عورت کو کب انسان سمجھا جائے گا
Many scholars have confused roles with gender. Simply separate the two and you’ll find answers to most of your concerns. 2ndly, not everything that we see in our culture is Islamic. You need to separate culture and religion too.
I agree with Nadeem sb. Culture is the one responsible for this injustice and not Islam. Islam guides people but how many follow Islam. Look at the slavery. Quran abolished it clearly 1442 years ago, but we saw it till 1962 in Saudi Arabia 😊. Who is to blame ??