"gay marriage : is n't one of the main points of being gay , besides the ' i was born this way'-ism kind of a way to tell convention to go shove it ?"
"Well , the simple answer to this question is `` No it is not. `` Telling convention to shove it is not one of the main points of being gay , not in any way shape or form . Being gay is simply about the people one is attracted to , the people one loves , and the person one wants to spend his or her life with . Now this does not mean that these people do not tell convention to go shove it , but they do so only when they believe convention is unfair , unjust , unequal , and a detriment to happiness . On the issue of gay rights , most ( but maybe not all ) gay people believe that the specific convention of denying some rights to gay people is a bad one , so they stand against it . They do not simply hate convention because it is convention ; good convention is worth retaining ."
"n't one of the main points of being gay , besides the ' i was born this way'-ism kind of a way to tell convention to go shove it ?"
"the simple answer to this question is `` No it is not. `` Telling convention to shove it is not one of the main points of being gay"