What Does Islam Really Say About Women's Independence (financially)
As salamu alaekum, I am not commenting with respect to the Islamic values/fatwa etc but to share a practical approach i adopted in this regard and might be helpful in your case. I understand your concern and to handle this situation, on top of the the basic needs that as a husband i have to provide, from day 1 i have allocated “Pocket Money” fund to my wife. Each month i hand over an amount of money to her which she can utilize to fulfil her needs/desires. She can save it or use use it to participate in a committee or spend it as she pleases. My apologies if this answer/comment is against this platform policy.