Living Abroad With Husband And Kids
If I may pitch in my opinion and experience. 1. First approach is to understand that we are here in this World to pass a test. Then decide what actions would help you pass the test and return successfully to Allah. 2. Without disregarding your needs and feelings, thank Allah for everything that perhaps billions of people aspire for… being able to travel the World, see various cultures and having a spouse with no issues. 3. Understand that after marriage family needs take priority over ndividual needs. What your husband achived with your support will help improve living of the entire immediate and extended family. Im marriage a person’s actions impact many other people. Although individual sacrifice may seem unfair, but it is a grand act and perhaps happiness for many. This does not mean let go of your dreams. Discuss those dreams with your spouse and sometimes there are more than one solution to a problem. See if you can find an alternative solution. Also myself being away from my country most of my life, sometimes the grass seems greener on the other side. That means it is possible that if you go back you are hit by reality and you either find home country not to be the same or once you practically live there long term, you find difficulties that you never imagined. Anyhow, divorce seems extreme thought. Could it be home sickness or depression? Even before divorce take a break from your family life with your husband and spend several months away in home country. This may give you a different perspective and renew your relationships. Also in those months try pursuing your passion and see if reality is the same as you thought. Finally if nothing works, both sides should consult a wise and sincere person from each side to explore solutions.