diff --git "a/Splits/test.json" "b/Splits/test.json" new file mode 100644--- /dev/null +++ "b/Splits/test.json" @@ -0,0 +1,27894 @@ +[ + { + "id": "test_00001", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_001", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi. How's it goin'? Are you feeling troubled about something this morning? I know it can be hard to talk about personal problems sometimes. I have a lot of trouble with that myself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "going smooth, i need to get a nice and a surprise able present for my parent, and at the same time I need to pay my house bills my father understands the situation that my earning is not that much, but my mum will fuck complain that I am taking care of my wife but not her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you're having some cash flow issues, right? I can relate to that at a few more points in my life than I'd points in my life than I'd like to recall. It's so very loving and sweet of you to be putting so much thought into the gift! That isn't all that common anymore, unfortunately.. Are you currently working?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, your are right, I cannot stay in house without paying bills yes, I am working but the income is not that much", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes, your are right, I cannot stay in house without paying bills yes, I am working but the income is not that much", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00002", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_002", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi, how are you and how can i help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I'm experiencing a lot of anxiety and depression because of constant severe back pain.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi I'm experiencing a lot of anxiety and depression because of constant severe back pain.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00003", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_003", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hello", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00004", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_003", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00005", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_003", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications? Yes, we are all in this weird boat together.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough yea definitly weird times i live in a small town in vermont so only so much around, trying to get job at ski resort but no call back yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough yea definitly weird times i live in a small town in vermont so only so much around, trying to get job at ski resort but no call back yet", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00006", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_003", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications? Yes, we are all in this weird boat together.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough yea definitly weird times i live in a small town in vermont so only so much around, trying to get job at ski resort but no call back yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well I applaud your efforts to seek out employment! Keep up the faith!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea im trying but its been awhile im also just so stir crazy cant watch anymore tv do the mturk here and there but hasnt been greay", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you have probably seen this resource but in case you havent: benefits.gov/help/faq/Coronavirus-resources", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ill check it out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I understand, I live in Iowa- a bigger town but the struggles are still very real", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks ah word i hear ya i was in des moises once zombie burher lol burger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sounds like you are onto something with the ski resorts- sure hope something pans out oh yes! classic:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks yea i hope they open and stay open i guess we will see sooo goood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "anything else I can help with? truth!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not sure haha just figured try this out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "me too!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "so we both get paid for this right ? haha", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hopefully:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "haha i hope so", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "honestly good luck with everything!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks you too! eat some zombie burger for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "appreciate that! Take care! LOL i will:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no problem and haha wish i could come back remember had one with cheese curds so goood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "drive on down and over", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "haha if i had the money id love too was a nice state", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "haha if i had the money id love too was a nice state", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00007", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_003", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications? Yes, we are all in this weird boat together.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough yea definitly weird times i live in a small town in vermont so only so much around, trying to get job at ski resort but no call back yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well I applaud your efforts to seek out employment! Keep up the faith!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea im trying but its been awhile im also just so stir crazy cant watch anymore tv do the mturk here and there but hasnt been greay", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you have probably seen this resource but in case you havent: benefits.gov/help/faq/Coronavirus-resources", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ill check it out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I understand, I live in Iowa- a bigger town but the struggles are still very real", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks ah word i hear ya i was in des moises once zombie burher lol burger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sounds like you are onto something with the ski resorts- sure hope something pans out oh yes! classic:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks yea i hope they open and stay open i guess we will see sooo goood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "anything else I can help with? truth!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not sure haha just figured try this out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "me too!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "so we both get paid for this right ? haha", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hopefully:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "haha i hope so", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "honestly good luck with everything!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks you too! eat some zombie burger for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "appreciate that! Take care! LOL i will:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no problem and haha wish i could come back remember had one with cheese curds so goood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "drive on down and over", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "haha if i had the money id love too was a nice state", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hiring might be better here than in vermont I get it- bummer", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "says i need to talk back and forth ten times for reward lol oh yea? more open there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I think we met the quota!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "oh nice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, the iowa governor is super right wing so she is adament about keeping business open etc", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ah gotcha and no high cases?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So even with numbers spiking, some schools are open still, lots of restaurants and businesses still open", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ah true , they closed down alot here to stop spread", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "no we still have an increase, but she won't do a lockdown or anything extreme-", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "gotvha interesting", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So naturally that has helped employers stay hiring...so?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea makes sense but if everyone gets sick then what hha", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yea makes sense but if everyone gets sick then what hha", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00008", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_003", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "stressed out, anxious , this covid life is so tough cant find any work and just struggling with money and emotionally", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you- I can definitely relate. I'm sorry to hear you are unable to find work. What type of work are you looking for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "anything really atm and sorry to hear that its tough everywhere alot of people having a hard time def", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you looked into government assistance due to covid complications? Yes, we are all in this weird boat together.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea they give me like 170 a week cant even cover rent and bills and to eat so on so its tough yea definitly weird times i live in a small town in vermont so only so much around, trying to get job at ski resort but no call back yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well I applaud your efforts to seek out employment! Keep up the faith!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea im trying but its been awhile im also just so stir crazy cant watch anymore tv do the mturk here and there but hasnt been greay", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you have probably seen this resource but in case you havent: benefits.gov/help/faq/Coronavirus-resources", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ill check it out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I understand, I live in Iowa- a bigger town but the struggles are still very real", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks ah word i hear ya i was in des moises once zombie burher lol burger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sounds like you are onto something with the ski resorts- sure hope something pans out oh yes! classic:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks yea i hope they open and stay open i guess we will see sooo goood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "anything else I can help with? truth!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not sure haha just figured try this out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "me too!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "so we both get paid for this right ? haha", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hopefully:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "haha i hope so", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "honestly good luck with everything!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks you too! eat some zombie burger for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "appreciate that! Take care! LOL i will:)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no problem and haha wish i could come back remember had one with cheese curds so goood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "drive on down and over", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "haha if i had the money id love too was a nice state", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hiring might be better here than in vermont I get it- bummer", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "says i need to talk back and forth ten times for reward lol oh yea? more open there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I think we met the quota!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "oh nice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, the iowa governor is super right wing so she is adament about keeping business open etc", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ah gotcha and no high cases?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So even with numbers spiking, some schools are open still, lots of restaurants and businesses still open", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ah true , they closed down alot here to stop spread", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "no we still have an increase, but she won't do a lockdown or anything extreme-", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "gotvha interesting", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So naturally that has helped employers stay hiring...so?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea makes sense but if everyone gets sick then what hha", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "very true", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea its wild i just wish was over", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that feeling! well hopefully we get paid;) keep your head up:) Good luck to you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "enjoy your evening same to you", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "enjoy your evening same to you", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00009", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_004", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The season has me down. No family around.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you finding time to do things you enjoy by yourself? Any hobbies?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to work and write but lack motivation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are feeling some lethargy in this cold season, and feel as though you have no support from your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't talk to anyone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any plans to spend Christmas with family or friends? That may help to break the cycle of feeling low?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a hotel currently No family or friends around, especially with the virus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you do for work? Are you able to get out of the hotel frequently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am a writer. Witht he virus it is hard to meet anyone i am only here until next week then I have to go to Virignia My children r all over the country", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree, it is hard to spend time with people at the moment. We are all finding ourselves spending a lot more time alone than we are used to. Perhaps you could all plan an event for next year when we will hopefully be less restricted. It would be good to have something positive to look forward to.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try the dating sites, but they seem to far away or impersonal Hope things are better. Just the current season ahs me down", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I can see that. Keep in touch with your family and try to think of positive, happy times you can all have together in the future.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No verbal communication makes it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you call them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try but the loneliness is the hard part", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I try but the loneliness is the hard part", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00010", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_004", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The season has me down. No family around.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you finding time to do things you enjoy by yourself? Any hobbies?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to work and write but lack motivation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are feeling some lethargy in this cold season, and feel as though you have no support from your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't talk to anyone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any plans to spend Christmas with family or friends? That may help to break the cycle of feeling low?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a hotel currently No family or friends around, especially with the virus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you do for work? Are you able to get out of the hotel frequently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am a writer. Witht he virus it is hard to meet anyone i am only here until next week then I have to go to Virignia My children r all over the country", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree, it is hard to spend time with people at the moment. We are all finding ourselves spending a lot more time alone than we are used to. Perhaps you could all plan an event for next year when we will hopefully be less restricted. It would be good to have something positive to look forward to.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try the dating sites, but they seem to far away or impersonal Hope things are better. Just the current season ahs me down", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I can see that. Keep in touch with your family and try to think of positive, happy times you can all have together in the future.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No verbal communication makes it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you call them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try but the loneliness is the hard part", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this loneliness is really getting to you and you are struggling to see a way forwards. As you are a writer could you perhaps try to make some online friends in forums?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is just the lack of communication", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It is just the lack of communication", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00011", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_004", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The season has me down. No family around.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you finding time to do things you enjoy by yourself? Any hobbies?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to work and write but lack motivation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are feeling some lethargy in this cold season, and feel as though you have no support from your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't talk to anyone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any plans to spend Christmas with family or friends? That may help to break the cycle of feeling low?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a hotel currently No family or friends around, especially with the virus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you do for work? Are you able to get out of the hotel frequently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am a writer. Witht he virus it is hard to meet anyone i am only here until next week then I have to go to Virignia My children r all over the country", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree, it is hard to spend time with people at the moment. We are all finding ourselves spending a lot more time alone than we are used to. Perhaps you could all plan an event for next year when we will hopefully be less restricted. It would be good to have something positive to look forward to.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try the dating sites, but they seem to far away or impersonal Hope things are better. Just the current season ahs me down", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I can see that. Keep in touch with your family and try to think of positive, happy times you can all have together in the future.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No verbal communication makes it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you call them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try but the loneliness is the hard part", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this loneliness is really getting to you and you are struggling to see a way forwards. As you are a writer could you perhaps try to make some online friends in forums?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is just the lack of communication", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. Perhaps you could call one of your children now? See if they'd like to catch-up?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "without any communication it makes it seem like a battle alone My daughter is busy and 3 hours away different time zones amke it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe schedule in a call with her for the future? I have been making time to speak with my family every Tuesday, it gives us something to look forward to each week", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Children can only share so much I chat with her, but the timing is off", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Children can only share so much I chat with her, but the timing is off", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00012", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_004", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The season has me down. No family around.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you finding time to do things you enjoy by yourself? Any hobbies?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to work and write but lack motivation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are feeling some lethargy in this cold season, and feel as though you have no support from your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't talk to anyone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any plans to spend Christmas with family or friends? That may help to break the cycle of feeling low?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a hotel currently No family or friends around, especially with the virus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you do for work? Are you able to get out of the hotel frequently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am a writer. Witht he virus it is hard to meet anyone i am only here until next week then I have to go to Virignia My children r all over the country", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree, it is hard to spend time with people at the moment. We are all finding ourselves spending a lot more time alone than we are used to. Perhaps you could all plan an event for next year when we will hopefully be less restricted. It would be good to have something positive to look forward to.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try the dating sites, but they seem to far away or impersonal Hope things are better. Just the current season ahs me down", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I can see that. Keep in touch with your family and try to think of positive, happy times you can all have together in the future.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No verbal communication makes it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you call them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try but the loneliness is the hard part", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this loneliness is really getting to you and you are struggling to see a way forwards. As you are a writer could you perhaps try to make some online friends in forums?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is just the lack of communication", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. Perhaps you could call one of your children now? See if they'd like to catch-up?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "without any communication it makes it seem like a battle alone My daughter is busy and 3 hours away different time zones amke it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe schedule in a call with her for the future? I have been making time to speak with my family every Tuesday, it gives us something to look forward to each week", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Children can only share so much I chat with her, but the timing is off", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are your plans in Virginia?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Find a place to live for awhile I have to take care of a legal matter", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Find a place to live for awhile I have to take care of a legal matter", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00013", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_005", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I am having a very anxious day today", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! I am here to help, could you please tell me what the issue is?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see why you feel anxious, I would be too given the situation. When did your mother in law got sick with COVID?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Cancer is already a hard enough disease to fight against. My aunt is a cancer survivor. I am sure your mother can make it too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She is a fighter.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "From my knowledge, people usually recover from COVID after 2 to 3 weeks, you might consider having a doctor see your mother if she is still struggling.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, she went again the other day. She is doing quite a bit better. He said because of underlying conditions it may take her longer, but she is doing great. That was encouraging.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are substantially more people recovering from covid each day despite the number of infected growing exponentially. I am sure that, with the proper care, your mother in law will make it, and so will your husband. I am sure he will be able to find a new job soon as new business start to open, even if it's a temporary one.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I guess you're right. I know you're right. I just haven't felt really in the Christmas spirit this year and I am anxious about everything I can't control. He did have an interview today too, so that is good news.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Those are some great news indeed. I am sure he will get a call soon : )", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Lol - you made me smile. Thanks. I will believe that too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad I can make your day just a little better, that's what we are here for ^_^", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It really did help. Just talking and saying it out loud (or online) helped. Feeling heard helped.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And I am glad you are someone easy to talk to! Some of my patients do not argument at all and expect me to end the conversation when I, as a therapist, have to make sure they are good to go! Helping you has been a pleasure!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am thankful for your listening to me. It does make a big difference. I am in a better mood. Thank you!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am thankful for your listening to me. It does make a big difference. I am in a better mood. Thank you!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00014", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_005", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I am having a very anxious day today", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! I am here to help, could you please tell me what the issue is?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My mother in law is sick with COVID and my husband, when he contracted COVID from her, got terminated from his job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see why you feel anxious, I would be too given the situation. When did your mother in law got sick with COVID?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, it's just really stressful and I am over anxious about it. Right before Thanksgiving, she is elderly and has cancer, she is finally feeling better though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Cancer is already a hard enough disease to fight against. My aunt is a cancer survivor. I am sure your mother can make it too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She is a fighter.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "From my knowledge, people usually recover from COVID after 2 to 3 weeks, you might consider having a doctor see your mother if she is still struggling.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, she went again the other day. She is doing quite a bit better. He said because of underlying conditions it may take her longer, but she is doing great. That was encouraging.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are substantially more people recovering from covid each day despite the number of infected growing exponentially. I am sure that, with the proper care, your mother in law will make it, and so will your husband. I am sure he will be able to find a new job soon as new business start to open, even if it's a temporary one.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I guess you're right. I know you're right. I just haven't felt really in the Christmas spirit this year and I am anxious about everything I can't control. He did have an interview today too, so that is good news.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Those are some great news indeed. I am sure he will get a call soon : )", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Lol - you made me smile. Thanks. I will believe that too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad I can make your day just a little better, that's what we are here for ^_^", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It really did help. Just talking and saying it out loud (or online) helped. Feeling heard helped.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And I am glad you are someone easy to talk to! Some of my patients do not argument at all and expect me to end the conversation when I, as a therapist, have to make sure they are good to go! Helping you has been a pleasure!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am thankful for your listening to me. It does make a big difference. I am in a better mood. Thank you!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are very welcome!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks and have a great day!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks and have a great day!", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00015", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_006", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I am really feeling the loneliness of the season and being isolated.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good evening.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good evening", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Good evening", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00016", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_007", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! Did they send you a summary or anything of what's going on? If not, I've been struggling general depression. And overwhelming anxiety.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "They did not, what is causing your depression and anxiety?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "A cycle of anxiety.. overthinking that leads to depression. Nothing specific at the moment", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So just to clarify, you are having overwhelming depression and anxiety today that has been caused by nothing in particular?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I completely understand, I have had many issues in the past with anxiety and depression.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any advice on how to push past the racing thoughts?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried to talk to a professional about this, it is always helpful to talk to someone who is trained to talk about things like this with people.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00017", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_008", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need understanding at this time. Please respond and help me see what I did wrong.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, sorry I just saw this How are you and how may I assist you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for answering me. I need support for my depression.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks for answering me. I need support for my depression.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00018", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_008", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need understanding at this time. Please respond and help me see what I did wrong.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, sorry I just saw this How are you and how may I assist you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for answering me. I need support for my depression.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear it. I am happy assist.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What can you tellme to help me adjust.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "What can you tellme to help me adjust.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00019", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_010", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello,is anone there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes sorry, the app was misbehaving. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. I'm shaking because I don't know what I'm going to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't know. I'm shaking because I don't know what I'm going to do.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00020", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_010", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello,is anone there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes sorry, the app was misbehaving. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. I'm shaking because I don't know what I'm going to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorry to hear that, but going to do about what situation specifically?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know you're busy prepping for the holiday but I described my problem earlier. It should be listed either at the top or on the left side of your screen. I know you're probably prepping for the holiday. I didn't mean to interrupt your Sunday.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorry but we do not get those promps We just get to talk pretty much, we have to find out whats going on. You are not interrupting anything.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Here! Last Christmas I bought the condo of my dreams. This April 2020 I lost my job due Covid 19. My unemployment is ending and my savings are depleted. I've recived an eviction notice and don't know what to do. Help! Have you ever been evicted?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Where are you that you are able to be evicted? You should not be able to be evicted from your home during this time in pretty much every state. Have you tried contacting anyone for help other than your landlord?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm still in my condo but I no longer have a job, umemployment has run out and my savings are all gone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well the plus side is they cannot kick you out right now. Have you talk to your landlord about working out some payment arrangement. Have you tried applying for any job? Now is not the time for pride to get in the way, i would accept anything", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "When you say work out a plan what do you mean? I have no job. I have been applying for jobs but I haven't received a callback or an offer of employment. Have you ever been in this situation? Also, I'm calling a helpline so Pride is not my issue.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "When you say work out a plan what do you mean? I have no job. I have been applying for jobs but I haven't received a callback or an offer of employment. Have you ever been in this situation? Also, I'm calling a helpline so Pride is not my issue.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00021", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_011", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey You there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I stepped out, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm okay I guess. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good, I am good. Is there anything I can be of an assistence today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. I've been dealing with a lot this last month.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't know. I've been dealing with a lot this last month.", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00022", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_011", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey You there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I stepped out, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm okay I guess. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good, I am good. Is there anything I can be of an assistence today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. I've been dealing with a lot this last month.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel you. You might be just feeling a little tired. Do you feel like you need a rest?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ha I'm a mother of two small children, I'm always tired lol", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Ha I'm a mother of two small children, I'm always tired lol", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00023", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_011", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey You there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I stepped out, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm okay I guess. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good, I am good. Is there anything I can be of an assistence today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. I've been dealing with a lot this last month.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel you. You might be just feeling a little tired. Do you feel like you need a rest?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ha I'm a mother of two small children, I'm always tired lol", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Mom of 2 kids! You must be super busy. How are they doing today, playful? calm?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm always busy im surprised i can sit down to do this lol", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh well, it is a small gift then. I hope you can utilize this nice time Never know when you lose your free time, it maybe in a next few minutes?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am thankful for every moment of peace. Idk honestly it always varies on how long my autistic toddler stays occupied XD", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes I am thankful for every moment of peace. Idk honestly it always varies on how long my autistic toddler stays occupied XD", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00024", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_011", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey You there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I stepped out, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm okay I guess. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good, I am good. Is there anything I can be of an assistence today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. I've been dealing with a lot this last month.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel you. You might be just feeling a little tired. Do you feel like you need a rest?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ha I'm a mother of two small children, I'm always tired lol", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Mom of 2 kids! You must be super busy. How are they doing today, playful? calm?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm always busy im surprised i can sit down to do this lol", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh well, it is a small gift then. I hope you can utilize this nice time Never know when you lose your free time, it maybe in a next few minutes?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am thankful for every moment of peace. Idk honestly it always varies on how long my autistic toddler stays occupied XD", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is so adorable when toddlers are occupied with something, like playing with toys. I might feel worried if my free time lasts long, becuause it is so unusual!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Exactly, when it gets quiet it gets suspicious XD Right now my little girl has her woody doll and bo peep doll making them kiss while she watches sherk lol. My 8 years old is engrossed in his cellphone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Exactly, when it gets quiet it gets suspicious XD Right now my little girl has her woody doll and bo peep doll making them kiss while she watches sherk lol. My 8 years old is engrossed in his cellphone.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00025", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_012", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00026", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_012", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How are you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling depressed as usual", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. What has you feeling depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Everything. Life. It's awful. How many years do you really need to stop enjoying this place. Ya know what I mean", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand, but just to make sure I know what is going on fully, you are depressed in general and don't know how to get through it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would say that is fairly accurate. Often times, I wish an asteroid would come down and begin the apocolypse. Something to break up the routine Don't you find life utterly boring and repetitive?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I would say that is fairly accurate. Often times, I wish an asteroid would come down and begin the apocolypse. Something to break up the routine Don't you find life utterly boring and repetitive?", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00027", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_012", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How are you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling depressed as usual", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. What has you feeling depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Everything. Life. It's awful. How many years do you really need to stop enjoying this place. Ya know what I mean", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand, but just to make sure I know what is going on fully, you are depressed in general and don't know how to get through it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would say that is fairly accurate. Often times, I wish an asteroid would come down and begin the apocolypse. Something to break up the routine Don't you find life utterly boring and repetitive?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from these few messages, I can tell you are extremely upset about this. I have had problems in the past with depression as well, I used to have severe anxiety as well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. Anxiety and depression are dual bladed sword of badness Really bad mixture I never struggled too much with anxiety.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It was tough. Have you thought about consulting a psychological professional to help with this issue? I did when I was going through my depression and it really helped.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "NO! I would never do that. I'm already on anti depressants. That didn't help at all. I just don't understand why people like life enough to make more people! It is madness!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I didn't like the meds that they gave me either, however I felt that talking to someone helped me a great deal.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I'm glad it helped you. I'm not just saying that. Being depressed is awful. What did it do for you? How so?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well, I'm glad it helped you. I'm not just saying that. Being depressed is awful. What did it do for you? How so?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00028", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_012", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How are you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling depressed as usual", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. What has you feeling depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Everything. Life. It's awful. How many years do you really need to stop enjoying this place. Ya know what I mean", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand, but just to make sure I know what is going on fully, you are depressed in general and don't know how to get through it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would say that is fairly accurate. Often times, I wish an asteroid would come down and begin the apocolypse. Something to break up the routine Don't you find life utterly boring and repetitive?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from these few messages, I can tell you are extremely upset about this. I have had problems in the past with depression as well, I used to have severe anxiety as well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. Anxiety and depression are dual bladed sword of badness Really bad mixture I never struggled too much with anxiety.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It was tough. Have you thought about consulting a psychological professional to help with this issue? I did when I was going through my depression and it really helped.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "NO! I would never do that. I'm already on anti depressants. That didn't help at all. I just don't understand why people like life enough to make more people! It is madness!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I didn't like the meds that they gave me either, however I felt that talking to someone helped me a great deal.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I'm glad it helped you. I'm not just saying that. Being depressed is awful. What did it do for you? How so?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It was good to be able to talk to an objective third party about what was going on. It allowed me to get my feelings out without the threat of being judges or harrassed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Well, I appreciate your time and advice. I just don't feel like you and I are understanding each other very well, though. Anyway, you made your bonus. I appreciate you trying to help me, though We got to talk for another 4 minutes though", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I understand. Well, I appreciate your time and advice. I just don't feel like you and I are understanding each other very well, though. Anyway, you made your bonus. I appreciate you trying to help me, though We got to talk for another 4 minutes though", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00029", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_012", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How are you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling depressed as usual", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. What has you feeling depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Everything. Life. It's awful. How many years do you really need to stop enjoying this place. Ya know what I mean", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand, but just to make sure I know what is going on fully, you are depressed in general and don't know how to get through it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would say that is fairly accurate. Often times, I wish an asteroid would come down and begin the apocolypse. Something to break up the routine Don't you find life utterly boring and repetitive?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from these few messages, I can tell you are extremely upset about this. I have had problems in the past with depression as well, I used to have severe anxiety as well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. Anxiety and depression are dual bladed sword of badness Really bad mixture I never struggled too much with anxiety.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It was tough. Have you thought about consulting a psychological professional to help with this issue? I did when I was going through my depression and it really helped.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "NO! I would never do that. I'm already on anti depressants. That didn't help at all. I just don't understand why people like life enough to make more people! It is madness!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I didn't like the meds that they gave me either, however I felt that talking to someone helped me a great deal.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I'm glad it helped you. I'm not just saying that. Being depressed is awful. What did it do for you? How so?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It was good to be able to talk to an objective third party about what was going on. It allowed me to get my feelings out without the threat of being judges or harrassed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Well, I appreciate your time and advice. I just don't feel like you and I are understanding each other very well, though. Anyway, you made your bonus. I appreciate you trying to help me, though We got to talk for another 4 minutes though", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried to focus on more of your hobbies in order to get your mind off of things?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I used to have more hobbies. Now, I'm not so motivated to do much of anything anymore. I used to play instruments. I like hiking a little, but it is winter now. So... I can't even do that. Plus... I have to travel really far to do that because there is nothing to hike that is very close", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did you stop playing insturments?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just lost interest. I'm losing interest in everything, man I think it's time for my heart to give out and make space for the new, ya know Cross my fingers at least Dying in your sleep would be best Wouldn't that be nice? You just drift off after your heart stops in a dream?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I certainly hope you don't do that!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, that's nice. You are a nice person. Anyway, You finally earned your 3 dollars and 50 cents. You tried. I appreciate it. Goodbye fellow mturker slave", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I apologize that I wasn't able to make you feel any better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "NO! DOnt you dare It is all k goodbye", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "NO! DOnt you dare It is all k goodbye", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00030", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_013", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi there", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hi there", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00031", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_013", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi there", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! what seems to be bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "currently, i am living in a house with my brother, which i co own and can not afford to move out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is living with your brother a bad thing? What specifically is making you upset?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes it is. he acts like a azz most of the time. he dosent care about anyone but himself. just like his fiancé. he throws away the bills and expects me to pay to keep the utilities on when they are about to be disconnected. then tells me i dont contribute to the house.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It seems like he would be a very difficult person to live with. And that is hard for you obviously. I'm thinking your upset because you can't leave so you're stuck. Is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, felling very stuck.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's completely normal to feel that way. I'm sure you're handling the situation as best as you can. What have you done to try and help the situation?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to, looking for every way possible to make money and save it up and move out. really dont want to have to partition the property as its the house we grew up in.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would feel the same way if that's a house I grew up in. I'm so sorry!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i tried to talk to him, in his mind its all my fault he cant pay the bills he had before i moved in. i had been living in california for the last few years, but came back with corona virus on the rise there.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If he's in a certain mindset, it would be hard to change that. Do you have people to talk to about this? It sounds like a lot to handle.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "right? and his fiancé is the same way, they are both alcoholics and spend most of their income on their habits. its all i can do right now to keep food in the house, let alone running water.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it would be good for you to talk to someone and get help. Right now, all you can do is keep chugging along and trying your best to stay afloat.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i have a couple of friends that i have talked to about it, but it just seems like i am screaming at a brick wall and nothing changes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "i have a couple of friends that i have talked to about it, but it just seems like i am screaming at a brick wall and nothing changes.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00032", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_014", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling depressed .I don't feel like doing anything.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What got you depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. Maybe stuck at one place", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't know. Maybe stuck at one place", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00033", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_014", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling depressed .I don't feel like doing anything.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What got you depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. Maybe stuck at one place", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What have you tried to do to control it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "don't know what to do", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "don't know what to do", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00034", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_015", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am truly sorry you are feeling this way. Those feelings can be overwhelming. Have you tried talking to a professional about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00035", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_015", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi I am not sure what to say here. I am not doing very well at all. I am feel sad and hopeless all the time, nothing is any fun, nothing makes me feel that I am doing anything good for anyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am truly sorry you are feeling this way. Those feelings can be overwhelming. Have you tried talking to a professional about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't have any money to pay someone, my boyfriend tells me to quit having a pity party no one is coming to it and to just get over it. His comments and suggestions have not been helpful. My friends have tried to cheer me up but I can tell they are getting frustrated with me and I try to avoid them now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are many therapists out there that work on a sliding scale based on your income. Some even offer free sessions. I would look into that for your local area. It also does not seem like your boyfriend is taking the issue seriously. I will tell you from experience, ignoring the issue is not going to help.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't mean to put obstacles in the way of your help but I live 25 miles from town and there is no public transportation here and I don't have a car. You have felt like this before? How long did it last? What did you do to get better?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00036", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_017", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00037", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_017", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. sorry I stepped out.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, can you help me? Why did you step out?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well, can you help me? Why did you step out?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00038", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_017", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. sorry I stepped out.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, can you help me? Why did you step out?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you a veteran? I am happy to help. I am sorry to hear that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No I quit smoking 10 years ago", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can only imagine your suffering but I used to date a Veteran and he had nightmare often so I could relate to you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just keep having flashbacks of the war zone. Oh, that is good that you can relate.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks, I agree. Health is important. Does that happen recently a lot?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They called me \"Camouflage.' I was a bold Marine, but now my head is in the war....still", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for serving our country. You are worth so much respect.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I just need to get over my depression somehow. I need to shake my thoughts of the Hot Zone. Yah know?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes yes Marine is the toughest people in military. Wow. I think this is PTSD. I have been to Adult Hospitalization program where people who have depression, PTSD and anxiety disorders etc get together and talk to therapist. It helped a little bit. You might be intererested in that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok I am glad to talk with you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could only see that in movies. wow, so scary.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Lots of my Marine buddies have had PTSD. Women and men alike. Women are also joining the Marines....", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Lots of my Marine buddies have had PTSD. Women and men alike. Women are also joining the Marines....", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00039", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_017", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I am depressed. And it is Christmas. I am still having bad flashbacks from War in Iraq Can you help? Um, hello. Are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. sorry I stepped out.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, can you help me? Why did you step out?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you a veteran? I am happy to help. I am sorry to hear that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you smoke? A smoke break? Yes, I am a veteran.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No I quit smoking 10 years ago", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, that is good. There is no need to destroy your organs with nasty tobacco", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can only imagine your suffering but I used to date a Veteran and he had nightmare often so I could relate to you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just keep having flashbacks of the war zone. Oh, that is good that you can relate.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks, I agree. Health is important. Does that happen recently a lot?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They called me \"Camouflage.' I was a bold Marine, but now my head is in the war....still", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for serving our country. You are worth so much respect.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I just need to get over my depression somehow. I need to shake my thoughts of the Hot Zone. Yah know?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes yes Marine is the toughest people in military. Wow. I think this is PTSD. I have been to Adult Hospitalization program where people who have depression, PTSD and anxiety disorders etc get together and talk to therapist. It helped a little bit. You might be intererested in that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok I am glad to talk with you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could only see that in movies. wow, so scary.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Lots of my Marine buddies have had PTSD. Women and men alike. Women are also joining the Marines....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think your minds have deep scar. It needs healing. Wow I cannot imagine becoming a Marine. It requires a courage.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know.....but do you recommend anything? Meditation or some other form of therapy?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted yes I recommend playing some instruments if you are intersted", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How does that help? I am interested in learning more....", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How does that help? I am interested in learning more....", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00040", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_018", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are things?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi there, how are things?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00041", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_018", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are things?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi Can I help you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes trying to get over the passing of my aunt a week ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You tell me That's so sad. I am sorry!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks, it is actually a week today. My mother has taken it particularly hard, they were best friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand very how your mom is going through hard time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks. I really have not had much time to grieve myself since she is my first priority.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Time will heel her. That I can assure you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any suggestions what I might try to cheer her up? After that I can worry about myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Do you have any suggestions what I might try to cheer her up? After that I can worry about myself", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00042", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_018", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are things?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi Can I help you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes trying to get over the passing of my aunt a week ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You tell me That's so sad. I am sorry!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks, it is actually a week today. My mother has taken it particularly hard, they were best friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand very how your mom is going through hard time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks. I really have not had much time to grieve myself since she is my first priority.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Time will heel her. That I can assure you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any suggestions what I might try to cheer her up? After that I can worry about myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Tell her to meditation or yoga in the morning. This will definitely helped and her mind will be busy", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That might be ok. I know she likes Neil Diamond. Maybe get some of that playing while she meditates.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is wonderful idea too . She will recover soon", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Now what should I do for myself after she is better?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Be busy with your daily routine. Planning is the key", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought about trying some daily exercise like just walking around the block a couple times with my dog.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good idea! You can take your mom along with you in the park. She will recover soon.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought about redecorating her house a little bit, they lived together for a long time maybe a change of scenery would do some good", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I thought about redecorating her house a little bit, they lived together for a long time maybe a change of scenery would do some good", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00043", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_018", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are things?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi Can I help you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes trying to get over the passing of my aunt a week ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You tell me That's so sad. I am sorry!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks, it is actually a week today. My mother has taken it particularly hard, they were best friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand very how your mom is going through hard time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks. I really have not had much time to grieve myself since she is my first priority.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Time will heel her. That I can assure you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any suggestions what I might try to cheer her up? After that I can worry about myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Tell her to meditation or yoga in the morning. This will definitely helped and her mind will be busy", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That might be ok. I know she likes Neil Diamond. Maybe get some of that playing while she meditates.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is wonderful idea too . She will recover soon", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Now what should I do for myself after she is better?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Be busy with your daily routine. Planning is the key", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought about trying some daily exercise like just walking around the block a couple times with my dog.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good idea! You can take your mom along with you in the park. She will recover soon.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought about redecorating her house a little bit, they lived together for a long time maybe a change of scenery would do some good", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, try to do all thgings. But do one by one. That is my advice for you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, well thanks for your help", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Ok, well thanks for your help", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00044", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_019", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, so tell me, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you tell me what's going on, I will be more than glad to help", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The pandemic can definetely be a key factor here. When it first started, I remember feeling lost and unsure about things that I would normally would have no problem with. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 30", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any family, girlfriend, boyfriend, children?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not seeing your closed ones or simply being apart from them can be more than enough to make us feel depressed or blue. Have you tried doing videocalls with them, for example?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I feel though. I don't want them to worry about me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. However, there is nothing wrong with telling them that you are sad because you miss them. Something as simple as getting it off your chest can already make you feel better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I suppose. I just worry that I will make them sad too. It's hard time for everyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I suppose. I just worry that I will make them sad too. It's hard time for everyone.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00045", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_019", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, so tell me, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you tell me what's going on, I will be more than glad to help", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The pandemic can definetely be a key factor here. When it first started, I remember feeling lost and unsure about things that I would normally would have no problem with. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 30", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any family, girlfriend, boyfriend, children?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not seeing your closed ones or simply being apart from them can be more than enough to make us feel depressed or blue. Have you tried doing videocalls with them, for example?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I feel though. I don't want them to worry about me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. However, there is nothing wrong with telling them that you are sad because you miss them. Something as simple as getting it off your chest can already make you feel better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I suppose. I just worry that I will make them sad too. It's hard time for everyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Totally, but remember than they are there for you whenever you need them.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that's true. Do you have any suggestions on what to say?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I bet something as simple as \"Hey babe, I really miss you. I can't be glad with your abscence\" could make your boyfriend feel loved while at the same time relieving you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true. I believe I have a problem showing vulnerability.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That might be why you were unsure about telling them. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with showing vulnerability. We are all vulnerable in one way or another.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't been with my boyfriend that long before the pandemic started so I still have some fears and trust issues. I fear that being weak pushes people away.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, if he is the right one for you, he will completeley accept you as you are and love you. In the unlikely event that he \"rejects\" you for being \"vulnerable\", he wasn't even worth it in the first place. You deserve someone that appreciates you as much as you appreciate them :3", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true. I should be brave enough to find out if he will be there when the chips are down. I am going to do it", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That is true. I should be brave enough to find out if he will be there when the chips are down. I am going to do it", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00046", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_019", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, so tell me, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you tell me what's going on, I will be more than glad to help", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can't pinpoint what exactly is making me feel this way. It could be the pandemic. But basically I started to feel that there is not much point in anything.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The pandemic can definetely be a key factor here. When it first started, I remember feeling lost and unsure about things that I would normally would have no problem with. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 30", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any family, girlfriend, boyfriend, children?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have family and a boyfriend but they all live far and I have not seen them in while.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not seeing your closed ones or simply being apart from them can be more than enough to make us feel depressed or blue. Have you tried doing videocalls with them, for example?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes sometimes. I don't tell them how I feel though. I don't want them to worry about me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. However, there is nothing wrong with telling them that you are sad because you miss them. Something as simple as getting it off your chest can already make you feel better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I suppose. I just worry that I will make them sad too. It's hard time for everyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Totally, but remember than they are there for you whenever you need them.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that's true. Do you have any suggestions on what to say?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I bet something as simple as \"Hey babe, I really miss you. I can't be glad with your abscence\" could make your boyfriend feel loved while at the same time relieving you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true. I believe I have a problem showing vulnerability.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That might be why you were unsure about telling them. Believe me, there is nothing wrong with showing vulnerability. We are all vulnerable in one way or another.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't been with my boyfriend that long before the pandemic started so I still have some fears and trust issues. I fear that being weak pushes people away.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, if he is the right one for you, he will completeley accept you as you are and love you. In the unlikely event that he \"rejects\" you for being \"vulnerable\", he wasn't even worth it in the first place. You deserve someone that appreciates you as much as you appreciate them :3", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true. I should be brave enough to find out if he will be there when the chips are down. I am going to do it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I believe in you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for supporting me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you for supporting me.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00047", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_020", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi there?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "how are you? what's new with you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not doing so great. I fell down some stairs the other day and broke my foot and chipped my two front teeth.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. I feel you because I had an experience about breaking my bones. It was sad story. how you feel right now", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am grateful for my family they are taking care of me but I am on crutches and am in a boot when I am not icing my foot", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Very good. I am glad that you have a good family who can support you whenever you need a help.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am struggling with some depression just because I am feeling a bit isolated with the broken foot along with COVID going on.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Totally, sad side of our current situation. I hope you can tide-over this hard time soon and you are doing your best at this time. So proud!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you I appreciate that! Yes I am getting surgery like 2 days before christmas so this christmas should definitely be interesting to say the least haha.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ohhh that sucks. I am happy to yo don't lose your fun and you are not pessimist which is good and it might help for your health. Always try to see the bright side", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes exactly. I got my teeth fixed a couple days ago as well so that was good too! I am really leaning on my family for support but just felt like asking for some outside help which is why I am talking to you right now lol.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Exactly, sometimes we need new window to see things by different ankle. So can I ask you what you want me to do or what is really need you right now ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I pretty much got everything I need from you- I just needed to vent I think. So we can stop talking now or whenever you have to leave", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "ok for sure, It was nice to talk you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You too!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hope you feel better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I appreciate that! thank you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I appreciate that! thank you.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00048", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_021", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So COVID has been especially hard on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid. i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00049", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_021", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So COVID has been especially hard on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid. i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves. I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00050", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_021", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm stressed about COVID. I'm worried about getting it and having to stay home and lose money.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So COVID has been especially hard on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband has been laid off for 2 months and unemployment benefits only cover half of what he was making.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just hearing that, I can imagine what a scary time this is.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and I have lots of kids and they are working in essential services so not only do i have to worry about covid but i have to worry about my kids getting covid. i can't wait until this pandemic is over and things can get back to normal.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do your kids understand how helpful wearing a mask can be?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They do. They wear masks while at work but they still have boyfriends and they don't wear mask with friends or boyfriends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So sometimes you worry that they aren't doing enough to protect themselves. I know I'm more worried about others than I am about myself right now.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and they are young so they do not understand how important it is to practice social distancing and wear a mask. We have had so many covid tests. Luckily they have all been negative.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe just reminding them that wearing masks protects both them and others could help? They sure wouldn't want to infect you or your husband, or others.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do but they are young and the young are selfish. I'm not worried about getting covid. I'm worried about having to quarantine at home and not work. i supervise 15 people and if I get exposed I can't work for 3 weeks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really relatable. I can understand how scary it is for you, especially with your husband's pay cut. What if you talk to a close friend when your anxiety is especially difficult ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, there is nothing to do but keep putting what foot in front of the other and doing the next best thing.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And with the holidays, I think it's really hitting a lot of us even harder right now. I feel that way too. Have any of your coworkers gotten covid?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Right. I hope we make it through the holidays without the pandemic getting even more out of control than it already is. I have had some coworkers at my location exposed to COVID and have to quarantine. At some of our other locations I have had coworkers get COVID and have to quarantine. My workplace is safe with PPE so I do not worry about getting covid from coworkers.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm glad you're safe in that regard. Is your husband working out of home or out in the field/office?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months. My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I had one poor coworker get exposed to covid twice. She has been gone off and on for over 2 months. My husband does construction and has been laid off for a couple of months. Construction has gone down because of the pandemic. Everyone has put a halt to projects.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00051", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_022", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not too great at the moment", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no. I am sorry to hear that. Why do you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because of the covid, I am afraid of going out in public", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I totally get that. The world is a scary place right now with the pandemic.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "and I get no help from my kids, they want me to stay in", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried virtual ways of connecting with friends and family? I know that has been useful for me.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, I do speak with family through emails and facebook, but not being there in real life makes it hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is understandable. Hopefully with the vaccine, we will be able to see others in public soon. Have you tried some of the virtual visual apps such as Zoom or FaceTime?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my computer keeps giving me a hard time when I use Zoom..I have tried video conferencing on facebook messenger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no! How have your video conferences on Facebook gone. Another thing I like to do is to meet up with friends in parks or public so that we are abiding by guidelines but can still be in person.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have used Facebook messenger a lot so the visual side is easy. I am able to see my new granchild...that helps", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00052", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_023", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a bit sad more depressed its just i keep getting benched at work i'm not really sure what do to *to do", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that! I think that would make most people feel upset.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i'm not really sure what i'm doing wrong", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah, that was my next question. Sometimes things are happening out of our control, though.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what can i do though?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought of asking your boss or supervisor if there's anything going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hrm. i could do that! they are hard to get a hold of though", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! That sounds frustrating to not know why it's happening and not have the opportunity to ask.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes...hrm. that may work. how can i stop being depressed all the time though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've also had bosses that are infrequently in the office and make getting good information hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "how did you fix the issue? i work at home and its like just trying to reach out - they are always busy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think your feelings are normal, but if I were you, I might try to remember that the decisions of others aren't always a reflection of us or how we're performing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "this whole covid thing has me scrambling to talk to a live person", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can imagine!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok, so just keep pushing and getting good work done ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was in a physical office when I had this problem, but the boss rotated between offices. It was hard to wait, but I just kept my head down until the next time she was available. That's what I did.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "maybe i can try that. thank you. i'll give it a shot", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think reminding yourself that if there was a problem with your work they would be seeking YOU out, and not the other way around.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hrm...that's a good point! i hadn't thought of it that way", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hrm...that's a good point! i hadn't thought of it that way", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00053", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_023", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a bit sad more depressed its just i keep getting benched at work i'm not really sure what do to *to do", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that! I think that would make most people feel upset.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i'm not really sure what i'm doing wrong", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah, that was my next question. Sometimes things are happening out of our control, though.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what can i do though?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought of asking your boss or supervisor if there's anything going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hrm. i could do that! they are hard to get a hold of though", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! That sounds frustrating to not know why it's happening and not have the opportunity to ask.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes...hrm. that may work. how can i stop being depressed all the time though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've also had bosses that are infrequently in the office and make getting good information hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "how did you fix the issue? i work at home and its like just trying to reach out - they are always busy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think your feelings are normal, but if I were you, I might try to remember that the decisions of others aren't always a reflection of us or how we're performing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "this whole covid thing has me scrambling to talk to a live person", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can imagine!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok, so just keep pushing and getting good work done ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was in a physical office when I had this problem, but the boss rotated between offices. It was hard to wait, but I just kept my head down until the next time she was available. That's what I did.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "maybe i can try that. thank you. i'll give it a shot", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think reminding yourself that if there was a problem with your work they would be seeking YOU out, and not the other way around.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hrm...that's a good point! i hadn't thought of it that way", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hopefully that mindset can help you stay positive until you have the chance to speak with them, instead of worrying about what you've done wrong. That anxiety feels like what is keeping you down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i think that will work. it maybe what's keeping me down. i'll try yoga too. I'll give it a shot and just talk with him when i see him online next time. he isn't online that often because we have 2 separate computers each for our work well...i hope you have a wonderful night! thank you for all your help!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I really hope that helps keep you afloat until you can get some real answers. Worrying about what-ifs is harder than just knowing what's goiong on!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i agree", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes i agree", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00054", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_023", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a bit sad more depressed its just i keep getting benched at work i'm not really sure what do to *to do", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that! I think that would make most people feel upset.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i'm not really sure what i'm doing wrong", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah, that was my next question. Sometimes things are happening out of our control, though.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what can i do though?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought of asking your boss or supervisor if there's anything going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hrm. i could do that! they are hard to get a hold of though", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! That sounds frustrating to not know why it's happening and not have the opportunity to ask.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes...hrm. that may work. how can i stop being depressed all the time though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've also had bosses that are infrequently in the office and make getting good information hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "how did you fix the issue? i work at home and its like just trying to reach out - they are always busy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think your feelings are normal, but if I were you, I might try to remember that the decisions of others aren't always a reflection of us or how we're performing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "this whole covid thing has me scrambling to talk to a live person", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can imagine!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok, so just keep pushing and getting good work done ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was in a physical office when I had this problem, but the boss rotated between offices. It was hard to wait, but I just kept my head down until the next time she was available. That's what I did.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "maybe i can try that. thank you. i'll give it a shot", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think reminding yourself that if there was a problem with your work they would be seeking YOU out, and not the other way around.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hrm...that's a good point! i hadn't thought of it that way", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hopefully that mindset can help you stay positive until you have the chance to speak with them, instead of worrying about what you've done wrong. That anxiety feels like what is keeping you down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i think that will work. it maybe what's keeping me down. i'll try yoga too. I'll give it a shot and just talk with him when i see him online next time. he isn't online that often because we have 2 separate computers each for our work well...i hope you have a wonderful night! thank you for all your help!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I really hope that helps keep you afloat until you can get some real answers. Worrying about what-ifs is harder than just knowing what's goiong on!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i agree", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hope you feel better soon and are able to clear it up!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you for your help! me too. i'll try what you have suggested and see if that doesn't work out well. who knows, maybe it just my project that i'm on.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have a good night!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you you too! where are you located out of. i'm in virginia usa", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thank you you too! where are you located out of. i'm in virginia usa", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00055", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_024", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello I am here to talk about my overall daily stresses", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello I am here to talk about my overall daily stresses", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00056", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_025", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00057", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_025", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm honestly having a rough time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Could you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I just lost my job and school is out so I feel like I have lost purpose", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry to hear that. What did you do for your job?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I was a manager of a retail store that closed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true, I am just not sure if that is what I want to do anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. Well then, if this helps. The store closing might have been a positive thing, so you could find your next passion.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a good point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I will also add, that being a Manager means you have some very important skills that would translate well to your next job, or anything you decide to do.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's true. I know the experience will help me but I still miss it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also, let's say you decided to work for another company, something new, outside of retail. Because you were a manager, you could also be promoted more quickly because of your management experience.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is also true. I guess I just need to decide what I want to do now. That is probably the most difficult part.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it sounds like a part of you still misses the retail environment. I see that too. My best advice, is take a few days to think about what you really want to do. Think about what you are skilled at. Then decide which route you want to go. I know there will be numerous options out there for you in retail management, but if you wanted to do something different, there will be opportunities there too. Because you have options, you will likely pick the choice that will be most fulfilling for you, in something you will be passionate about - so this will likely be very positive for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is really nice to say. I guess I am also just scared to go for something and have it not be as fulfilling as I thought", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That is really nice to say. I guess I am also just scared to go for something and have it not be as fulfilling as I thought", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00058", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_025", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm honestly having a rough time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Could you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I just lost my job and school is out so I feel like I have lost purpose", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry to hear that. What did you do for your job?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I was a manager of a retail store that closed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true, I am just not sure if that is what I want to do anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. Well then, if this helps. The store closing might have been a positive thing, so you could find your next passion.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a good point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I will also add, that being a Manager means you have some very important skills that would translate well to your next job, or anything you decide to do.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's true. I know the experience will help me but I still miss it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also, let's say you decided to work for another company, something new, outside of retail. Because you were a manager, you could also be promoted more quickly because of your management experience.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is also true. I guess I just need to decide what I want to do now. That is probably the most difficult part.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it sounds like a part of you still misses the retail environment. I see that too. My best advice, is take a few days to think about what you really want to do. Think about what you are skilled at. Then decide which route you want to go. I know there will be numerous options out there for you in retail management, but if you wanted to do something different, there will be opportunities there too. Because you have options, you will likely pick the choice that will be most fulfilling for you, in something you will be passionate about - so this will likely be very positive for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is really nice to say. I guess I am also just scared to go for something and have it not be as fulfilling as I thought", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that's possible. but you will have plenty of options either way. Could be a different retail store, or something new.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. It is a big decision, though. Thanks for talking it out with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah. It is a big decision, though. Thanks for talking it out with me", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00059", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_025", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm honestly having a rough time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Could you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I just lost my job and school is out so I feel like I have lost purpose", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for telling me. I'm sorry to hear that. What did you do for your job?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I was a manager of a retail store that closed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. That's a very important role for any business. I bet there are numerous other retailers out there looking for a good manager to hire.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true, I am just not sure if that is what I want to do anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. Well then, if this helps. The store closing might have been a positive thing, so you could find your next passion.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a good point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I will also add, that being a Manager means you have some very important skills that would translate well to your next job, or anything you decide to do.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's true. I know the experience will help me but I still miss it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also, let's say you decided to work for another company, something new, outside of retail. Because you were a manager, you could also be promoted more quickly because of your management experience.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is also true. I guess I just need to decide what I want to do now. That is probably the most difficult part.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it sounds like a part of you still misses the retail environment. I see that too. My best advice, is take a few days to think about what you really want to do. Think about what you are skilled at. Then decide which route you want to go. I know there will be numerous options out there for you in retail management, but if you wanted to do something different, there will be opportunities there too. Because you have options, you will likely pick the choice that will be most fulfilling for you, in something you will be passionate about - so this will likely be very positive for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is really nice to say. I guess I am also just scared to go for something and have it not be as fulfilling as I thought", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that's possible. but you will have plenty of options either way. Could be a different retail store, or something new.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. It is a big decision, though. Thanks for talking it out with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, of course. Take some time to think it through. Weigh your options, and the pros and cons of each. Then pick the option that will be the most rewarding for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sounds like a great plan. Thanks again!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for talking with me.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Bye", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Bye", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00060", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_026", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, I am feeling very sad because I tested positive for Covid this week. I am in quarantine away from my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "sorry to hear about that. So your test results were positive. Did I get it right?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I tested positive for the Covid virus on Wednesday.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, I tested positive for the Covid virus on Wednesday.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00061", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_026", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, I am feeling very sad because I tested positive for Covid this week. I am in quarantine away from my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "sorry to hear about that. So your test results were positive. Did I get it right?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I tested positive for the Covid virus on Wednesday.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It must be hard to stay alone. Are you having fever or any other sever symptoms. Hope there is someone to take care of you for a while at least.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm by myself in my house. My wife took the kids to stay with her father until my quarantine period is over. I have mainly cold symptoms - body aches, stuffy head, sore throat. Nothing too serious so far.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had COVID last month with mild symptoms. Good to know that you don't have any sever symptoms. You will recover fast.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I hope so. I'm on the older side (not senior citizen yet) with high blood pressure, so I'm a little nervous about how it will affect me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand staying alone will be devastating. Keep monitoring your oxygen level. If that is normal, you don't have to worry. You can read watch tv or can do video calling to your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for the advice. We're doing a lot of video calls so I can see everyone. That helps.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I wish for your fast recovery. Hope this COVID situation end soon somehow.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's what is so frustrating - I feel like a couple more months or so and I'd have the vaccine. Made it a year, then get infected during the stretch run of this pandemic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Very true! It is kind of never ending. There should be some permanent solution for it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know if that will ever happen, but if it becomes rare and much less deadly like colds and flu, we should be able to return to a pre-covid life or close to it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "We can still hope for the best right now. Let's stay positive and fight it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I was fighting it, but Covid won this week!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I was fighting it, but Covid won this week!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00062", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_027", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello, how can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi i need to overcome from body shaming can you help me out so many people teasing that i lost job i gained weight no support from family and friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's so cruel of them", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes , even my partner is not understanding , i lost job due to covid i got covid , no money for treatment", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Right now you're not working at all? I know it's very tough for you, can you stay away from your partner/ people around you for the time being?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes , health is not supporting , due to covid , my lungs got infected and got migraine daily yea good idea, but thinking how to pay house rent and all .now i am depending on him only so baring such non scene from him", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Since you are not working and staying home stuck with all the criticism won't help either, why don't you spend a few hours everyday outside? you can just go to the park, grocery stores, library... when at library, you can learn subjects that you want to know about", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea good idea , i have library card even, but i forgot thise. t thanks for remembering this card sure will try to go library and park is even far thAts ok will go by walk", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, scoop up indoor all day when you are not busy is very damaging to you mental health", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "YEA ITS TRUE . thanks for the suggestion dear . but thinking anybody tease me about my body so i was in home and dnt go out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you shouldn't put any thoughts to those heartless comments", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "due to winter i am not doing any workouts and not yet all interested to do any", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "due to winter i am not doing any workouts and not yet all interested to do any", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00063", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_028", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00064", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_028", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Is this related to the pandemic or is it something separate? I am sure that the pandemic has not helped, though!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I can certainly relate to that one! I've gained a stone and a half in the last year. All this sitting around is not good for us!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00065", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_028", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling pretty awful... I've been down and depressed for months now. It's hard to get through the days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Is this related to the pandemic or is it something separate? I am sure that the pandemic has not helped, though!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's definitely related! I lost my dream job, went to a lower paying one, and I gained a lot of weight while working from home.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I can certainly relate to that one! I've gained a stone and a half in the last year. All this sitting around is not good for us!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's definitely nice to know that other people are having similar emotions as me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes just having someone to talk to who knows how you are feeling can be really helpful I think.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's sad that this year has been so awful. It's hard to convince myself that it's getting better any time soon..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you make a list of all the things that you hope will be better next year so you can tick them off one by one?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "1. Better job 2. Healthier habits 3. Better financial situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, the first and third one are out of your control really but you could make a start on the first one today if you liked :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's hard to take the first steps. I don't even know where to begin, sadly.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that. Perhaps you could join an exercise class or similar?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a pretty good idea. Have you ever done something like that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I took an aerobics class once. It was quite fun and it was good exercise.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That does sound like fun. Do you have any other suggestions?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, it's maybe not the best time to be taking on a financial commitment but have you ever considered adopting a dog? Good company and good exercise", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Actually, I have a cat!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah I have two - they are wonderful company. Alas you can't really walk with them though :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They are great company. Sometimes when I am really feeling down, I remember that my cat needs me, so I need to stay strong.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Pets are great like that. Do you perhaps have a neighbour whose dog you could walk if you can't get one of your own?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a great idea. I just moved into a new apartment complex a couple weeks ago. Maybe I can get to know my neighbors. A lot of them have dogs.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's a great way to make new friends too! Would you consider doing some voluntary work whilst you are out of work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's also a good idea. I know a lot of food banks around me are in need of volunteers.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it would be a really worthwhile thing to do and you would get to meet new people too I hope I have been able to help you a little!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I agree. I feel like I have a bunch of new ideas to start feeling better. I appreciate you talking to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I agree. I feel like I have a bunch of new ideas to start feeling better. I appreciate you talking to me.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00066", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_029", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi how is your side? Please how may I be of help", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would just like someone to talk to, very reserved because of covid", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could see that you are indoor and bored because of the pandemic season", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes very lonely and no one to talk to, world is so scary", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "everyone says so, life is in circle, you just need to keep on pushing it simultaneously.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i try very hard but I don't know how much longer i can take it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "do you have any hobby? that you can use to wipe away time", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i like to watch soccer and basketball", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "i like to watch soccer and basketball", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00067", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_029", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi how is your side? Please how may I be of help", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would just like someone to talk to, very reserved because of covid", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could see that you are indoor and bored because of the pandemic season", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes very lonely and no one to talk to, world is so scary", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "everyone says so, life is in circle, you just need to keep on pushing it simultaneously.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i try very hard but I don't know how much longer i can take it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "do you have any hobby? that you can use to wipe away time", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i like to watch soccer and basketball", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was once in that situation, but what helped me is that, I never give up, though I may be overwhelmed with the challenges and unpalatable situations ..... I keep on pressing it,", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will keep trying to make people proud", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am a lover of sport, just get use to it, anytime you are down, take your phone and watch football or basket ball either on YouTube or any other means .", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes I will watch highlights and goals on YouTube very nice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that is what you need. Winner never quit ! Life is not friendly at a time, but when you look at mirror and tell yourself that you will make it, by God's grace you will make it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes thank u yes I love God and Jesus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Jesus is the son of God and the savior, by His grace, we shall win", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I always pray he makes everything better I hope you have a very Merry Christmas may God bless u and your family", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes I always pray he makes everything better I hope you have a very Merry Christmas may God bless u and your family", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00068", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_030", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good morning", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Merry Christmas", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good morning Merry Christmas How may I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry i know how you are feeling just know everything is going to be okay what has been making your depression start?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I mean things do typically work themselves out, they always do....but I just can't get out of this rut I've been in. Well I lost my job because my GF had texted me saying she didn't want to be with me anymore....and I just couldn't handle it. Then I just started going downhill from there.....have had difficulty finding another job, or trying to replace lost income.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I mean things do typically work themselves out, they always do....but I just can't get out of this rut I've been in. Well I lost my job because my GF had texted me saying she didn't want to be with me anymore....and I just couldn't handle it. Then I just started going downhill from there.....have had difficulty finding another job, or trying to replace lost income.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00069", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_030", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good morning", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Merry Christmas", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good morning Merry Christmas How may I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm just struggling real bad with depression lately. I feel like I'm not any good, but the other part of my mind says that just isn't true. Despite having those conflicting thoughts....I can't get going. I've been in a downward spiral....IDK how to escape it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry i know how you are feeling just know everything is going to be okay what has been making your depression start?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I mean things do typically work themselves out, they always do....but I just can't get out of this rut I've been in. Well I lost my job because my GF had texted me saying she didn't want to be with me anymore....and I just couldn't handle it. Then I just started going downhill from there.....have had difficulty finding another job, or trying to replace lost income.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you looked into seeking therapy that will sometimes help with your depression", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have an appointment scheduled with a Doctor on Tuesday actually.... I made a call the other day....which was difficult in and of itself", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have an appointment scheduled with a Doctor on Tuesday actually.... I made a call the other day....which was difficult in and of itself", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00070", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_031", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling really down.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear you're feeling that way, what has you feeling this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband and I have 4 kids. One of those children is a child from his previous marriage. We constantly argue about how he favors that child over our other 3.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no, that's not good. Do the other kids see it as well?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "2 of the children are younger so they do not realize it but the other child is older and definitely notices.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00071", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_032", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello there. I am feeling a bit down.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello there. I am feeling a bit down.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00072", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_033", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi. I'm feeling depressed and overwhelmed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please tell me more about it, when did it start?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It all started earlier this year. I live with my parents because I'm unable to care for myself , due to a disability. Well my dad has dementia, and my mom, who was the primary caregiver, was diagnosed with cancer. She's been in and out of hospital so now its up to me to keep everything afloat., I'm having a really hard time with it. Between work, school, keeping up the house, and caring for my dad, it's a lot to handle.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's very exhausting doing that much, I really feel bad for you, you're a strong person to be able to handle so much by yourself", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks. But I'm really not that strong. It's really exhausting and overwhelming. My depression and anxiety are through the roof, and honestly, I'm not sure how long I can keep this up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks. But I'm really not that strong. It's really exhausting and overwhelming. My depression and anxiety are through the roof, and honestly, I'm not sure how long I can keep this up.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00073", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_034", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Would you care to elaborate about what you're feeling sad about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I recently broke up with my girlfriend", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, that sounds difficult.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How have you been coping? That can be really hard, have you been able to talk to anyone about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you find that to be helpful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's good, it's great to have a good support system. I can imagine that's difficult, that would be a lot of close time together. Have you been able to socialize with friends or colleagues?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's understandable about the coworkers. Going out sounds like would be beneficial, just to at least spend some time with people who care about you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea its going to take my mind off of things", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you been able to engage in any other activities that help you cope/take your mid=nd off things?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00074", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_034", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello I am very sad I am more depressed than ever", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Would you care to elaborate about what you're feeling sad about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I recently broke up with my girlfriend", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, that sounds difficult.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its been very hard on me I've spent the last few years wit her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How have you been coping? That can be really hard, have you been able to talk to anyone about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i've been trying to talk to family mainly my mom and brother", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you find that to be helpful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes family is always there for me its only hard because I've been with my gf for so long and we've spent so much time during quarantine together", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's good, it's great to have a good support system. I can imagine that's difficult, that would be a lot of close time together. Have you been able to socialize with friends or colleagues?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i try to keep my personal life away from my coworkers i've talked to a few friends i'm actually going out tonight to meet some up for happy hour", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's understandable about the coworkers. Going out sounds like would be beneficial, just to at least spend some time with people who care about you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea its going to take my mind off of things", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you been able to engage in any other activities that help you cope/take your mid=nd off things?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i've gone for long runs and swims well i'm going to go get ready thank you for all your time and advice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "if you were in my shoes, what would you do if you broke up with a serious gf/bf", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would lean on my friends, family, and others for support such as a therapist (they're good for unbiased talking), I would also focus on hobbies and things that make me feel better. Most importantly be kind to yourself and allow your self to grieve.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thats great advice how long should i wait before i move onto the next potential girlfriend?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That would be up to you, there's no timeline it's when you feel most comforable", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thats true i am getting old", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There's no timeline on being able to date", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea, my brother and sister whom are both younger than me , are already married with kids i feel bad because I'm the oldest one and without a family", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Everyone has their own timeline, some of my friends have married in their late 40s and older", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea, thats what my family is telling me to not rush into thigns", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You have to do what's right for you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well tahnk you for your time. take care.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "well tahnk you for your time. take care.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00075", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_035", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sad all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there something that you think is causing this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you any history of depression before?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do have some family members with depression.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I do have some family members with depression.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00076", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_035", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sad all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there something that you think is causing this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you any history of depression before?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do have some family members with depression.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you seen any physicians about the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe I should make an appointment.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Getting help from a trained professional can often help to solve problems", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You could try going to your primary care physician and ask for recommendations.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've help take a family member to a psychiatrist for help and it's been a tremendous support to help their lives be full again after great hardships.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00077", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_035", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sad all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there something that you think is causing this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nothing in particular, I'm just so sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you any history of depression before?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do have some family members with depression.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you seen any physicians about the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe I should make an appointment.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Getting help from a trained professional can often help to solve problems", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You make a good point. What type of doctor could I see?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You could try going to your primary care physician and ask for recommendations.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can do that. Are there any doctors that deal with emotions?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've help take a family member to a psychiatrist for help and it's been a tremendous support to help their lives be full again after great hardships.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm worried about the stigma of going to a shrink.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Under HIPPA your visit is confidential.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well in that case, if it can help it may be worth a try.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You deserve lots of credit for taking care of yourself and seeing a doctor.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for the encouragement.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are very welcome. Is there anything else I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No thank you. I think I have some strategies to move forward.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No thank you. I think I have some strategies to move forward.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00078", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_036", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you this evening?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello Doing good How are doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've been better. The holidays aren't helping me feel better about not bringing much money home to help pay for things.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear this,have you ever tried selling on Ebay", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've thought about selling stuff online, but the cost of selling things online isn't really worth it. I've been trying to use facebook marketplace, but I never have anyone who's interested.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you ever heard of QVC liquidations,its awesome with some very good returns.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've heard of QVC, but I've never heard of QVC liquidations. That might be something for me to consider. Can you give me more details about it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If your interested you will need to submit a sellers I.D. or tax id", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I see. Is this something that you've done to make money?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Absolutely", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "If you don't mind me asking how much have you made using QVC liquidations?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have made close to 12,000.00 in one year just reselling the returns.Also ESTY is also a great place.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, what sorts of things have you sold?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Wow, what sorts of things have you sold?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00079", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_037", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm doing alright I suppose how about yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well. I've been handling the pandemic surprisingly well given I deal with germaphobia myself. I can't wait for this all to be over. Is there something I can help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, the anxiety of being trapped in my apartment has kind of gotten to me but I am doing the best I can to keep myself occupied Just really wanted somebody to talk to I suppose", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, socially distancing is quite the isolating experience so I can relate to how you are feeling. What have you been doing to keep yourself occupied?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Playing video games mostly, I try to exercise everyday and cook meals at home as oppose to eating out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's good that you are doing your best to take care of yourself. Have you been able to connect with friends or loved ones?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not really, but my mother and sister live close by I visit them almost every other day and I have a couple of friends who swing by now and again", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It seems like you are doing what you can to stay connected with people. Did something happen that lead you to want to reach out for support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I dealt with my heavy drinking and drug use problems at the beginning of the pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah, I dealt with my heavy drinking and drug use problems at the beginning of the pandemic", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00080", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_038", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hey", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you friend?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so good", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why? Any Problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel like everyone hates me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What's the reason?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "People are so rude and mean to me. A lot of people call me annoying too", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it's their fault , not yours. don't worry..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel bad because more than one person has said it. Maybe I am just annoying", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Be as you always have been", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Sometimes I'm afraid of being myself because I don't want to annoy people", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00081", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_039", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im okay, just a bit out of it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, how may I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm just feeling depressed with the year ending This year wasn't a great one", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is the same for most of the people. Any thing particular bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think just general how covid hasn't been resolved yet Its sad being stuck at home", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, you cannot go out due to COVID and that makes you frustrated. Is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "More sad I would say", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you done anything different than usual while staying at home?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No not really. I just finished the semester", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No not really. I just finished the semester", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00082", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_040", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00083", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_040", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult. Have you thought about video chatting them on Thanksgiving?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holiday grows closer.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people are missing their families during the holidays. What would help you during this difficult times? besides video chatting? Can you still cook yourself a nice meal and do any traditions you normally do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I could do that. I was thinking about ordering a Thanksgiving Platter for 2 people so I could have some leftovers from a restaurant that I really like in my town. They do holiday specials.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes I could do that. I was thinking about ordering a Thanksgiving Platter for 2 people so I could have some leftovers from a restaurant that I really like in my town. They do holiday specials.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00084", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_040", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm alright, just feeling a bit depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorry you are feeling depressed. Whats making you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanksgiving is this week and I will be spending it alone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Youre spending thanksgiving alone? Do you usually spend Thanksgiving alone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, and no because of COVID I haven't been able to see my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand how you feel. COVID is causing a lot of distance between familys making relationships difficult. Have you thought about video chatting them on Thanksgiving?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes very. My family lives in another state. Yes, but it's not the same.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know what you mean, in-person is always better than over the phone. I understand why you would feel this way.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's made me feel very depressed and I am only feeling worse as the holiday grows closer.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people are missing their families during the holidays. What would help you during this difficult times? besides video chatting? Can you still cook yourself a nice meal and do any traditions you normally do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I could do that. I was thinking about ordering a Thanksgiving Platter for 2 people so I could have some leftovers from a restaurant that I really like in my town. They do holiday specials.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "thats a great idea!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And AMC always shows great holiday movies so I will watch a bunch.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "dont worry, soon this pandemic will end and we can go back to the holidays we are used to. We just have to wait. I understand how hard it can make it on holidays though.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I do hope so.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I love AMC/Holiday movies as well!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I understand the situation is dire and people are sick, but everyone is suffering, even emotionally.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that is very true. our world has been so different this year", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it's sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there any foods you are looking forward to from your favorite restraunt or movie your interested to watch this year?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes of course. Mashed potatoes and gravy and the movie Four Christmases is hysterical.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "great choices! mashed potatoes and gravy is my favorite too! and that movie is so funny.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Haha thanks. Well thank you for chatting with me, I feel better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You sound like you have a great plan in place as a temporary holiday until we can be with our familes again. i know its not the same but you sound like you are making the best of the situation. which is all we can really do .", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I'm trying. I really miss my parents.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you. I'm trying. I really miss my parents.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00085", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_041", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could see how that would be very upsetting and make you sad. do you have family near by for comfort and support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "im so sorry to hear of this issue. do you have other outlets like getting out into nature? i find a good walk or a nice book helps with easing my mind.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents catch corona-virus? The thought makes me very nervous and depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents catch corona-virus? The thought makes me very nervous and depressed.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00086", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_041", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could see how that would be very upsetting and make you sad. do you have family near by for comfort and support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "im so sorry to hear of this issue. do you have other outlets like getting out into nature? i find a good walk or a nice book helps with easing my mind.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents catch corona-virus? The thought makes me very nervous and depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i could see why that may worry you. as it would worry me also. as my parents are older in age and i have young children. i just realize that life must go on regardless of given situation. always look to the positive. it is best to find something to ease your mind rather it be facetiming family, reading, yoga, or even getting fresh air hows the weather where you are located?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am in mid-west Canada and it's snowing like crazy. Winter has arrived already with full force. Going out is not an option So I am trying to watch some movies or study some research papers for my semester exams But there are many disturbances and I can't focus", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am in mid-west Canada and it's snowing like crazy. Winter has arrived already with full force. Going out is not an option So I am trying to watch some movies or study some research papers for my semester exams But there are many disturbances and I can't focus", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00087", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_041", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I am feeling sad. My friend's father passed away day before because of COVID-19 disease.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I could see how that would be very upsetting and make you sad. do you have family near by for comfort and support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, my friends has flown back. But I could not go because of all the restrictions. I am unable to pay last respects in person that was very close to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "im so sorry to hear of this issue. do you have other outlets like getting out into nature? i find a good walk or a nice book helps with easing my mind.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could try distracting myself. But my main worry is what if my parents catch corona-virus? The thought makes me very nervous and depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i could see why that may worry you. as it would worry me also. as my parents are older in age and i have young children. i just realize that life must go on regardless of given situation. always look to the positive. it is best to find something to ease your mind rather it be facetiming family, reading, yoga, or even getting fresh air hows the weather where you are located?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am in mid-west Canada and it's snowing like crazy. Winter has arrived already with full force. Going out is not an option So I am trying to watch some movies or study some research papers for my semester exams But there are many disturbances and I can't focus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "oh goodness, im in the deep south. even tho its close to winter it definitely does not feel that way. what are some disturbances that you deal with currently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "As I told, the thought that my beloved parents or family members catching covid, and the thought of going back to my country in case of emergency keeps playing on my mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "remember as long as your parents remain safe they will be fine. you will be fine. we all will be fine. research has shown that majority of people who have caught covid have recovered with no issues. i myself have had covid and i am here.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good to know about your recovery. Thanks for the information. Is COVID as bad as it sounds?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Good to know about your recovery. Thanks for the information. Is COVID as bad as it sounds?", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00088", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_042", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon, what can I help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm just wanting to talk about my sadness that happens every now and then. Sometimes at night, (and only at night) I get in these super depressive moods and have almost mental breakdowns about everything in my life. But it doesn't happen all the time... only sometime and I don't know why", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi, I'm just wanting to talk about my sadness that happens every now and then. Sometimes at night, (and only at night) I get in these super depressive moods and have almost mental breakdowns about everything in my life. But it doesn't happen all the time... only sometime and I don't know why", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00089", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_042", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon, what can I help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm just wanting to talk about my sadness that happens every now and then. Sometimes at night, (and only at night) I get in these super depressive moods and have almost mental breakdowns about everything in my life. But it doesn't happen all the time... only sometime and I don't know why", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in, I'm sorry to hear you're going through that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it is, and I'm not sure why it happens", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Especially when the sun starts going down sooner, it can seem like we have less time, and as if things are closing in upon us.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah exactly. Where I live, we just had daylight savings so it gets dark around 5:30 PM and it feels like my days are just wasted", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah exactly. Where I live, we just had daylight savings so it gets dark around 5:30 PM and it feels like my days are just wasted", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00090", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_042", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon, what can I help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm just wanting to talk about my sadness that happens every now and then. Sometimes at night, (and only at night) I get in these super depressive moods and have almost mental breakdowns about everything in my life. But it doesn't happen all the time... only sometime and I don't know why", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in, I'm sorry to hear you're going through that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it is, and I'm not sure why it happens", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Especially when the sun starts going down sooner, it can seem like we have less time, and as if things are closing in upon us.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah exactly. Where I live, we just had daylight savings so it gets dark around 5:30 PM and it feels like my days are just wasted", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are a few strategies you could use to combat that. Personally, I try to soak in as much sunlight as possible before it goes down. Sometimes that will mean moving your work space, maybe getting up earlier to have a cup of coffee in the sunrise, maybe it's scheduling breaks into your day where you specifically get some vitamin D. As far as the intrusive and repetitive nature of the thoughts, have you ever consulted with a therapist or other mental health professional? Obsessive thoughts are sometimes a sign of anxiety.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah that is good advice. I definitely need to work on getting myself up earlier in the mornings, I've just come so accustomed to my current sleep schedule. And in all honesty, I haven't tried a therapist yet... I'm scared it will be hard to open up to a stranger", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah that is good advice. I definitely need to work on getting myself up earlier in the mornings, I've just come so accustomed to my current sleep schedule. And in all honesty, I haven't tried a therapist yet... I'm scared it will be hard to open up to a stranger", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00091", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_042", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon, what can I help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm just wanting to talk about my sadness that happens every now and then. Sometimes at night, (and only at night) I get in these super depressive moods and have almost mental breakdowns about everything in my life. But it doesn't happen all the time... only sometime and I don't know why", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like a really difficult situation to be in, I'm sorry to hear you're going through that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it is, and I'm not sure why it happens", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Especially when the sun starts going down sooner, it can seem like we have less time, and as if things are closing in upon us.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah exactly. Where I live, we just had daylight savings so it gets dark around 5:30 PM and it feels like my days are just wasted", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are a few strategies you could use to combat that. Personally, I try to soak in as much sunlight as possible before it goes down. Sometimes that will mean moving your work space, maybe getting up earlier to have a cup of coffee in the sunrise, maybe it's scheduling breaks into your day where you specifically get some vitamin D. As far as the intrusive and repetitive nature of the thoughts, have you ever consulted with a therapist or other mental health professional? Obsessive thoughts are sometimes a sign of anxiety.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah that is good advice. I definitely need to work on getting myself up earlier in the mornings, I've just come so accustomed to my current sleep schedule. And in all honesty, I haven't tried a therapist yet... I'm scared it will be hard to open up to a stranger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's an understandable fear. I challenge you to think about it as not too different from this chat here; An opportunity to get some objective advice and perspective.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Wow yeah I didn't even really think about that... And I'm sure there are ways to get in contact with therapists without having to be face to face? I just like the anonymous aspect of it. I feel like I come across as weak if people see me for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, BetterHelp is one of those I believe TalkSpace is another one", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah that's true I have heard of BetterHelp. Maybe I should reach out on one of those platforms when I feel like I am going into one of my depressive episodes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah that's true I have heard of BetterHelp. Maybe I should reach out on one of those platforms when I feel like I am going into one of my depressive episodes.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00092", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_043", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Just a bit sad. The holidays always seem to do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you wanting to get back to work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Work is a good distraction from life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Work is a good distraction from life.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00093", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_043", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Just a bit sad. The holidays always seem to do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you wanting to get back to work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Work is a good distraction from life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well yes I can concur with that. I have often found work takes my mind off my problems.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Work can set you free from your own thoughts", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Work can set you free from your own thoughts", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00094", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_044", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi there my name is Lisa...how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Honestly, it's getting to me, COVID-19, not being able to leave my house safely, having a medical issue that puts me at higher risk.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i can totally relate to that, I am feeling the same way how long have you been feeling this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know what to do with myself. A year. I haven't left my house once.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so it sounds like you are feeling cooped up and not knowing what to do, am i right?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's more than that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "can you tell me more?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm in this house, and scared. Nothing is getting better for me or anyone else I know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "may I ask where you are located?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "In Mass.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it's normal to feel scared. Of course it being normal doesn't make it any better... can you get out for walks?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in such a populous area, I am afraid to. Especially with warmer temperatures coming.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I live in such a populous area, I am afraid to. Especially with warmer temperatures coming.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00095", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_044", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi there my name is Lisa...how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Honestly, it's getting to me, COVID-19, not being able to leave my house safely, having a medical issue that puts me at higher risk.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i can totally relate to that, I am feeling the same way how long have you been feeling this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know what to do with myself. A year. I haven't left my house once.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so it sounds like you are feeling cooped up and not knowing what to do, am i right?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's more than that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "can you tell me more?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm in this house, and scared. Nothing is getting better for me or anyone else I know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "may I ask where you are located?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "In Mass.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it's normal to feel scared. Of course it being normal doesn't make it any better... can you get out for walks?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in such a populous area, I am afraid to. Especially with warmer temperatures coming.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i see. are you saying your sidewalks are too busy to be able to social distance properly? i find getting out for walks is helpful. i live downtown in a small city. i wear a mask while I walk and veer onto the grass, into the bike lane or whatnot if someone comes...or I look ahead and cross the street if it's convenient...that makes me feel safer when i walk. i have a medical condition too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just wish I could do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what is it that is stopping you, are the sidewalks too crowded? without my walks I'd go crazy...it's my daily stress reliever....i am at home 23 hours a day are you planning to get a vaccine and if so do you know how long you have to wait? i agree with you it's a scary time...but things will get batter....the more people get vaccinnes, the better things will get for all of us are you still there?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am here. Just sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so if I understand you correctly, being stuck at home for a whole year is making you feel very sad. Do you connect with people by telephone, zoom, online, email and so on? It's important to connect as often as you can with people you care about", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do sometimes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "do you have a back yard or a patio you can go out on, which might be less scary than going for a walk? Sometimes just the fresh air on my face is a relief", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do sometimes each my lunch in the yard.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "thats good you are connecting with people, and have lunch outdoors.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks. It feels good.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks. It feels good.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00096", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_045", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling down.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's got you down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a more rural area that has moved into our highest risk tier for Covid. They just seem to be making all the wrong choices amongst our local schools and other agencies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I live in a more rural area that has moved into our highest risk tier for Covid. They just seem to be making all the wrong choices amongst our local schools and other agencies.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00097", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_045", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling down.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's got you down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a more rural area that has moved into our highest risk tier for Covid. They just seem to be making all the wrong choices amongst our local schools and other agencies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can relate to being in a rural area being hit right now. What are the wrong choices that they're making?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The middle school is still in person 100% of the time. There have been >30 cases, most in the last 3 weeks, and they keep sending letters home stating that they don't believe the kids are getting sick in school. It's infuriating. So, I get mad, then I get anxious, then I get down...", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "The middle school is still in person 100% of the time. There have been >30 cases, most in the last 3 weeks, and they keep sending letters home stating that they don't believe the kids are getting sick in school. It's infuriating. So, I get mad, then I get anxious, then I get down...", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00098", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_045", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling down.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's got you down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a more rural area that has moved into our highest risk tier for Covid. They just seem to be making all the wrong choices amongst our local schools and other agencies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can relate to being in a rural area being hit right now. What are the wrong choices that they're making?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The middle school is still in person 100% of the time. There have been >30 cases, most in the last 3 weeks, and they keep sending letters home stating that they don't believe the kids are getting sick in school. It's infuriating. So, I get mad, then I get anxious, then I get down...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's such a hard time right now, knowing what is the right thing to do. Does your district offer any virtual options?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They do. It's a pretty poor one though. I'm looking at charter options right now. They only offer ELA, Math, Science, and SS through the public virtual option. The kid I'm concerned about is taking math 3 grades ahead and high school spanish. I do not think their program is in her best interest, so I'm focusing on the charter option, but it takes time :(", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's frustrating, obviously you want what's best for your kid and it's going to take time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It does. Like you said, crazy time for everyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It does. Like you said, crazy time for everyone.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00099", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_045", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Feeling down.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that, what's got you down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I live in a more rural area that has moved into our highest risk tier for Covid. They just seem to be making all the wrong choices amongst our local schools and other agencies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can relate to being in a rural area being hit right now. What are the wrong choices that they're making?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The middle school is still in person 100% of the time. There have been >30 cases, most in the last 3 weeks, and they keep sending letters home stating that they don't believe the kids are getting sick in school. It's infuriating. So, I get mad, then I get anxious, then I get down...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's such a hard time right now, knowing what is the right thing to do. Does your district offer any virtual options?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They do. It's a pretty poor one though. I'm looking at charter options right now. They only offer ELA, Math, Science, and SS through the public virtual option. The kid I'm concerned about is taking math 3 grades ahead and high school spanish. I do not think their program is in her best interest, so I'm focusing on the charter option, but it takes time :(", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's frustrating, obviously you want what's best for your kid and it's going to take time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It does. Like you said, crazy time for everyone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think the important thing to remember is that we're all going through similar things. Which probably increases our anxiety because we don't have any good way to express our frustrations since everyone else is in the same or worse position.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "True, true. It does help to focus on how you can help, especially if you find people in worse positions.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "While we're busy worrying about things like education and jobs, I like to look for the little messages of hope and empathy that we'[re seeing through all of this as well. It's a good teaching moment for our kids and showing how to collectively work to take care of one another.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I like that. I especially like the idea of involving the kids.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just think of all of the ways our kids are learning to adapt to different life situations as well. That's worth just as much as their formal education. Your concerns are valid, and hopefully finding another safer school works out and this whole thing is over soon.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been trying to do projects at home I normally wouldn't to try to help everyone fill time. Things like creating websites, art projects, and such. Those skills will help tremendously.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a great idea, helping fill time with things to distract is a good way to relieve stress as well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "So, I guess I'll just keep doing what I can and try to stay away from media and the state's tracking site. I had been doing this, but the announcement for the new tier came from the school!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What region are you in? We're midwest and watching the news is not the best way to lighten the day.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Midwest. Not the worst place to be, although we supposedly hit some statistic that no other state has yet, so we may be heading that direction.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well my suggestion is to turn off the news.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Consider it done, lol! I'm gonna log out now, but you did give me a couple points to consider that would be better than dwelling on the hopelessness. Stay safe where you are.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Consider it done, lol! I'm gonna log out now, but you did give me a couple points to consider that would be better than dwelling on the hopelessness. Stay safe where you are.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00100", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_046", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, what can I do to help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am having such a hard time because Mom does not deserve this. I wanted her to grow old in love and happy. Now, it's over. I am just so very sad for her.hello hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi Thanks for your sharing and sorry to hear about that", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ty. Death is so hard. How would you deal?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I felt the same way as you when your closed family members pass away I would share my feeling with someone that I felt closed or some family members or your spouse that you can share your feeling. Do you try to talk to anyone about your feeling? Or someone that close to you that you can share your feeling with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband is here. He is very afraid of the virus because of his COPD. He i afraid to talk about the virus. I just moved to this town where there are not so many people because of thi.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe try to talk about something that he is very interesting and help him away of focusing on COVID.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not really met anyone like a friend but I do Zoom daily with family at home. I do pray alot.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have not really met anyone like a friend but I do Zoom daily with family at home. I do pray alot.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00101", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_046", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, what can I do to help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am having such a hard time because Mom does not deserve this. I wanted her to grow old in love and happy. Now, it's over. I am just so very sad for her.hello hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi Thanks for your sharing and sorry to hear about that", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ty. Death is so hard. How would you deal?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I felt the same way as you when your closed family members pass away I would share my feeling with someone that I felt closed or some family members or your spouse that you can share your feeling. Do you try to talk to anyone about your feeling? Or someone that close to you that you can share your feeling with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband is here. He is very afraid of the virus because of his COPD. He i afraid to talk about the virus. I just moved to this town where there are not so many people because of thi.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe try to talk about something that he is very interesting and help him away of focusing on COVID.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not really met anyone like a friend but I do Zoom daily with family at home. I do pray alot.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is very good that you share with your family and pray if that helps you to relax.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I workout to relieve the stress.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And I felt the same way that COVID time is difficult to all of us", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am also in the healthcare field but work at home. I am one of the fortunate office workers who can do this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Very good! Workout is another way to relief your stress", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so glad there is a vaccine now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is very nice. We are all hoping vaccine can relief us from anxieties. Sounds like you were doing very well of handling the situation. Please keep it up and always be mindful of sharing with you and your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It just sucked her husband passed when there is a vaccine now. Must be heart wrenching for her. I feel like I want to call her now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And you should do that to share if that you believe that helps both of you to go through this difficult time", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think a pet would help her so I got her one for Christmas. She loves dogs and her passed away 6 months ago. I know she loved her girl so I hope this new puppy will bring her out of the fog she is in.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wonderful! Pet can bring joyful moments to us and glad you done it for helping", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for your support and listening ear!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for your sharing. We are all together to overcome this difficulty! Is there anything that you would like to share or concerns with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Much love to you and stay safe! You were great!;) Have an awesome day!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Much love to you and stay safe! You were great!;) Have an awesome day!", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00102", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_047", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I believe that I can get over this time in my life but I need support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I believe that I can get over this time in my life but I need support.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00103", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_047", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I believe that I can get over this time in my life but I need support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are you having a problem with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband has cancer. I have been really depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My husband has cancer. I have been really depressed.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00104", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_047", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I believe that I can get over this time in my life but I need support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are you having a problem with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband has cancer. I have been really depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand how you are feeling. My mom had cancer. It really helped me to join a support group.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "So how do you keep going without crying? How do I find a support group? I live in a rural place.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Crying is natural. You have every right to have those feelings. Don't try and stop yourself from crying.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok. How do I not cry in front of him?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are online support groups you could get involved with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah but where do I find them?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You can google - online cancer support groups.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It makes it tough because I don't make as much money as he does/ What kind of cancer di your mother have?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "My mother had rectal cancer. She went through a surgery and chemo and radiation and then she went into remission.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh he has a 25 percent of remission", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you are having problems with money you might be able to qualify for food assistance through the SNAP program. Hang in there, I know it is rough but there is hope.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah but food I can always get. Its paying the bills.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hang in there, I know it is rough but there is hope.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know I will snap out of it and get my strength back. I always bounce back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I know I will snap out of it and get my strength back. I always bounce back.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00105", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_047", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I believe that I can get over this time in my life but I need support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are you having a problem with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband has cancer. I have been really depressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand how you are feeling. My mom had cancer. It really helped me to join a support group.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "So how do you keep going without crying? How do I find a support group? I live in a rural place.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Crying is natural. You have every right to have those feelings. Don't try and stop yourself from crying.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok. How do I not cry in front of him?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are online support groups you could get involved with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah but where do I find them?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You can google - online cancer support groups.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It makes it tough because I don't make as much money as he does/ What kind of cancer di your mother have?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "My mother had rectal cancer. She went through a surgery and chemo and radiation and then she went into remission.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh he has a 25 percent of remission", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you are having problems with money you might be able to qualify for food assistance through the SNAP program. Hang in there, I know it is rough but there is hope.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah but food I can always get. Its paying the bills.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hang in there, I know it is rough but there is hope.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know I will snap out of it and get my strength back. I always bounce back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Remember, as much as you need to be strong for him - you need to take care of yourself extra special during this time. Remember, as much as you need to be strong for him - you need to take care of yourself extra special during this time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I have been. I am thinking about rewarding myself.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a great idea! You deserve it!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I really appreciate your help.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are very welcome. I understand how you are feeling. I will pray for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you I guess I should be going", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you I guess I should be going", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00106", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_048", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im okay How do you want to do this?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sure! Can you please tell me how can i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ive been feeling like other people dont like me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If I understand you correctly, do you assume people dislike you even if you can't tell for sure?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, i automatically assume I'm valueless in the other persons eyes, no matter what they say or do to the contrary", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00107", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_050", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct? Why are you feeling just alright?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00108", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_050", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know how to get over this I'm just alright.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are having some trouble getting over something is that correct? Why are you feeling just alright?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling just alright because nothing excites me or gives me joy anymore. Many of my family have passed on and the holidays are coming.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that it is hard to have some type of joy especially with the holidays coming along especially when family has passed on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "This pandemic doesn't help either. No gatherings with many people.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know it is hard, it also has taken a toll on me as well this pandemic is hard to go through, but I take it day by day. Maybe you should take to someone if there is anyone close to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Only my Aunt, but I haven't talked to her in a long time. I just figure she's busy.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "maybe you should try to call her sometime im sure she would like that", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How do I get over feeling like I'm dumping on her? I know she's family but i'm sure she has problems too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How do I get over feeling like I'm dumping on her? I know she's family but i'm sure she has problems too.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00109", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_051", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello...I have never done this before", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing ok,and yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00110", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_051", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello...I have never done this before", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing ok,and yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. How is your daughter doing now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed. She was very brave, and is a role model for others!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it was good she had really supportive friends to help her through it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes friends are very helpful, Im glad she had that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She was also in therapy for a time", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "She was also in therapy for a time", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00111", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_051", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello...I have never done this before", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing ok,and yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing good, is there anything you would like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes,I have never talked about it with any of my friends not even the ones closest to me.....about 5 years ago when my daughter was 16 she was sexually assaulted while at a sleepover at her friend's house", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry. I understand it must be hard to deal with I myself have a daughter. Did you press charges?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes we did,there was an investigation and a trial that we had to testify at but unfortunatly he was found not guilty which I will never understand.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be awful for her as well as you, I feel that sometimes the victims are left in the shadows when it comes to sexual assault. How is your daughter doing now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It was hard on her she felt like what was the point of it all for the jury not to believe her ..I kept telling her I was proud of her because it was a very brave thing to do..i also feel like this is why victims don't speak up out of fear of not being believed she is doing well now,she has a job and she is now a mom herself,my grandson is 15 months old", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's true alot of people dont come forward with sexual assault due to being not believed. She was very brave, and is a role model for others!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it was good she had really supportive friends to help her through it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes friends are very helpful, Im glad she had that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She was also in therapy for a time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Therapy can be a great thing especially if you find that one therapist you feel comfortable with. It always helps to talk about things.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think it was beneficial,I just wished she continued on with it..she stopped because her therapist left the practice Thanks for the chat,but I got to go", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think it was beneficial,I just wished she continued on with it..she stopped because her therapist left the practice Thanks for the chat,but I got to go", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00112", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_052", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good evening. How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good afternoon", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you'd like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not happy at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that, this should be a fun time of year. What is going on in your life?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just lose my cousin for COVID-19", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that, how terrible! So you are feeling utterly bereft right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It a very bad year!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It a very bad year!", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00113", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_053", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon. Hope you are surviving he virus", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, I hope you are as well. Is anything the matter?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am just looking for a friend to chat with. Just feeling lonely.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel the same way. I cant wait for life to be normal again. It has been a hard year.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The virus has stopped people from meeting. What about you? I don't know if life will ever be normal again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you live alone? Do you mean meeting new people or getting together with people you already know? I am naturally an introvert, so it honestly didnt bother me the first month or so... but I'm so over it now. I wish I had taken advantage of freedoms we had before all of this.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I currently live in a place that is totally lonely. It is not because of the virus but just because people aren't able to reach out or there are no viable places to meet and greet. The freedoms are still there but the fear of getting the virus stops people from normal life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it will pass eventually, but who knows when. It feels like every where you look things are falling apart sometimes. What kind of place do you live in?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Currently I live in a hotel getting ready to travel to another state. What about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're so right.... I miss not fearing the virus. I don't fear at as much as I did, but I fear giving it to a loved one. Do you travel a lot for work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No for personal reasons. I just find the disparity between wearing the mask in some states is not as demanding s others. Here the masks do not seem to be mandatory, but 100 miles and it is necessary.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Some people are on lockdowns, I'm nervous about our income in the next few months with the talk of more stay at home orders. I know it feels like itll be like this forever but I really dont believe it will. It may get worse before it gets better but I think things will go back to normal eventually.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think we are in a long period of recovery because the country has too many laws in different states that are causing demands on the health system.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have traveled states recently and the difference is crazy! I went through Tennessee, missippi, and alabama and stopped a few times.. some places are just going on like normal, hardly any masks.. in arkansas you never see anyone indoors without one.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Too much politics behand the virus and helping the people. Florida is mandatory, but Georgia is lacks. Tennessee is mandatory but other states are not as caring.", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00114", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_054", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi!", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00115", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_054", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am so very angry and disgusted with my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Why do feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband keeps calling me names degrading me not respecting me. I am so angry because he does this in front of our kids He doesnt do it all the time but its enough to make me feel inferior and angry every time I think about it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand why you'd feel that way, we should be treated with respect especially with our partners.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes we should but tell that to him. If I stand up for myself he ll go into OH Here we go lets play the victim role Poor you only he says my name and tell boys what a worthless mom I am and white trash", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What a terrible thing to say. How do you answer him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Usually I keep quiet but if I say something it will be what i do for family and how he doesn't help me or respect me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Usually I keep quiet but if I say something it will be what i do for family and how he doesn't help me or respect me", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00116", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_054", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am so very angry and disgusted with my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Why do feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband keeps calling me names degrading me not respecting me. I am so angry because he does this in front of our kids He doesnt do it all the time but its enough to make me feel inferior and angry every time I think about it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand why you'd feel that way, we should be treated with respect especially with our partners.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes we should but tell that to him. If I stand up for myself he ll go into OH Here we go lets play the victim role Poor you only he says my name and tell boys what a worthless mom I am and white trash", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What a terrible thing to say. How do you answer him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Usually I keep quiet but if I say something it will be what i do for family and how he doesn't help me or respect me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry about what you're going through. It might be a good idea to take some time away from him and for yourself, if that would be possible. Do you have friends or family near you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not with Covid going on no. I havent seen my mom since march I have no siblings and a few friends boys are cyberschooling he works remote so no that is not possible", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It really is a difficult situation for everybody. It sounds like you're all feeling stressed and cooped in too, does that sound right?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "This happened before Covid. Covid just made it worst because he went to work boys went to school and I had me time for a few hours before I picked youngest up kindergarted", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It would be good if you can reach out to your friends and let them know how you're feeling. Try to make some time for yourself and let your husband know how you really feel.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well I got get going . boys need me to help withhomework. Great idea . I think I will . Keep safe", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hope you keep safe out there too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Has this worked for any other people you supported ? talk to you later", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Has this worked for any other people you supported ? talk to you later", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00117", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_055", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to stay positive but keep having too many thoughts at once :(", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are these thoughts? :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its so stupid. I keep worrying about worrying or having something bad happen. The thoughts just come so fast", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe your mind is just congested with the thoughts of life, and you just need to relax for a little while", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "tried that. its become more of a chronic thing, like sometimes I cant controll the thoughts or like I dont know how to relax. like a chemical thing", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "A chemical thing, so maybe you need a counsellor, and then he can assess your problem, and everything will be alright :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have one and it helps sometimes. I try to meditate", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, meditation is very good at calming down the mind. Does it help you? If it does maybe do it more continuously and more frequently", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i pretty much have to do it constantly", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not constantly. because then you won't have anytime to do anything else, but if negative thoughts always come into your head, maybe try doing something you enjoy doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah maybe its as simple as that. I know Im the problem cause its very obvious that im the on ein control of the thoughts for the most part", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, maybe. But always look at the bright side of stuff and maybe the negative thoughts can stop", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "right. I will try and start that more today and commit to it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes that's the spirit! And with that mind set good things will always come to you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i agree. when i consistently use meditation and positive attitude, any bad things are defintely minimized", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, as long as you keep focused and not divert into any other thoughts :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. do you meditate? '", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I do it once a week and it really helps. I used to do it more often when I felt I couldn't do anything right, so always do it according to the situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "do you want to keep talking or should we wrap up? i could go either way", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "do you want to keep talking or should we wrap up? i could go either way", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00118", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_055", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "trying to stay positive but keep having too many thoughts at once :(", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are these thoughts? :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its so stupid. I keep worrying about worrying or having something bad happen. The thoughts just come so fast", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe your mind is just congested with the thoughts of life, and you just need to relax for a little while", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "tried that. its become more of a chronic thing, like sometimes I cant controll the thoughts or like I dont know how to relax. like a chemical thing", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "A chemical thing, so maybe you need a counsellor, and then he can assess your problem, and everything will be alright :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have one and it helps sometimes. I try to meditate", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, meditation is very good at calming down the mind. Does it help you? If it does maybe do it more continuously and more frequently", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i pretty much have to do it constantly", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not constantly. because then you won't have anytime to do anything else, but if negative thoughts always come into your head, maybe try doing something you enjoy doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah maybe its as simple as that. I know Im the problem cause its very obvious that im the on ein control of the thoughts for the most part", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, maybe. But always look at the bright side of stuff and maybe the negative thoughts can stop", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "right. I will try and start that more today and commit to it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes that's the spirit! And with that mind set good things will always come to you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i agree. when i consistently use meditation and positive attitude, any bad things are defintely minimized", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, as long as you keep focused and not divert into any other thoughts :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. do you meditate? '", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I do it once a week and it really helps. I used to do it more often when I felt I couldn't do anything right, so always do it according to the situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "do you want to keep talking or should we wrap up? i could go either way", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes If you want to", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might go and have some breakfast It was great chatting :)", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I might go and have some breakfast It was great chatting :)", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00119", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_056", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything that you would like to discuss?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im not doinf the best beating myself up over past thinga ive done in my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "in what ways have you been beating yourself up?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well i been thinking boutnmy ex girlfriend Wishing i woulsldve done things i done", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that can be a difficult situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I been feelinf shame, disgust, and anxiety", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have gone through the same thing and have found that time passing helps, and not dwelling on the past but instead working to make things currently in your life better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Really bad Losingnmybrelatiinship with her really different", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "sometimes overthinking about things can keep your mind in a bad place, maybe there's something like a hobby or new people you can engage with? it can be hard, and many people share the same experience. it is not a lonely world.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ya i suppose your rifht", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i can feel how anxious you are about the situation. how long ago did you break up?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ya well i just wish i had a way to get in touchwith her and let her know that im sorry not trying to get a second chance since i had my chance already and screwed it up", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "maybe with time she will be ready to talk again. sometimes people need space to collect themselves.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe so but i was a real dickhead to her. She totally didnt swaweve it", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Maybe so but i was a real dickhead to her. She totally didnt swaweve it", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00120", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_057", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, is there anything on your mind at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. I’m hoping you can help me as I’m having a hard time recharging. I can’t seem to take a day off without working,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that you need to be able to relax and unwind once in a while but you can't?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and can’t shut it off.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah that can be a problem. Is this causing problems or tensions within your relationships?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "A little I feel stressed all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have experienced something similar. I found myself getting short tempered and taking things out on my loved ones.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered any kind of counselling to talk through these feelings? There are some organisations around that will offer help for free Perhaps honestly talking things through with your partner would really help you both too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don’t have time for thst Or feel that I don’t have time for it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you saying that you are putting your work ahead of everything else in your life, is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Nonetheless, there is no need to make it the entire focus of your life, especially if it is impacting on other aspects of it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes but I guess I’m trying to find that balance and struggling", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel that you have to hit unrealistic goals and meet unrealistic expectations?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh yes all the timr", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Oh yes all the timr", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00121", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_057", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, is there anything on your mind at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. I’m hoping you can help me as I’m having a hard time recharging. I can’t seem to take a day off without working,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that you need to be able to relax and unwind once in a while but you can't?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I also seem then have trouble doing family time with my job demands. Yes. I seem to work 24/7 and can’t shut it off.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah that can be a problem. Is this causing problems or tensions within your relationships?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "A little I feel stressed all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have experienced something similar. I found myself getting short tempered and taking things out on my loved ones.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes exactly I need help balancing it all out And saying no at work while still progressing in my career", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered any kind of counselling to talk through these feelings? There are some organisations around that will offer help for free Perhaps honestly talking things through with your partner would really help you both too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don’t have time for thst Or feel that I don’t have time for it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you saying that you are putting your work ahead of everything else in your life, is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I do think with my partner would help. Yes that is correct but my job supports all the bills.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Nonetheless, there is no need to make it the entire focus of your life, especially if it is impacting on other aspects of it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes but I guess I’m trying to find that balance and struggling", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel that you have to hit unrealistic goals and meet unrealistic expectations?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh yes all the timr", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I personally sometimes find it difficult not to be too hard on myself. Sometimes I have to remind myself to relax and have fun once in a while.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I would agree with you there. It feels harder to escape and have a fun night right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It has been a very hard year for everyone, I know and I sympathise. Can you think of one specific thing you'd really like to do that might cheer you up?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Get together with friends and explore a new restaurant Which isn’t possible yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like a really fun thing to do! Can you plan one evening soon where you and your friends will do this and you will promise yourself that you won't cancel in favour of work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The issue is I can’t with covid", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah yes that is a big problem. Are restaurants closed where you are? What about getting together with just a couple of friends for a picnic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I like that idea but it’s 30 here. Maybe something like that or a walk with some spiked drinks", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think that the important thing is to get out of the office and have some human contact. I do agree that it's a really miserable time of year for it though", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Human contact and ideally in person would so help", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hope I have been able to give you a little perspective on your problems! Is there something else you'd like to talk to me about today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think you have helped step back. Sometimes when you are in the middle of it you can’t find a way out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think you have helped step back. Sometimes when you are in the middle of it you can’t find a way out.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00122", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_058", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am not too bad thanks. Is there anything on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm doing alright, trying to keep in the holiday spirits. Feeling a bit down, due to my work situation", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00123", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_059", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00124", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_059", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What type of work were you doing if I can ask?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Project Coordinator.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What field?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Construction", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Construction", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00125", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_059", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What type of work were you doing if I can ask?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Project Coordinator.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What field?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Construction", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry. Is there any side work you can get into?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00126", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_059", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm worried. I lost my job and I'm worried I won't get another one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that, this has been a hard time for so many.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it has been. I just really feel lost.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What type of work were you doing if I can ask?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Project Coordinator.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What field?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Construction", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry. Is there any side work you can get into?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I'm looking for work from home jobs in the meantime while looking for jobs", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a great idea, I'm glad you're looking into things to do in the meantime.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm going to miss the people I worked with as well.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Unfortunately, this is such an isolating time and losing some of that contact is going to be an adjustment. I can completely understand that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. it is. I know that we'll get through this whole thing, but in the meantime it's just so crazy making and anxiety inducing.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes. it is. I know that we'll get through this whole thing, but in the meantime it's just so crazy making and anxiety inducing.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00127", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_060", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, how are you today? Anything on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah? Can you tell me a bit about these known unknowns?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah man, thats pretty unlucky isn't it, I'm in the same situation, but I think yours is a bit worse.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, I feel you there on the anxiety, you'll definitely get through this.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better.", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00128", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_060", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, how are you today? Anything on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm OK. Just dealing with a lot of unknowns.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah? Can you tell me a bit about these known unknowns?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I work for cruise industry and it's been a bit tough since whole COVID situation started.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah man, thats pretty unlucky isn't it, I'm in the same situation, but I think yours is a bit worse.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I'm just always worried that I can loose my job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey, I feel you there on the anxiety, you'll definitely get through this.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's just constantly to many unknowns, and it feels like it's not even getting better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thats what anxiety is all about, the best you can do is figure out how to address those unknowns.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But how do I address them, how would I deal with this?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job, started coding, doing odd-jobs, and learning survival skills. That is how I prepared for my unknowns.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That sound great, just need to look for a back up plan.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Doesn't hurt to be prepared for anything, even the worst case scenarios! Don't sweat what other people think about you, its your life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I guess it's a good time to start looking into creating a plan.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is a good idea, who knows how the future is going to go for everybody honestly.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I agree. It's always great to have back up plan in case something does not go the way we expect it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Got any good ideas?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Mturk! LOL. Not sure if I can make tons of money, but can be extra income to help out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Mturk definitely helps! But don't put all your irons in one fire. Keep branching out!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for your suggestions and ideas. I appreciate your support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No problem man, anything else on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I think that I'm good. Have a great night.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No, I think that I'm good. Have a great night.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00129", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_061", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there!! How can I help today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00130", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_061", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there!! How can I help today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course, would be glad to support What's on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00131", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_061", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there!! How can I help today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course, would be glad to support What's on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family? If I may suggest this, you can look into programs that help re-employ or support laid off workers in your country.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I completely understand, I would also feel anxious if I were in this situation. It's an honorable thing that you've taken the initiative and are working hard to support your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already Alright, you might want to start by taking deep breaths, and remember that this will not be the end of it all Your wife's reassurance is very valid, and I'm sure she doesn't blame you. Getting laid off is no fault of your own, and at the least, your wife is still working, so you have a bit of time until things start to spiral", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00132", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_061", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there!! How can I help today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hey too. Have got a mental problem need your support if you don`t mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course, would be glad to support What's on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, i was laid off from work during the Covid-19 period mid-last year (June) at a time when i was financially down. this was the start of my woes. Really need support since i have had rough time recollecting myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see, so sorry to hear that... How are you feeling due to that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel so anxious since i am not able to meet most of my family needs as i used to before covid", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah I understand, is there any temporary financial support available for you and your family? If I may suggest this, you can look into programs that help re-employ or support laid off workers in your country.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Currently i have no support apart from the meagre earnings of my wife I have looked into it, applied but have not been fortunate to get one yet", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I completely understand, I would also feel anxious if I were in this situation. It's an honorable thing that you've taken the initiative and are working hard to support your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I really need your support on how to manage the anxiety because despite constant reassurance from my wife, i still feel i am letting down my family as a man", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If it makes you feel any better, there are a bunch of workshops that offer support, what little it may be. I'm not sure what country you are in, but I've seen some small organizations that give away grocery vouchers for those in need. Perhaps you could narrow your search to find those as well, if you haven't already Alright, you might want to start by taking deep breaths, and remember that this will not be the end of it all Your wife's reassurance is very valid, and I'm sure she doesn't blame you. Getting laid off is no fault of your own, and at the least, your wife is still working, so you have a bit of time until things start to spiral", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that is awesome. You mean deep breaths do help? How often do i need the breaths?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course, breathing is the body's most calming function, you dont need a set amount of breaths, but take the time to be aware of the action and the stillness around you It would help more than you think it will In this time that you have, I think it would be nice to take the time you have with your family and enjoy it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I actually feel the support from my wife for which i am grateful but then my children are young to understand it all. I used to do a lot for them and constantly tell me to do the same but am unable cause it needs money It is quite unfortunate that in my family we are used to finding joy as a family outside the home setting which requires spending and this we are not able to meet it often times as we have had to reduce spending Apart from deep breaths, what other ways can i use to manage my anxiety?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Spending time actively playing with your kids would help, along with morning exercise (but nothing too strenuous) if you choose to do so if you enjoy reading, I suggest taking the time to find a book that you used to enjoy and give it another read it will remind you of a time when you were in a good place, and hopefully project that feeling back to you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, am amazed! You mean anxiety can be managed so simply? Wanna give it a try", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hope you do, positive attitude is the start to a healthy mind. This may not work for everything and the anxiety won't just disappear on day one or maybe ever, but these are steps you would want to start with :) Coping with anxiety is what you make of it, remember to not beat yourself up about things you ultimately cannot control.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "sure. Let me adjust my attitude first and accept the situation. Hoping t cope with the situation in due course Much grateful for the support", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "exactly: \"maintain a hopeful outlook and visualize what you want rather than what you fear\" I really hope I was able to help even if it was a little bit", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That wasn`t little. It was much and am gonna try it out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm really glad :) and I hope it works out! best of luck, and please take care of yourself", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. My hope too. Goodbye", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Sure. My hope too. Goodbye", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00133", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_062", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. Thanks for helping me today.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello. Thanks for helping me today.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00134", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_062", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. Thanks for helping me today.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No problem! How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I\"ve applied.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I\"ve applied.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00135", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_062", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. Thanks for helping me today.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No problem! How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling anxious about finding work and and impatient with the application process at many places I\"ve applied.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So from what I am understanding, you have been applying for jobs and you are having anxiety about finding one and waiting through the application process.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes thats right. I keep trying and feel like I\"m not getting anywhere.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from the few messages we have shared I can tell how anxious this is making you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I think that I might have to try to find a different type of work than I\"m used to and I'm not sure I'll be good at trying something new.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I just recently went through a layoff at my company, and I had the same situation trying to find another job. It is very stressful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wish that I could get more of a reason than just a denial of my application. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and most companies won't give any feedback.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What have you done to reach out for feedback from the companies? Often it helps to send e-mails or make phone calls to have them give you some feedback.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't tried reaching out. Most of the places I\"ve been applying are huge corporations with no one to call at HR. Maybe I should try to apply somewhere locally and see if I have better luck. At least then I could talk to a person.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think that would be a great start! It also might help to get business cards from the people you interview with in order to be able to reach out to them in the future.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats a great idea. I've been considering going back to school to see if I can maybe get a higher degree. Ive got a Bachelors degree now and it seems like everything takes a Masters degree these days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What type of work are you interested in?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What I'm most interested in is importing and exporting of exotic fruit but the recent restrictions on travel have really hurt the business. I've been thinking maybe I'll go back to school for something more practical like plumbing", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think that would be a great idea! It has been shown that people with higher level degrees make more money and have more opportunity than those without,", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ugh getting accepted for a masters program sounds stressful. I'm thinking I can't go wrong by becoming a plumber or an electrician. Everyone always needs that, even with the pandemic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Ugh getting accepted for a masters program sounds stressful. I'm thinking I can't go wrong by becoming a plumber or an electrician. Everyone always needs that, even with the pandemic.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00136", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_064", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. I'm seeking some support, maybe some advice in dealing with a situation at my work. I've got a new supervisor who is so different from my last one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi there. I'm seeking some support, maybe some advice in dealing with a situation at my work. I've got a new supervisor who is so different from my last one.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00137", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_064", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. I'm seeking some support, maybe some advice in dealing with a situation at my work. I've got a new supervisor who is so different from my last one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sure, I see you need some support at work because your new supervisor is so different than your previous one What kinds of things are troubling to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. They have a Military background and bark orders, and change the way I'm working without being open to conversation. When I ask questions, they threaten my job. Telling me they \"Don't have to explain themselves!\" as they are my supervisor.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes. They have a Military background and bark orders, and change the way I'm working without being open to conversation. When I ask questions, they threaten my job. Telling me they \"Don't have to explain themselves!\" as they are my supervisor.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00138", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_064", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. I'm seeking some support, maybe some advice in dealing with a situation at my work. I've got a new supervisor who is so different from my last one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sure, I see you need some support at work because your new supervisor is so different than your previous one What kinds of things are troubling to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. They have a Military background and bark orders, and change the way I'm working without being open to conversation. When I ask questions, they threaten my job. Telling me they \"Don't have to explain themselves!\" as they are my supervisor.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that sounds difficult with them being so militant. Have you been able to talk to any co-workers in a similar situation?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, there are two other people supervised by him. One of them is also Military and new him before hand, they seem to get along great. But my other co-worker is like me. Doesn't know what to do, or who to turn to. Sometimes the work environment is pretty hostile when we're just trying to continue projects that were started before he arrived.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds hard that it is so hostile at work when you trying so hard.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yea. But when he threatens and calls my insubordinate, I worry he might be making a case to remove me. I wonder if I should talk to the person above him, about it. But I worry they might just think I'm complaining because its different But it really is uncomfortable.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you worry about having your job taken away from you. Talking to someone above your supervisor may be a good solution.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its been 3 months since he started, I just wonder if its too soon. I'd hate to be seen as a complainer. And the person above him, is the person who hired him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "When I was in a similar situation I had to go to a higher supervisor and was helped a lot. It probably is never too soon, but could be too late if you wait.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats true. I'm not happy at work, but I do love my job. I enjoyed it a lot before him arrived. But now I'm constantly thinking about finding a new job, or worrying about him pushing me out. Maybe thats what he wants, so he can bring in his own people?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see you really like your job. Sometimes just taking a deep breath can help to calm stress.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats good advice. I do need to do more outside of work to relieve the stress. I'll try to do that. Do you think I can speak to him about his tone and maybe explain that communication is much more relaxed?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you think he'll be receptive to your communications if you speak directly to him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think its worth a try, but I don't want him to think I'm being argumentative. Any suggestions on how to have that conversation?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see that you worry about your boss seeing you as argumentative, but could you try it from the perspective of making your boss feel like he is in control?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Making it his idea. That's a good tactic. I could try that. And maybe giving him time to understand the workplace as it new to him too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think you've given me some good advice. Thank you. I feel a little less anxious than I did.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think you've given me some good advice. Thank you. I feel a little less anxious than I did.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00139", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_064", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. I'm seeking some support, maybe some advice in dealing with a situation at my work. I've got a new supervisor who is so different from my last one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sure, I see you need some support at work because your new supervisor is so different than your previous one What kinds of things are troubling to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. They have a Military background and bark orders, and change the way I'm working without being open to conversation. When I ask questions, they threaten my job. Telling me they \"Don't have to explain themselves!\" as they are my supervisor.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that sounds difficult with them being so militant. Have you been able to talk to any co-workers in a similar situation?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, there are two other people supervised by him. One of them is also Military and new him before hand, they seem to get along great. But my other co-worker is like me. Doesn't know what to do, or who to turn to. Sometimes the work environment is pretty hostile when we're just trying to continue projects that were started before he arrived.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds hard that it is so hostile at work when you trying so hard.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yea. But when he threatens and calls my insubordinate, I worry he might be making a case to remove me. I wonder if I should talk to the person above him, about it. But I worry they might just think I'm complaining because its different But it really is uncomfortable.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you worry about having your job taken away from you. Talking to someone above your supervisor may be a good solution.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its been 3 months since he started, I just wonder if its too soon. I'd hate to be seen as a complainer. And the person above him, is the person who hired him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "When I was in a similar situation I had to go to a higher supervisor and was helped a lot. It probably is never too soon, but could be too late if you wait.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats true. I'm not happy at work, but I do love my job. I enjoyed it a lot before him arrived. But now I'm constantly thinking about finding a new job, or worrying about him pushing me out. Maybe thats what he wants, so he can bring in his own people?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see you really like your job. Sometimes just taking a deep breath can help to calm stress.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats good advice. I do need to do more outside of work to relieve the stress. I'll try to do that. Do you think I can speak to him about his tone and maybe explain that communication is much more relaxed?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you think he'll be receptive to your communications if you speak directly to him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think its worth a try, but I don't want him to think I'm being argumentative. Any suggestions on how to have that conversation?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see that you worry about your boss seeing you as argumentative, but could you try it from the perspective of making your boss feel like he is in control?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Making it his idea. That's a good tactic. I could try that. And maybe giving him time to understand the workplace as it new to him too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else I can help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think you've given me some good advice. Thank you. I feel a little less anxious than I did.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are welcome.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I appreciate it!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I appreciate it!", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00140", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_065", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow. So you're being laid off soon?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been laid off many times. Never gets easier. Will they give you severance? Do you qualify for unemployment? Any offer for retraining or job assistance?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is hard emotionally - as well as financially. I tried calling the unemployment office to find out what help they may have but no one answered me. 3", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your not getting the unemployment office to respond seems to be a common problem. They weren't geared up for this. Fortunately, the online portal has been helpful for many. What are your skills and strong points?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will have to look at that. I've not been in the job market for 25 years. I thought they may be able to provide some assistance in just where do I begin. 4 I'm a teacher at a private school. 4", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I will have to look at that. I've not been in the job market for 25 years. I thought they may be able to provide some assistance in just where do I begin. 4 I'm a teacher at a private school. 4", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00141", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_065", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow. So you're being laid off soon?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been laid off many times. Never gets easier. Will they give you severance? Do you qualify for unemployment? Any offer for retraining or job assistance?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is hard emotionally - as well as financially. I tried calling the unemployment office to find out what help they may have but no one answered me. 3", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your not getting the unemployment office to respond seems to be a common problem. They weren't geared up for this. Fortunately, the online portal has been helpful for many. What are your skills and strong points?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will have to look at that. I've not been in the job market for 25 years. I thought they may be able to provide some assistance in just where do I begin. 4 I'm a teacher at a private school. 4", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You want to know where to start. Sounds like you are young.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well not as young as I once was - in my 40s. 5", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well not as young as I once was - in my 40s. 5", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00142", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_065", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Just found out my position will be eliminated in January. Freaking out! 1", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow. So you're being laid off soon?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Apparently the company just can't continue to operate and pay all of us. So my position will be gone. They said they may be able to hire me back after all the Covid stuff, but couldn't guarantee it 2", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been laid off many times. Never gets easier. Will they give you severance? Do you qualify for unemployment? Any offer for retraining or job assistance?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is hard emotionally - as well as financially. I tried calling the unemployment office to find out what help they may have but no one answered me. 3", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your not getting the unemployment office to respond seems to be a common problem. They weren't geared up for this. Fortunately, the online portal has been helpful for many. What are your skills and strong points?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will have to look at that. I've not been in the job market for 25 years. I thought they may be able to provide some assistance in just where do I begin. 4 I'm a teacher at a private school. 4", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You want to know where to start. Sounds like you are young.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well not as young as I once was - in my 40s. 5", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Teachers are wonderful! Experienced teachers are even better. Age 40 is still young enough to be competitive in today's market. You will get lots of job interviews and offers before you know it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm concerned because now is just not the normal time they hire new teachers on. Plus a lot of the school systems around me are all virtual right now, so I'm concerned about that 6", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are your online/virtual skills? Use your time off to get confidence in online forums like Zoom and MS Teams.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We've used Zoom for some of our kids at my current school but it's usually one on one, not an entire classroom 7", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There's many online job hunting sites that are free. Indeed, Zip Recruiter, Craig's List, Monster, newspaper classifieds.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I need to investigate those. I got my current job right out of college and I've been there 25 years! I'm so nervous about teaching somewhere else. 8", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel your pain. Being laid off is a stab to the heart. Very disconcerting. Sounds as if you have been thrown out of your comfort zone.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Most definitely. Not to mention the children that depend on me, many of the children that I work with have special needs and changing their teachers can be traumatic. So I'm worried about them as well. 9", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sixty and one thing I've noticed during past lay-offs is that people end up in a better position.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I hope that is the case this time around for me. Ugh, I've got to do a new resume too!! EEK! 10", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I admire your dedication to the children. They will always have a place in their heart for you. Fortunately, children are resilient so the trauma could be short-lived for them.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I hope so - thank you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I hope so - thank you.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00143", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_066", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I be of support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is so difficult because you lost your job. What are your goals at this point?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see that you are worried because working in an environment while dealing with COVID is scary.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know where to begin.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you interested or open to looking for a different career path?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not particularly but I am open to it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see that it is stressful looking into another career path, but you have work experience which will help you on that path if you choose that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Where do I begin to look for new jobs?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Often times career centers can help you to find job opportunities or perhaps online college could be an option if you want to further your education.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had a college degree but found out my career wasn't working out financially. Online college became a lifesaver because I could have the flexibility of being at home. You don't have to be exposed to COVID when doing online work or college options.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that's true. Maybe that will help me pass the time too when it is so hard to be at home. I would be working toward a long term goal.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, that's true. Maybe that will help me pass the time too when it is so hard to be at home. I would be working toward a long term goal.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00144", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_066", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How can I be of support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've lost my job due to COVID and I'm really worried.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is so difficult because you lost your job. What are your goals at this point?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I want to look for a new job, but I'm worried about being out with COVID.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see that you are worried because working in an environment while dealing with COVID is scary.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know where to begin.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you interested or open to looking for a different career path?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not particularly but I am open to it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see that it is stressful looking into another career path, but you have work experience which will help you on that path if you choose that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Where do I begin to look for new jobs?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Often times career centers can help you to find job opportunities or perhaps online college could be an option if you want to further your education.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Those sound like great ideas some of which I hadn't thought about before.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had a college degree but found out my career wasn't working out financially. Online college became a lifesaver because I could have the flexibility of being at home. You don't have to be exposed to COVID when doing online work or college options.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that's true. Maybe that will help me pass the time too when it is so hard to be at home. I would be working toward a long term goal.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Some people share their concerns with family members or friends. Are you open to discussing the problem with others to get some support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think that would be a good idea.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think that would be a good idea.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00145", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_067", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I fine now. The event happened 6 1/2 years ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I fine now. The event happened 6 1/2 years ago.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00146", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_067", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I fine now. The event happened 6 1/2 years ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you want to tell me more about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I had the job for 14 months and I drank a lot before bed which was usually about 1 am. The job was second shift. The drinking affected my REM sleep and I was often tired the next day.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that... Did you lose your job because of this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I had a sleep study done soon after and was diagnosed with Sleep Apnea which was the main reason I would fall asleep at work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ouch, that's no good... I understand medical issues can cause all kinds of problems in our lives.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been using a CPAP for 6 years and have dramatically reduced my drinking. It is amazing how refreshed I am all day now compared with any day during that time even the days I didn't drink because there were overall health effects that stayed with me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have been using a CPAP for 6 years and have dramatically reduced my drinking. It is amazing how refreshed I am all day now compared with any day during that time even the days I didn't drink because there were overall health effects that stayed with me.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00147", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_067", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I fine now. The event happened 6 1/2 years ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you want to tell me more about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I had the job for 14 months and I drank a lot before bed which was usually about 1 am. The job was second shift. The drinking affected my REM sleep and I was often tired the next day.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that... Did you lose your job because of this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I had a sleep study done soon after and was diagnosed with Sleep Apnea which was the main reason I would fall asleep at work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ouch, that's no good... I understand medical issues can cause all kinds of problems in our lives.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been using a CPAP for 6 years and have dramatically reduced my drinking. It is amazing how refreshed I am all day now compared with any day during that time even the days I didn't drink because there were overall health effects that stayed with me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand.. has the quality of your life improved?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm more enthusiastic about my life and family relations are better and I have built trust back up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's the small things that add up to a big picture.. How is your Christmas going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Fairly well; we talked to my brother who lives 1200 miles away and didn't come up due to COVID-19. I am making plans with a few friends to se an award-winning light display. We unwrapped gifts last night (me and my parents)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well that is cool, I'm sure that will help take your mind off of some stuff. I am a runner. I like to run when I get stressed out.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am working close to fulltime now and my social life is more rewarding.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am working close to fulltime now and my social life is more rewarding.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00148", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_068", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How may I support you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi there, I am currently going through a kind of job crisis and I'm not sure how to move forward.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00149", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_069", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am dong good. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am dong good. How are you?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00150", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_069", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am dong good. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also Merry Christmas!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Merry Chirstmas.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing good! So how can help you? Is there anything bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job and very distressed about it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I'm so sorry to hear that :(. That is terrible", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you started looking for a new one? I know this is difficult but the best thing I would recommend is moving on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not yet. Not sure where to start.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Not yet. Not sure where to start.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00151", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_069", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am dong good. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also Merry Christmas!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Merry Chirstmas.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing good! So how can help you? Is there anything bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job and very distressed about it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I'm so sorry to hear that :(. That is terrible", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you started looking for a new one? I know this is difficult but the best thing I would recommend is moving on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not yet. Not sure where to start.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have a linkdin account?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do, but not up to date.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would start by creating/updating that. That way you can find newer jobs.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Please tell me more about linkedin, how it could help?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so linkedin gives quite a few suggested jobs given your profile.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What should I look for in linkedin?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So an updated profile will show you jobs that you can apply that fit your skillset. I would go to the \"jobs\" section in the menu and see what jobs you like best. Its a bit vague but really just start looking and you will find something that fits!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "First I need to update my resume.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "First I need to update my resume.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00152", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_070", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hello", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00153", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_070", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! How are you feeling at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "nervous and anxious", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "nervous and anxious", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00154", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_071", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a bit concerned as I am afraid that my job will let go more staff like they did a couple months ago", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah im sorry to hear that. Best advice i can give is to play for exactly that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am afraid id they let more people go I may be let go as well.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Like maybe get your resume cleaned up, cast some lines out for employment now, checked linkdin, worst come to worst, make sure you know how to fill out unemployment for the future. If you have a plan already it will ease some of that anxiety that will come from this tough situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "At my age, i fo not want to look for another job, i prefer to stay at this job until I retire. So that makes me anxious", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Unfortunately, life doesnt always do what we want. What we can do is plan ahead though. It will make you less anxious if you know you have a back up plan.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I hate the thought that i may have to start over", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that is a really rough thing to go through. Do you have anyone at home you can talk to as well? Just letting it out helps sometimes.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I do not, but I can call a friend", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It might make you feel a bit better, maybe they can give you some perspective as well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I did talk to a friend and that made me feel a little better, but only for a while", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Its not something that will go away instantly, its something you have to work at. If it is really affecting your life in a negative way, talking to a therapist might really help you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "OK, that sounds like a good idea.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "OK, that sounds like a good idea.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00155", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_072", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm not feeling great. I applied for a job recently which took a lot of time. I now have an interview and it's in 3 days. I'm getting really nervous about this because I think I need longer to prepare.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know how you feel, I have often felt anxiety before a job interview. What makes you feel that you are unprepared?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The thing is I'm really good at interviews but usually it takes time to prepare. It's a corporate interview so I need to prepare behavioural answers to certain scenarios. In the past this has taken me a week to learn and record to memory", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is it possible that you could get a friend or family member to work with you on your responses? That could possibly speed up your preparation time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes perhaps. I need to draw on previous experience so I think I'll need to prepare. I'm just so busy at work these days I just don;t think I'll have the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see that you are feeling a large amount of stress about the situation. Would it be possible to take one or more days off from work to give yourself more time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes this is very stressful. Have you ever had a similar experience and if so how did you handle it? Potentially but this is very short notice, usually I have to provide more notice for leave from work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have had to deal with time pressures quite a few times. I am sure most people have in the modern era where everything moves so fast. I have usually gotten help from friends, or done my best to delay or remove other commitments from my life. As a last resort, I have sometimes had to accept that I would be getting less sleep than usual for a few days. Are there any other commitments that you can possibly delay or remove from your life while you prepare for your job interview?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps I can ask if I can finish early from work for the next couple of days and get some time that way. I do think however I'll be more nervous due to less time to prepare. The thing is I'd delay the interview but this might affect my chances. I suppose I could ask my partner to look after the childcare for the next couple of days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That seems like a good idea, unless that will be likely to cause you other problems. You seem like a hard working, diligent type of person that can make this work if you make the effort.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Tanks , I think I need to stay positive about this. Not sure how to handle my interview nerves however?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, everyone handles stressful situations differently, but there are some things you can do or try that might help. If you prepare as much as possible in the time that you have, you can be confident that you have done your best, and that is all that matters. You can decide that while you would like to get this new job, the world will not end if you don't get it, and you will worry less and have less stress. Also there is the classic technique of picturing your interviewer in their underwear. It makes them seem less imposing, and you can feel more confident. Do you think any of these ideas might help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "There are actually some great suggestions there. The naked idea is a classic and it did make me smile. I think I am aiming for perfection when I think I should try and relax and just give it my best shot. That does help actually!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "There are actually some great suggestions there. The naked idea is a classic and it did make me smile. I think I am aiming for perfection when I think I should try and relax and just give it my best shot. That does help actually!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00156", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_072", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm not feeling great. I applied for a job recently which took a lot of time. I now have an interview and it's in 3 days. I'm getting really nervous about this because I think I need longer to prepare.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know how you feel, I have often felt anxiety before a job interview. What makes you feel that you are unprepared?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The thing is I'm really good at interviews but usually it takes time to prepare. It's a corporate interview so I need to prepare behavioural answers to certain scenarios. In the past this has taken me a week to learn and record to memory", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is it possible that you could get a friend or family member to work with you on your responses? That could possibly speed up your preparation time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes perhaps. I need to draw on previous experience so I think I'll need to prepare. I'm just so busy at work these days I just don;t think I'll have the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can see that you are feeling a large amount of stress about the situation. Would it be possible to take one or more days off from work to give yourself more time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes this is very stressful. Have you ever had a similar experience and if so how did you handle it? Potentially but this is very short notice, usually I have to provide more notice for leave from work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have had to deal with time pressures quite a few times. I am sure most people have in the modern era where everything moves so fast. I have usually gotten help from friends, or done my best to delay or remove other commitments from my life. As a last resort, I have sometimes had to accept that I would be getting less sleep than usual for a few days. Are there any other commitments that you can possibly delay or remove from your life while you prepare for your job interview?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps I can ask if I can finish early from work for the next couple of days and get some time that way. I do think however I'll be more nervous due to less time to prepare. The thing is I'd delay the interview but this might affect my chances. I suppose I could ask my partner to look after the childcare for the next couple of days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That seems like a good idea, unless that will be likely to cause you other problems. You seem like a hard working, diligent type of person that can make this work if you make the effort.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Tanks , I think I need to stay positive about this. Not sure how to handle my interview nerves however?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, everyone handles stressful situations differently, but there are some things you can do or try that might help. If you prepare as much as possible in the time that you have, you can be confident that you have done your best, and that is all that matters. You can decide that while you would like to get this new job, the world will not end if you don't get it, and you will worry less and have less stress. Also there is the classic technique of picturing your interviewer in their underwear. It makes them seem less imposing, and you can feel more confident. Do you think any of these ideas might help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "There are actually some great suggestions there. The naked idea is a classic and it did make me smile. I think I am aiming for perfection when I think I should try and relax and just give it my best shot. That does help actually!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Be confident in your abilities. You are the right person for the job, and if the interviewer does not see that, it is their failing, not yours. You will do great.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for that. I think the key to this is confidence so I'll go with it. Feeling more relaxed about it all now,", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks for that. I think the key to this is confidence so I'll go with it. Feeling more relaxed about it all now,", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00157", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_073", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm scared about my future", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you tell me more about why you are scared for the future?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I got fired because of Covid, and I don't know how I'll be able to find a job and have an income.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It seems that Covid has had a negative effect on your employment and financial insecurity is weighing heavily on you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that is correct, and with the job market, how am I supposed to find a secured job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that feeling of insecurity, and how helpless you feel. I myself have been in the position of loss of income and financial insecurity in the past, and while it was hard while I was in the valley, I was able to walk out of it with some valuable lessons.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true, I just have to work hard for myself. I am learning valuable lessons like the idea that companies don't care about their workers, etc. Working more on myself sounds like the better option.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are already identifying areas of self improvement. A person with confidence in themselves and the ability to reflect and grow are promising attributes potential employers look for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for all that you've done today, I couldn't get through it without you dude. Thank you for your time today, hearing my concerns about the future!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are so welcome. I know that you will succeed in your employment search as you have the skills and humility that potential employers are looking for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'll continue to keep on the lookout for new job opportunities, as well as improving myself for the long term. I appreciate it!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "As you continue your job search, can you think of ways that you could trim your cost of living for the short term? Returning to the basics for a time could help save you money while you take the next steps with your career. Things like planning meals ahead of time, using items you already have instead of buying new, letting go of subscriptions you don't use daily or don't deem necessary.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could definitely reduce my spending like going out less for fast food, cutting my Netflix and Hulu subscriptions, and prepare my own meals for the next week weeks, as I try to find a new job. This would definitely help with my concerns about income and financial security.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I could definitely reduce my spending like going out less for fast food, cutting my Netflix and Hulu subscriptions, and prepare my own meals for the next week weeks, as I try to find a new job. This would definitely help with my concerns about income and financial security.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00158", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_073", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm scared about my future", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you tell me more about why you are scared for the future?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I got fired because of Covid, and I don't know how I'll be able to find a job and have an income.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It seems that Covid has had a negative effect on your employment and financial insecurity is weighing heavily on you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that is correct, and with the job market, how am I supposed to find a secured job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that feeling of insecurity, and how helpless you feel. I myself have been in the position of loss of income and financial insecurity in the past, and while it was hard while I was in the valley, I was able to walk out of it with some valuable lessons.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is true, I just have to work hard for myself. I am learning valuable lessons like the idea that companies don't care about their workers, etc. Working more on myself sounds like the better option.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are already identifying areas of self improvement. A person with confidence in themselves and the ability to reflect and grow are promising attributes potential employers look for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for all that you've done today, I couldn't get through it without you dude. Thank you for your time today, hearing my concerns about the future!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are so welcome. I know that you will succeed in your employment search as you have the skills and humility that potential employers are looking for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'll continue to keep on the lookout for new job opportunities, as well as improving myself for the long term. I appreciate it!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "As you continue your job search, can you think of ways that you could trim your cost of living for the short term? Returning to the basics for a time could help save you money while you take the next steps with your career. Things like planning meals ahead of time, using items you already have instead of buying new, letting go of subscriptions you don't use daily or don't deem necessary.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could definitely reduce my spending like going out less for fast food, cutting my Netflix and Hulu subscriptions, and prepare my own meals for the next week weeks, as I try to find a new job. This would definitely help with my concerns about income and financial security.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Our lifestyle seems to be all about convenience and instant gratification, I myself being guilty of wanting those as well. But I think when we strip our needs down to the basics for a while we allow ourselves to find what is really necessary, as well as what is truly important to us.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Very true, people definitely need to find their fitting for when things go wrong. Failure or bad events give us time to think about the important things in life, as well as our true needs.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And it is important to remember that everyone goes through cycles of feast or famine, and that when you are walking through a famine you yourself are not a failure. As long as you know you are doing your best to succeed under the circumstances you have been handed, you will never truly be a failure to yourself or to others.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, this has really helped me overcome my anxiety and fears of the events from the past year!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you, this has really helped me overcome my anxiety and fears of the events from the past year!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00159", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_075", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I know! It's supposed to snow this week where I am. So, I understand you are in need of someone to talk to. What's going on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah, so if I understand you correctly, your interest rate has increased, so you need to find another job to pay it off?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you feeling stressed out about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand exactly how you feel. When I finished school, I wanted to pay off my student loans as soon as possible. I'm glad to hear that you are not too stressed about it though.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00160", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_075", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. Getting cold outside. Temp dropping over 20 degrees. Brr", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I know! It's supposed to snow this week where I am. So, I understand you are in need of someone to talk to. What's going on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no, I hate driving in the snow. Spun out one year- rather not drive in snow- at least when it's icy. My interest rate hit another credit card. Have to pay $80 more a month now Hoping to find more work so I can pay it off faster", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah, so if I understand you correctly, your interest rate has increased, so you need to find another job to pay it off?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah cuz it was a no interest rate card and that expired so it started charging interest. I knew it was coming but need to work more hours now. The interest I pay every month will go down as I pay more of the principal off. I just hate it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Are you feeling stressed out about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes and no. Cuz I know I will pay it off within 3 years at the most. Probably closer to two years. I just don't like to wait and want to pay it off sooner if possible", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand exactly how you feel. When I finished school, I wanted to pay off my student loans as soon as possible. I'm glad to hear that you are not too stressed about it though.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it's easier said than done. Btw I heard Biden might forgive student loans! Yay! Yeah cuz it bought a lot of items I needed so I'm happy I got them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I heard about Biden's plans as well! Luckily, I paid all of my debts already but I think it will be great for other people. Perhaps if you are unable to find another job to reduce the principal, you could try setting aside a certain amount of money each month to put towards the amount owed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "maybe they will reimburse you on what you paid I could if i really discipline myself to", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's just a thought. Alternatively, I'm not sure if you typically get money for birthdays and the winter holidays, but you could commit some of that amount towards your principal amount.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I get some but I spend the money on myself- like chocolate! itll prob take me 2-3 years to pay it off. if i go too much into discrectionary money i feel deprived", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that also. There needs to be some sort of balance. However, it sounds like you are a smart person and will make sure to pay off the amount responsibly. Everything will be okay!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "absolutely. the time will go by fast enough and it will be paid off. ill make sure not to run the credit cards so high next time", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "absolutely. the time will go by fast enough and it will be paid off. ill make sure not to run the credit cards so high next time", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00161", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_076", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling better How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am good. How may I assist you today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would love some words of encouragement", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I would love some words of encouragement", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00162", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_076", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling better How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am good. How may I assist you today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would love some words of encouragement", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "IT seem you need some encouragement to accomplish your goal. Hope I understood it correctly.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00163", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_076", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling better How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am good. How may I assist you today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would love some words of encouragement", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "IT seem you need some encouragement to accomplish your goal. Hope I understood it correctly.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's great! We all need motivation and encouragement to do something.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Have you been in a situation like mine before?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have been in this situation many time. I perform better when I get support or encouraging words from other. Can you please tell me little bit about your goal, so that I can encourage you accordingly", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00164", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_076", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling better How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am good. How may I assist you today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would love some words of encouragement", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "IT seem you need some encouragement to accomplish your goal. Hope I understood it correctly.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's great! We all need motivation and encouragement to do something.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Have you been in a situation like mine before?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have been in this situation many time. I perform better when I get support or encouraging words from other. Can you please tell me little bit about your goal, so that I can encourage you accordingly", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I always want a situation where i work without anxiety and fear of being forloughed because of my last experience", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand your situation very well. We all face such a phase in our life time. you should not worry about it. Keep working hard.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I put in extra work just to be on top of my goals", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's great! Then you should not worry about anything. Now days situation is really stressful. We have to manage it somehow. You should give little time to yourself as well. It Will increase your productivity.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My family is my greatest motivation to keep pushing hard .Time heals all wounds just well said", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Family is a great support, then you will definitely grow and you don't have to take any stress because you have everything there with you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have dependents that look up to you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have kids. To look them up I need to stay motivated and positive because I am the reflection to them.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "that is true I feel relieved chating with you Thank you for your words of encouragements. It really helped a lot", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's my pleasure that my words helped you. Stay happy calm and motivated and rest you have big support of your family.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Enjoy the rest of your day.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Enjoy the rest of your day.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00165", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_077", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, my work situation is stressful", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sorry to hear that. What's been happening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They barely acknowledge my presence and don't really talk to me except for an occasional hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "They barely acknowledge my presence and don't really talk to me except for an occasional hello", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00166", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_077", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, my work situation is stressful", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sorry to hear that. What's been happening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They barely acknowledge my presence and don't really talk to me except for an occasional hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's not very fair. You deserve to feel valued at your workplace and it sounds like you don't feel that way.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know, I don't know why they act this way. is it something I have done. I'm stressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I know, I don't know why they act this way. is it something I have done. I'm stressed.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00167", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_077", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, my work situation is stressful", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sorry to hear that. What's been happening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They barely acknowledge my presence and don't really talk to me except for an occasional hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's not very fair. You deserve to feel valued at your workplace and it sounds like you don't feel that way.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know, I don't know why they act this way. is it something I have done. I'm stressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You haven't done anything wrong. I have felt that way at work before too. I went to therapy to deal with my difficult work situation.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "therapy, is it maybe me, or should I bring it up with my boss.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You could bring it up with your boss. That would be a very brave thing to do.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am worried that he would bring it up to my coworkers and I'd feel left in the open. I don't know the best course of action.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Usually, bosses are required to keep those sorts of things confidential. You could request to speak to someone in Humane Resources, who is trained to help workers.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might just do that, although I am worried about escalating above my boss and above my coworkers. Maybe it may best to speak to my coworkers,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You could speak to your coworkers and let them know that you would like a friendlier, more open work environment. Do you think that might help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It might, I don't know what set them off in the first place.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That might be a good place to start when it comes to approaching them. Let them know your side of the situation and maybe they will understand.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I will. Would you recommend me buying coffee and doughnuts?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think I will. Would you recommend me buying coffee and doughnuts?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00168", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_077", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, my work situation is stressful", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sorry to hear that. 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Would you recommend me buying coffee and doughnuts?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think buying coffee and doughnuts sounds like a wonderful idea. It seems like you are really willing to help create a healthier work environment.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah for my sanity. Thank you", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah for my sanity. Thank you", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00169", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_078", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am fine. thanks. how about you ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well. Anything I can help with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job in the lockdown and I feel depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand it has een stressful for you during lockdown unemployed, that must feel frustrating. Is there anyone in your imediate household you can confide in with your feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes It is frustrating. When I think about the financial issues I feel depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I compleyely understand I have also lost my career due to covid. Dont give up, staying positive and open minded to new opportunities will help you find work.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not sure how to manage mortgage payments and credit card bills : (", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i see.i would call the companies themselves and see if they have programs in place to help you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a nice idea. I will call the bank to see if they provide mortgage holiday", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "At least they might give extensions.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Can you elaborate on extensions please ? Not sure what it is ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Can you elaborate on extensions please ? Not sure what it is ?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00170", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_078", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am fine. thanks. how about you ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well. Anything I can help with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job in the lockdown and I feel depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand it has een stressful for you during lockdown unemployed, that must feel frustrating. Is there anyone in your imediate household you can confide in with your feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes It is frustrating. When I think about the financial issues I feel depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I compleyely understand I have also lost my career due to covid. 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What does going to town hall mean ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Ahh ok . I will give them a call and check. What does going to town hall mean ?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00171", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_078", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am fine. thanks. how about you ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well. Anything I can help with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job in the lockdown and I feel depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand it has een stressful for you during lockdown unemployed, that must feel frustrating. Is there anyone in your imediate household you can confide in with your feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes It is frustrating. When I think about the financial issues I feel depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I compleyely understand I have also lost my career due to covid. Dont give up, staying positive and open minded to new opportunities will help you find work.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not sure how to manage mortgage payments and credit card bills : (", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i see.i would call the companies themselves and see if they have programs in place to help you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a nice idea. I will call the bank to see if they provide mortgage holiday", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "At least they might give extensions.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Can you elaborate on extensions please ? Not sure what it is ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also there are people willing to help sometimes in local places. An extension would happen when the institution you owe gives you more time to pay them. I would try going to the town hall.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ahh ok . I will give them a call and check. What does going to town hall mean ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Going to the town hall means phsyically going to your local town hall asking for help for assistance. There should within have programs you can apply for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok understood. Have you had any depression issues during lockdown ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Once again I a, sorry to hear that you are depressed. Make sure to go ouside everyday. I have learned that healthy doses of sunshine help. Yes I have often felt helpless due this pandemic. I will say though that exercise, movies and lots of coffee have helped me.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do tried watching movies in streaming platforms like Netflix and Prime. 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Dont give up, staying positive and open minded to new opportunities will help you find work.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not sure how to manage mortgage payments and credit card bills : (", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i see.i would call the companies themselves and see if they have programs in place to help you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a nice idea. I will call the bank to see if they provide mortgage holiday", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "At least they might give extensions.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Can you elaborate on extensions please ? Not sure what it is ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Also there are people willing to help sometimes in local places. An extension would happen when the institution you owe gives you more time to pay them. I would try going to the town hall.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ahh ok . I will give them a call and check. 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Did you tried the same ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes i normally use netflix. prime i do no use so much Did this conversation make you feel any less depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I get a feeling that I ran out of my favourite genres in Netflix. Did you get the same feeling ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No i can usuallly find something new to watch.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What are the other ways to avoid the sick feeling of this pandemic ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you a real person or a computer program? Some other ways are staying as involed with anything I can, like reading, writing, or drawing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am a real person ? Are you a real person ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes i am real and doing this task for amazon mechanical turk, are you as well? Although I do genuinelly care for helping others feel ettter. Are you waiting for me to end this to get the higher exrra payment at the end?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not sure how to end this conversation", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Not sure how to end this conversation", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00173", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_079", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not really well how about you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What's wrong? How can I help you? I'm doing pretty well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i lost my job last week that really shatters me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That’s a tough situation. I feel for you. Losing a job is hard, but now, with the pandemic, it's especially hard. Do you live by yourself? Is there someone you can talk to?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes the worst situation i met in this year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. This is tough! It is important to be around other people. Don't isolate yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i have someone but they are not ready to talk with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's too bad. Is there another person, a family member? By the way, how long had you worked at the job?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know it, but people aroud me are angry because i lost my job", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's unfair of them. You don't need to discuss the problem. Just chatting with someone can change your mood.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i worked for six years and 4 monts yeah thats why im here", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Six years...That's a long time. I bet you were good at your job. I want to help you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i am, but the compay lay off me to reduce their expences and thats my worst time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The economy really has gotten bad. Many people are in a similar situation. I worry too that I might lose my job.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "dont think like that, it is very hard in that situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "dont think like that, it is very hard in that situation", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00174", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_079", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not really well how about you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What's wrong? How can I help you? I'm doing pretty well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i lost my job last week that really shatters me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That’s a tough situation. 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It will help you stay optimistic.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i see, i will try to apply for it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Great! I hope that this chat has been helpful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i think so thankyou very muck much", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes i think so thankyou very muck much", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00176", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_079", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not really well how about you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What's wrong? How can I help you? I'm doing pretty well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i lost my job last week that really shatters me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That’s a tough situation. I feel for you. Losing a job is hard, but now, with the pandemic, it's especially hard. Do you live by yourself? 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I want to help you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i am, but the compay lay off me to reduce their expences and thats my worst time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The economy really has gotten bad. Many people are in a similar situation. I worry too that I might lose my job.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "dont think like that, it is very hard in that situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Many people are angry with you. Have they tried to help you with the job search? Do you want to reach out to them for that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "try to stay in your job whatever may happen", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I try to stay positive. I talk to people. I think about after the pandemic and how things will be.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I ask them to do so, but they don't give any informaton back", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hmm. That's not supportive. Is there an agency in your city that can help you get that kind of info?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, there is one i know but it is closed because of the pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's too bad. Normally I would send them an email, see if you can schedule an online chat. I'm not sure what to do in this case. Have you applied for unemployment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah i would like to get any othe job", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That might not be possible at the moment. Work is scarce. I've looked for extra online work, but so many people are trying to get the same work!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no i did not apllied it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's the next thing for you to do. You might get cash coming in. It will help you stay optimistic.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i see, i will try to apply for it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Great! I hope that this chat has been helpful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i think so thankyou very muck much", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're quite welcome! Best of luck with the job search!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you i hope i will get a better obe one", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hope so too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "By the way, you need to press the submit button on your end.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "oh sorry i forgot for some doubt, are you not able to subit it by your side", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "oh sorry i forgot for some doubt, are you not able to subit it by your side", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00177", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_080", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any help on dealing with the stress and frustration would be helpdul", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "of course! Can you tell me what is going on? IS there areason you are feeling stressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Trying to balance work pressure with family and having little support due to the pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a lot to have on your plate.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it is", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes it is", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00178", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_080", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any help on dealing with the stress and frustration would be helpdul", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "of course! Can you tell me what is going on? IS there areason you are feeling stressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Trying to balance work pressure with family and having little support due to the pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a lot to have on your plate.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it is", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I totally understand how you feel. This pandemic has ruined a lot of things this year.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any advice", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Any advice", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00179", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_080", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any help on dealing with the stress and frustration would be helpdul", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "of course! Can you tell me what is going on? IS there areason you are feeling stressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Trying to balance work pressure with family and having little support due to the pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a lot to have on your plate.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it is", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I totally understand how you feel. This pandemic has ruined a lot of things this year.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any advice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is it possible for your partner to help with some of the load?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We both work full time so we are both trying to balance it out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel you. My kids have been at home during this pandemic because the schools are shut down and I cannot imagine what the parents working full time and dealing with this are going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is hard to do well being a parent and being successful at work", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried simplifying your routines? Cutting yourself some slack hereand there? Yes it it can be so hard. But you are getting through it!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I’ve tried but that’s easier said then done.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I’ve tried but that’s easier said then done.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00180", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_081", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello I am very unhappy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorry to hear that, would you like to go into whats causing you to feel this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My bank account went into the negative this morning. I also keep having abandonment issuess with my boyfriend and I was supposed to leave Friday for Dallas, but with my bank account in the negative, I am scared", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00181", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_083", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HI", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything that you'd like to talk about? I am happy to listen if you have a problem.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah its about my personal problem can you give me any suggestions", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I'd need to know what your personal problem was first. Can you tell me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im in depression over past 4 months", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that. I have suffered from depression too so I empathise. Can you tell me what is making you feel depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job because of the covid 19", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is the global pandemic having an effect on you? I know it has been making a lot of people feel bad", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it makes me feel so depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "it makes me feel so depressed", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00182", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_083", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HI", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything that you'd like to talk about? I am happy to listen if you have a problem.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah its about my personal problem can you give me any suggestions", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I'd need to know what your personal problem was first. Can you tell me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im in depression over past 4 months", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that. I have suffered from depression too so I empathise. Can you tell me what is making you feel depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job because of the covid 19", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is the global pandemic having an effect on you? I know it has been making a lot of people feel bad", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it makes me feel so depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that. Do you have any other form of financial support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes it is, the worst period in my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really very sorry. I have been feeling down lately too so I do understand. Do you have any hobbies that can help you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "and i did not get any other job till now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have family that you can talk these things out with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i have a family but they are not ready to talk to me about this problem at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are they feeling bad too? I think that everyone is feeling quite down right now. Am I right in thinking that your family is too?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes they are", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes they are", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00183", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_083", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HI", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything that you'd like to talk about? 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Do you have any other form of financial support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes it is, the worst period in my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really very sorry. I have been feeling down lately too so I do understand. Do you have any hobbies that can help you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "and i did not get any other job till now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have family that you can talk these things out with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i have a family but they are not ready to talk to me about this problem at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are they feeling bad too? I think that everyone is feeling quite down right now. Am I right in thinking that your family is too?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes they are", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is so difficult right now, isn't it? I just feel defeated sometimes. Have you thought of getting any outside help? There is free counselling available.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i can't afford our livelihood", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes i can't afford our livelihood", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00184", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_083", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HI", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything that you'd like to talk about? I am happy to listen if you have a problem.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah its about my personal problem can you give me any suggestions", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I'd need to know what your personal problem was first. Can you tell me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im in depression over past 4 months", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that. 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Have you thought of getting any outside help? There is free counselling available.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i can't afford our livelihood", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There should be help out there. There are foodbanks, if you need those.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no im not asking any help", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why not?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because in my place there are same situation for many people", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that. 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But press quit and you will be paid.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "oh that's ok, that's why i'm not asking help from the other people", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have a good day.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "have a nice day for you too", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "have a nice day for you too", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00186", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_084", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi. I’m feeling really depressed lately", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi. I’m feeling really depressed lately", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00187", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_084", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi. I’m feeling really depressed lately", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear this. Is there something specifically bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just feel like no one I work with really likes me or cares about me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You don't think people like you or care about you at work? What specifically have they done to make you think this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just feel like no one talks to me and if I try and talk to them they are very dismissive", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that might make you feel uncomfortable.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel like I go out of my way to help people and I remember their birthdays and I try and be nice to them but no one ever does the same for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have been in many work situations and even social situations where I did not feel as if I fit in, I'm rather an unusual person. I had to learn to not focus so much on BEING accepted. I had to learn what God think of me (he loves me) and try to be kind to all I meet, other centered. That is, I also had to make sure I wasn't being rude or mean. I can understand how hurtful that is. Our society isn't as kind as it once was. I find very few people appreciate kindness. However, I can't get caught up in that, it's the way people are. It isn't a reflection of myself. I think it is the hardest thing to be more concerned with others than we are with ourselves, it can be lonely.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think from now on I’m just going to focus on myself and my family, I’m not gonna out of my way to be nice to my coworkers, I’m just going to treat them as coworkers not as friends and just keep to myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think you can be kind to them, but I think perhaps your expectations are that they reciprocate, and they aren't which hurts. Perhaps be kind without expecting anything in return, and know that God sees your kindness.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I always feel like you have to be a friend to have friends, but I’m tired of being the only one putting effort in and getting taken advantage of", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I also had this happen, I had no friends and at first I thought it was me, then I realized it was an opportunity for personal growth. Which wasn't easy. How do you feel they take advantage? Being ignored is one thing, having someone take advantage of you is a different story.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just feel like they just expect me to do things for them now and when I do it, it’s no appreciated because they just know I will do it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Yes, then they definitely are taking advantage. Have you read anything on setting boundaries and learning how to say no?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I’m working on taking care of myself more than worrying about everyone else. I think the holidays make it even harder to set the boundaries", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had learned once that it is so important to be able to easily say no because then we are free to say yes. Because if we say yes because we CAN'T say no, then we feel resentful. So If I can freely say no to you, then i am free to say yes, if that makes sense. Although for me, it was hard to say no, but it gets easier, now it is easy. It wasn't at first.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you! You have been very helpful. I think that will be my goal! Start learning to say no and don’t feel guilty about it. I think I am going to lower my expectations from other people and just start treating people as they treat me!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you! You have been very helpful. I think that will be my goal! Start learning to say no and don’t feel guilty about it. I think I am going to lower my expectations from other people and just start treating people as they treat me!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00188", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_085", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "What canI do to help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel bad for you. There are many openings for Uber and Uber Eats. What were you doing before you were looking for a job? Were you in college?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not a good driver", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you find are your top skill sets?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I was working in an IT company as a program analyst", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is good that you have a good skill set that allows you to find something in the same field of IT.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am really having hard time to get one", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How so? What is the specific difficulty? Is it with your resume? Are you feeling nervous? Anxious?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The reason is recession or might be COVID.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Any other questions or concerns that you may have for me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am stressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, how do you adapt to the work issue? Do you like dogs? There are opportunities for dog walkers. I made good money in the past walking my neighbors and friends dogs.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't have any pet so no experience with it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "When I get stressed, I try to do vigorous exercises with pushups, chin ups, sit ups or walking fast. Do you have a place that you can walk briskly in your area of town?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not worried financially . I am feeling depressed by trying again and agian, never happened with me before", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am not worried financially . I am feeling depressed by trying again and agian, never happened with me before", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00189", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_085", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "What canI do to help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! I am trying to find a new job for long time. There is no success in it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel bad for you. There are many openings for Uber and Uber Eats. What were you doing before you were looking for a job? Were you in college?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not a good driver", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you find are your top skill sets?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I was working in an IT company as a program analyst", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is good that you have a good skill set that allows you to find something in the same field of IT.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am really having hard time to get one", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How so? What is the specific difficulty? Is it with your resume? Are you feeling nervous? Anxious?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The reason is recession or might be COVID.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Any other questions or concerns that you may have for me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am stressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, how do you adapt to the work issue? Do you like dogs? There are opportunities for dog walkers. I made good money in the past walking my neighbors and friends dogs.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't have any pet so no experience with it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "When I get stressed, I try to do vigorous exercises with pushups, chin ups, sit ups or walking fast. Do you have a place that you can walk briskly in your area of town?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not worried financially . I am feeling depressed by trying again and agian, never happened with me before", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Losing a job? It never happened for you before?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "There are recreational parks, and trails near by", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would join a support group for those people who need support and want to change careers. There are support groups online to help with job loss who can advise you on where to use your interests and skills to have a more fulfilling life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I love my career just getting bit demotivated", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I love my career just getting bit demotivated", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00190", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_086", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are we doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im doing good. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so good unfortunately.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no! I'm sorry to hear that. Would you be willing to talk about it with me? Sometimes talking with someone is the help that we need.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Due to this pandemic, I fear for the safety of my job. It's cause me anxiety and stress.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can sense how stressed you are about the safety of your job. This pandemic has caused so much stress and very much anxiety on everyone, so just know you are not alone. I'm not sure on the work you do, but you putting your health at risk everyday to make a living for you and your family makes you an amazing person. Just try and remember that your health is very much more important then your job and just make sure you are trying everything possible to keep yourself safe out there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for the positive vibes, but I doubt things will get better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! I also am afraid that this pandemic is going to get worse before it gets any better and that is just my opinion. I am scared for everyone out here anymore and its not just people getting sick and ill, but people like you who could be in jeopardy of loosing their job or their source of income. That's is something that would be on anyones mind, more yours then mine due to you actually working in the public.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "There is a lock down in my area, I fear it will only get worse.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "We thankfully have not got on lockdown just yet, but I know it will be happening soon. We live in a very small town and it has got bad here that either we know someone who has it, or someone in the family has it. It seemed like it just happened over night that it just spread so fast here that everyone is in a panic mode again. What type of things do you do while you are on lockdown?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad..", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Think about the bad things that will happen if I lost my job. I have been only thinking about the bad..", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00191", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_087", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Well, I have some bad news. I am going to lose my damn job! Can you please help??", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorrty Im here", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I am in a crisis at my job", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why do you think you are going to lose your job", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been told so. January 15th is my last day", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's not a good spot to be in, I completely understand.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will get pay for the last two weeks of January, 2021.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is horrible. Do you mind if I ask why?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What do you suppose I do? Looks like the company has been hot hard by COVID-19 lockdowns.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How long have you been working there?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sad about this country and my work situation. For 5 years. I work in accounting.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am very sad about this country and my work situation. For 5 years. I work in accounting.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00192", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_087", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Well, I have some bad news. I am going to lose my damn job! Can you please help??", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Im sorrty Im here", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I am in a crisis at my job", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why do you think you are going to lose your job", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been told so. January 15th is my last day", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's not a good spot to be in, I completely understand.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will get pay for the last two weeks of January, 2021.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is horrible. Do you mind if I ask why?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What do you suppose I do? Looks like the company has been hot hard by COVID-19 lockdowns.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How long have you been working there?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sad about this country and my work situation. For 5 years. I work in accounting.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand, I have been in a similar situation recently. COVID-19 really has got us all down.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What a great nation we live in.....a future 3rd world one. Yeah, but I was a good accountant.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "WOW, I'm sure that is a big change for you...", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I have not told my wife about it just yet.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree, this country has got some issues but we can get through them Uh, oh, how do you think she will react?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I am not sure. I better wait to break the news in 2021.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The good news is that we are on an incline for unemployment so there are a lot of opportunities out there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And I am not the only one who is losing my job. Seems that all of accounting is going to be getting the axe. It makes me sad....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You could maybe tell her at the very end of this year so you can start fresh for the new year. Do you have a resume?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Plus, I have a 50 dollar a day spending habit on lottery tickets to one day hit it BIG Yes, I have a resume that I have not updated just yet. I have a college education and a CPA to boot, but I need one lucky break in life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Plus, I have a 50 dollar a day spending habit on lottery tickets to one day hit it BIG Yes, I have a resume that I have not updated just yet. I have a college education and a CPA to boot, but I need one lucky break in life.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00193", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_088", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling really sad. I just found out that I was rejected from a job that I really wanted!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really sorry to hear that. It seems to be happening to a lot of people right now. Do you have anything on the back burner?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No. I've had a lot of interviews but no one seems to want to hire me :(", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would not take it personally - I have been struggling to find work too. I think it's the pandemic.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear you've been struggling too! I think it's just frustrating because there seems to be lots of jobs out there, but I must be giving a bad impression during my interviews.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't put yourself down! That is a really bad habit to get into when job hunting but i know how easy it is to do.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Interviews are so stressful, though! I can't stand the thought of needing to do more of them.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you contemplated trying temping agencies? They pay might not be great but it is enough to get you by whilst you find something that you really want to do.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a good idea. I hadn't really thought of that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've done a fair bit of it before ... there are good and bad aspects. You get to go to a lot of different places but it's also difficult to make friends and get settled.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That does sound hard for me. I'm really shy around new people.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Me too. But the upside is you can pretty much choose your own hours", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How did you handle having to work with new people all of the time?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest it was not all that easy. I tended to keep my head down a lot and just smile vaguely when someone made eye contact.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds hard. I don't know if I can do that. It feels like I'll never get a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What about something that involves less physical contact? There's always gig work online.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wouldn't know where to start with that. I feel like m ost \"online\" jobs are probably scams.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I work on Amazon Mechanical Turk - if you're diligent you can make a fair few bucks there. Not sure it's a living wage though but you could try it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've heard of that. Thanks, maybe I'll check it out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I've heard of that. Thanks, maybe I'll check it out.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00194", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_089", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how is your day going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am okie. how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "A little rainy here but I am okay. How do you feel today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling frustrated", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is causing you to feel frustrated?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Trying hard to find some work It's been long time now. I am kind of tired or sick", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Trying hard to find some work It's been long time now. I am kind of tired or sick", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00195", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_089", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how is your day going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am okie. how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "A little rainy here but I am okay. How do you feel today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling frustrated", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is causing you to feel frustrated?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Trying hard to find some work It's been long time now. I am kind of tired or sick", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It definitely can be challenging finding work in a pandemic but don't give up keep searching I am sure you will find something.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am thinking that I am incapable to do anything", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I are capable of doing whatever you decide, maybe try going back to school. Or you could try a career center that will assist with resumes, interviews, and job searches.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Despite of professional qualification and work experience, it is still hard for me to get it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is it hard for you to get?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "job I don't know where I am lacking behind", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "job I don't know where I am lacking behind", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00196", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_090", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Too Much Work Pressure", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand... What kind of work do you do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Administration Work", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that. How else are You", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "U r good What type of work u r doing What about me ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. Are things slow at your work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... i am right My work is Slow ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you feeling right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so bad , but Ok", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error That time i am getting angry", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension DO like music? What type of music do u like", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension DO like music? What type of music do u like", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00197", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_090", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Too Much Work Pressure", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand... What kind of work do you do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Administration Work", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that. How else are You", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am female and feminism problems also there during that time i am getting very anger", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am Jason by the way... How am I speaking with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "U r good What type of work u r doing What about me ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well I am male although I understand having issues everyday. Are things slow at your work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure as a working people everyday issue will be there ... i am right My work is Slow ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you feeling right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so bad , but Ok", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well what's going on with your work? What's causing so much pressure in your life?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Too much administrative work like preparing reports for various departments and send mail to clients There is no proper communication from top level people so happening error That time i am getting angry", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that, kind of makes you feel mistrustful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, you are correct , So i home i like to listen some good music to reduce my tension DO like music? What type of music do u like", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I love music", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Great Me Too , really awesome", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I honestly listen to mostly rap... lol what about you? What do you like? Although I pretty much listen to anything. Second in line is Country lol", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i like instrumental music , like mild guitar and some other", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is your favorite instrument?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Piano and Guitar", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I love piano, my favorite anyway... Do you play?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Some times i like to here some Indian instrument also No, i will not but i like to listen Sorry i will not play , but i like to listen Do u know to play?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that. I tried to play once, but it was difficult. Variety is the spice of life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes you are correct me too tried one time but i can't", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00198", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_091", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. I'm OK but have had a difficult time at work recently", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i am sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I have been given what I can only describe as ridiculous feedback by my manager and it had annoyed me greatly. I'm thinking about complaining about it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes I have been given what I can only describe as ridiculous feedback by my manager and it had annoyed me greatly. I'm thinking about complaining about it.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00199", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_091", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. I'm OK but have had a difficult time at work recently", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i am sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I have been given what I can only describe as ridiculous feedback by my manager and it had annoyed me greatly. I'm thinking about complaining about it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is always hard to hear any bad feedback, do you feel that you could speak with your manager about it and try to resolve the feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could do but this seems to be something that she has an issue with and I wouldn't want it to damage our working relationship. She basically said she doesn't like the way I sit in meetings and smile when I'm thinking about something?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Could you possibly go to her and tell her that you have heard the feed back and you are sorry to hear that it bothers her that you did not realize it and it is something you will work on becoming more aware of. You seem like such a nice person i am sure if you approached it the right way you would not cause any damage.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm thinking perhaps I should go to a different manager and voice these concerns. I don't see how I sit in meetings or how I smile when I'm thinking to be constructive work based feedback it's really frustrating it's clear this person just doesn't like me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Going to another manager may be a great idea! Maybe the manager could address the issue with her and help her to realize there is nothing wrong with a having happy employee like yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah that's true I mean I'm almost thinking this manager needs to be retrained because this video isn't work related is really quite petty an actually makes me consider not working for her in future. The only problem is I need my job I need a steady income but this person just seems to have it out for me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes i can see where that would be a problem.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "perhaps I'm just making too much of a big deal about this. how would you react if someone gave you similar feedback in work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "perhaps I'm just making too much of a big deal about this. how would you react if someone gave you similar feedback in work?", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00200", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_092", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling angry today about work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no, what happened to make you feel this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My coworker expects me to do things the way she does and is constantly critical. I just want her to understand that I am able to do things my way and it is still okay. I told her this and she ignored me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sure that's terribly frustrating having someone treat you like that. Is this something that your boss is aware of?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not told her yet. I do not want to get her into trouble and I want to have a good relationship with her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have not told her yet. I do not want to get her into trouble and I want to have a good relationship with her.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00201", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_092", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling angry today about work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no, what happened to make you feel this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My coworker expects me to do things the way she does and is constantly critical. I just want her to understand that I am able to do things my way and it is still okay. I told her this and she ignored me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sure that's terribly frustrating having someone treat you like that. Is this something that your boss is aware of?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not told her yet. I do not want to get her into trouble and I want to have a good relationship with her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you discuss it with her in a respectful way to get her to understand that you're not trying to undermine her but that this is how you work most efficiently? And maybe mention that you don't want to involve the boss?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's something I could try. I really care about my coworker and it makes me so angry that she treats me this way.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's something I could try. I really care about my coworker and it makes me so angry that she treats me this way.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00202", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_092", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling angry today about work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no, what happened to make you feel this way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My coworker expects me to do things the way she does and is constantly critical. I just want her to understand that I am able to do things my way and it is still okay. I told her this and she ignored me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sure that's terribly frustrating having someone treat you like that. Is this something that your boss is aware of?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not told her yet. I do not want to get her into trouble and I want to have a good relationship with her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you discuss it with her in a respectful way to get her to understand that you're not trying to undermine her but that this is how you work most efficiently? And maybe mention that you don't want to involve the boss?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's something I could try. I really care about my coworker and it makes me so angry that she treats me this way.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think sometimes it's easy to jump to anger when you feel hurt. It might be worth telling her how you feel and also maybe ask why she thinks you should be doing things her way. Maybe there's a give and take in this situation. Some of her methods could be beneficial.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any advice on how to start my conversation with her? I have found some of her ideas to be beneficial. I just would like my ideas expressed as well. I feel we can learn from each other.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Tell her the things that you like about her method and maybe suggest some of your methods to her as well. Maybe she'll find them to be more efficient. Make it a partnership rather than a fight for whose method is better. She could feel threatened by you so it's worth digging into those feelings with her and proving to her that you're working toward the same goal.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a great idea. It is possible. I am the new kid on the block. I will try by being non confrontational. Any specific ideas to how I can do that? She gets offended easily. I want her to know I am helping.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'd suggest how much she's helped you since you are in fact the new kid on the block. And tell her that you want to work with her to have the most efficient partnership possible and use each of your talents to the best of your ability. Then you can lay out how you work best and see where it goes from there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks! I will try that. You made me feel so much better!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so glad, these can be frustrating situations but sometimes it's worth looking at the other person's perspective.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I agree. Sometimes you just have to take a step back and have a conversation with someone not in the thick of it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I agree. Sometimes you just have to take a step back and have a conversation with someone not in the thick of it.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00203", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_093", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling okay, but I have been better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00204", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_093", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling okay, but I have been better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Honestly maybe. It is exhausting", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00205", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_093", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling okay, but I have been better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific that you'd like to talk about with me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am having a lot of conflict with my boss at work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is not good. Are you thinking of looking for new work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Honestly maybe. It is exhausting", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had a similar situation myself a few years ago and I moved on. I've never regretted it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is just a little scary since I don't have anything else set up", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is your boss's behaviour unreasonable enough to justify making a complaint about him to HR?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have and they just contacted her boss. Nothing changed after.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00206", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_094", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hello", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00207", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_094", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm have recently lost my job and I am scared about the future and how I will cope.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear that. I have previously lost a job and I know how distressing it is. Can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just feel very worried. There are no other jobs around and I don't know how I will provide for my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I just feel very worried. There are no other jobs around and I don't know how I will provide for my family.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00208", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_094", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm have recently lost my job and I am scared about the future and how I will cope.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear that. I have previously lost a job and I know how distressing it is. Can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just feel very worried. There are no other jobs around and I don't know how I will provide for my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are feeling as though you are letting your family down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand how that feels. Have you tried to talk to them about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, but there are no real solutions. I don't know what to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel as though you are going through all of this on your own?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, a bit. It's scary not knowing what is going to happen.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you know that there are people out there who can help you? Have you tried contacting some charitable organisations that will provide counselling for free?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No I didn't know. That sounds helpful.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "They can be really very helpful. I have reached out to them myself previously", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, thank you. I will see if I can find some local to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The job market is very uncertain right now but please know that you are not alone!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it's very uncertain, and very scary to experience.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered retraining?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I'm too old for that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There is no such thing as too old! I have a friend who trained as a teacher at age fifty.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe I should explore what options there are.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Maybe I should explore what options there are.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00209", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_094", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm have recently lost my job and I am scared about the future and how I will cope.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear that. I have previously lost a job and I know how distressing it is. Can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just feel very worried. There are no other jobs around and I don't know how I will provide for my family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are feeling as though you are letting your family down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand how that feels. Have you tried to talk to them about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, but there are no real solutions. I don't know what to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel as though you are going through all of this on your own?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, a bit. It's scary not knowing what is going to happen.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you know that there are people out there who can help you? Have you tried contacting some charitable organisations that will provide counselling for free?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No I didn't know. That sounds helpful.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "They can be really very helpful. I have reached out to them myself previously", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, thank you. I will see if I can find some local to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The job market is very uncertain right now but please know that you are not alone!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it's very uncertain, and very scary to experience.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered retraining?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I'm too old for that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There is no such thing as too old! I have a friend who trained as a teacher at age fifty.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe I should explore what options there are.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are a lot of options out there. Perhaps you should see a career advisor?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that's a good idea. Thank you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any ideas of things that you'd like to do? Do you have any ideas of things that you'd like to do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I will speak to a charity about if they can help. I will think about talking to a career advisor and retraining. Thank you for your help.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that you could retrain?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I will need to give it some thought.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know how frightening it can be. But if you strike out there, you never know!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I guess I have to try.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you. I guess I have to try.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00210", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_095", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, could be better and how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good but what make you say you could be better?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've made an accident at work in the warehouse 2 days ago and didn't report it. I have fear and anxiety that if management will find out I will get in trouble", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I've made an accident at work in the warehouse 2 days ago and didn't report it. I have fear and anxiety that if management will find out I will get in trouble", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00211", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_095", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, could be better and how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good but what make you say you could be better?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've made an accident at work in the warehouse 2 days ago and didn't report it. I have fear and anxiety that if management will find out I will get in trouble", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why didn't you report it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know now, I've just started there 1 month ago and probably I thought I will lose my job straight away", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't know now, I've just started there 1 month ago and probably I thought I will lose my job straight away", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00212", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_095", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, could be better and how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good but what make you say you could be better?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've made an accident at work in the warehouse 2 days ago and didn't report it. I have fear and anxiety that if management will find out I will get in trouble", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why didn't you report it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know now, I've just started there 1 month ago and probably I thought I will lose my job straight away", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You should report it because at least the boss knows that you are honest with your actions. I don't think you won't lose it straight away if it is your first mistake", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I know and I regret it now, but I think to go report now it's too late", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes I know and I regret it now, but I think to go report now it's too late", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00213", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_096", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, are you having a good day?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really sorry to hear that - it is a terrible time to be out of work isn't it? Unfortunately it is happening to a lot of people", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I know an awful lot of people who have been made unemployed and there is very little work out there. Have you considered doing gig work online? You can make a bit of money there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Me too! It's one of my main sources of income these days. Are you looking for other work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are scams out there right now too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Happily I have found it to be good and honest work in general so I'd not worry too much :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am as I have over 15 years of warehouse experience as well as forklift experience.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of field would you like to move into after the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would like to getting back into the warehousing or forklift operator field.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that your life is just on hiatus at the moment and you want it to get back to the way it was as soon as possible?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes as I am getting behind on bills and its Christmas time so that makes it even tougher when I feel that I am letting my family down by not working currently.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please do not feel like that! A lot of people are in the same position and it really is not at all your fault.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's tough not to as underneath the tree, there isn't much.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered contacting charities that might be able to help with Christmas presents and food?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have but they are strapped at this time and really don't have much to help with currently", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have but they are strapped at this time and really don't have much to help with currently", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00214", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_096", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, are you having a good day?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really sorry to hear that - it is a terrible time to be out of work isn't it? Unfortunately it is happening to a lot of people", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I know an awful lot of people who have been made unemployed and there is very little work out there. Have you considered doing gig work online? You can make a bit of money there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Me too! It's one of my main sources of income these days. Are you looking for other work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are scams out there right now too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Happily I have found it to be good and honest work in general so I'd not worry too much :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am as I have over 15 years of warehouse experience as well as forklift experience.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of field would you like to move into after the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would like to getting back into the warehousing or forklift operator field.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that your life is just on hiatus at the moment and you want it to get back to the way it was as soon as possible?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes as I am getting behind on bills and its Christmas time so that makes it even tougher when I feel that I am letting my family down by not working currently.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please do not feel like that! A lot of people are in the same position and it really is not at all your fault.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's tough not to as underneath the tree, there isn't much.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered contacting charities that might be able to help with Christmas presents and food?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have but they are strapped at this time and really don't have much to help with currently", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "(I am so sorry I had to leave the room temporarily, just let me catch up :))", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No worries...as I understand.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No worries...as I understand.", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00215", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_096", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, are you having a good day?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not doing good as I am stressed pretty badly due to the fact that I have been unemployed and can't find a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really sorry to hear that - it is a terrible time to be out of work isn't it? Unfortunately it is happening to a lot of people", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yep, the pandemic isn't helping things either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I know an awful lot of people who have been made unemployed and there is very little work out there. Have you considered doing gig work online? You can make a bit of money there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know as its bad all over the country. Luckily, I am able to make a little money doing surveys on MTurk.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Me too! It's one of my main sources of income these days. Are you looking for other work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, but online seems to be hit and miss as there are scams out there right now too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Happily I have found it to be good and honest work in general so I'd not worry too much :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am as I have over 15 years of warehouse experience as well as forklift experience.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of field would you like to move into after the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would like to getting back into the warehousing or forklift operator field.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that your life is just on hiatus at the moment and you want it to get back to the way it was as soon as possible?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes as I am getting behind on bills and its Christmas time so that makes it even tougher when I feel that I am letting my family down by not working currently.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please do not feel like that! A lot of people are in the same position and it really is not at all your fault.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's tough not to as underneath the tree, there isn't much.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered contacting charities that might be able to help with Christmas presents and food?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have but they are strapped at this time and really don't have much to help with currently", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "(I am so sorry I had to leave the room temporarily, just let me catch up :))", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No worries...as I understand.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah yes I hear you , I know that there are a lot of people out there in trouble right now. I think though that you should be able to access some food help? I have had to do that myself in the past and I do know that I felt ashamed about it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am waiting for some help currently", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of help are you waiting for if you do not mind my asking?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is a hit to the mindset, that's for sure.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, especially if you've never had to rely on that sort of help before. But there is no shame in it!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have talked to charities, gotten together with my church pastor...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad that you have someone outside the family that you can talk to and I hope that they are sympathetic!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "True, there is no shame but it is emotionally hard to deal with.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered any sort of counselling to help you with your situation?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They are...and thank you for your concern as well.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "They are...and thank you for your concern as well.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00216", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_097", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hope all is well", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, i'm losing my job in january so that is freaking me out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand your feelings but I am sure there is a way out", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've not looked for a job in 20 years!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I've not looked for a job in 20 years!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00217", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_097", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hope all is well", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, i'm losing my job in january so that is freaking me out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand your feelings but I am sure there is a way out", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've not looked for a job in 20 years!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was also in same situation and can fully understand how you feel but trust me you will enjoy once you start looking for job", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've got to do a new resume and then figure out how people even apply these days", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Trust me it is easy these days to update resume as many templates available online and applying for job is easy as well. Many online options are available and you get a quick response.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've tried to get in touch with the unemployment office but they do not answer phones lately.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Need not to worry about it. You can use search engine and just type the job matching your profile and apply online. Trust me you will be surprised to see many options.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well it is freaking me out - I will not be able to pay my bills if I don't have a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was exactly in same situations and can fully understand but trying all your options to look for job is good - apply online, call friends or family and see if they have openings where they work, look work online if you get any temporary work which can enable you to pay bills till you find better job.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm willing to do temp work, etc.. I just have to make enough $ to pay the main bills like mortgage, etc.. it makes me so afraid that I won't be able to do t hat", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm willing to do temp work, etc.. I just have to make enough $ to pay the main bills like mortgage, etc.. it makes me so afraid that I won't be able to do t hat", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00218", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_098", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so great - found out i'm losing my job in january", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "On no I am sorry to hear that! I know that must be tough.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm not even sure what steps to take right now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yea that can be difficult. Have you started looking for something else?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not yet, I'm not even sure where to begin. I have not looked for a job in 20 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You could try looking online there are a few websites that you could put a resume on and maybe find something that way", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've tried calling the unemployment office to get some ideas but they do not answer their phones.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Or you could look for some side jobs like cleaning or organizing things until you find something more permanent.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, i'm kinda old for that - LOL!!! My back would not hold up to that - and my salary wouldn't be comparable.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yea it seems to be hard to get up with a lot of places at this time. Persistent is the key.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well I hear that their offices are closed and you have to do everything online - so not sure if they can even help me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well I hear that their offices are closed and you have to do everything online - so not sure if they can even help me.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00219", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_099", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling down and scared.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is having you feel scared at this moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic. Have you been able to apply for work recently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00220", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_099", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling down and scared.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is having you feel scared at this moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The ongoing pandemic and my financial situation. I am unemployed and I don't know when I will be able to get a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not having a job can feel overwhelming, especially on top of this pandemic. Have you been able to apply for work recently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I have been applying but have not gotten any responses. I imagine a lot of people are competing for jobs.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you are right about others looking for work too. Are you signed up with many job seeking apps?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not been using apps. I use websites and look for jobs there. It is making me feel like I am not qualified enough.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Feelings of insufficiency can be such a stumbling block when looking for work. It is obvious that you are putting forth great effort. Do you think getting in contact with a job agency in your area would be beneficial to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not contacted a job agency. I don't have experience with them. That is a good idea.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps there are a few agencies in your area to help and you can maximize your opportunities. You mentioned feeling down in the beginning of the conversation, would you like to talk about that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work. It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes I am going to look. It will increase my chances of finding work. It doesn't help that I live with my parents and because I have no work I spend most of my time at home and get into arguments with them.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00221", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_100", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello, how may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i am good how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel like one of my employees is gossiping and seeking attention of my bosses.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why do you feel like that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying \"He told me this...\".", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am not sure. She is telling me things that by supervisor should tell me. She is saying \"He told me this...\".", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00222", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_101", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi . god morning", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hi . god morning", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00223", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_101", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi . god morning", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello , How are you today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea good but lil lazy could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yea good but lil lazy could you please help me to be concentrated on work and new job preparation to get a job .", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00224", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_102", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, How are you doing today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well! How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00225", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_102", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, How are you doing today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well! How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on. How recently did the divorce take place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "two months ago", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "two months ago", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00226", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_102", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, How are you doing today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well! How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on. How recently did the divorce take place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "two months ago", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor? It must be so tough to be going through what you are going through now, I am so sorry.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you spoken to a professional? Is this something that you are able to do through your insurance or work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I completely understand. I have been in situations at work that I couldn't resolve due to the exact same reasons.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for understanding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there a way that you could seek help at work without anyone finding out?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes someone looking in from the outside can see things in a way that you might not be able to see since you are in the middle of the situation. I know that this has happened to me.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00227", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_102", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, How are you doing today!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am well! How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I recently divorced after finding out my husband married another women in another country. He is has also been abusive for many years and is now trying to win me back. Im feeling anxiety and I feel like im losing my power again I contact him because we have children together but Im thinkin to just disconnect with him fully before he tries to lure me in and become abusive agian", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry to hear that this has been going on. How recently did the divorce take place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "two months ago", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you have children together and want to disconnect but that is a complicating factor? It must be so tough to be going through what you are going through now, I am so sorry.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm fealing anxiety because hes trying to lure me in order to trap me and I believe i'm losing control. I don't have much emotional support from anyone. Unsupportive family and friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you spoken to a professional? Is this something that you are able to do through your insurance or work?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm to embarassed to seek professional help I think i need time to control my emotions first", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I completely understand. I have been in situations at work that I couldn't resolve due to the exact same reasons.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for understanding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there a way that you could seek help at work without anyone finding out?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might be, but I'm not really close with any coworkers. I work primarily remote and when I entered my current job COVID happened and I didnt really get the chance to get to know anyone all that well", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes someone looking in from the outside can see things in a way that you might not be able to see since you are in the middle of the situation. I know that this has happened to me.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for your input It was a nice chatting with you today", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Through work you may be able to speak to a professional counselor or therapist while just having a small co-pay.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "have a nice day", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "have a nice day", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00228", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_103", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im good. how are you? just dealing with this guy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, you are having trouble dealing with someone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes and no. i agreed to work with him on the board when he asked me. he said he trusts me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes and no. i agreed to work with him on the board when he asked me. he said he trusts me", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00229", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_103", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im good. how are you? just dealing with this guy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, you are having trouble dealing with someone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes and no. i agreed to work with him on the board when he asked me. he said he trusts me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If he says he trusts you I am sure that he does. He would not have asked you to work with him if he did not.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "very true. not sure if he just likes me as as friend or if he wants me back. we dated then he broke up. then he asked me out again and didn't see me cuz he was busy. now he's asking me to be on the board with him. not sure if he has other motives to try to get back with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be incredibly confusing for you. How does this make you feel overall?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "confused! i'll know sooner or later what he wants. thing is i was hanging out with his friends recently who had wanted to sleep with me. he knew it and didn't like it. he liked it when i stopped talking to them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How does this relate to him asking you to be on the board with him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "cuz the first time he asked me out i was helping him with the board. i think it might be a way for him to spend time with me and then work his way back in. not sure if he will or not though. time will tell", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "cuz the first time he asked me out i was helping him with the board. i think it might be a way for him to spend time with me and then work his way back in. not sure if he will or not though. time will tell", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00230", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_103", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how are you feeling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im good. how are you? just dealing with this guy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, you are having trouble dealing with someone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes and no. i agreed to work with him on the board when he asked me. he said he trusts me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If he says he trusts you I am sure that he does. He would not have asked you to work with him if he did not.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "very true. not sure if he just likes me as as friend or if he wants me back. we dated then he broke up. then he asked me out again and didn't see me cuz he was busy. now he's asking me to be on the board with him. not sure if he has other motives to try to get back with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be incredibly confusing for you. How does this make you feel overall?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "confused! i'll know sooner or later what he wants. thing is i was hanging out with his friends recently who had wanted to sleep with me. he knew it and didn't like it. he liked it when i stopped talking to them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How does this relate to him asking you to be on the board with him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "cuz the first time he asked me out i was helping him with the board. i think it might be a way for him to spend time with me and then work his way back in. not sure if he will or not though. time will tell", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is okay to feel confused and perhaps even angry about this. Have you considered talking to him and asking him straight out what his intentions are?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes but i'm afraid what i'll hear", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I realise that this must be difficult but isn't it best to get things out into the open?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it is but hes already hurt me before. i feel i'll find out sooner or later anyways. that way i can save face", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it might be best for you to make a clean break. It sounds like you are being manipulated.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "possibly. i'd prob be better being away from the situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Certainly you would be. I know that it is hard but you will feel better in the long run.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I would. I tried to break away once but they asked me to come back i feel there are benefits to it also", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You need to be aware that that can and will happen. Ignore it. What sort of benefits do you feel that there are?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it gives me an upper edge and more clout", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "In what way does it do that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "being on the board gives me perks", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel that perhaps you might be using him just a little bit?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes and i think he is using me to a degree also", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Let me get this straight - you do have feelings for him but you are confused and you think that there's an element of mutual manipulation.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00231", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_104", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "am fine at least for now", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "am fine at least for now", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00232", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_104", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "am fine at least for now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah... i have not been able to meet with my boyfriend physically due to the corona lockdown, and when i finally got to see him last month i discovered that he is cheating on me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah... i have not been able to meet with my boyfriend physically due to the corona lockdown, and when i finally got to see him last month i discovered that he is cheating on me.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00233", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_104", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "am fine at least for now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah... i have not been able to meet with my boyfriend physically due to the corona lockdown, and when i finally got to see him last month i discovered that he is cheating on me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry that you had to go through that, I know this is a very difficult time for you. Has your boyfriend reached out to you at all to clarify things or to see if you are okay?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "he has but it is not sounding convincing enough. i feel so hurt", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just By chatting with you, I can feel how hurt and upset you are . Is there anyone that can provide you support at home during this time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "there is nobody i can talk to about this, i dont really have friends and my siblings are busy with their lives", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "there is nobody i can talk to about this, i dont really have friends and my siblings are busy with their lives", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00234", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_104", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "am fine at least for now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah... i have not been able to meet with my boyfriend physically due to the corona lockdown, and when i finally got to see him last month i discovered that he is cheating on me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry that you had to go through that, I know this is a very difficult time for you. Has your boyfriend reached out to you at all to clarify things or to see if you are okay?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "he has but it is not sounding convincing enough. i feel so hurt", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just By chatting with you, I can feel how hurt and upset you are . Is there anyone that can provide you support at home during this time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "there is nobody i can talk to about this, i dont really have friends and my siblings are busy with their lives", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "This is a very challenging time for you especially when there is lack of support. I do feel your pain, And I would like to share some advise and suggestions which may alleviate some of the hurt and pain you are going through. Would you e open to hear them out?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "sure, thanks for this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Mindfulness and yoga have proven to help overcome feelings of low mood and perhaps you could try with taking a few deep breaths and listening to some calming music before going to bed tonight. Do you think that, you can try something like this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yoga sounds interesting but i will try starting it by weekend. some calming music will do at the moment. any suggestions for me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so proud of you for giving this a try. I would like to suggest OCB relaxing music , which will help you relax.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks so much for this, i feel a weight lifted off my mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thanks so much for this, i feel a weight lifted off my mind", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00235", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_104", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "am fine at least for now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah... i have not been able to meet with my boyfriend physically due to the corona lockdown, and when i finally got to see him last month i discovered that he is cheating on me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry that you had to go through that, I know this is a very difficult time for you. Has your boyfriend reached out to you at all to clarify things or to see if you are okay?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "he has but it is not sounding convincing enough. i feel so hurt", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just By chatting with you, I can feel how hurt and upset you are . Is there anyone that can provide you support at home during this time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "there is nobody i can talk to about this, i dont really have friends and my siblings are busy with their lives", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "This is a very challenging time for you especially when there is lack of support. I do feel your pain, And I would like to share some advise and suggestions which may alleviate some of the hurt and pain you are going through. Would you e open to hear them out?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "sure, thanks for this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Mindfulness and yoga have proven to help overcome feelings of low mood and perhaps you could try with taking a few deep breaths and listening to some calming music before going to bed tonight. Do you think that, you can try something like this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yoga sounds interesting but i will try starting it by weekend. some calming music will do at the moment. any suggestions for me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so proud of you for giving this a try. I would like to suggest OCB relaxing music , which will help you relax.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks so much for this, i feel a weight lifted off my mind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so glad that you are feeling better. Just rest assured that I will be here for you should you need to talk to some one and I will do my best to support and guide you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you for calming words", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thank you for calming words", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00236", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_105", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i need som help, i feel so sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "i need som help, i feel so sad.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00237", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_105", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i need som help, i feel so sad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. Is there anything I can do for you? Please tell me what's wrong?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think you can talk to me, maybe I will feel a bit better. I had a breakup with my boyfriend. Feeling depressed, can you give me any advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "For sure, I am happy to talk to you. I am sorry for your breakup.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, but I do not feel motivated to do anything. What should i do with my feelings?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you want to do right now that helps maybe. For example, to eat something, to listen good music or take small walk in fresh air etc I can feel you, it must be so hard to you. take your time do not think about a lot when I have bad times, I just want to take a nap. It maybe help you feel better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think you are right, maybe i just need to take a pause in my life for now, yeah I like to sleep. Thanks for supporting me. I think I will try what you said today Maybe I will watch some movies and then take a nap what do you think? Are you here?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think you are right, maybe i just need to take a pause in my life for now, yeah I like to sleep. Thanks for supporting me. I think I will try what you said today Maybe I will watch some movies and then take a nap what do you think? Are you here?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00238", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_106", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Something unexpected happened today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00239", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_106", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Could be better, the info i put for my scenario, just happened this morning.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Something unexpected happened today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No actually, in fact today seemed to be starting better than any day this week. I support whatever she wants but right after Christmas is hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Holidays can add pressure to our \"normal\" situations. Did you find that your normal coping mechanisms were not as helpful today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, December has been hard on everyone. I know things will get better but its hard finding positivity when I feel so negative.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sounds like your support is not appreciated.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Usually coping is either eating a ton of food or smoking marijuana, but with the holiday money is tight. I am listening to emo pop music from the 2000's now to help.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Music definitely helps! I have a list of songs that I like to sing to. I can't really sing, like, at all. But I love to do it. And it makes me forget about whatever is going on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Honestly, in the past I have been a lot lower than I am now. I really just hope I am able to stay strong for as long as i can right now Honestly i do the same thing a lot. Songs with a lot of emotion that i can belt out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are certainly self-aware. Better off than most people!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i will have to find somewhere i can properly exercise my awful vocals lol", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah! I like pop songs from the 60's :-) Ha! The car is always good!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "honestly its because i have been hospitalized due to my mental state. i try to be as self aware as possible now. i just hate the feeling of being blindsided.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried The Smiths? Band from the 80's. They are my go to for when I am feeling low.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i will give the throwbacks a try today. I do get down with a few of the older bands thats for sure", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "To be blindsided is a violation of trust. Have you spoken to her about it at all, or is that not your jam? It's ok. A lot of people are non-confrontational. Society tells us we should be able to express our boundaries. Not everyone is comfortable with that and that is ok.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we literally just talked about it an hour ago. she says she doesnt know what she wants and she doesnt know how long but she doesnt want to be away from me right now. which i feel just isnt fair. i feel like no one can just pick and choose when they want someone around.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "But that puts more responsibility on you for your feelings. Sounds like you have coping skills for that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i know. with COVID this is so much harder. i may just take a long walk and try to focus on myself, because it seems like our future is in flux and it seems like it could go either way.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're right. That is not fair. You are feeling conflict and abandoned/not-abandoned. Could you make the decision?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i feel like what i may do, is just sleep on the couch for now and give her as much space as possible, at least for now i think", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Only you are responsible for you. I was with someone who, although we had great fun together, he couldn't be with me as much as I wanted him to. And it made me feel bad. Because it brought up feelings from when I was growing up and neglected. It took a long time, and it ...wasn't a clean break. I just got tired of feeling bad, and the relationship just waned. Take the time you need, but you can take control, if you want to.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Right, it just feels crappy right now. literally yesterday her mom was telling me how happy she is that i take such good care of her daughter. I will have to just prioritize myself and hope it all works out. after 5 years its just hard", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You said it, prioritize yourself. The rest will fall into place. It always does.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you. i really appreciate it. i will do the best i can i promise.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thank you. i really appreciate it. i will do the best i can i promise.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00240", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_107", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hello", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00241", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_107", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you this evening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing ok. I am feeling very sad . How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are feeling sad. What is bothering you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going through a terrible divorce from an abusive narcissitic ex, But we have two young kids. I haven't seen them in months because he lied to CPS and told them I abuse my kids. I just feel very alone. I am afraid my children will forget me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, just to clarify, you are going through a hard divorce with your ex-wife and this has you feeling very down..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ex-husband yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "ex-husband yes", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00242", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_107", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you this evening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing ok. I am feeling very sad . How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are feeling sad. What is bothering you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going through a terrible divorce from an abusive narcissitic ex, But we have two young kids. I haven't seen them in months because he lied to CPS and told them I abuse my kids. I just feel very alone. I am afraid my children will forget me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, just to clarify, you are going through a hard divorce with your ex-wife and this has you feeling very down..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ex-husband yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry about that, ex-husband. I can definitely tell this is making you feel very anxious and sad from the few messages we have exchanged.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes very much so Do you have any advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes very much so Do you have any advice?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00243", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_107", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you this evening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing ok. I am feeling very sad . How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well, I am sorry to hear you are feeling sad. What is bothering you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going through a terrible divorce from an abusive narcissitic ex, But we have two young kids. I haven't seen them in months because he lied to CPS and told them I abuse my kids. I just feel very alone. I am afraid my children will forget me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So, just to clarify, you are going through a hard divorce with your ex-wife and this has you feeling very down..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ex-husband yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry about that, ex-husband. I can definitely tell this is making you feel very anxious and sad from the few messages we have exchanged.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes very much so Do you have any advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I recently went through a hard break up with an ex-fiancé who got pregnant from another man, so I know how difficult a situation like this can be,", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh my goodness My ex is out to destroy me emotionally", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you had a conversation with him with some sort of objective third party to try and work through the differences in seeing your children? Often times, having an objective 3rd party helps to get somewhere in a conversation.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, the court right now. They are moving so slow with Covid. I'm just worried my kids will forget me. or not love me anymore.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, the court right now. They are moving so slow with Covid. I'm just worried my kids will forget me. or not love me anymore.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00244", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_108", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello. How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey , it's good to see you , thanks for the meeting", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Happy to be here. Is there anything on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well I've been better, I'm not doing that great. It' just all this stuff with him. I am still thinking about it all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "This is a hard time of year for many people. It sounds like you are thinking about a specific person a lot of the time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ugh. That's the worst.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you can think of that would help you to feel better?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. I hate the way it ended. I really cared about him and feel like the part is still there.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like things ended in an unresolved way. That can make it feel like there is no real conclusion.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hey! are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes, there is a lag in the system. it takes a while for the response to upload", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Ok fine , it's so hard to get over someone after a breakup like this.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00245", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_109", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I dont know how to live without my girlfriend. She broke up with me suddenly.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, can you tell me how long ago this happened.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a week ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So your girlfriend broke up with you a week ago and you have no idea how to move forward. Is that correct", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. she was my rock.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes. she was my rock.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00246", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_109", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I dont know how to live without my girlfriend. She broke up with me suddenly.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, can you tell me how long ago this happened.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a week ago.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So your girlfriend broke up with you a week ago and you have no idea how to move forward. Is that correct", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. she was my rock.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You know I am sure that hurts but like they say that \"time heals all wounds\"", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but, i have been with her for 3 years. She is a part of my everyday life. we split household chores. now im overwhelmed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a long time. Event though she was your rock, just know that you will eventually find someone new and this hurt will be no more.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But im not sure how to survive in the time being. my life will be a disaster.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "But im not sure how to survive in the time being. my life will be a disaster.", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00247", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_110", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00248", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_110", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I am very sad and depressed because of a recent breakup. How can I ever forget it and move on.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. What happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought everything was great and I already had my wedding dress and we planned a wedding and out of nowhere he dumped me. Now his family won't talk to me either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that must be horrible. You were already engaged?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, we were only engaged for about a month but we have been friends since childhood.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that sounds really hard. that's a long time to know someone. how long ago did you breka up?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, it was basically my whole life. We broke up two nights ago and he already changed his number and blocked my on social media.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that's going to be tough for the next little bit, those sound like some pretty fresh wounds. Have you been able to talk to friends?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would like to talk to talk to friends but they happen to be his sisters. So, I am cut off from all of my support. Thank You for talking to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I had a break up last year and while it was painful for a bit, i used it as an opportunity to focus on myself and the things I needed. It ended up being a really good self reflective opportunity. Maybe join a gym or a group of some kind to change your network a bit?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been wanting to join the gym. Is it hard going alone or do you go with friends? I hate doing things all alone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I like going to the gym alone but that's just my personal preference. There are fitness groups like bootcamps that you could join and meet new people. Who knows, you may meet a new friend.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a good idea. I need to be around other people who have goals like weight loss. My boyfriend never wanted me to join groups and only wanted me to be friends with his family. That is why I am so alone right now. I made bad choices.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds hard. You deserve to have friends of your own.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I agree with you. Do you think that I should try calling his friends and asking for his new number?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "there are lots of different kinds of groups you can join, not just fitness. and you can choose how much you want to actively engage with them. I would suggest taking time for yourself. Maybe give yourself some distance from him. If you both decide to reach out again in the future that may be an opportunity, but definitely take care of you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I can see your point of view. I have been obsessed with our relationship. We had a fight and it was a verbal war between us and he wouldn't forgive me afterwards.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah, I can see your point of view. I have been obsessed with our relationship. We had a fight and it was a verbal war between us and he wouldn't forgive me afterwards.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00249", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_111", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good afternoon How are you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How can I be of service to you I am well despite the virus", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a boyfriend/fiance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry about that. How long ago", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00250", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_111", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good afternoon How are you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How can I be of service to you I am well despite the virus", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a boyfriend/fiance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry about that. How long ago", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Was the other person someone you knew", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Any idea how long he was dating this other girl", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "He definitely did not give you any clues Were you living together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00251", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_111", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good afternoon How are you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How can I be of service to you I am well despite the virus", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am looking for advice to help me feel better from a horrible break up We shared many years together and I thought forever was in our minds. But he cheated on me and I do not know just what i did wrong", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakup from a girlfriend? Spouse", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "a boyfriend/fiance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry about that. How long ago", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Just 2 weeks ago He proposed to me on Thanksgiving day! But turns out he was not being faithful to me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That really must be a painful happening, especially this time of year", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is, I just can not wrap my head around it all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Was the other person someone you knew", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been feeling depressed about it all, because we share so many memories together NO! He met this person online on a secret dating site that I was unaware he was even on", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Any idea how long he was dating this other girl", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have no idea and that is part of what is killing me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "He definitely did not give you any clues Were you living together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No he did not, I never in a million years would have assumed because he does have this friend he talks to all the time by the name Johnnie, well turns out Johnnie is a girl Yes we have been living together for 6 years and have a child together", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow. Your child must be taking it hard also", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes he is, do you have any ideas to help me cope better with this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It always hurts both partners when it happens.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it does", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Let me ask if you are involved with a church", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes and my preacher has been so helpful in this situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You must have other friends in common, maybe they were afraid to say anything to hurt you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is possible", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is good you are involved with a church.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes without my church family I would be even more depressed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you can chat with some friends and ask if they knew.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes i will definitely try that Thank you for your advice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What bright spots do you see in all this", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That I am financially stable, and I have learned my self worth", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Talking with friends can help you not feel secluded", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you , I will definitely try that", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Let me ask if you were to find out after being married would it hurt any worse", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it would. I am glad i found out before I did marry because i do not believe in divorce", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The one thing I would suggest is that you don't isolate yourself. Friends can help you overcome", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do believe that but because of this break up I feel I can trust nobody", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand about the pains of divorce", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I could imagine the pain i would feel if it was when we were married", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00252", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_112", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, my husband of 25 years left me last week My life is done now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. You're life isn't done, it's just a new start. It's scary for sure but you have a lot more to you than your ex husband.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, I cannot say it is a new start when I will be 90 in March", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Then you've definitely got a lot going for you if you're 90!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Had", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did he leave you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He wanted a younger woman. His new girlfriend is 63 He is 45", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "He wanted a younger woman. His new girlfriend is 63 He is 45", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00253", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_112", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, my husband of 25 years left me last week My life is done now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. You're life isn't done, it's just a new start. It's scary for sure but you have a lot more to you than your ex husband.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, I cannot say it is a new start when I will be 90 in March", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Then you've definitely got a lot going for you if you're 90!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Had", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did he leave you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He wanted a younger woman. His new girlfriend is 63 He is 45", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like that is more of his problem then. You deserve someone that's better than leaving someone because of their age.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought it would be nice to have a younger man when we got married. He eventually told me he just married me for my money, and was waiting for me to pass so he could inherit all of it. He said he got tired of waiting, so he moved on to someone else.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I thought it would be nice to have a younger man when we got married. He eventually told me he just married me for my money, and was waiting for me to pass so he could inherit all of it. He said he got tired of waiting, so he moved on to someone else.", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00254", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_112", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, my husband of 25 years left me last week My life is done now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. You're life isn't done, it's just a new start. It's scary for sure but you have a lot more to you than your ex husband.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, I cannot say it is a new start when I will be 90 in March", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Then you've definitely got a lot going for you if you're 90!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Had", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did he leave you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He wanted a younger woman. His new girlfriend is 63 He is 45", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like that is more of his problem then. You deserve someone that's better than leaving someone because of their age.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought it would be nice to have a younger man when we got married. He eventually told me he just married me for my money, and was waiting for me to pass so he could inherit all of it. He said he got tired of waiting, so he moved on to someone else.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Personally, if that's how he felt, then you're better off. I know that doesn't stop the hurt you're feeling, but you are worth more than that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Now I am here alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Being single does not mean you're completely alone. There are a lot of resources to talk to someone and make friends. Being single does not mean you're completely alone. There are a lot of resources to talk to someone and make friends.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am looking on Tinder for a new friend, but nobody wants someone that is 90 I never used it before, but someone told me about it Considering I haven't dated in 25 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Could you try something like Facebook or Instagram to connect with old friends or acquaintances?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What are those? I heard of them, but never used them. Most of my old friends are no longer around...", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "What are those? I heard of them, but never used them. Most of my old friends are no longer around...", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00255", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_112", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, my husband of 25 years left me last week My life is done now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's terrible, I'm sorry to hear that. You're life isn't done, it's just a new start. It's scary for sure but you have a lot more to you than your ex husband.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well, I cannot say it is a new start when I will be 90 in March", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Then you've definitely got a lot going for you if you're 90!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Had", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did he leave you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He wanted a younger woman. His new girlfriend is 63 He is 45", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like that is more of his problem then. You deserve someone that's better than leaving someone because of their age.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought it would be nice to have a younger man when we got married. He eventually told me he just married me for my money, and was waiting for me to pass so he could inherit all of it. He said he got tired of waiting, so he moved on to someone else.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Personally, if that's how he felt, then you're better off. I know that doesn't stop the hurt you're feeling, but you are worth more than that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Now I am here alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Being single does not mean you're completely alone. There are a lot of resources to talk to someone and make friends. Being single does not mean you're completely alone. There are a lot of resources to talk to someone and make friends.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am looking on Tinder for a new friend, but nobody wants someone that is 90 I never used it before, but someone told me about it Considering I haven't dated in 25 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Could you try something like Facebook or Instagram to connect with old friends or acquaintances?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What are those? I heard of them, but never used them. Most of my old friends are no longer around...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Social networks online, you can connect with family or old coworkers. And post pictures and see what other people are doing with their lives.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am looking for something quicker, I don't know how much longer I have. I can't be spending months waiting for the right person.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you're looking for a strictly romantic relationship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well....someone to spend time with My great grandson said people meet others on Tinder now. Told me I should try it. Have you heard of it or used it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you go to the park? Maybe visit there to meet new people?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Possibly. My cats don't like to have a leash on them though", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've never used it, not sure if Tinder is the right place to meet someone to spend time with. Not always the best intentions.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "why?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "why?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00256", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_113", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How's it going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not that great unfortunately How about yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. Glad it's the weekend. Care to tell me what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My girlfriend and I recently broke up so it has got me a little down I'm glad that you're having a good weekend so far", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My girlfriend and I recently broke up so it has got me a little down I'm glad that you're having a good weekend so far", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00257", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_113", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How's it going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not that great unfortunately How about yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. Glad it's the weekend. Care to tell me what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My girlfriend and I recently broke up so it has got me a little down I'm glad that you're having a good weekend so far", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. Breakups are rough I can say as I've been through a couple myself. How long were you two together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for two years. It's been a pretty tough week but I've been trying to go on walks with my dog & whatnot to keep my mind off thigns things*", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "We were together for two years. It's been a pretty tough week but I've been trying to go on walks with my dog & whatnot to keep my mind off thigns things*", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00258", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_113", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How's it going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not that great unfortunately How about yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. Glad it's the weekend. Care to tell me what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My girlfriend and I recently broke up so it has got me a little down I'm glad that you're having a good weekend so far", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. Breakups are rough I can say as I've been through a couple myself. How long were you two together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for two years. It's been a pretty tough week but I've been trying to go on walks with my dog & whatnot to keep my mind off thigns things*", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Fur babies are definitely good in bad times. It's good that you're taking the time out for yourself. That takes strength!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's one of the things that I am trying to focus on - being mindful of myself. It's been helpful that my city is on Lockdown so I'm able to go on walks & spend some time by myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh that's awesome - despite the circumstances. Are you in the US?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, thank heavens. My government is handling things a bit better here in Canada. Being out of work is tough, but at the same time I get a bunch of time to myself.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No, thank heavens. My government is handling things a bit better here in Canada. Being out of work is tough, but at the same time I get a bunch of time to myself.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00259", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_113", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How's it going?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not that great unfortunately How about yourself?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. Glad it's the weekend. Care to tell me what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My girlfriend and I recently broke up so it has got me a little down I'm glad that you're having a good weekend so far", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear that. Breakups are rough I can say as I've been through a couple myself. How long were you two together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for two years. It's been a pretty tough week but I've been trying to go on walks with my dog & whatnot to keep my mind off thigns things*", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Fur babies are definitely good in bad times. It's good that you're taking the time out for yourself. That takes strength!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's one of the things that I am trying to focus on - being mindful of myself. It's been helpful that my city is on Lockdown so I'm able to go on walks & spend some time by myself", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh that's awesome - despite the circumstances. Are you in the US?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, thank heavens. My government is handling things a bit better here in Canada. Being out of work is tough, but at the same time I get a bunch of time to myself.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm jealous. hehe I often wonder what our friends to the north are going through. I'm glad to see you reaching out too. That's awesome!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It feels good to reach out and at least talk to someone about something to be honest.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know the feeling and especially in these times. It seems things are looking up though with a vaccine coming soon. Getting outside and reaching out is definitely the right thing to do. Soon things will be back to normal!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's what I'm hoping for... It looks like there is finally light at the end of the tunnel.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's what I'm hoping for... It looks like there is finally light at the end of the tunnel.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00260", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_114", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, I am struggling a lot right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm here for you. what would you like to talk about", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's about my recent breakup. My girlfriend left me last week. I honestly don't think I can handle the loneliness.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a hard situation to go through. How long were you together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for almost 2 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you don't mind me asking. how old are you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 24 years old.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok so you were together with this person for ten percent of your life almost. that is a significant relationship", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It surely is. I definetely feel somewhat worthless now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is understandable. would you like to tell me what you plan on doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes I have suicidal feelings...", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Sometimes I have suicidal feelings...", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00261", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_114", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, I am struggling a lot right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm here for you. what would you like to talk about", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's about my recent breakup. My girlfriend left me last week. I honestly don't think I can handle the loneliness.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a hard situation to go through. How long were you together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for almost 2 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you don't mind me asking. how old are you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 24 years old.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok so you were together with this person for ten percent of your life almost. that is a significant relationship", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It surely is. I definetely feel somewhat worthless now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is understandable. would you like to tell me what you plan on doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes I have suicidal feelings...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a serious emotion. Have you been talking to anyone yet", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I live alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have family or friends you can reach out too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have one friend who lives in my neighborhood, but I dont trust him much.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have one friend who lives in my neighborhood, but I dont trust him much.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00262", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_114", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, I am struggling a lot right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm here for you. what would you like to talk about", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's about my recent breakup. My girlfriend left me last week. I honestly don't think I can handle the loneliness.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a hard situation to go through. How long were you together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for almost 2 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you don't mind me asking. how old are you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 24 years old.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok so you were together with this person for ten percent of your life almost. that is a significant relationship", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It surely is. I definetely feel somewhat worthless now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is understandable. would you like to tell me what you plan on doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes I have suicidal feelings...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a serious emotion. Have you been talking to anyone yet", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I live alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have family or friends you can reach out too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have one friend who lives in my neighborhood, but I dont trust him much.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered calling a help line. They are free, private and very professional", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel like those are useless to be honest", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Would you happen to be in college?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am at my last year of college right now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried to reach out to any of the free student services such as councillors.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, althought I prefer those than help lines.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "your situation is unique to you and they would be there to help That what you pay tuition for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What if they make fun of me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That would get them fired. but it's ok if you don't want to go to them. I would suggest talking to your friend first at least. Even if you don't trust him. You need to express your emotions to someone.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I honestly don't feel like expressing my emotions would be of any help. Do they even care lol?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am here to listen. please express your emotions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just want to kill myself already...", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I just want to kill myself already...", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00263", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_114", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, I am struggling a lot right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm here for you. what would you like to talk about", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's about my recent breakup. My girlfriend left me last week. I honestly don't think I can handle the loneliness.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a hard situation to go through. How long were you together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for almost 2 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you don't mind me asking. how old are you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am 24 years old.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ok so you were together with this person for ten percent of your life almost. that is a significant relationship", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It surely is. I definetely feel somewhat worthless now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is understandable. would you like to tell me what you plan on doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes I have suicidal feelings...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a serious emotion. Have you been talking to anyone yet", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I live alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have family or friends you can reach out too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have one friend who lives in my neighborhood, but I dont trust him much.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered calling a help line. They are free, private and very professional", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel like those are useless to be honest", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. Would you happen to be in college?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am at my last year of college right now.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried to reach out to any of the free student services such as councillors.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, althought I prefer those than help lines.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "your situation is unique to you and they would be there to help That what you pay tuition for.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What if they make fun of me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That would get them fired. but it's ok if you don't want to go to them. I would suggest talking to your friend first at least. Even if you don't trust him. You need to express your emotions to someone.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I honestly don't feel like expressing my emotions would be of any help. Do they even care lol?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am here to listen. please express your emotions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just want to kill myself already...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would no suggest that. Your life is important.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She was such an important part of my life... I can't live on without her. She was the only thing that I actually cared for. How can you say my life is important without her?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "She was such an important part of my life... I can't live on without her. She was the only thing that I actually cared for. How can you say my life is important without her?", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00264", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_115", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I feel sad", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I feel sad", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00265", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_115", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I feel sad", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to tell me more about what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im mad at myself for trusting him again", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "im mad at myself for trusting him again", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00266", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_115", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I feel sad", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. Do you want to tell me more about what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im mad at myself for trusting him again", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "he cheated on me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry about that. I would be sad and mad too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "he ghosted and he was trying to get with other girsl on tinder i wish he had the balls to actually do a proper break up he promised me he would never do that but ofcourse he lied", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "he ghosted and he was trying to get with other girsl on tinder i wish he had the balls to actually do a proper break up he promised me he would never do that but ofcourse he lied", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00267", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_116", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, What's on your mind today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HII", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine i had a lot of reasons to give up on you but i still chose to stay hello how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "fine i had a lot of reasons to give up on you but i still chose to stay hello how are you?", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00268", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_116", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, What's on your mind today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HII", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine i had a lot of reasons to give up on you but i still chose to stay hello how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad you stayed. What are some of the reasons you wanted to give up on me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hmm she don't miss him, you miss the person he used to be.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Missing people can feel devastating, Is that what I am hearing you say?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what about you? ofcourse never go back to an old love, it's like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You sound like you have a lot of wisdom How are you trying to move on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yup pain is the only thing that's telling me i\"am still alive It is better to be alone. Than being with someone who makes you feel alone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have a support group, Family, friends?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Faith isn't about everything turnig out okay. little level, because faith is aobut being okay no matter how things turn out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Faith isn't about everything turnig out okay. little level, because faith is aobut being okay no matter how things turn out.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00269", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_116", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, What's on your mind today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HII", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine i had a lot of reasons to give up on you but i still chose to stay hello how are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad you stayed. What are some of the reasons you wanted to give up on me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hmm she don't miss him, you miss the person he used to be.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Missing people can feel devastating, Is that what I am hearing you say?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what about you? ofcourse never go back to an old love, it's like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You sound like you have a lot of wisdom How are you trying to move on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yup pain is the only thing that's telling me i\"am still alive It is better to be alone. Than being with someone who makes you feel alone.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have a support group, Family, friends?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Faith isn't about everything turnig out okay. little level, because faith is aobut being okay no matter how things turn out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have recently separated from my spouse. I know it is a tough journey to walk.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ohh that was great idea you choice a better way", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are so correct about the outcome of Faith", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but why you separated from your spouse.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Moving on from a toxic relationship is important.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "why .. ?? great", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "My spouse is Narcissistic and I woke up to the understanding of the abuse.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "how to feel after breakup?? ohh okay", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Most of the time, I feel confident about the breakup but there are times I become insecure. It is during those times, I look to resources to help remind me that I made the correct choice.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "your correct.trusting you again is my decision, proving me wrong is your choice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have been developing a support group to help me through. Have you been working on a support group of your own.?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "this way of life was never chosen by me, it was my bad luck that it choose me yes ofcourse", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "this way of life was never chosen by me, it was my bad luck that it choose me yes ofcourse", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00270", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_117", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, \"What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?\" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00271", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_117", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, \"What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?\" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00272", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_117", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, \"What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?\" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "With him, or a relationship with someone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "With him... he was perfect (or at least I thought), but also, I'm lonely, and it's hard to process not being in a relationship during the pandemic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00273", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_117", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, \"What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?\" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "With him, or a relationship with someone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "With him... he was perfect (or at least I thought), but also, I'm lonely, and it's hard to process not being in a relationship during the pandemic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad! I would not contact him if he was not contacting me. You deserve better than that!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Lol. I think I can do that!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Lol. I think I can do that!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00274", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_117", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I still see him from time to time online, but I don't know why he just dropped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Who do you see online? What did he drop on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I occasionally see the guy that I was dating online, and it makes me feel sad all over again. He dropped our relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you block notifications for him? How long ago did he stop it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought seriously about that, but for some stupid reason, I keep thinking, \"What if he comes to his senses and wants to contact me?\" A couple months ago, but I haven't gotten over him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you block him and he wants to get in touch, he will find a way. Make him work hard", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You really think playing hard to get will work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think if he is interested still it will, if not his loss.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for saying that, but I still have the problem of wanting to be in a relationship.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "With him, or a relationship with someone?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "With him... he was perfect (or at least I thought), but also, I'm lonely, and it's hard to process not being in a relationship during the pandemic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried making other connections online? A lot of people are home during this pandemic, you may meet someone much better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "True. What can I do to get over him in the meantime?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Keep busy! Get mad instead of sad! I would not contact him if he was not contacting me. You deserve better than that!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Lol. I think I can do that!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, we women function better when we get pissed!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You're right. What do I do if he contacts me again? Do I let the conversation play out and see what happens?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Play it cool and be ready to make up a whole bunch of fun things you have been doing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a good idea. I can do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's a good idea. I can do that.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00275", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_118", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you feeling today? Is there anything you'd like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am sad because I lost my girlfriend of one year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I am so sorry to hear that - this is a terrible time of year to get dumped. Please know that it will get better in time!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you think it will get better?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, although it sounds like a cliche, time does help with healing wounds. It took me a while to get over a break up. We had been together eight years!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That must've been hard. Is it possible to heal without finding another?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I think that it is but you really do need to be kind to yourself and give it time. Do you have good friends to support you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Many of my friends wouldn't understand as they are in long-term relationships. But yes, I've a few good friends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a blessing at least though I know it can be hard to see people in happy relationships when you are single.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What did you do to cope in the first year of losing your partner ?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I cried a lot to be honest, especially as he was happy with someone else. But I tried to focus on my work and my hobbies. It helped.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of hobbies helped you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well I love to read. Do you have anything that you could do to help you relax and take your mind off things?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I do love to write but sometimes the sadness just burns me out completely and I stare at the empty page.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you and she have any contact at all at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried to make peace with her and be friends but she's bitter.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel that perhaps you did not treat her as well as you could have done?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I think about that all the time... I could've been better but she was my first and I was foolish. I didn't appreciate her enough.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, you have at least learned a lesson and in the future will treat women better I think :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, you have a point. Maybe this will turn out to my favor. You have to fail to succeed sometimes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, you have a point. Maybe this will turn out to my favor. You have to fail to succeed sometimes.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00276", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_119", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi..how are you today Iam looking for some help towards facing breakup with the partner can you help me providing some emotional support Is there anything that I can do to be get out of the sadness in my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Absolutely. Tell me more about it. When did it happen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it happened about a week ago..my boyfriend is being very possessive about everything I do I find it not convincing and broke up with him", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. Were you living with your boyfriend? How was your life post breakup?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ye since an year..Iam feeling an emptyness in my life Do you suggest anything to come out of this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. It must be difficult. I have gone through a lot of breakups in my life too, and I know what you are going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah how do you manage after your breakup", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Has the sadness eased over time in the past year? Were you consciously taking some measures to get over the stage?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah iam implementing of taking a new hobby which is distracting me a little", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "On average it takes me about a year to get over this. I feel like there is no better person for me, I don't know what the future brings, and I am imaging all the scenarios where past relationships could have been successful for me. I took a lot of walks and spent a lot of time with friends.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah those are two good strategies to follow..I will be considering them Do you have used any counselling?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I didn't. I wasn't able to afford them. I actually felt bad about venting the situation to my friends. They offered a lot of emotional support and I am sure they didn't want to seeing me like this. Do you have a support system in place? Are you considering getting counseling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Even I cannot affod a counsellor..But Iam too embarraseed to talk to my friends.. Yes ..Iam thinking about getting a counselling do you know any best counsellors", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad that you are preemptive about it. I think one year in, if you still constantly think about it, a counseling session would help you get closure. Even if it is a one session, you can always assess after trying this out. My current company actually offers free counseling session if I want to, I understand it is called \"One Medical\"?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah thank you for the help..is there any other strategies i can follow", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I also took up a lot of volunteering. It gives me a purpose and a group to belong to, where I can start fresh, have no baggages and meet new people.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah i think i will start fresh from tomorrow..Do you have any ideas about choosing next partner..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am not familiar with the dating situation in pandemic time. I would say take it slow. If it is a right partner for you, it will make you a better person.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah sure..I will take it slow..I think that will help me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad that we are able to chat. I hope things can start working out for you and you are able to move on to a new chapter of life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah thank you for your help..I appreciate it.. I hope you have a wonderful day..Stay safe and healthy.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah thank you for your help..I appreciate it.. I hope you have a wonderful day..Stay safe and healthy.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00277", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_120", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HELLO how about you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing well, is there something I can help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, i need some", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What seems to be the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i have broken up with my girlfriend yesterday", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. I imagine you must be feeling pretty bad? Is there anything I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, im feeling so bad i can't handle the loss of her in my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What happened to cause you to break up with her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we have some misunderstanding for a while she is very aggressive when we talk about that problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What exactly is the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I find that she has an affair with her cousin", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "With her cousin??", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yep!! when we talk about that, she did not accept to leave him", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that, that's terrible. Does she not see it as a problem that they're cousins?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I advised her not to betray me but she did not honest with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What can I help you with? She clearly isn't right for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "and finally in an argument she break up with me but i love her very much even though she left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that must be difficult, time will help get over her and what she's done to you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have no idea, what to do now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'd suggest taking some time and help yourself realize that you're better off without someone who doesn't have your feelings in their best interest.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried so", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It'll take more than a day but you'll meet someone else and realize what you deserve", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think so but i can't tell this to my friends and family", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel you can't tell them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because they also become so sad when they know this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I know it's tough but they can help you throught his.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok, I will tell them about this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good, I hope they can help you through this and you find some peace in your situation.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah thankn you", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah thankn you", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00278", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_120", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "HELLO how about you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing well, is there something I can help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, i need some", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What seems to be the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i have broken up with my girlfriend yesterday", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. I imagine you must be feeling pretty bad? Is there anything I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, im feeling so bad i can't handle the loss of her in my life", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What happened to cause you to break up with her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we have some misunderstanding for a while she is very aggressive when we talk about that problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What exactly is the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I find that she has an affair with her cousin", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "With her cousin??", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yep!! when we talk about that, she did not accept to leave him", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that, that's terrible. Does she not see it as a problem that they're cousins?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I advised her not to betray me but she did not honest with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What can I help you with? She clearly isn't right for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "and finally in an argument she break up with me but i love her very much even though she left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that must be difficult, time will help get over her and what she's done to you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have no idea, what to do now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'd suggest taking some time and help yourself realize that you're better off without someone who doesn't have your feelings in their best interest.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried so", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It'll take more than a day but you'll meet someone else and realize what you deserve", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think so but i can't tell this to my friends and family", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel you can't tell them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because they also become so sad when they know this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I know it's tough but they can help you throught his.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok, I will tell them about this", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good, I hope they can help you through this and you find some peace in your situation.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah thankn you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anythign else I can do for you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "nope", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Take care and try to enjoy the holidays, stay safe.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thank you", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00279", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_121", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well. Not so good i just broke up with my girlfriend and she is packing her stuff to leave How are you doing?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that. Breakups can be rough. I'm great! Thanks for asking. Was this a mutual agreement?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well technically it was a mutual agreement but i feel like I dont want this to happen So what are you up to? Hello? Are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well technically it was a mutual agreement but i feel like I dont want this to happen So what are you up to? Hello? Are you there?", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00280", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_121", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well. Not so good i just broke up with my girlfriend and she is packing her stuff to leave How are you doing?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am very sorry to hear that. Breakups can be rough. I'm great! Thanks for asking. Was this a mutual agreement?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well technically it was a mutual agreement but i feel like I dont want this to happen So what are you up to? Hello? Are you there?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Was there a reasoning behind your decision? Sometimes we let our anger and emotions make our decisions for us.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well. Basically all started for jealousy and she saw a couple of text messages of my best friend and she misunderstood the conversation and since then its not the same. She doesnt trust me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see trust is a very important key factor in relationships and without it the relationship stays stagnant. Have you tried reassuring her that your intentions are pure and maybe gave her some words of affirmation that would let her know how you truly feel about her? Just because you guys are best friends all she sees in her head is that you're talking to another female. Maybe she also has her wall up and some insecurities that you can help her with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried in many way to help her with that and proving her that my feelings toward her was pure. I basically stop talking to my best friend to gain her confidence. But it did not work So it got to the point that nothing was the same So she decided to move away and gave us some spaces and think this out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How long have you two been together? Sometimes moving on from a relationship and staying single from some time can give you time to reflect and work on yourself for yourself. You never know the two of you might come back together stronger than before cause space might be all that your relationship needs at this moment. I know this might be so tough for you but l want you to know that you are never alone and you can do this. Maybe read a new book or pick up a new hobby for the time being.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We were together for two years Im trying my best to go through this I hope so. Thanks for all those words It really helps", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're doing the right thing by talking to someone about it. We are not meant to be alone in our thoughts because it can be a scary thing. Bottling up emotions is also never good so for you to reach out is very good and the first step to maybe feeling a little better. I've been in your same shoes and trust me it doesn't feel good so just know I am here for you and you can talk to me in confidence.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well thank so much. You really help me a lot with every single word Well i have to go. Ill talk to you later", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well thank so much. You really help me a lot with every single word Well i have to go. Ill talk to you later", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00281", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_122", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I' m sad", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My ex-boyfriend broke up with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did he break up with you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because I didn't trust him and I was always jelous", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "because I didn't trust him and I was always jelous", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00282", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_122", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I' m sad", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My ex-boyfriend broke up with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did he break up with you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because I didn't trust him and I was always jelous", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think you should try finding a psychologist to help your jealous.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I think so, because I should not feel like that, I should trust him", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Apparently psychologist is good for people who want to share feelings and emotions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's true. Thanks for the information I'm trying not to talk to him or think about him, because I feel better", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, it's true. Thanks for the information I'm trying not to talk to him or think about him, because I feel better", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00283", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_123", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, what can i help today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going through a bad breakup", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, when did it happen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "This month. We've been together off and on for over 17 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "This month. We've been together off and on for over 17 years", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00284", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_124", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "how may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my girlfriend broke up with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she taught i was cheating on her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Was you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no i wasn't", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what made her think you was?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she saw our chat history which honestly looks incriminating", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why do you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because we kind of flirt with each other", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "because we kind of flirt with each other", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00285", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_124", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "how may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my girlfriend broke up with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she taught i was cheating on her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Was you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no i wasn't", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what made her think you was?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she saw our chat history which honestly looks incriminating", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why do you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because we kind of flirt with each other", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "ok i am a little confused. you saw who chat history with who?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my girlfriend saw my chat with another woman", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "ok i understand now. What was you and this other woman talking about? I understand how you are feeling breakups are hard going through", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "favorite sexual position yes, i am feeling very sad at the moment", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That does sound incriminating I am sorry you going through this Have you tried talking to her and apologized for your actions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i tried to but she is not giving me the chance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you should give her some space for a while and let her get her thoughts together and then try to talk to her", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but how long will that space be", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "maybe a couple days", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its been up to a week already", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "maybe you try to talk to her again today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i am planning on it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "if that does not work then maybe it will be best to just focus on yourself i know how hard that can be but sometimes its for the best", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "that will be hard because i am soo used to her being around", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that but the only way you can work it out with her if both of you two just talk", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes you are right", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I suggest you try to talk to her today and let her know how you are feeling", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i will by all means necessary", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hopefully she will want to talk and work things back out", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i really hope so too", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Everything will be okay keep your head up", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks soo much, you have been soo helpful", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am glad I helped you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes you did. i feel reassured", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am happy :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "so am i", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "so am i", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00286", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_125", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "how are you doing how are you doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "good and you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i am good too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what's up with you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "let me get you right, you mean you guy want to cheat on and he told you about it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00287", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_125", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "how are you doing how are you doing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "good and you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i am good too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My spouse wants me to allow him to have a cheat day during Christmas", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what's up with you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Basically he wants to sleep with someone else for a change", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "let me get you right, you mean you guy want to cheat on and he told you about it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes he wants me to know so that he doesn't feel guilty about it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "wow, that will be tough on you because even if you said no, he might just do it without telling you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Exactly.... he said I can do it behind your back without you ever knowing but I would rather be honest with you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i can feel your anger and disappointment. my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell my ex cheated on me before and it hurts like hell", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I told him I don't want that to happen but he offered whatever I wanted no matter the price and all I could think was I just want him to be faithful He told me not to take it personally because it is just lust and that he loves me only", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "since when have you guys been together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Actually, today is our 4th year anniversary", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that's a long time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I guess he just wants a change", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "have you guys seen a therapist", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No but I am thinking about i it*", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "every relationship has it's ups and down, just make sure you guys talk to an expert and make reason out of this . therapy has help my relationship a great deal", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will definitely look into it. You are a great listener and I feel better now that I spoke to someone about this issue", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "good, and make sure you are not too visibly angry at him for telling you. just help him trough the process", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thank you", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00288", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_126", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you feeling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i feel depresed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "breakup with my partner", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups can be really tough. How long were you with your partner?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "3years of time we have been in love", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I once had a relationship end after 5 years with a partner. Staying active really helped me get over the relationship. Through that activity I actually met my new partner!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but i love my partner so much that i couldnt forget her right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about doing something fun, like taking a trip somewhere?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah we went for trip we had a god relationship", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's really difficult, but I know you can get through this! What do you like to do for fun?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we had enjoyment and romance", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "we had enjoyment and romance", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00289", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_126", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you feeling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i feel depresed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "breakup with my partner", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups can be really tough. How long were you with your partner?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "3years of time we have been in love", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I once had a relationship end after 5 years with a partner. Staying active really helped me get over the relationship. Through that activity I actually met my new partner!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but i love my partner so much that i couldnt forget her right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about doing something fun, like taking a trip somewhere?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah we went for trip we had a god relationship", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's really difficult, but I know you can get through this! What do you like to do for fun?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we had enjoyment and romance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about fun activities you did without your partner?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "none i love her so much so i have not done anything without her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What about before you met her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i was doing good", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "i was doing good", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00290", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_126", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "How are you feeling?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i feel depresed", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel depressed?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "breakup with my partner", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups can be really tough. How long were you with your partner?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "3years of time we have been in love", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I once had a relationship end after 5 years with a partner. Staying active really helped me get over the relationship. Through that activity I actually met my new partner!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but i love my partner so much that i couldnt forget her right now", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about doing something fun, like taking a trip somewhere?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah we went for trip we had a god relationship", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's really difficult, but I know you can get through this! What do you like to do for fun?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we had enjoyment and romance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about fun activities you did without your partner?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "none i love her so much so i have not done anything without her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What about before you met her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i was doing good", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What did you do for fun before you met her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "sighting girls", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I loved doing that too! Have you thought about going out and doing that with your friends now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. after having a chat with you i feel some goodness in me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good! From talking to you I can tell that you have a lot of goodness in you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you so much", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You are so welcome. I am so happy you are feeling better!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Fine love you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hope you have a great day.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thank you", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "thank you", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00291", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_127", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello..Iam here to help you today..how are you doing today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi..I am facing immense sadness because of a recent breakup with my boyfriend..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that is very hurtful..can you tell me more about the help you need", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My boyfriend was very abusve and is very doubtful of me ,so I need to be broke up with him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you can come out of breakup and have a start with new life..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Can you provide me some resources on how to do that", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course..Try getting talked to friends and family who can understand you..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I can do that..anything else?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes..They are many online forums and groups who are having a lot of people facing similar issues..Talking to them makes you feel new and refreshed..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah..I can try that..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I strongly believe that you will be fine with in no time..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you really think so?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Do you really think so?", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00292", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_128", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00293", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_128", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have had better days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could use someone to talk to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would love to listen. Where would you like to start?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I’ve been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Breakups are never an easy thing. I've also gone through those and they can make you feel awful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I’m just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's an excellent place to start. It's hard but I believe that you can do it. Do you have any family or friends that you've been speaking to about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any hobbies? I found that refocusing my energy into something I love doing really helped to bring my mood up.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Great advice. I think I’m going to start up taking yoga again and catch up on some books I’ve been wanting to read.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Great advice. I think I’m going to start up taking yoga again and catch up on some books I’ve been wanting to read.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00294", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_128", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have had better days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Would you like to talk about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could use someone to talk to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would love to listen. Where would you like to start?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I’ve been feeling down since I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. Breakups are never an easy thing. I've also gone through those and they can make you feel awful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I’m just trying to pick up the pieces and look to be positive.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's an excellent place to start. It's hard but I believe that you can do it. Do you have any family or friends that you've been speaking to about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for the encouragement. That means a lot. Any suggestions on how I can get my mind off of it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any hobbies? I found that refocusing my energy into something I love doing really helped to bring my mood up.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Great advice. I think I’m going to start up taking yoga again and catch up on some books I’ve been wanting to read.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yoga is an amazing stress reliever. I practice myself! I like your game plan and I think you'll start feeling the results sooner than you think.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I’m going to lay low on dating for a while.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I completely understand. You'll know when you're ready again and it's great to take things at your own pace. All that matters is to do things when you're ready to.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How long do you think I should take a break for?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How long do you think I should take a break for?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00295", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_129", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling really sad and lonely right now. My boyfriend and I broke up and it was me who wanted it but now I regret breaking up and he doesn't want me back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am feeling really sad and lonely right now. My boyfriend and I broke up and it was me who wanted it but now I regret breaking up and he doesn't want me back.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00296", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_129", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling really sad and lonely right now. My boyfriend and I broke up and it was me who wanted it but now I regret breaking up and he doesn't want me back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, I can understand when we think we want something and then we change our mind but it's too late.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is exactly it. I broke up with him because I liked another person but then quickly realized that I made a mistake and it's too late. I want him back should I start calling and going to his house to beg?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "nobody knows him better than you do, right now I do not think he is in a good place either since it wasn't his choice to end it, how do you think he would react if you started pressuring him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't really thought of that yet. He has a pretty short temper actually. I know he is really mad at me so I think he might want to yell at me and get his anger out before he could start being nice to me again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I haven't really thought of that yet. He has a pretty short temper actually. I know he is really mad at me so I think he might want to yell at me and get his anger out before he could start being nice to me again.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00297", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_129", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling really sad and lonely right now. My boyfriend and I broke up and it was me who wanted it but now I regret breaking up and he doesn't want me back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, I can understand when we think we want something and then we change our mind but it's too late.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is exactly it. I broke up with him because I liked another person but then quickly realized that I made a mistake and it's too late. I want him back should I start calling and going to his house to beg?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "nobody knows him better than you do, right now I do not think he is in a good place either since it wasn't his choice to end it, how do you think he would react if you started pressuring him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't really thought of that yet. He has a pretty short temper actually. I know he is really mad at me so I think he might want to yell at me and get his anger out before he could start being nice to me again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "frustration and anger are common responses in situations like this, perhaps you can try a softer approach and let him know how you feel, without pressuring him into a response", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, that's true. I have been secretly watching his social media and he has girls asking him out and I don't want to let them get to him before I can get him back. I want to make it up to him somehow and do whatever he wants to get back together.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you can always ask him calmly if he would like to talk, so you both have a chance to express your feelings in a safe way, with no yelling or arguing, do you think that's something he would do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can try that, I think he might be responsive at first if I dont set him off. All of his friends hate me so I have nobody on my side right now. Should I try to get his friends to like me again? Is that an way I could use to get him to want me again?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "nobody likes to see that one's friend is sad because of someone else, I think this is an issue that only the two of you can resolve, if he takes you back then his friends will take you back as well, but you need to make sure you want him back", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand what you mean. I need to think this through.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what made you like someone else in the first place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, we are in a small town and he was popular and the cutest guy in our town. I liked being with someone so popular. He wasn't always nice to me and is why I wanted to be with someone else for a short time. He used to leave me at parties and go off with his friends sometimes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well, we are in a small town and he was popular and the cutest guy in our town. I liked being with someone so popular. He wasn't always nice to me and is why I wanted to be with someone else for a short time. He used to leave me at parties and go off with his friends sometimes.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00298", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_129", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello, how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am feeling really sad and lonely right now. My boyfriend and I broke up and it was me who wanted it but now I regret breaking up and he doesn't want me back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, I can understand when we think we want something and then we change our mind but it's too late.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is exactly it. I broke up with him because I liked another person but then quickly realized that I made a mistake and it's too late. I want him back should I start calling and going to his house to beg?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "nobody knows him better than you do, right now I do not think he is in a good place either since it wasn't his choice to end it, how do you think he would react if you started pressuring him?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't really thought of that yet. He has a pretty short temper actually. I know he is really mad at me so I think he might want to yell at me and get his anger out before he could start being nice to me again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "frustration and anger are common responses in situations like this, perhaps you can try a softer approach and let him know how you feel, without pressuring him into a response", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, that's true. I have been secretly watching his social media and he has girls asking him out and I don't want to let them get to him before I can get him back. I want to make it up to him somehow and do whatever he wants to get back together.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you can always ask him calmly if he would like to talk, so you both have a chance to express your feelings in a safe way, with no yelling or arguing, do you think that's something he would do?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can try that, I think he might be responsive at first if I dont set him off. All of his friends hate me so I have nobody on my side right now. Should I try to get his friends to like me again? Is that an way I could use to get him to want me again?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "nobody likes to see that one's friend is sad because of someone else, I think this is an issue that only the two of you can resolve, if he takes you back then his friends will take you back as well, but you need to make sure you want him back", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand what you mean. I need to think this through.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "what made you like someone else in the first place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, we are in a small town and he was popular and the cutest guy in our town. I liked being with someone so popular. He wasn't always nice to me and is why I wanted to be with someone else for a short time. He used to leave me at parties and go off with his friends sometimes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "was it a common thing that he didn't give you the attention you wanted?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My friends always said that I could do better and that he didn't deserve me. He gave me statis in our town and everyone wanted to be his girlfriend so I think I liked the attention, yes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "were you happy with him or were you happy that you were with the popular guy?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I really liked being with the popular guy who everyone looked up to. My parents don't like him at all and have wanted us to break up the whole time we were together.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it sounds to me like you liked the title more than the feeling of being with him, reflecting on your time together, would you do that again?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have never thought of it this way. You are making a lot of good points that I never thought of before. When I think about him I miss the way I felt in terms of being popular. I don't really miss him as a person.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have never thought of it this way. You are making a lot of good points that I never thought of before. When I think about him I miss the way I felt in terms of being popular. I don't really miss him as a person.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00299", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_130", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, my fiance and I \"sort of\" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, \"stand up guy\" I've ever known.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, \"stand up guy\" I've ever known.", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00300", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_130", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, my fiance and I \"sort of\" broke up recently. I moved out of our place and all, but we continued to see each other at least 3X per week. And we both said we're not 100% sure that we're ok with us being done for good. - We promised to tell each other if we start dating anyone. He said he wasn't interested in dating. Three days after that conversation, I come over unexpectedly to find him making dinner for a woman I've never seen before. Turns out it was his 3rd date with her. He met her on a dating app a week before our conversation about promising to tell each other if we start dating others.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry that happened. Are you mostly hurt because he didn't tell you he was seeing somebody else?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest, I'd still be hurt if he told me. But now on top of that hurt, I feel disrespected... and everything I thought I knew about him is kind of crushed. We were together 6 years, and I always, ALWAYS believed he was the most honest, kind, \"stand up guy\" I've ever known.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You must feel really torn up about it. I can tell that you care about your relationship.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that's true. The worst part is that he doesn't seem to think I have a right to be hurt. How do I even deal with someone who hurt me but doesn't care to take any responsibility whatsoever?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe he didn't intend to hurt you. Its not like he invited you over to tease you. It is true that he didn't keep his promise, and that's his fault.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's true. He didn't invite me over. I expected him to be at work that night. I was coming over to see our cats, which still all lived with him. I still had a key and it didn't occur to me that I could invade his privacy since I had been spending 3X a week with him, and he was fine with me using the key. The whole thing was a shock. I wouldn't have come in had I known what I'd find inside.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That would definitely add to the distress of the situation to have a weird surprise like that. It doesn't really seem like your fault that you were there but it is unfortunate nonetheless. Have you tried talking to h im yet?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. It's a long story to explain here, but at first he told me it was a first date... then he said it was a second date... then finally he said it was a third date. I had to figure out on my own that he met her through a dating app, which makes me feel extra icky because now I kind of feel like a stalker. (Don't worry, I didn't do anything illegal or immoral to figure this out at all. He left an easy breadcrumb trail for me to follow.... but it still feels gross that I felt compelled to research the situation because I could \"feel\" he was lying.)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's ok, you have a vested interest in this person. It is natural to be interested in such things.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I'm not only invested in him. I have a SUPER close relationship with his two daughters. Some of the reason he wanted to see me after our \"break up\" is because he didn't want to tell his daughters that I might be out of their lives forever. He told me so much. And I love those girls so much. They're 13 and 16. They were 7 and 11 when I started seeing their dad.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "There are a lot of therapists out there that might be able to help you navigate this. It's OK to get some outside help.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a good suggestion. I think individual therapy might benefit me. I could ask him if he's open to couple's counseling--even if it's over, it could help with closure.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Considering how much time you've put in to this relationship, I can tell you have a lot of feelings about all of this.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do. I appreciate your talking the time to listen to me. Sometimes just talking about an issue can help organize one's feelings and thoughts.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Really, it is no problem. It helps to let it out sometimes, I feel that. Make sure you take care of your own needs before starting to smooth things over.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is good advice. I haven't been eating or sleeping as well as I should since this all started. I'll work on that. --- Thank you so much for your time and help and kindness. :) I wish you a great weekend!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That is good advice. I haven't been eating or sleeping as well as I should since this all started. I'll work on that. --- Thank you so much for your time and help and kindness. :) I wish you a great weekend!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00301", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_131", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00302", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_131", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, I know. family is always important during time like these", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes, I know. family is always important during time like these", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00303", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_131", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, I know. family is always important during time like these", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe. The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, i can always count on her to be there for me my younger brother is always there for me too", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes, i can always count on her to be there for me my younger brother is always there for me too", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00304", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_131", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, I know. family is always important during time like these", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe. The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, i can always count on her to be there for me my younger brother is always there for me too", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's awesome. Family support is crucial.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i guess i'll go make myself a drink and try to calm some nerves", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "i guess i'll go make myself a drink and try to calm some nerves", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00305", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_131", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, I know. family is always important during time like these", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe. The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, i can always count on her to be there for me my younger brother is always there for me too", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's awesome. Family support is crucial.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i guess i'll go make myself a drink and try to calm some nerves", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just be easy on yourself and know that in the future, you will find someone new, someone much more suited to you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea, its hard because ive dated her for over 5 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yea, its hard because ive dated her for over 5 years", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00306", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_131", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I need help I broke up with my girlfriend and i'm very sad and don't know what to do can you provide any assistance?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry, the alert sound did not play for me. I'm sorry to hear you broke up with your girlfriend, that is a rough situation to be going through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, she cheated on me i was suppose to marry her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is really hard. Are you able to take some downtime and recalibrate, take care of yourself? When I've gone through break-ups in the past, it's been useful to really take care of myself and give myself some pampering. Guilty pleasure TV and takeout Chinese food is always a good combination. Tacos, too. Maybe a bottle of wine, but not too much wine, just want to relax, not get sad.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am going to my mothers house to talk things over. I have to drive 3 hours away", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh dear, that's a long time alone with your thoughts. When I need to escape intrusive thoughts and rehashing things, I'll put on a podcast. Or documentary, or something that's calm, straightforward and factual.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, I know. family is always important during time like these", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's really good that you have that kind of relationship with your mom though! Moms are awesome for that kind of stuff. They can really make you feel protected and safe. The vulnerability after a break-up is unreal", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, i can always count on her to be there for me my younger brother is always there for me too", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's awesome. Family support is crucial.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i guess i'll go make myself a drink and try to calm some nerves", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just be easy on yourself and know that in the future, you will find someone new, someone much more suited to you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea, its hard because ive dated her for over 5 years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry you're going through this. I wish I could have been more helpful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "youve been a great help any more advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "youve been a great help any more advice?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00307", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_132", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I face the situation of me being sad because I thought we could let this fight go over time but instead it has lead to us breaking up", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you tell me more about the fight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, so we had a fight previously over Thanksgiving Break about how I woke her up from her sleep and she kicked me out of her place at like 4 in the morning. Then I pick her up to go try and get breakfast...then she starts punching me while I drive so I pull over. Then she keeps hitting me until I tell her to stop.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups are usually sad for at least one of the couple. Is your sadness because of missing her or being alone or something else ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is because I do really miss her. I really hate that our fight got to that level to where we broke up", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It is because I do really miss her. I really hate that our fight got to that level to where we broke up", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00308", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_132", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I face the situation of me being sad because I thought we could let this fight go over time but instead it has lead to us breaking up", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you tell me more about the fight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, so we had a fight previously over Thanksgiving Break about how I woke her up from her sleep and she kicked me out of her place at like 4 in the morning. Then I pick her up to go try and get breakfast...then she starts punching me while I drive so I pull over. Then she keeps hitting me until I tell her to stop.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups are usually sad for at least one of the couple. Is your sadness because of missing her or being alone or something else ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is because I do really miss her. I really hate that our fight got to that level to where we broke up", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups are hard, but it sounds like she was violent", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah she was a little violent. I was honestly a little scared for my life for a second but people make mistakes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you talked since then?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We have talked a little bit before hand this month. It was okay but I am still sad about what happened She was very open to talking and such but I just wasn't ready because my family found out about what happened and are worried about my safety", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If safety is an issue, then I think that maybe moving on is a good decision", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know but I am so sad because the break up was so quick and we did not really have closure after the whole fight happened between us. I still keep on thinking about her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I suggest that you do things that will help you get over her., like going out with friends or a new hobby. Don't be in a hurry to get into a new relationship , but if one happens that would be great too. Is this your first breakup?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will definitely try to get over her using those techniques you just said. It's way harder to do than say though. No, this is not my first breakup with a woman but I felt like she was the one for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Breakups are not always the end, but they usually happen for a reason, and whenever violence is involved it is usually better to move on", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you're right! Just need to get productive and get my mind off of her for good since she was violent", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I suggest you start trying to have fun with others and getting yourself out there where there will be new opportunities", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will definitely try. I know it will be hard because I am upset still but sometimes I guess moving on is the only thing that you can do in this situation", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The sadness will eventually pass and I am sure there is someone out there that will be a good match for you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Awww I hope so. Just like some people say...there are plenty of fish in the sea. Thank you for the advice. It was really helpful.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Awww I hope so. Just like some people say...there are plenty of fish in the sea. Thank you for the advice. It was really helpful.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00309", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_133", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi feeling upset", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i am sad because of my love", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its gone, she left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she is married to a rich man", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "she is married to a rich man", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00310", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_133", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi feeling upset", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i am sad because of my love", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its gone, she left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she is married to a rich man", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00311", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_133", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you feeling tonight? Is there anything I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi feeling upset", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. Can I talk you through what you're experiencing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i am sad because of my love", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's frustrating to hear. What is your love?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its gone, she left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that. How did it happen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she is married to a rich man", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there any way you feel you can move on from her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "she broke me down like a helpless bird i can over come from her memories", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Were you in a relationship with her?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i've been in a relationship with her for three years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If she has moved on from you, as painful as it is, you should move on from her. But that will take time, and it will help to slowly and methodically find a way forward from her. 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What's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just wanted to talk about my recent heartbreak", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I just wanted to talk about my recent heartbreak", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00316", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_134", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello i am okay and you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm well. What's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just wanted to talk about my recent heartbreak", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What happened? What happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My boyfriend cheat on me with my close friend i wouldnt say close tho but because i know her i had warned him about her]", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "OMGoodness! That's awful. I've been through the same.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "but typical men, they would still disrespect you with anyone in skirts i dont know why a grown ass man cannot be decisive", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Unfortunately men have earned a reputation as jerks for that reason. Are you still together or have you left?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its crazy and just when you think you found one with his brain intact, he finds a way to embarrass you i called it quits Im not even sure who should take the higher percentage of my anger, the stupid girl or the stupid boy", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good for you! I know that it must've been painful, but I don't think anyone deserves to go through it on repeat...", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "really though.. was a stressful time", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, they probably deserve an equal percentage of that anger...", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "after being caught slipping, he tried to lie his way out of it that's the funny thing. they ain't even together. The said girl has her own boyfriend", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "However, YOU deserve to have the freedom of choosing to forgive and forget them both. The resentment that's building inside you is just like a poiso\\ n that YOU'RE drinking in hopes that THEY get sick from it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im moving on. I have refused to let that define me or my moods i also havent spoken to anyone about it i dont think its necessary", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Revenge is a dish best served to the trash! There's no relief in bitterness. Might as well let it go, move on an move up from there!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "right on that never even thought of revenge. that would mean i didnt have a life of my own", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think you're handling the whole thing well. You're very intelligent and emotionally mature. It's his own dumb loss and hers too!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "right about that", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "right about that", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00317", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_135", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, my girlfriend just broke my heart", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That stinks. I understand how that can hurt. How long had you been together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "we've been together for 5 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "And how did she break your heart?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "through email. so it hurts even harder", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So it sounds like she broke up with you over email rather than face to face or even a call. Not very considerate.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah couldn't even do it face to face I'm so hurt", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "From talking with you I can tell this has been a real blow and need to find a way to move on.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes it has broke my heart into a million pieces", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've had that happen before to me a few times. It's just the absolute worst feeling.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "definitely is. what should I do to get my mind off this awful breakup", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "One of your first thoughts might be to get back out there, but really the best thing to do is to start doing things that you like, and that improve you personally.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "ok perfect. that will keep my mind occupied", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "ok perfect. that will keep my mind occupied", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00318", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_136", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, I badly need someone to talk with!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi what’s on your mind today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My partner left me after fifteen years and I simply do not know what to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "wow. that had to come as a shock. when did you find out", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Things had not been going well for a while but I had not realised just how bad it would be.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i'm so sorry to hear that. how long ago did they leave?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "About two weeks. I have barely left the house since then. I just do not feel that I can go on.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "not leaving the house is the new normal for many of us right now. are you not leaving because you have nowhere to go or because you are feeling bad", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think mostly the latter. I just do not want to face the world any more . I feel that everyone must know that I've been dumped and be laughing at me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you havve already made it two weeks by going one day at a time", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I did not really have any choice though . I do not see any future for myself now that we are separated.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "do you know brene brown and her work", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No I do not, who is that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "she studies vuneraility and shame. please look for her TED talk and there's a great youtube video on empathy", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you , I will. Right now I really need some sort of emotional support. I feel that the last fifteen years of my life have been a waste.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i bring her up because what i sounds like is that you are feeling embarrassed because your partner made a choice that wasn't you in reality the choice they made wasn't about you, it was about them", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is not so much that - it is that I feel that I dedicated the majority of my adult life to this relationship and now there is nothing left.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you are left and you are enough. even if you dont feel like it right now you are enough", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I really do not feel like it right now. What was the last fifteen years all about? I wanted to have children with him and he refused but now I hear he is expecting a baby with another woman.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "a relationship is part of who you are. it isn't you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But it is very difficult to try to strike out on my own again and I do not know if I even want to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it is hard. it sucks. but the voyage through the suck is going to be better for you than you may realize right now", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But I feel that I am facing middle age on my own and I really do not want to do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you have survived 14 days without a bad relationship. keep on doing that day by day and before you know it, you will be on the other side of the bad feelings", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What happens if I just can't ever get over it though? Right now it's hard to see any sort of way through these feelings.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "What happens if I just can't ever get over it though? Right now it's hard to see any sort of way through these feelings.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00319", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_137", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing okay,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! What is the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00320", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_137", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing okay,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! What is the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So to make sure I understand, have you caught your partner cheating?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't actually caught him myself.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I haven't actually caught him myself.", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00321", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_137", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, I was wondering if I could talk to you about a problem.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there! My name is Rob, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing okay,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course! What is the problem?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My boyfriend has been cheating on me, He constantly denies it and I want to believe him, but my family also knows and thinks I need to end things.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So to make sure I understand, have you caught your partner cheating?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I haven't actually caught him myself.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Has someone told you they suspect he is cheating?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, My best friend and my sister have told me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is a horrible feeling when that seed has been planted in your head.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Exactly and he denies it. I just don't know what to do or who to believe.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Exactly and he denies it. I just don't know what to do or who to believe.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00322", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_138", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello, my name is Sue, how can I help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How is the friendship related to the break up can you please explain? Breakups are such a challenging thing to go through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00323", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_138", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good afternoon, Would you be able to assist me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello, my name is Sue, how can I help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I broke up with my partner 1 month ago and now I don't really want to meet with my friend anymore.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How is the friendship related to the break up can you please explain? Breakups are such a challenging thing to go through.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We had friends in common and I feel they liked her better than me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you went through a breakup, and feel that the friends you had in common prefer her to you, so you don't want to see your firends any more, am I understanding correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a fear they laughing at me behind my back, you know what I mean?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "do you have any evidence they are laughing at you or not liking you? or is it a feeling you have? I know sometimes I think someone feels a certain way about me, but if I ask them, it turns out not to be true, and it clears the air. Sometimes it's just in my own head.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know how to explain. I have a feeling everybody even on the street are laughing because of my breakup with partner.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i see but HAS anyone laughted at you? or told you they don't like you? or not responded when you have talked to them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, not really. I think it's just my feelings about it. Because you know my ex on a public was so perfect but nobody knows how she acted when we were alone...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i can relate to this. I went through a breakup a couple of years ago, and left town. Part of me is relieved I don't have to see those friends we had in common any more. I didn't want to be jiudged for leaving him. So I have experienced some similar feelings.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good you understand me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah yes, the public and private can be quite different sometimes for sure have you reached out to any of these friends to test the waters? maybe called or texted just to touch base and have a chat that's not emotionally loaded, about light topics? This might be a non-threatening way to test out how they are feelng about you. You might be pleasantly surprised, and find that goes well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "One friend offered me to go for a drink tonight but I haven't replied yet. And also I don't want to talk about my ex at all, that's what I am afraid he can ask.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "the other thing is these common friends might feel a bit awkard too about the situation. They have to figure out how to relate to you both on your own, it's a change of dynamics, so might take a bit of time to settle out. Can you tell your friend that you'd like to go out for a drink but that you don't feel comfortable talking about your ex at all? Would your friend respect your request if you made one do you think?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that's true. I believe he might understand me and accept my request. Would be quite challenging if we will meet my ex wth other friends in same pub. I live in a small town.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "oh I see, yes that could be awkward for sure. i think it's important you go out with your friend, but can understand your reluctance to run into your ex. Could you go out for coffee or lunch instead?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well that's would be quite strange as we usually meet only for drinks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah gotcha. So do you think you will accept or not? Or still need time to think about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will give it a go and see what happens. I will text you tomorrow to let you know how it went", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I will give it a go and see what happens. I will text you tomorrow to let you know how it went", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00324", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_139", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well I'm distraught", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Because my girlfriend has left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be really hard for you. I haven't personally had to deal with that, but I have had friends that have. How long were you together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "four years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Being together that long must have made that break up difficult. How are you coping with it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well I'm not really, especially as she'd gone off with someone else. But I'm to blame which makes it worse", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You do seem upset so that shows that you care! Do you mind me asking what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I cheated on her on a drunken night. It was a one-off and I regret it terribly. But she found out about it and left me without giving me a chance to explain.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see how she would be upset. It must be difficult for you though because she didn't give you another chance. Do you have someone to talk to about your feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, I'm not saying I deserved it just wish she had But no, not really. No-one who would understand", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would have wanted a second chance too if I were in your shoes. Is this affecting you really bad?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I feel so low", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah I feel so low", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00325", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_139", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well I'm distraught", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Because my girlfriend has left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be really hard for you. I haven't personally had to deal with that, but I have had friends that have. How long were you together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "four years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Being together that long must have made that break up difficult. How are you coping with it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well I'm not really, especially as she'd gone off with someone else. But I'm to blame which makes it worse", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You do seem upset so that shows that you care! Do you mind me asking what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I cheated on her on a drunken night. It was a one-off and I regret it terribly. But she found out about it and left me without giving me a chance to explain.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see how she would be upset. It must be difficult for you though because she didn't give you another chance. Do you have someone to talk to about your feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, I'm not saying I deserved it just wish she had But no, not really. No-one who would understand", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would have wanted a second chance too if I were in your shoes. Is this affecting you really bad?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I feel so low", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If your mood is affecting your daily activities, normally that means your mental health has been affected. You could always talk to a professional if it's hard for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it's difficult though, to open up", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "it's difficult though, to open up", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00326", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_139", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well I'm distraught", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why do you feel that way?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Because my girlfriend has left me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be really hard for you. I haven't personally had to deal with that, but I have had friends that have. How long were you together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "four years", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Being together that long must have made that break up difficult. How are you coping with it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "well I'm not really, especially as she'd gone off with someone else. But I'm to blame which makes it worse", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You do seem upset so that shows that you care! Do you mind me asking what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I cheated on her on a drunken night. It was a one-off and I regret it terribly. But she found out about it and left me without giving me a chance to explain.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see how she would be upset. It must be difficult for you though because she didn't give you another chance. Do you have someone to talk to about your feelings?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, I'm not saying I deserved it just wish she had But no, not really. No-one who would understand", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would have wanted a second chance too if I were in your shoes. Is this affecting you really bad?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I feel so low", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If your mood is affecting your daily activities, normally that means your mental health has been affected. You could always talk to a professional if it's hard for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "it's difficult though, to open up", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is. But trust me, it really helps. I've been seeing a therapist recently actually and I love it. I don't have to worry about judgement at all. It's a hard step but worth it in the end.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They won't think I'm to blame?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The job of the therapist isn't to figure out if what you did was wrong or right. It's to help you understand your feelings and better cope. That's why they are so great!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "oh yeah, that's a good point", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Would you like to talk anything else through?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No you've been helpful thanks", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No you've been helpful thanks", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00327", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_140", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing well. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am having a difficult time not being able to go out. I am an introvert and didn't think COVID-19 would be a problem but I find myself being short and impatient.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah i'm in the same boat. It's tough having to be cooped up.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How have you coped with it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How have you coped with it?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00328", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_141", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "whats on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been having problems with my friends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "having problems with friends can be frusterating", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They will not hangout with me because I will not get the vaccine. I do wear my mask and social distance but they still will not hangout.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "then they are not your friends it should be your choice and a true friend would support you rdecision", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We use to hangout all the time go to movies eat at each others houses. But snice I didn't get the vaccine yet they don't invite me anymore. I see on Facebook where they are meeting and having dinner.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "We use to hangout all the time go to movies eat at each others houses. But snice I didn't get the vaccine yet they don't invite me anymore. I see on Facebook where they are meeting and having dinner.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00329", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_141", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "whats on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been having problems with my friends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "having problems with friends can be frusterating", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They will not hangout with me because I will not get the vaccine. I do wear my mask and social distance but they still will not hangout.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "then they are not your friends it should be your choice and a true friend would support you rdecision", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We use to hangout all the time go to movies eat at each others houses. But snice I didn't get the vaccine yet they don't invite me anymore. I see on Facebook where they are meeting and having dinner.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "cdc reports 2,509 people died after getting the vaccine. that is 0.0017% but still too high for me", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm just afraid of the long term effects from it. We have nothing to go on and what if it causes cancer or something else. My friends think that is none sense and I just need to man up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "wonder.cdc.gov you can serahc for side effects. maybe if you show them data they will lay off y ou and let you come around according to the search page, its caused 64 abortions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's not a bad idea. I need to show them that because they all are prolife", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you are being smart. i am doing the same. wait to see what the long term effect are", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I was starting to worry I was the only one thinking like this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "22% of people get headaches most common is chills fatigue pain nausea why get a vaccine that gives you the same symptoms you are trying to avoid? lol", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "O wow that's crazy. I will need to show them that for sure. I need to ask them if they had any problems from it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "O wow that's crazy. I will need to show them that for sure. I need to ask them if they had any problems from it.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00330", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_141", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "whats on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been having problems with my friends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "having problems with friends can be frusterating", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They will not hangout with me because I will not get the vaccine. I do wear my mask and social distance but they still will not hangout.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "then they are not your friends it should be your choice and a true friend would support you rdecision", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We use to hangout all the time go to movies eat at each others houses. But snice I didn't get the vaccine yet they don't invite me anymore. I see on Facebook where they are meeting and having dinner.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "cdc reports 2,509 people died after getting the vaccine. that is 0.0017% but still too high for me", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm just afraid of the long term effects from it. We have nothing to go on and what if it causes cancer or something else. My friends think that is none sense and I just need to man up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "wonder.cdc.gov you can serahc for side effects. maybe if you show them data they will lay off y ou and let you come around according to the search page, its caused 64 abortions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's not a bad idea. I need to show them that because they all are prolife", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you are being smart. i am doing the same. wait to see what the long term effect are", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I was starting to worry I was the only one thinking like this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "22% of people get headaches most common is chills fatigue pain nausea why get a vaccine that gives you the same symptoms you are trying to avoid? lol", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "O wow that's crazy. I will need to show them that for sure. I need to ask them if they had any problems from it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "my coworker got hers this week. she had a headche, stomach ache and felt weak. maybe do a group chat so they call as see what sympotoms they all had maybe if they see it all out there, they will undersstand your position", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a really good idea. I think that may work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it can't hurt to try!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going to try that today forsure. I hope it helps them see where I am coming from.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am going to try that today forsure. I hope it helps them see where I am coming from.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00331", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_141", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "whats on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have been having problems with my friends.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "having problems with friends can be frusterating", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They will not hangout with me because I will not get the vaccine. I do wear my mask and social distance but they still will not hangout.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "then they are not your friends it should be your choice and a true friend would support you rdecision", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We use to hangout all the time go to movies eat at each others houses. But snice I didn't get the vaccine yet they don't invite me anymore. I see on Facebook where they are meeting and having dinner.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "cdc reports 2,509 people died after getting the vaccine. that is 0.0017% but still too high for me", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I'm just afraid of the long term effects from it. We have nothing to go on and what if it causes cancer or something else. My friends think that is none sense and I just need to man up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "wonder.cdc.gov you can serahc for side effects. maybe if you show them data they will lay off y ou and let you come around according to the search page, its caused 64 abortions", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's not a bad idea. I need to show them that because they all are prolife", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you are being smart. i am doing the same. wait to see what the long term effect are", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I was starting to worry I was the only one thinking like this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "22% of people get headaches most common is chills fatigue pain nausea why get a vaccine that gives you the same symptoms you are trying to avoid? lol", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "O wow that's crazy. I will need to show them that for sure. I need to ask them if they had any problems from it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "my coworker got hers this week. she had a headche, stomach ache and felt weak. maybe do a group chat so they call as see what sympotoms they all had maybe if they see it all out there, they will undersstand your position", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a really good idea. I think that may work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it can't hurt to try!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going to try that today forsure. I hope it helps them see where I am coming from.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it cant hurt, that is for sure what does your familythink?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes hopefully that will help them see where I come from. Then maybe they will let me hangout with masks They are ok with my choice.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well that is good!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes they are really supportive and we have zoom calls each Friday night.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes they are really supportive and we have zoom calls each Friday night.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00332", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_142", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello! How are you today?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00333", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_142", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, what seems to be on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Friends and our relationships amongst one another. Two are arguing and I want to help both. We only can facetime each other because of Corona and it is taking a toll among our group.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Friends and our relationships amongst one another. Two are arguing and I want to help both. We only can facetime each other because of Corona and it is taking a toll among our group.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00334", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_142", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, what seems to be on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Friends and our relationships amongst one another. Two are arguing and I want to help both. We only can facetime each other because of Corona and it is taking a toll among our group.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. How long have your two friends been arguing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It has been around 4 months now. It started slowly and now has ramped up to where it's exploding and causing discourse among us all. One of my friends told a secret to another acquaintance outside of our group. My friend is raging over this which she should. trust was broken.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It has been around 4 months now. It started slowly and now has ramped up to where it's exploding and causing discourse among us all. One of my friends told a secret to another acquaintance outside of our group. My friend is raging over this which she should. trust was broken.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00335", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_142", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! How are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, what seems to be on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Friends and our relationships amongst one another. Two are arguing and I want to help both. We only can facetime each other because of Corona and it is taking a toll among our group.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I see. How long have your two friends been arguing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It has been around 4 months now. It started slowly and now has ramped up to where it's exploding and causing discourse among us all. One of my friends told a secret to another acquaintance outside of our group. My friend is raging over this which she should. trust was broken.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like tempers are all running pretty hot for everyone right now, is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I believe in forgiveness, and the friend that told is very remorseful How do I help them?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, it sounds like you are in a tough spot since both your friends are so mad at each other. Why do you think your one friends shared a secret they were supposed to keep?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The acquaintance knew something of the secret because she had experienced this before. I think my friend was more-so trying to help my other friend, not betray her. She went outside the group but not for spitrful reasons i think.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think I understand. Sometimes we accidentally hurt the people we love when we are trying to help.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I want one friend to know that the other was trying to hel and nothurt, but did not think clearly when deciding where to get help from. How do I make her understand this?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it is great that you want to actively help, it says a lot about you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks! What should I say to her?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes the best way to help someone understand is to give them a little time and space. Trying to force someone to understand doesn't always work. Sometimes the best way to help someone understand is to give them a little time and space. Trying to force someone to understand doesn't always work.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think this can be good because she IS a little hot headed. Goos advice! I think I will tell everyonr in our circle to fall back and let her come to us when she is ready.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think this can be good because she IS a little hot headed. Goos advice! I think I will tell everyonr in our circle to fall back and let her come to us when she is ready.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00336", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_143", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think?", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00337", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_143", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not so good. I have conspiracy theorist as a friend who is now mad at me because I told her to pull up her mask while talking to me. We have been friends for 13 years I am hurt and confused that she still thinks this is a game. She thought Corona was fake until someone we know caught it. It is like she is mad she was wrong and is taking it out and lashing out at those who have been trying to persuade her the whole time... what do you think?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend? It sounds like you care a lot about your friend and others. How old is your friend?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She is 44! Too old for all this nonsense. She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated. She is all to careless.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "She is 44! Too old for all this nonsense. She has a short temper.......I think I am going to have to separate myself from her for the duration of the virus and the cure. I cannot talk to her again unless she agrees to get vaccinated. She is all to careless.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00338", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_144", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi help to solve my problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "hi help to solve my problem", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00339", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_144", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi help to solve my problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine. What about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is bothering you today that I may be able to help with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my close friend made a mistake. she scolded for it and not speak to me at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "my close friend made a mistake. she scolded for it and not speak to me at all", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00340", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_144", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi help to solve my problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine. What about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is bothering you today that I may be able to help with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my close friend made a mistake. she scolded for it and not speak to me at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe she misunderstood what you meant?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I told her not to make a mistake and advised her. but she refused it and scolded me Also she behaved that as if I commited a mistake", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you were too direct with your answer and she could not process the impact.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just helped her only but she refused me and hurt me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I just helped her only but she refused me and hurt me", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00341", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_144", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi help to solve my problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine. What about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is bothering you today that I may be able to help with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my close friend made a mistake. she scolded for it and not speak to me at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe she misunderstood what you meant?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I told her not to make a mistake and advised her. but she refused it and scolded me Also she behaved that as if I commited a mistake", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you were too direct with your answer and she could not process the impact.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just helped her only but she refused me and hurt me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "All people cannot be helped directly, maybe a subtle lead would have helped.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I will tell all the facts about it. but she cant believe me and hurt me more and it make me more emotion ok. I will try to recover from this situationm", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No, I will tell all the facts about it. but she cant believe me and hurt me more and it make me more emotion ok. I will try to recover from this situationm", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00342", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_144", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi help to solve my problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "fine. What about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is bothering you today that I may be able to help with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my close friend made a mistake. she scolded for it and not speak to me at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe she misunderstood what you meant?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I told her not to make a mistake and advised her. but she refused it and scolded me Also she behaved that as if I commited a mistake", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you were too direct with your answer and she could not process the impact.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just helped her only but she refused me and hurt me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "All people cannot be helped directly, maybe a subtle lead would have helped.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I will tell all the facts about it. but she cant believe me and hurt me more and it make me more emotion ok. I will try to recover from this situationm", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why did she feel so repulsed by your answer?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Since she is close friend for more than20years, I cant tolerate it because she didn't accept her mistake I tend to rectify her mistake but she didn';t accept my voices at all", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Since she is close friend for more than20years, I cant tolerate it because she didn't accept her mistake I tend to rectify her mistake but she didn';t accept my voices at all", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00343", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_145", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi! How are you tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing okay", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's good to hear.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing great, thank you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You're welcome", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything that you wanted to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ya, I just feel down recently", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorrry to hear. that. Is there any reason for it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My best friend and I constantly argue", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's so hard. Was there any cause for the arguing or is it just general tension?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She hates who I'm dating and wants me to leave him", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "THat's so hard. My best friend hated my ex boyfriend as well and we always fought about it. I tried really hard to understand where she was coming from. IN the end, she was right about somethings. What was really helpful for me, was having us all spend time together so she could get to know him.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok I will give that a try. He's very good to me and I care deeply for him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You should try setting up a fun day for them where they can get to know each other.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a great idea! Like bowling?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Bowling is gret!! would your best friend be open ot it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes she would", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's great!!! this way you can keep them both in your life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Okay we will try bowling. Thank you for the help", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Okay we will try bowling. Thank you for the help", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00344", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_147", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay, thanks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you’d like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00345", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_147", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay, thanks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you’d like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. So you’re missing them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I honestly believe we all go through that. I think it’s especially difficult with divorce.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Friends are so important to me also. Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that’s difficult. You’re married?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. I am married. My husband and I are fine. We've actually grown closer despite all of this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I sure miss my friends.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, me too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, me too.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00346", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_147", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay, thanks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you’d like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. So you’re missing them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I honestly believe we all go through that. I think it’s especially difficult with divorce.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Friends are so important to me also. Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that’s difficult. You’re married?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. I am married. My husband and I are fine. We've actually grown closer despite all of this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I sure miss my friends.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, me too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00347", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_147", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay, thanks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything you’d like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, lately my friends have been going through divorces and many have moved away.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, you’ve lost friends. I know how that feels. So you’re missing them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's very sad and a difficult situation because my husband is friends with some of the husbands and I am friends with the wives.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I honestly believe we all go through that. I think it’s especially difficult with divorce.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I never thought I would to this extent. The pandemic created so much stress for people.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Friends are so important to me also. Do you thing the covid crisis has caused more divorces?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Right. It's tragic to see so many going through divorces and separations at the same time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It’s certainly more difficult to make new friends now.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have 4 sets of friends divorcing and they all separated after March 2020. It is. Nothing is open anymore and so many people are guarded.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Wow, that’s difficult. You’re married?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is. And 3 of my friends are moving home to be with family who all live out of state and far away. I am married. My husband and I are fine. We've actually grown closer despite all of this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I sure miss my friends.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, me too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That’s wonderful, I am closer to my spouse now also.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's good. It seems this crisis is either a divider or a unifier. There's no in between.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you considered new activities, like hobbies?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have been going to the gym more. I am training to run a 7 minute mile.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I learned how to how to bake sourdough bread for instance.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I love sourdough bread. I should learn how to do that too. Well thank you for the friendly chat. I appreciate your suggestions and support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "One other thing, many insurance companies are providing chat via computer with counseling.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's good to know. I should look into that. Thanks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's good to know. I should look into that. Thanks.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00348", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_148", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sad How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am ok. Been a busy day. More importantly your upset; what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You mentioned that she died a while back. Has something stirred up the sadness recently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because it's close to her death", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "because it's close to her death", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00349", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_148", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sad How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am ok. Been a busy day. More importantly your upset; what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You mentioned that she died a while back. Has something stirred up the sadness recently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because it's close to her death", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh. The anniversary. You made it clear you were close to her. Tell me about her. What was she like? What did she mean to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "She gave you a lot of meaning and filled your time fondly. I am taking it that after she passed you probably felt empty and lately it has been getting worse?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that. My best friend died a few years ago and he was like my brother. Still does feel empty not having him around.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I take it that the loss was sudden and it was a shock to your system. So how have you been managing the sadness and grief since it happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like your family is being supportive of you and you have a network. It seems to me that you really put a great deal of mental energy and fortitude into taking care of yourself. Is there anything else that could help you get thru this rough patch you can think of?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can think of a few. Physical activity even walking really helps people who are feeling down. But it does not work for everyone. I also know there are grief support groups but I do not know if they are open with the pandemic and everything. I also know that there are a lot of mental health services available for professional counselling if things are too much. I also heard that having things to do to fill your schedule helps like work or small projects to fill the day up. What do you think would work best for you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00350", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_148", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I'm sad How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am ok. Been a busy day. More importantly your upset; what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Good for you. My friend died few years ago. And it's so difficult for me She was close to me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You mentioned that she died a while back. Has something stirred up the sadness recently?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "because it's close to her death", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh. The anniversary. You made it clear you were close to her. Tell me about her. What was she like? What did she mean to you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She was my good friend. Always take caring of me and I the same way. We lived close to each other so we always hang out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "She gave you a lot of meaning and filled your time fondly. I am taking it that after she passed you probably felt empty and lately it has been getting worse?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it's true. It had happened with me she was like my sister", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand that. My best friend died a few years ago and he was like my brother. Still does feel empty not having him around.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, one day she was there with me and the next day she wasn't. It's so hard for anyone I know that time it's the only way to move on however it's so difficult for me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I take it that the loss was sudden and it was a shock to your system. So how have you been managing the sadness and grief since it happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try going out with my family and friend. Avoiding things that we used to do together trying little by little", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like your family is being supportive of you and you have a network. It seems to me that you really put a great deal of mental energy and fortitude into taking care of yourself. Is there anything else that could help you get thru this rough patch you can think of?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't know. Do you hav e any ideas?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can think of a few. Physical activity even walking really helps people who are feeling down. But it does not work for everyone. I also know there are grief support groups but I do not know if they are open with the pandemic and everything. I also know that there are a lot of mental health services available for professional counselling if things are too much. I also heard that having things to do to fill your schedule helps like work or small projects to fill the day up. What do you think would work best for you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Probably will be difficult to find one now. I'll try fill my schedule so I always have something to do. And my mind won't be thinking so much of my friend", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What things to you like to do that would benefit you to fill your schedule?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Exercise, watching, a movie, play games,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you have a toolbox of things you can do to stay busy to get you through this. You seem to have solved this problem for yourself. That is a strength right there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I think so Thank you You helped me a lot", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Anytime. Stay safe and live well. -KJ the nurse", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. bye", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you. bye", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00351", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_149", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00352", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_149", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a really tough thing to deal with. It can be hard to be confronted with a different, unexpected side from a trusted friend.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And I had this guy as my best man for my wedding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps you can try reasoning with him. I'm certain that your judgement in friendships is not flawed and although he has made quite the yikes choice, he still has redeemable qualities. Especially if he wasn't making his political viewpoint known until recently. It leans towards the idea that with the right information, he'll understand that Trump is a big loser and he lost lmao", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried but he says that he's sick and tired of Facebook and Twitter putting a muzzle on Trump and ever since he's been on Parler he now knows the truth It's like he doesn't believe science anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I tried but he says that he's sick and tired of Facebook and Twitter putting a muzzle on Trump and ever since he's been on Parler he now knows the truth It's like he doesn't believe science anymore", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00353", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_149", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a really tough thing to deal with. It can be hard to be confronted with a different, unexpected side from a trusted friend.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And I had this guy as my best man for my wedding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps you can try reasoning with him. I'm certain that your judgement in friendships is not flawed and although he has made quite the yikes choice, he still has redeemable qualities. Especially if he wasn't making his political viewpoint known until recently. It leans towards the idea that with the right information, he'll understand that Trump is a big loser and he lost lmao", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried but he says that he's sick and tired of Facebook and Twitter putting a muzzle on Trump and ever since he's been on Parler he now knows the truth It's like he doesn't believe science anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Consider directing him to news sources that are not Twitter or Facebook, though I know this is hard to do. it is just a teensy bit funny he thinks that Trump is being muzzled on twitter when they are not deleting any of his tweets.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah he thinks it's wrong that Twitter is flagging his tweets and he's mad that Facebook are taking down these groups that he feels are telling the truth", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah he thinks it's wrong that Twitter is flagging his tweets and he's mad that Facebook are taking down these groups that he feels are telling the truth", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00354", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_149", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a really tough thing to deal with. It can be hard to be confronted with a different, unexpected side from a trusted friend.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And I had this guy as my best man for my wedding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps you can try reasoning with him. I'm certain that your judgement in friendships is not flawed and although he has made quite the yikes choice, he still has redeemable qualities. Especially if he wasn't making his political viewpoint known until recently. It leans towards the idea that with the right information, he'll understand that Trump is a big loser and he lost lmao", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried but he says that he's sick and tired of Facebook and Twitter putting a muzzle on Trump and ever since he's been on Parler he now knows the truth It's like he doesn't believe science anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Consider directing him to news sources that are not Twitter or Facebook, though I know this is hard to do. it is just a teensy bit funny he thinks that Trump is being muzzled on twitter when they are not deleting any of his tweets.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah he thinks it's wrong that Twitter is flagging his tweets and he's mad that Facebook are taking down these groups that he feels are telling the truth", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "This seems like a very sudden reaction from him, from what I've gathered, seeing as how it took you by surprise. Is there anything going on his life that may have put him into a negative mindset? Perhaps he's having problems in a relationship or at work that is leading him to rabbit holes on the internet.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He just got furloughed. Maybe like 3 weeks ago", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. He might be struggling with that and looking to shift his negative feelings onto another issue, one that has the support of many. It could be providing him comfort to be angry at the suppression of Twitter rather than coming to terms with his own turmoil. I think talking to him about his job status might be a start in reasoning his new outlook.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I dunno. How do you think I should approach him about that? He's sort of touchy about the whole subject.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Gently. It's never a good idea to press the issue, especially if it seems like he's trying to avoid it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, it just seems whenever I try to chat about anything it just ends up in an agrument.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps you should implore the help of somebody else in his life. I understand wanting to help your friend, especially when it's negatively impacting your own mental health, but there's only so much one person can do. You both deserve to be in a good head space and asking for help is okay.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I guess you're right. I suppose I can talk to his wife about it but I'm not sure how to bring it up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sure she might already be concerned as well. It might be easier than you expect. If he's consistently getting in arguments with you, it's likely that he's stuck in a negative haze and it might be affecting his other relationships.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's true but I don't want to make this more complicated that it should be. But I used to date his wife so I'm sure in his state of mind, how he would take it if it were the two of us bringing this up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's true but I don't want to make this more complicated that it should be. But I used to date his wife so I'm sure in his state of mind, how he would take it if it were the two of us bringing this up.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00355", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_149", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm fine. How are you? Is there any issue I can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I'm really depressed. I just found out my buddy of 20 years is now posting that he believes Trump and that the election is being stolen from him. I thought I knew him but now I don't know.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's a really tough thing to deal with. It can be hard to be confronted with a different, unexpected side from a trusted friend.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And I had this guy as my best man for my wedding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps you can try reasoning with him. I'm certain that your judgement in friendships is not flawed and although he has made quite the yikes choice, he still has redeemable qualities. Especially if he wasn't making his political viewpoint known until recently. It leans towards the idea that with the right information, he'll understand that Trump is a big loser and he lost lmao", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried but he says that he's sick and tired of Facebook and Twitter putting a muzzle on Trump and ever since he's been on Parler he now knows the truth It's like he doesn't believe science anymore", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Consider directing him to news sources that are not Twitter or Facebook, though I know this is hard to do. it is just a teensy bit funny he thinks that Trump is being muzzled on twitter when they are not deleting any of his tweets.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah he thinks it's wrong that Twitter is flagging his tweets and he's mad that Facebook are taking down these groups that he feels are telling the truth", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "This seems like a very sudden reaction from him, from what I've gathered, seeing as how it took you by surprise. Is there anything going on his life that may have put him into a negative mindset? Perhaps he's having problems in a relationship or at work that is leading him to rabbit holes on the internet.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He just got furloughed. Maybe like 3 weeks ago", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. He might be struggling with that and looking to shift his negative feelings onto another issue, one that has the support of many. It could be providing him comfort to be angry at the suppression of Twitter rather than coming to terms with his own turmoil. I think talking to him about his job status might be a start in reasoning his new outlook.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I dunno. How do you think I should approach him about that? He's sort of touchy about the whole subject.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Gently. It's never a good idea to press the issue, especially if it seems like he's trying to avoid it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, it just seems whenever I try to chat about anything it just ends up in an agrument.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Perhaps you should implore the help of somebody else in his life. I understand wanting to help your friend, especially when it's negatively impacting your own mental health, but there's only so much one person can do. You both deserve to be in a good head space and asking for help is okay.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah I guess you're right. I suppose I can talk to his wife about it but I'm not sure how to bring it up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sure she might already be concerned as well. It might be easier than you expect. If he's consistently getting in arguments with you, it's likely that he's stuck in a negative haze and it might be affecting his other relationships.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's true but I don't want to make this more complicated that it should be. But I used to date his wife so I'm sure in his state of mind, how he would take it if it were the two of us bringing this up.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Try having a private conversation with her and don't ask her to talk to him, merely push her in that direction. It's less plotting and more seeing her point of view as well.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok I see, good point. Anyway you gave me a lot to think about. I appreciate your help.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Ok I see, good point. Anyway you gave me a lot to think about. I appreciate your help.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00356", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_150", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good Evening How is it going this evening ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing pretty well. There's a beautiful sunset out my window. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am doing pretty well. There's a beautiful sunset out my window. How are you?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00357", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_151", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel terrible right now,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My friends have been leaving me out of Christmas parties. I saw on Facebook my best friend didn't invite me to his Christmas party.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your friends have been leaving you out of christmas parties is that correct? You knew nothing about the parties?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. My best friend didn't invite me to his party. I think its because I always wear mask and try to obey the CDC guidelines.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand how you are feeling i would feel the same way They should not be having christmas parties right now with the Covid going around bad I would not feel bad or terrible about it because you are doing the right thing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yea it just hurts being left out. He is my best friend and I am not sure what to do. I feel like I need to talk to him abou tit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes you should talk to him about it and see why he did not invite you I hope they was wearing a mask and staying 6 feet at the party", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I saw photos and they were not wearing masks. In one way I'm glad I did not go. I also think he put a lot of people at risk. How should I bring this up?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would just be straight forward and tell him you saw the photos of his christmas party Either way if you did know about the party it would not be best if you go just for your safety", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Should I talk about him putting others at risk?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes I believe you should talk to him about that to because he was putting everyone at risk", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Should I do it over txt, Phone, or in person?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Should I do it over txt, Phone, or in person?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00358", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_151", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello How may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel terrible right now,", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "why?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My friends have been leaving me out of Christmas parties. I saw on Facebook my best friend didn't invite me to his Christmas party.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your friends have been leaving you out of christmas parties is that correct? You knew nothing about the parties?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. My best friend didn't invite me to his party. I think its because I always wear mask and try to obey the CDC guidelines.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand how you are feeling i would feel the same way They should not be having christmas parties right now with the Covid going around bad I would not feel bad or terrible about it because you are doing the right thing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yea it just hurts being left out. He is my best friend and I am not sure what to do. I feel like I need to talk to him abou tit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes you should talk to him about it and see why he did not invite you I hope they was wearing a mask and staying 6 feet at the party", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I saw photos and they were not wearing masks. In one way I'm glad I did not go. I also think he put a lot of people at risk. How should I bring this up?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would just be straight forward and tell him you saw the photos of his christmas party Either way if you did know about the party it would not be best if you go just for your safety", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Should I talk about him putting others at risk?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes I believe you should talk to him about that to because he was putting everyone at risk", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Should I do it over txt, Phone, or in person?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "which ever is more comfortable for you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok so txt would be ok then.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes and just talk to him about how you feeling and see what he has to say", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you so much. I'm going to do that tonight and see how it goes.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "your welcome i hope it goes good and he listens", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you have a great night and a Merry Christmas!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you have a great night and a Merry Christmas!", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00359", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_152", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships? Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No I did not, can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, I would like to be able to help you but do not know what the problem is right now", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00360", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_152", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships? Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No I did not, can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, I would like to be able to help you but do not know what the problem is right now", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah I see .. you feel as though you friend is dragging up things from the past which are no longer relevant to your friendship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, not at all. It's new stuff.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No, not at all. It's new stuff.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00361", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_152", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships? Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No I did not, can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, I would like to be able to help you but do not know what the problem is right now", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah I see .. you feel as though you friend is dragging up things from the past which are no longer relevant to your friendship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, not at all. It's new stuff.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I am sorry, I misunderstood. Can you tell me a little about the situation?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is it that he wants you to apologise for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00362", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_152", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, how is life treating you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, not too bad, thanks. And you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay but feeling a little down at the moment. Is there anything that you'd like to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sorry to hear you're down... I'm definitely tired of this pandemic! Trying to keep in touch with messages and phone calls can help... Except I guess not anymore with this one friend...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything specific getting you down? How are things in your work and your personal relationships? Oh I am sorry to hear that .. you are having a problem with a close friend?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, did you see the problem I originally wrote about?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No I did not, can you tell me about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh! You don't get to see the text of the problem? That's strange... I'll cut and paste it here: Oops - that's not allowed. Okay - let me input it again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, I would like to be able to help you but do not know what the problem is right now", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have this friend who is now on the opposite coast. We were out of touch for 15 years, but recently reconnected. We've been texting. But now he's demanding an apology, and it's completely unreasonable...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah I see .. you feel as though you friend is dragging up things from the past which are no longer relevant to your friendship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, not at all. It's new stuff.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I am sorry, I misunderstood. Can you tell me a little about the situation?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We've been texting about politics, among other things. And we completely agree on the subject - that's not the issue. But I put up with his sort of acerbic wit - I ignore little put-downs, because I know that's just him...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is it that he wants you to apologise for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But recently, he was talking as if he was having symptoms as a result of having had COVID previously. So I asked, Oh, you had a positive COVID test? I didn't say it like I was challenging him - I just hadn't heard this before.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "ah I see. I have had problems and sometime negative interactions about Covid with some friends too. I think it's a very difficult time for everybody; we are all feeling the strain and might be more irritable than previously Can you see any way in which you can work around it and be friends again?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes - he's always irritable! ha ha. So instead of answering, he launched into this thing about how COVID antibodies disappear, so the tests are pointless. I know there are some issues with the various tests. As it happens, I have a PhD in immunology, so I know a lot about this stuff... Yes - I want to be friends! It's not me...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think that the tests are very necessary! Also social distancing and mask wearing at this time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "He started saying things that are just factually not correct. I get that the immune system is super complicated, and most people don't know much about it. But when I'd try to explain some things to him, he acted like I couldn't possibly know anything he didn't, after reading one Forbes article, and he started making personal attacks.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think that perhaps you do not need this toxic person in your life. After fifteen years without him do you really feel you need to stay r reconciled?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't need him, no... But he's funny, and I don't have too many people in my life right now. I just moved to a new state where I literally know no one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't need him, no... But he's funny, and I don't have too many people in my life right now. I just moved to a new state where I literally know no one.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00363", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_153", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how may i help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello: Thanks for offering to help. My friend Mark is suffering from bi-polar disorder, and despite being on medication, is spiraling out of control. His mood swings are affecting his ability to stay employed and keep friends and family from wanting to interact with him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am so sorry about your friend mark. I will try my best to help you today. Is your friend mark behavior affecting you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I suspect he's not taking his medication as prescribed. He's become a sociopath, which I understand is common with people suffering from this disorder. He's unable to be empathic or sympathetic to anyone else's life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "To confirm your friend mark, you suspect he is not taking his medicine and that is why he is acting the way he is?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is affecting me. In sum, I'm the only one left in his corner, but I feel like he's slipping away and becoming completely dysfunctional. It's tough with privacy laws for me to even talk to his doctor to see what's going on. I did send his doctor a long email, however, so hopefully he'll make whatever adjustments need to be made. That's my suspicion, because things seem to be getting worse, quite honestly.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you talked to mark about his behavior and how it is affecting everyone around him? I can understand how you feeling and that you are trying to help your friend. you are a very good friend for doing that.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have talked to him repeatedly. Each time, he assures me that he understands my concerns and that he's going to get things together. Literally, within a day or two, I hear from a mutual friend or family member that he's reverted back to doing things that are sociopathic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you asked him about him taking his medication?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have. He tells me that he's taking it regularly (or most of the time). I challenged him on it and told him it can't be \"most of the time.\" That's why I sent his doctor a long email, explaining things to him, to see if he can't intervene and try to straighten him out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "ok. dealing with someone with bi-polar disorder can be really tough and challenging but it is not there fault that they are acting the way they are. They just honestly can not help it. I know you are doing everything you can to help him and to stop him from acting that way.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You're right. Mental illness, in all of its forms, is especially challenging. Physical illness is more easy to understand, of course.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you are right. So do not think he is doing it on purpose. Do not let it bring you down or hurt your feelings in anyway. When did this exactly start happening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I think you understand the sadness and anxiety in feeling powerless in this situation (or mostly powerless). I have no real expertise in this area, but by contacting his doctor, maybe he can reevaluate whether the medicine and dosage needs to be changed. Funny you ask. He's a grown man - 35-years old. I've never known him to have this issue, which seems so strange to me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand a lot.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It started about 14 months ago - at least that's when people started alerting me to strange behavior. I thought people who were bi-polar contracted the illness earlier in their life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How long have you known about his bi polar diorder?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Around 10 months ago is when I first found out. Since then, I've received about 5 phone calls from people expressing concern. I've visited him 3 times. Thanks for being so engaged and sympathetic. It does make me feel better just to unload anonymously on here. Thanks for carrying my burden and offering your support.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i got you. having a mental illness is challenging and i can provide you some suggestions.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Before we end the conversation, I'd love hearing a few of those suggestions, if you don't mind.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "ok. just be there for him no matter what because you know he can not help it. Be understanding of his mental illness. i would be active in his treatment and make sure he knows to take medicine.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. You've been great. Have a nice holiday and new year! Those are two things I've tried to keep in mind and you've reinforced my instincts. Thanks again.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you. You've been great. Have a nice holiday and new year! Those are two things I've tried to keep in mind and you've reinforced my instincts. Thanks again.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00364", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_155", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im feeling pretty sad today", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "im feeling pretty sad today", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00365", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_155", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "im feeling pretty sad today", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i am sorry to hear that, would you like to talk about what is bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "its about me and my friend got fight for misunderstanding", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like your feelings are hurt over a misunderstanding you had with a friend is this correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah thats correct", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah thats correct", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00366", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_156", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could be better. How about U?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well. Whats bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "A friend screwed me out of money and a business venture. I am no longer friends with her. We were really close before this.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no! I am so sorry that has happened to you. That must feel like such a betrayal. Can you tell me more about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It does. I've known her for 14 years and we dated. I invested a lot of money in a business she wanted to do. She took the money and ran.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Dating can definitely complicate things.. Oh my gosh..... that is horrible. Surely there is something you can do to try to get your money back.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What do you suggest?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Did you sign anything? or have proof of what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No. Other than the money I transferred to her. Hello?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What was the business? It depends on your location but I'm sure just on the transaction alone that shows some kind of intent. or text messages saying it was for a specific purpose?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "A cat cafe. Where you can hang out and work or drink with adoptable cats from the local shelter.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you gave her a large amount of money and have any kind of messages about it I would look into trying to get it back.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I gave her 80K. No messages. It was all done in person. Do you think I should get a lawyer and call the cops?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would seek the advice of a lawyer. I'm sorry this has happened thats horrible.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is. I don't want to go to the police. I think they are all corrupt and raciest.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would say 80K is worth speaking to a lawyer about it. I'm sorry you are so conflicted. I would not call the police because you willingly gave it to her. I would hire a lawyer to handle it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's great advice. I will do that. I have a mutual friend that is a lawyer.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's great advice. I will do that. I have a mutual friend that is a lawyer.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00367", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_157", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hey", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00368", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_157", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you share the dilemma you are having?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done. Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though. Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all. I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00369", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_157", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hey", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How ae you feeling today? Is there anything you need to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel drained, honestly. I'd love to talk about my current dilemma in my friend circle.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Can you share the dilemma you are having?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Basically. This has happened for as long as I can remember, even back when I was a little kid. Any friend i've ever had has just used me for SOME gain. Whether that be boredom, money, or an emotional support pillow. I'm so sick of it. They'll literally ignore me for months and randomly text me for money. If i respond theyll read my messages then ignore me until they need money again. Or, they'll use me to throw alllll their problems onto me and never do the same for me. In some way shape or form- every person I become friends with uses me and throws me away when theyre done. Sometimes I feel like it must be me. Maybe i',m annoying? This happens so often the common denominator is ME. But i'm friendly, im assertive, im out spoken, im kind. I don't LET people walk all over me but it seems like that;s all I attract.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel under valued in your relationships because people tend to take advantage of you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty much. it just happens every single time. It's kind of discouraging and just makes me an angry person", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this is really bothering you. It is good that you are talking about it though. Have you tried telling them how they make you feel?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Some of them. The others I never even get a chance because they just ignore my existence anytime I try and reach out to talk. I've just been waiting for them to pour their problems onto me or have the nerve to ask for money. Then i'll tell them. I already know they won't respond but atleast ill say my peace", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "After you tell them how you feel do you still give them money or listen to what's going on and try to help them.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No. Whenever I do get to say my peace, i'll just cut contact completely. Lately i've been holding it in and just barely responding if at all. I've told one of them that i have no money and she hasn't contacted me since. But if she tries again i'll say something about the issue. I don't like feeling used. Who even has the nerve to blatantly use somebody like that? It's irritating", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's good that you let them know how you feel. By doing that, you are taking the first step in now allowing them to take advantage of you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Agreed. I just hope that one day I can meet people and form actual friendships with them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's really hard to stand up for yourself but it sounds like you are off to a good start. Have you taken any steps in trying to form new more meaningful relationships", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I thought I did. My husband and I made a couple friends. Theyre a couple and so are we so we go on double dates but they seem more drawn to him. Me and the other girl got very close and then boom she randomly decided she only wants to talk to me when shes mad or bored", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So feel that this new couple might value the friendship with your husband more then you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah it seems that way. Most people like him more than me and it's weird because he sucks at socializing and doesn't even like them that much It just doens't make sense but that's just the way the ca rds were dealt", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I used to have a hard time forming a meaningful relationship but then I realized it's because I had nothing in common with the people I was trying to form them with. Once I discovered something I was really drawn to I met people that way like volunteering in my community. Have you tried finding people you have more in common with.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's actually a great idea! I guess i don't know myself well enough or have any distinct hobbies that would draw me to anybody in particular. It's been great talking with you!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's actually a great idea! I guess i don't know myself well enough or have any distinct hobbies that would draw me to anybody in particular. It's been great talking with you!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00370", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_158", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hi how are you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. I am doing well. How are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "my friend stood me up and i went alone on a trip she was to go with me. I eneded up flipping all the cost and she is bad mouthing me she stood me up because she was drunk she has a drinking problem not good since i told her that drinking is more important to her now she is talking bad about me but she is the one with the problem.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are very stressed out by the situation. Have you explained to her that her excessive drinking is causing problems?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes but i am the bad one she turns everything around", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00371", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_159", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi solution provider !", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Today those things have gone and all are fine. When we happen to think of the old experience everyone is not satisfied and feeling anger .", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are angry about what happen in the past hello, are you still there.?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "good", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "All of us feel the same way.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "All of us feel the same way.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00372", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_159", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi solution provider !", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello, how are you doing today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Today those things have gone and all are fine. When we happen to think of the old experience everyone is not satisfied and feeling anger .", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are angry about what happen in the past hello, are you still there.?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "good", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "All of us feel the same way.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so what is bordering you about the past? yes, i feel the sdasme way too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We had not thought of such a difference between us.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, so many differences", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nowadays, we only chat on and not try to go out. That makes us excited and enjoyed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hmmm, that sounds fun", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But it seems boring and thinking of making a plan that suits all. Do you have some experience of going tour with friends, so that I can get some idea from you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yea that will be boring on the long run, just try and mix it up we always love going out to a place we have never been before", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We do plan to have one kind of interest and those who want to join may join. This is the strategy we think will work out. But if having some pre notion we can be careful of it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it a good strategy, just make sure you research well about where you wanted to visit before making the trip", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Exactly, that is the idea behind this. 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When we happen to think of the old experience everyone is not satisfied and feeling anger .", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are angry about what happen in the past hello, are you still there.?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "good", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "All of us feel the same way.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so what is bordering you about the past? yes, i feel the sdasme way too", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We had not thought of such a difference between us.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, so many differences", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nowadays, we only chat on and not try to go out. That makes us excited and enjoyed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hmmm, that sounds fun", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But it seems boring and thinking of making a plan that suits all. 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I understand that, are you able to go over there.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no i dont live in the same city anymore when i go out of town i can visit but with covid19 rules", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well I can see that you have put the effort in to try and keep the relationship so it sounds like the ball is in their court if they want to do the same.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well that is about all that can be done and wait for them to come around...Do you have any hobbies?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i like to read and play music", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I like to go on runs every morning. It helps to clear my mind and makes it easier to brush things off when they bother me. 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I'm sure they will come around.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i think i would start off walking i am not in shape to run yes i will give them time maybe stop reaching out so much", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That may be a good idea. Good talk", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes thank you for talking with me and giving great advice", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "to them and may find out that it was never anything against you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes maybe everyone is stressed at some level thanks to covid19", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I sometimes get ahead of myself and try to figure out what is going on and thinking that it was something I did. You are right too. COVID has stressed everyone out to the max. It has been a crazy year I am glad that it is almost over.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes i hope next year bring blessings for everyone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sure it will. Is there anything else I can help you with today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no that was all thanks for speaking with me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No problem, I hope everything works out for you and your friends. Have a great New Year!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "you to and thanks", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Good day!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "good bye", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "good bye", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00380", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_161", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I believe we are supposed to talk about my description", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have something bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nothing really I only stated the incident with my friend How are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm hear to listen to you in case there is something you would like to get off your chest and maybe give some advice or support.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Okay are you female or male? or how do you identify? I ask because i would want to hear your opinion on why girls pick unecessary fights for no reason with their friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am a 65 year old female with lots of experience with children and grandchildren.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh that is great Nice to make your acquaintance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It happens a lot that girls pick fights with their friends and it ends up hurting, right? My experience is that girls pick fights with whoever they feel safe with. Very strange but my grandchildren told me that they yell at me and take out their bad day on me because they know I will always love them no matter what.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Really? I do not understand the insecurities in this case", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Really? I do not understand the insecurities in this case", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00381", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_161", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi there. How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I believe we are supposed to talk about my description", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have something bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Nothing really I only stated the incident with my friend How are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm hear to listen to you in case there is something you would like to get off your chest and maybe give some advice or support.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Okay are you female or male? or how do you identify? I ask because i would want to hear your opinion on why girls pick unecessary fights for no reason with their friends", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am a 65 year old female with lots of experience with children and grandchildren.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Oh that is great Nice to make your acquaintance", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It happens a lot that girls pick fights with their friends and it ends up hurting, right? My experience is that girls pick fights with whoever they feel safe with. Very strange but my grandchildren told me that they yell at me and take out their bad day on me because they know I will always love them no matter what.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Really? I do not understand the insecurities in this case", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Really. What happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Few months ago she picked a fight with another of our friend for no reason Now its my turn", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How do you think you should handle it? Did something happen in her life and she's taking it out on you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "And for some reason when this happens she expects you to come crawling asking her what you did wrong when infact you did nothing. she would start recalling what happened 5years ago I really do not know or understand how she processes things She recently had a baby and we where fine through out the pregnancy stretch, up untill the last month she stopped responding to me. the baby will be months soon and no word from her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sounds like she's having some issues and she's not happy and taking it out on you. I'm sure that makes you feel like the bad person here.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its actually disgusting how a grown up continuously act like a child", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know. Have you thought about reaching out and just letting her know you are here to speak when she's ready and congratulations on the baby? Maybe she needs an opening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Initially it got me worried, however, knowing her and the childish behavior as always I felt more disgust this time cos i would think a now mum would behave better Yes well not in that order.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How much do you want her in your life?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I sent her a message on her birthday. thats the least i can do. Like im over it tolerating the bad attitude. Honestly right now i do not miss having her in my life and that is sad because we have been friends for over 1 5years. I guess i just git tired of managing the Nonsense from her. So now i'm indifferent and bare think about her", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I wish I could solve this for you but everyone is different. My granddaughter has had to let go of some relationships that were toxic to her well being and felt better after a period of time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know right You have been helpful by just listening and giving your 2cents Thank you so much", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I know right You have been helpful by just listening and giving your 2cents Thank you so much", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00382", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_162", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi I am really very angry with my friends for not inviting me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi I am really very angry with my friends for not inviting me", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00383", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_162", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi I am really very angry with my friends for not inviting me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why is that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I didn't did any anything wrong to my friends but they are simply saying they forget me So they no need on me , I am not important person to them", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I didn't did any anything wrong to my friends but they are simply saying they forget me So they no need on me , I am not important person to them", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00384", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_162", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi I am really very angry with my friends for not inviting me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Why is that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I didn't did any anything wrong to my friends but they are simply saying they forget me So they no need on me , I am not important person to them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I have been angry with friends as well, but time loves a hero, as they say.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "In my all events i am inviting them all but how they Why what happen..?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "In my all events i am inviting them all but how they Why what happen..?", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00385", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_163", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, I am in a bad mood and am hoping you can help :)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What's wrong?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My roommate has told me she wants me to move out but I have no where to go. I feel helpless.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there a reason she wants to leave?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She says I'm too critical and I complain too much. Meanwhile, she's the miserable one.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you could help her feel more comfortable around you, as that is what I would do :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She's had both vaccines and watches CNN 20 hours a day...meanwhile I watch positive videos, do yoga, meditate and work all day. She's projecting. I'm trying. I'm not saying anything negative even though that's just my NY personality. She doesn't have a sense of humor though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It seems like you two don't share a lot of chemistry. But then again, you can't afford to let her leave", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think she just wants to live alone here and wallow in her misery and embarrassing TV choices. lol But yes, you're right, I'm just trying to make her comfortable. And yes, we have nothing in common. I may buy a car to live in. But I'm in AZ and it's about to be 110 degrees every day...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No i don't think thats a good idea, if you are still able to change her mind Maybe try to talk it out with her in a calm setting", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She screamed at me one day about 2 weeks ago, but hasn't mentioned it since. But, I do know she still wants me to go...the problem is if I bring it up, she gets really angry. It's like I can't win. I think she thinks when I try to talk about it, it means I want to leave and since there's nothing either of us can do about it, she hates me even more...because it implies I can't stand her. If that makes any sense. She's extremely non-confrontational. (except for that one day where she just let it all out--hates my personality apparently)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, if she is non-confrontational that means that you will have to initiate it Because she won't and she will end up leaving", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But I don't want to make her mad again. Sometimes she just forgets things. lol Maybe she'll forget that she wants me to leave. The funny thing is, she just bought a trailer....and I offered to live in it. She didn't go for that idea.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yeah but you can't really take such a gamble tbh. And why did she buy it, is it because she wanted you to live in it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "She bought it as a horse trailer. So she can both live in it when she goes on the rode and carry her horses too. But she hasn't even used it since she bought it months ago. Do you know how long we're supposed to chat for btw? road*, not rode. lol sorry Ah, 15 minutes...I see it says on the left.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "She bought it as a horse trailer. So she can both live in it when she goes on the rode and carry her horses too. But she hasn't even used it since she bought it months ago. Do you know how long we're supposed to chat for btw? road*, not rode. lol sorry Ah, 15 minutes...I see it says on the left.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00386", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_164", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "My friends are trying to shame me. How ridiculous....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi i am sorry to hear that what are they trying to shame you with? what are they trying to shame you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is Christmas and my friends say that I do not donate enough to charity. They are putting me on a guilt trip. My one old friend is the President of a local non-profit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00387", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_164", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "My friends are trying to shame me. How ridiculous....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi i am sorry to hear that what are they trying to shame you with? what are they trying to shame you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is Christmas and my friends say that I do not donate enough to charity. They are putting me on a guilt trip. My one old friend is the President of a local non-profit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it has to come from the heart and if your circumstances do not allow that then they should not talk badly about you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Two different (so-called) friends of mine need to get a life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "shame on them to do that to you well you might not consider them real friends if that is what they do. it is always easier to judge over other people then to validate what anyone self is doing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, people don't know that just because my two friends go \"Way back,\" does not mean they should be able to to hurt me, emotionally. What should I do about these two (so-called) friends?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "definatly not ...have you tried explaining your situation to them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, they don't know that I am in financial trouble myself. COVID-19 has wrecked my steady income levels.... Things were great, this time last year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No, they don't know that I am in financial trouble myself. COVID-19 has wrecked my steady income levels.... Things were great, this time last year.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00388", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_164", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "My friends are trying to shame me. How ridiculous....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi i am sorry to hear that what are they trying to shame you with? what are they trying to shame you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is Christmas and my friends say that I do not donate enough to charity. They are putting me on a guilt trip. My one old friend is the President of a local non-profit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it has to come from the heart and if your circumstances do not allow that then they should not talk badly about you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Two different (so-called) friends of mine need to get a life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "shame on them to do that to you well you might not consider them real friends if that is what they do. it is always easier to judge over other people then to validate what anyone self is doing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, people don't know that just because my two friends go \"Way back,\" does not mean they should be able to to hurt me, emotionally. What should I do about these two (so-called) friends?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "definatly not ...have you tried explaining your situation to them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, they don't know that I am in financial trouble myself. COVID-19 has wrecked my steady income levels.... Things were great, this time last year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well i know thats something most people do not want to disclose can you help the organization with donating your time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might be able to do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "unfortunatly it is right now very comen this situation, so no shame for that,", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I used to donate a LOT in year's past.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well, I used to donate a LOT in year's past.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00389", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_164", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "My friends are trying to shame me. How ridiculous....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi i am sorry to hear that what are they trying to shame you with? what are they trying to shame you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is Christmas and my friends say that I do not donate enough to charity. They are putting me on a guilt trip. My one old friend is the President of a local non-profit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it has to come from the heart and if your circumstances do not allow that then they should not talk badly about you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Two different (so-called) friends of mine need to get a life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "shame on them to do that to you well you might not consider them real friends if that is what they do. it is always easier to judge over other people then to validate what anyone self is doing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, people don't know that just because my two friends go \"Way back,\" does not mean they should be able to to hurt me, emotionally. What should I do about these two (so-called) friends?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "definatly not ...have you tried explaining your situation to them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, they don't know that I am in financial trouble myself. COVID-19 has wrecked my steady income levels.... Things were great, this time last year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well i know thats something most people do not want to disclose can you help the organization with donating your time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might be able to do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "unfortunatly it is right now very comen this situation, so no shame for that,", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I used to donate a LOT in year's past.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "a lot of times donating time to help organisatiosn is more valuable then money.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Great point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "times and situations change so thats ok.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My friends may like to know that I am trading time....instead of donating money.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i worked for a non profit and the biggest struggle was to find volunteers to help out", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, you make a good point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel that is a great donation and if they do not like that tell them money is easy to give time not", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The proble is that some people just want to shame people without knowing their plight.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, true, we need to stay above them then in all actuality we don't know what goes on behind closed doors in their life. sometimes people like that reflect", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I need to think of others ways to contribute that won't have my friends hating on me. I have pride, too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "BUt it should be what you want not what your 'freinds want. you should be proud of yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah......", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hopefully next year will bring better things and maybe even a better friend that does not judge into your life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The problem is that I am not sure it my friends are going to believe me; I am a well-to-do individual We can only hope for a better 2021 Not sure how quickly the markets rebound....", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "The problem is that I am not sure it my friends are going to believe me; I am a well-to-do individual We can only hope for a better 2021 Not sure how quickly the markets rebound....", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00390", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_164", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "My friends are trying to shame me. How ridiculous....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hi i am sorry to hear that what are they trying to shame you with? what are they trying to shame you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is Christmas and my friends say that I do not donate enough to charity. They are putting me on a guilt trip. My one old friend is the President of a local non-profit.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well, the donation to charity should be what either you can affort or volunteeer, it all depends on your situation", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not making much income with the COVID-19, either.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "it has to come from the heart and if your circumstances do not allow that then they should not talk badly about you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Two different (so-called) friends of mine need to get a life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "shame on them to do that to you well you might not consider them real friends if that is what they do. it is always easier to judge over other people then to validate what anyone self is doing.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, people don't know that just because my two friends go \"Way back,\" does not mean they should be able to to hurt me, emotionally. What should I do about these two (so-called) friends?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "definatly not ...have you tried explaining your situation to them?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, they don't know that I am in financial trouble myself. COVID-19 has wrecked my steady income levels.... Things were great, this time last year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well i know thats something most people do not want to disclose can you help the organization with donating your time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I might be able to do that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "unfortunatly it is right now very comen this situation, so no shame for that,", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I used to donate a LOT in year's past.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "a lot of times donating time to help organisatiosn is more valuable then money.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Great point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "times and situations change so thats ok.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My friends may like to know that I am trading time....instead of donating money.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i worked for a non profit and the biggest struggle was to find volunteers to help out", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, you make a good point.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I feel that is a great donation and if they do not like that tell them money is easy to give time not", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The proble is that some people just want to shame people without knowing their plight.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, true, we need to stay above them then in all actuality we don't know what goes on behind closed doors in their life. sometimes people like that reflect", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I need to think of others ways to contribute that won't have my friends hating on me. I have pride, too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "BUt it should be what you want not what your 'freinds want. you should be proud of yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah......", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hopefully next year will bring better things and maybe even a better friend that does not judge into your life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The problem is that I am not sure it my friends are going to believe me; I am a well-to-do individual We can only hope for a better 2021 Not sure how quickly the markets rebound....", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "well if they do not believe you as well you might really need to rethink your friendships and the meaning in those so called freind ships. hopefully soon for all of us, but hold on to the thought of being healthy", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I usually go to their get-togethers. Both of my friends are well-to-do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Well, I usually go to their get-togethers. Both of my friends are well-to-do.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00391", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_165", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how is life treating you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00392", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_165", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how is life treating you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00393", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_165", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there, how is life treating you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! Life is treating me fair, what about you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well, I've been a bit worried this year due to Covid and everything. Have you been worrying about anything?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, not covid tho. Mostly, it's academics. It paralyses me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you work in academia then? Or are you a student?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am a college student, and I miss my high school days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you feel that life was more simple when you were still in high school?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, schoolwork wise. Now, I can never stay on top.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think that it is quite usual to feel a bit disorientated when transitioning from school to college. It is strange to feel like an adult all of a sudden", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Do you have any experience with that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I do. It took me quite a long time to adjust to college in my first year too.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Woah, I am sorry it was rough for you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It was a bit but I think that it was not just me. It's a huge life change. Is your problem mainly with your grades or are there other issues?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I would say my grades is the most important part of my llife, so it's the only thing that worries me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I would say my grades is the most important part of my llife, so it's the only thing that worries me", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00394", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_166", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, what is life like for you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00395", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_166", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, what is life like for you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of thing do you want to go into when your studies are over?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a really worth profession. Have you thought of doing some volunteer work before you graduate?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00396", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_166", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, what is life like for you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of thing do you want to go into when your studies are over?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a really worth profession. Have you thought of doing some volunteer work before you graduate?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is an awesome thing to do though it could be very mentally draining. Do you feel up to it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't put yourself under too much pressure if you are suffering yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00397", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_166", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, what is life like for you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of thing do you want to go into when your studies are over?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a really worth profession. Have you thought of doing some volunteer work before you graduate?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is an awesome thing to do though it could be very mentally draining. Do you feel up to it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't put yourself under too much pressure if you are suffering yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think a lot of people who work helping other people have that sort of problem - it's too easy to neglect yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00398", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_166", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, what is life like for you right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Pretty stressful. I'm a little bit anxious about school.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you're worried about your studies? I will try to help if I can. Please tell me all you can.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. I am finishing up my third year in college so I have some career decisions to make. I'm also trying to find a job for this summer related to what I want to study.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you finding that things are being made difficult because of the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. Most of my classes are online. I really miss my friends and family.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hear you. I think we're all really suffering at the moment. Are you getting any support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do live with three of my friends so it's nice to have their support. I'm glad I'm not alone", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What sort of thing do you want to go into when your studies are over?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm studying psychology, I want to become a therapist or social worker", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is a really worth profession. Have you thought of doing some volunteer work before you graduate?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes! I am trying to get a job at a suicide hotline for the summer", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is an awesome thing to do though it could be very mentally draining. Do you feel up to it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know I'm up to it, but this week I've been having a hard time Just struggling to stay motivated in school", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't put yourself under too much pressure if you are suffering yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I try not to. Sometimes it's hard to put myself first", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think a lot of people who work helping other people have that sort of problem - it's too easy to neglect yourself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's good to hear I'm not alone in feeling this way", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else you'd like to tell me about how you're feeling right now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I got a job offer today, I'm very proud of myself!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds wonderful - is it the sort of job you were really looking for?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sort of. It's an opportunity to work for one of my favorite professors over the summer. I'm still going to work on that suicide hotline job as well", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't over extend yourself though. Make sure to give yourself plenty of you time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a good point. I struggle with that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's a good point. I struggle with that.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00399", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_167", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How are you doing today?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00400", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_167", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well and how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling okay today, a bit anxious for my finals this week", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm feeling okay today, a bit anxious for my finals this week", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00401", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_167", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well and how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling okay today, a bit anxious for my finals this week", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for sharing, feeling anxious days before an exam is a normal. I am also anxious about my upcoming exam this week.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What is the exam for?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am preparing to sit to become a clinical counselor. I can relate to feeling anxious. You are not alone. What do you think is triggering your anxiety?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think it might be the fear of failure that triggered it", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think it might be the fear of failure that triggered it", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00402", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_167", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing well and how are you feeling today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling okay today, a bit anxious for my finals this week", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for sharing, feeling anxious days before an exam is a normal. I am also anxious about my upcoming exam this week.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "What is the exam for?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am preparing to sit to become a clinical counselor. I can relate to feeling anxious. You are not alone. What do you think is triggering your anxiety?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think it might be the fear of failure that triggered it", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Research has shown that fear of failure does stem from feelings of anxiety, but is it possible to look at fear of failure from a different perspective?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think it might be possible to look at it from a different perspective", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you think you can channel your fear of failure into positive energy?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think I probably could How do you think I could do that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You can turn your anxiety into extra energy to plan and prepare. 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I'm just stressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't mind retaking it, really", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't mind retaking it, really", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00404", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_168", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, are you having a good day at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Today is okay, i guess. I'm just stressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there a general problem that you would like to talk about? I am more than happy to listen.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I found out I didnt pass college algebra and my academic advisor is pressuring me to take the class over this winter break in order to graduate on time. But I have been in new york city all year and my parents just got me tickets to fly home I really miss them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that but try not to panic, just failing one class is not the end of the world. How do you feel about retaking it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't mind retaking it, really", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah so you feel that this is going to be severely disruptive to your plans for this winter break?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yha. also, im worried i might fail again if i get too distracted by my family", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is it possible for you to get any sort of private tutoring which might help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i mean, tutoring is just another added time commitment. I really failed the first time because i was depressed and unmotivated. which is why I'm excited to be with my family finally", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Ah .. in that case is it possible to talk to your doctor? They might be able to get a special allowance for you given your personal circumstances", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah. that's another thing. I havent told my therapist or even my parents yet that i failed", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00405", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_169", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "***Sigh*** I am under a lot of stress these days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, don't worry, I am here to help. Could you tell me what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is final's week and I am under a Helluvah lot of stress. School work is just pounding my brain. I am taking 5 courses this semester, too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can definetely imagine how stressful the last week of school can be, especially taking 5 courses instead of 4. However, don't let this situation scare you or ruin your holidays. There are ways to cope with said stress.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. I am glad you are here to help me think things through. I need to find a solution to my anxiety while I knock out paper after paper.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "First of all, do you have some academic counselor you can talk to? Help you organize your ideas or classwork? Can you refer to professors or fellow classmates for help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, counselors are hard to get ahold of so close to the Holidays. The so-called teachers are not that helpful. seniors must figure it out by themselves.....(for the most part). My roommate is a lunatic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you confident in your abilities to succeed in those classes or you think you might lack the materials or knowledge? Or perhaps time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just don't know. I am going to try my best to submit every assignment on time, even though the quality prolly won't be 100%. I am a perfectionist by nature. I am a bit moody and my roommates have noticed it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's okto be moody given the circumstances and the stress you are going through, and I think that you should attemp to complete all the assignments even if you don't get a 100% on them. That will show the professors that you are responsible and care about the subject or perhaps your major.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think that I need to research more to ace this out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think that I need to research more to ace this out.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00406", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_169", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "***Sigh*** I am under a lot of stress these days.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, don't worry, I am here to help. Could you tell me what is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is final's week and I am under a Helluvah lot of stress. School work is just pounding my brain. I am taking 5 courses this semester, too.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can definetely imagine how stressful the last week of school can be, especially taking 5 courses instead of 4. However, don't let this situation scare you or ruin your holidays. There are ways to cope with said stress.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. I am glad you are here to help me think things through. I need to find a solution to my anxiety while I knock out paper after paper.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "First of all, do you have some academic counselor you can talk to? Help you organize your ideas or classwork? Can you refer to professors or fellow classmates for help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well, counselors are hard to get ahold of so close to the Holidays. The so-called teachers are not that helpful. seniors must figure it out by themselves.....(for the most part). My roommate is a lunatic.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you confident in your abilities to succeed in those classes or you think you might lack the materials or knowledge? Or perhaps time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just don't know. I am going to try my best to submit every assignment on time, even though the quality prolly won't be 100%. I am a perfectionist by nature. I am a bit moody and my roommates have noticed it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's okto be moody given the circumstances and the stress you are going through, and I think that you should attemp to complete all the assignments even if you don't get a 100% on them. That will show the professors that you are responsible and care about the subject or perhaps your major.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think that I need to research more to ace this out.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Accomplishing to submit everything will also make you feel good with yourself! It's important than you take your time.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Most so-called professors are snobs and their TA's are worse. Academia is full of lazy admins and lame teachers. Plus, the student loan costs are atrocious.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand that college can be financially demanding.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is a rip off for what you get..... Hopefully, my student loans will be forgiven by President Joe Biden in 2021 My anxiety is from the costs of college as well.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You need to think that you will have a secure job once you graduate, and every debt will be eventually paid off even if Biden doesn't forgive it. Try to remain optimistic and shake away the anxiety, it won't do you any good.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, but big debts are big debts", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you feel better after talking about all of this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, but do you think I should take a different approach to things? Or find some other way to release my anxiety? I am still anxious about the end of school", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not at all, I think what you are experiencing is completely normal, and you just have to cope with it in the most optimistic way possible. Maybe getting your assignments done in time will be helpful for your anxiety. After that, you will have tons of time to spend with friends, family, or simply leisure time to do what you enjoy.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, tha is true. Thank you for taking the time to hear my grief. Good Grief.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah, tha is true. Thank you for taking the time to hear my grief. Good Grief.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00407", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_170", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello! How can I help you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am anxious about an upcoming test.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's normal to feel nervous whenever we have an important assessment coming. I myself would always be really anxious whenever I had any finals back in college.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I have a bunch of courses that I need to do for my work, it certainly keeps me busy.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I would suggest that you study as much as you can. The more prepared you are for that test, the more manageable you will find it and the less stressed you will feel.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am pretty good about that but it just kills my free time because I am working full time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand. However, you need to be able to find some time dedicated to your school activities. You are the one who needs to decide how to insert it in your schedule.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes honestly I am the main driver behind me doing all this schooling it is just going to be good for my career and I don't just want to stand still.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree, once you have your career set up you won't have to worry about working and studying anymore. You will be doing what you like for a good living. Think about the future.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is certainly the plan", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just remember not to stress too much about it. It's just one test at the end of the day, you can do this!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am not super worried about it it is more the stress from not having free time, also insurance textbooks are not extremely exciting.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that I told you to try to fit school time into your schedule, but the same goes with leisure time for yourself. Find an activity that you enjoy and try to dedicate at least an hour a day to it, be it exercising, playing videogames, reading a book.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that is good advice, I try to find time for myself but time seems to disappear sometimes", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes that is good advice, I try to find time for myself but time seems to disappear sometimes", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00408", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_171", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello, how are you? How is your day today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Could be better, I feel anxiety about my Uni exams. I feel I will fail it all this year", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh! don't feel like this try to feel relaxe Try to make yourself confidence and relax", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes It's easy to say to try to relax :(", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I just can't, I fall behind on study because I played too much online games and didn't attend classes It's easy to say to try to relax :(", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00409", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_172", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi Hello, can you help me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. I hope so What kind of problem are you having?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am really struggling with my studies at the moment, I am so anxious that I keep putting off my essays and worrying all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are a student who is having trouble. Is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am a mature student and struggling with my course.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand how you feel. I was a nontraditional student recently who went back to school. It is very understandable that you are feeling stressed, especially with the pandemic and other issues happening.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, the pandemic is making it worse. I am working as well so I am struggling juggling them all and running a house. I just don't know how to get back on track with my studying", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about putting together a schedule to help you manage your time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How would I go about that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How would I go about that?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00410", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_172", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi Hello, can you help me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. I hope so What kind of problem are you having?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am really struggling with my studies at the moment, I am so anxious that I keep putting off my essays and worrying all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are a student who is having trouble. Is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am a mature student and struggling with my course.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand how you feel. I was a nontraditional student recently who went back to school. It is very understandable that you are feeling stressed, especially with the pandemic and other issues happening.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, the pandemic is making it worse. I am working as well so I am struggling juggling them all and running a house. I just don't know how to get back on track with my studying", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about putting together a schedule to help you manage your time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How would I go about that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you go online, there are different templates for students. One would be a time management template where you fill in the blocks of different times of the day. Also, do you know any of your classmates that you could email or text for support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "okay, I can see the sense in that. Have you used them before, if so would you recommend putting everything on there or keeping it flexible? I do have a couple that i could contact, I've been feeling really embarrassed to contact them, like they might think I am being silly", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "okay, I can see the sense in that. Have you used them before, if so would you recommend putting everything on there or keeping it flexible? I do have a couple that i could contact, I've been feeling really embarrassed to contact them, like they might think I am being silly", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00411", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_172", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi Hello, can you help me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello. I hope so What kind of problem are you having?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am really struggling with my studies at the moment, I am so anxious that I keep putting off my essays and worrying all the time.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are a student who is having trouble. Is that correct?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I am a mature student and struggling with my course.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can understand how you feel. I was a nontraditional student recently who went back to school. It is very understandable that you are feeling stressed, especially with the pandemic and other issues happening.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, the pandemic is making it worse. I am working as well so I am struggling juggling them all and running a house. I just don't know how to get back on track with my studying", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you thought about putting together a schedule to help you manage your time?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How would I go about that?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If you go online, there are different templates for students. One would be a time management template where you fill in the blocks of different times of the day. Also, do you know any of your classmates that you could email or text for support?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "okay, I can see the sense in that. Have you used them before, if so would you recommend putting everything on there or keeping it flexible? I do have a couple that i could contact, I've been feeling really embarrassed to contact them, like they might think I am being silly", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "To start, fill in one week to see what all activities you have to do. Set aside specific time for doing your schoolwork. Try and stick with the schedule.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Okay, one week doesn't seem too scary I could colour coordinate it, I like things in colour", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": ".I would try it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok, do you think I should reach out to my classmates, will they think i'm being silly, I really don't want to alienate them", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe there is a discussion board where you could be anonymous. Break your writing down in small chunks. Just brainstorm one day, for example.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't think so, however, I might just start with the template and see if that helps first. I like the idea of breaking things into the chunks", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Try one thing at a time so you are not overwhelmed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, I feel a little better, maybe I just needed some control. Yes, that's good, one thing at once", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I agree. You are not alone.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you, you have been really helpful", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hang in there. It is great that you are in school.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I enjoyed chatting with you. Take care.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "me too. Thanks", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "me too. Thanks", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00412", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_173", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi..how are you doing today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hi..Iam doing good..how are you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Iam good..thank you..Iam here to help you about the emotional support you need.Tell me what you want to talk about?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Iam in final year of university and iam unable to complete the studies", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I can relate to that,what is been stopping you from completing your work.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Iam a mother of 2 year old son and he is giving me a hard time to finish my work..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh..Is it possible that your husband helps you in taking care of your toddler..", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My husband is having full time job and he has to travel an hour to get to work..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I can understand that..is there any chance that you can ak your parents to help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa..", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My parents live in another country and they cannot come here to my place because they dont have a valid visa..", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00413", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_174", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hi", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00414", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_174", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am unable to focus on my studies due to stress. I am afraid that I am gonna fail.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "so you mean you are afraid you will fail because you are stressed out with your studies", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, due to stress and anxiety it is hard to concentrate.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that can be hard but you can do it. knowing that you are scared is enough motivation for you to push through", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I can't sleep at night and having bad dreams that I will fail in my exams or I am unable to answer questions.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i can sense your feeling, i once had same mind stress before", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "So what you did? how you came out of it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i stop reading alone. I read with my friends. girlfriend or read in a public place like the library", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a great idea but due to COVID it could be risky to meet up daily and library is closed where I live.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "yes, covid has made things messy but you can always connect with someone online and chat about what you have read so far. I did same thing during the lockdown", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's what I can do. Thanks! It might make me feel better. What else can I do to control my anxiety?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "always make sure you get enough rest and when ever you are getting the feeling next time, distract your self with something you love and then continue after a while", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you so much for all your suggestion. Hope it will help me", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "and make sure you eat well. and exercise to control your breathing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Is there any specific exercise?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you can do bit of yoga and meditating. You should be fine with that", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you so much. I am feeling motivated now . I will try to start it tomorrow onwards.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "good is there any other thing i can help you with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think that's enough to start with. Hope it will work out. Thanks for all your help. byee", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think that's enough to start with. Hope it will work out. Thanks for all your help. byee", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00415", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_175", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im really nervous about my upcoming finals :/", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Finals can be so stressful. Have you been studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I keep trying, but it seems my nervousness from wanting to do well is clouding my mind and making it hard to study", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I keep trying, but it seems my nervousness from wanting to do well is clouding my mind and making it hard to study", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00416", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_175", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im really nervous about my upcoming finals :/", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Finals can be so stressful. Have you been studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I keep trying, but it seems my nervousness from wanting to do well is clouding my mind and making it hard to study", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can imagine. When i was in school , i had the same thing happen to me. I was so sterssed, it led to me nto being able to focus. What really helped me was practicing mindfulness. Are there any exercies that you like doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I like to lift weights for gaining muscle mass. Usually pushups are my favorite bodyweight exercise", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I like to lift weights for gaining muscle mass. Usually pushups are my favorite bodyweight exercise", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00417", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_175", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im really nervous about my upcoming finals :/", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Finals can be so stressful. Have you been studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I keep trying, but it seems my nervousness from wanting to do well is clouding my mind and making it hard to study", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can imagine. When i was in school , i had the same thing happen to me. I was so sterssed, it led to me nto being able to focus. What really helped me was practicing mindfulness. Are there any exercies that you like doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I like to lift weights for gaining muscle mass. Usually pushups are my favorite bodyweight exercise", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you made time to do that latey?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I havent really no, should I?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I havent really no, should I?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00418", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_175", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi! How are you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im really nervous about my upcoming finals :/", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Finals can be so stressful. Have you been studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I keep trying, but it seems my nervousness from wanting to do well is clouding my mind and making it hard to study", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can imagine. When i was in school , i had the same thing happen to me. I was so sterssed, it led to me nto being able to focus. What really helped me was practicing mindfulness. Are there any exercies that you like doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I like to lift weights for gaining muscle mass. Usually pushups are my favorite bodyweight exercise", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you made time to do that latey?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I havent really no, should I?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Definitely, exercise is a really good way to de-stress. It releases endorphins which can calm you and make you happy. This is a great way to reset before studying.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a good tip, I should really start working on that more. What could I do to help me study more efficiently though?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "HAve you tried setting small study goals? That always helps me. I set a hour for one small topic at a time , it makes studying less overwhelming.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Okay, so If i have 6 finals, would I be able to study for all by studying less?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Not necessarily studying less but break the 6 finals into smaller tasks. Use index cards to organize yourself. I alwyas start with an outline of topics i need to cover then put them onto index cards.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I really like that, I should definitly start doing that. How about work school balance, I currently work and am enrolled full time. Should I request time off to prep for finals or what should I do?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's up to you. WIll your employer be accommodating about taking a day or two off? You want to make sure to not lose your job.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats a good point. I really like my job so I wouldnt like to lose it. But I feel like I should ask anyways. I mean the worst they can say is no right?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thats a good point. I really like my job so I wouldnt like to lose it. But I feel like I should ask anyways. I mean the worst they can say is no right?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00419", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_176", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be so stressful!! Have you started studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I remember when i was in school, finals were always so stressful. I used to make sure that i took breaks, it really helped me keep my head on straight.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this week off. (3)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You can even find time to relax without taking a lot of time off, do you have any exercise you like doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not really. I had Covid last month and my dr told me not to do anything more than walking for 3 months while my lungs and body recover. So that's hard (4)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry to hear that! How are you feeling now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm ok. But extremely tired. The dr said the fatigue could take months to go away. So it's a struggle with work and school. (5)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried meditating or mindfulness? When i broke my leg and couldn't exercise, it really helped me relax. I'm sure! I'm very impressed that you are still wroking and in school despite being sick. You should feel proud of yourself", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not. I pray a lot and that does help. Honestly it's the only relief I've gotten lately. I have three more finals and a paper due by Friday.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Praying is helpful! Mindfulness goes very hand in hand with it, if you look online, there are tons of free midnfulness classes and guides. I think it could really help you especially before a test.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will look into it. I had to go back to work before I was ready because I was out for 3 weeks with Covid. And school is mostly all online so at least I don't have to go in (7)", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I will look into it. I had to go back to work before I was ready because I was out for 3 weeks with Covid. And school is mostly all online so at least I don't have to go in (7)", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00420", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_176", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "finals are this week and i'm freaking out! hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That must be so stressful!! Have you started studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I've been studying for weeks now. But some of my professors give the oddest quizzes that seem to not match anything we've worked on! (2)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I remember when i was in school, finals were always so stressful. I used to make sure that i took breaks, it really helped me keep my head on straight.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, I can do that at times. But I also work part-time while I'm in school. I guess I should have planned ahead and taken this week off. (3)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You can even find time to relax without taking a lot of time off, do you have any exercise you like doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "not really. I had Covid last month and my dr told me not to do anything more than walking for 3 months while my lungs and body recover. So that's hard (4)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh wow, i'm so sorry to hear that! How are you feeling now?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm ok. But extremely tired. The dr said the fatigue could take months to go away. So it's a struggle with work and school. (5)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried meditating or mindfulness? When i broke my leg and couldn't exercise, it really helped me relax. I'm sure! I'm very impressed that you are still wroking and in school despite being sick. You should feel proud of yourself", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have not. I pray a lot and that does help. Honestly it's the only relief I've gotten lately. I have three more finals and a paper due by Friday.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Praying is helpful! Mindfulness goes very hand in hand with it, if you look online, there are tons of free midnfulness classes and guides. I think it could really help you especially before a test.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will look into it. I had to go back to work before I was ready because I was out for 3 weeks with Covid. And school is mostly all online so at least I don't have to go in (7)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's really hard but i'm happy that you can stay home at least. HAve you been able to sleep and rest?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes my parents are making sure of that! I'm lucky to have them. I just need to calm down about this - it is what it is.(8)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's great! Family is the best medicine for being sick and stressed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is very true! I would have been so scared had my mom not been here when I had covid.(9)", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Do you get to talk to your parents often?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I still live at home :) So pretty much every day! If I can just get through this week I'll be able to rest a lot better I think. (10)", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, I still live at home :) So pretty much every day! If I can just get through this week I'll be able to rest a lot better I think. (10)", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00421", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_177", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm feeling really anxious about my future. I'm not doing as well in college as I want to.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00422", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_178", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00423", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_178", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you think is the cause of that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00424", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_178", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you think is the cause of that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00425", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_178", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you think is the cause of that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says \"stop heroin\" was ignorant.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says \"stop heroin\" was ignorant.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00426", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_178", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "I'm so stressed, my emotions and anxiety is through the roof", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do you think is the cause of that?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a my masters thesis tomorrow and we have to do a presentation. A public speaking presentaion", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh, so it's the public speaking that has you rattled?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have a specific professor that intimidates me and knows that she can rattle me. I wish I could avoid her.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sounds like it'd be enough to upset anybody.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I know, right! I know I have my material ready to present and feel confident, its just how she gives constructive criticism and that her decisions and 25% of my final grade", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think most people aren't big fans of public speaking.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "The last class I had with her she was very aggressive when I asked questions aloud. Almost if she was put out. Also told me that my bumper sticker that says \"stop heroin\" was ignorant.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well she sounds like kind of a pain in the ass honestly, I had a teacher like that one time myself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have so much anxiety and emotional conflicts going into the last assignment. Just wish I had some good coping mechanisms to practice to get me through this. Oh yes! a PITA! That made me giggle a bit. Thank you for that", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you could try and just put things in perspective. I mean this will all be behind you soon enough, and no matter how it goes it's not like you're going to wind up on skid row over it, I wouldn't think.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "You are right, only skid row I know is 18 and life. Best with Sebastian Bach", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So in the short term I'd just try to get a good night's sleep, give it your best shot, and keep in mind that it's not really all that significant in the grand scheme of things.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Now that helps take me back to a better time. It will be over before I know it. Thank you for the nice uplifting words", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well my pleasure, I hope that was of some help!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you so much, I feel much better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Well good! So now what do we do? Does this count as finishing the hit?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried to finish and quit, It states I have more time. you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hang on, let me look and see", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "now we are good, try it now", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "now we are good, try it now", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00427", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_179", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello there. What is on your mind today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am stressed because I must learn through classes on ZOOM instead of a regular class.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am stressed because I must learn through classes on ZOOM instead of a regular class.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00428", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_179", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello there. What is on your mind today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am stressed because I must learn through classes on ZOOM instead of a regular class.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is it about the Zoom classes that you find stressful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am learned Excel, and the teacher is presenting her excel sheet, but Zoom is on my phone and it is hard to learn on a tiny screen. learning*", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can relate to that totally. I have had a hard time learning Zoom too. Mostly I have trouble with the audio though. It can be frustrating", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is frustrating, and last week, I had a panic attack shortly before class started. My ears were pounding and I could hear nothing the instructor was saying through my earbuds.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that is very difficult. When our anxieties take over it can be hard to think clearly. Have you tried casting the zoom on to a larger screen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. It is also hard to concentrate when my nephews are at home. Most of the monitors and TVs are taken by other household members, but I think I will buy another monitor.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think getting yourself a new monitor is a great idea!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a laptop, but I need it full screened for Excel and Zoom takes up too much space, so that is why I had it on my phone. But I think a second monitor is an excellent idea, thank you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have a laptop, but I need it full screened for Excel and Zoom takes up too much space, so that is why I had it on my phone. But I think a second monitor is an excellent idea, thank you.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00429", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_179", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello there. What is on your mind today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am stressed because I must learn through classes on ZOOM instead of a regular class.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is it about the Zoom classes that you find stressful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am learned Excel, and the teacher is presenting her excel sheet, but Zoom is on my phone and it is hard to learn on a tiny screen. learning*", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I can relate to that totally. I have had a hard time learning Zoom too. Mostly I have trouble with the audio though. It can be frustrating", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is frustrating, and last week, I had a panic attack shortly before class started. My ears were pounding and I could hear nothing the instructor was saying through my earbuds.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that is very difficult. When our anxieties take over it can be hard to think clearly. Have you tried casting the zoom on to a larger screen?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. It is also hard to concentrate when my nephews are at home. Most of the monitors and TVs are taken by other household members, but I think I will buy another monitor.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think getting yourself a new monitor is a great idea!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have a laptop, but I need it full screened for Excel and Zoom takes up too much space, so that is why I had it on my phone. But I think a second monitor is an excellent idea, thank you.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "In the meantime, take some deep breaths when you feel yourself start to get anxious. It may be helpful to explain the situation to your teacher as well", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I agree!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you are trying to solve the issue but get overwhelmed like we all do. I think you are doing a great job. All of this new stuff is difficult to learn", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you so much for your help. I will tell my teacher as well.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're welcome! Are there any other things on your mind?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I think it's hard to concentrate when others are at home during covid. Nephews are learning from home as well, but they get breaks and they try to get my attention when I am trying to study.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, I think it's hard to concentrate when others are at home during covid. Nephews are learning from home as well, but they get breaks and they try to get my attention when I am trying to study.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00430", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_180", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good Evening", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm pretty stressed out actually", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. It's rough to get stressed Would you like to tell me what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I just failed a huge test in my college class, and I'm worried it will fail me the entire class, and then I won't be able to get my associates", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no! I can totally understand why you're stressing over that! Absolutely valid reason for anxiety. May I ask how much of the whole grade was the test's percentage?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it's really weighing down on me. It's the only thing I can think about. The test was worth 75%", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What was you're score?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I got a 62% on the test.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That isn't TECHNICALLY a failed grade by the standards of most professors. Albeit a low grade, it's a D. Anything below 59% would qualify as failed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, but taking into account my scores on homework, I don't think it's enought to pass the class", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah, but taking into account my scores on homework, I don't think it's enought to pass the class", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00431", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_180", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good Evening", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm pretty stressed out actually", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm sorry to hear that. It's rough to get stressed Would you like to tell me what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Sure. I just failed a huge test in my college class, and I'm worried it will fail me the entire class, and then I won't be able to get my associates", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no! I can totally understand why you're stressing over that! Absolutely valid reason for anxiety. May I ask how much of the whole grade was the test's percentage?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah it's really weighing down on me. It's the only thing I can think about. The test was worth 75%", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What was you're score?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I got a 62% on the test.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That isn't TECHNICALLY a failed grade by the standards of most professors. Albeit a low grade, it's a D. Anything below 59% would qualify as failed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, but taking into account my scores on homework, I don't think it's enought to pass the class", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you done fairly well in other classes? How have your grades been prior to this test in that class?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Honestly it's just kind of all over the place. I am surviving in other classes, but with all this online stuff with the pandemic I barely learn anything. I'm basically faking it til I make it. Which I hate. But I can't learn in these conditions.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I hate that you feel that way about yourself, but I can also relate to having a rough time learning via online classes. I'm the same way. However, that does not disable you from being able to learn. It impedes your quality of learning, no doubt. But it isn't something that YOU can help. By having an attitude of being unable to learn, you automatically lower your expectations for the success you would potentially have otherwise...", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah that's true, I just think it's not my learning style so it's a lot harder for me. I thought about waiting until things are normal enough to physically be able to go back to class before I try and finish my bachelors, but who knows when that will be", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah that's true, I just think it's not my learning style so it's a lot harder for me. I thought about waiting until things are normal enough to physically be able to go back to class before I try and finish my bachelors, but who knows when that will be", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00432", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_181", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there! How can I help you today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i cant keep up in class", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How does that make you feel?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "like crap, it makes me not wanna do anything", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand completely, it can be hard to keep up in class especially if you're feeling down To be clear, you're feeling bad about not being able to keep up in class and that's making you feel even worse about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, like I want to start doing better but then i realize theres just no point im already behind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't worry, that's totally normal, especially since a lot of things are online these days. I personally struggled with keeping up with courses, but I found a way to make it work by pushing to the limits", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "okay, i guess its good to know im not the only one how did you get thru it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "okay, i guess its good to know im not the only one how did you get thru it?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00433", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_181", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there! How can I help you today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i cant keep up in class", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How does that make you feel?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "like crap, it makes me not wanna do anything", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand completely, it can be hard to keep up in class especially if you're feeling down To be clear, you're feeling bad about not being able to keep up in class and that's making you feel even worse about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, like I want to start doing better but then i realize theres just no point im already behind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't worry, that's totally normal, especially since a lot of things are online these days. I personally struggled with keeping up with courses, but I found a way to make it work by pushing to the limits", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "okay, i guess its good to know im not the only one how did you get thru it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I suggest starting with what you missed first instead of worrying what you're getting now Maybe let your teacher/professor know how you're doing in class and you may be able to ask for extensions on deadlines", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats helpful, thanks i am a little scared to ask my teacher though shes really mean and what if she fails me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't be afraid! Remember a teacher's job is to teach and help you, she may look a little mean but it doesn't hurt to try and ask, she can't fail you for being confused :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah i guess your right", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah i guess your right", + "label": 8 + }, + { + "id": "test_00434", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_181", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there! How can I help you today", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "i cant keep up in class", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm so sorry to hear that. How does that make you feel?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "like crap, it makes me not wanna do anything", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand completely, it can be hard to keep up in class especially if you're feeling down To be clear, you're feeling bad about not being able to keep up in class and that's making you feel even worse about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, like I want to start doing better but then i realize theres just no point im already behind", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't worry, that's totally normal, especially since a lot of things are online these days. I personally struggled with keeping up with courses, but I found a way to make it work by pushing to the limits", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "okay, i guess its good to know im not the only one how did you get thru it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I suggest starting with what you missed first instead of worrying what you're getting now Maybe let your teacher/professor know how you're doing in class and you may be able to ask for extensions on deadlines", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thats helpful, thanks i am a little scared to ask my teacher though shes really mean and what if she fails me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Don't be afraid! Remember a teacher's job is to teach and help you, she may look a little mean but it doesn't hurt to try and ask, she can't fail you for being confused :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah i guess your right", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Does that make you feel a little better about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yea, a lot better actually, thanks", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You're welcome! Anything else I can help out with?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what should i do about the work i missed?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hmm, i suggest you should ask your teacher if its still alright to submit it. If you decide to do them, make sure its ok with her first", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "okay, thanks, i will do that", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "No problem! Glad I was able to help! Is there anything else?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "no thats all, thanks again for helping me", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "no thats all, thanks again for helping me", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00435", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_182", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? *you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I remember being in your position I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00436", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_182", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? *you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I remember being in your position I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air? Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm! I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will try the deep breathing more often.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a good idea. Maybe I could make it a reward for a good grade on a test.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That's a good idea. Maybe I could make it a reward for a good grade on a test.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00437", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_182", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? Hello! I am here to listen! How are you feeling? *you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm very stressed. Virtual school is so hard. I've never gotten bad grades before this year.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are having trouble with Virtual school being so hard and it's causing you stress, am I understanding correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that is correct. I need to be in a classroom to really grasp the material, I think.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I remember being in your position I know it's very hard and I am so sorry that you are stressed.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just want to quit school because I can't seem to do better.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know you said you want to quit, but hang in there!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wish I knew how long we would have to be virtual. I don't think I can last another semester teaching myself from home.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like you have always done well with school, this virus has made it to where so many people are struggling. Just chatting with you, I can feel how stressed and anxious about it you are!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I was always an honors student so this is a huge change for me. I'm afraid it will reflect on my GPA forever.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I know that the situation with virtual learning is out of your control when it comes to how long it will last but is there anything you could do to relieve your stress while you are trying to learn things yourself?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I tried exercise to see if that would help. It hasn't really helped because the time I spend exercising I just think I could be studying.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "When you start feeling stressed maybe you could try deep breathing for a few minutes to relax again. Or take a quick break and get some fresh air? Is there anything else that you do in any other situation that would normally help you relax?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I could try deep breathing. Fresh air is hard because we're in the middle of a snow storm! I like to go to a spa when I'm really stressed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh wow that would make things complicated! But yes the deep breathing would definitely help, I'm sure!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I will try the deep breathing more often.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe you could reward yourself with a spa trip ever so often, since you enjoy it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That's a good idea. Maybe I could make it a reward for a good grade on a test.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, please do! I am almost certain that could help you!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I think it might too!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I think it might too!", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00438", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_183", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good evening :-) What can I help with you with tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "just graduated university and my parents are pressuring me to pursue becoming a doctor", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "just graduated university and my parents are pressuring me to pursue becoming a doctor", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00439", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_183", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good evening :-) What can I help with you with tonight?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "just graduated university and my parents are pressuring me to pursue becoming a doctor", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oof, that is a very difficult situation. I'm sorry you're going through that. How do you feel about it?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm angry. I just want to be done school. but parents are on my butt about it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What do your parents say when/if you tell them you want to be done with school?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "they get mad at me and say they are dissapointed. I want to travel and see the world. not more schooling.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's not a fair thing for them to say to their child. I will say that there are academic programs that combine travel and credits, but you probably know that already. And I don't think you should have to compromise anyway.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "They won't take a compromise. parents are stubborn. What should i do? please parents or pursue my passion?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I cannot tell you what to do exactly, but I would encourage you to fulfill yourself before anyone else's dictation of your life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah i'm leaning that. i already graduated university. i fulfilled half of their dream. you think telling them my honest opinion will be a good idea?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think you need to be prepared for them to not be happy with your honest opinion, but that just because they aren't happy with it doesn't mean it's wrong.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "thanks great advise. i will definitely be prepapred. i don't care if i dissapoint them. it's my life not theres. i'll live with the consequences", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Keep in mind that from their point of view, they want the best for you because they love you, so try not to burn the bridge or salt the earth. I had a rocky relationship with my dad after college too, but it's better now. They will survive, and you will thrive.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you. yeah i get that. but they should be happy for me. They cant make decisions for me all the time. let me free!!!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thank you. yeah i get that. but they should be happy for me. They cant make decisions for me all the time. let me free!!!", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00440", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_184", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, could you please give me some advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00441", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_184", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, could you please give me some advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you don't feel motivated and you are not scoring well, have I understood that correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are you currently studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am studying microbiology. I do not know that I have the passion for it that I once did though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your motivation and how you are studying is probably related, you are right. What attracted you to microbiology in the first place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have always found it fascinating and have an uncle who is a microbiologist. But these days I feel I made the wrong decision. Is it too late to change?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is never too late to change anything. However, i hear that you have always found it fascinating,have you considered talking to your uncle and seeing if you can find what you loved about it again?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that does sound like good advice. I do not want to turn by back on my studies of the past years. But my grades are really poor and I am not sure what to do about that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Studying can be really difficult , especially when you are half way through. i struggled in my studies and found that talking to my tutors helped and approaching student support. Have you tried anything like that or has your motivation held you back?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest I have been a little afraid to approach them about the subject because they might accuse me of just slacking. I know it might look like that from the outside.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from chatting to you, I can sense that you are anxious, however, as many students feel this way, they will have a whole lot of help they can provide.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do feel that part of my problem is that I am afraid to really open up about it. You are the first person I have really felt able to talk to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I do feel that part of my problem is that I am afraid to really open up about it. You are the first person I have really felt able to talk to.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00442", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_184", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, could you please give me some advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you don't feel motivated and you are not scoring well, have I understood that correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are you currently studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am studying microbiology. I do not know that I have the passion for it that I once did though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your motivation and how you are studying is probably related, you are right. What attracted you to microbiology in the first place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have always found it fascinating and have an uncle who is a microbiologist. But these days I feel I made the wrong decision. Is it too late to change?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is never too late to change anything. However, i hear that you have always found it fascinating,have you considered talking to your uncle and seeing if you can find what you loved about it again?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that does sound like good advice. I do not want to turn by back on my studies of the past years. But my grades are really poor and I am not sure what to do about that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Studying can be really difficult , especially when you are half way through. i struggled in my studies and found that talking to my tutors helped and approaching student support. Have you tried anything like that or has your motivation held you back?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest I have been a little afraid to approach them about the subject because they might accuse me of just slacking. I know it might look like that from the outside.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from chatting to you, I can sense that you are anxious, however, as many students feel this way, they will have a whole lot of help they can provide.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do feel that part of my problem is that I am afraid to really open up about it. You are the first person I have really felt able to talk to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am pleased that you have been able to open up to me, it is the first step towards you finding your path. Do you find it easy to write things down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is really much more easy to write my problems down than to actually talk to people about them face to face.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, it is really much more easy to write my problems down than to actually talk to people about them face to face.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00443", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_184", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi there, could you please give me some advice?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello, would you like to explain your situation and we can go through it together", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I feel that I am blowing my future because I am just not scoring well on tests these days. I just don't feel motivated to work as hard as I know that I should.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you don't feel motivated and you are not scoring well, have I understood that correctly?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. I know that the two things are probably related but I just do not know what to do about them.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What are you currently studying?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am studying microbiology. I do not know that I have the passion for it that I once did though.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Your motivation and how you are studying is probably related, you are right. What attracted you to microbiology in the first place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have always found it fascinating and have an uncle who is a microbiologist. But these days I feel I made the wrong decision. Is it too late to change?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is never too late to change anything. However, i hear that you have always found it fascinating,have you considered talking to your uncle and seeing if you can find what you loved about it again?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes that does sound like good advice. I do not want to turn by back on my studies of the past years. But my grades are really poor and I am not sure what to do about that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Studying can be really difficult , especially when you are half way through. i struggled in my studies and found that talking to my tutors helped and approaching student support. Have you tried anything like that or has your motivation held you back?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest I have been a little afraid to approach them about the subject because they might accuse me of just slacking. I know it might look like that from the outside.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from chatting to you, I can sense that you are anxious, however, as many students feel this way, they will have a whole lot of help they can provide.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I do feel that part of my problem is that I am afraid to really open up about it. You are the first person I have really felt able to talk to.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am pleased that you have been able to open up to me, it is the first step towards you finding your path. Do you find it easy to write things down?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is really much more easy to write my problems down than to actually talk to people about them face to face.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "One suggestion is for you to write down all the reasons that you love microbiology. It can be any format, I love a bubble chart (mind map), it could be in list form or just doodles, would this be something you would find useful?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, that is a fantastic idea! Maybe I can find a renewed interest in the subject. I hope that I can because I really do not want my time studying to have been wasted.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, that is a fantastic idea! Maybe I can find a renewed interest in the subject. I hope that I can because I really do not want my time studying to have been wasted.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00444", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_186", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi, how are you today?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am okay. What is going on with you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "School's going badly. I really wish I had chosen a different major.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like it must be overwhelming to keep up with all of your school work.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I’m majoring in computer engineering. It’s really #%$& hard! Everyone else is way smarter than I am.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That does sound very difficult, but I think you can do it! Just getting into a program like that shows how smart you are!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It's kinda late to switch. I'm at the end of my third year. My parents keep bugging me about getting a job.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "To be honest with you, I switched majors a lot in college. I eventually let go of what my family thought and pursued a career I would truly enjoy for myself.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wish I were in your shoes! If I change majors now, I have to redo at least a year of school, maybe more. I don't think my parents want to pay for that.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I wish I were in your shoes! If I change majors now, I have to redo at least a year of school, maybe more. I don't think my parents want to pay for that.", + "label": 1 + }, + { + "id": "test_00445", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_187", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello how are you ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm in depression because my exam is near and I can't finsh my studies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "can i ask you ,why you can't finish", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is because i'm very behind in my work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "try to catch up with your studies give more time then you feel better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How am I going to catch up on my work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "How am I going to catch up on my work?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00446", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_187", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello how are you ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm in depression because my exam is near and I can't finsh my studies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "can i ask you ,why you can't finish", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is because i'm very behind in my work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "try to catch up with your studies give more time then you feel better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How am I going to catch up on my work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you need to be confident about your studies then you fell better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How can I be confident?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you need to take more online classes those can help you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok I will try to get in an online class if I can.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "because same think happen with me and i took online classes those help me a lot *thing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok how much time do you spend on online classes?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i spend like 3 hours a day on online class", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for the idea do you have any more tips?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks for the idea do you have any more tips?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00447", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_187", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello how are you ?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm in depression because my exam is near and I can't finsh my studies.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "can i ask you ,why you can't finish", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is because i'm very behind in my work.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "try to catch up with your studies give more time then you feel better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How am I going to catch up on my work?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you need to be confident about your studies then you fell better", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How can I be confident?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you need to take more online classes those can help you", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok I will try to get in an online class if I can.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "because same think happen with me and i took online classes those help me a lot *thing", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok how much time do you spend on online classes?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i spend like 3 hours a day on online class", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for the idea do you have any more tips?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "i think you need to take help from your family or friend those who know all about your studies", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks for helping me I might pass the exam after all.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "your welcome , thanks for sharing your problem", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Your welcome!", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "any time", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Bye!", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Bye!", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00448", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_188", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just found out that I will be losing my job. I have no clue what to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was in a similar situation a short while back I can understand if you feel anxious and stressed. Was it due to the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it is. We haven't gotten the funding form the government and we are a small business. I am not sure how to tell my wife.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So if I understand the anxiety of you losing your job is increased because you also have to give your wife the news?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes and I also have to find some place else to work at.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If where you live has some form of unemployment insurance it may be a good time to apply for it if your comfortable with that since you are aware your job is coming to an end", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not a bad idea. I will look into that for sure. I am not sure how long it will take to get it. I'm not to bad off because I do have savings but I am just worried that I will not be able to find any work around where I live and I don't want to move.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's completly understandable that telling your wife is additionally difficult since it's life effecting news and you are probably worried about the effect the news will have on your wife", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes for sure. She has her job so it just would feel weird for me to be at home while she works.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "In my case I am still currently in school and lack credentials but I've managed to find some online work that is getting me by", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I never have thought about online work. That might be a good idea.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You may want to budget relevant areas of yur spending ahead of time so your savings will go longer but Isuggest not to the point that it effects your mental well being Also if your on good terms maybe get references", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a great idea. I am sure I can get references. My boss loves me. He said he is looking to help me any way he can.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That is a great idea. I am sure I can get references. My boss loves me. He said he is looking to help me any way he can.", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00449", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_188", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello what's going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hey :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I just found out that I will be losing my job. I have no clue what to do.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I was in a similar situation a short while back I can understand if you feel anxious and stressed. Was it due to the pandemic?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes it is. We haven't gotten the funding form the government and we are a small business. I am not sure how to tell my wife.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So if I understand the anxiety of you losing your job is increased because you also have to give your wife the news?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes and I also have to find some place else to work at.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "If where you live has some form of unemployment insurance it may be a good time to apply for it if your comfortable with that since you are aware your job is coming to an end", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not a bad idea. I will look into that for sure. I am not sure how long it will take to get it. I'm not to bad off because I do have savings but I am just worried that I will not be able to find any work around where I live and I don't want to move.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's completly understandable that telling your wife is additionally difficult since it's life effecting news and you are probably worried about the effect the news will have on your wife", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes for sure. She has her job so it just would feel weird for me to be at home while she works.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "In my case I am still currently in school and lack credentials but I've managed to find some online work that is getting me by", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I never have thought about online work. That might be a good idea.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "You may want to budget relevant areas of yur spending ahead of time so your savings will go longer but Isuggest not to the point that it effects your mental well being Also if your on good terms maybe get references", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That is a great idea. I am sure I can get references. My boss loves me. He said he is looking to help me any way he can.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I don't drive so my options were limited to avoid riding the bus I do recommend getting out of you living space other ways if you work online but its all right I think with that kind of connection with your boss especially with your job loss being circumstantial you should have a really good starting point", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am going to look online for sure. I would like to work form home. I am sure with my IT degree I can find some online jobs.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It does have benefits you save money on transportation costs for example :) That is actually along the lines of what I'm doing on the low end of the totem pole Not the high paying jobs but the basic and intermediate seems to be a fair bit available I don't male much but Ihave flexible hours and still finishing my degree How are you currently feeling about your situation with a little bit of a plan in place?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "that's awesome. I'm feeling a little better. Just so much to do now but at least I have an idea of what to do. I feel like with this plan my wife will not be so worried.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe if you get your basic ideas together where your satisfied with it it will ease some of the difficulty of talking to your wife. I apologise we had the same idea", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes. i plan on doing that this afternoon. Thank you so much. I am feeling way more at ease. I hope you have a wonderful day.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes. i plan on doing that this afternoon. Thank you so much. I am feeling way more at ease. I hope you have a wonderful day.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00450", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_190", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello :) how are you", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm good. How can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im feeling very scared regarding my schooling Im close to failing out and Im not sure what to do", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are afraid you will fail your classes?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah Im getting pretty close and I can't afford to fail my courses", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried tutor service at school? They usually provide free of charge or very cheap", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I've looked around and there arn't any good tutoring services for my field of study I've tried reaching out for help but Im still doing poorly", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It must be frustrated for you.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yea im very frustrated at myself. I just can't seem to do well no matter how hard I try", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How about talking to your professors about that you don't understand and how they can help?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Maybe. I haven't tried that yet do you think they would help me?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "don't be too harsh on yourself. We all struggle in life. As long as we find an appropriate solution, I believe you will get better Of course, it's their job after all", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Im trying not to be too hard on myself but it's really scary not knowing if i'll pass the next wave of exams Ill try asking my profs thats a good idea, they can probably give me some good guidance", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Im trying not to be too hard on myself but it's really scary not knowing if i'll pass the next wave of exams Ill try asking my profs thats a good idea, they can probably give me some good guidance", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00451", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_191", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hello.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "how are you doing. What is troubling you dear", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I lost my job because my employer wouldn't make an exemption for my medical condition. I'm out of work. I don't know how I'm going to pay my bills.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "if i get you right, you are fired because of your health condition", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No, I quit because they refused to make an exemption. I physically couldn't fulfill the requirements that they put on me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that's really hard, i can feel your fear i lost my job also because of covid economy inpact", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I just don't know what to do now. My wife works part-time but I need a little more cash.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "have you try looking another job from nearby", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I have. I think I am getting closer to finding something.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "that's a good news", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, thanks. I just hope it works out...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you can also go online", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah, I'm using Indeed.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "you are welcome. you have to keep it together for a while before you get one. But i believe it will be soon", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thanks, have you found a job?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Thanks, have you found a job?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00452", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_192", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello. How are you?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00453", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_193", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good evening.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you this evening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Things are always crazy, and of course with the pandemic my anxiety is even more through the roof. It's not a good time to have immune issues", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you someone who has immune issues?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am also facing the real possibility of surgery which scares the heck out of me. I am! I have a severe auto immune disease called Ulcerative Colitis, and I am on immuno suppresant meds on top of that", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am also facing the real possibility of surgery which scares the heck out of me. I am! I have a severe auto immune disease called Ulcerative Colitis, and I am on immuno suppresant meds on top of that", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00454", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_193", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Good evening.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "How are you this evening?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Things are always crazy, and of course with the pandemic my anxiety is even more through the roof. It's not a good time to have immune issues", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you someone who has immune issues?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am also facing the real possibility of surgery which scares the heck out of me. I am! I have a severe auto immune disease called Ulcerative Colitis, and I am on immuno suppresant meds on top of that", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just to clarify, you are extremely anxious about the pandemic and the affect it may have on you because of your weakened immune system.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Well kind of yes. I am going crazy because I've had this for 8 years now and it's forever changing. I've been hospitalized so many times its crazy. This pandemic has made things worse because stress makes it all worse", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Just from the few messages we have exchanged, I can tell it makes you very anxious", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Its just really depressing not knowing what to expect next. Its hard to trust the good days sometimes because you can have a wonderful day and wake up really sick the next. Its very unpredictable and I think whats worse is that people really don't understand.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you reached out to support groups for people with auto-immune issues? it is often helpful to speak with people who are experiencing the same issues you are.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes I am part of many on facebook, and yes it does help a lot. I just wish my husband would be able to understand. He says and does some things that make me feel even worse. Almost like he thinks I'm making it up at times. Like, dear goodness no.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you talked to him about the way he reacts to your immune issues? Sometimes people don't realize they are not being helpful and they think they are doing good when they aren't.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have tried to talk to him but he seems very uninterested at times. I even tried going to counseling with him and that didn't work. It's just frustrating. He was with me when the one doctor had said just how bad it was and he didn't seem to really pay attention. He was also there when I had to have an emergancy blood transfusion and it was really hard to read him. He just doesnt say or so much", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you asked what his feelings are towards it? Maybe he is afraid and worried about your health and he isn't sure how to express it and sometimes it comes off as uninterested.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah whenever I try it's like pulling teeth. I know some of it is how he was brought up. I don't think his dad ever showed much emotion/ so yes I'm sure that has something to do with it. I also feel bad a lot of the time because I have two kids. I feel like I fail them a lot our oldest was born before I got sick. Our youngest was a miracle baby. I was on birth control and he was determained anyway :) He is definatly a gift but I feel bad often", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you been able to talk to your kids about this as well?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My oldest yes, he seems to understand, he is 8.5 years old. Our youngest is only one so he doesn't understand any of this yet. He says he understands, but I'm not sure on just what level.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My oldest yes, he seems to understand, he is 8.5 years old. Our youngest is only one so he doesn't understand any of this yet. He says he understands, but I'm not sure on just what level.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00455", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_194", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing alright. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am doing alright. How are you?", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00456", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_194", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing alright. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. Is there anything that's bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I broke up with my partner...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no I'm sorry to hear that. do you want to talk about what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am very depressed... cannot go on with my daily life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this is really affecting you, that must be hard How long were you and your partner together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is hard.. we have been together for last 6 months..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been through break ups as well where things can seem pointless afterwards. It took me some time but I eventually got through it Were you happy in the relationship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How did you cope up with the situation?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I talked to my friends about it a lot, and tried to keep myself occupied with lots of activities I also deleted old messages from my partner so I didn't dwell on the past as much", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How does talking to friends help?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It depends on the situation, but for me I had a lot of unresolved feelings from not getting proper closure, so ranting to my friends about how my partner hurt me helped satisfy that Do you have friends you feel comfortable talking to about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have couple of close friends I can talk to.. but have not thought about doing so..", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I have couple of close friends I can talk to.. but have not thought about doing so..", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00457", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_194", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing alright. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. Is there anything that's bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I broke up with my partner...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no I'm sorry to hear that. do you want to talk about what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am very depressed... cannot go on with my daily life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this is really affecting you, that must be hard How long were you and your partner together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is hard.. we have been together for last 6 months..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been through break ups as well where things can seem pointless afterwards. It took me some time but I eventually got through it Were you happy in the relationship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How did you cope up with the situation?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I talked to my friends about it a lot, and tried to keep myself occupied with lots of activities I also deleted old messages from my partner so I didn't dwell on the past as much", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How does talking to friends help?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It depends on the situation, but for me I had a lot of unresolved feelings from not getting proper closure, so ranting to my friends about how my partner hurt me helped satisfy that Do you have friends you feel comfortable talking to about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have couple of close friends I can talk to.. but have not thought about doing so..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it could be helpful, friends can be really supportive", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I will give it a try...", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yes, I will give it a try...", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00458", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_194", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing alright. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. Is there anything that's bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I broke up with my partner...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no I'm sorry to hear that. do you want to talk about what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am very depressed... cannot go on with my daily life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this is really affecting you, that must be hard How long were you and your partner together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is hard.. we have been together for last 6 months..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been through break ups as well where things can seem pointless afterwards. It took me some time but I eventually got through it Were you happy in the relationship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How did you cope up with the situation?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I talked to my friends about it a lot, and tried to keep myself occupied with lots of activities I also deleted old messages from my partner so I didn't dwell on the past as much", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How does talking to friends help?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It depends on the situation, but for me I had a lot of unresolved feelings from not getting proper closure, so ranting to my friends about how my partner hurt me helped satisfy that Do you have friends you feel comfortable talking to about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have couple of close friends I can talk to.. but have not thought about doing so..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it could be helpful, friends can be really supportive", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I will give it a try...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's awesome that even though you're feeling so depressed, you're willing to give something a try to help you out of it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any other suggestion you might have?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Any other suggestion you might have?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00459", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_194", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hi", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hi, how are you doing?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am doing alright. How are you?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. Is there anything that's bothering you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I broke up with my partner...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh no I'm sorry to hear that. do you want to talk about what happened?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am very depressed... cannot go on with my daily life.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It sounds like this is really affecting you, that must be hard How long were you and your partner together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, it is hard.. we have been together for last 6 months..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I've been through break ups as well where things can seem pointless afterwards. It took me some time but I eventually got through it Were you happy in the relationship?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How did you cope up with the situation?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I talked to my friends about it a lot, and tried to keep myself occupied with lots of activities I also deleted old messages from my partner so I didn't dwell on the past as much", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How does talking to friends help?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It depends on the situation, but for me I had a lot of unresolved feelings from not getting proper closure, so ranting to my friends about how my partner hurt me helped satisfy that Do you have friends you feel comfortable talking to about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have couple of close friends I can talk to.. but have not thought about doing so..", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I think it could be helpful, friends can be really supportive", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yes, I will give it a try...", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It's awesome that even though you're feeling so depressed, you're willing to give something a try to help you out of it", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Any other suggestion you might have?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Getting involved in a new hobby, or something you used to enjoy, can be helpful", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I don't have any hobby per say.. but I would like to travel new places..", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I don't have any hobby per say.. but I would like to travel new places..", + "label": 5 + }, + { + "id": "test_00460", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_195", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am ok. How do you do Can you help out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for your concern.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course, what is bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. absolutely", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ya. I am feeling the same.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not yet speak. I will try my best to solve this problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok thank you so much for your best time which is spend with me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else you would like to share with me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No. thanks", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "No. thanks", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00461", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_195", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, how are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am ok. How do you do Can you help out", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Great, I am happy to lend a listening ear.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for your concern.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Of course, what is bothering you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am worry about my job. Because of pandemic", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Are you worried of losing your job due to COVID-19?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes. absolutely", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand your concern about losing your job during these times. So many people are worried and it doesn't seem to be getting better.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ya. I am feeling the same.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Have you tried speaking to your employer about how you can secure your job? Many people have been trying to see if they can get unemployment just in case they do lose their income.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not yet speak. I will try my best to solve this problem", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "It is always good to know all your options during the pandemic. I hope you feel better assured knowing that you can try and qualify for unemployment benefits just in case you do lose your job.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok thank you so much for your best time which is spend with me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is there anything else you would like to share with me?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "No. thanks", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please end the conversation if there is nothing left for me to help you with :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Ok.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Happy to work with you :)", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Happy to chat with you again in future", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Happy to chat with you again in future", + "label": 0 + }, + { + "id": "test_00462", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_196", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there and Happy Holidays! I hope you are feeling okay at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not, this is a very hard time of the year for me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am not, this is a very hard time of the year for me.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00463", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_196", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there and Happy Holidays! I hope you are feeling okay at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not, this is a very hard time of the year for me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really sorry to hear that. Please know that I am happy to listen and to help you if I can!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for that. I really miss my girlfriend.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. Have you separated or can you just not be together at Christmas?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We are separated. She said I was watching too much Buzzr and didn't pay enough attention to her, so she dumped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is not good. But relationships can be reestablished if you talk. Have you considered seeing a third party to help you both talk this out?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We tried to see a counselor. It did go too well, the counselor took her side on everything, it was very unprofessional.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I seem, so do I hear you saying that you feel that everyone is against you on this and that you feel powerless?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It feels like that way. Even my parents seem to support her more than me. I am all alone now watching a Buzzr marathon with no one to truly support me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry that your parents are not being more supportive. I understand how hard it is when you have a break up and loved ones seem to support your ex!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Has this happened to you before?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please know that you are not alone in this situation and that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Yes it has .. my boyfriend left me for someone else and most of our mutual friends took his side!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, I think your boyfriend made a big mistake leaving you, you seem like a very nice and sweet person.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I am sorry to hear that, I think your boyfriend made a big mistake leaving you, you seem like a very nice and sweet person.", + "label": 2 + }, + { + "id": "test_00464", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_196", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello there and Happy Holidays! I hope you are feeling okay at the moment?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am not, this is a very hard time of the year for me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am really sorry to hear that. Please know that I am happy to listen and to help you if I can!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you for that. I really miss my girlfriend.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. Have you separated or can you just not be together at Christmas?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We are separated. She said I was watching too much Buzzr and didn't pay enough attention to her, so she dumped me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is not good. But relationships can be reestablished if you talk. Have you considered seeing a third party to help you both talk this out?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "We tried to see a counselor. It did go too well, the counselor took her side on everything, it was very unprofessional.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I seem, so do I hear you saying that you feel that everyone is against you on this and that you feel powerless?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It feels like that way. Even my parents seem to support her more than me. I am all alone now watching a Buzzr marathon with no one to truly support me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry that your parents are not being more supportive. I understand how hard it is when you have a break up and loved ones seem to support your ex!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Has this happened to you before?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Please know that you are not alone in this situation and that there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Yes it has .. my boyfriend left me for someone else and most of our mutual friends took his side!", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, I think your boyfriend made a big mistake leaving you, you seem like a very nice and sweet person.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Thank you :) I am sure that there is someone else out there for you too if you cannot reconcile with your ex. The question is, how much do you really want to? You might be better off without her", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "That might be true, she really blew it with me, I am a good catch.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "That might be true, she really blew it with me, I am a good catch.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00465", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_197", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00466", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_197", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello how may I assist you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am just so upset It's like things never get better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What have you tried in the past to turn things around?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hm. I tried moving on. And it just appears she gets worst", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are missing your mom?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not really... She just keeps asking me for mone I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. I get that She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Yeah. I get that She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00467", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_197", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello how may I assist you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am just so upset It's like things never get better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What have you tried in the past to turn things around?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hm. I tried moving on. And it just appears she gets worst", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are missing your mom?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not really... She just keeps asking me for mone I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. I get that She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wonder if I should do the same... My grand mother basically gave me a whole speech about how ashamed she is.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But who knows. Apparently my mom said she'll put the house in my name for all these things I did for her. Kind of annoying to be frank.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My grand mother is ashamed of her daughter I am kind of left with a weird circumstance.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "My grand mother is ashamed of her daughter I am kind of left with a weird circumstance.", + "label": 6 + }, + { + "id": "test_00468", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_197", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello. I am so upset. It's ridiculous how things keep happening to people around me. I suppose my supporter is not here.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "hello how may I assist you today?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I am just so upset It's like things never get better", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah... My mom is in Mexico right now for some ex who got deported. Like come on. It's bad enough she sent money to him.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What have you tried in the past to turn things around?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Hm. I tried moving on. And it just appears she gets worst", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So you are missing your mom?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not really... She just keeps asking me for mone I gave her like 10k for the house she bought and she hasn't done anything back.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Oh I see my mom has also done this in the past. Sometimes I wonder who raised who?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Yeah. I get that She rented it to some guy and left before even getting some decent money so now she is stranded in Mexico with some guy who can't even afford to get her back", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That is the worst. I ended up having to cut my mom out of my life.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I wonder if I should do the same... My grand mother basically gave me a whole speech about how ashamed she is.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Sometimes it is for the best to set clear boundries.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "But who knows. Apparently my mom said she'll put the house in my name for all these things I did for her. Kind of annoying to be frank.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Is Grand mother ashamed of you or her daughter? I feel it should be her ashamed of her daughter.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "My grand mother is ashamed of her daughter I am kind of left with a weird circumstance.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "At least that is a good thing to come out of a bad situation.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Only reason she has a house is because I helped. And if I leave it. Everyone in my family said I would be irresponsible to let my mom lose it.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "Only reason she has a house is because I helped. And if I leave it. Everyone in my family said I would be irresponsible to let my mom lose it.", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00469", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_198", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am pretty good. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I ended things with my girlfriend last week.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, what caused you to wan to end things?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So from what I am hearing, you ended things with your girlfriend because she was talking to her ex and lying to you about it and you are feeling upset about it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother", + "label": 3 + }, + { + "id": "test_00470", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_198", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Hello", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "How are you doing?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am pretty good. How are you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I'm pretty miserable. It's been a rough week", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "What is going on?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I ended things with my girlfriend last week.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I am sorry to hear that, what caused you to wan to end things?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Things have been pretty rough for the last few years. I found out she was hanging out with her ex and she lied about it The kicker is that we live together and her family is planning on coming to stay with us for xmas. they already have their flights booked and now are trying to cancel", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "So from what I am hearing, you ended things with your girlfriend because she was talking to her ex and lying to you about it and you are feeling upset about it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yeah, plus our relationship has been rocky for the past year. I think we are just loosing interest in eachother", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "I understand your situation completely. I had a recent ex that I lived with who also was talking to her ex and hanging out with him and lying to me about it.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "what did you do about it?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "The first thing I did was had a conversation to try and see why she was talking to her ex and lying to me about it. Trying to get closure is very helpful.", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "yes, i could see that. We have discussed and decided to end things. Like I said, her family was planning on staying with us for xmas, so now it feels like we ruined xmas for everyone", + "label": 4 + }, + { + "id": "test_00471", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_199", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, what can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I really sad as my partner walked out on me. Any thoughts what could cheer me up?", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "I really sad as my partner walked out on me. Any thoughts what could cheer me up?", + "label": 7 + }, + { + "id": "test_00472", + "dialogue_id": "ESConv_199", + "dialogue": [ + { + "text": "Hello, what can I help you?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I really sad as my partner walked out on me. Any thoughts what could cheer me up?", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "Was there anything that leads to this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "Not really. I thought everything was ok between us. That is why it kind of struck me.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That's terrible and unacceptable behavior. How long have you been together?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "I have to agree with you-it is unacceptable, considering that he didn't give me any reasons as to why he did it. We have been together for 5 years.", + "speaker": "seeker" + }, + { + "text": "That sucks. I wouldn't be able to accept either. Have you talked to your friends about this?", + "speaker": "supporter" + }, + { + "text": "It is still rather raw,I have mentioned to it to a few of my friends and they deeply symphatise with me but I feel there is nothing much they can do to help me.They are as shocked as me to be honest.", + "speaker": "seeker" + } + ], + "current_text": "It is still rather raw,I have mentioned to it to a few of my friends and they deeply symphatise with me but I feel there is nothing much they can do to help me.They are as shocked as me to be honest.", + "label": 2 + } +] \ No newline at end of file