Is It Obligatory For Women To Obey Her Husband In All Matters?
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And too ghamdi SB didn’t said it clearly?? Like he said a woman shouldn’t spread evil when Allah has given the responsibility of house to man… And also what does it actually meant to obey as the head of the house but not as a slave,, What’s the difference,, 🤔 Like is it about he can take decisions for house but not for individuals of the house ,?? Isn’t it’ll take individuality from the members of the house , Like mostly man don’t care about the members individual choice , in past era atleast they didn’t, they say ” as it is obligatory for women to obey her husband” so it’s a necessity which shall be done,, And also a scholar told about the another ayat on it He told it’s about the sexual need That she shall obey him at that time, It’s not about the normal regular and daily engagements and choices,, Can you plz elaborate and explain above,,,,
Then is it about obeying on the matters of house after discussing it in between Or it will be obligatory to obey on Individual level ,, Don’t everyone have a right to take decisions for themselves??? Or it is not allowed after marriage for a woman
And what about people who narrate hadiths about women not fasting without permission of her husband or not going out without permission of her husband ,,
This is the explaination of the ayat I have camed across along time ago while learning about Islam,, kindly read it out fully,, and also I have never camed across any ayat which states as it is obligation nor did I heared any hadith which explain this obligation, Kindly read it out below and answer me,
The whole scheme of marriage is based on Man being the head of the family and that is why he has been given authoritative rights. He can divorce, but if a woman needs to get divorced, she demands it, but can’t divorce. After given divorce man has the authority to revoke it without her consent within the waiting period: وَبُعُولَتُهُنَّ أَحَقُّ بِرَدِّهِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ إِنْ أَرَادُوا إِصْلَاحًا however, if she does not want to join him, she can ask for Khula. Man is obliged to spend on her, but woman is not obliged to do the same.
If it’s about taking it smoothy while not crushing eachothers principles Nd personality then where is the authority of man? There are plenty of people who make their house run like partners do they don’t play authority over eachother but they do respect eachothers means and opinions ,,,, but my question is if a husband and wife do work like partners as they are and the house has no problems and going smoothly then what is the point of authority of man??? Like he is having no authority here’,, is it injustice to him? Or if he is pleased and satisfied with the system of his house???