Child Left Salah, Fasting And Went After A Non-Muslim Spiritual Preacher
Aap ki pareshani bilkul jaiz aur samajhne wali hai, lekin is situation ko sambhalne ke liye sab se aham baat yeh hai ke aap apne bete ko ek grown adult samjhein. Wo 23 saal ka hai, apni soch, apni awareness aur apni understanding ke sath zindagi ke ek phase se guzar raha hai. Is stage par force, lecture, ya bar-bar ghalti yaad dilana aksar ulta asar karta hai. Aksar aise halat sirf deen se doori ka masla nahi hote, balkay yeh psychological aur philosophical phase hota hai — jahan insaan meaning, identity, purpose aur sukoon dhoondh raha hota hai. Bohat se log zindagi mein aise marahil se guzarte hain. Yeh aap ke bete ka bhi ho sakta hai, aur yeh aap ke liye bhi ek imtihaan hai — sabr, samajh aur hikmat ka.Aap ke liye behtar tareeqa yeh hai:Us par baat force na karein, khaaskar woh topics jin par wo baat hi nahi karna chahtaUs ke sath normal aur pyar bhara rawaiya rakhein, jaise pehle thaUsay yeh ehsaas dein ke ghar us ke liye mehfooz jagah hai, jahan usay judge nahi kiya jataUs ke kaamon ko promote bhi na karein, lekin usay reject bhi na kareinBar-bar yeh kehna ke “tum ghalat ho” usay sirf pressure aur doori ki taraf le jata hai Is waqt sab se zaroori cheez yeh hai ke wo apne aap ko mehfooz, maqbool aur samjha hua mehsoos kare. Jab insaan ko yeh feeling milti hai, tabhi wo khud sochta hai, sawal karta hai, aur cheezon ko dobara evaluate karta hai. Aap ka farz sirf rehnumai aur muhabbat tak hai — hidayat dena Allah ka kaam hai. Is liye: Dua par bohat zyada tawajjoh rakhein Apna rawaiya sukoon aur tawazan ke sath rakhein Pressure aur emotional blackmail se parhez karein Yeh phase guzar bhi sakta hai, lekin us ka raasta tabhi khula rehta hai jab walidain pull nahi, balkay jazb aur qurbat ka rawaiya ikhtiyar karte hain.