Agar "Nafsi Ilm" Waqai Hai Tou Kam Karta Nazar Kyun Nhi Ata
Walikumasalam Yahan asal ghalat-fehmi yeh hai ke nafsi ilm (ilm-un-nafs / psychology) ko log medical science ki tarah samajh lete hain, jabke dono ki nature bilkul mukhtalif hai. Physical bimariyan zyada tar external factors se hoti hain — jaise bacteria, virus, injury, chemical imbalance — is liye un ka ilaaj bhi aksar external cheezon se hota hai: dawa, surgery, injection, etc. Doctor aap ke jism par directly kaam kar sakta hai, is liye bukhar ya infection jaldi control ho jata hai. Nafsi masail is qisam ke nahi hotay. Depression, anxiety, trauma, fear, guilt, identity crisis — yeh sab internal cheezen hoti hain: insaan ke experiences, soch ka pattern, emotional wiring, aur zindagi ke halaat se bani hui. Koi bhi psychologist ya therapist aap ke dimagh ko “bahar se khol kar” theek nahi kar sakta. Woh sirf samajhne ka framework, tools aur rehnumaai deta hai. Asal kaam khud insaan ko karna hota hai — aur agar insaan khud willing na ho, to duniya ka koi bhi expert use theek nahi kar sakta. Is liye yeh sawal ke “agar nafsi ilm waqai hai to koi sab ka ilaaj kyun nahi kar deta” asal mein us ilm ki fitrat ko miss karta hai. Nafsi ilm ka maqsad zindagi ko pain-free banana nahi hota, balkay insaan ko apni reality samajhne, cope karne, aur behtar response dene ke qabil banana hota hai. Is mein waqt lagta hai, mehnat lagti hai, aur sab se zyada khud insaan ki tayyari darkaar hoti hai. Islami nazriye se bhi tazkiyah-e-nafs ya nafsi islah ka matlab yeh nahi ke har mushkil foran khatam ho jaye. Maqsad yeh hota hai ke insaan andar se mature ho, apni zimmedari samjhe, aur apni soch aur rawaiye ko ahista ahisat behtar banaye. Yeh koi painkiller nahi, balkay growth ka process hai.