Feeling Anger And Feeling Bad For Feeling Anger
It’s about “Gunah se nafrat karo, Gunehgaro se nahi” – “Hate the sin, not the sinner.” We should judge and form decisions on what we think is right or wrong, we can’t live life without that. But we can’t judge individuals on whatever they are doing. I mean, for example, shirk is wrong, but we can’t judge if a person who’s worshipping an idol is mushrik or not. We don’t know his heart and his personal journey. At the best, we should form positive and optimistic decisions about people. For an example, we know it is said that it is considered that drinking water while sitting is sunnah. Now, I heard from an aalim, that if you see a person drinking water while he is standing, think they are drinking water of zamzam, which is to be drank while standing. This is an example of how positive we can get, while judging others! Even if there are 99% chances of some sin, we’ll look at and magnify that 1% chances which assumes they are good. Imho.