Bahu
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Aap ki baat apni jagah theek hai — lekin yahan ek usooli farq samajhna zaroori hai. Shar‘i taur par “farz” woh hota hai jo Allah ne lazim qarar diya ho. Bahu par saas aur susur ki khidmat shari‘at ne farz nahi ki. Shohar apne walidain ka zimmedar hota hai, na ke uski biwi. Jo aap bayan kar rahe hain woh akhlaqi satah par ihsan, mutual understanding aur khushgawar muamla hai. Agar shohar apni biwi ke huqooq faraiz se aagey barh kar ada kar raha hai, to biwi ka bhi yeh behtareen rawaiya hoga ke woh husn-e-sulook kare aur ghar ke nizaam mein ta‘awun kare. Lekin yeh phir bhi shar‘i farz nahi ban jata — yeh ihsan aur akhlaqi kamal hota hai. Farz aur ihsan ko mix nahi karna chahiye. Agar har mutual effort ko farz bana diya jaye to phir shari‘at ki bunyadi hudood clear nahi rehti. Muhammad Hassan ne jo sawal kiya tha uska jawab bunyadi shar‘i hukm ke hawale se diya gaya tha. Context detail mein nahi tha, is liye asal legal position batayi gayi. Aap ghalat nahi keh rahe — lekin aap jo misaal de rahe hain woh ihsan ki category mein aati hai, farz ki nahi.