Is My Relationship With My Boyfriend Problematic?
He isn’t a polytheists though, and I always thought our relationship could be accepted because it isn’t a secret to anyone and we have been exclusive with eachother for so long just like a husband and wife are. We never been with anyone else
Funny. I asked that question too one time ( Discussion 73158 ). But the translations of the videos and response I got was: Exceptions do not allow change in the command. Because sex is addicting and things can change. Mr. Ghamidi gives the hypothetical example in the video of allowing a person to have sex with a prostitute but if tomorrow that prostitute changes her mind and wants to get married and have children? How will we change things after bad habits and traditions have taken place? Will someone accept that woman as a wife and mother afterward? So suppose you go on and get married, a nature forces a child accidentally. Or he changes his mind, or you change your mind? You may end up without a father for your child. You may end up with another husband but would still think about your bf instead, leading a way to Lord forbid, infidelity? What if your second husband learns about your past and divorce you, again leaving you without a father? Then you would have make changes but if your hearts won’t agree. This is what God keeps in mind when He says no exceptions. No exceptions for gambling, for alcohol and for sex. No loophole allowed. That’s principle answer. Now God will judge the results so if all I said suppose doesn’t happen and you reach Day of Judgment with the only sin of marrying a non-Muslim, then you have a chance of being forgiven maybe…maybe (but I personally, wouldn’t take that chance, just saying because rule is: Fear God). So, if you want sex, you must get married. And as a Muslim, to another Muslim. Otherwise the family system you create afterward may not last.