Does Motherhood Raise A Wife's Status In A Family?
As stated above, mothers have a higher status in relation to their children. Just like in an institution, a director has authority over managers and other employees even when the final authority rests with the Chairperson or the CEO. If mother says something and father says something else should never be the case in a good family. A God fearing husband is supposed to take into consideration the opinions of his wife while a God fearing wife is supposed to align herself with the wishes of her husband. Additionally, children are motivated in Islam to give respect to both of their parents but mothers enjoy a higher status in this regard. We have been taught that there is paradise under the feet of mothers.
إِنَّ لَكُمْ من نِسَائِكُمْ حَقًّا وَلِنِسَائِكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ حَقًّا فَأَمَّا حَقُّكُمْ على نِسَائِكُمْ فلا يُوَطِّئَنَّ فُرُشَكُمْ من تَكْرَهُونَ ولا يَأْذَنَّ في بُيُوتِكُمْ لِمَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ ألا وَحَقُّهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تُحْسِنُوا إِلَيْهِنَّ في كِسْوَتِهِنَّ وَطَعَامِ Indeed you have rights over women and they also have rights over you. You have the right that they neither permit into your homes nor sleep with anyone you dislike. Listen! Their right upon you is that you feed and clothe them in the best way [you are able to]. [6] It was mentioned in the discussion you shared above what’s the meaning of “You have the right that they neither permit into your homes nor sleep with anyone you dislike. “ Is it a writing mistake nor sleep with anyone you dislike? where is the concept of sleeping with someone else come liking and disliking come from its crime n sin right OR its my poor understanding? can you tell me what is the meaning
if these were occasional that should be mentioned in women right along with providing clothes and to feed that male also shouldn’t sleep with others because here are mentioning rights of both husband and wife @UmerQureshi Sir can you also elaborate it help to understand it maybe i am not getting it right and please also tell me is this hadith authentic Thanks