"Then why are you and other `` antis `` so hung up on preserving it for your exclusive use ?"
"Because we view it as something much more than just a gravy train from the govt. , that 's why . For you it seems to be about the word , and the govt . saying `` oh , you use THAT term ( `` marriage `` ) , ok we recognize it. `` For us it 's about the commitment ."
"Then why are you and other `` antis `` so hung up on preserving it for your exclusive use"
"we view it as something much more than just a gravy train from the govt"