Will Parents Be Accountable For Hurting Their Children's Emotions
I think parents are the guides but not the owners of their kids. Kids are amanah of Allah SWT. Whenever I read the dua رب ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا I always think if parents are gentle and merciful to their kids then they will be eligible for Allah SWT’s Marcy. We can make dua for abusive parents of their forgiveness but as parents we should be very careful with dealing with our kids. This is the matter of معاملات . As parent I feel it requires lots of sabr too. We should learn from the mistakes of our parents. As nobody can change past but can make the future of our kids better.