Possible Vulnerabilities Faced By The Husband During And After Divorce
@Umer25 I would love to have this problem resolved for me. It has been bugging me for years. The problem is what if the woman doesn’t hold her end up. Who can hold her accountable, if she is smart enough and malicious, she can manipulate the laws and become the de-facto head with all the rights and none of the responsibilities. If a man is head, how can he hold her accountable. I mean the word head here is just a throw away phrase with no practical implications.
Got your point. Thanks for giving your best to answer my questions. But the answer is simple (in my opinion), for all the rhetoric about roles and responsibilities in marriage Mr. Ghamidi’s interpretation misses a simple practical point. Either you adopt western laws and equally divide all of the rights and responsibilities Or You make the women dependent on her husband’s will. You can’t have an independent woman and then bind her in marriage and then expect her to yield and if she doesn’t, expect the man (who is bearing all the responsibilities) to yield. The whole system is rotten to the core because it is against basic human psychology. Essentially, if you want to adopt the islamic system, adopt it completely or else adopt the western system. Finding an inbetween is wrong on so many levels. T