Divorce In Anger
Ghamidi sahab ke nazdeek, gusse mein di gayi talaq ka faisla is baat par depend nahi karta ke bivi ne koi aisa kaam kiya jis se shohar ko gussa aaya, balkay is baat par hota hai ke talaq ke waqt shohar kis mental state mein tha. Ghamidi explain karte hain ke gusse ke mukhtalif levels hotay hain: agar shohar itna zyada gusse mein ho ke us ka hosh o hawas bilkul khatam ho jaye, usey samajh hi na ho ke wo kya keh raha hai, ya alfaaz baghair iraday ke nikal rahe hon (jaise pagalpan ya behoshi ki halat), to aisi talaq waqi nahi hoti. Lekin agar shohar gusse mein hone ke bawajood apni baat samajh raha tha, usey pata tha ke wo “talaq” keh raha hai aur us ka matlab kya hai, aur us ne iraday se yeh lafz bola, to phir talaq ho jati hai, chahe baad mein usey afsos hi kyun na ho. Is view ke mutabiq sirf gussa hona talaq ko batil nahi karta, kyun ke gussa insani fitrat ka hissa hai; talaq sirf us surat mein nahi hoti jab gussa aqal aur iraday ko bilkul khatam kar de. Bivi ke kisi kaam se gussa aana talaq ko invalid nahi banata — zimmedari shohar par hoti hai ke us ne talaq ka lafz kis halat mein istemal kiya. Agar aap is maslay ko aur detail mein samajhna chahen, to Javed Ahmad Ghamidi ki is mauzu par YouTube par detailed videos bhi mojood hain, jahan wo gusse, niyyat aur talaq ke farq ko wazeh taur par samjhate hain.