Can A Husband Force A Woman To Have A Child?
اگر مانع حمل مطلوب نہیں تو کیا آپ کا یہ کہنا ہے کہ اگر بیوی ذہنی طور پر بچے پیدا کرنے کے لئے تیار نہیں ہے تو خاوند کو جنسی تعلقات سے باز رہنا چاہئے۔If not contraception than do you mean to say that husband should abstain from sex if wife is not mentally ready to have kids?
ShahMeer, I think that the perspective of the question is not correct. A marriage implies that in the near future both the husband and the wife will try to start a family. If the husband wasn’t informed of any different ideas in advance, then it’s not a question of whether he can force his wife to bear a child . The question should be whether or not the wife can refuse to bear a child . The answer to that question is that she can try to convince her husband in a nice manner, however, she has no right to refusal. As a side note, a lot of times the source of our mental torture is our own behavior. We should consciously try to minimize the contradictions in our thoughts and actions as much as possible. I’m generalizing here so there are definitely exceptions, however, if a woman doesn’t take a stand against her father or the family and gets married against her wishes, now she has only two options. Preferably she should accept her new life and wholeheartedly try to adapt to it, or if not possible then take a stand against her marriage now and get a divorce while the damage is still comparatively low. There’s no point in complicating matters, suffering your own self, and making others around you suffer as well. In a marriage, it’s really important for both the husband and the wife to be 100% focused and dedicated in the beginning years. Anything less leads to negative consequences of varying degrees in the future.