"Have you ever noticed that there are some gay couples that seem to bypass all the hate and ignorance of the anti-gay movement ... couples like Ray Horn and life partner , the guy that was Oprah 's designer and his life mate , and sometimes Ellen Degeneres ? Why do these people get treated well overall and not lumped into that `` but he/she 's gay `` group ? It 's good that these people are in the world and showing people that gay does n't mean sick or abnormal ."
"I think at least part of the reason is that they do n't wear their sexuality on their shoulder and flaunt it . And they do n't seem to live for the purpose of 'gay pride . '"
"some gay couples anti-gay movement Ellen Degeneres ?"
"least part of the reason sexuality on their shoulder and flaunt it"