Marriage With Shia Girl
I am completely aligned with Ghamidi sb point about risk of friction later when family grows. Though in my personal experience friction can arise even on unexpected issues if both spouses could not get along further. We must get more black n’ white on this matter that what rights Islam has given to parents? Can they stop an adult child from getting married in accordance to Shria’s boundaries? Can the stop an adult child to follow Islam in accordance to Quran and Sunnah? Yes marriage is a lifelong decision and if come with blessings of parents and adults it’s always a win but if not is it against Allah’s limits?
Unfortunately at time of birth we put a label on every child of sect. Being born Muslim is biggest blessing but we make this blessing a challenge by adding restrictions of belonging to different sects. My suggestion was not based on sect. My suggestion was based on human nature that when we are prohibited from something it always attracts more. Thus decision of marriage should be taken with free and calm mind not in situation of friction. If a free, fearless, calm mind feels strongly towards establishing companionship then religion has no objection. Marriage should be an attraction not a reaction.