Is It Obligatory For Women To Obey Her Husband In All Matters?
They should discuss it, keeping in mind the status of head of the family.
Yes, of course, rather they should do that. a woman can add or demand certain conditions in the marriage contract and also after marriage, they should find ways to run the affairs smoothly, taking care of each other and respecting each other.
Authority does not mean to act like a master all the time. It appears at times of conflict or in the matters of administration of the house, when there is a need to make a final decision is some matter. Daily matters are run with mutual consultation, care, and respect. If they feel not compatible with each other due to differences in aptitude, they may choose to give each other more space. Man can hand over his authority or a portion of his authority to his woman. The authority of man is not the order of God. It is natural and God endorsed it.
If man does not want it, there remains no obligation.
I see , jazakallah for the answer, you cleared my confusions ,, jazakallah