Fear Of Displeasing God Vs Fear Of Hell Fire To Stay Away From Sins?
Yes. This approach is acceptable. The point one must understand is that we are not independent of God. Just like rebelling against boss (e.g breaking his car) would not only result in earning the boss’ displeasure but also a case of losing your job. One can say that they love their boss that’s why you do good at your job but that ‘losing job’ aspect is still there because of boss being your employer. That is how, conceptually, you must understand that since God owns us, angering Him comes with His justice and punishment of our sins. So that can’t be separated. It is fine to say that ‘due to my mental condition, I don’t want to think about losing my job as that makes it difficult for me to function so I focus on other reasons’ in same way as you don’t want to focus on punishment of God for your mental sake. But understand this is an exceptional case for yourself. You can follow your approach because your case is exceptional but as far as actual narrative of religion goes, we work for reward and avoid punishment, love of God involves both His Paradise and His Hell, as we are grateful for Paradise and grateful that He keeps us safe from Hell, we fear losing His Paradise and fear being on the wrong side of His justice. So you can see how this goes hand to hand.