Returning Mehar And Gifts Upon Khula
My understanding is that in case of khula, wife is ‘buying back’ her freedom from her husband, so she can make an offer and he can accept or reject it. Generally, most wives offer back mahr or a part of it, but a wife can offer more if it will earn her freedom. May I suggest that you try EVERY Avenue possible for reconciliation and return to love each other because Allah hates divorce, and it is 1/2 your deen. Ladies, do NOT pursue this out of anger. Also, men don’t understand things until you calmly tell them what you feel and what you want. Take every step to reconcile – may Allah guide you.