Vulgar Acts A Husband Does And What Does Islam Teach Us About It
In Islam, the husband is made the head of the family. He bears responsibliity of financial burden of his wife and children as well as maintaining peace so the family system that Allah wants can come into existence. In exchange for this burden, he has the right to be respected. Keeping this in mind, when a husband is neglecting his duties, a wife can advise him with respect and in a polite caring manner. To explain to him that how his actions are dangerous and advise him to stop, reminding him that marriage is a sacred contract that Allah takes very seriously and that Allah expects husband to honor his role as head of family, in being disciplined and maintaining the family. If it does not work, you may involve a trustworthy party (that both you and your husband agree upon) to come and help you in advising him. If his sins are not too serious, you may keep this matter in private otherwise if the dangers of his crime is creating a serious problem to those around him, the law can be involved in stopping a dangerous husband. This is according to priniciple, i.e you can involve law to check-and-balance a problematic spouse if the case has gone too far but in case of countries where laws are weak, I may not personally advise it. But it is an option. These videos generally explains what to do regarding such issues: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5lhvrJRel94