Sahih Al Bukhari 1239 – Obligations And Forbidden Things
Not every command is obligatory. Following a funeral is a good act. It requires people to make the necessary arrangements for burial. Women are not forbidden to follow the funeral, but usually men do this job. Using silver utensils was a sign to show off one’s wealth. It does not apply to ordinary utensils. Things are forbidden or condemned for something objectionable about them. If an objectionable reason or cause is associated with them, they are forbidden; if the reason or cause is no longer associated with them, they are no longer forbidden.