Issue Regarding Divorce (Talaq)
Even if it is considered first Talq, you can retract it within the stated time period and afterward you can still marry her. I think Talaq is a less of an issue in this case unless underlying issues are resolved that brought you to this point . As a leader of the household, you need to be fair and just regardless of the relationship. Find out root cause of conflict between your wife and your parents and try to solve it first.