Dealing With Emotionally Abusive Parent
Sorry to hear your story Your father could’ve done much worse as a father but he didn’t! Just give it a thought You don’t have the right or responsibility to change someone BUT you have the responsibility to change yourself No, being father doesn’t give u angelic status but being a son/daughter doesn’t make you judge either Don’t judge your father, follow Muhammad SAW approach of showing patience, peace, responding with love, care and compassion towards his enemies and towards his family members. His family rejected, ridicule him, showed happiness when his son died but he only treated them with kindness. Don’t judge your father’s actions but your actions only. Be the best child you could be and slowly he’ll transform too. Dont argue to prove your point, there’s no victory in defeating your parents. If u think he’s not nice to your mother then you treat her with more respect and love. Learn more about moral values of Islam, life of Muhammad SAW and live these values and teach with your actions and not your tongue. If you bring about change in you, your father will change his attitude for sure.