Is It Obligatory For Women To Obey Her Husband In All Matters?
Fasting includes abstinence from physical relation between husband and wife. So a woman can decide in her circumstances that she should let her husband know that she would be fasting and not avaialbe for intimacy during the day. In the second case, etiquettes demands that her absence must be in her husband’s knowledge. The problem is the way to tell these etiquettes in terms of rules as if it is between master and slave. It is rather between two responsible people who know their limits and responsibilities.
This is no way to determine the meaning of a word. The word Qanitaat means obedient. it can be obedient to God and obedient to Husband or to parents, depending upon the subject it refers to. If one denies to take it obedient to husband, the next phrase comes فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ which leaves no room but obedience or compliance. It means if they obey you. Other words are twisted too in translation. For details you can consult the translation and interpretation of Ghamidi saheb here https://www.javedahmedghamidi.org/#!/quran?chapter=4&paragraph=24&type=Ghamidi You have our view and now you can decide.
Ut won’t it violate the obligation Allah has set upon women,, like if a man’s wife is prideful not in means of (takabbur) but general pride that people have also called as self esteem, anyway and a women is like that she is loving but she is so tough that she don’t even is able to show love properly but she do care but when someone do impose something on her as she is caring yet she is so much stubborn at point when someone do play authority over her, what should a husband do? And also if she do understand and try her best to please her partner but at the same time she got her that personality that she can’t go against, so will it violate the rule or obligation that Allah has set upon her ? Bcz she is stubborn and has her own standards and principles which she don’t change (which are not bad or annoying Islamically) so what should a woman do, should she always keep her personality, ambitions ,goals, standars, and principles,Nd rules which she have lived by till now?? Its confusing kindly help me, Won’t it violate the obligation
So in martial life can she be head of house???? ,