Marriage Of Safiyya رضي الله عنها
Here is the correct link: https://www.answeringislam.org/Responses/Osama/zawadi_safiyyah.htm
see this: Discussion 1101 • Reply 1101 Theres a book also on this thread (in Urdu)
I mean it’s quite common sense that a woman would never want to marry the murderer of her family