Ties With Friends And Breaking Them
Yes this hadees is true and there are 5 to 6 rights of Muslim brother and sisters on each other mentioned there But also keep in mind that islam does not force emotional intimacy These are basic social courtesies meant to keep the community cohesion Not “must do” in all and every situation And on top of this you can never be a kind person if you are always overgiving yourself at the end of the day you’ll be exhausted and all together stop doing everything making you fall in guilt So if something is really bothering your peace of heart and mind you need to analyze it from your perspective and also from others Not just be overly kind to everyone Keeping that boundry between prioritizing yourself and being unkind or arrogant is very difficult but obviously can be achieved It took me so much time but here i am i can now easily distinguish between being overgiving and kind Life isn’t meant to be stay positive all the time no matter what It’s to keep the balance and not to fall in both extremes (We can talk on another platform if u need more help)
Jazak’Allah Khair What bothers me are the thoughts am I doing enough or what if I follow something and one day I come to known it was wrong all along…. There are so many opinions that it confuses me to determine the right path. For e.g If two person had an argument and they stopped talking when they meet in some public setting even tho they’ll greet each other both of them know that a tension exist between them. How can people pretend they are okay when they are not and Hadith says to not to turn away from each other for more than three days but sometimes forgiving someone isn’t that easy then just greeting each other how would that make the society cohesive