Definition Of Shaheed
Thanks Mahnoor for a detailed, specific and to the point answer covering all aspects mentioned in my Question. But I still feel that no one should grieve the shaheed. Had we emphasized these ayas in our day to day conversation with masses at large (who have never read quran with meaning are are pure driven by their mullahs who depend entirely on Qisas and unverified stories) and specially Ahkle Tashayu so that people should know how bad this practice is. These ayas and message that who are they mourning – some one who is a shaheed, who is happy and alive, who is in jannat. How on earth can mourn and that too for 1200 years. I strongly feel we need to tell them the virtues of shaheed repeatedly and should tell them what they are doing. Thanks once again.