playful. I don’t always prefer being serious; you joke, tease your friends, etc. So, how do you distinguish whether that teasing behavior is just playful or if it borders on rudeness or arrogance? I understand your principle. I appreciate it if, at times, Allah has made us superior or given authority. But there might be moments when you have to express anger or give criticism to your juniors, teachers, etc. Either you are venting your anger at times, or you are logically scolding with good intentions. So, I wanted to ask how you maintain this dominant frame of mind ethically when interacting with others. It’s possible that sometimes you might go a bit overboard. Thank you.