When Does Desire To Be Respected By Others Become Impermissible?
There’s no harm in serving the inner desire for respect that’s inherent in human beings; the key thing is to not give into such desires at the expense of reason and rationality. For details, please watch the following from 1:35 to 8:58 : https://youtu.be/orqQNlpECbA?start=1m35s