Quran 32:33 – Who Are "those Who Find Not An Opportunity For Marriage"?
Yes, in this situation, the boy is the one who has less opportunity to get married. It is not the case of right or wrong, but priorities, and one has to manage according to the resources available to one. Everyone should act in the light of the sense of justice and Ihsan (doing good at its highest level)
Is it a must in order to get married to have money that you can fully exercise your control over in Islam? If so, according to what Ayah?