"We can not accept the child at this time ."
"Do n't forget adoption . The other option is to have the baby checked with what is called `` genetic counseling `` . At 5 and 1/2 weeks it is unlikely there is significant damage . You can have doctors test for it first . There are lots of folks that would be willing to adopt a child who has those challenges . Do not give in to despair . If you choose an abortion , you may regret it far more than you regret smoking and drinking heavily . My wife has wept over hers . This is a big decision . Please get counsel from those that know you and who you can trust . EF"
"We can not accept the child at this time ."
"Do n't forget adoption . The other option is to have the baby checked with what is called `` genetic counseling `` ."